The Andy Andrews Blue Plate Special

Good early afternoon. Good early afternoon. We are live. We got a blue play special We are live. We got a blue play special We are live. We got a blue play special going on here. I'm Andy Andrews. We're going on here. I'm Andy Andrews. We're going on here. I'm Andy Andrews. We're glad you're here. And uh glad you're here. And uh glad you're here. And uh it's hot it's hot it's hot >> very >> very >> very >> Monica's here with us today. Monica >> Monica's here with us today. Monica >> Monica's here with us today. Monica Early. We're going to be uh recording a Early. We're going to be uh recording a Early. We're going to be uh recording a protocol conversation. protocol conversation. protocol conversation. But for now, let's just talk about how But for now, let's just talk about how But for now, let's just talk about how hot it is. hot it is. hot it is. >> Hot it is. Hot. >> Hot it is. Hot. >> Hot it is. Hot. >> Oh my gosh. >> Oh my gosh. >> Oh my gosh. >> It's crazy. >> It's crazy. >> It's crazy. >> Yeah. I mean, >> Yeah. I mean, >> Yeah. I mean, >> and I saw the other day it was like 93 >> and I saw the other day it was like 93 >> and I saw the other day it was like 93 actual degrees, but the real feel was actual degrees, but the real feel was actual degrees, but the real feel was 114. 114. 114. >> Oh, I didn't know it had gotten that >> Oh, I didn't know it had gotten that >> Oh, I didn't know it had gotten that high. high. high. >> And I Well, I was, you know, you walk >> And I Well, I was, you know, you walk >> And I Well, I was, you know, you walk outside when the first thing you say outside when the first thing you say outside when the first thing you say when you walk outside is, "God, it's when you walk outside is, "God, it's when you walk outside is, "God, it's hot." And everybody knows it's hot, but hot." And everybody knows it's hot, but hot." And everybody knows it's hot, but that's just the first thing that hit that's just the first thing that hit that's just the first thing that hit comes out of your mouth. And I, you comes out of your mouth. And I, you comes out of your mouth. And I, you know, but then I got in the car and saw know, but then I got in the car and saw know, but then I got in the car and saw it was only 93. I'm like, it was only 93. I'm like, it was only 93. I'm like, >> it shouldn't be that bad. [laughter] >> it shouldn't be that bad. [laughter] >> it shouldn't be that bad. [laughter] >> Yeah, I think it's a wet heat.

>> Yeah, I think it's a wet heat. >> Yeah, I think it's a wet heat. >> It is. >> It is. >> It is. >> That's why it's so hot cuz it's a wet >> That's why it's so hot cuz it's a wet >> That's why it's so hot cuz it's a wet heat, not a dry. heat, not a dry. heat, not a dry. >> See the humidity just kind of sitting >> See the humidity just kind of sitting >> See the humidity just kind of sitting over you, over you, over you, >> man. It's bad. >> man. It's bad. >> man. It's bad. >> It is crazy. It is crazy. It is. >> It is crazy. It is crazy. It is. >> It is crazy. It is crazy. It is. >> But anyway, >> But anyway, >> But anyway, >> it's where we live. >> it's where we live. >> it's where we live. >> Yeah, it's where we live. So, how are >> Yeah, it's where we live. So, how are >> Yeah, it's where we live. So, how are you doing? you doing? you doing? >> I'm doing pretty good. >> I'm doing pretty good. >> I'm doing pretty good. >> You're doing good? Yeah. >> You're doing good? Yeah. >> You're doing good? Yeah. >> We're glad you're here. We're glad you >> We're glad you're here. We're glad you >> We're glad you're here. We're glad you are here. We're um you know we're we're are here. We're um you know we're we're are here. We're um you know we're we're in kind of a summer break and in kind of a summer break and in kind of a summer break and >> I know >> I know >> I know >> but everybody gets a break but you >> but everybody gets a break but you >> but everybody gets a break but you >> Yeah, I've been here. >> Yeah, I've been here. >> Yeah, I've been here. >> So, hey, here's the Boomer Sooners. >> So, hey, here's the Boomer Sooners. >> So, hey, here's the Boomer Sooners. Terry Boomer Sooners. I you know that Boomer Sooners. I you know that it's hard to like somebody that that it's hard to like somebody that that it's hard to like somebody that that pulls that hard for another team, but I pulls that hard for another team, but I pulls that hard for another team, but I like them. like them. like them. >> Yeah. Good. Good. >> Yeah. Good. Good. >> Yeah. Good. Good. I saw a dog chasing a fire hydrant down I saw a dog chasing a fire hydrant down I saw a dog chasing a fire hydrant down the street. It's so [laughter] hot. the street. It's so [laughter] hot. the street. It's so [laughter] hot. >> That's a good one. >> That's a good one. >> That's a good one. >> Oh my gosh. That's true. >> Oh my gosh. That's true. >> Oh my gosh. That's true. >> You know, Adam is He's a fisherman.

>> You know, Adam is He's a fisherman. >> You know, Adam is He's a fisherman. >> And >> And >> And >> it's got to be bad. >> it's got to be bad. >> it's got to be bad. >> We're not hear We're not hearing from >> We're not hear We're not hearing from >> We're not hear We're not hearing from Adam a lot these days. Amy Padet, how Adam a lot these days. Amy Padet, how Adam a lot these days. Amy Padet, how are you doing? The Padeteers. are you doing? The Padeteers. are you doing? The Padeteers. >> Good deal. says, "You might be able to >> Good deal. says, "You might be able to >> Good deal. says, "You might be able to tell the page have what >> freezing up again." >> freezing up again." >> Oh, is it freezing up? Oh, >> Oh, is it freezing up? Oh, >> Oh, is it freezing up? Oh, >> well, all 157 are were excited and happy >> well, all 157 are were excited and happy >> well, all 157 are were excited and happy to see the alert for today's show. They to see the alert for today's show. They to see the alert for today's show. They missed Monica and they've been pouring missed Monica and they've been pouring missed Monica and they've been pouring over and studying every protocol over and studying every protocol over and studying every protocol conversation. [laughter] conversation. [laughter] conversation. [laughter] >> That is awesome. >> That is awesome. >> That is awesome. >> Getting ready for the review. That is >> Getting ready for the review. That is >> Getting ready for the review. That is awesome. Yeah, we're going to do a awesome. Yeah, we're going to do a awesome. Yeah, we're going to do a review today. So, that's going to be review today. So, that's going to be review today. So, that's going to be great. I'm so glad the pageeers are great. I'm so glad the pageeers are great. I'm so glad the pageeers are here. All 157 of them. here. All 157 of them. here. All 157 of them. >> Um, >> Um, >> Um, >> man, you know, I was trying to think, >> man, you know, I was trying to think, >> man, you know, I was trying to think, what have I been thinking about that what have I been thinking about that what have I been thinking about that I could talk about? And now all of a I could talk about? And now all of a I could talk about? And now all of a sudden, I can't really think of anything sudden, I can't really think of anything sudden, I can't really think of anything I've been thinking about.

I've been thinking about. I've been thinking about. >> Well, you just started with Adam. You >> Well, you just started with Adam. You >> Well, you just started with Adam. You hadn't heard from him? hadn't heard from him? hadn't heard from him? >> Adam? >> Adam? >> Adam? >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> That's back to hot. Yeah. Yeah. >> That's back to hot. Yeah. Yeah. >> That's back to hot. Yeah. Yeah. [laughter] Because Adam is our fishing [laughter] Because Adam is our fishing [laughter] Because Adam is our fishing son and um you know he takes people out son and um you know he takes people out son and um you know he takes people out in the Gulf and fishes and and he's been in the Gulf and fishes and and he's been in the Gulf and fishes and and he's been doing two trips a day. doing two trips a day. doing two trips a day. >> Oh no. >> Oh no. >> Oh no. >> And in this heat we had heard from Adam. >> And in this heat we had heard from Adam. >> And in this heat we had heard from Adam. You know we we hear from Adam a lot but You know we we hear from Adam a lot but You know we we hear from Adam a lot but >> I ain't heard from him from a week for a >> I ain't heard from him from a week for a >> I ain't heard from him from a week for a week. He's He is going out, you know, week. He's He is going out, you know, week. He's He is going out, you know, coming back in, coming back in, coming back in, cleaning up, rerigging, cleaning up, rerigging, cleaning up, rerigging, >> probably changing his clothes. >> probably changing his clothes. >> probably changing his clothes. >> Yeah. Out 30 miles again, coming back >> Yeah. Out 30 miles again, coming back >> Yeah. Out 30 miles again, coming back in. And I mean, he'll get something to in. And I mean, he'll get something to in. And I mean, he'll get something to eat on the way eat on the way home. And, eat on the way eat on the way home. And, eat on the way eat on the way home. And, you know, he he lives off Canal Road up you know, he he lives off Canal Road up you know, he he lives off Canal Road up here somewhere. And here somewhere. And here somewhere. And >> and uh he'll eat on the way home, go to >> and uh he'll eat on the way home, go to >> and uh he'll eat on the way home, go to bed up before daylight. bed up before daylight. bed up before daylight. >> Yep. >> Yep. >> Yep. >> Do it again. I can't imagine being out >> Do it again. I can't imagine being out >> Do it again. I can't imagine being out there in this heat. there in this heat. there in this heat. >> I know. >> I know. >> I know. >> I used to be, you know, I must be too >> I used to be, you know, I must be too >> I used to be, you know, I must be too old for heat because I remember being a old for heat because I remember being a old for heat because I remember being a young person and young person and young person and >> it was never [laughter] >> it was never [laughter] >> it was never [laughter] >> It did never seem this hot.

>> It did never seem this hot. >> It did never seem this hot. >> No, it didn't seem this hot. >> No, it didn't seem this hot. >> No, it didn't seem this hot. >> But yeah, our parents can >> But yeah, our parents can >> But yeah, our parents can >> It's almost like the globe is like >> It's almost like the globe is like >> It's almost like the globe is like >> Yeah. I >> Yeah. I >> Yeah. I >> warming or something, right? But when >> warming or something, right? But when >> warming or something, right? But when you hear the the rec the when you when you hear the the rec the when you when you hear the the rec the when you when you hear the weather people talk about you hear the weather people talk about you hear the weather people talk about this time of year, it was like in the this time of year, it was like in the this time of year, it was like in the 90s it was hotter than this at some 90s it was hotter than this at some 90s it was hotter than this at some point. So point. So point. So >> Yeah. And and in the winter time, you >> Yeah. And and in the winter time, you >> Yeah. And and in the winter time, you know, we don't have any citrus trees know, we don't have any citrus trees know, we don't have any citrus trees around here anymore. around here anymore. around here anymore. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> I mean, I had 46 citrus trees at my >> I mean, I had 46 citrus trees at my >> I mean, I had 46 citrus trees at my house. house. house. >> Oh my goodness. >> Oh my goodness. >> Oh my goodness. >> We're down to like >> We're down to like >> We're down to like six. six. six. >> Yeah. And four of those are replants. >> Yeah. And four of those are replants. >> Yeah. And four of those are replants. But But But >> oh well. >> oh well. >> oh well. >> So [snorts] >> So [snorts] >> So [snorts] >> yeah, it's kind of crazy. >> yeah, it's kind of crazy. >> yeah, it's kind of crazy. >> It's crazy. And then Austin, you know, >> It's crazy. And then Austin, you know, >> It's crazy. And then Austin, you know, he's playing and singing and he's playing and singing and he's playing and singing and occasionally he does it outdoors and so occasionally he does it outdoors and so occasionally he does it outdoors and so it's just it's just crazy heat. it's just it's just crazy heat. it's just it's just crazy heat. >> It is. >> It is. >> It is. >> But you know >> But you know >> But you know >> Yeah. They're probably doing better than >> Yeah. They're probably doing better than >> Yeah. They're probably doing better than we are.

we are. we are. >> Yeah. Probably there. >> Yeah. Probably there. >> Yeah. Probably there. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Bob Woodall is here today. Bob's out >> Bob Woodall is here today. Bob's out >> Bob Woodall is here today. Bob's out there. Bob, you you know, have you seen there. Bob, you you know, have you seen there. Bob, you you know, have you seen Bob, our chef on Wisdom Harbor? Bob, our chef on Wisdom Harbor? Bob, our chef on Wisdom Harbor? >> Yes. >> Yes. >> Yes. >> So, yes. >> So, yes. >> So, yes. >> Bob, were you like me? Were when you >> Bob, were you like me? Were when you >> Bob, were you like me? Were when you were little, did the heat bother you? were little, did the heat bother you? were little, did the heat bother you? Heat bother you now? Heat bother you now? Heat bother you now? [laughter] [laughter] [laughter] >> Did he bother you when you little? >> Did he bother you when you little? >> Did he bother you when you little? >> Heat bother you now? >> Heat bother you now? >> Heat bother you now? >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. Me too. >> Yeah. Me too. >> Yeah. Me too. >> Me too. You know, I Here's something I >> Me too. You know, I Here's something I >> Me too. You know, I Here's something I was thinking about. was thinking about. was thinking about. >> Okay. >> Okay. >> Okay. that there are things that there are things that there are things that if you don't understand the terms, that if you don't understand the terms, that if you don't understand the terms, it's um it's um it's um it's likely to mean something different it's likely to mean something different it's likely to mean something different to you. If for instance, to you. If for instance, to you. If for instance, >> okay, >> okay, >> okay, >> if you didn't understand the terms >> if you didn't understand the terms >> if you didn't understand the terms Guantanamo Bay, if you didn't know what Guantanamo Bay, if you didn't know what Guantanamo Bay, if you didn't know what that was, if you didn't know what that was, if you didn't know what that was, if you didn't know what waterboarding was, then you could waterboarding was, then you could waterboarding was, then you could probably sell vacations. Let's go probably sell vacations. Let's go probably sell vacations. Let's go waterboarding at Guantanamo Bay. waterboarding at Guantanamo Bay. waterboarding at Guantanamo Bay. I mean, that sounds good. If you don't I mean, that sounds good. If you don't I mean, that sounds good. If you don't know what know what know what >> if you don't know what it means, right?

