The Christ-Like Way To Respond To Her Past. (Real Romance)

So being intimate with someone as a So being intimate with someone as a Christian especially is something Christian especially is something Christian especially is something incredibly sacred I think for anyone. incredibly sacred I think for anyone. incredibly sacred I think for anyone. And in this clip we have an exon fan And in this clip we have an exon fan And in this clip we have an exon fan star speaking with her boyfriend about star speaking with her boyfriend about star speaking with her boyfriend about how they navigate that post her past. how they navigate that post her past. how they navigate that post her past. Now this is something that I think most Now this is something that I think most Now this is something that I think most men's idea of hell. I mean I don't want men's idea of hell. I mean I don't want men's idea of hell. I mean I don't want to be too dramatic, right? But it's fair to be too dramatic, right? But it's fair to be too dramatic, right? But it's fair to say that not many men want their to say that not many men want their to say that not many men want their partner to be an ex only fan star in the partner to be an ex only fan star in the partner to be an ex only fan star in the industry to say the absolute least. industry to say the absolute least. industry to say the absolute least. Right. But let's let's actually watch Right. But let's let's actually watch Right. But let's let's actually watch this clip because I actually found this this clip because I actually found this this clip because I actually found this clip incredibly moving and I really hope clip incredibly moving and I really hope clip incredibly moving and I really hope it has the same impact on you. it has the same impact on you. it has the same impact on you. >> How did you and Jordan go about >> How did you and Jordan go about >> How did you and Jordan go about navigating intimacy preferences given my navigating intimacy preferences given my navigating intimacy preferences given my history? >> Okay. Well, >> Okay. Well, >> it was definitely I would say it was >> it was definitely I would say it was >> it was definitely I would say it was definitely hard, you know, like it was definitely hard, you know, like it was definitely hard, you know, like it was definitely hard. There were there were definitely hard. There were there were definitely hard. There were there were moments where like moments where like moments where like >> images I've seen would like come back >> images I've seen would like come back >> images I've seen would like come back and like when times we were like and like when times we were like and like when times we were like intimate like it would like flood my intimate like it would like flood my intimate like it would like flood my brain and I like literally couldn't brain and I like literally couldn't brain and I like literally couldn't focus.

focus. focus. >> So I mean what an incredible man, right? >> So I mean what an incredible man, right? >> So I mean what an incredible man, right? Cuz the way they met was so she was on Cuz the way they met was so she was on Cuz the way they met was so she was on Only Fans. They start talking while Only Fans. They start talking while Only Fans. They start talking while she's still an Only Fans star. He kind she's still an Only Fans star. He kind she's still an Only Fans star. He kind of they talk they call he falls in love of they talk they call he falls in love of they talk they call he falls in love with her. And bearing in mind I think with her. And bearing in mind I think with her. And bearing in mind I think for most men they would deeply struggle for most men they would deeply struggle for most men they would deeply struggle with this because the notion that the with this because the notion that the with this because the notion that the person you love is out there on the person you love is out there on the person you love is out there on the internet naked for millions of people to internet naked for millions of people to internet naked for millions of people to see consume that will never ever go. The see consume that will never ever go. The see consume that will never ever go. The the sacredness of someone's body has the sacredness of someone's body has the sacredness of someone's body has been seen by the world. That is been seen by the world. That is been seen by the world. That is something something something I think so difficult and I know to I think so difficult and I know to I think so difficult and I know to myself that I would struggle so much myself that I would struggle so much myself that I would struggle so much dealing with that and I I'll be dealing with that and I I'll be dealing with that and I I'll be completely honest I don't know if I completely honest I don't know if I completely honest I don't know if I could actually overcome that because I could actually overcome that because I could actually overcome that because I think that would haunt me. Now, I don't think that would haunt me. Now, I don't think that would haunt me. Now, I don't want to say I couldn't because I think want to say I couldn't because I think want to say I couldn't because I think love transcends all rationale. And I love transcends all rationale. And I love transcends all rationale. And I think what I can't stand, right, is I think what I can't stand, right, is I think what I can't stand, right, is I see a lot of these kind of red pill men see a lot of these kind of red pill men see a lot of these kind of red pill men and I I even looked at the comments to and I I even looked at the comments to and I I even looked at the comments to this clip and they're like, "Oh, what a this clip and they're like, "Oh, what a this clip and they're like, "Oh, what a cuck, what a s or like what a beta cuck, what a s or like what a beta cuck, what a s or like what a beta male." All this nonsense. And this male." All this nonsense. And this male." All this nonsense. And this really goes to the heart, I think, of really goes to the heart, I think, of really goes to the heart, I think, of people's heart posture with tradition.

