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Church Leaders September 17, 2024 1h 15m

The Exhausted Majority: How Hate Pays with Sharon McMahon

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  1. and I know hundreds of people who have and I know hundreds of people who have large platforms I know them personally large platforms I know them personally large platforms I know them personally MH they will almost universally tell you MH they will almost universally tell you MH they will almost universally tell you that there is nobody meaner on the that there is nobody meaner on the that there is nobody meaner on the internet than a a white person with internet than a a white person with internet than a a white person with scripture in their bio welcome to the K scripture in their bio welcome to the K scripture in their bio welcome to the K newoff leadership podcast on YouTube hey newoff leadership podcast on YouTube hey newoff leadership podcast on YouTube hey today we wrap up our pastoring in a today we wrap up our pastoring in a today we wrap up our pastoring in a partisan age we talk about the partisan age we talk about the partisan age we talk about the monetization of hate the exhausted monetization of hate the exhausted monetization of hate the exhausted majority and a whole lot more as we wrap majority and a whole lot more as we wrap majority and a whole lot more as we wrap this up and we've got Sharon McMahon on this up and we've got Sharon McMahon on this up and we've got Sharon McMahon on the podcast hey you know it's been 10 the podcast hey you know it's been 10 the podcast hey you know it's been 10 years since we launched the podcast and years since we launched the podcast and years since we launched the podcast and that is because of you the reason we've that is because of you the reason we've that is because of you the reason we've been in this for so long the reason we been in this for so long the reason we been in this for so long the reason we get to do this is because we have get to do this is because we have get to do this is because we have incredible viewers and listeners and so incredible viewers and listeners and so incredible viewers and listeners and so I want to bless you on our 10th I want to bless you on our 10th I want to bless you on our 10th anniversary so I'm going to give away anniversary so I'm going to give away anniversary so I'm going to give away one of my favorite things couple of my one of my favorite things couple of my one of my favorite things couple of my favorite things the Big Green Egg is my favorite things the Big Green Egg is my favorite things the Big Green Egg is my absolute favorite smoker griller absolute favorite smoker griller absolute favorite smoker griller barbecue if you like briskets steaks if barbecue if you like briskets steaks if barbecue if you like briskets steaks if you like to bake actually you want a you like to bake actually you want a you like to bake actually you want a pizza oven the Big Green Egg is my pizza oven the Big Green Egg is my pizza oven the Big Green Egg is my favorite does it all so we're giving a favorite does it all so we're giving a favorite does it all so we're giving a few away I'm going to give away to a few away I'm going to give away to a few away I'm going to give away to a grand prize winner one extra large Big grand prize winner one extra large Big grand prize winner one extra large Big Green Egg those things are massive you Green Egg those things are massive you Green Egg those things are massive you can do a whole backyard party with them can do a whole backyard party with them can do a whole backyard party with them uh you get accessories and a special uh you get accessories and a special uh you get accessories and a special stake delivery two Runners up will get stake delivery two Runners up will get stake delivery two Runners up will get mini Maxes those are smaller big green mini Maxes those are smaller big green mini Maxes those are smaller big green eggs that are really fun for tailgating eggs that are really fun for tailgating eggs that are really fun for tailgating you can use them at home too uh so if you can use them at home too uh so if you can use them at home too uh so if you want to be the grand prize or you want to be the grand prize or you want to be the grand prize or runnerup winner it's open to Canadian runnerup winner it's open to Canadian runnerup winner it's open to Canadian and US residents here's what you do drop and US residents here's what you do drop and US residents here's what you do drop a comment here on YouTube and then head a comment here on YouTube and then head a comment here on YouTube and then head on over to cnlp dolive and you can enter on over to cnlp dolive and you can enter on over to cnlp dolive and you can enter there and we will pick the winners on there and we will pick the winners on there and we will pick the winners on September 26 2024 hey today's episode is

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  3. lifetime yeah I I think almost everyone lifetime yeah I I think almost everyone would agree with that they would say would agree with that they would say would agree with that they would say that it's it's obvious how uh easy it is that it's it's obvious how uh easy it is that it's it's obvious how uh easy it is to uh fall into one camp or the other to uh fall into one camp or the other to uh fall into one camp or the other and to make sure that what you are and to make sure that what you are and to make sure that what you are saying and doing is with a laser focus saying and doing is with a laser focus saying and doing is with a laser focus on destroying the side that you are not on destroying the side that you are not on destroying the side that you are not a part of right uh and that a really a part of right uh and that a really a part of right uh and that a really toxic place to be as a country and toxic place to be as a country and toxic place to be as a country and historically that is not a position that historically that is not a position that historically that is not a position that ends well historically speaking both in ends well historically speaking both in ends well historically speaking both in the United States and you know abroad the United States and you know abroad the United States and you know abroad this idea of my enemy must be destroyed this idea of my enemy must be destroyed this idea of my enemy must be destroyed instead of we need to find a way to instead of we need to find a way to instead of we need to find a way to bridge The Divide we need to find a way bridge The Divide we need to find a way bridge The Divide we need to find a way to work together we need to find a way to work together we need to find a way to work together we need to find a way to you know have common ground instead to you know have common ground instead to you know have common ground instead of that being the posture the posture of that being the posture the posture of that being the posture the posture has become uh how can I make sure that has become uh how can I make sure that has become uh how can I make sure that uh you are humiliated how can I make uh you are humiliated how can I make uh you are humiliated how can I make sure that we take you down how can I you sure that we take you down how can I you sure that we take you down how can I you know what can I do to destroy your life know what can I do to destroy your life know what can I do to destroy your life how can I disassociate myself from you how can I disassociate myself from you how can I disassociate myself from you uh and it's it's not healthy it's not uh and it's it's not healthy it's not uh and it's it's not healthy it's not how humans are meant to run a country how humans are meant to run a country how humans are meant to run a country it's not how humans are meant to exist it's not how humans are meant to exist it's not how humans are meant to exist in a community in a community in a community together so here's a million-dollar together so here's a million-dollar together so here's a million-dollar question Sharon why how did we become question Sharon why how did we become question Sharon why how did we become this so quickly right because there was this so quickly right because there was this so quickly right because there was bipartisan support I mean if you look at bipartisan support I mean if you look at bipartisan support I mean if you look at Lyndon Johnson years you look at even Lyndon Johnson years you look at even Lyndon Johnson years you look at even the Bill Clinton years there was

  4. the Bill Clinton years there was the Bill Clinton years there was bipartisanship and even George Bush was bipartisanship and even George Bush was bipartisanship and even George Bush was far more bipartisan than what you might far more bipartisan than what you might far more bipartisan than what you might see today w i mean well both of them to see today w i mean well both of them to see today w i mean well both of them to be honest yeah yeah absolutely um even be honest yeah yeah absolutely um even be honest yeah yeah absolutely um even going so far back into the uh 200 uh going so far back into the uh 200 uh going so far back into the uh 200 uh 2008 election uh you know the 2012 2008 election uh you know the 2012 2008 election uh you know the 2012 election um you you saw a different uh election um you you saw a different uh election um you you saw a different uh you know a a different sort of tenor to you know a a different sort of tenor to you know a a different sort of tenor to the campaigns right where they were the campaigns right where they were the campaigns right where they were running more on ideas of the F for the running more on ideas of the F for the running more on ideas of the F for the future here is the America I would like future here is the America I would like future here is the America I would like to see versus uh you know this other to see versus uh you know this other to see versus uh you know this other person and you see examples of that uh person and you see examples of that uh person and you see examples of that uh for example a famous one is when uh John for example a famous one is when uh John for example a famous one is when uh John McCain and uh Barack Obama were uh both McCain and uh Barack Obama were uh both McCain and uh Barack Obama were uh both at a town hall and a woman got up and at a town hall and a woman got up and at a town hall and a woman got up and wanted to ask John McCain about you know wanted to ask John McCain about you know wanted to ask John McCain about you know like well he's a Muslim and he wasn't like well he's a Muslim and he wasn't like well he's a Muslim and he wasn't born in the United States and John born in the United States and John born in the United States and John McCain said let me stop you right there McCain said let me stop you right there McCain said let me stop you right there I'm going to stop you right there uh I'm going to stop you right there uh I'm going to stop you right there uh this is a a Christian American man and this is a a Christian American man and this is a a Christian American man and we have different ideas about how to run we have different ideas about how to run we have different ideas about how to run the country but we're not going to what the country but we're not going to what the country but we're not going to what we're not going to do is is have ideas we're not going to do is is have ideas we're not going to do is is have ideas that are that are that are lies uh so even then you saw people who lies uh so even then you saw people who lies uh so even then you saw people who were you know directly head-to-head were you know directly head-to-head were you know directly head-to-head uh uh you know competing against each uh uh you know competing against each uh uh you know competing against each other true competitors who still had a other true competitors who still had a other true competitors who still had a level of respect for each other and so

  5. level of respect for each other and so level of respect for each other and so the reason you know the million-dollar the reason you know the million-dollar the reason you know the million-dollar question of why have we gotten to be question of why have we gotten to be question of why have we gotten to be this way uh is very multifaceted there this way uh is very multifaceted there this way uh is very multifaceted there is not one single uh answer that I can is not one single uh answer that I can is not one single uh answer that I can say here's the sole reason some of it is say here's the sole reason some of it is say here's the sole reason some of it is certainly the internet and the dopamine certainly the internet and the dopamine certainly the internet and the dopamine driven reward cycle that we have created driven reward cycle that we have created driven reward cycle that we have created uh via the Internet that when you say uh via the Internet that when you say uh via the Internet that when you say something something something uh really uh really uh really inflammatory you know Bob is uh the inflammatory you know Bob is uh the inflammatory you know Bob is uh the Antichrist you know whatever I'm just Antichrist you know whatever I'm just Antichrist you know whatever I'm just making up the name Bob um whatever it is making up the name Bob um whatever it is making up the name Bob um whatever it is suddenly you have 4,000 likes and you suddenly you have 4,000 likes and you suddenly you have 4,000 likes and you have 29,000 shares and you have hundreds have 29,000 shares and you have hundreds have 29,000 shares and you have hundreds and hundreds of new follows and the and hundreds of new follows and the and hundreds of new follows and the reward that is created in your brain reward that is created in your brain reward that is created in your brain from all of the people coming out of the from all of the people coming out of the from all of the people coming out of the woodwork that agree with you it woodwork that agree with you it woodwork that agree with you it incentivizes you to want to do more of incentivizes you to want to do more of incentivizes you to want to do more of that thing so we have now seen how that thing so we have now seen how that thing so we have now seen how profitable um profitable hate content profitable um profitable hate content profitable um profitable hate content online is some of the best paid people online is some of the best paid people online is some of the best paid people in media are people who make hate in media are people who make hate in media are people who make hate content online um and by hate hate content online um and by hate hate content online um and by hate hate content I mean a a commentator who does content I mean a a commentator who does content I mean a a commentator who does things like let's roll the clip and it's things like let's roll the clip and it's things like let's roll the clip and it's a clip of you know whatever uh you know a clip of you know whatever uh you know a clip of you know whatever uh you know politician Bob saying something that the politician Bob saying something that the politician Bob saying something that the commentator disagrees with and then commentator disagrees with and then commentator disagrees with and then they're sitting there like making they're sitting there like making they're sitting there like making ridiculous faces or they're being like ridiculous faces or they're being like ridiculous faces or they're being like well Bob's an idiot and here's the 25 well Bob's an idiot and here's the 25 well Bob's an idiot and here's the 25 reasons why Bob's an idiot that content

  6. reasons why Bob's an idiot that content reasons why Bob's an idiot that content Carrie is tremendously Carrie is tremendously Carrie is tremendously profitable tremendously profitable some profitable tremendously profitable some profitable tremendously profitable some of the biggest names in that space uh of the biggest names in that space uh of the biggest names in that space uh make upwards of $1 million a make upwards of $1 million a make upwards of $1 million a year that's not an exaggeration either year that's not an exaggeration either year that's not an exaggeration either over $10 million a year some of these over $10 million a year some of these over $10 million a year some of these people are paid just in salor That's not people are paid just in salor That's not people are paid just in salor That's not including what they make off of their including what they make off of their including what they make off of their YouTube ads their speaking engagements YouTube ads their speaking engagements YouTube ads their speaking engagements their book deals you know all of the their book deals you know all of the their book deals you know all of the accessory things that they make money accessory things that they make money accessory things that they make money off of so we have to understand the off of so we have to understand the off of so we have to understand the reward cycle in the brain and then the reward cycle in the brain and then the reward cycle in the brain and then the financial incentives that come with financial incentives that come with financial incentives that come with creating toxic levels of creating toxic levels of creating toxic levels of polarization it's kind of what Morgan polarization it's kind of what Morgan polarization it's kind of what Morgan housel says right like if you are housel says right like if you are housel says right like if you are depending on the incentives it's amazing depending on the incentives it's amazing depending on the incentives it's amazing what human beings can do and what what human beings can do and what what human beings can do and what they're capable of but it almost feels they're capable of but it almost feels they're capable of but it almost feels like this is Lord of the Flies like we like this is Lord of the Flies like we like this is Lord of the Flies like we got dropped on the internet and for the got dropped on the internet and for the got dropped on the internet and for the first few years it wasn't hostile I mean first few years it wasn't hostile I mean first few years it wasn't hostile I mean you know social media was still emerging you know social media was still emerging you know social media was still emerging in the 2008 campaign Etc but I think in the 2008 campaign Etc but I think in the 2008 campaign Etc but I think you're right there was a you're right there was a you're right there was a decency about it like even John McCain decency about it like even John McCain decency about it like even John McCain right saying stop we're not going to do right saying stop we're not going to do right saying stop we're not going to do that we're not going to say that we're that we're not going to say that we're that we're not going to say that we're we're just going to do that and then we're just going to do that and then we're just going to do that and then it's like we had a collective labotomy it's like we had a collective labotomy it's like we had a collective labotomy or something like that that's happened or something like that that's happened or something like that that's happened in the last 15 years decade or so um in the last 15 years decade or so um in the last 15 years decade or so um talk a little bit more about the money talk a little bit more about the money talk a little bit more about the money behind hate and and that because there behind hate and and that because there behind hate and and that because there is a business model and I'm not just is a business model and I'm not just is a business model and I'm not just talking about Google or any of the

  7. talking about Google or any of the talking about Google or any of the social media companies I'm talking about social media companies I'm talking about social media companies I'm talking about there's a you know in any Media company there's a you know in any Media company there's a you know in any Media company or you know even people like you and me or you know even people like you and me or you know even people like you and me who do what we do now I know you're on who do what we do now I know you're on who do what we do now I know you're on the opposite side of you're trying to the opposite side of you're trying to the opposite side of you're trying to bring Unity that's what I'm trying to do bring Unity that's what I'm trying to do bring Unity that's what I'm trying to do I'm trying to bring Unity I'm trying to I'm trying to bring Unity I'm trying to I'm trying to bring Unity I'm trying to bring hope I'm trying to bring help um bring hope I'm trying to bring help um bring hope I'm trying to bring help um but there's a lot of money on the side but there's a lot of money on the side but there's a lot of money on the side of hate isn't there totally oh my gosh of hate isn't there totally oh my gosh of hate isn't there totally oh my gosh well there's something um you know well there's something um you know well there's something um you know humans in their most based tribal humans in their most based tribal humans in their most based tribal instincts want to belong belonging is an instincts want to belong belonging is an instincts want to belong belonging is an incredibly important thing to humans it incredibly important thing to humans it incredibly important thing to humans it really is uh it is it's inescapable it's really is uh it is it's inescapable it's really is uh it is it's inescapable it's in our it's in our brains that we need in our it's in our brains that we need in our it's in our brains that we need to belong to something and if we don't to belong to something and if we don't to belong to something and if we don't belong that can have very dire belong that can have very dire belong that can have very dire consequences most people who become Mass consequences most people who become Mass consequences most people who become Mass Shooters don't feel like they belong to Shooters don't feel like they belong to Shooters don't feel like they belong to anything or anywhere or anybody um and anything or anywhere or anybody um and anything or anywhere or anybody um and that is very damaging psychologically so that is very damaging psychologically so that is very damaging psychologically so we need we have a very deep-seated need we need we have a very deep-seated need we need we have a very deep-seated need for for for belonging and one of the things that uh belonging and one of the things that uh belonging and one of the things that uh the internet has allowed is when you see the internet has allowed is when you see the internet has allowed is when you see somebody who is creating hate content somebody who is creating hate content somebody who is creating hate content online um there is a uh you know this I online um there is a uh you know this I online um there is a uh you know this I I've mentioned this reward cycle in the I've mentioned this reward cycle in the I've mentioned this reward cycle in the brain that feeds into that belonging brain that feeds into that belonging brain that feeds into that belonging that need of that need to belong I am that need of that need to belong I am that need of that need to belong I am among the people who agree with the among the people who agree with the among the people who agree with the right side and that idea of I'm in the right side and that idea of I'm in the right side and that idea of I'm in the right group is feeding you know it feeds right group is feeding you know it feeds right group is feeding you know it feeds our deep-seated need for belonging and our deep-seated need for belonging and our deep-seated need for belonging and it contributes to that excessive