>> if you don't know what it means, right? >> if you don't know what it means, right? >> It sounds good. >> It sounds good. >> It sounds good. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> So, >> So, >> So, >> I don't want to do either one of them. >> I don't want to do either one of them. >> I don't want to do either one of them. [snorts] [snorts] [snorts] >> I know kidding. Folks from Ohio, Wanda >> I know kidding. Folks from Ohio, Wanda >> I know kidding. Folks from Ohio, Wanda Parson, Middle Tennessee. Parson, Middle Tennessee. Parson, Middle Tennessee. >> Cool. >> Cool. >> Cool. >> Humid there. It's humid everywhere >> Humid there. It's humid everywhere >> Humid there. It's humid everywhere except for where Dan is. Dan's up in except for where Dan is. Dan's up in except for where Dan is. Dan's up in Duth, so I'm sure it's not humid there. Duth, so I'm sure it's not humid there. Duth, so I'm sure it's not humid there. Dina Katrick, hello. Long time no see. Dina Katrick, hello. Long time no see. Dina Katrick, hello. Long time no see. That's exactly right. You know what? You That's exactly right. You know what? You That's exactly right. You know what? You know what I am dreading? know what I am dreading? know what I am dreading? I am dreading I and I'm hoping my wife I am dreading I and I'm hoping my wife I am dreading I and I'm hoping my wife is not watching this, but I and and I is not watching this, but I and and I is not watching this, but I and and I assure you she's not. [laughter] Um, but assure you she's not. [laughter] Um, but assure you she's not. [laughter] Um, but I I I'm going to a concert Tuesday I I I'm going to a concert Tuesday I I I'm going to a concert Tuesday night. night. night. >> Okay, cool. >> Okay, cool. >> Okay, cool. >> No, it's not cool. >> No, it's not cool. >> No, it's not cool. >> Who you going to hear? It's outdoors >> Who you going to hear? It's outdoors >> Who you going to hear? It's outdoors and, and, and, you know, I can't figure out if I'm you know, I can't figure out if I'm you know, I can't figure out if I'm wanting it to rain or not. wanting it to rain or not. wanting it to rain or not. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Because it it's it's going to be brutal. >> Because it it's it's going to be brutal. >> Because it it's it's going to be brutal. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> You know, and um >> You know, and um >> You know, and um >> are they going to be worth sitting in >> are they going to be worth sitting in >> are they going to be worth sitting in the heat for?

the heat for? the heat for? >> Well, it's Toto, >> Well, it's Toto, >> Well, it's Toto, Christopher Cross, Christopher Cross, Christopher Cross, and and and somebody else. somebody else. somebody else. >> That should be good. >> That should be good. >> That should be good. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. John Mason Smith from Ameilia Island. John Mason Smith from Ameilia Island. John Mason Smith from Ameilia Island. How are you doing? Um, How are you doing? Um, How are you doing? Um, yeah. I'm just uh yeah. I'm just uh yeah. I'm just uh >> Are you going because Polly wants to go? >> Are you going because Polly wants to go? >> Are you going because Polly wants to go? >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> What do you think, Monica? [laughter] >> What do you think, Monica? [laughter] >> What do you think, Monica? [laughter] >> Do I look like I would sit in 150° heat >> Do I look like I would sit in 150° heat >> Do I look like I would sit in 150° heat with the possibility of rain with 10,000 with the possibility of rain with 10,000 with the possibility of rain with 10,000 people people people >> watching some guys who were popular 30 >> watching some guys who were popular 30 >> watching some guys who were popular 30 years ago? Yeah. years ago? Yeah. years ago? Yeah. >> Um, >> Um, >> Um, >> it was probably longer than that. >> it was probably longer than that. >> it was probably longer than that. >> No, we're not going early. >> No, we're not going early. >> No, we're not going early. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> I mean, yeah, we're not going early. So, >> I mean, yeah, we're not going early. So, >> I mean, yeah, we're not going early. So, >> Well, do you have an assigned seat? >> Well, do you have an assigned seat? >> Well, do you have an assigned seat? >> Yeah. Okay. >> Yeah. Okay. >> Yeah. Okay. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Well, I didn't know if it was just an >> Well, I didn't know if it was just an >> Well, I didn't know if it was just an amphitheater with a bunch of grass. amphitheater with a bunch of grass. amphitheater with a bunch of grass. >> No, it's an it's this amphitheater right >> No, it's an it's this amphitheater right >> No, it's an it's this amphitheater right over here. So, it's 10,000 seats, right?

over here. So, it's 10,000 seats, right? over here. So, it's 10,000 seats, right? And it's they they they built this And it's they they they built this And it's they they they built this amphitheater without amphitheater without amphitheater without oak trees over it, oak trees over it, oak trees over it, >> which I don't know how you would do >> which I don't know how you would do >> which I don't know how you would do that, but they they made it as hot as that, but they they made it as hot as that, but they they made it as hot as they possibly could. they possibly could. they possibly could. >> Yeah. Metal seats, I'm sure. >> Yeah. Metal seats, I'm sure. >> Yeah. Metal seats, I'm sure. >> Yeah. I've got a picture of Polly. We >> Yeah. I've got a picture of Polly. We >> Yeah. I've got a picture of Polly. We were like, this was years ago and we were like, this was years ago and we were like, this was years ago and we were at a concert over there and it was were at a concert over there and it was were at a concert over there and it was um it's the two guys, two Montgomery it's the two guys, two Montgomery Gentry. Gentry. Gentry. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Okay. And um Austin was little. It was >> Okay. And um Austin was little. It was >> Okay. And um Austin was little. It was the first concert Austin had been to the first concert Austin had been to the first concert Austin had been to >> and and he he was there. He wanted uh >> and and he he was there. He wanted uh >> and and he he was there. He wanted uh >> he wanted to go because of the >> he wanted to go because of the >> he wanted to go because of the fireworks. It was July 4th and they were fireworks. It was July 4th and they were fireworks. It was July 4th and they were going to do fireworks after the show. going to do fireworks after the show. going to do fireworks after the show. >> And so >> And so >> And so >> he's his first concert he's been to and >> he's his first concert he's been to and >> he's his first concert he's been to and he's like seven he's like seven he's like seven >> and and so he he said, you know, he >> and and so he he said, you know, he >> and and so he he said, you know, he would he the the opening act would come would he the the opening act would come would he the the opening act would come up and then opening act's over and he up and then opening act's over and he up and then opening act's over and he said, "Is it time for fireworks?" I said, "Is it time for fireworks?" I said, "Is it time for fireworks?" I said, "No, no, not yet." And so then said, "No, no, not yet." And so then said, "No, no, not yet." And so then another opening act comes out. Is it another opening act comes out. Is it another opening act comes out. Is it time for fireworks now? No. No. We got time for fireworks now? No. No. We got time for fireworks now? No. No. We got another band. Got another band. So then another band. Got another band. So then another band. Got another band. So then Montgomery Gentry comes out and they do Montgomery Gentry comes out and they do Montgomery Gentry comes out and they do their deal and their deal and their deal and >> finally the fireworks. So the next day I >> finally the fireworks. So the next day I >> finally the fireworks. So the next day I asked Austin, I said, "Did you enjoy the asked Austin, I said, "Did you enjoy the asked Austin, I said, "Did you enjoy the show?" He said, "I did, but I didn't show?" He said, "I did, but I didn't show?" He said, "I did, but I didn't like how they tricked you."

like how they tricked you." like how they tricked you." And I said, "What does that mean?" He And I said, "What does that mean?" He And I said, "What does that mean?" He said, "Well, you know that last band, said, "Well, you know that last band, said, "Well, you know that last band, they came out and they got through and they came out and they got through and they came out and they got through and you f thought it's time for fireworks you f thought it's time for fireworks you f thought it's time for fireworks and they tricked you. It came back out and they tricked you. It came back out and they tricked you. It came back out and started playing again. [laughter] Don't understand the concept of an Don't understand the concept of an encore. Marcy Taylor, hey, encore. Marcy Taylor, hey, encore. Marcy Taylor, hey, >> so glad you're with us and you're >> so glad you're with us and you're >> so glad you're with us and you're burning up with fires in Washington burning up with fires in Washington burning up with fires in Washington State. Have you seen the fires in State. Have you seen the fires in State. Have you seen the fires in France? France? France? >> The fires in France are creating their >> The fires in France are creating their >> The fires in France are creating their own weather patterns. own weather patterns. own weather patterns. >> Oh my goodness. >> Oh my goodness. >> Oh my goodness. >> So, but yeah, that's bad. >> So, but yeah, that's bad. >> So, but yeah, that's bad. >> You know how France is. So, >> You know how France is. So, >> You know how France is. So, >> Saltwater College, come see us in Navar, >> Saltwater College, come see us in Navar, >> Saltwater College, come see us in Navar, Florida. The series is one of our Florida. The series is one of our Florida. The series is one of our bestsellers. So, where is Saltwater bestsellers. So, where is Saltwater bestsellers. So, where is Saltwater Cottage? Cottage? Cottage? >> I don't know. I've never heard of it. >> I don't know. I've never heard of it. >> I don't know. I've never heard of it. >> Well, we're going to have to come see >> Well, we're going to have to come see >> Well, we're going to have to come see you. I'm going to have to come see you you. I'm going to have to come see you you. I'm going to have to come see you in Navar. in Navar. in Navar. >> So, >> So, >> So, >> I passed right through Navar going home. >> I passed right through Navar going home. >> I passed right through Navar going home. >> Okay. We'll stop at Saltwater Cottage >> Okay. We'll stop at Saltwater Cottage >> Okay. We'll stop at Saltwater Cottage and tell them we said hi.

So, I just heard I just got a text from So, I just heard I just got a text from Beth Torino, who is the head softball Beth Torino, who is the head softball Beth Torino, who is the head softball coach of LSU. coach of LSU. coach of LSU. >> Okay. >> Okay. >> Okay. >> So, >> So, >> So, >> you going to go talk to them? >> you going to go talk to them? >> you going to go talk to them? >> I don't know. I don't know. They're down >> I don't know. I don't know. They're down >> I don't know. I don't know. They're down here. She and her staff are down here at here. She and her staff are down here at here. She and her staff are down here at the beach, so they invited me for the beach, so they invited me for the beach, so they invited me for coffee. So, I'm coffee. So, I'm coffee. So, I'm >> Oh, you should go. >> Oh, you should go. >> Oh, you should go. >> Yeah, I'm I'm probably going to. You >> Yeah, I'm I'm probably going to. You >> Yeah, I'm I'm probably going to. You know, I'm I'm into this softball thing. know, I'm I'm into this softball thing. know, I'm I'm into this softball thing. I know you are. I know you are. I know you are. >> So, we got I you know, I didn't used to >> So, we got I you know, I didn't used to >> So, we got I you know, I didn't used to be, but be, but be, but >> I'm so glad because I played softball >> I'm so glad because I played softball >> I'm so glad because I played softball for so many years and and I just think for so many years and and I just think for so many years and and I just think it's one of it's one of it's one of >> You have a grandchild. >> You have a grandchild. >> You have a grandchild. >> I do. You play softball. >> I do. You play softball. >> I do. You play softball. >> Playing softball. >> Playing softball. >> Playing softball. >> It'll be interesting to see cuz she's >> It'll be interesting to see cuz she's >> It'll be interesting to see cuz she's going into high school. going into high school. going into high school. >> Is she really good? >> Is she really good? >> Is she really good? >> Um she's fair. >> Um she's fair. >> Um she's fair. >> If she's really good, she should move >> If she's really good, she should move >> If she's really good, she should move over here. over here. over here. >> She She hasn't played that many years. >> She She hasn't played that many years. >> She She hasn't played that many years. She didn't start as young as I did, She didn't start as young as I did, She didn't start as young as I did, >> right? But um but she's holding her own. >> right? But um but she's holding her own. >> right? But um but she's holding her own. >> You you know if you like it, you have to >> You you know if you like it, you have to >> You you know if you like it, you have to come to a game with me. come to a game with me. come to a game with me. >> I know. I need to I need >> I know. I need to I need >> I know. I need to I need >> I have four season tickets.

>> I have four season tickets. >> I have four season tickets. >> Whoa. >> Whoa. >> Whoa. Okay. Okay. Okay. >> My season tickets cost $150 a piece, >> My season tickets cost $150 a piece, >> My season tickets cost $150 a piece, which is why [laughter] which is why [laughter] which is why [laughter] I was able to afford four. So, but I got I was able to afford four. So, but I got I was able to afford four. So, but I got I got four and I you know and so I I got four and I you know and so I I got four and I you know and so I invite friends and so I you know Polly invite friends and so I you know Polly invite friends and so I you know Polly will go occasionally but but I'll will go occasionally but but I'll will go occasionally but but I'll usually have usually have usually have >> then of course the parents you know I'm >> then of course the parents you know I'm >> then of course the parents you know I'm the only one up in the stands that the only one up in the stands that the only one up in the stands that doesn't have a girl on the field. I know doesn't have a girl on the field. I know doesn't have a girl on the field. I know generally. Yeah. generally. Yeah. generally. Yeah. >> I mean there's some of us you know but a >> I mean there's some of us you know but a >> I mean there's some of us you know but a lot of times the parents you know lot of times the parents you know lot of times the parents you know they'll bring people and they'll go uh they'll bring people and they'll go uh they'll bring people and they'll go uh are you using those three extra seats are you using those three extra seats are you using those three extra seats tonight? Nope. Go ahead. You know. tonight? Nope. Go ahead. You know. tonight? Nope. Go ahead. You know. >> Yeah. So, do you see that? >> Yeah. So, do you see that? >> Yeah. So, do you see that? >> That's awesome. >> That's awesome. >> That's awesome. >> See that? >> See that? >> See that? >> Oh, that's awesome. >> Oh, that's awesome. >> Oh, that's awesome. >> Let me show y'all. Show y'all. >> Let me show y'all. Show y'all. >> Let me show y'all. Show y'all. >> That is so cool. >> That is so cool. >> That is so cool. >> This was a >> This was a >> This was a painting done. Six home runs in two innings.