people's heart posture with tradition. people's heart posture with tradition. Cuz real tradition, real love is do is Cuz real tradition, real love is do is Cuz real tradition, real love is do is sacrifice. It's, you know, going doing sacrifice. It's, you know, going doing sacrifice. It's, you know, going doing things you don't want to do for love. things you don't want to do for love. things you don't want to do for love. You know, this man clearly loves this You know, this man clearly loves this You know, this man clearly loves this woman and he went through the mental woman and he went through the mental woman and he went through the mental hell of having to deal with something hell of having to deal with something hell of having to deal with something that obviously is really horrific to that obviously is really horrific to that obviously is really horrific to deal with having your partner have a deal with having your partner have a deal with having your partner have a past visible line and also even just past visible line and also even just past visible line and also even just seeing images of her making I wouldn't seeing images of her making I wouldn't seeing images of her making I wouldn't even say making love. I say just having even say making love. I say just having even say making love. I say just having sex cuz you you know you could argue it sex cuz you you know you could argue it sex cuz you you know you could argue it wasn't love you know that you know being wasn't love you know that you know being wasn't love you know that you know being making porn is not love it's the making porn is not love it's the making porn is not love it's the furthest thing from love you know I furthest thing from love you know I furthest thing from love you know I think I I think in many ways I would think I I think in many ways I would think I I think in many ways I would even li it's from the depths of hell but even li it's from the depths of hell but even li it's from the depths of hell but and I also want to make a point out and I also want to make a point out and I also want to make a point out right imagine how difficult this is for right imagine how difficult this is for right imagine how difficult this is for her a woman who clearly loves him she her a woman who clearly loves him she her a woman who clearly loves him she has to deal with constant attacks from has to deal with constant attacks from has to deal with constant attacks from prudish Christians basically saying Oh, prudish Christians basically saying Oh, prudish Christians basically saying Oh, she's too far gone. You know, she's she's too far gone. You know, she's she's too far gone. You know, she's she's from the streets where, you know, she's from the streets where, you know, she's from the streets where, you know, horrible comments like this. And I I horrible comments like this. And I I horrible comments like this. And I I think she's a very interesting case think she's a very interesting case think she's a very interesting case because she says things like the the because she says things like the the because she says things like the the most hate she gets is not from um you most hate she gets is not from um you most hate she gets is not from um you know, atheists or just random people.