  8. it contributes to that excessive it contributes to that excessive tribalism so when you see the hate tribalism so when you see the hate tribalism so when you see the hate content uh and you're like yeah I really content uh and you're like yeah I really content uh and you're like yeah I really hate that politician Bob H what a joker hate that politician Bob H what a joker hate that politician Bob H what a joker uh and you are pressing like and you are uh and you are pressing like and you are uh and you are pressing like and you are leaving comments it allows you to feel leaving comments it allows you to feel leaving comments it allows you to feel like you are part of the uh part of the like you are part of the uh part of the like you are part of the uh part of the group the correct knowledge the true and group the correct knowledge the true and group the correct knowledge the true and correct knowledge so one of the reasons correct knowledge so one of the reasons correct knowledge so one of the reasons that is such a profitable business model that is such a profitable business model that is such a profitable business model is because it encourages both people who is because it encourages both people who is because it encourages both people who agree with it to to comment like respond agree with it to to comment like respond agree with it to to comment like respond follow all of these things but it also follow all of these things but it also follow all of these things but it also does the opposite which does the opposite which does the opposite which is flabbergast and horrify the people on is flabbergast and horrify the people on is flabbergast and horrify the people on the other side and then they have to the other side and then they have to the other side and then they have to respond with like are you kidding me get respond with like are you kidding me get respond with like are you kidding me get your heads out of your socks you know your heads out of your socks you know your heads out of your socks you know like what is what's happening like what is what's happening like what is what's happening um so all of that drives eyeballs right um so all of that drives eyeballs right um so all of that drives eyeballs right and what and on on the internet eyeballs and what and on on the internet eyeballs and what and on on the internet eyeballs are what make money it doesn't matter if are what make money it doesn't matter if are what make money it doesn't matter if you're hate watching it because you hate you're hate watching it because you hate you're hate watching it because you hate what they're saying or if you're love what they're saying or if you're love what they're saying or if you're love watching it because you love what watching it because you love what watching it because you love what they're saying all of that uh drives they're saying all of that uh drives they're saying all of that uh drives Revenue so in addition to the ad revenue Revenue so in addition to the ad revenue Revenue so in addition to the ad revenue on places like YouTube um people are on places like YouTube um people are on places like YouTube um people are able then to you know gain this large able then to you know gain this large able then to you know gain this large following which they then can monetize following which they then can monetize following which they then can monetize for other things some of the best paid for other things some of the best paid for other things some of the best paid people in this sort of hate content people in this sort of hate content people in this sort of hate content space um have been offered contracts space um have been offered contracts space um have been offered contracts that are worth uh over $50 million for that are worth uh over $50 million for that are worth uh over $50 million for you know a handful of years and I know you know a handful of years and I know you know a handful of years and I know that you you speak to a lot of people

  9. that you you speak to a lot of people that you you speak to a lot of people who work at you know maybe they're who work at you know maybe they're who work at you know maybe they're pastors or employees at a church or they pastors or employees at a church or they pastors or employees at a church or they work for a small business and they're work for a small business and they're work for a small business and they're just trying to build a business for just trying to build a business for just trying to build a business for their themselves their family and their themselves their family and their themselves their family and whatever um the idea that you could you whatever um the idea that you could you whatever um the idea that you could you know work your butt off and make $70,000 know work your butt off and make $70,000 know work your butt off and make $70,000 or you could just sit on the internet or you could just sit on the internet or you could just sit on the internet and like I hate Bob uh and make $10 and like I hate Bob uh and make $10 and like I hate Bob uh and make $10 million it's a it's kind of a no-brainer million it's a it's kind of a no-brainer million it's a it's kind of a no-brainer for some people they are willing to sell for some people they are willing to sell for some people they are willing to sell their soul in an effort to uh make $10 their soul in an effort to uh make $10 their soul in an effort to uh make $10 million a year who is so when you talk million a year who is so when you talk million a year who is so when you talk about 10 million or $50 million who is about 10 million or $50 million who is about 10 million or $50 million who is putting up the money for that where does putting up the money for that where does putting up the money for that where does that kind of income come from that's that kind of income come from that's that kind of income come from that's that's a great question some of it of that's a great question some of it of that's a great question some of it of course is subscriptions so subscriptions course is subscriptions so subscriptions course is subscriptions so subscriptions to their podcast subscriptions to their to their podcast subscriptions to their to their podcast subscriptions to their premium content premium content premium content LS of that they are making LS off of LS of that they are making LS off of LS of that they are making LS off of YouTube uh Revenue people with large YouTube uh Revenue people with large YouTube uh Revenue people with large YouTube followings can make seven YouTube followings can make seven YouTube followings can make seven figures a year on YouTube alone and then figures a year on YouTube alone and then figures a year on YouTube alone and then they have teams that are really great at they have teams that are really great at they have teams that are really great at like making clips from their shows so like making clips from their shows so like making clips from their shows so they're they're pumping out 15 20 they're they're pumping out 15 20 they're they're pumping out 15 20 YouTube clips and and uh things on a YouTube clips and and uh things on a YouTube clips and and uh things on a daily basis so YouTube revenue and then daily basis so YouTube revenue and then daily basis so YouTube revenue and then of course every little video that they of course every little video that they of course every little video that they put out they're making more YouTube put out they're making more YouTube put out they're making more YouTube revenue on that's another part of it um revenue on that's another part of it um revenue on that's another part of it um but there you know in addition to I've but there you know in addition to I've but there you know in addition to I've already mentioned like the book deals already mentioned like the book deals already mentioned like the book deals the speaking engagements a really the speaking engagements a really the speaking engagements a really popular speaker can make $100,000 on a popular speaker can make $100,000 on a popular speaker can make $100,000 on a single 1 hour speech single 1 hour speech single 1 hour speech um but there's another piece of this um but there's another piece of this um but there's another piece of this equation um some of these people work

  10. equation um some of these people work equation um some of these people work for larger parent for larger parent for larger parent companies and those larger parent companies and those larger parent companies and those larger parent companies uh it is interesting to see companies uh it is interesting to see companies uh it is interesting to see where some of those larger parent where some of those larger parent where some of those larger parent companies get their money from uh companies get their money from uh companies get their money from uh because when you read about the the deal because when you read about the the deal because when you read about the the deal sheets that some of these people are uh sheets that some of these people are uh sheets that some of these people are uh given like the terms of the deals the given like the terms of the deals the given like the terms of the deals the $50 million that they're offered things $50 million that they're offered things $50 million that they're offered things along those lines it it has uh it's it's along those lines it it has uh it's it's along those lines it it has uh it's it's interested and also perplexed me of like interested and also perplexed me of like interested and also perplexed me of like but where is the $50 million coming from but where is the $50 million coming from but where is the $50 million coming from yeah exactly that's a lot of money it's yeah exactly that's a lot of money it's yeah exactly that's a lot of money it's a lot of money you're telling me this a lot of money you're telling me this a lot of money you're telling me this you have enough to pay this person $50 you have enough to pay this person $50 you have enough to pay this person $50 million from YouTube so I have done some million from YouTube so I have done some million from YouTube so I have done some digging because I'm curious about these digging because I'm curious about these digging because I'm curious about these kinds of things um and the the bottom kinds of things um and the the bottom kinds of things um and the the bottom line is that a lot of the money um is line is that a lot of the money um is line is that a lot of the money um is dark money Carrie it comes from um dark money Carrie it comes from um dark money Carrie it comes from um secret billionaires I mean they're not secret billionaires I mean they're not secret billionaires I mean they're not secret I know who they are comes from secret I know who they are comes from secret I know who they are comes from billionaires who want to see more of billionaires who want to see more of billionaires who want to see more of this kind of content pumped out into the this kind of content pumped out into the this kind of content pumped out into the universe uh because it benefits the universe uh because it benefits the universe uh because it benefits the political positions that they hope will political positions that they hope will political positions that they hope will dominate the American Media landscape dominate the American Media landscape dominate the American Media landscape and thus dominate uh you know the and thus dominate uh you know the and thus dominate uh you know the American American American electorate so the more you're surrounded electorate so the more you're surrounded electorate so the more you're surrounded with an idea the more likely you are to with an idea the more likely you are to with an idea the more likely you are to accept it as true that's just how again accept it as true that's just how again accept it as true that's just how again how human mind works you want people to how human mind works you want people to how human mind works you want people to believe a lie say it more often keep believe a lie say it more often keep believe a lie say it more often keep saying it so are these American saying it so are these American saying it so are these American billionaires or is there some offshore billionaires or is there some offshore billionaires or is there some offshore money involved in that as well uh depend

  11. money involved in that as well uh depend money involved in that as well uh depend depending on if you are watching hate depending on if you are watching hate depending on if you are watching hate content from the left or the right it content from the left or the right it content from the left or the right it will it will depend on where you know will it will depend on where you know will it will depend on where you know who the billionaires are um but the who the billionaires are um but the who the billionaires are um but the majority of it is American money well majority of it is American money well majority of it is American money well the majority of it is American money the majority of it is American money the majority of it is American money control the narrative control the narrative control the narrative right attempt to buy buy elections via right attempt to buy buy elections via right attempt to buy buy elections via the via VIA dominating the media the via VIA dominating the media the via VIA dominating the media landscape so we're being deeply landscape so we're being deeply landscape so we're being deeply manipulated yes and people people love manipulated yes and people people love manipulated yes and people people love to tell you that it's like the to tell you that it's like the to tell you that it's like the government that is deeply manipulating government that is deeply manipulating government that is deeply manipulating you the government of course we could you the government of course we could you the government of course we could talk for another six hours about you talk for another six hours about you talk for another six hours about you know flaws in the government systems of know flaws in the government systems of know flaws in the government systems of of course but they don't have billions of course but they don't have billions of course but they don't have billions of dollars to just be like you let's do of dollars to just be like you let's do of dollars to just be like you let's do YouTube ads do you know what I mean yeah YouTube ads do you know what I mean yeah YouTube ads do you know what I mean yeah we found this guy in his basement Let's we found this guy in his basement Let's we found this guy in his basement Let's uh let's let's pay him 50 billion uh let's let's pay him 50 billion uh let's let's pay him 50 billion Channel 100 million his way yeah the Channel 100 million his way yeah the Channel 100 million his way yeah the government's not doing that but government's not doing that but government's not doing that but billionaires are it's billionaires so billionaires are it's billionaires so billionaires are it's billionaires so when when people realize that they in when when people realize that they in when when people realize that they in fact are being controlled and fact are being controlled and fact are being controlled and manipulated by a very small handful of manipulated by a very small handful of manipulated by a very small handful of billionaires who have a very important billionaires who have a very important billionaires who have a very important in their mind m message that they want in their mind m message that they want in their mind m message that they want to convey people that they want to elect to convey people that they want to elect to convey people that they want to elect um it's sobering it's sobering when you um it's sobering it's sobering when you um it's sobering it's sobering when you realize that the amount of free will realize that the amount of free will realize that the amount of free will that you think you have over your media that you think you have over your media that you think you have over your media consumption is not what you think it is consumption is not what you think it is consumption is not what you think it is oh my goodness I mean uh Malcolm oh my goodness I mean uh Malcolm oh my goodness I mean uh Malcolm Gladwell has a new book coming out Gladwell has a new book coming out Gladwell has a new book coming out called the Revenge of the Tipping Point

  12. called the Revenge of the Tipping Point called the Revenge of the Tipping Point and he's talking about um one of his and he's talking about um one of his and he's talking about um one of his ideas he'll be up on this podcast soon ideas he'll be up on this podcast soon ideas he'll be up on this podcast soon too one of his ideas is that you have too one of his ideas is that you have too one of his ideas is that you have super spreaders who can do good or can super spreaders who can do good or can super spreaders who can do good or can do evil do evil do evil and increasingly that's being leveraged and increasingly that's being leveraged and increasingly that's being leveraged for evil not good you know that's my for evil not good you know that's my for evil not good you know that's my language not his but you can see that language not his but you can see that language not his but you can see that that a very small group and this plays that a very small group and this plays that a very small group and this plays into I wanted to get to this and man I into I wanted to get to this and man I into I wanted to get to this and man I could go in so many directions with you could go in so many directions with you could go in so many directions with you Sharon but you know conspiracy theories Sharon but you know conspiracy theories Sharon but you know conspiracy theories are on the rise and what you're sharing are on the rise and what you're sharing are on the rise and what you're sharing sounds like the Genesis of a conspiracy sounds like the Genesis of a conspiracy sounds like the Genesis of a conspiracy theory and I know you have a lot to say theory and I know you have a lot to say theory and I know you have a lot to say about conspiracy theories so do you want about conspiracy theories so do you want about conspiracy theories so do you want to talk a little bit about how political to talk a little bit about how political to talk a little bit about how political Elites conspiracy theories conspiracy Elites conspiracy theories conspiracy Elites conspiracy theories conspiracy theories play into today's culture and theories play into today's culture and theories play into today's culture and dynamic around the political dynamic around the political dynamic around the political landscape yeah gosh what a what a a landscape yeah gosh what a what a a landscape yeah gosh what a what a a fascinating topic so conspiracy theories fascinating topic so conspiracy theories fascinating topic so conspiracy theories um first of all real conspiracies um first of all real conspiracies um first of all real conspiracies exist right like not everything is a exist right like not everything is a exist right like not everything is a theory Watergate was a real theory Watergate was a real theory Watergate was a real conspiracy they were actually conspiring conspiracy they were actually conspiring conspiracy they were actually conspiring to do that thing um so real conspiracies to do that thing um so real conspiracies to do that thing um so real conspiracies exist exist exist that's an important thing to note um but that's an important thing to note um but that's an important thing to note um but conspiracy theories um have become conspiracy theories um have become conspiracy theories um have become increasingly popular I think for a few increasingly popular I think for a few increasingly popular I think for a few different reasons one of them is we are different reasons one of them is we are different reasons one of them is we are bombarded with such a massive amount of bombarded with such a massive amount of bombarded with such a massive amount of information that our brains are not

  13. information that our brains are not information that our brains are not equipped to make sense of we are equipped to make sense of we are equipped to make sense of we are actually not meant to consume 300,000 actually not meant to consume 300,000 actually not meant to consume 300,000 pieces of new information on a daily pieces of new information on a daily pieces of new information on a daily basis and no time in human history have basis and no time in human history have basis and no time in human history have humans ever been uh even there never humans ever been uh even there never humans ever been uh even there never even been an option right like our uh even been an option right like our uh even been an option right like our uh you know ancestors of your had to wait you know ancestors of your had to wait you know ancestors of your had to wait for a letter to sail across the Atlantic for a letter to sail across the Atlantic for a letter to sail across the Atlantic and back do you know what I mean and and back do you know what I mean and and back do you know what I mean and that that took like six six plus weeks that that took like six six plus weeks that that took like six six plus weeks and you would have to write it with a and you would have to write it with a and you would have to write it with a quill and then send it on a person with quill and then send it on a person with quill and then send it on a person with a horse down to the shipyard um so this a horse down to the shipyard um so this a horse down to the shipyard um so this idea that you know so it would take idea that you know so it would take idea that you know so it would take months to get pieces of information you months to get pieces of information you months to get pieces of information you know like the War of 1812 was actually know like the War of 1812 was actually know like the War of 1812 was actually over by the time a m multiple uh over by the time a m multiple uh over by the time a m multiple uh multiple important battles of the War of multiple important battles of the War of multiple important battles of the War of 1812 were being fought word had just not 1812 were being fought word had just not 1812 were being fought word had just not reached the like General Andrew Jackson reached the like General Andrew Jackson reached the like General Andrew Jackson yet so all that to say word used to SP yet so all that to say word used to SP yet so all that to say word used to SP spread a lot less quickly than it does spread a lot less quickly than it does spread a lot less quickly than it does now so we are bombarded with massive now so we are bombarded with massive now so we are bombarded with massive quantities of information and this is quantities of information and this is quantities of information and this is both a wonderful thing the both a wonderful thing the both a wonderful thing the democratization of information is a democratization of information is a democratization of information is a wonderful thing it gives people the wonderful thing it gives people the wonderful thing it gives people the opportunity to access things that they opportunity to access things that they opportunity to access things that they would have had to have a lot of money to would have had to have a lot of money to would have had to have a lot of money to be able to access in the past so there's be able to access in the past so there's be able to access in the past so there's there's definitely positives to it but there's definitely positives to it but there's definitely positives to it but um most of us just are not able to deal