Six home runs in two innings. >> That's fabulous. >> That's fabulous. >> That's fabulous. >> It's just crazy. Crazy watching them. >> It's just crazy. Crazy watching them. >> It's just crazy. Crazy watching them. >> That's so cool. And we had six >> That's so cool. And we had six >> That's so cool. And we had six all-ameans. all-ameans. all-ameans. >> I mean, think about this. 365,000 >> I mean, think about this. 365,000 >> I mean, think about this. 365,000 girls. girls. girls. >> Yep. >> Yep. >> Yep. >> Playing and we had six all-ameans. >> Playing and we had six all-ameans. >> Playing and we had six all-ameans. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> So, it's crazy. Well, are you ready to >> So, it's crazy. Well, are you ready to >> So, it's crazy. Well, are you ready to get started? get started? get started? >> I am. >> I am. >> I am. >> I'm ready to get started. Okay. So, now >> I'm ready to get started. Okay. So, now >> I'm ready to get started. Okay. So, now you know how we do this. We talk for a you know how we do this. We talk for a you know how we do this. We talk for a little bit, blue plate it around a little bit, blue plate it around a little bit, blue plate it around a little bit, and then we go into the little bit, and then we go into the little bit, and then we go into the protocol conversation, and then we come protocol conversation, and then we come protocol conversation, and then we come back and blate it a little bit, talk back and blate it a little bit, talk back and blate it a little bit, talk about what we talked about. So anyway, about what we talked about. So anyway, about what we talked about. So anyway, if you guys are ready, are you ready? if you guys are ready, are you ready? if you guys are ready, are you ready? >> I'm ready. >> I'm ready. >> I'm ready. >> Are y'all ready out there? Okay, you >> Are y'all ready out there? Okay, you >> Are y'all ready out there? Okay, you ready? ready? ready? >> Give me like 15 more seconds. >> Give me like 15 more seconds. >> Give me like 15 more seconds. >> Okay, Matt's not ready. [laughter] >> Okay, Matt's not ready. [laughter] >> Okay, Matt's not ready. [laughter] Okay, Okay, Okay, >> this will be fun. >> this will be fun. >> this will be fun. >> Yep. This is We're gonna do a year in >> Yep. This is We're gonna do a year in >> Yep. This is We're gonna do a year in review. A protocol year. review. A protocol year. review. A protocol year. >> See if you can remember. >> See if you can remember. >> See if you can remember. >> See if I can remember. >> See if I can remember. >> See if I can remember. >> That's right.

>> That's right. >> That's right. >> See if I can remember the things I >> See if I can remember the things I >> See if I can remember the things I agreed with or the things I made fun of. agreed with or the things I made fun of. agreed with or the things I made fun of. You know, and I I I I say I agree with I You know, and I I I I say I agree with I You know, and I I I I say I agree with I mean there's nothing you've said that mean there's nothing you've said that mean there's nothing you've said that I've disagreed with. There's a lot of I've disagreed with. There's a lot of I've disagreed with. There's a lot of stuff that you've said that I didn't stuff that you've said that I didn't stuff that you've said that I didn't know. know. know. >> So, >> So, >> So, >> yeah. >> yeah. >> yeah. >> Okay. >> Okay. >> Okay. >> Learning for everybody. >> Learning for everybody. >> Learning for everybody. >> Okay. All right. >> Okay. All right. >> Okay. All right. All right, here we go. All right, here we go. All right, here we go. Hello again, everyone, and welcome to Hello again, everyone, and welcome to Hello again, everyone, and welcome to another Protocol Conversation. I'm your another Protocol Conversation. I'm your another Protocol Conversation. I'm your host, Andy Andrews, and we have the host, Andy Andrews, and we have the host, Andy Andrews, and we have the incredible incredible incredible Monica Early. She is our chief of Monica Early. She is our chief of Monica Early. She is our chief of protocol here. She used to be chief of protocol here. She used to be chief of protocol here. She used to be chief of protocol for special operations all over protocol for special operations all over protocol for special operations all over the world, but she decided to quit that the world, but she decided to quit that the world, but she decided to quit that and work with us. and work with us. and work with us. >> Actually, you kind of retired, right? >> Actually, you kind of retired, right? >> Actually, you kind of retired, right? >> Yeah, I did. >> Yeah, I did. >> Yeah, I did. >> Yeah. Okay. But we still say she quit >> Yeah. Okay. But we still say she quit >> Yeah. Okay. But we still say she quit special operations to come work with special operations to come work with special operations to come work with Wisdom Harbor. And um we're we're I'm Wisdom Harbor. And um we're we're I'm Wisdom Harbor. And um we're we're I'm excited about this today because we're excited about this today because we're excited about this today because we're going to do a a year in review, going to do a a year in review, going to do a a year in review, >> right?

>> right? >> right? >> So I I tried to find one thing out of >> So I I tried to find one thing out of >> So I I tried to find one thing out of each month that kind of resonated with each month that kind of resonated with each month that kind of resonated with me. It was kind of hard picking these me. It was kind of hard picking these me. It was kind of hard picking these things too because there was so many things too because there was so many things too because there was so many things um in each month because this was things um in each month because this was things um in each month because this was kind of an interesting month because I kind of an interesting month because I kind of an interesting month because I was trying to work on being intentional was trying to work on being intentional was trying to work on being intentional this year and picking things that we this year and picking things that we this year and picking things that we could really focus on. could really focus on. could really focus on. >> Well, you know, I told you before we got >> Well, you know, I told you before we got >> Well, you know, I told you before we got on the air that you probably got a lot on the air that you probably got a lot on the air that you probably got a lot of things there that I agreed with and a of things there that I agreed with and a of things there that I agreed with and a lot of things that I made fun of. And I lot of things that I made fun of. And I lot of things that I made fun of. And I didn't mean that I disagreed with them. didn't mean that I disagreed with them. didn't mean that I disagreed with them. I because I, you know, pretty much make I because I, you know, pretty much make I because I, you know, pretty much make fun of everything. But um but I'll tell fun of everything. But um but I'll tell fun of everything. But um but I'll tell you this, you this, you this, I I I have not found a single thing that I I I have not found a single thing that I I I have not found a single thing that you've said in our whole time doing you've said in our whole time doing you've said in our whole time doing these that I have disagreed with. these that I have disagreed with. these that I have disagreed with. However, However, However, I have heard a lot of things I didn't I have heard a lot of things I didn't I have heard a lot of things I didn't know know know >> and and I think that's I think that's >> and and I think that's I think that's >> and and I think that's I think that's awfully interesting to You know, awfully interesting to You know, awfully interesting to You know, >> it is >> it is >> it is >> because we want to come across great in >> because we want to come across great in >> because we want to come across great in public and we want, you know, there are public and we want, you know, there are public and we want, you know, there are several things that you have said that I several things that you have said that I several things that you have said that I was like, uh, my boys are grown. I I was like, uh, my boys are grown. I I was like, uh, my boys are grown. I I need to tell them this. You know, I wish need to tell them this. You know, I wish need to tell them this. You know, I wish I had raised them right I had raised them right I had raised them right >> with this. And so, you know, one of the >> with this. And so, you know, one of the >> with this. And so, you know, one of the one of the good things to me about what one of the good things to me about what one of the good things to me about what Monica provides for Wisdom Harbor is Monica provides for Wisdom Harbor is Monica provides for Wisdom Harbor is she's not just telling you what to do.

she's not just telling you what to do. she's not just telling you what to do. She's explaining why it works as it She's explaining why it works as it She's explaining why it works as it does. And and so for grandparents does. And and so for grandparents does. And and so for grandparents especially, parents too, but I think especially, parents too, but I think especially, parents too, but I think grandparents especially, this might be grandparents especially, this might be grandparents especially, this might be very important. I think it's important very important. I think it's important very important. I think it's important that the parents and the kids watch this that the parents and the kids watch this that the parents and the kids watch this together, you know, but for together, you know, but for together, you know, but for grandparents, grandparents are in a in a grandparents, grandparents are in a in a grandparents, grandparents are in a in a weird category because there's a lot of weird category because there's a lot of weird category because there's a lot of times that grandparents, times that grandparents, times that grandparents, we'll see a grandchild do something or we'll see a grandchild do something or we'll see a grandchild do something or not do something. And, you know, they not do something. And, you know, they not do something. And, you know, they might say something or they might say might say something or they might say might say something or they might say something to the parent, you know, to something to the parent, you know, to something to the parent, you know, to their child. And the answer sometimes their child. And the answer sometimes their child. And the answer sometimes from their child is, "Oh, mom, that's from their child is, "Oh, mom, that's from their child is, "Oh, mom, that's how you did it, but we're doing it a how you did it, but we're doing it a how you did it, but we're doing it a different way." different way." different way." >> And this is, you know, and and then >> And this is, you know, and and then >> And this is, you know, and and then grandma might try to argue with that. grandma might try to argue with that. grandma might try to argue with that. But then the answer is, "Mom, that's But then the answer is, "Mom, that's But then the answer is, "Mom, that's your opinion." your opinion." your opinion." And so my thought is And so my thought is And so my thought is until you can explain why something until you can explain why something until you can explain why something works as it does, it it is just an works as it does, it it is just an works as it does, it it is just an opinion.

opinion. opinion. >> But if you can provide um you know >> But if you can provide um you know >> But if you can provide um you know what's in it for somebody and proof what's in it for somebody and proof what's in it for somebody and proof beyond a reasonable doubt that that is beyond a reasonable doubt that that is beyond a reasonable doubt that that is so and by proof beyond a reasonable so and by proof beyond a reasonable so and by proof beyond a reasonable doubt that that is so, I'm not talking doubt that that is so, I'm not talking doubt that that is so, I'm not talking about a mathematical proof. I'm talking about a mathematical proof. I'm talking about a mathematical proof. I'm talking about the kind of proof where you hear about the kind of proof where you hear about the kind of proof where you hear something you hadn't heard or you hear something you hadn't heard or you hear something you hadn't heard or you hear it in a way you hadn't heard it, you go, it in a way you hadn't heard it, you go, it in a way you hadn't heard it, you go, "Hm, "Hm, "Hm, well, that makes perfect sense. I never well, that makes perfect sense. I never well, that makes perfect sense. I never thought of that." thought of that." thought of that." Okay. And so when what's in it for you Okay. And so when what's in it for you Okay. And so when what's in it for you crosses paths with proof beyond a crosses paths with proof beyond a crosses paths with proof beyond a reasonable doubt, I mean, people change. reasonable doubt, I mean, people change. reasonable doubt, I mean, people change. And it's a way that grandparents And it's a way that grandparents And it's a way that grandparents and their their children can have a and their their children can have a and their their children can have a conversation about grandchildren conversation about grandchildren conversation about grandchildren that is a real conversation instead of that is a real conversation instead of that is a real conversation instead of just somebody throwing it out as it's just somebody throwing it out as it's just somebody throwing it out as it's just your opinion. just your opinion. just your opinion. >> Right. Exactly. >> Right. Exactly. >> Right. Exactly. >> Anyway, let's get started. >> Anyway, let's get started. >> Anyway, let's get started. >> Yeah. So, >> Yeah. So, >> Yeah. So, >> have you got these listed 1 through 12 >> have you got these listed 1 through 12 >> have you got these listed 1 through 12 or January through December? or January through December? or January through December? >> I I have them both ways.

>> I I have them both ways. >> I I have them both ways. So, [laughter] So, [laughter] So, [laughter] I'm just going to grab one and start I'm just going to grab one and start I'm just going to grab one and start talking about it. So, one month we talking about it. So, one month we talking about it. So, one month we talked about um our power skills. We talked about um our power skills. We talked about um our power skills. We changed it from soft skills, which changed it from soft skills, which changed it from soft skills, which nobody really understands what those nobody really understands what those nobody really understands what those are. So, I kind of I changed it to power are. So, I kind of I changed it to power are. So, I kind of I changed it to power skills because I think knowing these skills because I think knowing these skills because I think knowing these little details can help you um in every little details can help you um in every little details can help you um in every situation. situation. situation. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Because if you know the details. So, I >> Because if you know the details. So, I >> Because if you know the details. So, I put why business etiquette. why it is put why business etiquette. why it is put why business etiquette. why it is non-negotiable in in your profession. So non-negotiable in in your profession. So non-negotiable in in your profession. So I you know like I said I fredded over I you know like I said I fredded over I you know like I said I fredded over which one to pick but the one I picked which one to pick but the one I picked which one to pick but the one I picked was find a mentor. was find a mentor. was find a mentor. So So So uh just pay attention to how successful uh just pay attention to how successful uh just pay attention to how successful those colleagues are and ask them those colleagues are and ask them those colleagues are and ask them questions and you know become a friend questions and you know become a friend questions and you know become a friend and help ask them what they need to do and help ask them what they need to do and help ask them what they need to do better in the company in the school in better in the company in the school in better in the company in the school in anywhere right but find a mentor that anywhere right but find a mentor that anywhere right but find a mentor that can help you along the way can help you along the way can help you along the way >> and I'll add here that you can find a >> and I'll add here that you can find a >> and I'll add here that you can find a mentor and have a great mentor without mentor and have a great mentor without mentor and have a great mentor without asking them to be your mentor.

