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What Susan Does August 28, 2026 1h 25m

I Left To Go Travel - What Do My Friends Think?

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  1. and I am here with my very good dear old and I am here with my very good dear old friend Marcy. friend Marcy. friend Marcy. >> Hi. >> Hi. >> Hi. >> Hi. And we wanted to jump on a live >> Hi. And we wanted to jump on a live >> Hi. And we wanted to jump on a live today because I had a lot of questions today because I had a lot of questions today because I had a lot of questions leaving Vietnam with people saying, leaving Vietnam with people saying, leaving Vietnam with people saying, "What's it like in Santa Monica? What is "What's it like in Santa Monica? What is "What's it like in Santa Monica? What is it like to go home? What's it like to it like to go home? What's it like to it like to go home? What's it like to see your friends when you're home that see your friends when you're home that see your friends when you're home that you haven't seen for six months or you you haven't seen for six months or you you haven't seen for six months or you haven't seen for a year?" And so Marcy haven't seen for a year?" And so Marcy haven't seen for a year?" And so Marcy agreed to jump on this live with me. And agreed to jump on this live with me. And agreed to jump on this live with me. And one of the things we wanted to talk one of the things we wanted to talk one of the things we wanted to talk about also is what does it feel like to about also is what does it feel like to about also is what does it feel like to be the friend of somebody who's be the friend of somebody who's be the friend of somebody who's traveling like I do and I might leave traveling like I do and I might leave traveling like I do and I might leave for six months, leave for a year, come for six months, leave for a year, come for six months, leave for a year, come back for a few weeks, leave again for back for a few weeks, leave again for back for a few weeks, leave again for another year, and what all that feels another year, and what all that feels another year, and what all that feels like. So thanks for joining us today. If like. So thanks for joining us today. If like. So thanks for joining us today. If you can just let us know where you are you can just let us know where you are you can just let us know where you are joining in from and if you have joining in from and if you have joining in from and if you have questions for us, we'd love to hear questions for us, we'd love to hear questions for us, we'd love to hear them. We are currently in Santa Monica them. We are currently in Santa Monica them. We are currently in Santa Monica and we are at a rooftop. What floor are and we are at a rooftop. What floor are and we are at a rooftop. What floor are we on? we on? we on? >> Like 19th >> Like 19th >> Like 19th >> 19th floor of the like group community >> 19th floor of the like group community >> 19th floor of the like group community room. We're we're looking out right now room. We're we're looking out right now room. We're we're looking out right now at the uh at the ocean which is just at the uh at the ocean which is just at the uh at the ocean which is just gorgeous. We'll hit sunset in about an gorgeous. We'll hit sunset in about an gorgeous. We'll hit sunset in about an hour. And so let me introduce Marcy a hour. And so let me introduce Marcy a hour. And so let me introduce Marcy a bit. I have known Marcy very good dear bit. I have known Marcy very good dear bit. I have known Marcy very good dear friend for probably 15 years. Marcy has friend for probably 15 years. Marcy has friend for probably 15 years. Marcy has three kids.

  2. three kids. three kids. >> Your oldest is 20 27, a 25year-old and a >> Your oldest is 20 27, a 25year-old and a >> Your oldest is 20 27, a 25year-old and a 15y old. 15y old. 15y old. >> Almost 16. Yeah. >> Almost 16. Yeah. >> Almost 16. Yeah. >> Almost 16. So we live we've always lived >> Almost 16. So we live we've always lived >> Almost 16. So we live we've always lived close by with each other and belong to close by with each other and belong to close by with each other and belong to like the same girls group. Mhm. like the same girls group. Mhm. like the same girls group. Mhm. >> And so when you're in proximity with >> And so when you're in proximity with >> And so when you're in proximity with friends like here, like we both are in friends like here, like we both are in friends like here, like we both are in Santa Monica, you just start doing life Santa Monica, you just start doing life Santa Monica, you just start doing life together. So you're going to birthday together. So you're going to birthday together. So you're going to birthday parties and weekends and gettogethers parties and weekends and gettogethers parties and weekends and gettogethers and we went on vacation down to Mexico and we went on vacation down to Mexico and we went on vacation down to Mexico for our friend's birthday and you're for our friend's birthday and you're for our friend's birthday and you're integrated in each other's lives and you integrated in each other's lives and you integrated in each other's lives and you get to know each other like all friends get to know each other like all friends get to know each other like all friends do really really well and you know their do really really well and you know their do really really well and you know their quirks, you have their laughs, um the quirks, you have their laughs, um the quirks, you have their laughs, um the whole the whole nine yards. And then I whole the whole nine yards. And then I whole the whole nine yards. And then I started I left my corporate career job started I left my corporate career job started I left my corporate career job in software and oh from San Jose, in software and oh from San Jose, in software and oh from San Jose, California. Hi, thanks for joining. California. Hi, thanks for joining. California. Hi, thanks for joining. >> I was born there. [laughter] >> I was born there. [laughter] >> I was born there. [laughter] >> And um and so I started traveling and >> And um and so I started traveling and >> And um and so I started traveling and then so I'll be gone and in in this case then so I'll be gone and in in this case then so I'll be gone and in in this case I have been living in in Vietnam.

  3. I have been living in in Vietnam. I have been living in in Vietnam. February will be three years and I come February will be three years and I come February will be three years and I come home at least once a year for a month. home at least once a year for a month. home at least once a year for a month. home being home here to California and I home being home here to California and I home being home here to California and I was just back here six months ago for was just back here six months ago for was just back here six months ago for about three weeks. Um, so I want to about three weeks. Um, so I want to about three weeks. Um, so I want to share a little bit for me what it's like share a little bit for me what it's like share a little bit for me what it's like when I come back. It's it's so when I come back. It's it's so when I come back. It's it's so interesting because I have from being interesting because I have from being interesting because I have from being staying in the same place for that staying in the same place for that staying in the same place for that period of time. It's a little bit period of time. It's a little bit period of time. It's a little bit different than when you're traveling and different than when you're traveling and different than when you're traveling and you're moving around a lot. And when you're moving around a lot. And when you're moving around a lot. And when you're moving around a lot, there's you're moving around a lot, there's you're moving around a lot, there's people that you see and you interact people that you see and you interact people that you see and you interact with and you run into in multiple with and you run into in multiple with and you run into in multiple places. Once you more settle, then you places. Once you more settle, then you places. Once you more settle, then you start to develop your core friends start to develop your core friends start to develop your core friends because there you're all doing life because there you're all doing life because there you're all doing life together and you're celebrating together and you're celebrating together and you're celebrating birthdays and you're having going away birthdays and you're having going away birthdays and you're having going away parties and coming back parties and parties and coming back parties and parties and coming back parties and you're just in you're figuring things you're just in you're figuring things you're just in you're figuring things you're figuring things out together like you're figuring things out together like you're figuring things out together like you do when you're in close proximity. you do when you're in close proximity. you do when you're in close proximity. And And And and so it's so interesting for me to and so it's so interesting for me to and so it's so interesting for me to then come back and right away Marcy's then come back and right away Marcy's then come back and right away Marcy's like, "Okay, I'm coming over." And she like, "Okay, I'm coming over." And she like, "Okay, I'm coming over." And she comes over. And we catch up for a few comes over. And we catch up for a few comes over. And we catch up for a few hours. And for me personally, hours. And for me personally, hours. And for me personally, very quickly, it feels like no time has very quickly, it feels like no time has very quickly, it feels like no time has passed at all. And we're instantly right passed at all. And we're instantly right passed at all. And we're instantly right back where we were, as if I was here the back where we were, as if I was here the back where we were, as if I was here the the last few years. and we're laughing the last few years. and we're laughing the last few years. and we're laughing about things, catching up on friends, about things, catching up on friends, about things, catching up on friends, walking around, not needing to catch up walking around, not needing to catch up walking around, not needing to catch up so much, but just kind of jumping so much, but just kind of jumping so much, but just kind of jumping jumping right back in where we were.

  4. jumping right back in where we were. jumping right back in where we were. >> Except for the moment we first see each >> Except for the moment we first see each >> Except for the moment we first see each other. other. other. >> When we first saw each other on the >> When we first saw each other on the >> When we first saw each other on the street this time, I went running and street this time, I went running and street this time, I went running and flailing towards her and I'm like, flailing towards her and I'm like, flailing towards her and I'm like, Susan, Susan, Susan, you get really excited because it's been you get really excited because it's been you get really excited because it's been a while, but the moment you're together, a while, but the moment you're together, a while, but the moment you're together, it's like it hasn't been a while. Like, it's like it hasn't been a while. Like, it's like it hasn't been a while. Like, it's such a strange dichotomy of that it's such a strange dichotomy of that it's such a strange dichotomy of that that that that >> Yeah, that's a really good point. And it >> Yeah, that's a really good point. And it >> Yeah, that's a really good point. And it kind of makes it fun to leave and come kind of makes it fun to leave and come kind of makes it fun to leave and come back because you have that like I back because you have that like I back because you have that like I haven't seen you forever and you run and haven't seen you forever and you run and haven't seen you forever and you run and wave your hands in the air and jump wave your hands in the air and jump wave your hands in the air and jump around and hug and you make getting around and hug and you make getting around and hug and you make getting together a priority. You're really happy together a priority. You're really happy together a priority. You're really happy to see the person to see the person to see the person >> and then >> and then >> and then >> and from my perspective because I don't >> and from my perspective because I don't >> and from my perspective because I don't see her um we keep in touch a little bit see her um we keep in touch a little bit see her um we keep in touch a little bit over WhatsApp but I'm busy. I've got over WhatsApp but I'm busy. I've got over WhatsApp but I'm busy. I've got three kids and when she comes back it is three kids and when she comes back it is three kids and when she comes back it is it's very similar to her perspective it's very similar to her perspective it's very similar to her perspective where it does not seem like time has where it does not seem like time has where it does not seem like time has passed. Um, it's so fun to hear the passed. Um, it's so fun to hear the passed. Um, it's so fun to hear the stories and, you know, where Susan's stories and, you know, where Susan's stories and, you know, where Susan's been traveling and what she's been been traveling and what she's been been traveling and what she's been doing. But at the same time, I don't doing. But at the same time, I don't doing. But at the same time, I don't feel like I've missed out living half feel like I've missed out living half feel like I've missed out living half half the world apart from one another half the world apart from one another half the world apart from one another just because you have that foundation just because you have that foundation just because you have that foundation that you've already built for many that you've already built for many that you've already built for many years. And it's like it's it's as if years. And it's like it's it's as if years. And it's like it's it's as if time hasn't passed. I don't know if that time hasn't passed. I don't know if that time hasn't passed. I don't know if that is as we get older or what it is, but is as we get older or what it is, but is as we get older or what it is, but it's I could care less that she's been it's I could care less that she's been it's I could care less that she's been gone all that time once you're back gone all that time once you're back gone all that time once you're back together because it's like it's it's together because it's like it's it's together because it's like it's it's amazing to be back together.

  5. amazing to be back together. amazing to be back together. >> Yeah. You know, something I just thought >> Yeah. You know, something I just thought >> Yeah. You know, something I just thought of is that when you have newer friends, of is that when you have newer friends, of is that when you have newer friends, when you've moved, they're the friends when you've moved, they're the friends when you've moved, they're the friends you see more dayto-day, you see more dayto-day, you see more dayto-day, but the thing that's um that's missing but the thing that's um that's missing but the thing that's um that's missing when you have the newer friends that are when you have the newer friends that are when you have the newer friends that are new, meaning like a year or two years, new, meaning like a year or two years, new, meaning like a year or two years, is they don't have all the history. is they don't have all the history. is they don't have all the history. and like the family dynamics, the ups, and like the family dynamics, the ups, and like the family dynamics, the ups, the downs, the personalities, all the the downs, the personalities, all the the downs, the personalities, all the things that like Marcy knows about me. things that like Marcy knows about me. things that like Marcy knows about me. So, she and I can get together after not So, she and I can get together after not So, she and I can get together after not having been together for a year and I having been together for a year and I having been together for a year and I can jump right into a a story and she's can jump right into a a story and she's can jump right into a a story and she's tracking right away because she knows tracking right away because she knows tracking right away because she knows all the players and she knows me really all the players and she knows me really all the players and she knows me really well and she knows my family members well and she knows my family members well and she knows my family members really well and there's such a source of really well and there's such a source of really well and there's such a source of comfort and ease with having that. I comfort and ease with having that. I comfort and ease with having that. I think it doesn't it doesn't ever go go think it doesn't it doesn't ever go go think it doesn't it doesn't ever go go away. So you you can jump right back in. away. So you you can jump right back in. away. So you you can jump right back in. And I was thinking about it a little bit And I was thinking about it a little bit And I was thinking about it a little bit more today also that I think when you more today also that I think when you more today also that I think when you become an adult, you don't necessarily become an adult, you don't necessarily become an adult, you don't necessarily see your friends that frequently like see your friends that frequently like see your friends that frequently like you're busy with your work and with your you're busy with your work and with your you're busy with your work and with your kids.

  6. kids. kids. So whether we got together say once in a So whether we got together say once in a So whether we got together say once in a month or once in six months or once in a month or once in six months or once in a month or once in six months or once in a year, it's not drastically different. year, it's not drastically different. year, it's not drastically different. >> No, it's not. [laughter] >> No, it's not. [laughter] >> No, it's not. [laughter] I don't know if that but oddly I don't I don't know if that but oddly I don't I don't know if that but oddly I don't know how often other friends get know how often other friends get know how often other friends get together but together but together but >> no oddly it's not it it doesn't feel >> no oddly it's not it it doesn't feel >> no oddly it's not it it doesn't feel it doesn't feel like you're gone as long it doesn't feel like you're gone as long it doesn't feel like you're gone as long like I last saw Susan in February when like I last saw Susan in February when like I last saw Susan in February when you were here last and you were here last and you were here last and it doesn't seem like it's been that it doesn't seem like it's been that it doesn't seem like it's been that long. long. long. >> Did you go to Thailand after that? >> Did you go to Thailand after that? >> Did you go to Thailand after that? >> Uh no we were in Thailand last a year >> Uh no we were in Thailand last a year >> Uh no we were in Thailand last a year ago. ago. ago. >> A year ago. Okay. So then it was six >> A year ago. Okay. So then it was six >> A year ago. Okay. So then it was six months before that that I saw her and months before that that I saw her and months before that that I saw her and then you went to Thailand pretty quickly then you went to Thailand pretty quickly then you went to Thailand pretty quickly after that. after that. after that. >> Yes. >> Yes. >> Yes. >> Okay. >> Okay. >> Okay. Let's see. I'm just gonna check real Let's see. I'm just gonna check real Let's see. I'm just gonna check real quickly to see if we have any quickly to see if we have any quickly to see if we have any questions here on the screen. questions here on the screen. questions here on the screen. Hello Susan, Marcy, and everyone Hello Susan, Marcy, and everyone Hello Susan, Marcy, and everyone watching from Houston, Texas. Hello. watching from Houston, Texas. Hello. watching from Houston, Texas. Hello. Glad that you're here. Hello. Hello. So Glad that you're here. Hello. Hello. So Glad that you're here. Hello. Hello. So what we're talking about right now is what we're talking about right now is what we're talking about right now is relationship.

  7. relationship. relationship. A concern that people have when they're A concern that people have when they're A concern that people have when they're considering doing long-term travel, considering doing long-term travel, considering doing long-term travel, whether it's slow travel, fast travel, whether it's slow travel, fast travel, whether it's slow travel, fast travel, or moving abroad and then coming back to or moving abroad and then coming back to or moving abroad and then coming back to visit the States, is what happens with visit the States, is what happens with visit the States, is what happens with their relationships at home with family their relationships at home with family their relationships at home with family members and with friends. So, Marcy's members and with friends. So, Marcy's members and with friends. So, Marcy's joining me today, and we're just talking joining me today, and we're just talking joining me today, and we're just talking through what what that feels like through what what that feels like through what what that feels like because it sounds so drastic, I think, because it sounds so drastic, I think, because it sounds so drastic, I think, if someone says, "Oh, I'm moving if someone says, "Oh, I'm moving if someone says, "Oh, I'm moving abroad." Um, like abroad." Um, like abroad." Um, like >> when you said it, we all thought you >> when you said it, we all thought you >> when you said it, we all thought you were crazy. We're like, how's she going were crazy. We're like, how's she going were crazy. We're like, how's she going to meet people? Like, how's she going to to meet people? Like, how's she going to to meet people? Like, how's she going to do this? And little did we know how much do this? And little did we know how much do this? And little did we know how much you'd fall in love with being out of the you'd fall in love with being out of the you'd fall in love with being out of the country, all the new people that you country, all the new people that you country, all the new people that you would meet. And would meet. And would meet. And >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> And the lifestyle that would become your >> And the lifestyle that would become your >> And the lifestyle that would become your life. life. life. >> Yeah. And when I hear somebody's moving >> Yeah. And when I hear somebody's moving >> Yeah. And when I hear somebody's moving abroad, it just sounds like you're never abroad, it just sounds like you're never abroad, it just sounds like you're never going to see them again. Like they're going to see them again. Like they're going to see them again. Like they're going to space and they're going to the going to space and they're going to the going to space and they're going to the moon. But the reality is it's a plane moon. But the reality is it's a plane moon. But the reality is it's a plane ride away. And it's a long plane ride, ride away. And it's a long plane ride, ride away. And it's a long plane ride, but I'm back once or twice a year. And but I'm back once or twice a year. And but I'm back once or twice a year. And there's also now that's different than there's also now that's different than there's also now that's different than when I first started traveling is when I first started traveling is when I first started traveling is FaceTime and Zoom calls and WhatsApp and FaceTime and Zoom calls and WhatsApp and FaceTime and Zoom calls and WhatsApp and voice messages. When I first started voice messages. When I first started voice messages. When I first started traveling, we would go find an internet traveling, we would go find an internet traveling, we would go find an internet cafe, cafe, cafe, >> pay by the hour, >> pay by the hour, >> pay by the hour, >> and type an email to our family. And >> and type an email to our family. And >> and type an email to our family. And otherwise, our family had no idea like otherwise, our family had no idea like otherwise, our family had no idea like nothing nothing nothing >> where you were or what you were doing.

  8. >> where you were or what you were doing. >> where you were or what you were doing. >> No phone calls, no FaceTime, no nothing. >> No phone calls, no FaceTime, no nothing. >> No phone calls, no FaceTime, no nothing. No location tracking. So, [laughter] No location tracking. So, [laughter] No location tracking. So, [laughter] it just I think it just you don't feel it just I think it just you don't feel it just I think it just you don't feel that that far away. I met some people that that far away. I met some people that that far away. I met some people that said that they they said, "Yeah, I that said that they they said, "Yeah, I that said that they they said, "Yeah, I talk with my parents every day." They talk with my parents every day." They talk with my parents every day." They go, "I kind of wish it was back in the go, "I kind of wish it was back in the go, "I kind of wish it was back in the old like I wish I was more removed, you old like I wish I was more removed, you old like I wish I was more removed, you know?" Um know?" Um know?" Um Yeah. Any any other thoughts on like Yeah. Any any other thoughts on like Yeah. Any any other thoughts on like friendship and how that feels? No, I friendship and how that feels? No, I friendship and how that feels? No, I think that think that think that >> I would >> I would >> I would I would not be as cautious as I would I would not be as cautious as I would I would not be as cautious as I would have prior to knowing somebody who has have prior to knowing somebody who has have prior to knowing somebody who has done what you've done. done what you've done. done what you've done. >> Prior, I would have been >> Prior, I would have been >> Prior, I would have been >> really concerned about relationships, >> really concerned about relationships, >> really concerned about relationships, but it just seems like you can still but it just seems like you can still but it just seems like you can still keep those relationships that you've keep those relationships that you've keep those relationships that you've already built. already built. already built. >> If they're true friendships, they still >> If they're true friendships, they still >> If they're true friendships, they still want to the moment you're back, it's want to the moment you're back, it's want to the moment you're back, it's like they want to run to you. Like like they want to run to you. Like like they want to run to you. Like literally run. literally run. literally run. >> Yeah. [laughter] Yeah. you know. So, and >> Yeah. [laughter] Yeah. you know. So, and >> Yeah. [laughter] Yeah. you know. So, and I still feel like at any point in time I I still feel like at any point in time I I still feel like at any point in time I can get on WhatsApp and leave you a five can get on WhatsApp and leave you a five can get on WhatsApp and leave you a five minute voice message like, "Hey, I'm minute voice message like, "Hey, I'm minute voice message like, "Hey, I'm really struggling with this. Can we talk really struggling with this. Can we talk really struggling with this. Can we talk about it?" And she's going to message me about it?" And she's going to message me about it?" And she's going to message me back the next day. Like, it's not back the next day. Like, it's not back the next day. Like, it's not >> right.

  9. >> right. >> right. >> The time difference isn't the time >> The time difference isn't the time >> The time difference isn't the time difference isn't that big of a deal difference isn't that big of a deal difference isn't that big of a deal because because because >> it it just isn't. >> it it just isn't. >> it it just isn't. >> Yeah. So, I'd highly encourage people to >> Yeah. So, I'd highly encourage people to >> Yeah. So, I'd highly encourage people to go if if it's something that you're go if if it's something that you're go if if it's something that you're worried about just um I I think that worried about just um I I think that worried about just um I I think that it's less dramatic than than than people it's less dramatic than than than people it's less dramatic than than than people expect. So, the other thing I wanted to expect. So, the other thing I wanted to expect. So, the other thing I wanted to talk about is is with Marcy just have talk about is is with Marcy just have talk about is is with Marcy just have her ask me questions that she might have her ask me questions that she might have her ask me questions that she might have about my lifestyle or um digital nomad, about my lifestyle or um digital nomad, about my lifestyle or um digital nomad, slow travel, fast travel. um just what slow travel, fast travel. um just what slow travel, fast travel. um just what it feels like, what's different about my it feels like, what's different about my it feels like, what's different about my life now that I've I've experienced both life now that I've I've experienced both life now that I've I've experienced both Santa Monica and slow traveling around Santa Monica and slow traveling around Santa Monica and slow traveling around um pretty much around the world, Africa, um pretty much around the world, Africa, um pretty much around the world, Africa, South America, Central America, South America, Central America, South America, Central America, currently in Asia, Mexico. Um currently in Asia, Mexico. Um currently in Asia, Mexico. Um >> yeah. Do you want to ask me a few few >> yeah. Do you want to ask me a few few >> yeah. Do you want to ask me a few few questions? questions? questions? >> Sure. So, one of the things that I >> Sure. So, one of the things that I >> Sure. So, one of the things that I noticed from watching one of your recent noticed from watching one of your recent noticed from watching one of your recent videos is talking about how you when videos is talking about how you when videos is talking about how you when when you went and visited the little the when you went and visited the little the when you went and visited the little the family of the little girl that you met family of the little girl that you met family of the little girl that you met and went and lived with them.