  14. um most of us just are not able to deal um most of us just are not able to deal right we don't have the training on right we don't have the training on right we don't have the training on physics or medicine or whatever the physics or medicine or whatever the physics or medicine or whatever the topic is and so because our brains topic is and so because our brains topic is and so because our brains um really um really um really enjoy being certain about enjoy being certain about enjoy being certain about things the human brain really enjoys things the human brain really enjoys things the human brain really enjoys being certain certain is safe uncertain being certain certain is safe uncertain being certain certain is safe uncertain is unsafe right so and PE some people is unsafe right so and PE some people is unsafe right so and PE some people have varying degrees of comfort with have varying degrees of comfort with have varying degrees of comfort with certainty some people are way more certainty some people are way more certainty some people are way more comfortable being saying I don't know we comfortable being saying I don't know we comfortable being saying I don't know we don't know why the universe is don't know why the universe is don't know why the universe is constantly expanding you know what I constantly expanding you know what I constantly expanding you know what I mean we don't we don't know the answer mean we don't we don't know the answer mean we don't we don't know the answer to that question yet someday maybe we'll to that question yet someday maybe we'll to that question yet someday maybe we'll know but we don't know yet some people know but we don't know yet some people know but we don't know yet some people feel comfortable saying things like that feel comfortable saying things like that feel comfortable saying things like that I don't know the answer to that yet I don't know the answer to that yet I don't know the answer to that yet other people's brains feel very other people's brains feel very other people's brains feel very uncomfortable with uncomfortable with uncomfortable with uncertainty and in the absence of uncertainty and in the absence of uncertainty and in the absence of certainty uh the brain will actively certainty uh the brain will actively certainty uh the brain will actively work to to fill in the uncertainty with work to to fill in the uncertainty with work to to fill in the uncertainty with something it wants to something it wants to something it wants to believe and very often and because it believe and very often and because it believe and very often and because it feels good to know something to want to feels good to know something to want to feels good to know something to want to believe something that you want to believe something that you want to believe something that you want to believe it feels good in our brains like believe it feels good in our brains like believe it feels good in our brains like scratching a little scratching a little scratching a little itch um itch um itch um those very often the things that it those very often the things that it those very often the things that it wants to believe are not wants to believe are not wants to believe are not real they're not actually uh backed up real they're not actually uh backed up real they're not actually uh backed up with any facts or they're backed up with with any facts or they're backed up with with any facts or they're backed up with a misinterpretation of the facts um or

  15. a misinterpretation of the facts um or a misinterpretation of the facts um or you know a quick Google search seems to you know a quick Google search seems to you know a quick Google search seems to support what it is that you want to support what it is that you want to support what it is that you want to believe but in reality you're misund believe but in reality you're misund believe but in reality you're misund standing or you're only looking at a standing or you're only looking at a standing or you're only looking at a portion of the picture so some of this portion of the picture so some of this portion of the picture so some of this stems from how the human mind works we stems from how the human mind works we stems from how the human mind works we want to be certain so we can be want to be certain so we can be want to be certain so we can be safe uh some of it stems from the safe uh some of it stems from the safe uh some of it stems from the availability of information we can do availability of information we can do availability of information we can do that quick Google sech search is that quick Google sech search is that quick Google sech search is politician Bob is he a lizard person let politician Bob is he a lizard person let politician Bob is he a lizard person let me check let me check that's a real me check let me check that's a real me check let me check that's a real thing these days you know what I mean thing these days you know what I mean thing these days you know what I mean yes and you can be like look it I found yes and you can be like look it I found yes and you can be like look it I found some websites that confirm it here we go some websites that confirm it here we go some websites that confirm it here we go I can believe it now is a lizard person I can believe it now is a lizard person I can believe it now is a lizard person mhmh so you know the the philosopher or mhmh so you know the the philosopher or mhmh so you know the the philosopher or sociologist uh there's a man named J sociologist uh there's a man named J sociologist uh there's a man named J Jonathan height I don't know if you know Jonathan height I don't know if you know Jonathan height I don't know if you know who he is but he's written books like who he is but he's written books like who he is but he's written books like the Righteous Mind and one of the things the Righteous Mind and one of the things the Righteous Mind and one of the things that he talks about is the two sort of that he talks about is the two sort of that he talks about is the two sort of uh human questions that underpin our uh human questions that underpin our uh human questions that underpin our belief systems are one of two things can belief systems are one of two things can belief systems are one of two things can I believe it and must I believe it uh I believe it and must I believe it uh I believe it and must I believe it uh and when we and when we and when we want to believe something the question want to believe something the question want to believe something the question we ask ourselves is can I believe it we ask ourselves is can I believe it we ask ourselves is can I believe it when we want to believe something can I when we want to believe something can I when we want to believe something can I believe it well the internet has made it believe it well the internet has made it believe it well the internet has made it very easy for you to answer that very easy for you to answer that very easy for you to answer that question because you can find almost question because you can find almost question because you can find almost confirmation for almost anything on the confirmation for almost anything on the confirmation for almost anything on the internet right I can believe it I found internet right I can believe it I found internet right I can believe it I found these websites that say politician Bob these websites that say politician Bob these websites that say politician Bob is a lizard person so I can believe it is a lizard person so I can believe it is a lizard person so I can believe it because I want to and we are not even

  16. because I want to and we are not even because I want to and we are not even having that full conversation this is having that full conversation this is having that full conversation this is all happening subconsciously you know we all happening subconsciously you know we all happening subconsciously you know we not aware that this is the question not aware that this is the question not aware that this is the question we're asking but nevertheless that is we're asking but nevertheless that is we're asking but nevertheless that is the question underpinning our quote the question underpinning our quote the question underpinning our quote unquote Research into something and then unquote Research into something and then unquote Research into something and then when the the opposite is true when we when the the opposite is true when we when the the opposite is true when we don't want to believe something the don't want to believe something the don't want to believe something the question we're asking ourselves is do I question we're asking ourselves is do I question we're asking ourselves is do I have to believe that must I believe that have to believe that must I believe that have to believe that must I believe that thing and then we are looking for ways thing and then we are looking for ways thing and then we are looking for ways to disprove it and obviously that's easy to disprove it and obviously that's easy to disprove it and obviously that's easy to do on the internet as to do on the internet as to do on the internet as well so it's confirmation by a on well so it's confirmation by a on well so it's confirmation by a on steroids and you know what you said is steroids and you know what you said is steroids and you know what you said is so important I want to replay that when so important I want to replay that when so important I want to replay that when this comes out again and again because I this comes out again and again because I this comes out again and again because I think you're really on to something the think you're really on to something the think you're really on to something the human mind craves certainty I was human mind craves certainty I was human mind craves certainty I was thinking back to Neil postman's work he thinking back to Neil postman's work he thinking back to Neil postman's work he wrote in the 80s I think didn't he wrote in the 80s I think didn't he wrote in the 80s I think didn't he amusing ourselves to death and what he amusing ourselves to death and what he amusing ourselves to death and what he said about the arrival of the telegraph said about the arrival of the telegraph said about the arrival of the telegraph in American culture in the mid 19th in American culture in the mid 19th in American culture in the mid 19th century I mean during the Lincoln century I mean during the Lincoln century I mean during the Lincoln Douglas debates around the time of the Douglas debates around the time of the Douglas debates around the time of the Civil Civil Civil War there were people people who would War there were people people who would War there were people people who would gather for six or seven hours very gather for six or seven hours very gather for six or seven hours very informed citizens make debates listen to informed citizens make debates listen to informed citizens make debates listen to both sides and try to make an informed both sides and try to make an informed both sides and try to make an informed decision but he says there was also you decision but he says there was also you decision but he says there was also you you could watch political discourse you could watch political discourse you could watch political discourse descend after that because telegraph was descend after that because telegraph was descend after that because telegraph was invented and to your point you know soon invented and to your point you know soon invented and to your point you know soon news was traveling same day news was traveling same day news was traveling same day instantaneously across the Atlantic and instantaneously across the Atlantic and instantaneously across the Atlantic and you would learn that the Queen of you would learn that the Queen of you would learn that the Queen of England had a cold and suddenly that's

  17. England had a cold and suddenly that's England had a cold and suddenly that's what everybody was talking about in what everybody was talking about in what everybody was talking about in their Community you know the Queen of their Community you know the Queen of their Community you know the Queen of England has well you're never going to England has well you're never going to England has well you're never going to meet the Queen of England you probably meet the Queen of England you probably meet the Queen of England you probably can't name her even though it was can't name her even though it was can't name her even though it was probably Victoria at the time right like probably Victoria at the time right like probably Victoria at the time right like it's one of those things where we are it's one of those things where we are it's one of those things where we are deluged with useless information We deluged with useless information We deluged with useless information We crave certainty because it's so crave certainty because it's so crave certainty because it's so overwhelming and confusing so therefore overwhelming and confusing so therefore overwhelming and confusing so therefore we try to latch on to beliefs and we we try to latch on to beliefs and we we try to latch on to beliefs and we become convinced that Bob is a lizard become convinced that Bob is a lizard become convinced that Bob is a lizard person it sort of is is that what you're person it sort of is is that what you're person it sort of is is that what you're saying I just want to make sure I got saying I just want to make sure I got saying I just want to make sure I got that right yes it there's there's one that right yes it there's there's one that right yes it there's there's one other little factor that I think goes other little factor that I think goes other little factor that I think goes into this so our our need fronts our for into this so our our need fronts our for into this so our our need fronts our for certainty and again there's a spectrum certainty and again there's a spectrum certainty and again there's a spectrum of people's sort of innate tolerance for of people's sort of innate tolerance for of people's sort of innate tolerance for uncertainty some people are excellent at uncertainty some people are excellent at uncertainty some people are excellent at tolerating the uncertainty I don't know tolerating the uncertainty I don't know tolerating the uncertainty I don't know why that is true yet maybe someday we'll why that is true yet maybe someday we'll why that is true yet maybe someday we'll know other people that feels very bad to know other people that feels very bad to know other people that feels very bad to be able to say I don't know and that be able to say I don't know and that be able to say I don't know and that goes along with this sort of goes along with this sort of goes along with this sort of psychological concept of distress psychological concept of distress psychological concept of distress tolerance some people have high degrees tolerance some people have high degrees tolerance some people have high degrees of distress tolerance meaning I can sit of distress tolerance meaning I can sit of distress tolerance meaning I can sit with the uncomfortable feelings of not with the uncomfortable feelings of not with the uncomfortable feelings of not knowing why that thing is knowing why that thing is knowing why that thing is happening and other people have very happening and other people have very happening and other people have very natural low levels of distress tolerance natural low levels of distress tolerance natural low levels of distress tolerance where it is there it creates almost a where it is there it creates almost a where it is there it creates almost a visceral reaction in their bodies where visceral reaction in their bodies where visceral reaction in their bodies where they cannot tolerate the feeling of the they cannot tolerate the feeling of the they cannot tolerate the feeling of the distress uh from not knowing the answer distress uh from not knowing the answer distress uh from not knowing the answer to something distress tolerance is a

  18. to something distress tolerance is a to something distress tolerance is a skill that can be taught and improved by skill that can be taught and improved by skill that can be taught and improved by the way and they and uh therapists teach the way and they and uh therapists teach the way and they and uh therapists teach people ways to improve their distress people ways to improve their distress people ways to improve their distress tolerance um but some people have a tolerance um but some people have a tolerance um but some people have a natural ability to tolerate the distress natural ability to tolerate the distress natural ability to tolerate the distress better than others and so when you better than others and so when you better than others and so when you couple this lack or uh propensity couple this lack or uh propensity couple this lack or uh propensity towards the ability to tolerate distress towards the ability to tolerate distress towards the ability to tolerate distress plus whether or not somebody has a plus whether or not somebody has a plus whether or not somebody has a strong ability to sit with uncertainty I strong ability to sit with uncertainty I strong ability to sit with uncertainty I think the rise of conspiracy theories uh think the rise of conspiracy theories uh think the rise of conspiracy theories uh is really highlighting is really highlighting is really highlighting number one people who crave certainty number one people who crave certainty number one people who crave certainty and connection and number two people and connection and number two people and connection and number two people with low levels of distress tolerance with low levels of distress tolerance with low levels of distress tolerance that is by and large who we're seeing in that is by and large who we're seeing in that is by and large who we're seeing in this sort of one column of people who this sort of one column of people who this sort of one column of people who spend their a lot of their lives wrapped spend their a lot of their lives wrapped spend their a lot of their lives wrapped up in these types of up in these types of up in these types of ideas well taking that a little bit ideas well taking that a little bit ideas well taking that a little bit further down the road couple that I'm further down the road couple that I'm further down the road couple that I'm thinking about this through so many thinking about this through so many thinking about this through so many filters this is so helpful but when you filters this is so helpful but when you filters this is so helpful but when you look at how we cluster now like during look at how we cluster now like during look at how we cluster now like during covid a lot of people moved and they're covid a lot of people moved and they're covid a lot of people moved and they're like all right I want to get out of a like all right I want to get out of a like all right I want to get out of a blue State and go to a red state or I blue State and go to a red state or I blue State and go to a red state or I want to get out of a red State I know want to get out of a red State I know want to get out of a red State I know people who've done the opposite they people who've done the opposite they people who've done the opposite they were in a very red town and they're like were in a very red town and they're like were in a very red town and they're like I can't live here everybody thinks the I can't live here everybody thinks the I can't live here everybody thinks the same so I'm going to go to a blue state same so I'm going to go to a blue state same so I'm going to go to a blue state or a blue City so I've seen friends do or a blue City so I've seen friends do or a blue City so I've seen friends do both and you know sometimes they say both and you know sometimes they say both and you know sometimes they say it's taxes or the political environment it's taxes or the political environment it's taxes or the political environment but a lot of that is but a lot of that is but a lot of that is ideology that kind of explains too how ideology that kind of explains too how ideology that kind of explains too how people Gather in communities like say a

  19. people Gather in communities like say a people Gather in communities like say a church you know we live in a culture church you know we live in a culture church you know we live in a culture right now where a lot of the communal right now where a lot of the communal right now where a lot of the communal organizations the Social Clubs the organizations the Social Clubs the organizations the Social Clubs the charitable clubs that um you know charitable clubs that um you know charitable clubs that um you know underwrote American life or or North underwrote American life or or North underwrote American life or or North American life for centuries are gone um American life for centuries are gone um American life for centuries are gone um you know you think about Kanas or or you know you think about Kanas or or you know you think about Kanas or or rotary or those kinds of clubs tend to rotary or those kinds of clubs tend to rotary or those kinds of clubs tend to be a lot of 75y old men and not a lot of be a lot of 75y old men and not a lot of be a lot of 75y old men and not a lot of 25y old people so it's one of those 25y old people so it's one of those 25y old people so it's one of those things where you look at churches they things where you look at churches they things where you look at churches they become a little more monochromatic become a little more monochromatic become a little more monochromatic over the last 20 years too or you can over the last 20 years too or you can over the last 20 years too or you can fall into that trap where you become we fall into that trap where you become we fall into that trap where you become we all think the same way we all vote the all think the same way we all vote the all think the same way we all vote the same way do you see that same way do you see that same way do you see that tribalization happening more and more in tribalization happening more and more in tribalization happening more and more in the church or in culture and if so I'd the church or in culture and if so I'd the church or in culture and if so I'd love your thoughts on it pros and cons love your thoughts on it pros and cons love your thoughts on it pros and cons yeah yeah I think absolutely and and yeah yeah I think absolutely and and yeah yeah I think absolutely and and certain Faith leaders of course do a lot certain Faith leaders of course do a lot certain Faith leaders of course do a lot to um cause that honestly you know um to um cause that honestly you know um to um cause that honestly you know um some Faith leaders uh do a lot to sort some Faith leaders uh do a lot to sort some Faith leaders uh do a lot to sort of encourage people to not be that way of encourage people to not be that way of encourage people to not be that way that you know whatever your beliefs that you know whatever your beliefs that you know whatever your beliefs about uh God might be uh that that about uh God might be uh that that about uh God might be uh that that political parties are not you know like political parties are not you know like political parties are not you know like the Republicans or the labor party or the Republicans or the labor party or the Republicans or the labor party or whatever it is that's not God's party whatever it is that's not God's party whatever it is that's not God's party right or the Democrats or conservatives right or the Democrats or conservatives right or the Democrats or conservatives whatever whatever names you want to give whatever whatever names you want to give whatever whatever names you want to give to political parties depending on what to political parties depending on what to political parties depending on what country you're listening to this in let country you're listening to this in let country you're listening to this in let not God's party God God not care about