asking them to be your mentor. asking them to be your mentor. >> Absolutely. >> Absolutely. >> Absolutely. >> Yeah. Sometimes that puts a pressure on >> Yeah. Sometimes that puts a pressure on >> Yeah. Sometimes that puts a pressure on people and sometimes people think I people and sometimes people think I people and sometimes people think I don't have the time for this or or or don't have the time for this or or or don't have the time for this or or or maybe their answers are geared toward maybe their answers are geared toward maybe their answers are geared toward making them look good or geared toward making them look good or geared toward making them look good or geared toward what they think you want to hear. what they think you want to hear. what they think you want to hear. >> But if you're just having a conversation >> But if you're just having a conversation >> But if you're just having a conversation with somebody you respect and you ask with somebody you respect and you ask with somebody you respect and you ask good questions, you'll get good answers. good questions, you'll get good answers. good questions, you'll get good answers. >> Absolutely. And and I agree. Some some >> Absolutely. And and I agree. Some some >> Absolutely. And and I agree. Some some schools, you know, have a mentor program schools, you know, have a mentor program schools, you know, have a mentor program which you pair people together, right? which you pair people together, right? which you pair people together, right? >> And some businesses do, too. And I would >> And some businesses do, too. And I would >> And some businesses do, too. And I would encourage businesses to do that. Yeah. encourage businesses to do that. Yeah. encourage businesses to do that. Yeah. >> But if they don't, you know, and if >> But if they don't, you know, and if >> But if they don't, you know, and if you're the lone person that wants to you're the lone person that wants to you're the lone person that wants to watch somebody, then watch somebody watch somebody, then watch somebody watch somebody, then watch somebody that's successful and and you know, has that's successful and and you know, has that's successful and and you know, has answers and then just start asking them answers and then just start asking them answers and then just start asking them questions. Do you know I mean I just questions. Do you know I mean I just questions. Do you know I mean I just happened to think of this but Jimmy Yuri happened to think of this but Jimmy Yuri happened to think of this but Jimmy Yuri the songwriter 14 number ones three song the songwriter 14 number ones three song the songwriter 14 number ones three song of the year awards of the year awards of the year awards >> Jimmy Yuri and my son Austin who is a >> Jimmy Yuri and my son Austin who is a >> Jimmy Yuri and my son Austin who is a young songwriter in Nashville young songwriter in Nashville young songwriter in Nashville >> they have actually gone and done a live >> they have actually gone and done a live >> they have actually gone and done a live mentoring mentoring mentoring >> thing for corporations >> thing for corporations >> thing for corporations >> where >> where >> where >> where Jimmy mentors Austin in front of >> where Jimmy mentors Austin in front of >> where Jimmy mentors Austin in front of everybody. Okay. and they do a couple of everybody. Okay. and they do a couple of everybody. Okay. and they do a couple of their songs, they stop, they talk about their songs, they stop, they talk about their songs, they stop, they talk about why this, why that. Uh Jimmy embarrasses why this, why that. Uh Jimmy embarrasses why this, why that. Uh Jimmy embarrasses Austin. I mean, it's it's pretty Austin. I mean, it's it's pretty Austin. I mean, it's it's pretty >> that's pretty cool, though.

>> that's pretty cool, though. >> that's pretty cool, though. >> It's pretty cool to see to see it in >> It's pretty cool to see to see it in >> It's pretty cool to see to see it in action. So, action. So, action. So, >> that's awesome. >> that's awesome. >> that's awesome. >> So, the next one was um interview skills >> So, the next one was um interview skills >> So, the next one was um interview skills for um high school students that are for um high school students that are for um high school students that are applying for scholarships. We talked a applying for scholarships. We talked a applying for scholarships. We talked a lot about that about how to act and what lot about that about how to act and what lot about that about how to act and what to do. And the favorite one I had was be to do. And the favorite one I had was be to do. And the favorite one I had was be prepared to answer questions, not just prepared to answer questions, not just prepared to answer questions, not just give yes or no answers, give yes or no answers, give yes or no answers, >> right? >> right? >> right? >> These people that are giving out >> These people that are giving out >> These people that are giving out scholarships, scholarships, scholarships, they don't they want to hear what you they don't they want to hear what you they don't they want to hear what you have to say. So give them, you know, a have to say. So give them, you know, a have to say. So give them, you know, a real answer. Um, and just do some real answer. Um, and just do some real answer. Um, and just do some studying. studying. studying. You know, here here's something just You know, here here's something just You know, here here's something just that I thought of just to add to that is that I thought of just to add to that is that I thought of just to add to that is when you're getting interviewed when you're getting interviewed when you're getting interviewed and you're answering questions, and you're answering questions, and you're answering questions, remember that character is more remember that character is more remember that character is more important than competency, important than competency, important than competency, >> you know? I mean, it you will ultimately >> you know? I mean, it you will ultimately >> you know? I mean, it you will ultimately be hired and stay because of your be hired and stay because of your be hired and stay because of your character, your competency. We can teach character, your competency. We can teach character, your competency. We can teach you how to do whatever, you how to do whatever, you how to do whatever, >> right? But if if you are a liar or >> right? But if if you are a liar or >> right? But if if you are a liar or you're a goof off or, you know, you you're a goof off or, you know, you you're a goof off or, you know, you don't have basic manners, I mean, you're don't have basic manners, I mean, you're don't have basic manners, I mean, you're not going to stay. I don't care how not going to stay. I don't care how not going to stay. I don't care how confident you are.

confident you are. confident you are. >> Right. >> Right. >> Right. >> You know, Mark Mark Faulner, who's the >> You know, Mark Mark Faulner, who's the >> You know, Mark Mark Faulner, who's the CEO of Baptist Healthcare, CEO of Baptist Healthcare, CEO of Baptist Healthcare, I don't know if you've seen that I don't know if you've seen that I don't know if you've seen that podcast, but it is one of our best. podcast, but it is one of our best. podcast, but it is one of our best. >> Oh, cool. >> Oh, cool. >> Oh, cool. >> Uh he told two stories on the on the >> Uh he told two stories on the on the >> Uh he told two stories on the on the podcast. Here's CEO of this company has podcast. Here's CEO of this company has podcast. Here's CEO of this company has thousands of employees. He actually thousands of employees. He actually thousands of employees. He actually fired somebody in their orientation. fired somebody in their orientation. fired somebody in their orientation. >> Oh wow. >> Oh wow. >> Oh wow. >> But he also had to fire a cardiac >> But he also had to fire a cardiac >> But he also had to fire a cardiac cardiac thoracic surgeon that was cardiac thoracic surgeon that was cardiac thoracic surgeon that was bringing millions of dollars into into bringing millions of dollars into into bringing millions of dollars into into the the corporation. But the the corporation. But the the corporation. But >> in both cases, >> in both cases, >> in both cases, it was how they acted. it was how they acted. it was how they acted. >> Yeah. No, [laughter] I I totally agree. >> Yeah. No, [laughter] I I totally agree. >> Yeah. No, [laughter] I I totally agree. >> Yeah, >> Yeah, >> Yeah, >> I totally agree. No, for sure. But and >> I totally agree. No, for sure. But and >> I totally agree. No, for sure. But and these scholarships mean could mean a lot these scholarships mean could mean a lot these scholarships mean could mean a lot of money for you. of money for you. of money for you. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> So, you know, you got to you got to do >> So, you know, you got to you got to do >> So, you know, you got to you got to do your best for that. Along with that, your best for that. Along with that, your best for that. Along with that, with the interview skills for students, with the interview skills for students, with the interview skills for students, um we talked about dress, how dress um we talked about dress, how dress um we talked about dress, how dress makes a difference, but the biggest makes a difference, but the biggest makes a difference, but the biggest thing is the detail about your shoes.

thing is the detail about your shoes. thing is the detail about your shoes. You remember talking about You remember talking about You remember talking about >> I do remember that >> I do remember that >> I do remember that >> that people do notice your shoes and >> that people do notice your shoes and >> that people do notice your shoes and that if make sure they're clean, they're that if make sure they're clean, they're that if make sure they're clean, they're polished, they're whatever you have to polished, they're whatever you have to polished, they're whatever you have to do. Um if you've got worn heels, have do. Um if you've got worn heels, have do. Um if you've got worn heels, have them replaced with the girls. So have them replaced with the girls. So have them replaced with the girls. So have heels. Um to me that shows that you pay heels. Um to me that shows that you pay heels. Um to me that shows that you pay attention to detail. I went to a doctor attention to detail. I went to a doctor attention to detail. I went to a doctor one time one time one time >> who in the doctor's office I could >> who in the doctor's office I could >> who in the doctor's office I could hardly listen to the doctor because his hardly listen to the doctor because his hardly listen to the doctor because his shoes look so bad. shoes look so bad. shoes look so bad. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> And I'm like dude you're a doctor. >> And I'm like dude you're a doctor. >> And I'm like dude you're a doctor. >> It's amazing if you start you could just >> It's amazing if you start you could just >> It's amazing if you start you could just pick a day and say I'm just going to pick a day and say I'm just going to pick a day and say I'm just going to watch everybody's shoes. watch everybody's shoes. watch everybody's shoes. >> I don't really notice I don't really >> I don't really notice I don't really >> I don't really notice I don't really notice it that much. Polly does. Yeah. notice it that much. Polly does. Yeah. notice it that much. Polly does. Yeah. >> You know Polly does but you know she's a >> You know Polly does but you know she's a >> You know Polly does but you know she's a girl. Yeah. And you know and she'll go girl. Yeah. And you know and she'll go girl. Yeah. And you know and she'll go oh my shoes are killing me. It's like, oh my shoes are killing me. It's like, oh my shoes are killing me. It's like, why are you wear them? Because they're why are you wear them? Because they're why are you wear them? Because they're cute. What does [laughter] that mean? cute. What does [laughter] that mean? cute. What does [laughter] that mean? And why would you? But but but man, the And why would you? But but but man, the And why would you? But but but man, the shoe thing, I mean, that is a that's a shoe thing, I mean, that is a that's a shoe thing, I mean, that is a that's a big deal.

big deal. big deal. >> It is. And you'd be surprised the people >> It is. And you'd be surprised the people >> It is. And you'd be surprised the people that are doing interviews for students that are doing interviews for students that are doing interviews for students or interviews at corporations, or interviews at corporations, or interviews at corporations, that might be their thing that they look that might be their thing that they look that might be their thing that they look at. Do you pay attention to that? But it at. Do you pay attention to that? But it at. Do you pay attention to that? But it also also also could be a thing that you may you may could be a thing that you may you may could be a thing that you may you may cross every tea and dot every eye. You cross every tea and dot every eye. You cross every tea and dot every eye. You may have character, you may have may have character, you may have may have character, you may have competency, you may be just but if competency, you may be just but if competency, you may be just but if you're tied, you're tied, you're tied, if there's three people they come down if there's three people they come down if there's three people they come down to, that's right, to, that's right, to, that's right, >> and everybody is the same, you know, >> and everybody is the same, you know, >> and everybody is the same, you know, same education, same character, kind of same education, same character, kind of same education, same character, kind of same age, kind of same competency. Well, same age, kind of same competency. Well, same age, kind of same competency. Well, now it's not a matter of picking the now it's not a matter of picking the now it's not a matter of picking the best because you got three that are the best because you got three that are the best because you got three that are the best. Now you have to cut somebody out, best. Now you have to cut somebody out, best. Now you have to cut somebody out, >> right? >> right? >> right? >> So, so has anybody ever been cut out and >> So, so has anybody ever been cut out and >> So, so has anybody ever been cut out and gone home and told everybody, "I didn't gone home and told everybody, "I didn't gone home and told everybody, "I didn't get the job because of my shoes." No, get the job because of my shoes." No, get the job because of my shoes." No, they don't know. they don't know. they don't know. >> That's right. >> That's right. >> That's right. >> But those kind of things will get you >> But those kind of things will get you >> But those kind of things will get you out.

out. out. >> Right. Exactly. >> Right. Exactly. >> Right. Exactly. If if the HR department will be honest If if the HR department will be honest If if the HR department will be honest with you and you ask those questions, with you and you ask those questions, with you and you ask those questions, they will tell you little things that they will tell you little things that they will tell you little things that they look for that's going to that's they look for that's going to that's they look for that's going to that's going to cut people if they've got going to cut people if they've got going to cut people if they've got everybody that matches. everybody that matches. everybody that matches. >> Right. >> Right. >> Right. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Right. And and they and when they're >> Right. And and they and when they're >> Right. And and they and when they're put, you know, one of our clients, put, you know, one of our clients, put, you know, one of our clients, Beck's Hybrids, Beck's Hybrids, Beck's Hybrids, >> Beck's Hybrids has 4,000 >> Beck's Hybrids has 4,000 >> Beck's Hybrids has 4,000 applicants a year. Wow. applicants a year. Wow. applicants a year. Wow. >> For jobs there. >> For jobs there. >> For jobs there. >> Yeah. And um Sunonny Beck who's the CEO >> Yeah. And um Sunonny Beck who's the CEO >> Yeah. And um Sunonny Beck who's the CEO uh he says uh he says uh he says we always look at character and we we always look at character and we we always look at character and we examine every person because you know examine every person because you know examine every person because you know they only hire three or 400 a year and they only hire three or 400 a year and they only hire three or 400 a year and there 4,000 applicants. There's a lot of there 4,000 applicants. There's a lot of there 4,000 applicants. There's a lot of qualified people that are qualified people that are qualified people that are >> losing out on the opportunity because of >> losing out on the opportunity because of >> losing out on the opportunity because of something something something >> right >> right >> right >> that showed up. Exactly. No, it's it's >> that showed up. Exactly. No, it's it's >> that showed up. Exactly. No, it's it's amazing.

amazing. amazing. >> You know, he didn't look at he didn't >> You know, he didn't look at he didn't >> You know, he didn't look at he didn't look me in the eye when he shook his look me in the eye when he shook his look me in the eye when he shook his hand. He had a limp handshake. He you hand. He had a limp handshake. He you hand. He had a limp handshake. He you know, she she wore a too revealing know, she she wore a too revealing know, she she wore a too revealing dress. You know, his shoes looked like dress. You know, his shoes looked like dress. You know, his shoes looked like he he he >> got him off the street. Yeah, that's >> got him off the street. Yeah, that's >> got him off the street. Yeah, that's right. And so, right. And so, right. And so, >> anyway, that's a good one. >> anyway, that's a good one. >> anyway, that's a good one. >> Yeah, I love that one. So, one month we >> Yeah, I love that one. So, one month we >> Yeah, I love that one. So, one month we talked about talked about talked about >> Wait a minute. I love it because it's >> Wait a minute. I love it because it's >> Wait a minute. I love it because it's one of those things people don't think one of those things people don't think one of those things people don't think about. about. about. >> Exactly. So, >> Exactly. So, >> Exactly. So, >> exactly. >> exactly. >> exactly. So, then one month we talked about beach So, then one month we talked about beach So, then one month we talked about beach and pool manners and pool manners and pool manners and there was a lot lot of fun with that and there was a lot lot of fun with that and there was a lot lot of fun with that one. But I think the biggest takeaway one. But I think the biggest takeaway one. But I think the biggest takeaway was don't play your music so loud where was don't play your music so loud where was don't play your music so loud where everybody can hear it. everybody can hear it. everybody can hear it. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Just enjoy your little jazz or your >> Just enjoy your little jazz or your >> Just enjoy your little jazz or your little rap or whatever you do just in little rap or whatever you do just in little rap or whatever you do just in your little area your little area your little area >> or use your earbuds. >> or use your earbuds. >> or use your earbuds. >> Yes. Yes. Absolutely. You know, you >> Yes. Yes. Absolutely. You know, you >> Yes. Yes. Absolutely. You know, you know, know, know, there are there are there are I mean, you've probably seen videos, but I mean, you've probably seen videos, but I mean, you've probably seen videos, but there are there real problems on cruise there are there real problems on cruise there are there real problems on cruise ships now with groups coming in and ships now with groups coming in and ships now with groups coming in and blasting music and you know, other blasting music and you know, other blasting music and you know, other families on the ship. That's right.