  10. and went and lived with them. and went and lived with them. >> And the first thing that I thought of >> And the first thing that I thought of >> And the first thing that I thought of was, "Oh my gosh, was, "Oh my gosh, was, "Oh my gosh, >> we could not do that here in America. >> we could not do that here in America. >> we could not do that here in America. That sounds so unsafe to me." Yeah. That sounds so unsafe to me." Yeah. That sounds so unsafe to me." Yeah. >> And so I wanted to talk about safety a >> And so I wanted to talk about safety a >> And so I wanted to talk about safety a little bit because little bit because little bit because >> while we live in California where, you >> while we live in California where, you >> while we live in California where, you know, it seems so glamorous to live, know, it seems so glamorous to live, know, it seems so glamorous to live, safety is a concern for us. And so I'd safety is a concern for us. And so I'd safety is a concern for us. And so I'd like to know how you feel about safety like to know how you feel about safety like to know how you feel about safety being a tall blonde woman in a country being a tall blonde woman in a country being a tall blonde woman in a country where that stands out number one. where that stands out number one. where that stands out number one. >> Um, and just how you feel about your >> Um, and just how you feel about your >> Um, and just how you feel about your safety there. And it can be just about safety there. And it can be just about safety there. And it can be just about there or there versus here. there or there versus here. there or there versus here. >> Yeah. You know, safety, it's such an >> Yeah. You know, safety, it's such an >> Yeah. You know, safety, it's such an interesting topic. It's when I say that interesting topic. It's when I say that interesting topic. It's when I say that I'm traveling abroad, it's the number I'm traveling abroad, it's the number I'm traveling abroad, it's the number one thing I get asked. Are you being one thing I get asked. Are you being one thing I get asked. Are you being safe? Friends, family, and you know, safe? Friends, family, and you know, safe? Friends, family, and you know, I'll go back to I remember I remember I'll go back to I remember I remember I'll go back to I remember I remember being in South Africa and I was sitting being in South Africa and I was sitting being in South Africa and I was sitting at a table. It was these long picnic at a table. It was these long picnic at a table. It was these long picnic tables at a very social place. And I tables at a very social place. And I tables at a very social place. And I happened to be talking to the two girls happened to be talking to the two girls happened to be talking to the two girls across from me and they had met in grad across from me and they had met in grad across from me and they had met in grad school and we're laughing and talking school and we're laughing and talking school and we're laughing and talking and I said, "Have you ever been to the and I said, "Have you ever been to the and I said, "Have you ever been to the US?" And they're like, "Oh, no. We would US?" And they're like, "Oh, no. We would US?" And they're like, "Oh, no. We would never go there." Um, and I I said, never go there." Um, and I I said, never go there." Um, and I I said, "Why?" And I said, "Oh, it's it's too "Why?" And I said, "Oh, it's it's too "Why?" And I said, "Oh, it's it's too unsafe."

  11. unsafe." unsafe." >> Wow. >> Wow. >> Wow. >> And I thought that is really interesting >> And I thought that is really interesting >> And I thought that is really interesting because I get asked, you know, are other because I get asked, you know, are other because I get asked, you know, are other countries safe? But other count's countries safe? But other count's countries safe? But other count's perspective is perspective is perspective is >> of the US. >> of the US. >> of the US. >> The US is not safe. And then where it >> The US is not safe. And then where it >> The US is not safe. And then where it really was interesting is when I was in really was interesting is when I was in really was interesting is when I was in Colombia. So I grew up with, you know, Colombia. So I grew up with, you know, Colombia. So I grew up with, you know, Colombia is unsafe. Colombia is unsafe. Colombia is unsafe. >> Very well, we thought. [laughter] I'm in >> Very well, we thought. [laughter] I'm in >> Very well, we thought. [laughter] I'm in Colombia. I'm in Medigene and same Colombia. I'm in Medigene and same Colombia. I'm in Medigene and same thing. Somebody said I would never go to thing. Somebody said I would never go to thing. Somebody said I would never go to the US. Like it's it's it's too unsafe. the US. Like it's it's it's too unsafe. the US. Like it's it's it's too unsafe. And I said, you know what's interesting And I said, you know what's interesting And I said, you know what's interesting is Americans think that Colombia is is Americans think that Colombia is is Americans think that Colombia is unsafe. And the person's like, what? unsafe. And the person's like, what? unsafe. And the person's like, what? Why? And I said, because we hear about Why? And I said, because we hear about Why? And I said, because we hear about the the the >> the cartel, >> the cartel, >> the cartel, >> the cartels [laughter] and the drugs and >> the cartels [laughter] and the drugs and >> the cartels [laughter] and the drugs and the you know the hostages kidnapping. the you know the hostages kidnapping. the you know the hostages kidnapping. And they said, "Yeah, on the drug And they said, "Yeah, on the drug And they said, "Yeah, on the drug route." In the jungle, but nobody's route." In the jungle, but nobody's route." In the jungle, but nobody's you're not going to be there. Like out you're not going to be there. Like out you're not going to be there. Like out in the jungle, on the drug route. That's in the jungle, on the drug route. That's in the jungle, on the drug route. That's where things happen. And they said, "But where things happen. And they said, "But where things happen. And they said, "But in America, things happen at a in America, things happen at a in America, things happen at a preschool, at a mall, at a a movie preschool, at a mall, at a a movie preschool, at a mall, at a a movie theater, like it's out of your mosque, theater, like it's out of your mosque, theater, like it's out of your mosque, at a temple, at a temple, at a temple, >> and you can be anywhere and you are in >> and you can be anywhere and you are in >> and you can be anywhere and you are in danger. And I thought that's true. That danger. And I thought that's true. That danger. And I thought that's true. That is that is true. And they said it's so is that is true. And they said it's so is that is true. And they said it's so they they they they they they Colombians. Yeah. And I I just thought, Colombians. Yeah. And I I just thought, Colombians. Yeah. And I I just thought, "Oh, this is very very interesting." So "Oh, this is very very interesting." So "Oh, this is very very interesting." So then when I was back visiting some then when I was back visiting some then when I was back visiting some family again, they said, "Are you safe?"

  12. family again, they said, "Are you safe?" family again, they said, "Are you safe?" And I said, you know, it's interesting And I said, you know, it's interesting And I said, you know, it's interesting because a lot of countries won't come because a lot of countries won't come because a lot of countries won't come here because it's unsafe. And you know, here because it's unsafe. And you know, here because it's unsafe. And you know, as Americans, it's like what? Well, and as Americans, it's like what? Well, and as Americans, it's like what? Well, and we were speaking earlier about the we were speaking earlier about the we were speaking earlier about the beaches. I would never walk alone on the beaches. I would never walk alone on the beaches. I would never walk alone on the beach at night in Santa Monica where you beach at night in Santa Monica where you beach at night in Santa Monica where you have no problem walking alone at night have no problem walking alone at night have no problem walking alone at night on the beach in on the beach in on the beach in >> Dang. Yeah. I was just sharing that with >> Dang. Yeah. I was just sharing that with >> Dang. Yeah. I was just sharing that with Marcy right before we jumped on this Marcy right before we jumped on this Marcy right before we jumped on this live and that's that I remember being live and that's that I remember being live and that's that I remember being walking on the beach and it was getting walking on the beach and it was getting walking on the beach and it was getting to be dark and I was pretty far south of to be dark and I was pretty far south of to be dark and I was pretty far south of town where I turned around and was town where I turned around and was town where I turned around and was walking back and I could see all the walking back and I could see all the walking back and I could see all the lights of the highrises in front of me. lights of the highrises in front of me. lights of the highrises in front of me. So, the water was on my right and on my So, the water was on my right and on my So, the water was on my right and on my left was just some um greenery and some left was just some um greenery and some left was just some um greenery and some construction that had been abandoned. construction that had been abandoned. construction that had been abandoned. And as I'm walking towards town, I And as I'm walking towards town, I And as I'm walking towards town, I remember I I could see two people remember I I could see two people remember I I could see two people walking towards me. We were all walking walking towards me. We were all walking walking towards me. We were all walking with our feet just slightly in the surf with our feet just slightly in the surf with our feet just slightly in the surf and I could tell from the two people and I could tell from the two people and I could tell from the two people walking towards me that it was two walking towards me that it was two walking towards me that it was two males. And I remember thinking, how males. And I remember thinking, how males. And I remember thinking, how interesting is this? I don't feel unsafe interesting is this? I don't feel unsafe interesting is this? I don't feel unsafe at all. at all. at all. >> Wow.

  13. >> Wow. >> Wow. >> And I >> And I >> And I would not feel that way if I was in would not feel that way if I was in would not feel that way if I was in in California or when I was living in in California or when I was living in in California or when I was living in Mexico. It just as a single female, you Mexico. It just as a single female, you Mexico. It just as a single female, you don't feel safe. In Asia, I did feel don't feel safe. In Asia, I did feel don't feel safe. In Asia, I did feel safe. Um, safe. Um, safe. Um, >> I will say they passed right by and I >> I will say they passed right by and I >> I will say they passed right by and I like they passed right by and I'm like like they passed right by and I'm like like they passed right by and I'm like it it it >> it was of course it was it was fine. >> it was of course it was it was fine. >> it was of course it was it was fine. There was no I think they nodded and There was no I think they nodded and There was no I think they nodded and like just acknowledgement hello and we like just acknowledgement hello and we like just acknowledgement hello and we just passed. I just passed. I just passed. I >> was going to say when we were in >> was going to say when we were in >> was going to say when we were in Thailand last year I felt safe the whole Thailand last year I felt safe the whole Thailand last year I felt safe the whole time that I was there. It was time that I was there. It was time that I was there. It was >> when people pass you like that they're >> when people pass you like that they're >> when people pass you like that they're saying hello. We're here people are saying hello. We're here people are saying hello. We're here people are either not making eye contact or making either not making eye contact or making either not making eye contact or making you feel uncomfortable. you feel uncomfortable. you feel uncomfortable. >> Yeah. So >> Yeah. So >> Yeah. So >> yeah, the one place uh where so I was >> yeah, the one place uh where so I was >> yeah, the one place uh where so I was over in Tanzania and I was with the over in Tanzania and I was with the over in Tanzania and I was with the family that I was staying with and we family that I was staying with and we family that I was staying with and we were at a very very busy bus depot and were at a very very busy bus depot and were at a very very busy bus depot and the lady said, you know, just really the lady said, you know, just really the lady said, you know, just really hold on to your belongings. Let's move hold on to your belongings. Let's move hold on to your belongings. Let's move through here because she said, "I can through here because she said, "I can through here because she said, "I can see that a lot of people are looking at see that a lot of people are looking at see that a lot of people are looking at us because us because us because because of the way that you look, you because of the way that you look, you because of the way that you look, you are susceptible to being robbed because are susceptible to being robbed because are susceptible to being robbed because they know that you're going to have they know that you're going to have they know that you're going to have money on you and they know you're going money on you and they know you're going money on you and they know you're going to have your passport and you're you're to have your passport and you're you're to have your passport and you're you're going to have some things. So, let's going to have some things. So, let's going to have some things. So, let's just just just >> let's just cruise through really really >> let's just cruise through really really >> let's just cruise through really really quickly." Um, quickly." Um, quickly." Um, so in that case, I wouldn't I probably so in that case, I wouldn't I probably so in that case, I wouldn't I probably wouldn't be backpacking around by myself wouldn't be backpacking around by myself wouldn't be backpacking around by myself like through Tanzania. I was staying like through Tanzania. I was staying like through Tanzania. I was staying with a family and uh I was always with

  14. with a family and uh I was always with with a family and uh I was always with with other people. So it varies by with other people. So it varies by with other people. So it varies by country, but I would say in general the country, but I would say in general the country, but I would say in general the places that I go are are safe, places that I go are are safe, places that I go are are safe, >> pretty safe. >> pretty safe. >> pretty safe. >> The other thing is intuition. And so >> The other thing is intuition. And so >> The other thing is intuition. And so with that little girl story where I went with that little girl story where I went with that little girl story where I went to visit her family, I had met her and to visit her family, I had met her and to visit her family, I had met her and she was the cutest little thing with a she was the cutest little thing with a she was the cutest little thing with a ponytail and very polite. And her ponytail and very polite. And her ponytail and very polite. And her parents were were like humble and shy parents were were like humble and shy parents were were like humble and shy and they're holding a toddler. They're and they're holding a toddler. They're and they're holding a toddler. They're like waving and I could just tell what like waving and I could just tell what like waving and I could just tell what they were like and I and and also being they were like and I and and also being they were like and I and and also being in Vietnam they're they're just so in Vietnam they're they're just so in Vietnam they're they're just so gracious and everybody looks out for gracious and everybody looks out for gracious and everybody looks out for everybody. So if there's ever any everybody. So if there's ever any everybody. So if there's ever any skirmish everyone's going to rush out. skirmish everyone's going to rush out. skirmish everyone's going to rush out. You're not like oh on your own. You're not like oh on your own. You're not like oh on your own. >> Oh that's so nice. >> Oh that's so nice. >> Oh that's so nice. >> Um I also noticed that in Africa. So let >> Um I also noticed that in Africa. So let >> Um I also noticed that in Africa. So let me back up for a minute. The family I me back up for a minute. The family I me back up for a minute. The family I was staying with, they had their twin was staying with, they had their twin was staying with, they had their twin nine-year-olds that went to boarding nine-year-olds that went to boarding nine-year-olds that went to boarding school and they would put them on a bus school and they would put them on a bus school and they would put them on a bus and the bus was like seven hours and and the bus was like seven hours and and the bus was like seven hours and then they had to take like a taxi from then they had to take like a taxi from then they had to take like a taxi from the bus depot to the boarding school.

  15. the bus depot to the boarding school. the bus depot to the boarding school. I'm like by themselves and and what I I'm like by themselves and and what I I'm like by themselves and and what I realized is as I was traveling on public realized is as I was traveling on public realized is as I was traveling on public transportation with them, everybody's transportation with them, everybody's transportation with them, everybody's watching out for the kids. So you get on watching out for the kids. So you get on watching out for the kids. So you get on a bus and a little kid gets on, a bus and a little kid gets on, a bus and a little kid gets on, >> they don't need to be with their parent. >> they don't need to be with their parent. >> they don't need to be with their parent. You always You always You always >> Everyone's parenting. [laughter] >> Everyone's parenting. [laughter] >> Everyone's parenting. [laughter] Everybody's parenting. Everybody's parenting. Everybody's parenting. >> Wow. >> Wow. >> Wow. >> Everybody's disciplining the kids, too. >> Everybody's disciplining the kids, too. >> Everybody's disciplining the kids, too. >> Two kids are in a >> Two kids are in a >> Two kids are in a >> in a skirmish. The guy that I'm with >> in a skirmish. The guy that I'm with >> in a skirmish. The guy that I'm with goes over and settles it and he raises goes over and settles it and he raises goes over and settles it and he raises his voice and they're, you know, the his voice and they're, you know, the his voice and they're, you know, the kids the kids know to respect any elder kids the kids know to respect any elder kids the kids know to respect any elder and he breaks up the argument and they and he breaks up the argument and they and he breaks up the argument and they go trotting on their way. He scared go trotting on their way. He scared go trotting on their way. He scared them. They were they were scared. But them. They were they were scared. But them. They were they were scared. But these kids will get on on a bus and you these kids will get on on a bus and you these kids will get on on a bus and you always you see people like, "Okay, you always you see people like, "Okay, you always you see people like, "Okay, you sit there. Are you okay?" People are sit there. Are you okay?" People are sit there. Are you okay?" People are looking out for each other and anything looking out for each other and anything looking out for each other and anything that if anybody was a problem, the that if anybody was a problem, the that if anybody was a problem, the community is going to take care of that. community is going to take care of that. community is going to take care of that. And I I also noticed that in Colombia, I And I I also noticed that in Colombia, I And I I also noticed that in Colombia, I was in a city called Cali, which that is was in a city called Cali, which that is was in a city called Cali, which that is not a very safe place. It's like the not a very safe place. It's like the not a very safe place. It's like the heart of salsa. And I was in a heart of salsa. And I was in a heart of salsa. And I was in a neighborhood and I had walked down to um neighborhood and I had walked down to um neighborhood and I had walked down to um just a little like a a market, a just a little like a a market, a just a little like a a market, a family-owned market. And there was a guy family-owned market. And there was a guy family-owned market. And there was a guy who had too much to drink that was kind who had too much to drink that was kind who had too much to drink that was kind of sauntering around after me. And I of sauntering around after me. And I of sauntering around after me. And I walked into the market and I immediately walked into the market and I immediately walked into the market and I immediately saw the market owner come walking over saw the market owner come walking over saw the market owner come walking over and he he stood between me and that guy and he he stood between me and that guy and he he stood between me and that guy and he faced the guy and he's like, and he faced the guy and he's like, and he faced the guy and he's like, "What are you doing?"

  16. "What are you doing?" "What are you doing?" >> Really? >> Really? >> Really? >> And the guy was kind of like and he >> And the guy was kind of like and he >> And the guy was kind of like and he goes, "Go like not not on my watch. Not goes, "Go like not not on my watch. Not goes, "Go like not not on my watch. Not that's not happening. people people see that's not happening. people people see that's not happening. people people see something arai and they will jump in and something arai and they will jump in and something arai and they will jump in and protect you. protect you. protect you. >> That's great. >> That's great. >> That's great. >> And yeah, make sure that >> And yeah, make sure that >> And yeah, make sure that >> and we do have that in the states too. I >> and we do have that in the states too. I >> and we do have that in the states too. I wish we had more of that. wish we had more of that. wish we had more of that. >> I do. >> I do. >> I do. >> Yeah. Oh, so what I was going to say >> Yeah. Oh, so what I was going to say >> Yeah. Oh, so what I was going to say about intuition is knowing the about intuition is knowing the about intuition is knowing the disposition, the community disposition disposition, the community disposition disposition, the community disposition of the Vietnamese people. I remember of the Vietnamese people. I remember of the Vietnamese people. I remember thinking, I know this is safe. I know thinking, I know this is safe. I know thinking, I know this is safe. I know how they treat foreigners. I know how how they treat foreigners. I know how how they treat foreigners. I know how it's it's rare to have to see a it's it's rare to have to see a it's it's rare to have to see a skirmish. If you ever see a skirmish skirmish. If you ever see a skirmish skirmish. If you ever see a skirmish between two people, it's like a little between two people, it's like a little between two people, it's like a little fender bender or something. And they fender bender or something. And they fender bender or something. And they usually they just work it out, shake usually they just work it out, shake usually they just work it out, shake hands, go on their way. Somebody might hands, go on their way. Somebody might hands, go on their way. Somebody might pay someone 20 bucks. Um you rarely pay someone 20 bucks. Um you rarely pay someone 20 bucks. Um you rarely rarely see like I don't I don't think rarely see like I don't I don't think rarely see like I don't I don't think I've ever seen an actual like fight or I've ever seen an actual like fight or I've ever seen an actual like fight or true yelling. Um, and knowing that their true yelling. Um, and knowing that their true yelling. Um, and knowing that their society operates that way, I don't I society operates that way, I don't I society operates that way, I don't I didn't have any concerns getting on a didn't have any concerns getting on a didn't have any concerns getting on a bus and going to her village. Um, bus and going to her village. Um, bus and going to her village. Um, because I just knew intuitively that because I just knew intuitively that because I just knew intuitively that everything was fine everything was fine everything was fine >> and that everyone was going to look out >> and that everyone was going to look out >> and that everyone was going to look out for you.