  20. not God's party God God not care about not God's party God God not care about your political parties your political parties your political parties frankly uh but but a lot of uh Faith frankly uh but but a lot of uh Faith frankly uh but but a lot of uh Faith leaders have given Credence to the leaders have given Credence to the leaders have given Credence to the belief that in fact the opposite is true belief that in fact the opposite is true belief that in fact the opposite is true that there is one party that belongs that there is one party that belongs that there is one party that belongs to God's side go ahead and and not to be to God's side go ahead and and not to be to God's side go ahead and and not to be cynical but you know there's not cynical but you know there's not cynical but you know there's not necessarily money in it like there would necessarily money in it like there would necessarily money in it like there would be in the secular culture there could be be in the secular culture there could be be in the secular culture there could be if you get a book deal or if you you if you get a book deal or if you you if you get a book deal or if you you know become well known but there is know become well known but there is know become well known but there is success in it because it is a short-term success in it because it is a short-term success in it because it is a short-term strategy to grow a church if you want to strategy to grow a church if you want to strategy to grow a church if you want to pack a church in some circles in the pack a church in some circles in the pack a church in some circles in the right conditions just do a little right conditions just do a little right conditions just do a little political diet tribe that passes as a political diet tribe that passes as a political diet tribe that passes as a sermon and you will attract a certain sermon and you will attract a certain sermon and you will attract a certain kind of people Ryan Burge is is kind of people Ryan Burge is is kind of people Ryan Burge is is documenting The Surge of the documenting The Surge of the documenting The Surge of the non-religious evangelicals who have all non-religious evangelicals who have all non-religious evangelicals who have all the political ideology that the political ideology that the political ideology that unfortunately has become associated with unfortunately has become associated with unfortunately has become associated with what used to be a Christian doctrine um what used to be a Christian doctrine um what used to be a Christian doctrine um evangelicalism and a lot of them aren't evangelicalism and a lot of them aren't evangelicalism and a lot of them aren't religious they don't go to church religious they don't go to church religious they don't go to church they're just like yeah I'm an they're just like yeah I'm an they're just like yeah I'm an Evangelical because they support X you Evangelical because they support X you Evangelical because they support X you know that kind of thing and that is a I know that kind of thing and that is a I know that kind of thing and that is a I think a short-term strategy to grow a think a short-term strategy to grow a think a short-term strategy to grow a church so that leads to further church so that leads to further church so that leads to further tribalization yes and it and whether tribalization yes and it and whether tribalization yes and it and whether those Faith leaders want to admit it or those Faith leaders want to admit it or those Faith leaders want to admit it or not what they are falling prey to is not what they are falling prey to is not what they are falling prey to is that dopamine circuit in their brains of that dopamine circuit in their brains of that dopamine circuit in their brains of I get so much good feedback I hear from I get so much good feedback I hear from I get so much good feedback I hear from so many people who are like yeah Pastor

  21. so many people who are like yeah Pastor so many people who are like yeah Pastor Carrie that's right you that's right you Carrie that's right you that's right you Carrie that's right you that's right you know that's right they they talk about know that's right they they talk about know that's right they they talk about it on a Sunday morning and the church is it on a Sunday morning and the church is it on a Sunday morning and the church is up in arms and they're clapping and up in arms and they're clapping and up in arms and they're clapping and they're yelling they're getting the they're yelling they're getting the they're yelling they're getting the handshakes afterwards they're getting handshakes afterwards they're getting handshakes afterwards they're getting the reshares on Facebook it's rewarding the reshares on Facebook it's rewarding the reshares on Facebook it's rewarding that kind of behavior that all humans that kind of behavior that all humans that kind of behavior that all humans are very very susceptible to it requires are very very susceptible to it requires are very very susceptible to it requires work to override that circuit in your work to override that circuit in your work to override that circuit in your brain you have to make a conscious brain you have to make a conscious brain you have to make a conscious effort to say that's actually not my effort to say that's actually not my effort to say that's actually not my best self that's actually those are not best self that's actually those are not best self that's actually those are not representative of the values I actually representative of the values I actually representative of the values I actually hold I'm not going to do that because hold I'm not going to do that because hold I'm not going to do that because our default is to uh just go along with our default is to uh just go along with our default is to uh just go along with what feels good in the moment it very what feels good in the moment it very what feels good in the moment it very much is in a variety of ways it is much is in a variety of ways it is much is in a variety of ways it is highly addictive and in an era where the highly addictive and in an era where the highly addictive and in an era where the church is generally declining as a rule church is generally declining as a rule church is generally declining as a rule if you get a little bit of growth a if you get a little bit of growth a if you get a little bit of growth a little bit of positive feedback it would little bit of positive feedback it would little bit of positive feedback it would be really difficult not to continue be really difficult not to continue be really difficult not to continue following that trail yes particularly if following that trail yes particularly if following that trail yes particularly if it's got momentum it you're absolutely it's got momentum it you're absolutely it's got momentum it you're absolutely right that's again that's human nature right that's again that's human nature right that's again that's human nature and unfortunately it's one of our more and unfortunately it's one of our more and unfortunately it's one of our more base instincts um it's like if you're base instincts um it's like if you're base instincts um it's like if you're into in a fist fight in the hallway at into in a fist fight in the hallway at into in a fist fight in the hallway at school and you're surrounded by a group school and you're surrounded by a group school and you're surrounded by a group of people who are like get him you know of people who are like get him you know of people who are like get him you know punch him in the face that eggs you on punch him in the face that eggs you on punch him in the face that eggs you on right like you feel you feel like Care right like you feel you feel like Care right like you feel you feel like Care buoyed by that energy of the audience

  22. buoyed by that energy of the audience buoyed by that energy of the audience right versus if there's nobody around to right versus if there's nobody around to right versus if there's nobody around to watch it happen it's a different vibe watch it happen it's a different vibe watch it happen it's a different vibe it's a different feel like the way that it's a different feel like the way that it's a different feel like the way that you feel in that moment is different so you feel in that moment is different so you feel in that moment is different so it's it's essentially the same exact it's it's essentially the same exact it's it's essentially the same exact thing your uh Faith leaders political thing your uh Faith leaders political thing your uh Faith leaders political leaders Community leaders are being leaders Community leaders are being leaders Community leaders are being surrounded by the equivalent of a group surrounded by the equivalent of a group surrounded by the equivalent of a group in the hallway at school yelling get in the hallway at school yelling get in the hallway at school yelling get him and you seem like the hero when you him and you seem like the hero when you him and you seem like the hero when you have in fact bloodied that other have in fact bloodied that other have in fact bloodied that other person's nose yeah I would love to and I don't nose yeah I would love to and I don't know where this is going to go I have a know where this is going to go I have a know where this is going to go I have a mentor mind who's been very influential mentor mind who's been very influential mentor mind who's been very influential in my life and he says you can't have in my life and he says you can't have in my life and he says you can't have certainty but you can have Clarity I certainty but you can have Clarity I certainty but you can have Clarity I would love to know the difference in would love to know the difference in would love to know the difference in your mind between certainty and your mind between certainty and your mind between certainty and Clarity that what an interesting Clarity that what an interesting Clarity that what an interesting question question question right um because we can be um we can be right um because we can be um we can be right um because we can be um we can be clear on things without necessarily clear on things without necessarily clear on things without necessarily um understanding uh why that thing is um understanding uh why that thing is um understanding uh why that thing is the way it is right like I can have the way it is right like I can have the way it is right like I can have Clarity that gravity is real but also Clarity that gravity is real but also Clarity that gravity is real but also really be uncertain in my knowledge of really be uncertain in my knowledge of really be uncertain in my knowledge of physics right like I actually I know physics right like I actually I know physics right like I actually I know almost nothing about physics don't ask almost nothing about physics don't ask almost nothing about physics don't ask me same yeah yeah exactly you know what me same yeah yeah exactly you know what me same yeah yeah exactly you know what I mean I don't understand I I find Space I mean I don't understand I I find Space I mean I don't understand I I find Space really interesting but I don't really interesting but I don't really interesting but I don't understand it at all when people are understand it at all when people are understand it at all when people are like it's 42 million light years I'm

  23. like it's 42 million light years I'm like it's 42 million light years I'm like but how makes no sense don't get it like but how makes no sense don't get it like but how makes no sense don't get it you know what I mean uh that's really you know what I mean uh that's really you know what I mean uh that's really cool I'm glad somebody did the math to cool I'm glad somebody did the math to cool I'm glad somebody did the math to figure that out don't get it don't figure that out don't get it don't figure that out don't get it don't understand um so I can I can be clear on understand um so I can I can be clear on understand um so I can I can be clear on uh you know concepts of how the universe uh you know concepts of how the universe uh you know concepts of how the universe works that we are on a you know a small works that we are on a you know a small works that we are on a you know a small globe that is orbiting Sun uh in part of globe that is orbiting Sun uh in part of globe that is orbiting Sun uh in part of an Ever apparently ever expanding an Ever apparently ever expanding an Ever apparently ever expanding universe that's also weird how again universe that's also weird how again universe that's also weird how again expanding into expanding into expanding into what where and why does the universe what where and why does the universe what where and why does the universe have edges we don't know that's have edges we don't know that's have edges we don't know that's legitimately science does not know if legitimately science does not know if legitimately science does not know if the universe has edges or not don't know the universe has edges or not don't know the universe has edges or not don't know it might might be it might might not but it might might be it might might not but it might might be it might might not but it might have edges we don't know so it might have edges we don't know so it might have edges we don't know so anyway I can I can be clear about some anyway I can I can be clear about some anyway I can I can be clear about some things without necessarily requiring things without necessarily requiring things without necessarily requiring certainty about the underpinnings of how certainty about the underpinnings of how certainty about the underpinnings of how everything works what I can be clear on everything works what I can be clear on everything works what I can be clear on is uh what my values are I can be clear is uh what my values are I can be clear is uh what my values are I can be clear on how I what what I would like the on how I what what I would like the on how I what what I would like the world to look like I can be clear on world to look like I can be clear on world to look like I can be clear on what my contribution to the world might what my contribution to the world might what my contribution to the world might be without necessarily requiring be without necessarily requiring be without necessarily requiring certainty about where my efforts might certainty about where my efforts might certainty about where my efforts might lead without requiring certainty about lead without requiring certainty about lead without requiring certainty about the outcome of my efforts uh or about the outcome of my efforts uh or about the outcome of my efforts uh or about how they might impact other people um how they might impact other people um how they might impact other people um without having certainty about how those without having certainty about how those without having certainty about how those values might play out in other crowds values might play out in other crowds values might play out in other crowds but I can be clear about who I am and

  24. but I can be clear about who I am and but I can be clear about who I am and what I stand for and why I believe what what I stand for and why I believe what what I stand for and why I believe what I believe without necessarily requiring I believe without necessarily requiring I believe without necessarily requiring certainty uh that it's going to go certainty uh that it's going to go certainty uh that it's going to go somewhere or lead some lead to something somewhere or lead some lead to something somewhere or lead some lead to something uh or produce a certain result um so uh or produce a certain result um so uh or produce a certain result um so that's just some thoughts of how what that's just some thoughts of how what that's just some thoughts of how what that means to me I'd love to hear what that means to me I'd love to hear what that means to me I'd love to hear what it means to you yeah I you know I think it means to you yeah I you know I think it means to you yeah I you know I think I'm one of those people who does better I'm one of those people who does better I'm one of those people who does better with uh ambiguity and and questions the with uh ambiguity and and questions the with uh ambiguity and and questions the older I get so younger me was a little older I get so younger me was a little older I get so younger me was a little bit more black and white older me is bit more black and white older me is bit more black and white older me is like ah that person probably has a story like ah that person probably has a story like ah that person probably has a story or uh I can I can hold opposing idea's or uh I can I can hold opposing idea's or uh I can I can hold opposing idea's intention yeah and go I think there's intention yeah and go I think there's intention yeah and go I think there's something in that and I'm I realize the something in that and I'm I realize the something in that and I'm I realize the older I get how little I actually know older I get how little I actually know older I get how little I actually know yeah how narrow my bandwidth is and so yeah how narrow my bandwidth is and so yeah how narrow my bandwidth is and so I'm pretty good getting better at just I'm pretty good getting better at just I'm pretty good getting better at just going I don't know how 98% of this works going I don't know how 98% of this works going I don't know how 98% of this works I know a little bit about this one or I know a little bit about this one or I know a little bit about this one or two% that's about it so for me Clarity two% that's about it so for me Clarity two% that's about it so for me Clarity and certainty sometimes you know having and certainty sometimes you know having and certainty sometimes you know having LED in local context for years is just LED in local context for years is just LED in local context for years is just announcing what we don't know here's announcing what we don't know here's announcing what we don't know here's what we don't know here's what we don't what we don't know here's what we don't what we don't know here's what we don't know here's what we don't know but as as know here's what we don't know but as as know here's what we don't know but as as you were hinting at in your answer going you were hinting at in your answer going you were hinting at in your answer going back to our values here's what we're back to our values here's what we're back to our values here's what we're certain of you know here's what we're certain of you know here's what we're certain of you know here's what we're clear about here's what we do know and I clear about here's what we do know and I clear about here's what we do know and I think good preaching in many ways and think good preaching in many ways and think good preaching in many ways and and my definition of what good preaching and my definition of what good preaching and my definition of what good preaching would be is that like you think about would be is that like you think about would be is that like you think about all the tension in the room on a Sunday

  25. all the tension in the room on a Sunday all the tension in the room on a Sunday morning uh all the stories in the room morning uh all the stories in the room morning uh all the stories in the room the marriages that are hanging by a the marriages that are hanging by a the marriages that are hanging by a thread the newlyweds who are so excited thread the newlyweds who are so excited thread the newlyweds who are so excited and think they're never going to have a and think they're never going to have a and think they're never going to have a fight the uh teen who's struggling with fight the uh teen who's struggling with fight the uh teen who's struggling with addiction the guy who's afraid of losing addiction the guy who's afraid of losing addiction the guy who's afraid of losing his job there's a lot of his job there's a lot of his job there's a lot of uncertainty in any room you walk into uncertainty in any room you walk into uncertainty in any room you walk into and I think good preaching to me speaks and I think good preaching to me speaks and I think good preaching to me speaks into that uncertainty and says you know into that uncertainty and says you know into that uncertainty and says you know there's a lot of pain here there's a lot there's a lot of pain here there's a lot there's a lot of pain here there's a lot of questions here and there's a lot of of questions here and there's a lot of of questions here and there's a lot of Joy here and some of you your problem is Joy here and some of you your problem is Joy here and some of you your problem is you've been so successful and you're you've been so successful and you're you've been so successful and you're like nah I don't know how come it's not like nah I don't know how come it's not like nah I don't know how come it's not doing it for me how come that dopamine doing it for me how come that dopamine doing it for me how come that dopamine hit doesn't last forever you know when I hit doesn't last forever you know when I hit doesn't last forever you know when I look at my bank account or I look at the look at my bank account or I look at the look at my bank account or I look at the the latest report for my company so you the latest report for my company so you the latest report for my company so you speak into that and go but here's what speak into that and go but here's what speak into that and go but here's what we do know here's what we do know here's we do know here's what we do know here's we do know here's what we do know here's what we can be quite certain of you know what we can be quite certain of you know what we can be quite certain of you know through a lens of faith and it tends to through a lens of faith and it tends to through a lens of faith and it tends to be tremendously unifying and be tremendously unifying and be tremendously unifying and um and also just saying there's a lot I um and also just saying there's a lot I um and also just saying there's a lot I don't know and there's a lot of stuff I don't know and there's a lot of stuff I don't know and there's a lot of stuff I won't figure out I'm okay with that but won't figure out I'm okay with that but won't figure out I'm okay with that but but here's something really interesting but here's something really interesting but here's something really interesting you want to talk about that that's what you want to talk about that that's what you want to talk about that that's what Clarity and certainty yeah I love that I Clarity and certainty yeah I love that I Clarity and certainty yeah I love that I love that and I think it that it it love that and I think it that it it love that and I think it that it it creates a permission structure for other creates a permission structure for other creates a permission structure for other people to remain uncertain about things people to remain uncertain about things people to remain uncertain about things right of like I don't I don't know why right of like I don't I don't know why right of like I don't I don't know why that is I can't tell you if there's that is I can't tell you if there's that is I can't tell you if there's edges to the universe I don't know why edges to the universe I don't know why edges to the universe I don't know why light travels at a certain speed I don't light travels at a certain speed I don't light travels at a certain speed I don't know why so and so did this that and the know why so and so did this that and the know why so and so did this that and the other thing I don't know the answer to other thing I don't know the answer to other thing I don't know the answer to that question but here's what I do know