families on the ship. That's right. families on the ship. That's right. >> And there is. >> And there is. >> And there is. >> But I mean, there's like fist fights. >> But I mean, there's like fist fights. >> But I mean, there's like fist fights. >> Oh, wow. >> Oh, wow. >> Oh, wow. >> Started on cruise ship. I even go on >> Started on cruise ship. I even go on >> Started on cruise ship. I even go on YouTube and watch fist fights between YouTube and watch fist fights between YouTube and watch fist fights between cruise ship passengers. cruise ship passengers. cruise ship passengers. >> Yep. That's crazy. This is more >> Yep. That's crazy. This is more >> Yep. That's crazy. This is more important to me after I drove down the important to me after I drove down the important to me after I drove down the beach road um in the middle of the week beach road um in the middle of the week beach road um in the middle of the week and the umbrellas were just they were and the umbrellas were just they were and the umbrellas were just they were just packed just packed just packed >> right >> right >> right >> side by side all the way down and I >> side by side all the way down and I >> side by side all the way down and I thought, "Oh, I don't like that kind of thought, "Oh, I don't like that kind of thought, "Oh, I don't like that kind of beach day. I want to go when there's beach day. I want to go when there's beach day. I want to go when there's nobody there." nobody there." nobody there." >> Um that's why I don't go in the >> Um that's why I don't go in the >> Um that's why I don't go in the summertime. summertime. summertime. >> We'll have, you know, we and the same >> We'll have, you know, we and the same >> We'll have, you know, we and the same way. We don't like, you know, in the way. We don't like, you know, in the way. We don't like, you know, in the weekends when it's so crowded around weekends when it's so crowded around weekends when it's so crowded around here, here, here, >> we just we, you know, we we talk >> we just we, you know, we we talk >> we just we, you know, we we talk sometimes just go to go to Publix on sometimes just go to go to Publix on sometimes just go to go to Publix on Thursday and we ain't coming out until Thursday and we ain't coming out until Thursday and we ain't coming out until Monday morning. Monday morning. Monday morning. >> That's right. Absolutely. >> That's right. Absolutely. >> That's right. Absolutely. >> But it but you know, you'll I sometimes >> But it but you know, you'll I sometimes >> But it but you know, you'll I sometimes I I drive across the bridge and I'll I I drive across the bridge and I'll I I drive across the bridge and I'll hear a boat's music. hear a boat's music. hear a boat's music. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Now that's pretty bad.

>> Now that's pretty bad. >> Now that's pretty bad. >> 50 60 yards away. >> 50 60 yards away. >> 50 60 yards away. >> I know. And so, you know, I mean, do >> I know. And so, you know, I mean, do >> I know. And so, you know, I mean, do they think other people are not wanting they think other people are not wanting they think other people are not wanting to be on the water and talk with their to be on the water and talk with their to be on the water and talk with their family or I mean, I don't know if it's a family or I mean, I don't know if it's a family or I mean, I don't know if it's a look at me kind of thing or what, but look at me kind of thing or what, but look at me kind of thing or what, but >> I don't know. I don't know. But just be >> I don't know. I don't know. But just be >> I don't know. I don't know. But just be careful when you're out there with the careful when you're out there with the careful when you're out there with the music music music >> and just know somebody might punch you. >> and just know somebody might punch you. >> and just know somebody might punch you. >> That's true. That's true. >> That's true. That's true. >> That's true. That's true. >> All right. So, we went to coffee shop >> All right. So, we went to coffee shop >> All right. So, we went to coffee shop manners. manners. manners. >> Oh, this was a good one. >> Oh, this was a good one. >> Oh, this was a good one. >> Yeah. So, I just the biggest takeaway >> Yeah. So, I just the biggest takeaway >> Yeah. So, I just the biggest takeaway for me was don't use it as your personal for me was don't use it as your personal for me was don't use it as your personal space like you're there for the day. space like you're there for the day. space like you're there for the day. Make it your living room. If you're Make it your living room. If you're Make it your living room. If you're there to do a little computer work, there to do a little computer work, there to do a little computer work, that's fine, but make sure you keep that's fine, but make sure you keep that's fine, but make sure you keep buying, you know, buy coffee, freshen it buying, you know, buy coffee, freshen it buying, you know, buy coffee, freshen it up. Don't stay there several hours up. Don't stay there several hours up. Don't stay there several hours without purchasing something else. without purchasing something else. without purchasing something else. >> Yeah. and and realize >> Yeah. and and realize >> Yeah. and and realize >> and throw it away when you >> and throw it away when you >> and throw it away when you >> and realize that a lot of places you've >> and realize that a lot of places you've >> and realize that a lot of places you've got a a somebody on the weight staff and got a a somebody on the weight staff and got a a somebody on the weight staff and their money is the tips and so if you're their money is the tips and so if you're their money is the tips and so if you're keeping that table, you know, last keeping that table, you know, last keeping that table, you know, last Sunday, Sunday, Sunday, uh I was bringing somebody from church uh I was bringing somebody from church uh I was bringing somebody from church to eat at a place to eat at a place to eat at a place >> and it was so hot that Polly went ahead, >> and it was so hot that Polly went ahead, >> and it was so hot that Polly went ahead, you know, because she We said we cannot you know, because she We said we cannot you know, because she We said we cannot eat outdoors. I can't we can't put these eat outdoors. I can't we can't put these eat outdoors. I can't we can't put these people outdoors. Right.

people outdoors. Right. people outdoors. Right. >> And so so we said let you go early and >> And so so we said let you go early and >> And so so we said let you go early and get a table get a table get a table >> and just immediately tell the waitress >> and just immediately tell the waitress >> and just immediately tell the waitress we're waiting on people. We are going to we're waiting on people. We are going to we're waiting on people. We are going to pay you great pay you great pay you great >> to hold the table >> to hold the table >> to hold the table >> holding this table you know for because >> holding this table you know for because >> holding this table you know for because you know I can I can imagine the weight you know I can I can imagine the weight you know I can I can imagine the weight staff looking going staff looking going staff looking going >> they've been there for three hours. >> they've been there for three hours. >> they've been there for three hours. We've done that before if we've lingered We've done that before if we've lingered We've done that before if we've lingered so long. so long. so long. >> Sure. >> Sure. >> Sure. >> Just add an extra tip. >> Just add an extra tip. >> Just add an extra tip. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Just because they couldn't turn the >> Just because they couldn't turn the >> Just because they couldn't turn the table around, table around, table around, >> right? >> right? >> right? >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Right. >> Right. >> Right. >> For sure. >> For sure. >> For sure. >> But that's really good. That's really >> But that's really good. That's really >> But that's really good. That's really good. Yeah. Don't make it your home. I good. Yeah. Don't make it your home. I good. Yeah. Don't make it your home. I mean, get an office or go outside. mean, get an office or go outside. mean, get an office or go outside. >> Yeah. For sure. [laughter] >> Yeah. For sure. [laughter] >> Yeah. For sure. [laughter] [gasps] [gasps] [gasps] So, another month we talked about being So, another month we talked about being So, another month we talked about being intentional in your professional life. intentional in your professional life. intentional in your professional life. And I just just decided that be And I just just decided that be And I just just decided that be intentional with gratitude. intentional with gratitude. intentional with gratitude. Say thank you. Um when when you have Say thank you. Um when when you have Say thank you. Um when when you have calls, when you're pl when you're paying calls, when you're pl when you're paying calls, when you're pl when you're paying the grocery store, when someone opens a the grocery store, when someone opens a the grocery store, when someone opens a door, um any of those times because we door, um any of those times because we door, um any of those times because we shouldn't expect the service, shouldn't expect the service, shouldn't expect the service, >> right? Um, now those people should be >> right? Um, now those people should be >> right? Um, now those people should be doing it because they're proud of their doing it because they're proud of their doing it because they're proud of their job, but we shouldn't take it as they job, but we shouldn't take it as they job, but we shouldn't take it as they should be doing this because we're there should be doing this because we're there should be doing this because we're there needing it. It's just be thankful and needing it. It's just be thankful and needing it. It's just be thankful and just there's no reason you can't say just there's no reason you can't say just there's no reason you can't say thank you. You can't open the door thank you. You can't open the door thank you. You can't open the door because you got to the door first or because you got to the door first or because you got to the door first or something like that. I always, you know,

something like that. I always, you know, something like that. I always, you know, I I think about that and I I I I think about that and I I I I think about that and I I I'll see somebody I'll see somebody I'll see somebody on staff somewhere or doing something on staff somewhere or doing something on staff somewhere or doing something and I and I can't help I mean my mom and I and I can't help I mean my mom and I and I can't help I mean my mom died years ago, but but I always think, died years ago, but but I always think, died years ago, but but I always think, you know, that's somebody's mom. you know, that's somebody's mom. you know, that's somebody's mom. >> That's somebody's mom that's working >> That's somebody's mom that's working >> That's somebody's mom that's working there or [snorts] that's somebody's kid. there or [snorts] that's somebody's kid. there or [snorts] that's somebody's kid. Mhm. Mhm. Mhm. >> It's like, you know, how would I want my >> It's like, you know, how would I want my >> It's like, you know, how would I want my son to be treated, you know, and and so, son to be treated, you know, and and so, son to be treated, you know, and and so, you know, you know, you know, >> Yeah. Absolutely. >> Yeah. Absolutely. >> Yeah. Absolutely. >> It's kind of golden rule time here. >> It's kind of golden rule time here. >> It's kind of golden rule time here. >> Absolutely. Absolutely. And it just >> Absolutely. Absolutely. And it just >> Absolutely. Absolutely. And it just makes you a better person to be makes you a better person to be makes you a better person to be thankful, thankful, thankful, >> right? Yeah. >> right? Yeah. >> right? Yeah. >> Sure does. Gratefulness is is something >> Sure does. Gratefulness is is something >> Sure does. Gratefulness is is something that um that um that um I I I think it's something that has to I I I think it's something that has to I I I think it's something that has to be taught to our children. Um be taught to our children. Um be taught to our children. Um because we're we're not naturally because we're we're not naturally because we're we're not naturally grateful, you know, we're naturally grateful, you know, we're naturally grateful, you know, we're naturally pretty selfish and and so gratefulness pretty selfish and and so gratefulness pretty selfish and and so gratefulness I mean we can occasionally be grateful I mean we can occasionally be grateful I mean we can occasionally be grateful just because of something. But to be just because of something. But to be just because of something. But to be intentionally grateful is something that intentionally grateful is something that intentionally grateful is something that kids should learn because I I want to kids should learn because I I want to kids should learn because I I want to tell you something. You you want you tell you something. You you want you tell you something. You you want you want a child to you you show me a want a child to you you show me a want a child to you you show me a grateful child, I'll show you a great grateful child, I'll show you a great grateful child, I'll show you a great husband when

husband when husband when >> he grows up. Show me a great child, I'll >> he grows up. Show me a great child, I'll >> he grows up. Show me a great child, I'll show you a great wife. I'll show you a show you a great wife. I'll show you a show you a great wife. I'll show you a great employer. I'll show you a great great employer. I'll show you a great great employer. I'll show you a great employee. I'll show you a great friend. employee. I'll show you a great friend. employee. I'll show you a great friend. But gratefulness is part of character But gratefulness is part of character But gratefulness is part of character building, building, building, >> right? Absolutely. >> right? Absolutely. >> right? Absolutely. Absolutely. Okay. So, one of the areas was Okay. So, one of the areas was addressing addressing addressing professional and elected officials. professional and elected officials. professional and elected officials. What do you call them? And we talked a What do you call them? And we talked a What do you call them? And we talked a lot about this because I'm lot about this because I'm lot about this because I'm especially younger employees, students, especially younger employees, students, especially younger employees, students, whatever. If they're an elected official whatever. If they're an elected official whatever. If they're an elected official and they're if you're Mayor Andy and they're if you're Mayor Andy and they're if you're Mayor Andy Andrews, they should address you as Andrews, they should address you as Andrews, they should address you as Mayor Andrews. Mayor Andrews. Mayor Andrews. And um I taught my kids that was always And um I taught my kids that was always And um I taught my kids that was always whether they said otherwise while whether they said otherwise while whether they said otherwise while they're in that position, you should they're in that position, you should they're in that position, you should address them like that. address them like that. address them like that. >> Same thing, you know, of course in the >> Same thing, you know, of course in the >> Same thing, you know, of course in the south we all say you got to call him Mr. south we all say you got to call him Mr. south we all say you got to call him Mr. Andy, you know, Andy, you know, Andy, you know, >> or Miss Polly, you've got to that's what >> or Miss Polly, you've got to that's what >> or Miss Polly, you've got to that's what we all did.

we all did. we all did. >> But but you know, >> But but you know, >> But but you know, >> growing up, >> growing up, >> growing up, >> that's an extra thing, >> that's an extra thing, >> that's an extra thing, >> you know. uh Jonathan Young who's a >> you know. uh Jonathan Young who's a >> you know. uh Jonathan Young who's a contributor on Wisdom Harbor. He was the contributor on Wisdom Harbor. He was the contributor on Wisdom Harbor. He was the Survivor guy Survivor guy Survivor guy >> and um and Jonathan he calls me Mr. Andy >> and um and Jonathan he calls me Mr. Andy >> and um and Jonathan he calls me Mr. Andy and and you know when he was on Survivor and and you know when he was on Survivor and and you know when he was on Survivor he called Jeff the host Jeff Crops the he called Jeff the host Jeff Crops the he called Jeff the host Jeff Crops the called him Mr. Jeff called him Mr. Jeff called him Mr. Jeff >> and and so you know and Jonathan's 34 35 >> and and so you know and Jonathan's 34 35 >> and and so you know and Jonathan's 34 35 years old years old years old >> but that is such a sign of respect >> but that is such a sign of respect >> but that is such a sign of respect >> you know it's such a and and you know of >> you know it's such a and and you know of >> you know it's such a and and you know of course the first time he did it I said I course the first time he did it I said I course the first time he did it I said I just call me Andy you know he said okay just call me Andy you know he said okay just call me Andy you know he said okay Mr. Randy, [laughter] Mr. Randy, [laughter] Mr. Randy, [laughter] >> I know. >> I know. >> I know. >> But my boys, you know, they they do >> But my boys, you know, they they do >> But my boys, you know, they they do that, too, right? that, too, right? that, too, right? >> And >> And >> And >> and you know, one of my best friends >> and you know, one of my best friends >> and you know, one of my best friends was for 12 years the mayor of Mobile, was for 12 years the mayor of Mobile, was for 12 years the mayor of Mobile, right? Sandy Stimson. Right. right? Sandy Stimson. Right. right? Sandy Stimson. Right. >> And I've known Sandy for 30 years now.