  17. for you. for you. >> But I Yes. And that it was going to be >> But I Yes. And that it was going to be >> But I Yes. And that it was going to be safe. And even getting on the bus, I the safe. And even getting on the bus, I the safe. And even getting on the bus, I the bus driver's like, "Oh boy, like she's bus driver's like, "Oh boy, like she's bus driver's like, "Oh boy, like she's getting on now. She's my responsibility getting on now. She's my responsibility getting on now. She's my responsibility to take care of like everybody's It was to take care of like everybody's It was to take care of like everybody's It was a big group effort on the bus to get me a big group effort on the bus to get me a big group effort on the bus to get me to where I was going." And and I see to where I was going." And and I see to where I was going." And and I see that even like when I went to my eye that even like when I went to my eye that even like when I went to my eye hospital appointment, I'm walking down hospital appointment, I'm walking down hospital appointment, I'm walking down the hallway like looking at numbers and the hallway like looking at numbers and the hallway like looking at numbers and I'm looking for the room and a a guy in I'm looking for the room and a a guy in I'm looking for the room and a a guy in a white coat, he's a doctor, comes a white coat, he's a doctor, comes a white coat, he's a doctor, comes running out like, "What are you looking running out like, "What are you looking running out like, "What are you looking for? Can I help you?" They don't just for? Can I help you?" They don't just for? Can I help you?" They don't just watch me walk by. They're like, "Oh, she watch me walk by. They're like, "Oh, she watch me walk by. They're like, "Oh, she probably doesn't know where she's going. probably doesn't know where she's going. probably doesn't know where she's going. Let's go." Let's go." Let's go." >> Proactive. >> Proactive. >> Proactive. >> They're very proactive. Like they want >> They're very proactive. Like they want >> They're very proactive. Like they want to make sure to make sure to make sure >> everybody in their vicinity is taken >> everybody in their vicinity is taken >> everybody in their vicinity is taken care of and good. So having that deep care of and good. So having that deep care of and good. So having that deep down feeling, I thought I can't tell down feeling, I thought I can't tell down feeling, I thought I can't tell anybody what I'm doing because people anybody what I'm doing because people anybody what I'm doing because people will freak out. [laughter] will freak out. [laughter] will freak out. [laughter] So I'm gonna go. So I'm gonna go. So I'm gonna go. >> Well, we did. We all were. We were all >> Well, we did. We all were. We were all >> Well, we did. We all were. We were all genuinely concerned when she was leaving genuinely concerned when she was leaving genuinely concerned when she was leaving because because because >> I'm going to go and then I'll tell I'll >> I'm going to go and then I'll tell I'll >> I'm going to go and then I'll tell I'll I'll tell the story when I get back. I'll tell the story when I get back. I'll tell the story when I get back. [laughter] [laughter] [laughter] >> Yeah. And it it was fine. The same way >> Yeah. And it it was fine. The same way >> Yeah. And it it was fine. The same way that when I went to the girl's house, that when I went to the girl's house, that when I went to the girl's house, >> I'm in her house, >> I'm in her house, >> I'm in her house, >> just the two of us. I'm a complete >> just the two of us. I'm a complete >> just the two of us. I'm a complete foreign stranger adult foreign stranger adult foreign stranger adult >> with a 12-year-old >> with a 12-year-old >> with a 12-year-old >> and people go that would never happen in >> and people go that would never happen in >> and people go that would never happen in the States but she's like yeah my the States but she's like yeah my the States but she's like yeah my parents will be home soon and after you parents will be home soon and after you parents will be home soon and after you know five after work and they did and we know five after work and they did and we know five after work and they did and we ate dinner and it's all fine ate dinner and it's all fine ate dinner and it's all fine >> things are just different there >> things are just different there >> things are just different there >> um >> um >> um >> so yeah safety I do feel very safe they >> so yeah safety I do feel very safe they >> so yeah safety I do feel very safe they um have all drugs are illegal so you

  18. um have all drugs are illegal so you um have all drugs are illegal so you don't see um highly illegal feel like don't see um highly illegal feel like don't see um highly illegal feel like you get in a lot of lot of trouble. I you get in a lot of lot of trouble. I you get in a lot of lot of trouble. I don't know what I don't know what don't know what I don't know what don't know what I don't know what happens actually if you get if you get happens actually if you get if you get happens actually if you get if you get caught, but you don't want to get caught, but you don't want to get caught, but you don't want to get caught. Um, what about homelessness? caught. Um, what about homelessness? caught. Um, what about homelessness? >> Drugs are illegal. There's no guns. I >> Drugs are illegal. There's no guns. I >> Drugs are illegal. There's no guns. I don't see homelessness. What I really don't see homelessness. What I really don't see homelessness. What I really what I have noticed is that what I have noticed is that what I have noticed is that they the government will give even will they the government will give even will they the government will give even will give pretty much everybody some sort of give pretty much everybody some sort of give pretty much everybody some sort of a job. So, the beaches are spotless and a job. So, the beaches are spotless and a job. So, the beaches are spotless and I'll see at night some older women with I'll see at night some older women with I'll see at night some older women with their recycle bags and they're cleaning their recycle bags and they're cleaning their recycle bags and they're cleaning up garbage. Or you might see somebody up garbage. Or you might see somebody up garbage. Or you might see somebody who is elderly or they are disabled and who is elderly or they are disabled and who is elderly or they are disabled and they're selling like little lotto they're selling like little lotto they're selling like little lotto tickets around the restaurants. So, tickets around the restaurants. So, tickets around the restaurants. So, everybody has their way to everybody has their way to everybody has their way to >> make income. I've never seen someone >> make income. I've never seen someone >> make income. I've never seen someone like lying in a park, lying on a street. like lying in a park, lying on a street. like lying in a park, lying on a street. Um, every once in a while you'll see Um, every once in a while you'll see Um, every once in a while you'll see someone who's had too much to drink and someone who's had too much to drink and someone who's had too much to drink and they're they're passed out, but it's I they're they're passed out, but it's I they're they're passed out, but it's I mean, I hate to say it, it's you more mean, I hate to say it, it's you more mean, I hate to say it, it's you more often than not as a foreigner. And they often than not as a foreigner. And they often than not as a foreigner. And they also have a more of a tolerant like also have a more of a tolerant like also have a more of a tolerant like they'll laugh it off. They you if you they'll laugh it off. They you if you they'll laugh it off. They you if you see even a local has had too much to see even a local has had too much to see even a local has had too much to drink and they've fallen asleep on a drink and they've fallen asleep on a drink and they've fallen asleep on a sidewalk, what I notice is how gentle sidewalk, what I notice is how gentle sidewalk, what I notice is how gentle and kind the locals are to that person.

  19. and kind the locals are to that person. and kind the locals are to that person. like they'll set them up like, "Hey, like they'll set them up like, "Hey, like they'll set them up like, "Hey, let's let's get you home. Where are you let's let's get you home. Where are you let's let's get you home. Where are you going? Let's move you out of the way." going? Let's move you out of the way." going? Let's move you out of the way." That's it's not aggressive at all. That's it's not aggressive at all. That's it's not aggressive at all. >> More like a friend. >> More like a friend. >> More like a friend. >> Yeah. And people will say, you know, see >> Yeah. And people will say, you know, see >> Yeah. And people will say, you know, see if they need help, help them get home. if they need help, help them get home. if they need help, help them get home. It's It's It's >> Yeah. Like it's it's like everybody's >> Yeah. Like it's it's like everybody's >> Yeah. Like it's it's like everybody's your friend, even if they're strangers. your friend, even if they're strangers. your friend, even if they're strangers. So, yeah, it's really really nice. So, So, yeah, it's really really nice. So, So, yeah, it's really really nice. So, um and it Yeah. I don't know if there's um and it Yeah. I don't know if there's um and it Yeah. I don't know if there's more behind it of what keeps drugs and more behind it of what keeps drugs and more behind it of what keeps drugs and crime and homelessness out of anything crime and homelessness out of anything crime and homelessness out of anything that I ever see. I don't know if we're that I ever see. I don't know if we're that I ever see. I don't know if we're an outskirts, but I it's nothing I ever an outskirts, but I it's nothing I ever an outskirts, but I it's nothing I ever see. see. see. >> So, it sounds very very positive anytime >> So, it sounds very very positive anytime >> So, it sounds very very positive anytime I've talked to you about anything about I've talked to you about anything about I've talked to you about anything about Vietnam. Vietnam. Vietnam. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Is there is there a downside to certain >> Is there is there a downside to certain >> Is there is there a downside to certain things that you see there? Like what do you miss? Like what do you miss? Somebody asked [laughter] me that. I'm Somebody asked [laughter] me that. I'm Somebody asked [laughter] me that. I'm like, I miss Amazon. like, I miss Amazon. like, I miss Amazon. >> That was me. I asked you that. I forgot >> That was me. I asked you that. I forgot >> That was me. I asked you that. I forgot about that. Oh, [laughter] that's right.

  20. about that. Oh, [laughter] that's right. about that. Oh, [laughter] that's right. That's right. That's right. And you That's right. That's right. And you That's right. That's right. And you >> She was She was doing like an unboxing >> She was She was doing like an unboxing >> She was She was doing like an unboxing pretty much when she got home because pretty much when she got home because pretty much when she got home because she loves Amazon and doesn't have it. she loves Amazon and doesn't have it. she loves Amazon and doesn't have it. And then I came over And then I came over And then I came over >> my stuff. >> my stuff. >> my stuff. >> Yeah, that was actually really >> Yeah, that was actually really >> Yeah, that was actually really >> And she goes, "They don't have Amazon >> And she goes, "They don't have Amazon >> And she goes, "They don't have Amazon there." I said, "They do, but it's there." I said, "They do, but it's there." I said, "They do, but it's Lazada." And I just can't find the Lazada." And I just can't find the Lazada." And I just can't find the things that I'm looking for. my my things that I'm looking for. my my things that I'm looking for. my my familiar familiar familiar brands and western sizes because a lot brands and western sizes because a lot brands and western sizes because a lot of things come from China and they are of things come from China and they are of things come from China and they are made and designed for Asians which they made and designed for Asians which they made and designed for Asians which they have a bit different body type. So yeah, have a bit different body type. So yeah, have a bit different body type. So yeah, just different different things. So just different different things. So just different different things. So yeah, I love yeah, I love yeah, I love >> besides Amazon. [laughter] >> besides Amazon. [laughter] >> besides Amazon. [laughter] Besides Amazon, hold on, let me see if Besides Amazon, hold on, let me see if Besides Amazon, hold on, let me see if we have any questions. Hi. Hi. Um let us we have any questions. Hi. Hi. Um let us we have any questions. Hi. Hi. Um let us know if you have any questions for us. know if you have any questions for us. know if you have any questions for us. Uh, thanks for joining. Um, Uh, thanks for joining. Um, Uh, thanks for joining. Um, you know, I love both places. It's it's you know, I love both places. It's it's you know, I love both places. It's it's so nice to come here and I go, it's so nice to come here and I go, it's so nice to come here and I go, it's well, first of all, the first thing I well, first of all, the first thing I well, first of all, the first thing I notice how quiet it is. I'm sitting on notice how quiet it is. I'm sitting on notice how quiet it is. I'm sitting on my couch at night like my ears are my couch at night like my ears are my couch at night like my ears are echoing of silence, like deafening echoing of silence, like deafening echoing of silence, like deafening silence. I I forgot how I always hear silence. I I forgot how I always hear silence. I I forgot how I always hear something in Asia because it is it's so something in Asia because it is it's so something in Asia because it is it's so active and busy 247 construction karaoke active and busy 247 construction karaoke active and busy 247 construction karaoke megaphones from motorbikes motorbikes megaphones from motorbikes motorbikes megaphones from motorbikes motorbikes honking people calling out it noise is honking people calling out it noise is honking people calling out it noise is not a bad thing there. So, if we're

  21. not a bad thing there. So, if we're not a bad thing there. So, if we're strangers and we're sitting at a coffee strangers and we're sitting at a coffee strangers and we're sitting at a coffee shop, it's not rude for me to get on a shop, it's not rude for me to get on a shop, it's not rude for me to get on a FaceTime call and be talking really FaceTime call and be talking really FaceTime call and be talking really loudly. loudly. loudly. >> You're kidding. >> You're kidding. >> You're kidding. >> At all. >> At all. >> At all. >> We don't do that here. >> We don't do that here. >> We don't do that here. >> So, >> So, >> So, >> it's considered rude here. >> it's considered rude here. >> it's considered rude here. >> Yeah. [laughter] >> Yeah. [laughter] >> Yeah. [laughter] Yeah. And that's something to get used Yeah. And that's something to get used Yeah. And that's something to get used to. Honking is part of the way that they to. Honking is part of the way that they to. Honking is part of the way that they must communicate in order to not get in must communicate in order to not get in must communicate in order to not get in a wreck because they don't have lights a wreck because they don't have lights a wreck because they don't have lights and they don't have stop signs. and they don't have stop signs. and they don't have stop signs. >> Oh wow. >> Oh wow. >> Oh wow. >> So everybody's going towards the center >> So everybody's going towards the center >> So everybody's going towards the center of every intersection. So you hear beep of every intersection. So you hear beep of every intersection. So you hear beep beep beep beep and you also people don't beep beep beep and you also people don't beep beep beep and you also people don't stay in their lanes. Traffic works stay in their lanes. Traffic works stay in their lanes. Traffic works differently where it's more like a differently where it's more like a differently where it's more like a >> Do you drive when you're there or just >> Do you drive when you're there or just >> Do you drive when you're there or just little? little? little? >> I ride. Right. Okay. So everybody's >> I ride. Right. Okay. So everybody's >> I ride. Right. Okay. So everybody's beeping to let everybody know where they beeping to let everybody know where they beeping to let everybody know where they are proximitywise. are proximitywise. are proximitywise. So, it's it's a it's a language. And it So, it's it's a it's a language. And it So, it's it's a it's a language. And it took me a while to get over the feeling took me a while to get over the feeling took me a while to get over the feeling of honking's aggressive here, right? of honking's aggressive here, right? of honking's aggressive here, right? >> There you hear beep beep beep beep beep >> There you hear beep beep beep beep beep >> There you hear beep beep beep beep beep all the time.

  22. all the time. all the time. >> It's funny. My youngest is just about to >> It's funny. My youngest is just about to >> It's funny. My youngest is just about to turn 16 and so she's driving and turn 16 and so she's driving and turn 16 and so she's driving and practicing and she heard me honk practicing and she heard me honk practicing and she heard me honk recently and she's like, "I never hear recently and she's like, "I never hear recently and she's like, "I never hear you honk." And I said, "I know." I said, you honk." And I said, "I know." I said, you honk." And I said, "I know." I said, "But we would have got an accident if I "But we would have got an accident if I "But we would have got an accident if I didn't." That's the only time we honk. didn't." That's the only time we honk. didn't." That's the only time we honk. >> Or well, not we, but me. >> Or well, not we, but me. >> Or well, not we, but me. >> Yeah. [laughter] >> Yeah. [laughter] >> Yeah. [laughter] >> Most people. >> Most people. >> Most people. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. The um the other thing that so here I go The um the other thing that so here I go The um the other thing that so here I go out to rose garden, you know, the beach out to rose garden, you know, the beach out to rose garden, you know, the beach and there's there's not there's a lot of and there's there's not there's a lot of and there's there's not there's a lot of dogs here. dogs here. dogs here. >> It's not that common to have pets >> It's not that common to have pets >> It's not that common to have pets >> in Vietnam. So here people love their >> in Vietnam. So here people love their >> in Vietnam. So here people love their dogs. The stores have water bowls, um dogs. The stores have water bowls, um dogs. The stores have water bowls, um treats, tennis balls. There was even a treats, tennis balls. There was even a treats, tennis balls. There was even a dog days of summer event on the street dog days of summer event on the street dog days of summer event on the street last week where it was four pets. It was last week where it was four pets. It was last week where it was four pets. It was a whole event for pets and you could get a whole event for pets and you could get a whole event for pets and you could get a photo a photo a photo >> eight hours. There was >> eight hours. There was >> eight hours. There was >> Did you go to it? >> Did you go to it? >> Did you go to it? >> I did. >> I did. >> I did. >> Okay. Okay. Tell us about Tell us about >> Okay. Okay. Tell us about Tell us about >> Okay. Okay. Tell us about Tell us about this. I was out of town. I wanted to go this. I was out of town. I wanted to go this. I was out of town. I wanted to go but it was called the dog days of summer but it was called the dog days of summer but it was called the dog days of summer and they did they block the street off.

  23. and they did they block the street off. and they did they block the street off. >> They did not block the street off. I >> They did not block the street off. I >> They did not block the street off. I thought they were going to because they thought they were going to because they thought they were going to because they normally normally normally >> pet event like come bring your pet like >> pet event like come bring your pet like >> pet event like come bring your pet like 10:00 a.m. to 400 p.m. or something. And 10:00 a.m. to 400 p.m. or something. And 10:00 a.m. to 400 p.m. or something. And the store is all planned for this the store is all planned for this the store is all planned for this >> and everything's catered. their special >> and everything's catered. their special >> and everything's catered. their special food. Like one of our like organic cafes food. Like one of our like organic cafes food. Like one of our like organic cafes that we love as adults here is called that we love as adults here is called that we love as adults here is called Creation Cafe. They just opened a new Creation Cafe. They just opened a new Creation Cafe. They just opened a new pet cafe. And so that was kind of their pet cafe. And so that was kind of their pet cafe. And so that was kind of their big grand opening was during the dog big grand opening was during the dog big grand opening was during the dog days of summer. So I bought some fresh days of summer. So I bought some fresh days of summer. So I bought some fresh tuna cat food. [laughter] tuna cat food. [laughter] tuna cat food. [laughter] People are really into cats and dogs People are really into cats and dogs People are really into cats and dogs here. So, but it was there were dogs here. So, but it was there were dogs here. So, but it was there were dogs everywhere. There were probably I everywhere. There were probably I everywhere. There were probably I probably saw 200 dogs that day of people probably saw 200 dogs that day of people probably saw 200 dogs that day of people just walking down the street. dogs are just walking down the street. dogs are just walking down the street. dogs are like mingling with each other with other like mingling with each other with other like mingling with each other with other adults and it brings everybody together adults and it brings everybody together adults and it brings everybody together because people love dogs and it's because people love dogs and it's because people love dogs and it's everyone's bringing a friendly dog. everyone's bringing a friendly dog. everyone's bringing a friendly dog. There aren't any dogs there that you There aren't any dogs there that you There aren't any dogs there that you have to be concerned about. And every have to be concerned about. And every have to be concerned about. And every business had either treats out, a dog business had either treats out, a dog business had either treats out, a dog bowl with water. There were, like you bowl with water. There were, like you bowl with water. There were, like you said, tennis balls at certain places. said, tennis balls at certain places. said, tennis balls at certain places. Um, handing out just lots of different Um, handing out just lots of different Um, handing out just lots of different things just for the animals. So, things just for the animals. So, things just for the animals. So, >> I went into a >> I went into a >> I went into a >> We treat them like our family here, like >> We treat them like our family here, like >> We treat them like our family here, like our kids.

  24. our kids. our kids. >> 100%. I went into a shop that is a they >> 100%. I went into a shop that is a they >> 100%. I went into a shop that is a they sell um saunas and spas. sell um saunas and spas. sell um saunas and spas. >> Oh, I know. >> Oh, I know. >> Oh, I know. >> And they had a little miniature one they >> And they had a little miniature one they >> And they had a little miniature one they said for the dog event so the dog can said for the dog event so the dog can said for the dog event so the dog can sit in a little miniature sauna. sit in a little miniature sauna. sit in a little miniature sauna. >> You're kidding. >> You're kidding. >> You're kidding. >> And they were handing out little doggy >> And they were handing out little doggy >> And they were handing out little doggy bandanas with their store name on it and bandanas with their store name on it and bandanas with their store name on it and some there was a little photo booth some there was a little photo booth some there was a little photo booth where you can go in and get a picture where you can go in and get a picture where you can go in and get a picture taken with your dog. It's just taken with your dog. It's just taken with your dog. It's just >> so cute. I know a lot of my neighbors >> so cute. I know a lot of my neighbors >> so cute. I know a lot of my neighbors dogs. I don't know the neighbor even as dogs. I don't know the neighbor even as dogs. I don't know the neighbor even as well. Like, oh, here comes Norman well. Like, oh, here comes Norman well. Like, oh, here comes Norman >> and Norman's mom. You know, here comes >> and Norman's mom. You know, here comes >> and Norman's mom. You know, here comes Hudson and Hudson's dad. Hudson and Hudson's dad. Hudson and Hudson's dad. >> So true. [laughter] >> So true. [laughter] >> So true. [laughter] >> So true. >> So true. >> So true. >> The neighbors. I know the dogs. >> The neighbors. I know the dogs. >> The neighbors. I know the dogs. >> We're a very very dog friendly city. >> We're a very very dog friendly city. >> We're a very very dog friendly city. >> Yeah. Or I had a a neighbor. I remember >> Yeah. Or I had a a neighbor. I remember >> Yeah. Or I had a a neighbor. I remember her messaging me and she's like, "Hey, her messaging me and she's like, "Hey, her messaging me and she's like, "Hey, um I need I'm I'm at work and you know, um I need I'm I'm at work and you know, um I need I'm I'm at work and you know, my husband can't run home at lunch. can my husband can't run home at lunch. can my husband can't run home at lunch. can you run over and take our dog for just a you run over and take our dog for just a you run over and take our dog for just a quick run around the block. quick run around the block. quick run around the block. >> Of course, it was just a cute little >> Of course, it was just a cute little >> Of course, it was just a cute little spaniel who knows me well. And I put her spaniel who knows me well. And I put her spaniel who knows me well. And I put her on a leash. We start walking down the on a leash. We start walking down the on a leash. We start walking down the street and she nearly drags me into the street and she nearly drags me into the street and she nearly drags me into the the little market around the corner the little market around the corner the little market around the corner because they're they give treats.

  25. because they're they give treats. because they're they give treats. >> Treats. >> Treats. >> Treats. >> And I'm like, she's not that big of a >> And I'm like, she's not that big of a >> And I'm like, she's not that big of a dog. And if I had stumbled, she would dog. And if I had stumbled, she would dog. And if I had stumbled, she would have drugged me like drugged me like a have drugged me like drugged me like a have drugged me like drugged me like a dog. dog. dog. >> That's pretty funny. >> That's pretty funny. >> That's pretty funny. >> Hello from Dana Point. Hello. >> Hello from Dana Point. Hello. >> Hello from Dana Point. Hello. Um, I'll be there next year. Um, retired Um, I'll be there next year. Um, retired Um, I'll be there next year. Um, retired first responder from LA wanting to first responder from LA wanting to first responder from LA wanting to experiment the homeland. Great, great, experiment the homeland. Great, great, experiment the homeland. Great, great, great. Can you be a carnivore there with great. Can you be a carnivore there with great. Can you be a carnivore there with mostly eating out? Yes. Yes. Okay. So, mostly eating out? Yes. Yes. Okay. So, mostly eating out? Yes. Yes. Okay. So, there's there's there's >> Oh, have you talked about the cost of >> Oh, have you talked about the cost of >> Oh, have you talked about the cost of food like eating out versus here? food like eating out versus here? food like eating out versus here? >> I have not. So, >> I have not. So, >> I have not. So, I am I love fa and I get f I am I love fa and I get f I am I love fa and I get f almost every day. And it's so you go almost every day. And it's so you go almost every day. And it's so you go into a restaurant, you order it, it into a restaurant, you order it, it into a restaurant, you order it, it comes really quickly, and it's rice, comes really quickly, and it's rice, comes really quickly, and it's rice, broth, a protein like chicken or beef, broth, a protein like chicken or beef, broth, a protein like chicken or beef, and then a bowl of greens, um little and then a bowl of greens, um little and then a bowl of greens, um little bowls of maybe fermented garlic or bowls of maybe fermented garlic or bowls of maybe fermented garlic or onions. Add those in. So, you can kind onions. Add those in. So, you can kind onions. Add those in. So, you can kind of jazz it up however you like.