  26. that question but here's what I do know that question but here's what I do know it it when you when you give voice to it it when you when you give voice to it it when you when you give voice to that I don't know it gives other people that I don't know it gives other people that I don't know it gives other people permission to also feel like oh so I permission to also feel like oh so I permission to also feel like oh so I don't have to have everything figured don't have to have everything figured don't have to have everything figured out and that actually I think is out and that actually I think is out and that actually I think is becoming increasingly important Carrie becoming increasingly important Carrie becoming increasingly important Carrie to give other people permission to not to give other people permission to not to give other people permission to not know and to sit with the know and to sit with the know and to sit with the uncertainty well and to go back to uncertainty well and to go back to uncertainty well and to go back to something you said earlier media something you said earlier media something you said earlier media consumption we're not designed and I consumption we're not designed and I consumption we're not designed and I believe that whether you believe from a believe that whether you believe from a believe that whether you believe from a creation or you know hey we just creation or you know hey we just creation or you know hey we just spontaneously got here from you're right spontaneously got here from you're right spontaneously got here from you're right for Millennia and for me I'm a creation for Millennia and for me I'm a creation for Millennia and for me I'm a creation guy but I don't think God designed us to guy but I don't think God designed us to guy but I don't think God designed us to handle that kind of information and yet handle that kind of information and yet handle that kind of information and yet here we are in a world where we have here we are in a world where we have here we are in a world where we have that kind of information I don't know that kind of information I don't know that kind of information I don't know what to do with it all and I get what to do with it all and I get what to do with it all and I get overwhelmed by it and I try to follow overwhelmed by it and I try to follow overwhelmed by it and I try to follow what I consider to be like I don't I what I consider to be like I don't I what I consider to be like I don't I don't go for the clickbait I don't go don't go for the clickbait I don't go don't go for the clickbait I don't go for the haters I don't go for the for the haters I don't go for the for the haters I don't go for the reaction pieces with a million like you reaction pieces with a million like you reaction pieces with a million like you know politician Bob that's not my diet know politician Bob that's not my diet know politician Bob that's not my diet what do you do what are your um could what do you do what are your um could what do you do what are your um could call it media hygiene like you know this call it media hygiene like you know this call it media hygiene like you know this is what you do right I want to get a is what you do right I want to get a is what you do right I want to get a little bit more into how to build a good little bit more into how to build a good little bit more into how to build a good platform how to build a positive platform how to build a positive platform how to build a positive platform but what is your media or news platform but what is your media or news platform but what is your media or news consumption hygiene so so that you don't consumption hygiene so so that you don't consumption hygiene so so that you don't get sucked in under the Rip Tide yeah get sucked in under the Rip Tide yeah get sucked in under the Rip Tide yeah well the first thing is I don't really well the first thing is I don't really well the first thing is I don't really tend to watch the news at all I don't tend to watch the news at all I don't tend to watch the news at all I don't watch it uh me neither but I bet you

  27. watch it uh me neither but I bet you watch it uh me neither but I bet you used to didn't you well yeah sure used to didn't you well yeah sure used to didn't you well yeah sure younger yeah yeah my my mom watched her younger yeah yeah my my mom watched her younger yeah yeah my my mom watched her 30 minutes of Peter Jennings in the 30 minutes of Peter Jennings in the 30 minutes of Peter Jennings in the evenings you know followed by 30 minutes evenings you know followed by 30 minutes evenings you know followed by 30 minutes of whatever whoever the local news host of whatever whoever the local news host of whatever whoever the local news host was at the time you know you had 30 was at the time you know you had 30 was at the time you know you had 30 minutes of national news and 30 minutes minutes of national news and 30 minutes minutes of national news and 30 minutes of local news and maybe sometimes you of local news and maybe sometimes you of local news and maybe sometimes you didn't watch the 30 minutes of local didn't watch the 30 minutes of local didn't watch the 30 minutes of local news maybe sometimes you watched Wheel news maybe sometimes you watched Wheel news maybe sometimes you watched Wheel of Fortune instead and then you caught of Fortune instead and then you caught of Fortune instead and then you caught the the 10 o'clock local news do you the the 10 o'clock local news do you the the 10 o'clock local news do you know what I mean like um that's maybe know what I mean like um that's maybe know what I mean like um that's maybe how you worked that um and if you were how you worked that um and if you were how you worked that um and if you were too busy well you'll catch it tomorrow too busy well you'll catch it tomorrow too busy well you'll catch it tomorrow so and I also think about like my so and I also think about like my so and I also think about like my grandmother or my great-grandmother you grandmother or my great-grandmother you grandmother or my great-grandmother you know born at the turn of the century uh know born at the turn of the century uh know born at the turn of the century uh they didn't have anything to watch there they didn't have anything to watch there they didn't have anything to watch there was like oh oh oh Dewey didn't win the was like oh oh oh Dewey didn't win the was like oh oh oh Dewey didn't win the the presidency oh it's true mean oh the presidency oh it's true mean oh the presidency oh it's true mean oh weird interesting yesterday it said a weird interesting yesterday it said a weird interesting yesterday it said a different thing you know what I mean different thing you know what I mean different thing you know what I mean exactly uh that this idea that uh that exactly uh that this idea that uh that exactly uh that this idea that uh that we you know at no time in human history we you know at no time in human history we you know at no time in human history as you just said Carrie have humans been as you just said Carrie have humans been as you just said Carrie have humans been even able to access this amount of even able to access this amount of even able to access this amount of information and our brains have not information and our brains have not information and our brains have not caught up with it so I don't watch any caught up with it so I don't watch any caught up with it so I don't watch any news um I read the news and uh I make news um I read the news and uh I make news um I read the news and uh I make sure that the majority of my news diet sure that the majority of my news diet sure that the majority of my news diet as you would with food if you're going as you would with food if you're going as you would with food if you're going to eat a healthy diet with food you to eat a healthy diet with food you to eat a healthy diet with food you would make sure the majority of your would make sure the majority of your would make sure the majority of your diet is not ice cream ice cream is fine diet is not ice cream ice cream is fine diet is not ice cream ice cream is fine sometimes but that can't be the majority sometimes but that can't be the majority sometimes but that can't be the majority of your diet right so I I really make an

  28. of your diet right so I I really make an of your diet right so I I really make an effort to read the majority of my news effort to read the majority of my news effort to read the majority of my news from news organizations that are rated from news organizations that are rated from news organizations that are rated by rated independently by independent by rated independently by independent by rated independently by independent third-party organizations as having a third-party organizations as having a third-party organizations as having a you know a more of a center weighted you know a more of a center weighted you know a more of a center weighted bias with a high degree of bias with a high degree of bias with a high degree of reliability and there's a great reliability and there's a great reliability and there's a great organization called ad Fontes a d f n organization called ad Fontes a d f n organization called ad Fontes a d f n Tes link to it in the show notes thank Tes link to it in the show notes thank Tes link to it in the show notes thank you yes ad Fontes means to The Source in you yes ad Fontes means to The Source in you yes ad Fontes means to The Source in Latin and they have a team of people who Latin and they have a team of people who Latin and they have a team of people who are who evaluate uh different news are who evaluate uh different news are who evaluate uh different news organizations uh organizations uh organizations uh podcasts uh you know uh websites Etc um podcasts uh you know uh websites Etc um podcasts uh you know uh websites Etc um and every uh every evaluation has and every uh every evaluation has and every uh every evaluation has somebody from the left from the right somebody from the left from the right somebody from the left from the right and from the the center politically that and from the the center politically that and from the the center politically that are evaluating these news organizations are evaluating these news organizations are evaluating these news organizations and coming to a consensus on where on and coming to a consensus on where on and coming to a consensus on where on the political Spectrum this the political Spectrum this the political Spectrum this belongs and uh to what degree is this a belongs and uh to what degree is this a belongs and uh to what degree is this a reliable news source versus reliable news source versus reliable news source versus entertainment right or or even worse entertainment right or or even worse entertainment right or or even worse just spreading straight up just spreading straight up just spreading straight up lies right not not even entertain exist lies right not not even entertain exist lies right not not even entertain exist yeah just lies um so they have this bell yeah just lies um so they have this bell yeah just lies um so they have this bell curve you know of you know right left curve you know of you know right left curve you know of you know right left and Center with this sort of Center and Center with this sort of Center and Center with this sort of Center Center being the top of the curve but Center being the top of the curve but Center being the top of the curve but then they also as you move up and down then they also as you move up and down then they also as you move up and down the curve on this axis they have the curve on this axis they have the curve on this axis they have reliability so I find I find that I'm reliability so I find I find that I'm reliability so I find I find that I'm GNA check that out that's super helpful GNA check that out that's super helpful GNA check that out that's super helpful right so if you're consuming a large

  29. right so if you're consuming a large right so if you're consuming a large amount of your media diet from the top amount of your media diet from the top amount of your media diet from the top of this bell curve that is a useful of this bell curve that is a useful of this bell curve that is a useful thing but then I also think it's thing but then I also think it's thing but then I also think it's extremely important to consume some of extremely important to consume some of extremely important to consume some of your news from both the left and the your news from both the left and the your news from both the left and the right I I choose sources that are highly right I I choose sources that are highly right I I choose sources that are highly rated for rated for rated for reliability um but that come from the reliability um but that come from the reliability um but that come from the left and the right because I think it's left and the right because I think it's left and the right because I think it's important to if you want to understand important to if you want to understand important to if you want to understand people um that understanding cannot be people um that understanding cannot be people um that understanding cannot be based on your assumptions about what based on your assumptions about what based on your assumptions about what other people think and so often that is other people think and so often that is other people think and so often that is what we are basing our understanding of what we are basing our understanding of what we are basing our understanding of listen if you are a pro-life person you listen if you are a pro-life person you listen if you are a pro-life person you might have the assumption that people might have the assumption that people might have the assumption that people who are pro-choice love killing babies who are pro-choice love killing babies who are pro-choice love killing babies and they think that that's fun and funny and they think that that's fun and funny and they think that that's fun and funny and a Saturday afternoon activity uh and and a Saturday afternoon activity uh and and a Saturday afternoon activity uh and the truth is that your assumption would the truth is that your assumption would the truth is that your assumption would be incorrect that is not what they think be incorrect that is not what they think be incorrect that is not what they think that is not how they feel about it and that is not how they feel about it and that is not how they feel about it and if you're a pro-choice person you might if you're a pro-choice person you might if you're a pro-choice person you might think that people who are pro-life all think that people who are pro-life all think that people who are pro-life all they want to do is control women's they want to do is control women's they want to do is control women's bodies and support the patriarchy and in bodies and support the patriarchy and in bodies and support the patriarchy and in reality that's not a pro-life person reality that's not a pro-life person reality that's not a pro-life person would tell you that's not what they would tell you that's not what they would tell you that's not what they think now you might disagree with their think now you might disagree with their think now you might disagree with their ultimate conclusion but if you are ultimate conclusion but if you are ultimate conclusion but if you are making assumptions Bas only on your making assumptions Bas only on your making assumptions Bas only on your understanding of what somebody else understanding of what somebody else understanding of what somebody else thinks chances are pretty good you're thinks chances are pretty good you're thinks chances are pretty good you're getting it wrong so uh if and until you getting it wrong so uh if and until you getting it wrong so uh if and until you can articulate to somebody else uh what can articulate to somebody else uh what can articulate to somebody else uh what their position is in a way that they

  30. their position is in a way that they their position is in a way that they would agree with if I were to say it would agree with if I were to say it would agree with if I were to say it Carrie is it your position that Hondas Carrie is it your position that Hondas Carrie is it your position that Hondas are the best cars because they are uh are the best cars because they are uh are the best cars because they are uh they have a long track record of being they have a long track record of being they have a long track record of being extremely reliable and they are easy to extremely reliable and they are easy to extremely reliable and they are easy to fix because lots of mechanics are fix because lots of mechanics are fix because lots of mechanics are trained on them and they get excellent trained on them and they get excellent trained on them and they get excellent gas mileage and whatever the list of gas mileage and whatever the list of gas mileage and whatever the list of Pros is for you with Honda cars I'm just Pros is for you with Honda cars I'm just Pros is for you with Honda cars I'm just making this up of course and for you to making this up of course and for you to making this up of course and for you to be like yes that's right that that's be like yes that's right that that's be like yes that's right that that's exactly why I think they're the best exactly why I think they're the best exactly why I think they're the best cars until I can articulate in a way cars until I can articulate in a way cars until I can articulate in a way that you would say accurately reflects that you would say accurately reflects that you would say accurately reflects your Viewpoint of a hot button topic you your Viewpoint of a hot button topic you your Viewpoint of a hot button topic you don't understand it well enough right if don't understand it well enough right if don't understand it well enough right if you're like Carrie likes Hondas because you're like Carrie likes Hondas because you're like Carrie likes Hondas because he only likes dumb cars right do you he only likes dumb cars right do you he only likes dumb cars right do you know what I mean that that's that's not know what I mean that that's that's not know what I mean that that's that's not an accurate reflection those was a good an accurate reflection those was a good an accurate reflection those was a good hypothetical there's a Honda in the hypothetical there's a Honda in the hypothetical there's a Honda in the garage behind me so yes that is that is garage behind me so yes that is that is garage behind me so yes that is that is quite accurate and those are the reasons quite accurate and those are the reasons quite accurate and those are the reasons I would give so well done thank you I S I would give so well done thank you I S I would give so well done thank you I S I also I to own a Honda carry so get I also I to own a Honda carry so get I also I to own a Honda carry so get exactly they do tend to last yes I I get exactly they do tend to last yes I I get exactly they do tend to last yes I I get it so um the the idea that in order to it so um the the idea that in order to it so um the the idea that in order to really understand people that you need really understand people that you need really understand people that you need to to to uh consume some of the media that uh consume some of the media that uh consume some of the media that they're consuming in an effort to they're consuming in an effort to they're consuming in an effort to understand them or perhaps even to get a understand them or perhaps even to get a understand them or perhaps even to get a different viewpoint on a topic that you different viewpoint on a topic that you different viewpoint on a topic that you hadn't considered before I think that's hadn't considered before I think that's hadn't considered before I think that's an important an important an important exercise can I ask you why reading

  31. exercise can I ask you why reading exercise can I ask you why reading overwatching I made a very similar overwatching I made a very similar overwatching I made a very similar decision and I don't know why I made decision and I don't know why I made decision and I don't know why I made that decision but I much prefer reading that decision but I much prefer reading that decision but I much prefer reading overwatching and I don't know whether overwatching and I don't know whether overwatching and I don't know whether that's something you recommend or that's something you recommend or that's something you recommend or whether it's a personal preference yeah whether it's a personal preference yeah whether it's a personal preference yeah oh I I highly recomend it for for a few oh I I highly recomend it for for a few oh I I highly recomend it for for a few different reasons um one is that we know different reasons um one is that we know different reasons um one is that we know that your brain will only uh take you so that your brain will only uh take you so that your brain will only uh take you so far and by what I mean by that is we all far and by what I mean by that is we all far and by what I mean by that is we all know there's a difference between know there's a difference between know there's a difference between reading a news story about let's say a reading a news story about let's say a reading a news story about let's say a bombing that happens and children are bombing that happens and children are bombing that happens and children are killed you might read read that and be killed you might read read that and be killed you might read read that and be like oh this is terrible I hate reading like oh this is terrible I hate reading like oh this is terrible I hate reading that children were killed that's so that children were killed that's so that children were killed that's so tragic there is a difference between tragic there is a difference between tragic there is a difference between that and watching a a behead Ed child on that and watching a a behead Ed child on that and watching a a behead Ed child on television with their body parts strewn television with their body parts strewn television with their body parts strewn everywhere those are two different everywhere those are two different everywhere those are two different experiences right and this is true of experiences right and this is true of experiences right and this is true of say a a violent movie there's a say a a violent movie there's a say a a violent movie there's a difference between reading gunman uh difference between reading gunman uh difference between reading gunman uh stormed the embassy and took people stormed the embassy and took people stormed the embassy and took people hostage that creates a different feeling hostage that creates a different feeling hostage that creates a different feeling in your mind and in your body than in your mind and in your body than in your mind and in your body than literally watching gunman stor an literally watching gunman stor an literally watching gunman stor an embassy and seeing the people sobbing embassy and seeing the people sobbing embassy and seeing the people sobbing and terrified and like please I have a and terrified and like please I have a and terrified and like please I have a baby do you know what I mean it's a very baby do you know what I mean it's a very baby do you know what I mean it's a very different experience to watch something different experience to watch something different experience to watch something than to read something and that is Again than to read something and that is Again than to read something and that is Again part of how our minds work when we're part of how our minds work when we're part of how our minds work when we're watching something we are watching something we are watching something we are essentially uh you know you're being essentially uh you know you're being essentially uh you know you're being subjected to uh sometimes imagery that subjected to uh sometimes imagery that subjected to uh sometimes imagery that is not helpful uh for your own mental