>> And I've known Sandy for 30 years now. >> And I've known Sandy for 30 years now. >> Right. >> Right. >> Right. >> But for 12 years, I called him mayor. >> But for 12 years, I called him mayor. >> But for 12 years, I called him mayor. >> Right. Exactly. >> Right. Exactly. >> Right. Exactly. >> Mayor. Exactly. >> Mayor. Exactly. >> Mayor. Exactly. >> Mayor. Good to see you. you know, and >> Mayor. Good to see you. you know, and >> Mayor. Good to see you. you know, and and it's it's not just those positions. and it's it's not just those positions. and it's it's not just those positions. Sometimes you have to think about Sometimes you have to think about Sometimes you have to think about how am I going to address this? When uh how am I going to address this? When uh how am I going to address this? When uh Beth Torino texted me Beth Torino texted me Beth Torino texted me >> and I was going to text her back, I >> and I was going to text her back, I >> and I was going to text her back, I mean, she signed it Beth, but I'm like, mean, she signed it Beth, but I'm like, mean, she signed it Beth, but I'm like, I wrote her as coach. Hey, coach. I wrote her as coach. Hey, coach. I wrote her as coach. Hey, coach. >> Right. You know, and I mean I'm I'm I I >> Right. You know, and I mean I'm I'm I I >> Right. You know, and I mean I'm I'm I I don't I never called Nick Sabin Nick, don't I never called Nick Sabin Nick, don't I never called Nick Sabin Nick, even though he said even though he said even though he said >> to call him Nick. >> to call him Nick. >> to call him Nick. >> You called him coach. >> You called him coach. >> You called him coach. >> Call him coach. >> Call him coach. >> Call him coach. >> Right. >> Right. >> Right. >> So, absolutely. I mean, how how can you >> So, absolutely. I mean, how how can you >> So, absolutely. I mean, how how can you figure out figure out figure out a way to show respect just by addressing a way to show respect just by addressing a way to show respect just by addressing somebody? I mean, whether they're a somebody? I mean, whether they're a somebody? I mean, whether they're a mayor or a congress person or whatever, mayor or a congress person or whatever, mayor or a congress person or whatever, right? right? right? >> How can you show respect? Mhm.

>> How can you show respect? Mhm. >> How can you show respect? Mhm. >> Just something to something to consider >> Just something to something to consider >> Just something to something to consider as you're ma as you're as you're ma as you're as you're ma as you're >> going about your daily life, as you're >> going about your daily life, as you're >> going about your daily life, as you're corresponding. corresponding. corresponding. >> Well, and you know, growing up around >> Well, and you know, growing up around >> Well, and you know, growing up around the military, it was really easy for me the military, it was really easy for me the military, it was really easy for me because because because everybody has a rank, everybody has a rank, everybody has a rank, >> right? >> right? >> right? >> And you you call them that. Um, and even >> And you you call them that. Um, and even >> And you you call them that. Um, and even today, some of the people I I can't I today, some of the people I I can't I today, some of the people I I can't I can't call any of the generals I work can't call any of the generals I work can't call any of the generals I work for by their first name. Oh, call me for by their first name. Oh, call me for by their first name. Oh, call me Mike. call me Eric, you know. Uhuh. No, Mike. call me Eric, you know. Uhuh. No, Mike. call me Eric, you know. Uhuh. No, you were always general to me. you were always general to me. you were always general to me. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Um, so that kind of stuff sticks. But >> Um, so that kind of stuff sticks. But >> Um, so that kind of stuff sticks. But but even in front and I've told people but even in front and I've told people but even in front and I've told people that I've that worked for me and worked that I've that worked for me and worked that I've that worked for me and worked for me and with me that when they were for me and with me that when they were for me and with me that when they were introducing somebody, then introduce introducing somebody, then introduce introducing somebody, then introduce them by their full name and then until them by their full name and then until them by their full name and then until somebody really says, "Oh, no, you can somebody really says, "Oh, no, you can somebody really says, "Oh, no, you can call me Andy." Then don't assume, call me Andy." Then don't assume, call me Andy." Then don't assume, especially colleagues, especially colleagues, especially colleagues, >> right? Um now do most colleagues say >> right? Um now do most colleagues say >> right? Um now do most colleagues say yeah you know my name is Monica and yeah you know my name is Monica and yeah you know my name is Monica and right right right >> call me that. Um, yeah. Nine out of 10 >> call me that. Um, yeah. Nine out of 10 >> call me that. Um, yeah. Nine out of 10 wanted you to do that and it's fine, but wanted you to do that and it's fine, but wanted you to do that and it's fine, but don't expect that don't expect that don't expect that especially when you're younger, especially when you're younger, especially when you're younger, >> right? Yeah. Yeah. Especially when >> right? Yeah. Yeah. Especially when >> right? Yeah. Yeah. Especially when you're younger, you're younger, you're younger, >> right? And um >> right? And um >> right? And um because you know because you know because you know and I don't think it's just me but it and I don't think it's just me but it and I don't think it's just me but it but if I if I hear a 12 or 14 year old but if I if I hear a 12 or 14 year old but if I if I hear a 12 or 14 year old kind of addressing

kind of addressing kind of addressing like you know like Bob Woodall's here. like you know like Bob Woodall's here. like you know like Bob Woodall's here. I've known Bob. I've known Bob. I've known Bob. >> I mean Bob and I were baptized together >> I mean Bob and I were baptized together >> I mean Bob and I were baptized together in the fifth or sixth grade. And but if in the fifth or sixth grade. And but if in the fifth or sixth grade. And but if one of my boys had called him Bob one of my boys had called him Bob one of my boys had called him Bob >> Mhm. we'd have had a talk. Yeah. You >> Mhm. we'd have had a talk. Yeah. You >> Mhm. we'd have had a talk. Yeah. You know. know. know. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> And and so I think today both my boys >> And and so I think today both my boys >> And and so I think today both my boys call him Mr. Bob. call him Mr. Bob. call him Mr. Bob. >> And here here's just while we're on this >> And here here's just while we're on this >> And here here's just while we're on this subject, I just happened to think about subject, I just happened to think about subject, I just happened to think about this and this and this and this is more of a communication trick this is more of a communication trick this is more of a communication trick about about about talking to people about introducing talking to people about introducing talking to people about introducing people. people. people. But this I think But this I think But this I think and I don't hear many people do this. and I don't hear many people do this. and I don't hear many people do this. But this is something I figured out But this is something I figured out But this is something I figured out years ago and I have to think every time years ago and I have to think every time years ago and I have to think every time I do it. How does this go? How do I say I do it. How does this go? How do I say I do it. How does this go? How do I say this? I have to think about it every this? I have to think about it every this? I have to think about it every time. But but like if you had never met time. But but like if you had never met time. But but like if you had never met Polly Polly Polly >> and you and I are talking, most people >> and you and I are talking, most people >> and you and I are talking, most people would say, "Oh, hey, you got to meet my would say, "Oh, hey, you got to meet my would say, "Oh, hey, you got to meet my wife." You know, I can't wait for you to wife." You know, I can't wait for you to wife." You know, I can't wait for you to meet Polly.

meet Polly. meet Polly. >> Right. because I'm talking to you. But >> Right. because I'm talking to you. But >> Right. because I'm talking to you. But but instead but instead but instead what I want to say, I got you right here what I want to say, I got you right here what I want to say, I got you right here in front of me. Pauliey's at the house. in front of me. Pauliey's at the house. in front of me. Pauliey's at the house. So I'm wanting to honor you. And so what So I'm wanting to honor you. And so what So I'm wanting to honor you. And so what I want to say to you is I cannot wait I want to say to you is I cannot wait I want to say to you is I cannot wait for Polly to meet you. for Polly to meet you. for Polly to meet you. >> Yes. >> Yes. >> Yes. >> I cannot wait for my boys to meet you. >> I cannot wait for my boys to meet you. >> I cannot wait for my boys to meet you. >> Right? >> Right? >> Right? >> You know, instead of, oh, I can't wait >> You know, instead of, oh, I can't wait >> You know, instead of, oh, I can't wait for you to meet my kids. for you to meet my kids. for you to meet my kids. >> Right. I can't wait for my kids to meet >> Right. I can't wait for my kids to meet >> Right. I can't wait for my kids to meet you you you >> because that's honoring the person >> because that's honoring the person >> because that's honoring the person that's right in front of you. And it's that's right in front of you. And it's that's right in front of you. And it's something something something >> I still have to think about and before >> I still have to think about and before >> I still have to think about and before it comes out of my mouth to make sure I it comes out of my mouth to make sure I it comes out of my mouth to make sure I get it right because it's just such a get it right because it's just such a get it right because it's just such a natural thing to say, I can't wait for natural thing to say, I can't wait for natural thing to say, I can't wait for you to meet you. I can't wait for you to you to meet you. I can't wait for you to you to meet you. I can't wait for you to meet so and so. I can't wait. I can't meet so and so. I can't wait. I can't meet so and so. I can't wait. I can't wait for them to meet you because they wait for them to meet you because they wait for them to meet you because they will get such a kick out of you because will get such a kick out of you because will get such a kick out of you because they will be so honored to meet you. they will be so honored to meet you. they will be so honored to meet you. >> Yeah, absolutely. It's one of those >> Yeah, absolutely. It's one of those >> Yeah, absolutely. It's one of those things. It's one of those things that I things. It's one of those things that I things. It's one of those things that I if you learn it, if you teach young if you learn it, if you teach young if you learn it, if you teach young people how to do this, right, people how to do this, right, people how to do this, right, >> it'll set them apart.

>> it'll set them apart. >> it'll set them apart. >> Well, and that's why when you do >> Well, and that's why when you do >> Well, and that's why when you do introductions, you think about the the introductions, you think about the the introductions, you think about the the position, the highest position, position, the highest position, position, the highest position, um introducing you would call their um introducing you would call their um introducing you would call their name, you know, like um General Woolly, name, you know, like um General Woolly, name, you know, like um General Woolly, I'd like for you to meet Andy Andrews. I'd like for you to meet Andy Andrews. I'd like for you to meet Andy Andrews. And then I'd say a little bit about you. And then I'd say a little bit about you. And then I'd say a little bit about you. So, you know, it's going that way, So, you know, it's going that way, So, you know, it's going that way, right? right? right? >> And then if you don't know, it's usually >> And then if you don't know, it's usually >> And then if you don't know, it's usually go with the the most senior person. You go with the the most senior person. You go with the the most senior person. You call their name, call their name, call their name, >> right? But that's when you got them >> right? But that's when you got them >> right? But that's when you got them together. together. together. >> When you got them together. Yes. >> When you got them together. Yes. >> When you got them together. Yes. >> You know what I you know what I I wish >> You know what I you know what I I wish >> You know what I you know what I I wish nobody would ever do again, but that I nobody would ever do again, but that I nobody would ever do again, but that I get occasionally. get occasionally. get occasionally. >> Hey, this is Andy Andrews. You know who >> Hey, this is Andy Andrews. You know who >> Hey, this is Andy Andrews. You know who he is? he is? he is? >> Oh, no. >> Oh, no. >> Oh, no. >> No. No, >> No. No, >> No. No, >> he written books. You read any of his >> he written books. You read any of his >> he written books. You read any of his books? books? books? >> You just make the introduction. >> You just make the introduction. >> You just make the introduction. >> It's like, oh my god. You know, please >> It's like, oh my god. You know, please >> It's like, oh my god. You know, please leave me alone. leave me alone. leave me alone. >> Yeah. You know, >> Yeah. You know, >> Yeah. You know, >> that's what the person doing >> that's what the person doing >> that's what the person doing introductions is should have said.