  26. of jazz it up however you like. of jazz it up however you like. >> Okay? >> Okay? >> Okay? >> And then I, this is my go-to meal, a >> And then I, this is my go-to meal, a >> And then I, this is my go-to meal, a fresh coconut, cold. And those two fresh coconut, cold. And those two fresh coconut, cold. And those two things together usually run about four things together usually run about four things together usually run about four or five US dollars. or five US dollars. or five US dollars. And And And I love five. There's something about it I love five. There's something about it I love five. There's something about it where I never get tired of it. And it's where I never get tired of it. And it's where I never get tired of it. And it's always a good idea. Like if I can't always a good idea. Like if I can't always a good idea. Like if I can't decide what I want, I'm kind of hungry. decide what I want, I'm kind of hungry. decide what I want, I'm kind of hungry. It just it's it's warm. Even on a hot It just it's it's warm. Even on a hot It just it's it's warm. Even on a hot day, it's good. day, it's good. day, it's good. >> Really. >> Really. >> Really. >> Um something about the rice noodles and >> Um something about the rice noodles and >> Um something about the rice noodles and the broth and the greens and the protein the broth and the greens and the protein the broth and the greens and the protein all together. I never feel lethargic or all together. I never feel lethargic or all together. I never feel lethargic or too full. It just feels good. I love it. too full. It just feels good. I love it. too full. It just feels good. I love it. >> Uh there are a lot of western >> Uh there are a lot of western >> Uh there are a lot of western restaurants and more and more popping up restaurants and more and more popping up restaurants and more and more popping up because Daen is getting very very um because Daen is getting very very um because Daen is getting very very um popular. So you see burger joints and popular. So you see burger joints and popular. So you see burger joints and >> oh wow >> oh wow >> oh wow >> eggs benedict and pizza and then there's >> eggs benedict and pizza and then there's >> eggs benedict and pizza and then there's a touristy strip of restaurants with all a touristy strip of restaurants with all a touristy strip of restaurants with all the tour buses in the parking lot and the tour buses in the parking lot and the tour buses in the parking lot and those are you know steak and you know those are you know steak and you know those are you know steak and you know chicken ales at all of those though chicken ales at all of those though chicken ales at all of those though still really economical.

  27. still really economical. still really economical. >> They're economical but they are a lot >> They're economical but they are a lot >> They're economical but they are a lot more expensive than the normal typical more expensive than the normal typical more expensive than the normal typical Vietnamese food. Okay. So they're Vietnamese food. Okay. So they're Vietnamese food. Okay. So they're probably not the prices you'd see here probably not the prices you'd see here probably not the prices you'd see here in Santa Monica. in Santa Monica. in Santa Monica. So for example, in here in Santa Monica, So for example, in here in Santa Monica, So for example, in here in Santa Monica, my f my friend and I went out for a bowl my f my friend and I went out for a bowl my f my friend and I went out for a bowl of f at the place on Montana and we had of f at the place on Montana and we had of f at the place on Montana and we had water and two bowls of fur and it was water and two bowls of fur and it was water and two bowls of fur and it was just under $60. It was 59 something. just under $60. It was 59 something. just under $60. It was 59 something. So very big price difference. So very big price difference. So very big price difference. >> Wow. >> Wow. >> Wow. >> Um >> Um >> Um so so so here I haven't eaten out a lot here. I here I haven't eaten out a lot here. I here I haven't eaten out a lot here. I usually just go like run up to Whole usually just go like run up to Whole usually just go like run up to Whole Foods and grab Foods and grab Foods and grab >> a snack or your food something something >> a snack or your food something something >> a snack or your food something something to go or salad bar. to go or salad bar. to go or salad bar. >> Um what would you say is a typical >> Um what would you say is a typical >> Um what would you say is a typical >> me restaurant meal? Like >> me restaurant meal? Like >> me restaurant meal? Like >> the food or the cost? >> the food or the cost? >> the food or the cost? >> The cost? >> The cost? >> The cost? >> Well, I guess what's something that you >> Well, I guess what's something that you >> Well, I guess what's something that you maybe have ordered in the last couple maybe have ordered in the last couple maybe have ordered in the last couple weeks and what was the bill? weeks and what was the bill? weeks and what was the bill? So, we went to Dent Tyifung last week, So, we went to Dent Tyifung last week, So, we went to Dent Tyifung last week, which is it's Asian infusion. And which is it's Asian infusion. And which is it's Asian infusion. And I think it was around $60 a person, and I think it was around $60 a person, and I think it was around $60 a person, and that was without drinks, that was without drinks, that was without drinks, just the food.

  28. just the food. just the food. >> Just the food. >> Just the food. >> Just the food. >> So, for my Vietnamese, >> So, for my Vietnamese, >> So, for my Vietnamese, >> And I think that's pretty typical. >> And I think that's pretty typical. >> And I think that's pretty typical. >> My Vietnamese friends watching, that's >> My Vietnamese friends watching, that's >> My Vietnamese friends watching, that's about 1.5 million Vietnamese dong. about 1.5 million Vietnamese dong. about 1.5 million Vietnamese dong. [laughter] [laughter] [laughter] Um, yeah, I think that's about typical. Um, yeah, I think that's about typical. Um, yeah, I think that's about typical. >> I do too. >> I do too. >> I do too. >> When my friend and I went out six months >> When my friend and I went out six months >> When my friend and I went out six months ago, it was around $120 US for the two ago, it was around $120 US for the two ago, it was around $120 US for the two and we didn't drink, and we didn't drink, and we didn't drink, >> right? And if you add in drinks, drinks >> right? And if you add in drinks, drinks >> right? And if you add in drinks, drinks are really expensive here. So, if you are really expensive here. So, if you are really expensive here. So, if you add in drinks, it's going to add in drinks, it's going to add in drinks, it's going to really push it up because some cocktails really push it up because some cocktails really push it up because some cocktails can be $30 a cocktail. I'd say between can be $30 a cocktail. I'd say between can be $30 a cocktail. I'd say between 20 18 to $30 depending on where you are 20 18 to $30 depending on where you are 20 18 to $30 depending on where you are for a cocktail. for a cocktail. for a cocktail. So I went to a concert at Sofi Stadium So I went to a concert at Sofi Stadium So I went to a concert at Sofi Stadium two weeks ago. two weeks ago. two weeks ago. Parking in the parking garage Parking in the parking garage Parking in the parking garage to park in the parking garage to go into to park in the parking garage to go into to park in the parking garage to go into the concert was $125. the concert was $125. the concert was $125. I got insane burger inside that was 18.

  29. I got insane burger inside that was 18. I got insane burger inside that was 18. My friend got fries, My friend got fries, My friend got fries, you know, just the you know, just the you know, just the >> Those were probably 12. >> Those were probably 12. >> Those were probably 12. >> They were eight, but there was also like >> They were eight, but there was also like >> They were eight, but there was also like eight fries. [laughter] eight fries. [laughter] eight fries. [laughter] >> Oh, >> Oh, >> Oh, and then he ordered the signature and then he ordered the signature and then he ordered the signature cocktail that was cocktail that was cocktail that was 35 before $35 before tax and tip. Yeah, 35 before $35 before tax and tip. Yeah, 35 before $35 before tax and tip. Yeah, it's it's it's >> Oh, that's right. And we also have tax >> Oh, that's right. And we also have tax >> Oh, that's right. And we also have tax and tip on everything. and tip on everything. and tip on everything. >> Tax, what is it? 11% in California >> Tax, what is it? 11% in California >> Tax, what is it? 11% in California >> and then 20% >> and then 20% >> and then 20% tip. tip. tip. on everything. on everything. on everything. >> So it's Yeah, it's basically another 30 >> So it's Yeah, it's basically another 30 >> So it's Yeah, it's basically another 30 to Yeah. 30%. to Yeah. 30%. to Yeah. 30%. >> Tipping culture is Yeah. So they don't >> Tipping culture is Yeah. So they don't >> Tipping culture is Yeah. So they don't have tipping culture in Vietnam. And have tipping culture in Vietnam. And have tipping culture in Vietnam. And it's really it's really it's really >> funny funky when you first get there >> funny funky when you first get there >> funny funky when you first get there because you feel so weird because you feel so weird because you feel so weird >> paying your bill at dinner and walking >> paying your bill at dinner and walking >> paying your bill at dinner and walking away like you're doing something wrong, away like you're doing something wrong, away like you're doing something wrong, >> right? >> right? >> right? >> And but people said don't >> And but people said don't >> And but people said don't >> bring that here. I because I have >> bring that here. I because I have >> bring that here. I because I have European friends that come to the US and European friends that come to the US and European friends that come to the US and they said if you owe 30% more than they said if you owe 30% more than they said if you owe 30% more than what's on the menu price, just put it on what's on the menu price, just put it on what's on the menu price, just put it on the menu. Let people pay whatever the menu. Let people pay whatever the menu. Let people pay whatever [laughter] is on the menu so you know [laughter] is on the menu so you know [laughter] is on the menu so you know what you what you owe. It's so what you what you owe. It's so what you what you owe. It's so confusing. And our tipping culture has confusing. And our tipping culture has confusing. And our tipping culture has gotten so out of control that if you go gotten so out of control that if you go gotten so out of control that if you go to get a coffee, or not even a coffee to get a coffee, or not even a coffee to get a coffee, or not even a coffee because they're making that for you, but because they're making that for you, but because they're making that for you, but if you go to order something that's if you go to order something that's if you go to order something that's pre-made and you're paying for it at the pre-made and you're paying for it at the pre-made and you're paying for it at the counter, automatically on your screen counter, automatically on your screen counter, automatically on your screen pops up a tip and it says 15%, 20% 25% pops up a tip and it says 15%, 20% 25% pops up a tip and it says 15%, 20% 25% 40%.

  30. 40%. 40%. >> But it starts at 20 now. So 20 25 30. I >> But it starts at 20 now. So 20 25 30. I >> But it starts at 20 now. So 20 25 30. I went to went to went to >> Yeah. one of the like a coffee shop >> Yeah. one of the like a coffee shop >> Yeah. one of the like a coffee shop where you just take a you know the where you just take a you know the where you just take a you know the prepackaged sandwich and take prepackaged sandwich and take prepackaged sandwich and take >> and you take it up and all they're doing >> and you take it up and all they're doing >> and you take it up and all they're doing is ringing you up is ringing you up is ringing you up >> and they ring it after you waited in >> and they ring it after you waited in >> and they ring it after you waited in line for 10 minutes [laughter] line for 10 minutes [laughter] line for 10 minutes [laughter] then it's like what tip do you leave then it's like what tip do you leave then it's like what tip do you leave you're going what you're going what you're going what >> right what >> right what >> right what >> now I for a barista who's making my >> now I for a barista who's making my >> now I for a barista who's making my coffee I always tip but it's the things coffee I always tip but it's the things coffee I always tip but it's the things where they're not doing like you said where they're not doing like you said where they're not doing like you said where it's something pre-made or where it's something pre-made or where it's something pre-made or prepackaged and you're just purchasing prepackaged and you're just purchasing prepackaged and you're just purchasing it and they it's just a tipping culture it and they it's just a tipping culture it and they it's just a tipping culture that's out of control anymore where it's that's out of control anymore where it's that's out of control anymore where it's kind of gets Everybody kind of puts you kind of gets Everybody kind of puts you kind of gets Everybody kind of puts you in a foul mood because you feel you feel in a foul mood because you feel you feel in a foul mood because you feel you feel obligated obligated obligated instead of I like a tip because I've had instead of I like a tip because I've had instead of I like a tip because I've had good service, you know, to make good service, you know, to make good service, you know, to make someone's day. someone's day. someone's day. >> You're like, this little chicken wrap >> You're like, this little chicken wrap >> You're like, this little chicken wrap was already $13 and now it's 16, was already $13 and now it's 16, was already $13 and now it's 16, >> right? >> right? >> right? >> See, >> See, >> See, just checking in. Hi, Susan. Pretty much just checking in. Hi, Susan. Pretty much just checking in. Hi, Susan. Pretty much two entre through the different cities two entre through the different cities two entre through the different cities and be $2 entre. Yeah.

  31. and be $2 entre. Yeah. and be $2 entre. Yeah. >> Wow. >> Wow. >> Wow. >> Yep. So if I go to a market, so there's >> Yep. So if I go to a market, so there's >> Yep. So if I go to a market, so there's all these markets. Also, I was saying to all these markets. Also, I was saying to all these markets. Also, I was saying to go to a restaurant in my neighborhood, go to a restaurant in my neighborhood, go to a restaurant in my neighborhood, Bolafa is two to three dollars Bolafa is two to three dollars Bolafa is two to three dollars typically. If I go to a market where typically. If I go to a market where typically. If I go to a market where that's the where they're selling the that's the where they're selling the that's the where they're selling the fish and they're selling the vegetables fish and they're selling the vegetables fish and they're selling the vegetables and there might be seamstresses and and there might be seamstresses and and there might be seamstresses and fabric and there's all kinds of activity fabric and there's all kinds of activity fabric and there's all kinds of activity in these big tented in these big tented in these big tented >> markets. Then you can just pull up a >> markets. Then you can just pull up a >> markets. Then you can just pull up a chair and get a bowl of fa for a dollar chair and get a bowl of fa for a dollar chair and get a bowl of fa for a dollar when 25,000 Vietnamese dong and that's when 25,000 Vietnamese dong and that's when 25,000 Vietnamese dong and that's one US dollar. one US dollar. one US dollar. Um let's see what else. When I arrive Um let's see what else. When I arrive Um let's see what else. When I arrive next year to live, should I rent a month next year to live, should I rent a month next year to live, should I rent a month near the beach or river area? I want to near the beach or river area? I want to near the beach or river area? I want to be in an area that's lively but not be in an area that's lively but not be in an area that's lively but not loud. loud. loud. Um shops and food easily accessible. So, Um shops and food easily accessible. So, Um shops and food easily accessible. So, here's what I would suggest is get a here's what I would suggest is get a here's what I would suggest is get a hotel in the main beach area for the hotel in the main beach area for the hotel in the main beach area for the first, say, five days and get a feel for first, say, five days and get a feel for first, say, five days and get a feel for what it's like there and then go look at what it's like there and then go look at what it's like there and then go look at apartments. I would go to the beach area apartments. I would go to the beach area apartments. I would go to the beach area because everybody's at the beach and in because everybody's at the beach and in because everybody's at the beach and in those areas all the time. The river area those areas all the time. The river area those areas all the time. The river area is a little more remote and then you're is a little more remote and then you're is a little more remote and then you're traveling back and forth. Um, always traveling back and forth. Um, always traveling back and forth. Um, always look at a place if you're going to rent look at a place if you're going to rent look at a place if you're going to rent an apartment. Always see it with your an apartment. Always see it with your an apartment. Always see it with your own eyes own eyes own eyes before you agree to rent it because before you agree to rent it because before you agree to rent it because pictures can be different. It might pictures can be different. It might pictures can be different. It might smell like mold. It might have different

  32. smell like mold. It might have different smell like mold. It might have different furniture. It might be older. You really furniture. It might be older. You really furniture. It might be older. You really you really really want to see it before you really really want to see it before you really really want to see it before you agree to to stay there. And there you agree to to stay there. And there you agree to to stay there. And there might be construction happening next might be construction happening next might be construction happening next door across the street. Noisewise, you door across the street. Noisewise, you door across the street. Noisewise, you can find some pockets of neighborhoods can find some pockets of neighborhoods can find some pockets of neighborhoods by the beach that are quieter, but you by the beach that are quieter, but you by the beach that are quieter, but you don't know till you get there because don't know till you get there because don't know till you get there because any day they're taking an empty lot and any day they're taking an empty lot and any day they're taking an empty lot and they're starting construction or they're they're starting construction or they're they're starting construction or they're demoing a building. You don't know. So, demoing a building. You don't know. So, demoing a building. You don't know. So, I'd stay in a hotel and look around. And I'd stay in a hotel and look around. And I'd stay in a hotel and look around. And is would you recommend like a price is would you recommend like a price is would you recommend like a price range that's reasonable or like that range that's reasonable or like that range that's reasonable or like that they should expect for say a onebedroom they should expect for say a onebedroom they should expect for say a onebedroom versus a onebedroom here can rent for versus a onebedroom here can rent for versus a onebedroom here can rent for $3,500 a month which is how much in $3,500 a month which is how much in $3,500 a month which is how much in 35? That's right. Onebedrooms rent here 35? That's right. Onebedrooms rent here 35? That's right. Onebedrooms rent here for $3,500 a month. Um, for $3,500 a month. Um, for $3,500 a month. Um, there there there it depends on how far you are from the it depends on how far you are from the it depends on how far you are from the beach and studio versus onebedroom. It beach and studio versus onebedroom. It beach and studio versus onebedroom. It depends on the amenities. Do you have a depends on the amenities. Do you have a depends on the amenities. Do you have a pool? Do you have a receptionist?

  33. pool? Do you have a receptionist? pool? Do you have a receptionist? Um, I know people that pay Um, I know people that pay Um, I know people that pay $400 a month. Um, there's people that $400 a month. Um, there's people that $400 a month. Um, there's people that pay I but still relative to Santa pay I but still relative to Santa pay I but still relative to Santa Monica, it's it's much much cheaper. uh Monica, it's it's much much cheaper. uh Monica, it's it's much much cheaper. uh they might pay $1,800 a month, but they might pay $1,800 a month, but they might pay $1,800 a month, but still. still. still. >> So, is rent your biggest expense of the >> So, is rent your biggest expense of the >> So, is rent your biggest expense of the month? month? month? >> Rent's the biggest expense. >> Rent's the biggest expense. >> Rent's the biggest expense. >> Okay. So, similar to here. >> Okay. So, similar to here. >> Okay. So, similar to here. >> Yeah. And then I get around by grabb >> Yeah. And then I get around by grabb >> Yeah. And then I get around by grabb motorbike or walking. Um motorbike or walking. Um motorbike or walking. Um and then yeah, I the other things I and then yeah, I the other things I and then yeah, I the other things I spend money on are workshops, dance spend money on are workshops, dance spend money on are workshops, dance classes. I used to belong to a gym that classes. I used to belong to a gym that classes. I used to belong to a gym that I really liked. um monthly fee, I really liked. um monthly fee, I really liked. um monthly fee, food. The uh I guess the second biggest food. The uh I guess the second biggest food. The uh I guess the second biggest expense for me personally is if I'm on a expense for me personally is if I'm on a expense for me personally is if I'm on a tourist visa, I need to exit the country tourist visa, I need to exit the country tourist visa, I need to exit the country after 90 days. And you can do a bus that after 90 days. And you can do a bus that after 90 days. And you can do a bus that goes to the border. It's six hours each goes to the border. It's six hours each goes to the border. It's six hours each way. way. way. >> Okay. >> Okay. >> Okay. >> I prefer to make a little mini vacation >> I prefer to make a little mini vacation >> I prefer to make a little mini vacation out of it. So, I'll fly somewhere.

  34. out of it. So, I'll fly somewhere. out of it. So, I'll fly somewhere. >> Okay. >> Okay. >> Okay. >> And then you have your flight and your >> And then you have your flight and your >> And then you have your flight and your hotels and whatnot. And you had a really hotels and whatnot. And you had a really hotels and whatnot. And you had a really good tip for us and I can't remember the good tip for us and I can't remember the good tip for us and I can't remember the details so maybe you can fill it in but details so maybe you can fill it in but details so maybe you can fill it in but when we were in Thailand last year you when we were in Thailand last year you when we were in Thailand last year you taught us a trick with ATMs and fees. Do taught us a trick with ATMs and fees. Do taught us a trick with ATMs and fees. Do you remember what that was? Because that you remember what that was? Because that you remember what that was? Because that was really invaluable to us. was really invaluable to us. was really invaluable to us. >> Yeah. So when you go to use u an ATM the >> Yeah. So when you go to use u an ATM the >> Yeah. So when you go to use u an ATM the first thing you want to do is make sure first thing you want to do is make sure first thing you want to do is make sure that you are using a card that reimbures that you are using a card that reimbures that you are using a card that reimbures ATM fees. So like a Charles Schwab is ATM fees. So like a Charles Schwab is ATM fees. So like a Charles Schwab is known a certain card. Um, if I go use my known a certain card. Um, if I go use my known a certain card. Um, if I go use my Charles Charles Schwab ATM card, it's Charles Charles Schwab ATM card, it's Charles Charles Schwab ATM card, it's going to be, say, for example, a $5 fee, going to be, say, for example, a $5 fee, going to be, say, for example, a $5 fee, but then at the end of the month, they but then at the end of the month, they but then at the end of the month, they add up all those fees and they reimburse add up all those fees and they reimburse add up all those fees and they reimburse them. Um, the other the most important them. Um, the other the most important them. Um, the other the most important thing on the ATM is when they say, "Do thing on the ATM is when they say, "Do thing on the ATM is when they say, "Do you want us to convert the currency?" you want us to convert the currency?" you want us to convert the currency?" This was it. This was it. This was it. >> It's so easy to go, "Oh, sure. You do >> It's so easy to go, "Oh, sure. You do >> It's so easy to go, "Oh, sure. You do not want to do that. you always decline not want to do that. you always decline not want to do that. you always decline the currency conversion because the rate the currency conversion because the rate the currency conversion because the rate will not be in your favor and that's in will not be in your favor and that's in will not be in your favor and that's in addition to the fee the fee. So I found addition to the fee the fee. So I found addition to the fee the fee. So I found out that out the hard way in Mexico and out that out the hard way in Mexico and out that out the hard way in Mexico and I had withdrawn something like $300 and I had withdrawn something like $300 and I had withdrawn something like $300 and I was shocked to see it was like a $50 I was shocked to see it was like a $50 I was shocked to see it was like a $50 change like change like change like >> in the conversion rate conversion rate.