  32. is not helpful uh for your own mental is not helpful uh for your own mental health um watching it happen does not health um watching it happen does not health um watching it happen does not Empower you to do more good in the world Empower you to do more good in the world Empower you to do more good in the world uh it often has an incapacitating effect uh it often has an incapacitating effect uh it often has an incapacitating effect on people and it often causes extreme on people and it often causes extreme on people and it often causes extreme anxiety um or depression I would imagine anxiety um or depression I would imagine anxiety um or depression I would imagine a lot of uh if you have a lot of faith a lot of uh if you have a lot of faith a lot of uh if you have a lot of faith leaders listening to this people in leaders listening to this people in leaders listening to this people in their organizations are feeling a their organizations are feeling a their organizations are feeling a tremendous amount of anxiety about the tremendous amount of anxiety about the tremendous amount of anxiety about the upcoming election season this is a very upcoming election season this is a very upcoming election season this is a very that's why we're doing this series yes that's why we're doing this series yes that's why we're doing this series yes normal way to feel the overwhelming normal way to feel the overwhelming normal way to feel the overwhelming feeling is feeling is feeling is anxiety and so watching the news anxiety and so watching the news anxiety and so watching the news contributes to the anxiety uh there have contributes to the anxiety uh there have contributes to the anxiety uh there have been multiple studies that prove this been multiple studies that prove this been multiple studies that prove this that even 20 minutes of watching the that even 20 minutes of watching the that even 20 minutes of watching the news news people feel much far more news news people feel much far more news news people feel much far more anxious after that 20 minutes even if anxious after that 20 minutes even if anxious after that 20 minutes even if it's not a topic that they would it's not a topic that they would it's not a topic that they would necessarily uh care that much about necessarily uh care that much about necessarily uh care that much about right the other reason of course is right the other reason of course is right the other reason of course is speed it's much faster to read for me to speed it's much faster to read for me to speed it's much faster to read for me to read an article I can read 20 articles read an article I can read 20 articles read an article I can read 20 articles and the amount of time it would sit me and the amount of time it would sit me and the amount of time it would sit me to take me to sit through your to take me to sit through your to take me to sit through your commercial breaks I can cover a lot more commercial breaks I can cover a lot more commercial breaks I can cover a lot more ground reading than I can watching and ground reading than I can watching and ground reading than I can watching and then the other reason is that so much of then the other reason is that so much of then the other reason is that so much of um visual news content is just opinion um visual news content is just opinion um visual news content is just opinion it's just opinion you know NE next we it's just opinion you know NE next we it's just opinion you know NE next we have next we have Sharon who's here to have next we have Sharon who's here to have next we have Sharon who's here to tell us why politician Bob is in fact tell us why politician Bob is in fact tell us why politician Bob is in fact the the the worst and then I have to sit through worst and then I have to sit through worst and then I have to sit through five minutes of I may not this may not five minutes of I may not this may not five minutes of I may not this may not be newsworthy even but I have to fill up

  33. be newsworthy even but I have to fill up be newsworthy even but I have to fill up the 24 hours so I'm going to get a bunch the 24 hours so I'm going to get a bunch the 24 hours so I'm going to get a bunch of guests on to talk about why of guests on to talk about why of guests on to talk about why politician Bob is terrible um and again politician Bob is terrible um and again politician Bob is terrible um and again that's not helping me understand my that's not helping me understand my that's not helping me understand my neighbor better that's not helping me neighbor better that's not helping me neighbor better that's not helping me understand the World At Large better understand the World At Large better understand the World At Large better it's just listening to it's just me it's just listening to it's just me it's just listening to it's just me listening to somebody tell me their listening to somebody tell me their listening to somebody tell me their opinion about why one other person is opinion about why one other person is opinion about why one other person is terrible so well it's also a pivot in terrible so well it's also a pivot in terrible so well it's also a pivot in the business model isn't it I mean if the business model isn't it I mean if the business model isn't it I mean if you look at I think originally the you look at I think originally the you look at I think originally the newscasts when there were three networks newscasts when there were three networks newscasts when there were three networks was to do a public service in other was to do a public service in other was to do a public service in other words this is how we're going to get our words this is how we're going to get our words this is how we're going to get our news and then 1984 it became a business news and then 1984 it became a business news and then 1984 it became a business model and now basically you you got to model and now basically you you got to model and now basically you you got to if it bleeds it leads you've got to get if it bleeds it leads you've got to get if it bleeds it leads you've got to get the eyeballs to get the advertising the eyeballs to get the advertising the eyeballs to get the advertising Revenue um and that's somewhat true in Revenue um and that's somewhat true in Revenue um and that's somewhat true in printed journalism as well and you have printed journalism as well and you have printed journalism as well and you have to consider the source but like you say to consider the source but like you say to consider the source but like you say you're not captive to a narrative for you're not captive to a narrative for you're not captive to a narrative for four minutes or three minutes or a four minutes or three minutes or a four minutes or three minutes or a minute you're reading something you're minute you're reading something you're minute you're reading something you're like ah this isn't news you just move on like ah this isn't news you just move on like ah this isn't news you just move on to the next thing so add Fontes we will to the next thing so add Fontes we will to the next thing so add Fontes we will link to that and uh and a preference for link to that and uh and a preference for link to that and uh and a preference for reading over watching I think that's reading over watching I think that's reading over watching I think that's really helpful so Sharon you you have really helpful so Sharon you you have really helpful so Sharon you you have built a huge platform over the last few built a huge platform over the last few built a huge platform over the last few years really it it kind of blew up years really it it kind of blew up years really it it kind of blew up during the pandemic and you have over a during the pandemic and you have over a during the pandemic and you have over a million followers on Instagram you're million followers on Instagram you're million followers on Instagram you're about to release a brand new book uh and about to release a brand new book uh and about to release a brand new book uh and you are doing this without becoming that you are doing this without becoming that you are doing this without becoming that you know prison who gets $50 million a

  34. you know prison who gets $50 million a you know prison who gets $50 million a year to hate on politician Bob the year to hate on politician Bob the year to hate on politician Bob the secret mission of this company one of secret mission of this company one of secret mission of this company one of the the unstated missions of this the the unstated missions of this the the unstated missions of this company is uh to be a place for the good company is uh to be a place for the good company is uh to be a place for the good people the internet you know we believe people the internet you know we believe people the internet you know we believe there's a lot of good people that you there's a lot of good people that you there's a lot of good people that you know the people on the edges I don't know the people on the edges I don't know the people on the edges I don't know what to do about but I think know what to do about but I think know what to do about but I think there's a lot of good people with good there's a lot of good people with good there's a lot of good people with good Hearts who do want to make a difference Hearts who do want to make a difference Hearts who do want to make a difference who are somewhere in the middle they who are somewhere in the middle they who are somewhere in the middle they might be slightly right slightly left might be slightly right slightly left might be slightly right slightly left but they're willing to talk to somebody but they're willing to talk to somebody but they're willing to talk to somebody they disagree with that's why we exist they disagree with that's why we exist they disagree with that's why we exist that's why one of the reasons I do what that's why one of the reasons I do what that's why one of the reasons I do what I do I think you're very similarly I do I think you're very similarly I do I think you're very similarly minded so then the question minded so then the question minded so then the question becomes you know are you becomes you know are you becomes you know are you just consigned to like five followers just consigned to like five followers just consigned to like five followers and nobody coming to your church anymore and nobody coming to your church anymore and nobody coming to your church anymore nobody listening to you clearly that nobody listening to you clearly that nobody listening to you clearly that hasn't been your case so what have been hasn't been your case so what have been hasn't been your case so what have been some keys to getting heard uh in a some keys to getting heard uh in a some keys to getting heard uh in a polarized space when you're not a polarized space when you're not a polarized space when you're not a polarized polarized polarized person yeah I mean I think it's a it's a person yeah I mean I think it's a it's a person yeah I mean I think it's a it's a great question because the business great question because the business great question because the business model uh doesn't have a lot of uh model uh doesn't have a lot of uh model uh doesn't have a lot of uh support of like here is the proof of support of like here is the proof of support of like here is the proof of concept right yes the proof of concept concept right yes the proof of concept concept right yes the proof of concept is in the giant YouTube channels that is in the giant YouTube channels that is in the giant YouTube channels that get the $10 million right um the proof get the $10 million right um the proof get the $10 million right um the proof of concept can be a little bit more of concept can be a little bit more of concept can be a little bit more challenging to to demonstrate that in challenging to to demonstrate that in challenging to to demonstrate that in fact it can work but I think that is fact it can work but I think that is fact it can work but I think that is beginning to change I think we now have beginning to change I think we now have beginning to change I think we now have um reached a point in the political um reached a point in the political um reached a point in the political pendulum where it has swung so far that pendulum where it has swung so far that pendulum where it has swung so far that the uh overwhelming majority of people I

  35. the uh overwhelming majority of people I the uh overwhelming majority of people I call them the exhausted majority the call them the exhausted majority the call them the exhausted majority the exhausted majority of people are just exhausted majority of people are just exhausted majority of people are just like I am done with this like I am done with this like I am done with this I am you you're seeing uh record drops I am you you're seeing uh record drops I am you you're seeing uh record drops in certain Cable News Channel in certain Cable News Channel in certain Cable News Channel viewership um people are just like we're viewership um people are just like we're viewership um people are just like we're done I'm I don't I don't care about this done I'm I don't I don't care about this done I'm I don't I don't care about this anymore I I have uh I have seen what anymore I I have uh I have seen what anymore I I have uh I have seen what it's done to my family I have I can't go it's done to my family I have I can't go it's done to my family I have I can't go I can't even go to Thanksgiving with my I can't even go to Thanksgiving with my I can't even go to Thanksgiving with my uncle anymore um this has politics or uncle anymore um this has politics or uncle anymore um this has politics or you know this type of news consumption you know this type of news consumption you know this type of news consumption has ruined my familial relationships has ruined my familial relationships has ruined my familial relationships I've lost friends over this I've lost friends over this I've lost friends over this um I don't uh I don't even understand um I don't uh I don't even understand um I don't uh I don't even understand how to go to work and sit next to how to go to work and sit next to how to go to work and sit next to somebody who has a little sticker for somebody who has a little sticker for somebody who has a little sticker for the for a candidate that I disagree the for a candidate that I disagree the for a candidate that I disagree with um there are more people than you with um there are more people than you with um there are more people than you realize who agree with you when you know realize who agree with you when you know realize who agree with you when you know who agree with this idea that it's too who agree with this idea that it's too who agree with this idea that it's too much it's not healthy it's not how much it's not healthy it's not how much it's not healthy it's not how humans are meant to live uh and that we humans are meant to live uh and that we humans are meant to live uh and that we are not better off for are not better off for are not better off for it we're not better off for it show me it we're not better off for it show me it we're not better off for it show me one objective measure that says we are one objective measure that says we are one objective measure that says we are better off now than we were in the past better off now than we were in the past better off now than we were in the past I I'm talking about Community I I'm talking about Community I I'm talking about Community specifically mental health I'm not specifically mental health I'm not specifically mental health I'm not saying no legislation has been passed saying no legislation has been passed saying no legislation has been passed I'm not saying nothing ever has occurred I'm not saying nothing ever has occurred I'm not saying nothing ever has occurred but if you ask people do you feel more but if you ask people do you feel more but if you ask people do you feel more connected to your community do you feel connected to your community do you feel connected to your community do you feel more a greater sense of belonging do you

  36. more a greater sense of belonging do you more a greater sense of belonging do you feel more beloved do you feel like feel more beloved do you feel like feel more beloved do you feel like you're better able to live out your you're better able to live out your you're better able to live out your mission in life most people would say no mission in life most people would say no mission in life most people would say no the overwhelming majority of people the overwhelming majority of people the overwhelming majority of people would say no we are not better off for would say no we are not better off for would say no we are not better off for living this way so um aside from the living this way so um aside from the living this way so um aside from the fact that the proof of concept is fact that the proof of concept is fact that the proof of concept is beginning to Now sort of show beginning to Now sort of show beginning to Now sort of show itself um I think there's also a a itself um I think there's also a a itself um I think there's also a a higher allegiance that we you know owe higher allegiance that we you know owe higher allegiance that we you know owe not just ourselves but owe uh the world not just ourselves but owe uh the world not just ourselves but owe uh the world and that higher Allegiance um has to be and that higher Allegiance um has to be and that higher Allegiance um has to be um carrying in for our neighbors right um carrying in for our neighbors right um carrying in for our neighbors right and caring for our neighbors does not and caring for our neighbors does not and caring for our neighbors does not involve um making them feel hated involve um making them feel hated involve um making them feel hated unwelcome uh prayed upon you know uh unwelcome uh prayed upon you know uh unwelcome uh prayed upon you know uh that we're victimizing them further that that we're victimizing them further that that we're victimizing them further that they have no no that they can't even they have no no that they can't even they have no no that they can't even live next door to us in peace um even if live next door to us in peace um even if live next door to us in peace um even if we set the money we set the money we set the money aside uh the business model aside we aside uh the business model aside we aside uh the business model aside we have we owe the world a higher have we owe the world a higher have we owe the world a higher allegiance of caring for our neighbors allegiance of caring for our neighbors allegiance of caring for our neighbors um and if we we want to see that change um and if we we want to see that change um and if we we want to see that change we have to make peace with this idea we have to make peace with this idea we have to make peace with this idea that it might cost me money it might that it might cost me money it might that it might cost me money it might cost me followers but I'm unwilling to cost me followers but I'm unwilling to cost me followers but I'm unwilling to be part of the be part of the be part of the problem for one more day that being part problem for one more day that being part problem for one more day that being part of what will you know ultimately prove

  37. of what will you know ultimately prove of what will you know ultimately prove to be the solution or what what is the to be the solution or what what is the to be the solution or what what is the better what is for the better of the better what is for the better of the better what is for the better of the world is more valuable to me than what world is more valuable to me than what world is more valuable to me than what is in my bank account um ultimately that is in my bank account um ultimately that is in my bank account um ultimately that is the decision that we all have to is the decision that we all have to is the decision that we all have to Grapple Grapple Grapple with and that is incredibly encouraging with and that is incredibly encouraging with and that is incredibly encouraging to hear and you think there's a growing to hear and you think there's a growing to hear and you think there's a growing appetite for that sure oh absolutely appetite for that sure oh absolutely appetite for that sure oh absolutely absolutely if you if you look at even absolutely if you if you look at even absolutely if you if you look at even just the polling of the you know recent just the polling of the you know recent just the polling of the you know recent American uh Head to Head matchup in the American uh Head to Head matchup in the American uh Head to Head matchup in the election 80% of Americans did not want election 80% of Americans did not want election 80% of Americans did not want to see um another Trump Biden matchup to see um another Trump Biden matchup to see um another Trump Biden matchup 80% and that doesn't mean that everybody 80% and that doesn't mean that everybody 80% and that doesn't mean that everybody was in the middle and they're like why was in the middle and they're like why was in the middle and they're like why can't we just have you know a candidate can't we just have you know a candidate can't we just have you know a candidate who wants to bake cupcakes that does not who wants to bake cupcakes that does not who wants to bake cupcakes that does not to say that but it demonstrates that to say that but it demonstrates that to say that but it demonstrates that there is not a strong appetite for the there is not a strong appetite for the there is not a strong appetite for the vitriol that occurred and a repeat of vitriol that occurred and a repeat of vitriol that occurred and a repeat of the scenarios that occurred in the last the scenarios that occurred in the last the scenarios that occurred in the last election we don't want to do that again election we don't want to do that again election we don't want to do that again we're done with that like that is not we're done with that like that is not we're done with that like that is not we're not better off having had that we're not better off having had that we're not better off having had that having experienced that we're not better having experienced that we're not better having experienced that we're not better today because of it let's do something today because of it let's do something today because of it let's do something different there's a strong Appetite For different there's a strong Appetite For different there's a strong Appetite For Change yeah and there is now change on Change yeah and there is now change on Change yeah and there is now change on the ballot right it's not going to be a the ballot right it's not going to be a the ballot right it's not going to be a rematch which I think shocked a lot of rematch which I think shocked a lot of rematch which I think shocked a lot of people so here we are so I want you to people so here we are so I want you to people so here we are so I want you to give your best advice to because I think give your best advice to because I think give your best advice to because I think you absolutely nailed it there are a lot you absolutely nailed it there are a lot you absolutely nailed it there are a lot of leaders who are just scared about