introductions is should have said. introductions is should have said. >> Sure. >> Sure. >> Sure. >> You know, he wrote my favorite book, you >> You know, he wrote my favorite book, you >> You know, he wrote my favorite book, you know, and and um know, and and um know, and and um >> instead of, hey, do you know, >> instead of, hey, do you know, >> instead of, hey, do you know, >> do you know who this guy is? >> do you know who this guy is? >> do you know who this guy is? >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> No. >> No. >> No. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. [laughter] [laughter] [laughter] >> Let's just embarrass everybody. >> Let's just embarrass everybody. >> Let's just embarrass everybody. Oh, that's funny. Oh, that's funny. Oh, that's funny. >> You know, they're embarrassed because >> You know, they're embarrassed because >> You know, they're embarrassed because they don't know me. they don't know me. they don't know me. >> Yeah. And then >> Yeah. And then >> Yeah. And then >> I'm embarrassed because they don't know >> I'm embarrassed because they don't know >> I'm embarrassed because they don't know me. [laughter] [gasps] [gasps] >> Okay, we got one more. >> Okay, we got one more. >> Okay, we got one more. >> All right. >> All right. >> All right. >> So, we we talked a lot about everyday >> So, we we talked a lot about everyday >> So, we we talked a lot about everyday courtesies not to forget. courtesies not to forget. courtesies not to forget. And so, one of them I thought was most And so, one of them I thought was most And so, one of them I thought was most important is when you're dining out, important is when you're dining out, important is when you're dining out, keep your phone out of the off the keep your phone out of the off the keep your phone out of the off the table, out of sight. tuck it under your table, out of sight. tuck it under your table, out of sight. tuck it under your leg if you've got to feel it vibrate leg if you've got to feel it vibrate leg if you've got to feel it vibrate because you're, you know, you're because you're, you know, you're because you're, you know, you're >> if you got a babysitter at home. >> if you got a babysitter at home. >> if you got a babysitter at home. >> Yeah. Exactly. But otherwise, you should >> Yeah. Exactly. But otherwise, you should >> Yeah. Exactly. But otherwise, you should off the table. off the table. off the table. >> Off the table, you should never have >> Off the table, you should never have >> Off the table, you should never have anything that's more important than the anything that's more important than the anything that's more important than the people you're having dinner with. people you're having dinner with. people you're having dinner with. >> Right. >> Right. >> Right. >> Um and I just >> Um and I just >> Um and I just >> I that's one of my biggest preaching, if >> I that's one of my biggest preaching, if >> I that's one of my biggest preaching, if you will. Um is when I'm having dinner you will. Um is when I'm having dinner you will. Um is when I'm having dinner with my family. I was so pleased. We had with my family. I was so pleased. We had with my family. I was so pleased. We had dinner last night. Although it was a dinner last night. Although it was a dinner last night. Although it was a quick dinner at Chick-fil-A, but nobody quick dinner at Chick-fil-A, but nobody quick dinner at Chick-fil-A, but nobody had their phones out and it was just had their phones out and it was just had their phones out and it was just lively conversation, you know.

lively conversation, you know. lively conversation, you know. >> See, this is what >> See, this is what >> See, this is what I think this is where Wisdom Harbors I think this is where Wisdom Harbors I think this is where Wisdom Harbors I I think one of Wisdom Harbor's I I think one of Wisdom Harbor's I I think one of Wisdom Harbor's greatest values, greatest values, greatest values, >> right, >> right, >> right, >> is in teaching the art of conversation. >> is in teaching the art of conversation. >> is in teaching the art of conversation. you know, we we released a thing um a you know, we we released a thing um a you know, we we released a thing um a couple of weeks ago that couple of weeks ago that couple of weeks ago that that when I saw it, I mean, I know why that when I saw it, I mean, I know why that when I saw it, I mean, I know why we did it. I know I know uh what we did we did it. I know I know uh what we did we did it. I know I know uh what we did when we did it, when we did it, when we did it, but I'm I'm thinking that we may have but I'm I'm thinking that we may have but I'm I'm thinking that we may have put it out without an explanation of put it out without an explanation of put it out without an explanation of why. Uh it was it was uh Walt Merrill why. Uh it was it was uh Walt Merrill why. Uh it was it was uh Walt Merrill who is a contributor to Wisdom Harbor who is a contributor to Wisdom Harbor who is a contributor to Wisdom Harbor >> who I call the most interesting man in >> who I call the most interesting man in >> who I call the most interesting man in the world because he's a district the world because he's a district the world because he's a district attorney in a small county and he knows attorney in a small county and he knows attorney in a small county and he knows the people he's putting in prison and the people he's putting in prison and the people he's putting in prison and and so it I mean it's hilarious some of and so it I mean it's hilarious some of and so it I mean it's hilarious some of his stories I can imagine. And so, but his stories I can imagine. And so, but his stories I can imagine. And so, but we set up over in the other other studio we set up over in the other other studio we set up over in the other other studio and talked for 30 minutes. And so, we and talked for 30 minutes. And so, we and talked for 30 minutes. And so, we aired that on Wisdom Harbor. And if you aired that on Wisdom Harbor. And if you aired that on Wisdom Harbor. And if you want to watch a great 20 or 30 minute want to watch a great 20 or 30 minute want to watch a great 20 or 30 minute show, show, show, it's entertaining. It's funny. It's it's entertaining. It's funny. It's it's entertaining. It's funny. It's good.

good. good. >> Y, >> Y, >> Y, >> but the reason we did it was not because >> but the reason we did it was not because >> but the reason we did it was not because it was funny or entertaining or good. it was funny or entertaining or good. it was funny or entertaining or good. We want to show conversations, We want to show conversations, We want to show conversations, >> you know, we're not just trying to >> you know, we're not just trying to >> you know, we're not just trying to teach. We're not just trying to um to to teach. We're not just trying to um to to teach. We're not just trying to um to to uh create conversations between adults uh create conversations between adults uh create conversations between adults and young people. and young people. and young people. >> Young people don't know how to have >> Young people don't know how to have >> Young people don't know how to have conversations anymore, conversations anymore, conversations anymore, >> right? >> right? >> right? >> Because because nobody is sitting at the >> Because because nobody is sitting at the >> Because because nobody is sitting at the big table with the adults while they big table with the adults while they big table with the adults while they talk. talk. talk. >> All the kids are in the playroom with >> All the kids are in the playroom with >> All the kids are in the playroom with the movie. the movie. the movie. >> Mh. you know, and or the kids are in the >> Mh. you know, and or the kids are in the >> Mh. you know, and or the kids are in the back seat with headphones and a screen. back seat with headphones and a screen. back seat with headphones and a screen. They're not listening to mom and daddy They're not listening to mom and daddy They're not listening to mom and daddy talk anymore on long trips. And so there talk anymore on long trips. And so there talk anymore on long trips. And so there there are two generations who have grown there are two generations who have grown there are two generations who have grown up without sitting on the porch, without up without sitting on the porch, without up without sitting on the porch, without sitting at the table, without being in sitting at the table, without being in sitting at the table, without being in the backseat of the car. And we got two the backseat of the car. And we got two the backseat of the car. And we got two generations grown up that have not heard generations grown up that have not heard generations grown up that have not heard conversations, conversations, conversations, >> right? And so what and so maybe we >> right? And so what and so maybe we >> right? And so what and so maybe we should have maybe we should have had a should have maybe we should have had a should have maybe we should have had a paragraph on there and that's my fault paragraph on there and that's my fault paragraph on there and that's my fault but maybe we should have had a paragraph but maybe we should have had a paragraph but maybe we should have had a paragraph on there about this is not just a great on there about this is not just a great on there about this is not just a great conversation it's an example of one conversation it's an example of one conversation it's an example of one >> you know watch this not just to hear >> you know watch this not just to hear >> you know watch this not just to hear what's being said watch to hear when what's being said watch to hear when what's being said watch to hear when somebody's saying something watch to

somebody's saying something watch to somebody's saying something watch to hear how somebody questions somebody to hear how somebody questions somebody to hear how somebody questions somebody to set up a story. Watch how somebody set up a story. Watch how somebody set up a story. Watch how somebody listens, listens, listens, you know. Um, and I and I think that's you know. Um, and I and I think that's you know. Um, and I and I think that's part of the beauty of this, you know, we part of the beauty of this, you know, we part of the beauty of this, you know, we call it a protocol conversation. This is call it a protocol conversation. This is call it a protocol conversation. This is not just a list of rules, not just a list of rules, not just a list of rules, >> right? >> right? >> right? >> This is a conversation. >> This is a conversation. >> This is a conversation. >> Exactly. >> Exactly. >> Exactly. >> Always fun. >> Always fun. >> Always fun. >> So, anyway, >> So, anyway, >> So, anyway, >> yeah, it's been a great year. >> yeah, it's been a great year. >> yeah, it's been a great year. >> This has been a great year. >> This has been a great year. >> This has been a great year. >> Yeah. And I, you know, I I can't help >> Yeah. And I, you know, I I can't help >> Yeah. And I, you know, I I can't help but think when we do stuff like this, I but think when we do stuff like this, I but think when we do stuff like this, I can't help but think about the Padet can't help but think about the Padet can't help but think about the Padet family. Um, you know, here's a mom and a family. Um, you know, here's a mom and a family. Um, you know, here's a mom and a dad homeschooling 157 kids or whatever dad homeschooling 157 kids or whatever dad homeschooling 157 kids or whatever it is. And and I and I'm and I'm it is. And and I and I'm and I'm it is. And and I and I'm and I'm thinking about Amy Padet, the mom, thinking about Amy Padet, the mom, thinking about Amy Padet, the mom, >> and I'm thinking about her >> and I'm thinking about her >> and I'm thinking about her >> pointing out things, >> pointing out things, >> pointing out things, >> right, >> right, >> right, >> to the to these kids. And so I I feel >> to the to these kids. And so I I feel >> to the to these kids. And so I I feel like I mean the pageant family that's like I mean the pageant family that's like I mean the pageant family that's kind of my in my mind it's kind of our kind of my in my mind it's kind of our kind of my in my mind it's kind of our gold medal wisdom harbor family cuz I I gold medal wisdom harbor family cuz I I gold medal wisdom harbor family cuz I I think they're figuring out a way to make think they're figuring out a way to make think they're figuring out a way to make the best use of this.

the best use of this. the best use of this. >> So >> So >> So >> yeah, absolutely. >> yeah, absolutely. >> yeah, absolutely. >> Anyway, thank you so much. >> Anyway, thank you so much. >> Anyway, thank you so much. >> My pleasure. >> My pleasure. >> My pleasure. >> As always, thank you for being here. You >> As always, thank you for being here. You >> As always, thank you for being here. You drive all the way over from Fort Walton drive all the way over from Fort Walton drive all the way over from Fort Walton and and we appreciate you, Monica. more and and we appreciate you, Monica. more and and we appreciate you, Monica. more than he would ever know. Do you hear the than he would ever know. Do you hear the than he would ever know. Do you hear the gratefulness coming [laughter] out? gratefulness coming [laughter] out? gratefulness coming [laughter] out? >> Thank you, Andy. >> Thank you, Andy. >> Thank you, Andy. >> I mean, I'm just telling you, we we are >> I mean, I'm just telling you, we we are >> I mean, I'm just telling you, we we are grateful for your presence on this grateful for your presence on this grateful for your presence on this streaming service. You are a huge part streaming service. You are a huge part streaming service. You are a huge part of this. of this. of this. >> I love it. >> I love it. >> I love it. >> And and we appreciate it. >> And and we appreciate it. >> And and we appreciate it. >> Thank you. >> Thank you. >> Thank you. >> So, thank you. And thank you guys for >> So, thank you. And thank you guys for >> So, thank you. And thank you guys for being with us. And that's it for another being with us. And that's it for another being with us. And that's it for another protocol conversation. We appreciate protocol conversation. We appreciate protocol conversation. We appreciate Monica being here. We appreciate you Monica being here. We appreciate you Monica being here. We appreciate you being here. And um just keep noticing being here. And um just keep noticing being here. And um just keep noticing different things. We'll see you next different things. We'll see you next different things. We'll see you next time. time. time. >> And that's the end of the protocol >> And that's the end of the protocol >> And that's the end of the protocol conversation. Now we're back to the blue conversation. Now we're back to the blue conversation. Now we're back to the blue play. play. play. >> Oh >> Oh >> Oh >> yeah, it was it was kind of crazy. I >> yeah, it was it was kind of crazy. I >> yeah, it was it was kind of crazy. I thought I I sent you that note and said, thought I I sent you that note and said, thought I I sent you that note and said, "Let's do do the year." And then trying "Let's do do the year." And then trying "Let's do do the year." And then trying to pick out, to pick out, to pick out, you know, the things in the year. So you know, the things in the year. So you know, the things in the year. So >> George Cer, very good information.