  35. >> in the conversion rate conversion rate. >> in the conversion rate conversion rate. Yeah. like $300 was taken out of my Yeah. like $300 was taken out of my Yeah. like $300 was taken out of my account, but the money equivalency that account, but the money equivalency that account, but the money equivalency that I received was $250. And I will never I received was $250. And I will never I received was $250. And I will never make that mistake again. Always decline make that mistake again. Always decline make that mistake again. Always decline the currency conversion. And your bank the currency conversion. And your bank the currency conversion. And your bank will do the conversion using the will do the conversion using the will do the conversion using the accurate daily rate. Same thing with accurate daily rate. Same thing with accurate daily rate. Same thing with credit card. If you're using a credit credit card. If you're using a credit credit card. If you're using a credit card abroad, oftentimes the merchant card abroad, oftentimes the merchant card abroad, oftentimes the merchant will say, "Do you want this in the local will say, "Do you want this in the local will say, "Do you want this in the local currency or in US dollars?" You say, "In currency or in US dollars?" You say, "In currency or in US dollars?" You say, "In the local." Because then your the credit the local." Because then your the credit the local." Because then your the credit card company will convert it. card company will convert it. card company will convert it. Great point. Great point. Great point. >> That saved I mean that saved us money. I >> That saved I mean that saved us money. I >> That saved I mean that saved us money. I can't remember the whole details of it, can't remember the whole details of it, can't remember the whole details of it, but I remember when we did that and I but I remember when we did that and I but I remember when we did that and I was like, "Oh my gosh, this is a huge was like, "Oh my gosh, this is a huge was like, "Oh my gosh, this is a huge difference." difference." difference." >> And every country is different. Thailand >> And every country is different. Thailand >> And every country is different. Thailand is one where it's about seven or eight is one where it's about seven or eight is one where it's about seven or eight US dollars to use an ATM. And it's not a US dollars to use an ATM. And it's not a US dollars to use an ATM. And it's not a separate fee line item, so you don't get separate fee line item, so you don't get separate fee line item, so you don't get reimbursed. And so people casually call reimbursed. And so people casually call reimbursed. And so people casually call it the tourist tax, it the tourist tax, it the tourist tax, >> right? >> right? >> right? >> And it doesn't matter if you take out >> And it doesn't matter if you take out >> And it doesn't matter if you take out $20 or $300. So, you want to minimize $20 or $300. So, you want to minimize $20 or $300. So, you want to minimize >> how many times you go. >> how many times you go. >> how many times you go. >> How many times you go. So, I always take >> How many times you go. So, I always take >> How many times you go. So, I always take more than I think I need because I'm more than I think I need because I'm more than I think I need because I'm going to spend it. And then at the end going to spend it. And then at the end going to spend it. And then at the end of a trip, I pay off as much as if like of a trip, I pay off as much as if like of a trip, I pay off as much as if like I have a hotel bill with all the cash I I have a hotel bill with all the cash I I have a hotel bill with all the cash I have left and then only put what's left have left and then only put what's left have left and then only put what's left over on a credit card. And then because over on a credit card. And then because over on a credit card. And then because you're going to pay like 3%, but you're going to pay like 3%, but you're going to pay like 3%, but oftentimes that's less than, oftentimes that's less than, oftentimes that's less than, >> right, >> right, >> right, >> going and spending another $8 at an ATM.

  36. >> going and spending another $8 at an ATM. >> going and spending another $8 at an ATM. Um, so we've talked about safety, food, Um, so we've talked about safety, food, Um, so we've talked about safety, food, prices, prices, prices, relationships, relationships, relationships, coming and going. Oh, Marcy, earlier you coming and going. Oh, Marcy, earlier you coming and going. Oh, Marcy, earlier you had asked me what is a digital nomad, had asked me what is a digital nomad, had asked me what is a digital nomad, >> right? >> right? >> right? >> Digital nomad. So, what that is is when >> Digital nomad. So, what that is is when >> Digital nomad. So, what that is is when people are traveling around and they're people are traveling around and they're people are traveling around and they're working online and they are traveling working online and they are traveling working online and they are traveling outside of their home country. So their outside of their home country. So their outside of their home country. So their job could e either be you're an job could e either be you're an job could e either be you're an entrepreneur and you have your own entrepreneur and you have your own entrepreneur and you have your own business or you're working for a company business or you're working for a company business or you're working for a company in another country but you are traveling in another country but you are traveling in another country but you are traveling in Malaysia in South Africa in Vietnam. in Malaysia in South Africa in Vietnam. in Malaysia in South Africa in Vietnam. So you see in Vietnam a lot of digital So you see in Vietnam a lot of digital So you see in Vietnam a lot of digital nomads that are there for a month or nomads that are there for a month or nomads that are there for a month or they're there for three months or for they're there for three months or for they're there for three months or for six months and they are in all of the six months and they are in all of the six months and they are in all of the co-working or internet cafes. And so co-working or internet cafes. And so co-working or internet cafes. And so there's a lot of people that meet each there's a lot of people that meet each there's a lot of people that meet each other and then there's a lot of places other and then there's a lot of places other and then there's a lot of places in especially in Asia that are digital in especially in Asia that are digital in especially in Asia that are digital nomad hotspots. nomad hotspots. nomad hotspots. >> Oh, really?

  37. >> Oh, really? >> Oh, really? >> So yeah, so Chiang Mai is one of them. >> So yeah, so Chiang Mai is one of them. >> So yeah, so Chiang Mai is one of them. Daen, Vietnam, um Daen, Vietnam, um Daen, Vietnam, um um Bangkok, Thailand. Um, so you it's um Bangkok, Thailand. Um, so you it's um Bangkok, Thailand. Um, so you it's easy to run into people that you haven't easy to run into people that you haven't easy to run into people that you haven't seen for three months, six months, a seen for three months, six months, a seen for three months, six months, a year randomly, year randomly, year randomly, >> right, >> right, >> right, >> when you're traveling because >> when you're traveling because >> when you're traveling because everybody's kind of traveling in the everybody's kind of traveling in the everybody's kind of traveling in the same circles same circles same circles >> as a >> as a >> as a >> because they're set up for uh with like >> because they're set up for uh with like >> because they're set up for uh with like furnished apartments and co-working furnished apartments and co-working furnished apartments and co-working spaces and that that kind of stuff. So, spaces and that that kind of stuff. So, spaces and that that kind of stuff. So, it's just it's it gives you an it's just it's it gives you an it's just it's it gives you an opportunity to see another part of the opportunity to see another part of the opportunity to see another part of the world and then also if you're like world and then also if you're like world and then also if you're like trying to save money because you're trying to save money because you're trying to save money because you're starting up a business, you can live starting up a business, you can live starting up a business, you can live less expense less expensively than less expense less expensively than less expense less expensively than probably living in your home country if probably living in your home country if probably living in your home country if that's like Europe or the US or Canada, that's like Europe or the US or Canada, that's like Europe or the US or Canada, Australia. Australia. Australia. >> Makes sense.

  38. We're Charlie's Angels. We just need a We're Charlie's Angels. We just need a brunette. brunette. brunette. >> Oh, [laughter] >> Oh, [laughter] >> Oh, [laughter] >> someone from the US. >> someone from the US. >> someone from the US. >> I'll be retired from the States. Do I >> I'll be retired from the States. Do I >> I'll be retired from the States. Do I sell everything here and hope things sell everything here and hope things sell everything here and hope things will work out or store my items in will work out or store my items in will work out or store my items in storage storage storage >> for the just in case? >> for the just in case? >> for the just in case? >> Um, >> Um, >> Um, that depends on you. So, that depends on you. So, that depends on you. So, I would say most people put their things I would say most people put their things I would say most people put their things in storage and then realize they don't in storage and then realize they don't in storage and then realize they don't need their storage and then come back need their storage and then come back need their storage and then come back and they say, "Oh my gosh, I just spent and they say, "Oh my gosh, I just spent and they say, "Oh my gosh, I just spent $2,000 on storage." Because storage fees $2,000 on storage." Because storage fees $2,000 on storage." Because storage fees can go up at any point in time. And they can go up at any point in time. And they can go up at any point in time. And they do. Uh you just get a notification do. Uh you just get a notification do. Uh you just get a notification and they say, "I never needed to put my and they say, "I never needed to put my and they say, "I never needed to put my stuff in storage." However, if you stuff in storage." However, if you stuff in storage." However, if you needed to do it in order to get on the needed to do it in order to get on the needed to do it in order to get on the plane, then it was it's just something plane, then it was it's just something plane, then it was it's just something that you needed to do. It was part of that you needed to do. It was part of that you needed to do. It was part of your process. If you are not emotionally your process. If you are not emotionally your process. If you are not emotionally attached to your things, then sell them. attached to your things, then sell them. attached to your things, then sell them. I think nobody can really answer that I think nobody can really answer that I think nobody can really answer that question for you. Um, I have a garage question for you. Um, I have a garage question for you. Um, I have a garage here in Santa Monica, so I'm able to put here in Santa Monica, so I'm able to put here in Santa Monica, so I'm able to put all of my personal things that I care all of my personal things that I care all of my personal things that I care about in the garage, so I don't pay about in the garage, so I don't pay about in the garage, so I don't pay storage, and I don't I didn't get rid of storage, and I don't I didn't get rid of storage, and I don't I didn't get rid of everything. Um, I'm not a sell everything. Um, I'm not a sell everything. Um, I'm not a sell everything, burn the boat, and go. I'm everything, burn the boat, and go. I'm everything, burn the boat, and go. I'm not that person at all. I'm uh making not that person at all. I'm uh making not that person at all. I'm uh making sure that you know I can see in front of sure that you know I can see in front of sure that you know I can see in front of me and see behind me. I have options. So me and see behind me. I have options. So me and see behind me. I have options. So for me um it was important to not cut for me um it was important to not cut for me um it was important to not cut ties or do anything drastic. I still ties or do anything drastic. I still ties or do anything drastic. I still have my place here for example.

  39. have my place here for example. have my place here for example. >> And plus maybe it doesn't work out for >> And plus maybe it doesn't work out for >> And plus maybe it doesn't work out for you. Not everybody has this fairy tale you. Not everybody has this fairy tale you. Not everybody has this fairy tale story that you have either. Yeah. So story that you have either. Yeah. So story that you have either. Yeah. So >> yeah. And I think too it out. >> yeah. And I think too it out. >> yeah. And I think too it out. >> You don't know. And you don't know until >> You don't know. And you don't know until >> You don't know. And you don't know until you try it. And you don't know. Some you try it. And you don't know. Some you try it. And you don't know. Some people go and they go, "Oh my gosh, this people go and they go, "Oh my gosh, this people go and they go, "Oh my gosh, this is the best thing ever." Some people is the best thing ever." Some people is the best thing ever." Some people say, "Yeah, we tried it for two years say, "Yeah, we tried it for two years say, "Yeah, we tried it for two years and it was great, but now we want to go and it was great, but now we want to go and it was great, but now we want to go home. We missed home. We missed home. We missed >> or try another country or >> or try another country or >> or try another country or >> or Yeah. or it wasn't great. We thought >> or Yeah. or it wasn't great. We thought >> or Yeah. or it wasn't great. We thought it would, but now that we're here, it's it would, but now that we're here, it's it would, but now that we're here, it's it's not. We realize our priorities have it's not. We realize our priorities have it's not. We realize our priorities have changed." So, it's what will make you changed." So, it's what will make you changed." So, it's what will make you feel the most comfortable financially feel the most comfortable financially feel the most comfortable financially and um not having regrets, I'd say. And and um not having regrets, I'd say. And and um not having regrets, I'd say. And you mentioned too that in Daang it's not you mentioned too that in Daang it's not you mentioned too that in Daang it's not as materialistic as it is here. Like as materialistic as it is here. Like as materialistic as it is here. Like people don't have as many belongings. people don't have as many belongings. people don't have as many belongings. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> And so she's learned to live without as >> And so she's learned to live without as >> And so she's learned to live without as much as well. much as well. much as well. >> So when you come home you're able to >> So when you come home you're able to >> So when you come home you're able to purge even more. purge even more. purge even more. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> You know of things that >> You know of things that >> You know of things that >> how much do I really need?

  40. >> how much do I really need? >> how much do I really need? >> Yeah, that's a great point because I was >> Yeah, that's a great point because I was >> Yeah, that's a great point because I was out in my garage today [laughter] get out in my garage today [laughter] get out in my garage today [laughter] get rid of things. Uh, something that rid of things. Uh, something that rid of things. Uh, something that surprised me is the furnishings on the surprised me is the furnishings on the surprised me is the furnishings on the furnished apartments that most of us furnished apartments that most of us furnished apartments that most of us live in are pretty minimal and white live in are pretty minimal and white live in are pretty minimal and white walls, not trinkets. I bought I bought a walls, not trinkets. I bought I bought a walls, not trinkets. I bought I bought a few plants, but like a basic couch, few plants, but like a basic couch, few plants, but like a basic couch, table, TV, and I thought that that would table, TV, and I thought that that would table, TV, and I thought that that would bother me. I'd want a place that's more bother me. I'd want a place that's more bother me. I'd want a place that's more cozy. And what I realized is you live cozy. And what I realized is you live cozy. And what I realized is you live outside of your house so much and people outside of your house so much and people outside of your house so much and people don't place a lot of value. It's not a don't place a lot of value. It's not a don't place a lot of value. It's not a projection of yourself. It's not you projection of yourself. It's not you projection of yourself. It's not you don't you don't entertain in in your own don't you don't entertain in in your own don't you don't entertain in in your own house. house. house. >> Oh, really? >> Oh, really? >> Oh, really? >> So, I would say half my friends, maybe >> So, I would say half my friends, maybe >> So, I would say half my friends, maybe even more, have never even been to my even more, have never even been to my even more, have never even been to my apartment. I've been there two years. apartment. I've been there two years. apartment. I've been there two years. >> Because >> Because >> Because >> you're like, "Oh, hey, let's meet for >> you're like, "Oh, hey, let's meet for >> you're like, "Oh, hey, let's meet for coffee. I'll see you there in 10 coffee. I'll see you there in 10 coffee. I'll see you there in 10 minutes." We're always out in at events, minutes." We're always out in at events, minutes." We're always out in at events, at restaurants, coffee shops, workshops. at restaurants, coffee shops, workshops. at restaurants, coffee shops, workshops. There's no reason to come back to my There's no reason to come back to my There's no reason to come back to my place. And it's a very outdoor area. So place. And it's a very outdoor area. So place. And it's a very outdoor area. So there's outdoor seating everywhere. You there's outdoor seating everywhere. You there's outdoor seating everywhere. You don't have to be at a restaurant don't have to be at a restaurant don't have to be at a restaurant ordering food. There's benches and seats ordering food. There's benches and seats ordering food. There's benches and seats and really they're also very much like and really they're also very much like and really they're also very much like there will be um of a smoothie stand there will be um of a smoothie stand there will be um of a smoothie stand with all kinds of chairs and they don't with all kinds of chairs and they don't with all kinds of chairs and they don't mind if you just go sit down like hey do mind if you just go sit down like hey do mind if you just go sit down like hey do you mind if I sit here? Like of course you mind if I sit here? Like of course you mind if I sit here? Like of course go ahead. So people just sit down or go ahead. So people just sit down or go ahead. So people just sit down or it's like, "Oh, let's go get a coconut."

  41. it's like, "Oh, let's go get a coconut." it's like, "Oh, let's go get a coconut." And you sit outside. And And you sit outside. And And you sit outside. And >> part of the reason I think people want >> part of the reason I think people want >> part of the reason I think people want to be outside too is to be outside too is to be outside too is >> it's there's so much activity happening >> it's there's so much activity happening >> it's there's so much activity happening outside. outside. outside. >> The weather is almost always warm. Even >> The weather is almost always warm. Even >> The weather is almost always warm. Even during rainy season, it's like that warm during rainy season, it's like that warm during rainy season, it's like that warm muggy muggy muggy >> and you can sit undercover and it might >> and you can sit undercover and it might >> and you can sit undercover and it might be pouring rain, [laughter and cough] be pouring rain, [laughter and cough] be pouring rain, [laughter and cough] but it's still fun. Or uh I'll sometimes but it's still fun. Or uh I'll sometimes but it's still fun. Or uh I'll sometimes go sit on a street corner and they have go sit on a street corner and they have go sit on a street corner and they have these big round chairs. You can get a these big round chairs. You can get a these big round chairs. You can get a foot massage and you're completely foot massage and you're completely foot massage and you're completely entertained by life. Like a guy going entertained by life. Like a guy going entertained by life. Like a guy going by, I saw this guy go by with a by, I saw this guy go by with a by, I saw this guy go by with a motorbike, big bucket, bazillion roses motorbike, big bucket, bazillion roses motorbike, big bucket, bazillion roses in it. Somebody got has a megaphone push in it. Somebody got has a megaphone push in it. Somebody got has a megaphone push pedal bike. They're selling something pedal bike. They're selling something pedal bike. They're selling something off the back. Construction's happening. off the back. Construction's happening. off the back. Construction's happening. Scaffolding's Scaffolding's Scaffolding's moving around. Somebody's getting a moving around. Somebody's getting a moving around. Somebody's getting a refrigerator delivered. There's a band refrigerator delivered. There's a band refrigerator delivered. There's a band over there. It's just It's like you're over there. It's just It's like you're over there. It's just It's like you're watching like somebody else's live. It's watching like somebody else's live. It's watching like somebody else's live. It's there's so much happening that it's just there's so much happening that it's just there's so much happening that it's just it's fun to be outside. It's more fun to it's fun to be outside. It's more fun to it's fun to be outside. It's more fun to be outside than like I wouldn't go be outside than like I wouldn't go be outside than like I wouldn't go inside and just sit on my couch. I'd inside and just sit on my couch. I'd inside and just sit on my couch. I'd >> go work on the computer or go do >> go work on the computer or go do >> go work on the computer or go do something or go to bed.

  42. something or go to bed. something or go to bed. >> Otherwise, you just kind of go sit >> Otherwise, you just kind of go sit >> Otherwise, you just kind of go sit outside. outside. outside. >> You just reminded me of something >> You just reminded me of something >> You just reminded me of something [laughter] too. Um you said you got a [laughter] too. Um you said you got a [laughter] too. Um you said you got a massage like a foot massage. massage like a foot massage. massage like a foot massage. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> So talk about price differences between >> So talk about price differences between >> So talk about price differences between here and there. So, if you wanted to get here and there. So, if you wanted to get here and there. So, if you wanted to get a a foot massage here is a dollar a a a foot massage here is a dollar a a a foot massage here is a dollar a minute. So, if we were to go to one of minute. So, if we were to go to one of minute. So, if we were to go to one of our little places on Montana, if you had our little places on Montana, if you had our little places on Montana, if you had a 20-minute foot massage, it'd be $20. a 20-minute foot massage, it'd be $20. a 20-minute foot massage, it'd be $20. If you had a 60-minute foot massage, If you had a 60-minute foot massage, If you had a 60-minute foot massage, it'd be $60. That is a really good it'd be $60. That is a really good it'd be $60. That is a really good price. If you went to go get an hour price. If you went to go get an hour price. If you went to go get an hour body massage somewhere, body massage somewhere, body massage somewhere, most nice places would be $150. most nice places would be $150. most nice places would be $150. If you went to a nice If you went to a nice If you went to a nice >> tip and everything, it's going to be >> tip and everything, it's going to be >> tip and everything, it's going to be 200, 200, 200, >> right? I forgot about tip. Tip. We love >> right? I forgot about tip. Tip. We love >> right? I forgot about tip. Tip. We love to tip. to tip. to tip. >> So, what would an hour massage cost you? >> So, what would an hour massage cost you? >> So, what would an hour massage cost you? Because we had massages every day when Because we had massages every day when Because we had massages every day when we were in Thailand because And we were in Thailand because And we were in Thailand because And sometimes several times a day. sometimes several times a day. sometimes several times a day. >> Do you remember what they cost? >> Do you remember what they cost? >> Do you remember what they cost? >> $8 for an hour at some places. >> $8 for an hour at some places. >> $8 for an hour at some places. >> Yeah. 60 minute hour.

  43. >> Yeah. 60 minute hour. >> Yeah. 60 minute hour. >> $8 US, >> $8 US, >> $8 US, >> right? Oh, yes. And our and our hours >> right? Oh, yes. And our and our hours >> right? Oh, yes. And our and our hours here are 50 minutes. here are 50 minutes. here are 50 minutes. >> Yeah. So, I get foot massages frequently >> Yeah. So, I get foot massages frequently >> Yeah. So, I get foot massages frequently and they run about they're either 200k and they run about they're either 200k and they run about they're either 200k or 250k. That's $8 or $10 or 250k. That's $8 or $10 or 250k. That's $8 or $10 >> an hour. >> an hour. >> an hour. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> A real hour. >> A real hour. >> A real hour. >> It's 60 minutes. Yeah. Um and then it >> It's 60 minutes. Yeah. Um and then it >> It's 60 minutes. Yeah. Um and then it really depends on the establishment. Uh really depends on the establishment. Uh really depends on the establishment. Uh full body massage full body massage full body massage 1012 for 60 minutes. Um, if you go to 1012 for 60 minutes. Um, if you go to 1012 for 60 minutes. Um, if you go to one of the re the spas where they you one of the re the spas where they you one of the re the spas where they you choose your scent and they have, you choose your scent and they have, you choose your scent and they have, you know, the hot stones and then afterwards know, the hot stones and then afterwards know, the hot stones and then afterwards you have fresh mango and they're wearing you have fresh mango and they're wearing you have fresh mango and they're wearing uniforms, that kind of thing. You put uniforms, that kind of thing. You put uniforms, that kind of thing. You put your stuff in a locker your stuff in a locker your stuff in a locker >> that will be more like $20 or $25 >> that will be more like $20 or $25 >> that will be more like $20 or $25 >> US >> US >> US >> um for the real pampering service, >> um for the real pampering service, >> um for the real pampering service, >> right? um the places where you're not >> right? um the places where you're not >> right? um the places where you're not pampered, but you're getting the pampered, but you're getting the pampered, but you're getting the massage. It's funny. I used to associate massage. It's funny. I used to associate massage. It's funny. I used to associate spas and getting a even a foot massage spas and getting a even a foot massage spas and getting a even a foot massage with tranquil music and quiet. And I've with tranquil music and quiet. And I've with tranquil music and quiet. And I've been massage places been massage places been massage places >> on the corner apparently.