  38. of leaders who are just scared about of leaders who are just scared about this fall and it's coming sooner I talk this fall and it's coming sooner I talk this fall and it's coming sooner I talk to a few leaders Who I Really respect to a few leaders Who I Really respect to a few leaders Who I Really respect and they're like I just want to put my and they're like I just want to put my and they're like I just want to put my head down and wake up in December or head down and wake up in December or head down and wake up in December or January or whenever it's all over and I January or whenever it's all over and I January or whenever it's all over and I get that and we've talked about that on get that and we've talked about that on get that and we've talked about that on other episodes in this series but if you other episodes in this series but if you other episodes in this series but if you were leading this fall and you are on were leading this fall and you are on were leading this fall and you are on your platform but if you leading people your platform but if you leading people your platform but if you leading people face to face and we'll focus it on the face to face and we'll focus it on the face to face and we'll focus it on the local church because that's where the local church because that's where the local church because that's where the majority of our listeners uh call home majority of our listeners uh call home majority of our listeners uh call home on the on the on the weekends what are some dos and don'ts in weekends what are some dos and don'ts in weekends what are some dos and don'ts in your mind if if you are giving your best your mind if if you are giving your best your mind if if you are giving your best advice you're the consultant you're advice you're the consultant you're advice you're the consultant you're coming in it's like all right if you coming in it's like all right if you coming in it's like all right if you want to lead optimally in this very want to lead optimally in this very want to lead optimally in this very divisive series here's some things I divisive series here's some things I divisive series here's some things I would do here are some things I would would do here are some things I would would do here are some things I would avoid what's your advice yeah I mean I avoid what's your advice yeah I mean I avoid what's your advice yeah I mean I think the first thing that we have to do think the first thing that we have to do think the first thing that we have to do is acknowledge um acknowledge the is acknowledge um acknowledge the is acknowledge um acknowledge the exhaustion and anxiety of the people exhaustion and anxiety of the people exhaustion and anxiety of the people that we're serving right I think it that we're serving right I think it that we're serving right I think it helps to say listen I know this is helps to say listen I know this is helps to say listen I know this is exhausting I know you probably uh some exhausting I know you probably uh some exhausting I know you probably uh some of you are losing sleep over this you of you are losing sleep over this you of you are losing sleep over this you don't know what's going to happen and don't know what's going to happen and don't know what's going to happen and and frankly I don't know what's going to and frankly I don't know what's going to and frankly I don't know what's going to happen um but here's what I do know to happen um but here's what I do know to happen um but here's what I do know to speak to what you were saying Carrie speak to what you were saying Carrie speak to what you were saying Carrie here's what I do know um no matter what here's what I do know um no matter what here's what I do know um no matter what happens here's here's what we can do no happens here's here's what we can do no happens here's here's what we can do no matter what happens if our preferred matter what happens if our preferred matter what happens if our preferred candidate wins here's what we have candidate wins here's what we have candidate wins here's what we have control over or if our uh less preferred control over or if our uh less preferred control over or if our uh less preferred candidate does not win here's what we candidate does not win here's what we candidate does not win here's what we have control over so I think uh pointing have control over so I think uh pointing have control over so I think uh pointing them to these sort of Northstar them to these sort of Northstar them to these sort of Northstar principles over here is how we should

  39. principles over here is how we should principles over here is how we should conduct ourselves here is what um here conduct ourselves here is what um here conduct ourselves here is what um here is what it looks like to love your is what it looks like to love your is what it looks like to love your neighbor and this is what this is this I neighbor and this is what this is this I neighbor and this is what this is this I would like to see more more uh pastors would like to see more more uh pastors would like to see more more uh pastors addressing this topic Carrie here's my addressing this topic Carrie here's my addressing this topic Carrie here's my I'm not a faith leader I have not been I'm not a faith leader I have not been I'm not a faith leader I have not been to Seminary whatever I I can't so I'm to Seminary whatever I I can't so I'm to Seminary whatever I I can't so I'm not going to tell you how to do it but not going to tell you how to do it but not going to tell you how to do it but here is a topic for you to talk about here is a topic for you to talk about here is a topic for you to talk about with your people um what does it look with your people um what does it look with your people um what does it look like to love your neighbor like to love your neighbor like to love your neighbor because so often online I see people because so often online I see people because so often online I see people saying well I am loving my neighbor by saying well I am loving my neighbor by saying well I am loving my neighbor by telling you that you're fat and ugly telling you that you're fat and ugly telling you that you're fat and ugly because be loving your neighbor means because be loving your neighbor means because be loving your neighbor means telling them the telling them the telling them the truth right like that is the posture of truth right like that is the posture of truth right like that is the posture of many people who have scripture in their many people who have scripture in their many people who have scripture in their bios bios bios truly uh loving your neighbor means truly uh loving your neighbor means truly uh loving your neighbor means telling you the truth and the truth is telling you the truth and the truth is telling you the truth and the truth is you are you are fat and ugly and the you are you are fat and ugly and the you are you are fat and ugly and the equivalent of that political equivalent equivalent of that political equivalent equivalent of that political equivalent of that do you know what I mean it's not of that do you know what I mean it's not of that do you know what I mean it's not it's not necessarily saying in fact you it's not necessarily saying in fact you it's not necessarily saying in fact you are fat and ugly it's the political are fat and ugly it's the political are fat and ugly it's the political equivalent of like I'm telling you the equivalent of like I'm telling you the equivalent of like I'm telling you the truth truth truth um so that is I think an important topic um so that is I think an important topic um so that is I think an important topic to discuss what does love your neighbor to discuss what does love your neighbor to discuss what does love your neighbor look like in the year of Our Lord look like in the year of Our Lord look like in the year of Our Lord 2024 wow uh people do not know the 2024 wow uh people do not know the 2024 wow uh people do not know the answer to that answer to that answer to that question no you're right and you rais question no you're right and you rais question no you're right and you rais something that I've noticed as well that something that I've noticed as well that something that I've noticed as well that you know often if I get a troll or you know often if I get a troll or you know often if I get a troll or someone who really negative and we'

  40. someone who really negative and we' someone who really negative and we' talked about not arguing with trolls on talked about not arguing with trolls on talked about not arguing with trolls on the internet before on this show with the internet before on this show with the internet before on this show with you I click over to the bio and there's you I click over to the bio and there's you I click over to the bio and there's something about God and something about something about God and something about something about God and something about scripture and I'm like come on come on scripture and I'm like come on come on scripture and I'm like come on come on come on come on right can you can you come on come on right can you can you come on come on right can you can you just as as someone who doesn't work in just as as someone who doesn't work in just as as someone who doesn't work in the church dayto day remind us what that the church dayto day remind us what that the church dayto day remind us what that feels like when people see your bio and feels like when people see your bio and feels like when people see your bio and then they see behavior that is then they see behavior that is then they see behavior that is Unbecoming theoretically a Christian MH Unbecoming theoretically a Christian MH Unbecoming theoretically a Christian MH yeah you know this is a very I think a yeah you know this is a very I think a yeah you know this is a very I think a very unfortunate reality that this is very unfortunate reality that this is very unfortunate reality that this is not just my experience that this is the not just my experience that this is the not just my experience that this is the experience of uh a huge number of people experience of uh a huge number of people experience of uh a huge number of people that I know and I know hundreds of that I know and I know hundreds of that I know and I know hundreds of people who have large platforms I know people who have large platforms I know people who have large platforms I know them them them personally they will almost universally personally they will almost universally personally they will almost universally tell you that there is nobody meaner on tell you that there is nobody meaner on tell you that there is nobody meaner on the internet than a a white person with the internet than a a white person with the internet than a a white person with scripture in their scripture in their scripture in their bio that that and I'm not exaggerating bio that that and I'm not exaggerating bio that that and I'm not exaggerating Carrie and I say that without malice I Carrie and I say that without malice I Carrie and I say that without malice I say that without malice that there is say that without malice that there is say that without malice that there is almost nobody meaner than a a a white almost nobody meaner than a a a white almost nobody meaner than a a a white person with with some with a Bible verse person with with some with a Bible verse person with with some with a Bible verse or a reference to Jesus and a cross or a reference to Jesus and a cross or a reference to Jesus and a cross Emoji or something of that nature in Emoji or something of that nature in Emoji or something of that nature in their bio the death threats I get are their bio the death threats I get are their bio the death threats I get are almost exclusively from people with almost exclusively from people with almost exclusively from people with scripture in their bio um the people scripture in their bio um the people scripture in their bio um the people that tell me I should kill myself are that tell me I should kill myself are that tell me I should kill myself are almost exclusively from people with almost exclusively from people with almost exclusively from people with scripture in their bio now does that

  41. scripture in their bio now does that scripture in their bio now does that mean that that is my view of all mean that that is my view of all mean that that is my view of all Christians no uh it's not I don't I Christians no uh it's not I don't I Christians no uh it's not I don't I don't say that that's what all don't say that that's what all don't say that that's what all Christians are like I'm not saying that Christians are like I'm not saying that Christians are like I'm not saying that that is the values they should hold I'm that is the values they should hold I'm that is the values they should hold I'm not I'm not saying that um but I am not I'm not saying that um but I am not I'm not saying that um but I am saying that almost universally this is saying that almost universally this is saying that almost universally this is not my experience this is the experience not my experience this is the experience not my experience this is the experience of more than a hundred people that I of more than a hundred people that I of more than a hundred people that I personally know with large platforms personally know with large platforms personally know with large platforms they will tell you we've had these they will tell you we've had these they will tell you we've had these conversations um they are almost never conversations um they are almost never conversations um they are almost never experiencing um hate at the level uh experiencing um hate at the level uh experiencing um hate at the level uh that they experience it aside from that they experience it aside from that they experience it aside from people who have um some kind people who have um some kind people who have um some kind of Bible or religious reference in their of Bible or religious reference in their of Bible or religious reference in their bio um and it is it's profoundly bio um and it is it's profoundly bio um and it is it's profoundly disturbing and upsetting it really is disturbing and upsetting it really is disturbing and upsetting it really is it's very upsetting to get mail at your it's very upsetting to get mail at your it's very upsetting to get mail at your home um that has uh a picture of your home um that has uh a picture of your home um that has uh a picture of your child's uh school because somebody has child's uh school because somebody has child's uh school because somebody has spent the time figuring out where your spent the time figuring out where your spent the time figuring out where your children go to school and where you live children go to school and where you live children go to school and where you live um despite the fact that you don't ever um despite the fact that you don't ever um despite the fact that you don't ever publicize these things don't even publicize these things don't even publicize these things don't even publicize what your children look like publicize what your children look like publicize what your children look like or what their names are um that somebody or what their names are um that somebody or what their names are um that somebody has uh taken the time to track these has uh taken the time to track these has uh taken the time to track these things down and to let you know that things down and to let you know that things down and to let you know that they're going to uh intimidate you um they're going to uh intimidate you um they're going to uh intimidate you um it's profoundly disturbing to have to it's profoundly disturbing to have to it's profoundly disturbing to have to report to the report to the report to the FBI uh threats against you and your FBI uh threats against you and your FBI uh threats against you and your family and that the threats almost family and that the threats almost family and that the threats almost always come from this specific

  42. always come from this specific always come from this specific demographic we're doing something wrong demographic we're doing something wrong demographic we're doing something wrong when the followers of Christ are some of when the followers of Christ are some of when the followers of Christ are some of the meanest people on the internet we're the meanest people on the internet we're the meanest people on the internet we're doing something wrong right and again I doing something wrong right and again I doing something wrong right and again I say this without any malice Carrie No No say this without any malice Carrie No No say this without any malice Carrie No No Malice in my heart no casting aspersions Malice in my heart no casting aspersions Malice in my heart no casting aspersions on groups at large I am just telling you on groups at large I am just telling you on groups at large I am just telling you from from from experience um what that is experience um what that is experience um what that is like so um I so sorry yeah it's it's like so um I so sorry yeah it's it's like so um I so sorry yeah it's it's it's very upsetting it is really it's very upsetting it is really it's very upsetting it is really upsetting I upsetting I upsetting I mean it's very upsetting it's really mean it's very upsetting it's really mean it's very upsetting it's really upsetting MH do you or your MH do you or your friends have any theories on why that is friends have any theories on why that is friends have any theories on why that is because that is a problem I'm trying to because that is a problem I'm trying to because that is a problem I'm trying to solve and I don't know that I'm making solve and I don't know that I'm making solve and I don't know that I'm making much of a difference but it bothers me much of a difference but it bothers me much of a difference but it bothers me at a visceral level and I would just at a visceral level and I would just at a visceral level and I would just love any insight into why that is and love any insight into why that is and love any insight into why that is and anybody listening to the show knows that anybody listening to the show knows that anybody listening to the show knows that you're not lying that's true I I wish you're not lying that's true I I wish you're not lying that's true I I wish you I was like oh no you missed no you you I was like oh no you missed no you you I was like oh no you missed no you you've nailed it no um and I I hear that you've nailed it no um and I I hear that you've nailed it no um and I I hear that even even even from I know I'm sorry you got me too I I sorry it's not how it should be no no I sorry it's not how it should be no no um well the man we worship theoretically um well the man we worship theoretically um well the man we worship theoretically is the opposite of all of that right is the opposite of all of that right is the opposite of all of that right Sharon he is Sharon he is Sharon he is I'm so

  43. sorry okay we're to pull it together sorry okay we're to pull it together yeah um anyway yes I hear that from even yeah um anyway yes I hear that from even yeah um anyway yes I hear that from even other people who um are openly religious other people who um are openly religious other people who um are openly religious who speak in churches who who speak in churches who who speak in churches who um you know talk about their religious um you know talk about their religious um you know talk about their religious beliefs on their platform that even beliefs on their platform that even beliefs on their platform that even people uh in that space the amount of people uh in that space the amount of people uh in that space the amount of [Music] [Music] [Music] um the amount of hate that they get is um the amount of hate that they get is um the amount of hate that they get is almost exclusively from other almost exclusively from other almost exclusively from other Christians y I think for for a long time Christians y I think for for a long time Christians y I think for for a long time there is sort of this um Christian ethos there is sort of this um Christian ethos there is sort of this um Christian ethos especially in Evangelical spaces that um especially in Evangelical spaces that um especially in Evangelical spaces that um you are like fighting you're fighting you are like fighting you're fighting you are like fighting you're fighting the the the enemy right you're fighting the enemy enemy right you're fighting the enemy enemy right you're fighting the enemy like even the children's Sunday school like even the children's Sunday school like even the children's Sunday school songs are like I'm in the Lord's songs are like I'm in the Lord's songs are like I'm in the Lord's army right do you remember do you army right do you remember do you army right do you remember do you remember that song remember that song remember that song wow yes they do so this this um this wow yes they do so this this um this wow yes they do so this this um this Viewpoint by the way um I've done some Viewpoint by the way um I've done some Viewpoint by the way um I've done some research on this this Viewpoint um research on this this Viewpoint um research on this this Viewpoint um really began to rise to prominence in really began to rise to prominence in really began to rise to prominence in Evangelical Christianity in the Evangelical Christianity in the Evangelical Christianity in the 1950s during the Cold War when there was 1950s during the Cold War when there was 1950s during the Cold War when there was the Godless the Godless the Godless Communists and the yep and the Christian Communists and the yep and the Christian Communists and the yep and the Christian North Amer Americans you know the North Amer Americans you know the North Amer Americans you know the Christian West and the Godless commies Christian West and the Godless commies Christian West and the Godless commies of of the Soviet Union um who you know