>> George Cer, very good information. >> George Cer, very good information. George Ker is gonna be at the concert. George Ker is gonna be at the concert. George Ker is gonna be at the concert. >> Oh, >> Oh, >> Oh, >> George, I am scared to death about how >> George, I am scared to death about how >> George, I am scared to death about how I'm scared it's gonna be 150 degrees and I'm scared it's gonna be 150 degrees and I'm scared it's gonna be 150 degrees and raining and we're gonna be sitting in raining and we're gonna be sitting in raining and we're gonna be sitting in boiling water trying to watch Toto boiling water trying to watch Toto boiling water trying to watch Toto do do their Africa song and it's going do do their Africa song and it's going do do their Africa song and it's going to be hot as Africa. I'm That's what I'm to be hot as Africa. I'm That's what I'm to be hot as Africa. I'm That's what I'm afraid of. afraid of. afraid of. >> Oh my god. >> Oh my god. >> Oh my god. >> Michelle Morgan, love the recap. Dana >> Michelle Morgan, love the recap. Dana >> Michelle Morgan, love the recap. Dana Kapatrick, thanks for the recap. You Kapatrick, thanks for the recap. You Kapatrick, thanks for the recap. You know, there's another story I just want know, there's another story I just want know, there's another story I just want to tell Monica and y'all while we're to tell Monica and y'all while we're to tell Monica and y'all while we're still here. I don't know if I've ever still here. I don't know if I've ever still here. I don't know if I've ever told you this, but I have um told you this, but I have um told you this, but I have um I I love stories, right? I I love stories, right? I I love stories, right? >> I just I just love stories. Yeah. >> I just I just love stories. Yeah. >> I just I just love stories. Yeah. >> So, I have um gold medal stories. Now, >> So, I have um gold medal stories. Now, >> So, I have um gold medal stories. Now, what did what did Amy Padet say? As a what did what did Amy Padet say? As a what did what did Amy Padet say? As a mom and a homeschool teacher, I can't mom and a homeschool teacher, I can't mom and a homeschool teacher, I can't thank y'all enough for these thank y'all enough for these thank y'all enough for these conversations. Thank you. conversations. Thank you. conversations. Thank you. >> Oh, good. Thank you. >> Oh, good. Thank you. >> Oh, good. Thank you. >> That's awesome. >> That's awesome. >> That's awesome. >> So I I collect stories. I mean I I will >> So I I collect stories. I mean I I will >> So I I collect stories. I mean I I will even collect other people's stories. You even collect other people's stories. You even collect other people's stories. You tell me a story and I'll tell I will say tell me a story and I'll tell I will say tell me a story and I'll tell I will say I got another you know another story. I I got another you know another story. I I got another you know another story. I and I'll tell my friends or whatever.

and I'll tell my friends or whatever. and I'll tell my friends or whatever. But but I have like gold medal stories, But but I have like gold medal stories, But but I have like gold medal stories, silver medal stories and bronze medal silver medal stories and bronze medal silver medal stories and bronze medal stories and sometimes just you know stories and sometimes just you know stories and sometimes just you know stories. stories. stories. >> Yeah. So, but I've got a story >> Yeah. So, but I've got a story >> Yeah. So, but I've got a story from both boys that I don't think I've from both boys that I don't think I've from both boys that I don't think I've told you before. One of them just told you before. One of them just told you before. One of them just happened the other night. We were down happened the other night. We were down happened the other night. We were down at Cobalt and Adam, you know, Adam is at Cobalt and Adam, you know, Adam is at Cobalt and Adam, you know, Adam is our younger, he's the fisherman. Uh Adam our younger, he's the fisherman. Uh Adam our younger, he's the fisherman. Uh Adam is the one who he wasn't really good in is the one who he wasn't really good in is the one who he wasn't really good in school and and yet school and and yet school and and yet >> he totally makes up for it with his >> he totally makes up for it with his >> he totally makes up for it with his personality. Yeah. I mean, personality. Yeah. I mean, personality. Yeah. I mean, >> everybody loves Adam, you know? I mean, >> everybody loves Adam, you know? I mean, >> everybody loves Adam, you know? I mean, it's just pretty crazy. But Adam works it's just pretty crazy. But Adam works it's just pretty crazy. But Adam works on a boat and works with people all day. on a boat and works with people all day. on a boat and works with people all day. And he told me not too long ago, he And he told me not too long ago, he And he told me not too long ago, he said, "You know, said, "You know, said, "You know, I really love messing with people." And I really love messing with people." And I really love messing with people." And I said, "What do you mean?" [laughter] I said, "What do you mean?" [laughter] I said, "What do you mean?" [laughter] He said, He said, He said, "I love getting them going about "I love getting them going about "I love getting them going about something, you know." And he said, something, you know." And he said, something, you know." And he said, "Might be true, might not be true." He "Might be true, might not be true." He "Might be true, might not be true." He said, "I always tell them if it's not said, "I always tell them if it's not said, "I always tell them if it's not true." He said, "But I love get them true." He said, "But I love get them true." He said, "But I love get them going, get, you know, get different going, get, you know, get different going, get, you know, get different looks on their faces, get get them looks on their faces, get get them looks on their faces, get get them questioning certain things." Yeah. And questioning certain things." Yeah. And questioning certain things." Yeah. And so I'm like, "Okay."

so I'm like, "Okay." so I'm like, "Okay." >> I said, "Show me what you mean >> I said, "Show me what you mean >> I said, "Show me what you mean sometime." You know, I I kind of know sometime." You know, I I kind of know sometime." You know, I I kind of know what you mean because I kind of do that, what you mean because I kind of do that, what you mean because I kind of do that, too, you know. Um, so the other night too, you know. Um, so the other night too, you know. Um, so the other night Austin was playing at Cobalt and so it's Austin was playing at Cobalt and so it's Austin was playing at Cobalt and so it's an outdoor place and and you know kids an outdoor place and and you know kids an outdoor place and and you know kids will dance out there in front of Austin. will dance out there in front of Austin. will dance out there in front of Austin. It's always hilarious. And It's always hilarious. And It's always hilarious. And >> so we're sitting around outside and and >> so we're sitting around outside and and >> so we're sitting around outside and and um sometimes adults will dance and there um sometimes adults will dance and there um sometimes adults will dance and there was some was some was some >> like a 40 40 year old woman that was a >> like a 40 40 year old woman that was a >> like a 40 40 year old woman that was a little bit looped, you know, and so she little bit looped, you know, and so she little bit looped, you know, and so she grabbed Adam and Adam danced with her a grabbed Adam and Adam danced with her a grabbed Adam and Adam danced with her a little bit, you know, and so then she's little bit, you know, and so then she's little bit, you know, and so then she's standing over here. She she's standing standing over here. She she's standing standing over here. She she's standing to the right of me and Adam is standing to the right of me and Adam is standing to the right of me and Adam is standing to the left of me and Austin's right up to the left of me and Austin's right up to the left of me and Austin's right up here. And Austin starts singing, "On the here. And Austin starts singing, "On the here. And Austin starts singing, "On the road again." road again." road again." >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> You know what I'm talking about? On the >> You know what I'm talking about? On the >> You know what I'm talking about? On the road again. Can't wait to get on the road again. Can't wait to get on the road again. Can't wait to get on the road again. road again. road again. >> Adam leans around me and says to this >> Adam leans around me and says to this >> Adam leans around me and says to this lady, lady, lady, >> he wrote this song.

>> he wrote this song. >> he wrote this song. >> Oh no. And I'm going I'm just kind of >> Oh no. And I'm going I'm just kind of >> Oh no. And I'm going I'm just kind of like [gasps] like [gasps] like [gasps] and I I look at her and she goes, "I don't know that he wrote this song." "I don't know that he wrote this song." And Adam says, "Well, he wrote a new And Adam says, "Well, he wrote a new And Adam says, "Well, he wrote a new verse to it. Listen, it's coming up." verse to it. Listen, it's coming up." verse to it. Listen, it's coming up." [laughter] [laughter] [laughter] So she listens and he and Austin does a So she listens and he and Austin does a So she listens and he and Austin does a part like a band of Gypsies. We go down part like a band of Gypsies. We go down part like a band of Gypsies. We go down the highway. And she goes, "Oh yeah, the highway. And she goes, "Oh yeah, the highway. And she goes, "Oh yeah, yeah. Gypsies wasn't in the original and yeah. Gypsies wasn't in the original and yeah. Gypsies wasn't in the original and so wow he and so I looked over at him so wow he and so I looked over at him so wow he and so I looked over at him and I was just smiling [laughter] and I and I was just smiling [laughter] and I and I was just smiling [laughter] and I said you win. said you win. said you win. >> I mean I I was like >> I mean I I was like >> I mean I I was like >> how how do you get somebody to believe >> how how do you get somebody to believe >> how how do you get somebody to believe that? that? that? >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> You know that's hilarious. >> You know that's hilarious. >> You know that's hilarious. >> Okay. So then the other one >> Okay. So then the other one >> Okay. So then the other one >> is Austin. >> is Austin. >> is Austin. >> This is a gold medal story. >> This is a gold medal story. >> This is a gold medal story. >> This one is I mean so you know Austin's >> This one is I mean so you know Austin's >> This one is I mean so you know Austin's 26 now. This happened. This happened 26 now. This happened. This happened 26 now. This happened. This happened when he was like 24. I think he was when he was like 24. I think he was when he was like 24. I think he was still living in Memphis. He's in still living in Memphis. He's in still living in Memphis. He's in Nashville now, but he was still living Nashville now, but he was still living Nashville now, but he was still living in Memphis.

in Memphis. in Memphis. >> And And so he had gone out with this >> And And so he had gone out with this >> And And so he had gone out with this girl one time. She had just moved from girl one time. She had just moved from girl one time. She had just moved from Michigan. Uh Michigan. Uh Michigan. Uh >> oh. >> oh. >> oh. >> All right. And so he he went out with >> All right. And so he he went out with >> All right. And so he he went out with her one time. He said, "Wasn't really her one time. He said, "Wasn't really her one time. He said, "Wasn't really sure about her, you know." He said, "But sure about her, you know." He said, "But sure about her, you know." He said, "But she was great looking." Yeah. and and he she was great looking." Yeah. and and he she was great looking." Yeah. and and he said, "So, we get invited to this like said, "So, we get invited to this like said, "So, we get invited to this like kind of get together at somebody's house kind of get together at somebody's house kind of get together at somebody's house and there's like six or seven couples and there's like six or seven couples and there's like six or seven couples and so Austin and this girl and so Austin and this girl and so Austin and this girl >> are a couple there." He said, "Second >> are a couple there." He said, "Second >> are a couple there." He said, "Second time I've gone out with her." time I've gone out with her." time I've gone out with her." >> Bob, you're going to love this story. >> Bob, you're going to love this story. >> Bob, you're going to love this story. [laughter] [laughter] [laughter] And and so he said when we got there and And and so he said when we got there and And and so he said when we got there and said hello to everybody, you know, said hello to everybody, you know, said hello to everybody, you know, somebody's going over to start the somebody's going over to start the somebody's going over to start the grill, somebody's starting something, grill, somebody's starting something, grill, somebody's starting something, they hand me the remote and said, "You they hand me the remote and said, "You they hand me the remote and said, "You guys go find something on the TV. Find guys go find something on the TV. Find guys go find something on the TV. Find something to be just be playing in the something to be just be playing in the something to be just be playing in the background." So Austin and this background." So Austin and this background." So Austin and this greatlooking girl sit down on the couch greatlooking girl sit down on the couch greatlooking girl sit down on the couch together and Austin's flipping through together and Austin's flipping through together and Austin's flipping through the channels and the channels and the channels and he go he said I go by National he go he said I go by National he go he said I go by National Geographic or Nature Channel or Geographic or Nature Channel or Geographic or Nature Channel or something and there's these um these something and there's these um these something and there's these um these killer whales on there and the killer killer whales on there and the killer killer whales on there and the killer whales are going through the water and whales are going through the water and whales are going through the water and this girl says, "Oh, I just love them. I this girl says, "Oh, I just love them. I this girl says, "Oh, I just love them. I just love them." And Austin said, 'Yeah, just love them." And Austin said, 'Yeah, just love them." And Austin said, 'Yeah, they're really cool. She said, 'You they're really cool. She said, 'You they're really cool. She said, 'You know, they're smarter than dolphins.'

know, they're smarter than dolphins.' know, they're smarter than dolphins.' And Austin says, 'Really? I didn't know And Austin says, 'Really? I didn't know And Austin says, 'Really? I didn't know that.' And she goes, "Oh, yeah, yeah, that.' And she goes, "Oh, yeah, yeah, that.' And she goes, "Oh, yeah, yeah, they're smarter than dolphins." She they're smarter than dolphins." She they're smarter than dolphins." She said, "I just can't believe people eat said, "I just can't believe people eat said, "I just can't believe people eat them." them." them." >> Yep. >> Yep. >> Yep. >> And he said, "What?" She said, "Yeah, >> And he said, "What?" She said, "Yeah, >> And he said, "What?" She said, "Yeah, people eat them." people eat them." people eat them." And so Austin's thinking like the Inuit, And so Austin's thinking like the Inuit, And so Austin's thinking like the Inuit, the the Eskimos eating them or Yeah. and the the Eskimos eating them or Yeah. and the the Eskimos eating them or Yeah. and and he said, "Where where do they eat and he said, "Where where do they eat and he said, "Where where do they eat them?" And she said, "Well, I wouldn't them?" And she said, "Well, I wouldn't them?" And she said, "Well, I wouldn't even know anything about it if I had to even know anything about it if I had to even know anything about it if I had to move down here." move down here." move down here." And he said, "What now?" She said, "They And he said, "What now?" She said, "They And he said, "What now?" She said, "They got them at Cracker Barrel." got them at Cracker Barrel." got them at Cracker Barrel." Fried Orca. Fried Orca. Fried Orca. And they have it at Cracker Barrel. And they have it at Cracker Barrel. And they have it at Cracker Barrel. Fried Orca. And Austin says, Fried Orca. And Austin says, Fried Orca. And Austin says, "Okra, fried okra." She says, "Right." And he said, And he said, >> "No, it's okra." She said, "I know. I >> "No, it's okra." She said, "I know. I >> "No, it's okra." She said, "I know. I know. And they're selling them in little know. And they're selling them in little know. And they're selling them in little bitty bites." bitty bites." bitty bites." And and Austin said, "It took me five And and Austin said, "It took me five And and Austin said, "It took me five minutes to explain to this girl that minutes to explain to this girl that minutes to explain to this girl that okra was a vegetable." And and he said, okra was a vegetable." And and he said, okra was a vegetable." And and he said, "But during the five minutes of trying "But during the five minutes of trying "But during the five minutes of trying to explain this, I realized I was never to explain this, I realized I was never to explain this, I realized I was never going out with this girl again."

going out with this girl again." going out with this girl again." [laughter] [laughter] [laughter] Fried orca. I mean, they're selling Fried orca. I mean, they're selling Fried orca. I mean, they're selling they're selling killer whales at Cracker they're selling killer whales at Cracker they're selling killer whales at Cracker Barrel. Barrel. Barrel. [laughter] [laughter] [laughter] Oh my goodness. Oh my goodness. Oh my goodness. >> Anyway, well, >> Anyway, well, >> Anyway, well, >> oh yeah, that's awesome. That's a great >> oh yeah, that's awesome. That's a great >> oh yeah, that's awesome. That's a great >> Thank you again for [laughter] being >> Thank you again for [laughter] being >> Thank you again for [laughter] being here. here. here. >> It's my pleasure. >> It's my pleasure. >> It's my pleasure. >> And we will do we will do it all again >> And we will do we will do it all again >> And we will do we will do it all again soon, everybody. Thank you for hanging soon, everybody. Thank you for hanging soon, everybody. Thank you for hanging with us and um and spreading the word with us and um and spreading the word with us and um and spreading the word about Wisdom Harbor. We appreciate it. about Wisdom Harbor. We appreciate it. about Wisdom Harbor. We appreciate it. We love you guys and we'll see you next We love you guys and we'll see you next We love you guys and we'll see you next time.