  44. >> on the corner apparently. >> on the corner apparently. >> Well, on the [laughter] corner outside, >> Well, on the [laughter] corner outside, >> Well, on the [laughter] corner outside, but also inside laughing, talking, but also inside laughing, talking, but also inside laughing, talking, phones going off, dog runs in, spins phones going off, dog runs in, spins phones going off, dog runs in, spins around a few times, runs back out. around a few times, runs back out. around a few times, runs back out. There's no expectation. People are There's no expectation. People are There's no expectation. People are talking. There's no expectation that talking. There's no expectation that talking. There's no expectation that it's it's a quiet tranquil experience. it's it's a quiet tranquil experience. it's it's a quiet tranquil experience. >> I had a hard time getting used to that. >> I had a hard time getting used to that. >> I had a hard time getting used to that. >> Just paying for the actual foot massage, >> Just paying for the actual foot massage, >> Just paying for the actual foot massage, >> right? >> right? >> right? >> And yeah, so that's that can take a >> And yeah, so that's that can take a >> And yeah, so that's that can take a little bit of getting used to if you little bit of getting used to if you little bit of getting used to if you have the expectation like have the expectation like have the expectation like >> it did for us when we were in Thailand >> it did for us when we were in Thailand >> it did for us when we were in Thailand >> to be quiet. >> to be quiet. >> to be quiet. >> We couldn't like families and they're >> We couldn't like families and they're >> We couldn't like families and they're just everyone's chatting and talking and just everyone's chatting and talking and just everyone's chatting and talking and laughing and yelling across the the room laughing and yelling across the the room laughing and yelling across the the room and it's a silent thing like a library and it's a silent thing like a library and it's a silent thing like a library for us in [laughter] the US. It's like for us in [laughter] the US. It's like for us in [laughter] the US. It's like going to the library. It's like shh. going to the library. It's like shh. going to the library. It's like shh. >> It's and it's supposed to be like if >> It's and it's supposed to be like if >> It's and it's supposed to be like if somebody you're like this is a quiet somebody you're like this is a quiet somebody you're like this is a quiet zone. Okay. One of my very first zone. Okay. One of my very first zone. Okay. One of my very first experiences in Vietnam. I was staying experiences in Vietnam. I was staying experiences in Vietnam. I was staying across the river in the city when I across the river in the city when I across the river in the city when I first got there first got there first got there >> and I went in to a spa and I was sitting >> and I went in to a spa and I was sitting >> and I went in to a spa and I was sitting in one of the big recliners. They're in one of the big recliners. They're in one of the big recliners. They're just starting my foot massage and a lady just starting my foot massage and a lady just starting my foot massage and a lady comes in with her toddler and she goes comes in with her toddler and she goes comes in with her toddler and she goes to get a massage and so they just put to get a massage and so they just put to get a massage and so they just put the toddler in the chair next to me with the toddler in the chair next to me with the toddler in the chair next to me with an iPad [gasps] an iPad [gasps] an iPad [gasps] and they put on Baby Shark.

  45. and they put on Baby Shark. and they put on Baby Shark. >> Oh, you're kidding. >> Oh, you're kidding. >> Oh, you're kidding. >> And it's going Baby Shark D Mama Shark D >> And it's going Baby Shark D Mama Shark D >> And it's going Baby Shark D Mama Shark D full volume right here. And then the two full volume right here. And then the two full volume right here. And then the two girls that weren't working start girls that weren't working start girls that weren't working start standing in front of the toddler doing standing in front of the toddler doing standing in front of the toddler doing the shark moves. the shark moves. the shark moves. >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> [laughter] >> Oh my gosh, >> Oh my gosh, >> Oh my gosh, >> what's happening? Mom's off getting a >> what's happening? Mom's off getting a >> what's happening? Mom's off getting a massage for an hour. I'm sitting there massage for an hour. I'm sitting there massage for an hour. I'm sitting there next to the the baby the toddler. next to the the baby the toddler. next to the the baby the toddler. >> That's really funny. >> That's really funny. >> That's really funny. >> The baby shark thinking this is so >> The baby shark thinking this is so >> The baby shark thinking this is so comical. comical. comical. >> It would never happen in the States. But >> It would never happen in the States. But >> It would never happen in the States. But that's that's that's >> it's it's just the culture there and >> it's it's just the culture there and >> it's it's just the culture there and it's completely fine. Nothing it's completely fine. Nothing it's completely fine. Nothing >> there. It's not a there's no awareness >> there. It's not a there's no awareness >> there. It's not a there's no awareness that that might that should be any that that might that should be any that that might that should be any different. And it shouldn't be because different. And it shouldn't be because different. And it shouldn't be because that's my expectation from here, but that's my expectation from here, but that's my expectation from here, but it's not over there. it's not over there. it's not over there. >> It it just took some getting used to. >> It it just took some getting used to. >> It it just took some getting used to. >> That's funny. It did for us, too. >> That's funny. It did for us, too. >> That's funny. It did for us, too. >> I However, even through the end of our >> I However, even through the end of our >> I However, even through the end of our trip, I didn't realize that was a trip, I didn't realize that was a trip, I didn't realize that was a cultural thing and allowed. I just cultural thing and allowed. I just cultural thing and allowed. I just thought these people were rude at the thought these people were rude at the thought these people were rude at the [laughter] spot. [laughter] spot. [laughter] spot. >> You still have no idea.

  46. >> You still have no idea. >> You still have no idea. >> I still see >> I still see >> I still see >> till right now. >> till right now. >> till right now. you. Yeah. I' I've been sitting next to you. Yeah. I' I've been sitting next to you. Yeah. I' I've been sitting next to somebody getting a massage and they get somebody getting a massage and they get somebody getting a massage and they get on the phone and they're talking on the on the phone and they're talking on the on the phone and they're talking on the phone the entire time and at some point phone the entire time and at some point phone the entire time and at some point I'm like, "Dude, I'm like, "Dude, I'm like, "Dude, >> like enjoy your massage." Like, >> like enjoy your massage." Like, >> like enjoy your massage." Like, >> yeah. You know, when people talk on the >> yeah. You know, when people talk on the >> yeah. You know, when people talk on the phone, they talk really loud phone, they talk really loud phone, they talk really loud >> because there's chaos outside and it's >> because there's chaos outside and it's >> because there's chaos outside and it's loud. So, they're kind of they're loud. So, they're kind of they're loud. So, they're kind of they're talking really really loud and it's it's talking really really loud and it's it's talking really really loud and it's it's right here next to me. right here next to me. right here next to me. >> But, that's an opportunity for me to >> But, that's an opportunity for me to >> But, that's an opportunity for me to practice going. practice going. practice going. >> I'm not bothered. It's that's just fine. >> I'm not bothered. It's that's just fine. >> I'm not bothered. It's that's just fine. Um but it's easy to go what what's Um but it's easy to go what what's Um but it's easy to go what what's happening when we're not used to it. So happening when we're not used to it. So happening when we're not used to it. So I encourage people if you're feeling I encourage people if you're feeling I encourage people if you're feeling this like frustration or surprise um this like frustration or surprise um this like frustration or surprise um to kind of look around to see what the to kind of look around to see what the to kind of look around to see what the locals are doing and locals are doing and locals are doing and >> adjust your expectation. And I've heard >> adjust your expectation. And I've heard >> adjust your expectation. And I've heard some people like some people have some people like some people have some people like some people have commented on some of my lives saying or commented on some of my lives saying or commented on some of my lives saying or on some of my videos saying, "Oh, if on some of my videos saying, "Oh, if on some of my videos saying, "Oh, if it's really noisy with construction and it's really noisy with construction and it's really noisy with construction and honking, you know, I'll go places to honking, you know, I'll go places to honking, you know, I'll go places to avoid it or I'll get an apartment." I'm avoid it or I'll get an apartment." I'm avoid it or I'll get an apartment." I'm like, if you try to avoid it, I think like, if you try to avoid it, I think like, if you try to avoid it, I think you're setting yourself up for failure.

  47. you're setting yourself up for failure. you're setting yourself up for failure. You're going to be upset all the time. You're going to be upset all the time. You're going to be upset all the time. Try to Try to Try to just realize it's just realize it's just realize it's >> just part of life. >> just part of life. >> just part of life. >> It's just part of life. And try to try >> It's just part of life. And try to try >> It's just part of life. And try to try to laugh. Try to laugh. to laugh. Try to laugh. to laugh. Try to laugh. Let's see. Um, Let's see. Um, Let's see. Um, chair the table is a Vietnam child size, chair the table is a Vietnam child size, chair the table is a Vietnam child size, so it's easy to stack. Yes, that's true. so it's easy to stack. Yes, that's true. so it's easy to stack. Yes, that's true. So, there's a comment. So, there's a comment. So, there's a comment. Oh, thank you, Sparky Donna. There's a a Oh, thank you, Sparky Donna. There's a a Oh, thank you, Sparky Donna. There's a a comment that about the tables and chairs comment that about the tables and chairs comment that about the tables and chairs in Vietnam is they're the small plastic, in Vietnam is they're the small plastic, in Vietnam is they're the small plastic, what we would call child size. And so, what we would call child size. And so, what we would call child size. And so, and they're generally smaller people. So and they're generally smaller people. So and they're generally smaller people. So you go up to any like an outdoor ice you go up to any like an outdoor ice you go up to any like an outdoor ice cream shop, an outdoor cart that's cream shop, an outdoor cart that's cream shop, an outdoor cart that's selling food, and you sit at a table selling food, and you sit at a table selling food, and you sit at a table that's, you know, this tall. that's, you know, this tall. that's, you know, this tall. >> It's like our coffee table. >> It's like our coffee table. >> It's like our coffee table. >> And then a little plastic stool where >> And then a little plastic stool where >> And then a little plastic stool where the seat, you know, it's like this big. the seat, you know, it's like this big. the seat, you know, it's like this big. Yeah. And Yeah. And Yeah. And that's just that's what everybody uses.

  48. that's just that's what everybody uses. that's just that's what everybody uses. There's no like large size or size There's no like large size or size There's no like large size or size chairs. chairs. chairs. Sorry guys, I'm putting my finger on the Sorry guys, I'm putting my finger on the Sorry guys, I'm putting my finger on the screen so I can check the That's what screen so I can check the That's what screen so I can check the That's what you need to do to you need to do to you need to do to check the um comments here. Table small check the um comments here. Table small check the um comments here. Table small size. Yep. Thumbs up, thumbs down. Um size. Yep. Thumbs up, thumbs down. Um size. Yep. Thumbs up, thumbs down. Um I'll be retired. Okay, so we answered I'll be retired. Okay, so we answered I'll be retired. Okay, so we answered that. that. that. Store my items. What other questions do Store my items. What other questions do Store my items. What other questions do you all have for myself or for Marcy? I you all have for myself or for Marcy? I you all have for myself or for Marcy? I got my passport today in the mail. got my passport today in the mail. got my passport today in the mail. Congratulations. I'm planning my two Congratulations. I'm planning my two Congratulations. I'm planning my two week vacation to Daang next June or week vacation to Daang next June or week vacation to Daang next June or July. July. July. Uh, thanks for your experience. Oh, I'm Uh, thanks for your experience. Oh, I'm Uh, thanks for your experience. Oh, I'm so glad it helps. What other questions so glad it helps. What other questions so glad it helps. What other questions do you have? do you have? do you have? Um, so so Marc asks, "What things are hard Marc asks, "What things are hard Marc asks, "What things are hard sometimes?" sometimes?" sometimes?" Like, um, one thing that I've realized Like, um, one thing that I've realized Like, um, one thing that I've realized is that I'll ask somebody a question and is that I'll ask somebody a question and is that I'll ask somebody a question and they'll say yes.

  49. they'll say yes. they'll say yes. and they don't mean it, but I take a yes and they don't mean it, but I take a yes and they don't mean it, but I take a yes as an affirmation and they nod or say as an affirmation and they nod or say as an affirmation and they nod or say yes like I'm acknowledging you. I might yes like I'm acknowledging you. I might yes like I'm acknowledging you. I might not have not know what you just said, not have not know what you just said, not have not know what you just said, >> but I'm acknowledging you. >> but I'm acknowledging you. >> but I'm acknowledging you. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Oh, wow. >> Oh, wow. >> Oh, wow. >> And so >> And so >> And so >> that's hard to get used to the >> that's hard to get used to the >> that's hard to get used to the difference. difference. difference. >> Yeah. So, you know, kind of like maybe >> Yeah. So, you know, kind of like maybe >> Yeah. So, you know, kind of like maybe if here in Santa Monica if somebody says if here in Santa Monica if somebody says if here in Santa Monica if somebody says something to me in French and they're something to me in French and they're something to me in French and they're smiling and waving, I'm like, "Yeah, but smiling and waving, I'm like, "Yeah, but smiling and waving, I'm like, "Yeah, but I'm I am I don't I'm not saying yes to, I'm I am I don't I'm not saying yes to, I'm I am I don't I'm not saying yes to, you know, to whatever they're saying." you know, to whatever they're saying." you know, to whatever they're saying." Just remembering Just remembering Just remembering >> remembering that. >> remembering that. >> remembering that. >> Um >> Um >> Um and and and I'm trying to think of what what else. I'm trying to think of what what else. I'm trying to think of what what else. Um, I can't really think of anything on a I can't really think of anything on a like any kind of consistent basis that's like any kind of consistent basis that's like any kind of consistent basis that's difficult other than Yeah, sometimes the difficult other than Yeah, sometimes the difficult other than Yeah, sometimes the noise is hard for people. Um, noise is hard for people. Um, noise is hard for people. Um, >> pores rain in a matter of seconds. >> pores rain in a matter of seconds. >> pores rain in a matter of seconds. Sometimes you can be caught in the rain.

  50. Sometimes you can be caught in the rain. Sometimes you can be caught in the rain. >> That's why everybody wears rubber >> That's why everybody wears rubber >> That's why everybody wears rubber sandals and shorts because your legs sandals and shorts because your legs sandals and shorts because your legs dry. You don't want to be wearing jeans dry. You don't want to be wearing jeans dry. You don't want to be wearing jeans that often because, you know, they get that often because, you know, they get that often because, you know, they get wet and they they stay wet. wet and they they stay wet. wet and they they stay wet. >> Um, >> Um, >> Um, how about bugs? how about bugs? how about bugs? >> Bugs. >> Bugs. >> Bugs. There's cockroaches. There's cockroaches. There's cockroaches. Um, frequently Um, frequently Um, frequently >> you see cockroaches around. There's >> you see cockroaches around. There's >> you see cockroaches around. There's cockroaches and rats. Um, cockroaches and rats. Um, cockroaches and rats. Um, so I remember when I first moved there, remember when I first moved there, sitting in my on my couch, maybe at sitting in my on my couch, maybe at sitting in my on my couch, maybe at midnight, midnight, midnight, all of a sudden there's a cockroach all of a sudden there's a cockroach all of a sudden there's a cockroach walking across my apartment. Oh my gosh. walking across my apartment. Oh my gosh. walking across my apartment. Oh my gosh. And kind of freaking out like I need to And kind of freaking out like I need to And kind of freaking out like I need to go get my passport. I'm leaving the go get my passport. I'm leaving the go get my passport. I'm leaving the country tomorrow. I can't I can't like country tomorrow. I can't I can't like country tomorrow. I can't I can't like you just for me seeing a cockroach is you just for me seeing a cockroach is you just for me seeing a cockroach is very alarming. Now I notice there's very alarming. Now I notice there's very alarming. Now I notice there's probably two months ago the same thing probably two months ago the same thing probably two months ago the same thing happened and I was working on my happened and I was working on my happened and I was working on my computer and I just watched it. I'm like computer and I just watched it. I'm like computer and I just watched it. I'm like >> I'll deal with it later. Like it's >> I'll deal with it later. Like it's >> I'll deal with it later. Like it's >> Oh wow.

  51. >> Oh wow. >> Oh wow. >> I'm just watching it walk across like >> I'm just watching it walk across like >> I'm just watching it walk across like because again you just you get a little because again you just you get a little because again you just you get a little more used to it. Um yeah, of course you more used to it. Um yeah, of course you more used to it. Um yeah, of course you want to keep the cockroaches out of your want to keep the cockroaches out of your want to keep the cockroaches out of your room. They occasionally one will come room. They occasionally one will come room. They occasionally one will come in. There was one night where I got up in. There was one night where I got up in. There was one night where I got up in the middle of the night. You always in the middle of the night. You always in the middle of the night. You always flip the light on and there was one flip the light on and there was one flip the light on and there was one sitting on the toilet seat. sitting on the toilet seat. sitting on the toilet seat. >> Oh wow. So then you're sitting there >> Oh wow. So then you're sitting there >> Oh wow. So then you're sitting there like, like, like, I can't deal with this right now and I I can't deal with this right now and I I can't deal with this right now and I don't know what to do. So I would sat on don't know what to do. So I would sat on don't know what to do. So I would sat on my couch like I don't want to knock it my couch like I don't want to knock it my couch like I don't want to knock it into the toilet because that feels like into the toilet because that feels like into the toilet because that feels like traumatic. It's going to wake me up. I traumatic. It's going to wake me up. I traumatic. It's going to wake me up. I don't want it can't be running around my don't want it can't be running around my don't want it can't be running around my place. Um I think what I did was knocked place. Um I think what I did was knocked place. Um I think what I did was knocked it off the seat and it and just covered it off the seat and it and just covered it off the seat and it and just covered it with a bowl really quickly and then it with a bowl really quickly and then it with a bowl really quickly and then ask the security guard the next day to ask the security guard the next day to ask the security guard the next day to come get it. that my building has a come get it. that my building has a come get it. that my building has a security guard, but I literally think security guard, but I literally think security guard, but I literally think the only thing he's he does consistently the only thing he's he does consistently the only thing he's he does consistently is come like get a bug or bring up a jug is come like get a bug or bring up a jug is come like get a bug or bring up a jug of water. of water. of water. Like, Like, Like, >> is your water safe to drink? >> is your water safe to drink? >> is your water safe to drink? >> Not out of the faucet. >> Not out of the faucet. >> Not out of the faucet. >> No. >> No. >> No. >> So, yeah, we all have big um the big the >> So, yeah, we all have big um the big the >> So, yeah, we all have big um the big the big water jugs. But really, the big water jugs. But really, the big water jugs. But really, the hydration that I get because I try not hydration that I get because I try not hydration that I get because I try not to drink water out of plastic if I can to drink water out of plastic if I can to drink water out of plastic if I can avoid it. So, I try to get my hydration avoid it. So, I try to get my hydration avoid it. So, I try to get my hydration from soups, fruit, teas, coconuts as from soups, fruit, teas, coconuts as from soups, fruit, teas, coconuts as much as possible and then just use um much as possible and then just use um much as possible and then just use um the pla the water that's stored in the pla the water that's stored in the pla the water that's stored in plastic as a backup. Hi, Gary here. Um plastic as a backup. Hi, Gary here. Um plastic as a backup. Hi, Gary here. Um Oh, hi. Hi, Gary.

  52. Oh, hi. Hi, Gary. Oh, hi. Hi, Gary. Nice to see you dancing tonight. Yes. Nice to see you dancing tonight. Yes. Nice to see you dancing tonight. Yes. Yeah, this is a Yeah, this is a Yeah, this is a Gary that I met in Daang. Thanks for Gary that I met in Daang. Thanks for Gary that I met in Daang. Thanks for joining. Um, the weather is great. joining. Um, the weather is great. joining. Um, the weather is great. Amazing moonrise on the beach, the Amazing moonrise on the beach, the Amazing moonrise on the beach, the sunset behind us. Third trip here. Ah, sunset behind us. Third trip here. Ah, sunset behind us. Third trip here. Ah, fabulous. Hi, Gary. Thanks for checking fabulous. Hi, Gary. Thanks for checking fabulous. Hi, Gary. Thanks for checking in. in. in. So, now that you're here in LA, would So, now that you're here in LA, would So, now that you're here in LA, would you say today's weather similar to you say today's weather similar to you say today's weather similar to today? Today, it feels very hot. Very, today? Today, it feels very hot. Very, today? Today, it feels very hot. Very, very hot to me here in LA. Like, I just very hot to me here in LA. Like, I just very hot to me here in LA. Like, I just have low energy. have low energy. have low energy. >> Um, I don't know why it feels so much >> Um, I don't know why it feels so much >> Um, I don't know why it feels so much hotter. hotter. hotter. >> It's a strange day. Well, so there's >> It's a strange day. Well, so there's >> It's a strange day. Well, so there's something going on with the moon tonight something going on with the moon tonight something going on with the moon tonight where it's almost a complete is it where it's almost a complete is it where it's almost a complete is it solstice where the solstice where the solstice where the sun or when the the sun reflects off sun or when the the sun reflects off sun or when the the sun reflects off whatever and the moon hides it. whatever and the moon hides it. whatever and the moon hides it. >> I hope none of my astrology friends are >> I hope none of my astrology friends are >> I hope none of my astrology friends are watching right now. They'd be horrified. watching right now. They'd be horrified. watching right now. They'd be horrified. It's It's It's >> because you don't know what I'm Okay, >> because you don't know what I'm Okay, >> because you don't know what I'm Okay, I'm not either. There's something huge I'm not either. There's something huge I'm not either. There's something huge tonight or No, it's gonna be orange tonight or No, it's gonna be orange tonight or No, it's gonna be orange tonight. Who knows? Who knows? Maybe tonight. Who knows? Who knows? Maybe tonight. Who knows? Who knows? Maybe it's a pink moon. Who knows? it's a pink moon. Who knows? it's a pink moon. Who knows? >> I think I'm right that it's a solstice >> I think I'm right that it's a solstice >> I think I'm right that it's a solstice and it's almost a complete one.

  53. and it's almost a complete one. and it's almost a complete one. Um, Um, Um, is it hard for you to see yourself is it hard for you to see yourself is it hard for you to see yourself paying 15 for Fu versus Yes. Yeah, it's paying 15 for Fu versus Yes. Yeah, it's paying 15 for Fu versus Yes. Yeah, it's it's noticeable to pay it. It's not even it's noticeable to pay it. It's not even it's noticeable to pay it. It's not even $20. It's $25 before tax and t for bula. $20. It's $25 before tax and t for bula. $20. It's $25 before tax and t for bula. Um. Um. Um. >> Wow. >> Wow. >> Wow. >> Yeah. And I love my f. I haven't had it >> Yeah. And I love my f. I haven't had it >> Yeah. And I love my f. I haven't had it since I've been here. I just I eat since I've been here. I just I eat since I've been here. I just I eat different things when I'm here. I have different things when I'm here. I have different things when I'm here. I have more like eggs and beef and chicken. Um, more like eggs and beef and chicken. Um, more like eggs and beef and chicken. Um, but I'll be happy to to have my f again. but I'll be happy to to have my f again. but I'll be happy to to have my f again. So, yeah, it feels hotter here and I'm So, yeah, it feels hotter here and I'm So, yeah, it feels hotter here and I'm not I'm not sure why, but also in I not I'm not sure why, but also in I not I'm not sure why, but also in I don't have air conditioning in my condo don't have air conditioning in my condo don't have air conditioning in my condo here and in Daang I have my air here and in Daang I have my air here and in Daang I have my air conditioning on pretty consistently, conditioning on pretty consistently, conditioning on pretty consistently, even if it's on a higher setting on the even if it's on a higher setting on the even if it's on a higher setting on the dry mode dry mode dry mode >> because it can be so humid outside. I >> because it can be so humid outside. I >> because it can be so humid outside. I have floor to ceiling windows in my have floor to ceiling windows in my have floor to ceiling windows in my place and it will look like a shower place and it will look like a shower place and it will look like a shower door, you know, like all door, you know, like all door, you know, like all >> steam >> steam >> steam >> steam. This is very very humid. So some >> steam. This is very very humid. So some >> steam. This is very very humid. So some days it's really hot in and so you you days it's really hot in and so you you days it's really hot in and so you you spend more time inside the air spend more time inside the air spend more time inside the air conditioning where not having it here conditioning where not having it here conditioning where not having it here and today I was working out in my and today I was working out in my and today I was working out in my garage. I'm like it's hot.