  44. of of the Soviet Union um who you know of of the Soviet Union um who you know Stalin did he was actively out there Stalin did he was actively out there Stalin did he was actively out there burning down people's churches because burning down people's churches because burning down people's churches because he wanted to eradicate God from from he wanted to eradicate God from from he wanted to eradicate God from from public life like he legitimately did public life like he legitimately did public life like he legitimately did those things he did yes those things he did yes those things he did yes so this this notion that um there is so this this notion that um there is so this this notion that um there is this uh this uh this uh existential battle that uh it is in existential battle that uh it is in existential battle that uh it is in incumbent upon American North American incumbent upon American North American incumbent upon American North American Christians to fight in the political Christians to fight in the political Christians to fight in the political sphere really began to take root in the sphere really began to take root in the sphere really began to take root in the 1950s during the Cold War interesting I 1950s during the Cold War interesting I 1950s during the Cold War interesting I wouldn't have put it back that far yes wouldn't have put it back that far yes wouldn't have put it back that far yes yep um and then you know that it has yep um and then you know that it has yep um and then you know that it has just morphed of course it's morphed as just morphed of course it's morphed as just morphed of course it's morphed as politics have changed as world leaders politics have changed as world leaders politics have changed as world leaders have changed as circumstances have have changed as circumstances have have changed as circumstances have changed uh the this ideology has changed changed uh the this ideology has changed changed uh the this ideology has changed slightly um but this idea that slightly um but this idea that slightly um but this idea that um uh politics are a matter of good um uh politics are a matter of good um uh politics are a matter of good versus evil actually does go back in versus evil actually does go back in versus evil actually does go back in certain areas to the Cold War so now certain areas to the Cold War so now certain areas to the Cold War so now we're just taking this I'm in the Lord's we're just taking this I'm in the Lord's we're just taking this I'm in the Lord's army army army Viewpoint um and we have we've decided Viewpoint um and we have we've decided Viewpoint um and we have we've decided that our enemies are not you know some that our enemies are not you know some that our enemies are not you know some nuclear power on the other side of the nuclear power on the other side of the nuclear power on the other side of the world um but that they are other people world um but that they are other people world um but that they are other people on the internet the other people on the on the internet the other people on the on the internet the other people on the internet that it is incumbent upon us to internet that it is incumbent upon us to internet that it is incumbent upon us to to defeat and whether or not we are to defeat and whether or not we are to defeat and whether or not we are aware that that is the um that that's

  45. aware that that is the um that that's aware that that is the um that that's the decision that we're making I do the decision that we're making I do the decision that we're making I do think some of the mindset goes back as think some of the mindset goes back as think some of the mindset goes back as goes back that far and then we're taught goes back that far and then we're taught goes back that far and then we're taught that mindset by our parents and that mindset by our parents and that mindset by our parents and grandparents and it's uh and again for grandparents and it's uh and again for grandparents and it's uh and again for all the other reasons we've just all the other reasons we've just all the other reasons we've just discussed it we get a reward when we do discussed it we get a reward when we do discussed it we get a reward when we do that thing when we uh act that way when that thing when we uh act that way when that thing when we uh act that way when we say those things when we insult we say those things when we insult we say those things when we insult somebody we get a we get a reward in our somebody we get a we get a reward in our somebody we get a we get a reward in our mind of you know like why we want to mind of you know like why we want to mind of you know like why we want to continue acting that way so I I think continue acting that way so I I think continue acting that way so I I think some of it has to goes back that far but some of it has to goes back that far but some of it has to goes back that far but but this idea but this idea but this idea even that in politics there is a um a even that in politics there is a um a even that in politics there is a um a side of God and a side that is not God's side of God and a side that is not God's side of God and a side that is not God's side you can see even going back to the side you can see even going back to the side you can see even going back to the Civil War um when um Abraham Lincoln was Civil War um when um Abraham Lincoln was Civil War um when um Abraham Lincoln was having a conversation with one of his uh having a conversation with one of his uh having a conversation with one of his uh advisers and his advisor advisers and his advisor advisers and his advisor said let's pray that God's on our said let's pray that God's on our said let's pray that God's on our side and um Abraham Lincoln said no side and um Abraham Lincoln said no side and um Abraham Lincoln said no let's pray that we're on God's side and this so it's a different sort side and this so it's a different sort of heart posture right that God's on my side that should not be the your side that should not be the your viewpoint God's not the idea of like viewpoint God's not the idea of like viewpoint God's not the idea of like God's on my side politically mm and I God's on my side politically mm and I God's on my side politically mm and I think we've gotten away from think we've gotten away from think we've gotten away from that when you're building your platform

  46. that when you're building your platform that when you're building your platform which tends to be neutral politically which tends to be neutral politically which tends to be neutral politically you call out both sides when you see you call out both sides when you see you call out both sides when you see truth or lies or or I should say lies or truth or lies or or I should say lies or truth or lies or or I should say lies or misinformation misinformation misinformation Etc um I think you're right the majority Etc um I think you're right the majority Etc um I think you're right the majority of people listening to this podcast want of people listening to this podcast want of people listening to this podcast want to land in that space they're afraid to land in that space they're afraid to land in that space they're afraid they're gunshot die they've tried to they're gunshot die they've tried to they're gunshot die they've tried to make a difference they got their hands make a difference they got their hands make a difference they got their hands slapped some of them got fired some of slapped some of them got fired some of slapped some of them got fired some of them just got too many angry emails too them just got too many angry emails too them just got too many angry emails too many all cap texts and just said okay many all cap texts and just said okay many all cap texts and just said okay maybe it's just easier to do nothing maybe it's just easier to do nothing maybe it's just easier to do nothing you're not doing nothing if you give you're not doing nothing if you give you're not doing nothing if you give them a final word of them a final word of them a final word of encouragement that it's like hey if you encouragement that it's like hey if you encouragement that it's like hey if you just pay attention to this or to this just pay attention to this or to this just pay attention to this or to this this fall you're going to help some this fall you're going to help some this fall you're going to help some people any final word for them I have people any final word for them I have people any final word for them I have two things one is um the first one is two things one is um the first one is two things one is um the first one is this idea that uh we should we should this idea that uh we should we should this idea that uh we should we should focus on doing for one person what we focus on doing for one person what we focus on doing for one person what we wish we could do for everybody right if wish we could do for everybody right if wish we could do for everybody right if I can uh eliminate a hungry one hungry I can uh eliminate a hungry one hungry I can uh eliminate a hungry one hungry belly then I'm going to do that even if belly then I'm going to do that even if belly then I'm going to do that even if it means not creating systemic change on it means not creating systemic change on it means not creating systemic change on world hunger this world hunger this world hunger this afternoon um that we should not grow afternoon um that we should not grow afternoon um that we should not grow weary in doing good even if it seems weary in doing good even if it seems weary in doing good even if it seems like what difference is it making like what difference is it making like what difference is it making everybody's mad at me um that's the everybody's mad at me um that's the everybody's mad at me um that's the first thing is we can't grow weary in first thing is we can't grow weary in first thing is we can't grow weary in doing good and so we should focus as doing good and so we should focus as doing good and so we should focus as much as we're able of course to make as much as we're able of course to make as much as we're able of course to make as much change as we can but sometimes that much change as we can but sometimes that much change as we can but sometimes that means doing one thing for one person

  47. means doing one thing for one person means doing one thing for one person buying school supplies for one kid uh buying school supplies for one kid uh buying school supplies for one kid uh instead of um you know uh letting the instead of um you know uh letting the instead of um you know uh letting the world's problems overwhelm us into world's problems overwhelm us into world's problems overwhelm us into inaction and overwhelm us into a state inaction and overwhelm us into a state inaction and overwhelm us into a state of like exhaustion and and uh feeling of like exhaustion and and uh feeling of like exhaustion and and uh feeling like nothing I do will ever be like nothing I do will ever be like nothing I do will ever be meaningful we get overwhelmed into a meaningful we get overwhelmed into a meaningful we get overwhelmed into a state of state of state of um where we just feel uh paral paralyzed um where we just feel uh paral paralyzed um where we just feel uh paral paralyzed we feel Paralyzed by the size of the we feel Paralyzed by the size of the we feel Paralyzed by the size of the world's problems uh and we so we we world's problems uh and we so we we world's problems uh and we so we we allow that paralysis to just keep us allow that paralysis to just keep us allow that paralysis to just keep us keep us inert and we don't move we don't keep us inert and we don't move we don't keep us inert and we don't move we don't do anything that we don't feel it we do anything that we don't feel it we do anything that we don't feel it we feel like it's not going to make a feel like it's not going to make a feel like it's not going to make a difference so never mind that's the difference so never mind that's the difference so never mind that's the first thing and then the other thing first thing and then the other thing first thing and then the other thing that I myself of during difficult times that I myself of during difficult times that I myself of during difficult times um and I am very well aware that this um and I am very well aware that this um and I am very well aware that this fall is going to be a difficult time for fall is going to be a difficult time for fall is going to be a difficult time for myself and also for everybody listening myself and also for everybody listening myself and also for everybody listening to this I don't think there's a single to this I don't think there's a single to this I don't think there's a single person who's going to be like it's all person who's going to be like it's all person who's going to be like it's all it's going to be all you know cotton it's going to be all you know cotton it's going to be all you know cotton candy and unicorns nobody thinks that candy and unicorns nobody thinks that candy and unicorns nobody thinks that right so the thing that I constantly right so the thing that I constantly right so the thing that I constantly remind myself and sometimes I've have remind myself and sometimes I've have remind myself and sometimes I've have gone so far as to like put it on a gone so far as to like put it on a gone so far as to like put it on a Post-It note and put it on my mirror cuz Post-It note and put it on my mirror cuz Post-It note and put it on my mirror cuz I need I need it more than ever which is I need I need it more than ever which is I need I need it more than ever which is that um if they can't keep you from that um if they can't keep you from that um if they can't keep you from doing it they will try to keep you from doing it they will try to keep you from doing it they will try to keep you from enjoying enjoying enjoying it and if you stop enjoying it you will it and if you stop enjoying it you will it and if you stop enjoying it you will want to give want to give want to give up up up wow wow

  48. wow wow wow wow so I repeat to myself I refuse to let so I repeat to myself I refuse to let so I repeat to myself I refuse to let you steal the Joy from my important you steal the Joy from my important you steal the Joy from my important work because we all have important work work because we all have important work work because we all have important work for some of us our important work is for some of us our important work is for some of us our important work is like teaching our 2-year-old how to like teaching our 2-year-old how to like teaching our 2-year-old how to stack blocks right like that's your stack blocks right like that's your stack blocks right like that's your important work at this moment other important work at this moment other important work at this moment other people are leading mega churches other people are leading mega churches other people are leading mega churches other people are getting elected president people are getting elected president people are getting elected president some people are CEOs we all have some people are CEOs we all have some people are CEOs we all have important work and that important work important work and that important work important work and that important work will change throughout our lifetime what will change throughout our lifetime what will change throughout our lifetime what we're meant to do in that moment will'll we're meant to do in that moment will'll we're meant to do in that moment will'll change throughout our lifetimes um but change throughout our lifetimes um but change throughout our lifetimes um but nevertheless we all have important work nevertheless we all have important work nevertheless we all have important work to do both from a um professional to do both from a um professional to do both from a um professional standpoint but also from uh from other standpoint but also from uh from other standpoint but also from uh from other standpoints from a spiritual standpoint standpoints from a spiritual standpoint standpoints from a spiritual standpoint or a personal standpoint important to do or a personal standpoint important to do or a personal standpoint important to do uh and so I refuse to allow people to uh and so I refuse to allow people to uh and so I refuse to allow people to steal the Joy from my important steal the Joy from my important steal the Joy from my important work because you're not going to stop me work because you're not going to stop me work because you're not going to stop me from doing it and I'm not GNA let you from doing it and I'm not GNA let you from doing it and I'm not GNA let you just I'm not gonna let you stop me from just I'm not gonna let you stop me from just I'm not gonna let you stop me from in from feeling the joy of my important in from feeling the joy of my important in from feeling the joy of my important work well you are doing really important work well you are doing really important work well you are doing really important work and I know for myself and for work and I know for myself and for work and I know for myself and for millions of other people you become uh a millions of other people you become uh a millions of other people you become uh a bright light thank you trying to bright light thank you trying to bright light thank you trying to move in a in a way that brings Harmony move in a in a way that brings Harmony move in a in a way that brings Harmony and hope in a very divided time thank and hope in a very divided time thank and hope in a very divided time thank you so in the same way Jonathan height you so in the same way Jonathan height you so in the same way Jonathan height who you mentioned earlier I think really who you mentioned earlier I think really who you mentioned earlier I think really is reframing the debate on what we do is reframing the debate on what we do is reframing the debate on what we do about technology in the Next Generation

  49. about technology in the Next Generation about technology in the Next Generation I think there's going to be real change I think there's going to be real change I think there's going to be real change as a result of his work I wish you all as a result of his work I wish you all as a result of his work I wish you all of that in your work and I pray for the of that in your work and I pray for the of that in your work and I pray for the day of real change maybe it's begun um day of real change maybe it's begun um day of real change maybe it's begun um you have a book coming out you want to you have a book coming out you want to you have a book coming out you want to tell us a little bit about it that's tell us a little bit about it that's tell us a little bit about it that's exciting it is I've been working on it exciting it is I've been working on it exciting it is I've been working on it for three for three for three years um that's how books go yes did not years um that's how books go yes did not years um that's how books go yes did not just type this up in my basement one just type this up in my basement one just type this up in my basement one evening um it's called the small and the evening um it's called the small and the evening um it's called the small and the mighty uh 12 unsung Americans who mighty uh 12 unsung Americans who mighty uh 12 unsung Americans who changed the course of history and to me changed the course of history and to me changed the course of history and to me it is just uh a love song to the little it is just uh a love song to the little it is just uh a love song to the little guy right that uh so often we feel small guy right that uh so often we feel small guy right that uh so often we feel small and Powerless and uh like nothing we do and Powerless and uh like nothing we do and Powerless and uh like nothing we do matters and like I don't see any change matters and like I don't see any change matters and like I don't see any change as a result of me getting up today right as a result of me getting up today right as a result of me getting up today right like what what has improved in the world like what what has improved in the world like what what has improved in the world nothing so often we allow ourselves to nothing so often we allow ourselves to nothing so often we allow ourselves to be to believe that lie that that what we be to believe that lie that that what we be to believe that lie that that what we do doesn't matter uh and these are do doesn't matter uh and these are do doesn't matter uh and these are people who demonstrate the opposite people who demonstrate the opposite people who demonstrate the opposite these are not these are not the titans these are not these are not the titans these are not these are not the titans of Industry these are not the PE the of Industry these are not the PE the of Industry these are not the PE the people with the steel mills and the people with the steel mills and the people with the steel mills and the banks uh these are the teachers and the banks uh these are the teachers and the banks uh these are the teachers and the you know the people who work at the post you know the people who work at the post you know the people who work at the post office and you but yet who did something office and you but yet who did something office and you but yet who did something incredibly consequential whether they incredibly consequential whether they incredibly consequential whether they even realized what they were doing uh at even realized what they were doing uh at even realized what they were doing uh at that moment or not so I appreciate it that moment or not so I appreciate it that moment or not so I appreciate it I'm excited for it thank you well and I'm excited for it thank you well and I'm excited for it thank you well and thank you for all that you're doing so

  50. thank you for all that you're doing so thank you for all that you're doing so we'll look for the book and then um we'll look for the book and then um we'll look for the book and then um easiest place to track with you where easiest place to track with you where easiest place to track with you where you most active on social would you you most active on social would you you most active on social would you direct Instagram Sharon says so but you direct Instagram Sharon says so but you direct Instagram Sharon says so but you can also find my newsletter the can also find my newsletter the can also find my newsletter the visit my website Sharon mcm.com and visit my website Sharon mcm.com and visit my website Sharon mcm.com and everything like podcasts Etc are all everything like podcasts Etc are all everything like podcasts Etc are all linked there well thank you for uh uh linked there well thank you for uh uh linked there well thank you for uh uh surprisingly emotional but really really surprisingly emotional but really really surprisingly emotional but really really powerful conversation thank you for the powerful conversation thank you for the powerful conversation thank you for the work you're doing thanks for not letting work you're doing thanks for not letting work you're doing thanks for not letting the bullies grind you down and thank you the bullies grind you down and thank you the bullies grind you down and thank you for not letting them steal your joy for not letting them steal your joy for not letting them steal your joy thanks Carrie I appreciate appreciate thanks Carrie I appreciate appreciate thanks Carrie I appreciate appreciate you and I appreciate everything you're you and I appreciate everything you're you and I appreciate everything you're doing it's great to talk to you again

Summary

This podcast episode discusses pastoring in a partisan age, highlighting the monetization of hate and the harsh online environment, particularly referencing those who use scripture in their bio. The takeaway is a practical encouragement to connect with Compassion and explore their new Glue Plus Membership to impact the world.

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