  54. garage. I'm like it's hot. garage. I'm like it's hot. >> We're having a heat wave and it's a >> We're having a heat wave and it's a >> We're having a heat wave and it's a humid hot which is kind of unusual for humid hot which is kind of unusual for humid hot which is kind of unusual for LA right now. LA right now. LA right now. So, So, So, um, um, um, bugs aren't bad at all here. I'm in bugs aren't bad at all here. I'm in bugs aren't bad at all here. I'm in Quinon right now. Um, so it might be too Quinon right now. Um, so it might be too Quinon right now. Um, so it might be too hot for bugs. The only annoyance is hot for bugs. The only annoyance is hot for bugs. The only annoyance is chirping geckos chirping geckos chirping geckos in your Oh, you have chirping geckos. in your Oh, you have chirping geckos. in your Oh, you have chirping geckos. I did not know about that. You know, I did not know about that. You know, I did not know about that. You know, there are these funny little geckos. there are these funny little geckos. there are these funny little geckos. That's another animal that gets into my That's another animal that gets into my That's another animal that gets into my room frequently and they are like skin room frequently and they are like skin room frequently and they are like skin color color color >> and they're very like they're tan and >> and they're very like they're tan and >> and they're very like they're tan and you see the little eyeballs and they're you see the little eyeballs and they're you see the little eyeballs and they're not [laughter] I mean and the rest of not [laughter] I mean and the rest of not [laughter] I mean and the rest of them is just you know they have their them is just you know they have their them is just you know they have their little hands and the little tail. little hands and the little tail. little hands and the little tail. They're with the tail maybe this long. They're with the tail maybe this long. They're with the tail maybe this long. their body's like that long. And it's their body's like that long. And it's their body's like that long. And it's common to see one like run across the common to see one like run across the common to see one like run across the ceiling, ceiling, ceiling, >> the the the wall or I'll see them >> the the the wall or I'll see them >> the the the wall or I'll see them outside my window um just kind of outside my window um just kind of outside my window um just kind of sitting there in the light. They're not sitting there in the light. They're not sitting there in the light. They're not very smart. And I like one night I got very smart. And I like one night I got very smart. And I like one night I got up and I was it was dark and I was um up and I was it was dark and I was um up and I was it was dark and I was um getting something to drink and I hear a getting something to drink and I hear a getting something to drink and I hear a splash. I'm like what? And I flip on the splash. I'm like what? And I flip on the splash. I'm like what? And I flip on the light and one had gotten into there was light and one had gotten into there was light and one had gotten into there was a mason jar a mason jar a mason jar >> with about this much water in it.

  55. >> with about this much water in it. >> with about this much water in it. >> Flashed in and now it's banging around >> Flashed in and now it's banging around >> Flashed in and now it's banging around and it can't get out. and it can't get out. and it can't get out. >> Oh, >> Oh, >> Oh, >> I thought good thing I'm here right now >> I thought good thing I'm here right now >> I thought good thing I'm here right now because I would wake up and it would because I would wake up and it would because I would wake up and it would >> be in the bottom like no longer alive. >> be in the bottom like no longer alive. >> be in the bottom like no longer alive. So I just I took a a towel and then I So I just I took a a towel and then I So I just I took a a towel and then I just turned it sideways like it'll find just turned it sideways like it'll find just turned it sideways like it'll find it'll find its way out. Mh. it'll find its way out. Mh. it'll find its way out. Mh. >> Um, but I did find one in sitting in in >> Um, but I did find one in sitting in in >> Um, but I did find one in sitting in in water water water in my place. So, in my place. So, in my place. So, >> yeah, they're not. >> yeah, they're not. >> yeah, they're not. >> Do you have cicas there? Because when we >> Do you have cicas there? Because when we >> Do you have cicas there? Because when we were in Thailand, there were tons of were in Thailand, there were tons of were in Thailand, there were tons of cicas. Loved it. By the way, a lot of cicas. Loved it. By the way, a lot of cicas. Loved it. By the way, a lot of people are annoyed by them. I think people are annoyed by them. I think people are annoyed by them. I think they're so beautiful the noise they they're so beautiful the noise they they're so beautiful the noise they make. make. make. >> I don't I don't No, I don't. It's not a >> I don't I don't No, I don't. It's not a >> I don't I don't No, I don't. It's not a noise I'm used to hearing. Um, noise I'm used to hearing. Um, noise I'm used to hearing. Um, and if you you're passing on the and if you you're passing on the and if you you're passing on the sidewalk, if you're passing like a sidewalk, if you're passing like a sidewalk, if you're passing like a garbage area or a popular food area, you garbage area or a popular food area, you garbage area or a popular food area, you might see a rat run across the street. might see a rat run across the street. might see a rat run across the street. Just get kind of used to it. Just get kind of used to it. Just get kind of used to it. Um, Um, Um, anything else here? anything else here? anything else here? Is there items here in the States you Is there items here in the States you Is there items here in the States you would recommend to bring for anyone would recommend to bring for anyone would recommend to bring for anyone going to Oops. Hang on. It's not going to Oops. Hang on. It's not going to Oops. Hang on. It's not available there. Please, thank you for available there. Please, thank you for available there. Please, thank you for all the responses. Sure. Um, so if all the responses. Sure. Um, so if all the responses. Sure. Um, so if there's any certain kind of supplements there's any certain kind of supplements there's any certain kind of supplements that you really want to bring, I would that you really want to bring, I would that you really want to bring, I would say bring those. Um, if you are a male, say bring those. Um, if you are a male, say bring those. Um, if you are a male, it is difficult to find an American it is difficult to find an American it is difficult to find an American male. I think the shoe sizes there are male. I think the shoe sizes there are male. I think the shoe sizes there are pretty tiny. And so my American male pretty tiny. And so my American male pretty tiny. And so my American male friends

  56. friends friends >> said, makes sense. They have trouble >> said, makes sense. They have trouble >> said, makes sense. They have trouble finding shoes and they have trouble finding shoes and they have trouble finding shoes and they have trouble finding like a guy came over and he had finding like a guy came over and he had finding like a guy came over and he had slacks and shirts. He was looking for slacks and shirts. He was looking for slacks and shirts. He was looking for swim trunks and he's not a big guy and swim trunks and he's not a big guy and swim trunks and he's not a big guy and he said the swim trunks were super snug he said the swim trunks were super snug he said the swim trunks were super snug and he bought like XL but same for me. and he bought like XL but same for me. and he bought like XL but same for me. I'm not a large person but I'll hold up I'm not a large person but I'll hold up I'm not a large person but I'll hold up a size XL shorts at the market a size XL shorts at the market a size XL shorts at the market [laughter] and I'm like I couldn't put [laughter] and I'm like I couldn't put [laughter] and I'm like I couldn't put my leg in this. So, my leg in this. So, my leg in this. So, clothing supplements, if you have any clothing supplements, if you have any clothing supplements, if you have any products that you rely on, um, like if products that you rely on, um, like if products that you rely on, um, like if you have a special hair product that you you have a special hair product that you you have a special hair product that you love, it's hard to find products that I love, it's hard to find products that I love, it's hard to find products that I like their like the most common people like their like the most common people like their like the most common people use Pantene shampoo and conditioner from use Pantene shampoo and conditioner from use Pantene shampoo and conditioner from the mini market. That's it's hard hard the mini market. That's it's hard hard the mini market. That's it's hard hard to find um to find um to find um >> the name >> the name >> the name >> products that we use or the name brands >> products that we use or the name brands >> products that we use or the name brands and and and >> even like even like makeup like the MAC >> even like even like makeup like the MAC >> even like even like makeup like the MAC makeup stores, they don't have the like makeup stores, they don't have the like makeup stores, they don't have the like the blues and the purples and all those the blues and the purples and all those the blues and the purples and all those colors of eye shadow like we're used to colors of eye shadow like we're used to colors of eye shadow like we're used to here because Asians wear more like the here because Asians wear more like the here because Asians wear more like the peaches and the and the greens.

  57. peaches and the and the greens. peaches and the and the greens. >> So, they don't even stock >> So, they don't even stock >> So, they don't even stock >> the colors that we like. So, >> the colors that we like. So, >> the colors that we like. So, um um um I'm trying to think of what I bought on I'm trying to think of what I bought on I'm trying to think of what I bought on Amazon that I take back over. Um Amazon that I take back over. Um Amazon that I take back over. Um >> workout clothes. >> workout clothes. >> workout clothes. >> Workout clothes. >> Workout clothes. >> Workout clothes. Um any Yeah, super comfortable shoes Um any Yeah, super comfortable shoes Um any Yeah, super comfortable shoes that I like. Um yeah, that I like. Um yeah, that I like. Um yeah, >> swimsuits. >> swimsuits. >> swimsuits. >> I buy swimsuits here because there's a >> I buy swimsuits here because there's a >> I buy swimsuits here because there's a brand that I like and it's just easy. I brand that I like and it's just easy. I brand that I like and it's just easy. I know it's going to fit, so I just keep know it's going to fit, so I just keep know it's going to fit, so I just keep ordering the same one. She was over at ordering the same one. She was over at ordering the same one. She was over at my house when I was unpacking all my fun my house when I was unpacking all my fun my house when I was unpacking all my fun stuff. stuff. stuff. >> [gasps] >> [gasps] >> [gasps] >> Um, I also I bought some calm magnesium >> Um, I also I bought some calm magnesium >> Um, I also I bought some calm magnesium magnesium glycinate that when I get back magnesium glycinate that when I get back magnesium glycinate that when I get back in town I'll take um just at night in town I'll take um just at night in town I'll take um just at night >> when I'm pregnant yeah through jet lag. >> when I'm pregnant yeah through jet lag. >> when I'm pregnant yeah through jet lag. >> Um yeah, things like that. But most >> Um yeah, things like that. But most >> Um yeah, things like that. But most other things you're going to find hats other things you're going to find hats other things you're going to find hats and um sarongs and flip-flops and all and um sarongs and flip-flops and all and um sarongs and flip-flops and all the food that you need. All the toys the food that you need. All the toys the food that you need. All the toys sunscreens are fine there.

  58. sunscreens are fine there. sunscreens are fine there. >> Sunscreens. Um >> Sunscreens. Um >> Sunscreens. Um yeah, all those all those you'll find yeah, all those all those you'll find yeah, all those all those you'll find abroad. Um Daang has a brand new mall abroad. Um Daang has a brand new mall abroad. Um Daang has a brand new mall that just opened up that's supposed to that just opened up that's supposed to that just opened up that's supposed to be this huge beautiful name brand mall. be this huge beautiful name brand mall. be this huge beautiful name brand mall. I have not yet been. Before that mall I have not yet been. Before that mall I have not yet been. Before that mall opened, there hasn't been much shopping. opened, there hasn't been much shopping. opened, there hasn't been much shopping. So, but Bangkok's only, you know, less So, but Bangkok's only, you know, less So, but Bangkok's only, you know, less than two hour flight away. So, I'd go than two hour flight away. So, I'd go than two hour flight away. So, I'd go they have malls galore. They have an they have malls galore. They have an they have malls galore. They have an Apple store. Um, you can find anything Apple store. Um, you can find anything Apple store. Um, you can find anything that you need in Bangkok if you're kind that you need in Bangkok if you're kind that you need in Bangkok if you're kind of traveling around Southeast Asia. of traveling around Southeast Asia. of traveling around Southeast Asia. That's the place to get all the things That's the place to get all the things That's the place to get all the things that you need. Like, they have be huge, that you need. Like, they have be huge, that you need. Like, they have be huge, beautiful malls and they're like one beautiful malls and they're like one beautiful malls and they're like one metro stop apart from each other. So, metro stop apart from each other. So, metro stop apart from each other. So, you can find anything you want from the you can find anything you want from the you can find anything you want from the Dior, Prada, Unicorn. So easy to get Dior, Prada, Unicorn. So easy to get Dior, Prada, Unicorn. So easy to get around there, too. around there, too. around there, too. >> So easy. Super. Yeah. Very, very easy. >> So easy. Super. Yeah. Very, very easy. >> So easy. Super. Yeah. Very, very easy. So, and then it's very, very So, and then it's very, very So, and then it's very, very international. international. international. Um, Um, Um, let's see. Best shopping in Kolumper. I let's see. Best shopping in Kolumper. I let's see. Best shopping in Kolumper. I have not yet been. Um, but I kind of have not yet been. Um, but I kind of have not yet been. Um, but I kind of kind of got shopped out on my last trip kind of got shopped out on my last trip kind of got shopped out on my last trip to to Bangkok and now home with Amazon.

  59. to to Bangkok and now home with Amazon. to to Bangkok and now home with Amazon. Um, yeah. So, there's not a lot. I think Um, yeah. So, there's not a lot. I think Um, yeah. So, there's not a lot. I think last time I brought over some like last time I brought over some like last time I brought over some like organic castor oil that I wanted in a organic castor oil that I wanted in a organic castor oil that I wanted in a glass jar. Just some specific things if glass jar. Just some specific things if glass jar. Just some specific things if there's things like that that you want. there's things like that that you want. there's things like that that you want. Um, do you go to the gym there? How much Um, do you go to the gym there? How much Um, do you go to the gym there? How much is it? And um are there only expats or is it? And um are there only expats or is it? And um are there only expats or are there some locals there too? are there some locals there too? are there some locals there too? Greeting from Berlin, Germany. Hi. Hi. Greeting from Berlin, Germany. Hi. Hi. Greeting from Berlin, Germany. Hi. Hi. In Berlin, Germany. So, I did belong to In Berlin, Germany. So, I did belong to In Berlin, Germany. So, I did belong to a gym for a while and I really enjoyed a gym for a while and I really enjoyed a gym for a while and I really enjoyed it and it was great during rain rainy it and it was great during rain rainy it and it was great during rain rainy season and I joined it because it was a season and I joined it because it was a season and I joined it because it was a new gym. I think it cost the equivalent new gym. I think it cost the equivalent new gym. I think it cost the equivalent of $60 US a month. The price varies of $60 US a month. The price varies of $60 US a month. The price varies depending on how long you sign up for. depending on how long you sign up for. depending on how long you sign up for. Are you signing up for one month, three, Are you signing up for one month, three, Are you signing up for one month, three, six a year? One of my friends signed up six a year? One of my friends signed up six a year? One of my friends signed up for multiple years. So, he had a great for multiple years. So, he had a great for multiple years. So, he had a great great price. They have um an ice bath, a great price. They have um an ice bath, a great price. They have um an ice bath, a steam room, a rooftop pool that's steam room, a rooftop pool that's steam room, a rooftop pool that's covered, and they had a um personal covered, and they had a um personal covered, and they had a um personal trainers. They had Zumba and all spin trainers. They had Zumba and all spin trainers. They had Zumba and all spin class, every kind of yoga, big beautiful class, every kind of yoga, big beautiful class, every kind of yoga, big beautiful locker room. So, I loved it. Um it was locker room. So, I loved it. Um it was locker room. So, I loved it. Um it was on the city side of the river, so I had on the city side of the river, so I had on the city side of the river, so I had to take a 12minute uh grab ride. And so to take a 12minute uh grab ride. And so to take a 12minute uh grab ride. And so I did that for a few months and then I I did that for a few months and then I I did that for a few months and then I realized I was just not going. So I did realized I was just not going. So I did realized I was just not going. So I did not renew and I'm super active along the not renew and I'm super active along the not renew and I'm super active along the beach. So right now I do not belong to a beach. So right now I do not belong to a beach. So right now I do not belong to a gym. There's a lot of gyms in the gym. There's a lot of gyms in the gym. There's a lot of gyms in the neighborhood and some of them are air neighborhood and some of them are air neighborhood and some of them are air conditioned, some are open air. There's

  60. conditioned, some are open air. There's conditioned, some are open air. There's new ones popping up all the time. My new ones popping up all the time. My new ones popping up all the time. My favorite gym name is called Pig. favorite gym name is called Pig. favorite gym name is called Pig. Huge letters. Pig gym. P I G. [laughter] Huge letters. Pig gym. P I G. [laughter] Huge letters. Pig gym. P I G. [laughter] That's really funny. That's really funny. That's really funny. >> Uh, but a girl that I know just opened >> Uh, but a girl that I know just opened >> Uh, but a girl that I know just opened up a brand new twostory. It looks up a brand new twostory. It looks up a brand new twostory. It looks beautiful. She had they had their grand beautiful. She had they had their grand beautiful. She had they had their grand opening last week. I saw it online. So, opening last week. I saw it online. So, opening last week. I saw it online. So, yeah, there's there's gyms there and yeah, there's there's gyms there and yeah, there's there's gyms there and they they vary in cost depending on the they they vary in cost depending on the they they vary in cost depending on the amenities, air conditioning, um, and amenities, air conditioning, um, and amenities, air conditioning, um, and yeah, location, what they offer. yeah, location, what they offer. yeah, location, what they offer. And Susan was telling me earlier too, we And Susan was telling me earlier too, we And Susan was telling me earlier too, we were talking just about the difference were talking just about the difference were talking just about the difference in costs for different things, but in costs for different things, but in costs for different things, but health care is one that's a massive health care is one that's a massive health care is one that's a massive disparity between the US and there as disparity between the US and there as disparity between the US and there as well as getting our hair done. Like the well as getting our hair done. Like the well as getting our hair done. Like the cost savings of doing your hair over cost savings of doing your hair over cost savings of doing your hair over there versus here. I could almost book a there versus here. I could almost book a there versus here. I could almost book a flight. flight. flight. I mean, it's almost worth it. I mean, it's almost worth it. I mean, it's almost worth it. >> I think you should. >> I think you should. >> I think you should. >> I know. I should. [laughter] >> I know. I should. [laughter] >> I know. I should. [laughter] >> Okay. So, I get my hair highlighted. And >> Okay. So, I get my hair highlighted. And >> Okay. So, I get my hair highlighted. And here, I'm trying to remember the last here, I'm trying to remember the last here, I'm trying to remember the last time I went to the gal here and got a time I went to the gal here and got a time I went to the gal here and got a partial.

  61. partial. partial. 300 sound about right for a partial. 300 sound about right for a partial. 300 sound about right for a partial. That's a good deal. I don't that doesn't That's a good deal. I don't that doesn't That's a good deal. I don't that doesn't sound right. sound right. sound right. >> So then with tip, I think it was 360. >> So then with tip, I think it was 360. >> So then with tip, I think it was 360. I just had a friend who got Well, theirs I just had a friend who got Well, theirs I just had a friend who got Well, theirs was a full though. They got a full was a full though. They got a full was a full though. They got a full highlight and a trim. It was 750. highlight and a trim. It was 750. highlight and a trim. It was 750. Getting your hair highlighted is very Getting your hair highlighted is very Getting your hair highlighted is very expensive here. I think you should come expensive here. I think you should come expensive here. I think you should come over and get it done. So, the place that over and get it done. So, the place that over and get it done. So, the place that I go to in Daang, they have two people I go to in Daang, they have two people I go to in Daang, they have two people working on the hair and then actually working on the hair and then actually working on the hair and then actually working on it and then they each have a working on it and then they each have a working on it and then they each have a person like a sue chef handing them the person like a sue chef handing them the person like a sue chef handing them the foils. They're they're very intricate foils. They're they're very intricate foils. They're they're very intricate where they sit there with the the thin where they sit there with the the thin where they sit there with the the thin end of the comb, you know, and doing the end of the comb, you know, and doing the end of the comb, you know, and doing the painting. And it takes about 5 hours painting. And it takes about 5 hours painting. And it takes about 5 hours beginning to end beginning to end beginning to end >> with two people. >> with two people. >> with two people. >> With two people. And so while some hair >> With two people. And so while some hair >> With two people. And so while some hair is processing, is processing, is processing, then there's other hair that they're then there's other hair that they're then there's other hair that they're working on, some is already done. So you working on, some is already done. So you working on, some is already done. So you go back and forth to the shampoo bowl go back and forth to the shampoo bowl go back and forth to the shampoo bowl probably four times to rinse the hair probably four times to rinse the hair probably four times to rinse the hair that's been processed.

  62. that's been processed. that's been processed. >> And then you go back to the seat. >> And then you go back to the seat. >> And then you go back to the seat. They're still adding to the areas they They're still adding to the areas they They're still adding to the areas they haven't done yet. So yeah, it's about a haven't done yet. So yeah, it's about a haven't done yet. So yeah, it's about a at least four hours. Um and then just a at least four hours. Um and then just a at least four hours. Um and then just a really quick straight blowd dry. styling really quick straight blowd dry. styling really quick straight blowd dry. styling and it runs about $60 US. and it runs about $60 US. and it runs about $60 US. >> It's amazing. >> It's amazing. >> It's amazing. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> And my daughter and I were telling her, >> And my daughter and I were telling her, >> And my daughter and I were telling her, we said separately because we both saw we said separately because we both saw we said separately because we both saw for the first time separately and we for the first time separately and we for the first time separately and we both the first thing we said to you was both the first thing we said to you was both the first thing we said to you was how great your hair looked. how great your hair looked. how great your hair looked. >> Thank you. >> Thank you. >> Thank you. >> Yeah. I so I have it highlighted in >> Yeah. I so I have it highlighted in >> Yeah. I so I have it highlighted in Daang and then when I was at the Bangkok Daang and then when I was at the Bangkok Daang and then when I was at the Bangkok mall there is a mall there is a mall there is a So, well, let me back up. up in Shiang So, well, let me back up. up in Shiang So, well, let me back up. up in Shiang Mai, there's a salon called New York New Mai, there's a salon called New York New Mai, there's a salon called New York New York and they're in a Beta affiliate. York and they're in a Beta affiliate. York and they're in a Beta affiliate. So, I knew because I've actually had So, I knew because I've actually had So, I knew because I've actually had >> a lot of really traumatic hair >> a lot of really traumatic hair >> a lot of really traumatic hair situations abroad. Like I had my hair situations abroad. Like I had my hair situations abroad. Like I had my hair >> highlighted, but they it turned like a >> highlighted, but they it turned like a >> highlighted, but they it turned like a light orange and I remember terrible, light orange and I remember terrible, light orange and I remember terrible, terrible. I have I almost have no terrible. I have I almost have no terrible. I have I almost have no pictures of me in Colombia because my pictures of me in Colombia because my pictures of me in Colombia because my hair it was orange and it looked awful.

  63. hair it was orange and it looked awful. hair it was orange and it looked awful. Um, Um, Um, I've had it done in South Africa. Big I've had it done in South Africa. Big I've had it done in South Africa. Big clunky clunky clunky chunks, all like different colors. Some chunks, all like different colors. Some chunks, all like different colors. Some were kind of orangey, some were blonde, were kind of orangey, some were blonde, were kind of orangey, some were blonde, just terrible. Um, so I was nervous and just terrible. Um, so I was nervous and just terrible. Um, so I was nervous and so I went to a place that had an so I went to a place that had an so I went to a place that had an affiliate with a brand that I know affiliate with a brand that I know affiliate with a brand that I know because they're trained and licensed and because they're trained and licensed and because they're trained and licensed and they it's going to be a certain quality, they it's going to be a certain quality, they it's going to be a certain quality, but it was pricey. So there's another but it was pricey. So there's another but it was pricey. So there's another Aveda uh salon in one of the Bangkok Aveda uh salon in one of the Bangkok Aveda uh salon in one of the Bangkok malls that I went to and the haircut was malls that I went to and the haircut was malls that I went to and the haircut was probably 125. So the haircut was much probably 125. So the haircut was much probably 125. So the haircut was much more expensive than my highlight more expensive than my highlight more expensive than my highlight >> back in Daang. But I I don't get my >> back in Daang. But I I don't get my >> back in Daang. But I I don't get my haircut that often. So I just wanted it haircut that often. So I just wanted it haircut that often. So I just wanted it to be done a really good nice haircut to be done a really good nice haircut to be done a really good nice haircut >> um that will last me you six months or a >> um that will last me you six months or a >> um that will last me you six months or a year. year. year. >> Right. >> Right. >> Right. >> So that is the hair situation. So, >> So that is the hair situation. So, >> So that is the hair situation. So, >> and healthcare. >> and healthcare. >> and healthcare. >> Health care. Yes. Speaking of jet lag. >> Health care. Yes. Speaking of jet lag. >> Health care. Yes. Speaking of jet lag. Ah, jet lag. Um, health care is it's so Ah, jet lag. Um, health care is it's so Ah, jet lag. Um, health care is it's so my experience and I've done some videos my experience and I've done some videos my experience and I've done some videos on this. I'll do a few more on health on this. I'll do a few more on health on this. I'll do a few more on health care. But the health care is really good care. But the health care is really good care. But the health care is really good quality especially in Vietnam. The quality especially in Vietnam. The quality especially in Vietnam. The public hospitals have the best of the public hospitals have the best of the public hospitals have the best of the best doctors. only the most like the best doctors. only the most like the best doctors. only the most like the highest ranked, the highest in their highest ranked, the highest in their highest ranked, the highest in their class get the invite to work at the class get the invite to work at the class get the invite to work at the public hospitals and they get the most public hospitals and they get the most public hospitals and they get the most experience and it's like an honor to experience and it's like an honor to experience and it's like an honor to work at the public hospital. So, they work at the public hospital. So, they work at the public hospital. So, they are very highly regarded and they're

  64. are very highly regarded and they're are very highly regarded and they're they're just known to be if you want the they're just known to be if you want the they're just known to be if you want the best care. So, best care. So, best care. So, >> what's amazing about that is >> what's amazing about that is >> what's amazing about that is >> it's low insurance. I I don't have their >> it's low insurance. I I don't have their >> it's low insurance. I I don't have their insurance, but the cost is so relatively insurance, but the cost is so relatively insurance, but the cost is so relatively low for us. So the last time I went in low for us. So the last time I went in low for us. So the last time I went in had both eyes dilated, both eyes had both eyes dilated, both eyes had both eyes dilated, both eyes checked. I had an eye ultrasound in one checked. I had an eye ultrasound in one checked. I had an eye ultrasound in one and my total cost day of same day. You and my total cost day of same day. You and my total cost day of same day. You just go in whenever you need the just go in whenever you need the just go in whenever you need the appointment. You walk in, you get in the appointment. You walk in, you get in the appointment. You walk in, you get in the queue, I wait, I was there for an hour queue, I wait, I was there for an hour queue, I wait, I was there for an hour beginning to end and it was the beginning to end and it was the beginning to end and it was the equivalent of $15 US and the the care equivalent of $15 US and the the care equivalent of $15 US and the the care was outstanding. Um the first time I was outstanding. Um the first time I was outstanding. Um the first time I went in, I also went and had a second went in, I also went and had a second went in, I also went and had a second opinion by another doctor. He looked at opinion by another doctor. He looked at opinion by another doctor. He looked at all the paperwork because the second all the paperwork because the second all the paperwork because the second doctor I went to uh spoke English. Oh, doctor I went to uh spoke English. Oh, doctor I went to uh spoke English. Oh, >> okay. >> okay. >> okay. >> And it was more of a um a foreigner >> And it was more of a um a foreigner >> And it was more of a um a foreigner known place versus the public hospital. known place versus the public hospital. known place versus the public hospital. And he read through their write up. He And he read through their write up. He And he read through their write up. He looked at my eye and he's like, "This looked at my eye and he's like, "This looked at my eye and he's like, "This looks very this looks perfect. It's very looks very this looks perfect. It's very looks very this looks perfect. It's very thorough. I have nothing to add." thorough. I have nothing to add." thorough. I have nothing to add." >> That's great. >> That's great. >> That's great. >> Yeah. Um Yeah. So, the healthc care >> Yeah. Um Yeah. So, the healthc care >> Yeah. Um Yeah. So, the healthc care feels like it's it's good. Um I haven't feels like it's it's good. Um I haven't feels like it's it's good. Um I haven't heard any complaints about it. Um heard any complaints about it. Um heard any complaints about it. Um >> and affordable. affordable. There's >> and affordable. affordable. There's >> and affordable. affordable. There's different hospitals. So, there's one different hospitals. So, there's one different hospitals. So, there's one like called Vinmech and that's the one like called Vinmech and that's the one like called Vinmech and that's the one people know is a western hospital that people know is a western hospital that people know is a western hospital that you're going to have an interpreter meet you're going to have an interpreter meet you're going to have an interpreter meet with you with the doctor. It's going to with you with the doctor. It's going to with you with the doctor. It's going to be a little bit more expensive. It has, be a little bit more expensive. It has, be a little bit more expensive. It has, you know, big plants and a big beautiful you know, big plants and a big beautiful you know, big plants and a big beautiful waiting area and a circular driveway and waiting area and a circular driveway and waiting area and a circular driveway and kind of an an experience that's very

  65. kind of an an experience that's very kind of an an experience that's very very nice. The public hospital is not very nice. The public hospital is not very nice. The public hospital is not as, you know, kept up as nice as this as, you know, kept up as nice as this as, you know, kept up as nice as this foreign hospital. It's also a fraction foreign hospital. It's also a fraction foreign hospital. It's also a fraction of the price. Has very very good of the price. Has very very good of the price. Has very very good doctors. So, doctors. So, doctors. So, >> kind of can't go wrong. Kind of can't go >> kind of can't go wrong. Kind of can't go >> kind of can't go wrong. Kind of can't go wrong. wrong. wrong. >> Um, oh, one thing that I love about the >> Um, oh, one thing that I love about the >> Um, oh, one thing that I love about the hospitals there is I had a a soreness in hospitals there is I had a a soreness in hospitals there is I had a a soreness in my abdomen and I went to an osteopath my abdomen and I went to an osteopath my abdomen and I went to an osteopath and he poked and prodded and it's an and he poked and prodded and it's an and he poked and prodded and it's an osteopath that I've gone to before. He's osteopath that I've gone to before. He's osteopath that I've gone to before. He's a Russian guy, very, very good. And he a Russian guy, very, very good. And he a Russian guy, very, very good. And he said, "I see some swelling here. I want said, "I see some swelling here. I want said, "I see some swelling here. I want you to go in and get an ultrasound. you to go in and get an ultrasound. you to go in and get an ultrasound. something's happening. So, I went into a something's happening. So, I went into a something's happening. So, I went into a hospital. It wasn't the foreign hospital hospital. It wasn't the foreign hospital hospital. It wasn't the foreign hospital and it wasn't the like the the public and it wasn't the like the the public and it wasn't the like the the public one. It was like one right in between. one. It was like one right in between. one. It was like one right in between. The female doctor as just asked me a few The female doctor as just asked me a few The female doctor as just asked me a few questions. She sent me down, had an questions. She sent me down, had an questions. She sent me down, had an ultrasound. They said, "We do see some ultrasound. They said, "We do see some ultrasound. They said, "We do see some swelling there." Went back with my swelling there." Went back with my swelling there." Went back with my ultrasound to her. She calls in a ultrasound to her. She calls in a ultrasound to her. She calls in a surgeon. He comes in. They chat. I lay surgeon. He comes in. They chat. I lay surgeon. He comes in. They chat. I lay on a cot right there. He's pressing.

  66. on a cot right there. He's pressing. on a cot right there. He's pressing. They're chatting. They talk some more. They're chatting. They talk some more. They're chatting. They talk some more. He leaves. Like everything's handled He leaves. Like everything's handled He leaves. Like everything's handled right then and there. And we're all in right then and there. And we're all in right then and there. And we're all in the conversation. I don't know what the conversation. I don't know what the conversation. I don't know what they're saying, but [laughter] they're saying, but [laughter] they're saying, but [laughter] I kept saying, "What? What?" She said, I kept saying, "What? What?" She said, I kept saying, "What? What?" She said, "Just a minute." So he left. And they're "Just a minute." So he left. And they're "Just a minute." So he left. And they're just laughing and talking. And um she just laughing and talking. And um she just laughing and talking. And um she said he said, "Nothing to worry about. said he said, "Nothing to worry about. said he said, "Nothing to worry about. Something temporary. Maybe something you Something temporary. Maybe something you Something temporary. Maybe something you ate. It's nothing you need anything more ate. It's nothing you need anything more ate. It's nothing you need anything more for. We'll give you a prescription. If for. We'll give you a prescription. If for. We'll give you a prescription. If it doesn't go away in a few days, come it doesn't go away in a few days, come it doesn't go away in a few days, come back." But what I decided to do in that back." But what I decided to do in that back." But what I decided to do in that exact situation is just cut out all exact situation is just cut out all exact situation is just cut out all supplements and do nothing. supplements and do nothing. supplements and do nothing. >> My osteopath was out of town. He said, >> My osteopath was out of town. He said, >> My osteopath was out of town. He said, "Bring in your results and let me look "Bring in your results and let me look "Bring in your results and let me look at them before you go on medication at them before you go on medication at them before you go on medication because we don't want to just medicate because we don't want to just medicate because we don't want to just medicate it. We want to figure out what it was." it. We want to figure out what it was." it. We want to figure out what it was." >> So two or three days passed, completely >> So two or three days passed, completely >> So two or three days passed, completely gone. gone. gone. >> So it was a non thing. >> So it was a non thing. >> So it was a non thing. >> Oh wow. But again, my experience just >> Oh wow. But again, my experience just >> Oh wow. But again, my experience just going to the hospital, you just walk in, going to the hospital, you just walk in, going to the hospital, you just walk in, tell them what's wrong, you see a tell them what's wrong, you see a tell them what's wrong, you see a doctor, they will include everybody and doctor, they will include everybody and doctor, they will include everybody and everything that you need in that everything that you need in that everything that you need in that appointment. appointment. appointment. >> Wow. >> Wow. >> Wow. >> Go get a ultrasound, bring in the >> Go get a ultrasound, bring in the >> Go get a ultrasound, bring in the >> instead of waiting like a month here for >> instead of waiting like a month here for >> instead of waiting like a month here for your specialist.

  67. your specialist. your specialist. >> Yeah. And everybody's talking real time >> Yeah. And everybody's talking real time >> Yeah. And everybody's talking real time with each other. They're talking. You're with each other. They're talking. You're with each other. They're talking. You're sitting right there and they're sitting right there and they're sitting right there and they're >> sorting out the situation and then you >> sorting out the situation and then you >> sorting out the situation and then you you go. It's not that they're reading a you go. It's not that they're reading a you go. It's not that they're reading a file and trying to understand. file and trying to understand. file and trying to understand. >> So, yeah. >> So, yeah. >> So, yeah. Well, what do you think? How are we Well, what do you think? How are we Well, what do you think? How are we doing on time? Have we been doing on time? Have we been doing on time? Have we been >> good? Well, it's kind of a long one. >> good? Well, it's kind of a long one. >> good? Well, it's kind of a long one. >> How long have we I I'm not even sure. >> How long have we I I'm not even sure. >> How long have we I I'm not even sure. >> I'm not either. >> I'm not either. >> I'm not either. >> This has just been so fun. On for 80 >> This has just been so fun. On for 80 >> This has just been so fun. On for 80 minutes. We've been on for 80 minutes. minutes. We've been on for 80 minutes. minutes. We've been on for 80 minutes. >> All right. I do I do have jet lag, but I >> All right. I do I do have jet lag, but I >> All right. I do I do have jet lag, but I mean do have jet lag input, but why mean do have jet lag input, but why mean do have jet lag input, but why don't I just save that for our next don't I just save that for our next don't I just save that for our next conversation? We'll loop back to that conversation? We'll loop back to that conversation? We'll loop back to that one. Um, one. Um, one. Um, is there anything else? Yes. Okay. So, is there anything else? Yes. Okay. So, is there anything else? Yes. Okay. So, I'll loot back to I'll loot back to I'll loot back to >> jet lag. >> jet lag. >> jet lag. >> I'll l back to jet lag. Um, because >> I'll l back to jet lag. Um, because >> I'll l back to jet lag. Um, because we've been talking so long, maybe we we've been talking so long, maybe we we've been talking so long, maybe we want to wrap it up. want to wrap it up. want to wrap it up. >> I think so. >> I think so. >> I think so. >> I think so, too. Thank you so much for >> I think so, too. Thank you so much for >> I think so, too. Thank you so much for joining today. I'm going to give you a joining today. I'm going to give you a joining today. I'm going to give you a quick view. Now that the sun is not so quick view. Now that the sun is not so quick view. Now that the sun is not so bright, I'm just going to give you a bright, I'm just going to give you a bright, I'm just going to give you a quick view of where we are right now.

  68. quick view of where we are right now. quick view of where we are right now. that. Well, it's reflecting, but isn't that. Well, it's reflecting, but isn't that. Well, it's reflecting, but isn't that so pretty? We are up on We think that so pretty? We are up on We think that so pretty? We are up on We think it's the 19th floor. it's the 19th floor. it's the 19th floor. Oh my gosh, Oh my gosh, Oh my gosh, guys. [laughter] I just The phone was guys. [laughter] I just The phone was guys. [laughter] I just The phone was magnetized on a tripod. It just fell magnetized on a tripod. It just fell magnetized on a tripod. It just fell off. Oh my gosh. Hopefully that wasn't off. Oh my gosh. Hopefully that wasn't off. Oh my gosh. Hopefully that wasn't too loud for anybody. too loud for anybody. too loud for anybody. >> There's the pier over here >> There's the pier over here >> There's the pier over here >> and we got our the mics disconnected at >> and we got our the mics disconnected at >> and we got our the mics disconnected at the same time. It's all fine. We're the same time. It's all fine. We're the same time. It's all fine. We're wrapping up anyway. But Santa Monica wrapping up anyway. But Santa Monica wrapping up anyway. But Santa Monica Pier is down here. And is there a way to Pier is down here. And is there a way to Pier is down here. And is there a way to go over here go over here go over here >> easily? Yeah. If anybody's still here >> easily? Yeah. If anybody's still here >> easily? Yeah. If anybody's still here with us. Oh my gosh, that's so funny. with us. Oh my gosh, that's so funny. with us. Oh my gosh, that's so funny. The we had the phone on a tripod that's The we had the phone on a tripod that's The we had the phone on a tripod that's just a magnet and it just fell off. But just a magnet and it just fell off. But just a magnet and it just fell off. But we're going to show you around here. I'm we're going to show you around here. I'm we're going to show you around here. I'm going to actually turn the camera around going to actually turn the camera around going to actually turn the camera around >> to the right. >> to the right. >> to the right. >> I'm going to turn the camera around. I'm >> I'm going to turn the camera around. I'm >> I'm going to turn the camera around. I'm just going to show you just going to show you just going to show you >> where we are. It's so pretty. >> where we are. It's so pretty. >> where we are. It's so pretty. >> So, for anyone who's still here, here's >> So, for anyone who's still here, here's >> So, for anyone who's still here, here's the extended version. This is a lot more the extended version. This is a lot more the extended version. This is a lot more clear through here.

  69. clear through here. clear through here. >> Oh yeah, >> Oh yeah, >> Oh yeah, this We might have just lost. We might have just lost. >> Oh no. Oh, there it is. Got it. >> Oh no. Oh, there it is. Got it. >> Oh no. Oh, there it is. Got it. >> There we go. >> There we go. >> There we go. See if I can zoom a little bit. There's See if I can zoom a little bit. There's See if I can zoom a little bit. There's the Santa Monica Pier. the Santa Monica Pier. the Santa Monica Pier. >> The ferris wheel. Yeah, there's a big >> The ferris wheel. Yeah, there's a big >> The ferris wheel. Yeah, there's a big >> roller coasters. >> roller coasters. >> roller coasters. >> Oh, yeah. There's a roller coaster and a >> Oh, yeah. There's a roller coaster and a >> Oh, yeah. There's a roller coaster and a big ferris wheel on the end big ferris wheel on the end big ferris wheel on the end beach. beach. beach. >> And then, let's see if we get a focus here. let's see if we get a focus here. This is the beach we're looking at. This is the beach we're looking at. This is the beach we're looking at. We were just inside that rim right there We were just inside that rim right there We were just inside that rim right there doing this recording. Hollywood right doing this recording. Hollywood right doing this recording. Hollywood right out there. A quick peruse around Let's see if we go. Let's see if we go. Yeah, back over here is Yeah, back over here is Yeah, back over here is Hollywood. It's Hollywood. It's Hollywood. It's a little bit cloudy and sunset time.

  70. a little bit cloudy and sunset time. a little bit cloudy and sunset time. So, it was grilling. So, it was grilling. So, it was grilling. Anything else, Mars? Anything else, Mars? Anything else, Mars? >> That's Malibu out that way. >> That's Malibu out that way. >> That's Malibu out that way. >> Yep. Malibu out there. It's a pleasant >> Yep. Malibu out there. It's a pleasant >> Yep. Malibu out there. It's a pleasant warm night. Finally got pleasant. It was warm night. Finally got pleasant. It was warm night. Finally got pleasant. It was so hot today. Let's see if I walk this so hot today. Let's see if I walk this so hot today. Let's see if I walk this way. way. way. >> Don't drop it. >> Don't drop it. >> Don't drop it. >> I know. My gosh. Can you imagine? >> I know. My gosh. Can you imagine? >> I know. My gosh. Can you imagine? And is there anything more to show? And is there anything more to show? And is there anything more to show? There's There's There's >> all the palm trees down here. >> all the palm trees down here. >> all the palm trees down here. >> Yeah, there's a boardwalk down here. I >> Yeah, there's a boardwalk down here. I >> Yeah, there's a boardwalk down here. I don't know if you can see that. Well, don't know if you can see that. Well, don't know if you can see that. Well, I'm on my phone, but you can see people. I'm on my phone, but you can see people. I'm on my phone, but you can see people. They're on their bikes and rollerblading They're on their bikes and rollerblading They're on their bikes and rollerblading or walking along that boardwalk. continue this way. continue this way. Let's do the extended version. Let's Let's do the extended version. Let's Let's do the extended version. Let's show you all around Santa Monica. I show you all around Santa Monica. I show you all around Santa Monica. I don't know if I'm going to lose Wi-Fi. don't know if I'm going to lose Wi-Fi. don't know if I'm going to lose Wi-Fi. If I do, then it's been great having you If I do, then it's been great having you If I do, then it's been great having you all until next time. And if it sticks all until next time. And if it sticks all until next time. And if it sticks around, around, around, then let's take a peek and I'll show you then let's take a peek and I'll show you then let's take a peek and I'll show you Santa Monica.

  71. So there's the beach. So there's the beach. There's some um some of the build and There's some um some of the build and There's some um some of the build and the shopping. There's a third street the shopping. There's a third street the shopping. There's a third street prominade. prominade. prominade. And then back over here is Los Angeles. That's a wrap. Thanks for joining today. That's a wrap. Thanks for joining today. I appreciate you all. And until next I appreciate you all. And until next I appreciate you all. And until next time, we'd love I'd love to hear in the time, we'd love I'd love to hear in the time, we'd love I'd love to hear in the comments what you learned or what you'd comments what you learned or what you'd comments what you learned or what you'd like to hear more of. And yeah, just like to hear more of. And yeah, just like to hear more of. And yeah, just like always, um really glad you're here like always, um really glad you're here like always, um really glad you're here and and and Vietnam. Sh Marcy. Vietnam. Sh Marcy. Vietnam. Sh Marcy. >> Yeah, you're welcome. Pleasure. >> Yeah, you're welcome. Pleasure. >> Yeah, you're welcome. Pleasure. >> Bye everyone.

Summary

This discussion explores the experiences of an expat returning home to Santa Monica after living in Vietnam for three years. It highlights the impact of prolonged travel on friendships and the emotions involved in reconnecting with loved ones. The takeaway emphasizes the importance of deep, integrated friendships that can withstand periods of absence.

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