know, atheists or just random people. know, atheists or just random people. It's actually Christians. And I I think It's actually Christians. And I I think It's actually Christians. And I I think we must always remember as Christians, we must always remember as Christians, we must always remember as Christians, everything we do must be done in love. everything we do must be done in love. everything we do must be done in love. You know, really does need to be the You know, really does need to be the You know, really does need to be the case. And I I'm sick I'm sick and tired case. And I I'm sick I'm sick and tired case. And I I'm sick I'm sick and tired online especially of just a bunch of men online especially of just a bunch of men online especially of just a bunch of men who are clearly insecure about who are clearly insecure about who are clearly insecure about themselves, about maybe their bodies, themselves, about maybe their bodies, themselves, about maybe their bodies, maybe their financial status, maybe maybe their financial status, maybe maybe their financial status, maybe their height, and they basically put their height, and they basically put their height, and they basically put these insecurities to women. You know, I these insecurities to women. You know, I these insecurities to women. You know, I I think there is an ideal, right, about I think there is an ideal, right, about I think there is an ideal, right, about love, about what we should share with love, about what we should share with love, about what we should share with each other, maybe before marriage, maybe each other, maybe before marriage, maybe each other, maybe before marriage, maybe after marriage. But things happen. after marriage. But things happen. after marriage. But things happen. People make mistakes. You know, people People make mistakes. You know, people People make mistakes. You know, people do things they they wish they didn't do. do things they they wish they didn't do. do things they they wish they didn't do. You know, people watch porn. To my You know, people watch porn. To my You know, people watch porn. To my shame, I've watched porn, you know. Um, shame, I've watched porn, you know. Um, shame, I've watched porn, you know. Um, and it's not good. You know, it's not and it's not good. You know, it's not and it's not good. You know, it's not good. And I'm I'm not one to cheer and good. And I'm I'm not one to cheer and good. And I'm I'm not one to cheer and kind of relish the fact and kind of, you kind of relish the fact and kind of, you kind of relish the fact and kind of, you know, the cheap grace as Bonhoffer know, the cheap grace as Bonhoffer know, the cheap grace as Bonhoffer speaks about because it's it's wrong speaks about because it's it's wrong speaks about because it's it's wrong what we do. It really is. And um I have what we do. It really is. And um I have what we do. It really is. And um I have a lot of shame around a lot of shame around a lot of shame around um you know, watching porn and stuff and um you know, watching porn and stuff and um you know, watching porn and stuff and I shouldn't have. I really shouldn't I shouldn't have. I really shouldn't I shouldn't have. I really shouldn't have. And it's contributed. It's a have. And it's contributed. It's a have. And it's contributed. It's a dreadful industry. I the list could go dreadful industry. I the list could go dreadful industry. I the list could go on, right? But if someone um you know on, right? But if someone um you know on, right? But if someone um you know doesn't feel loved, maybe grew up doesn't feel loved, maybe grew up doesn't feel loved, maybe grew up without a dad, maybe had an abusive without a dad, maybe had an abusive without a dad, maybe had an abusive partner and they go into the industry, partner and they go into the industry, partner and they go into the industry, like we should show nothing but love to like we should show nothing but love to like we should show nothing but love to that person. And I I think that it's so that person. And I I think that it's so that person. And I I think that it's so easy to sit on your high horse and be easy to sit on your high horse and be easy to sit on your high horse and be like, "No, they're this, they're that."

like, "No, they're this, they're that." like, "No, they're this, they're that." Um but anyway, I'm going on a complete Um but anyway, I'm going on a complete Um but anyway, I'm going on a complete rant, but let's let's see what else this rant, but let's let's see what else this rant, but let's let's see what else this guy says, cuz this, ladies and guy says, cuz this, ladies and guy says, cuz this, ladies and gentlemen, this is real love. This this gentlemen, this is real love. This this gentlemen, this is real love. This this is real love. You know, this bloke is is real love. You know, this bloke is is real love. You know, this bloke is has to deal with this, right? Which most has to deal with this, right? Which most has to deal with this, right? Which most men would would not tolerate, right? men would would not tolerate, right? men would would not tolerate, right? Would not even entertain that they could Would not even entertain that they could Would not even entertain that they could get past this. But this man clearly get past this. But this man clearly get past this. But this man clearly loves loves her so much. He's willing to loves loves her so much. He's willing to loves loves her so much. He's willing to will the good of the other. He's willing will the good of the other. He's willing will the good of the other. He's willing to deal with the must been such a to deal with the must been such a to deal with the must been such a difficult time going through this about difficult time going through this about difficult time going through this about navigating your partner post only hands. navigating your partner post only hands. navigating your partner post only hands. Anyway, we'll see whatever what what Anyway, we'll see whatever what what Anyway, we'll see whatever what what wisdom he imparts cuz this is a man who wisdom he imparts cuz this is a man who wisdom he imparts cuz this is a man who really um he's preaching what he really um he's preaching what he really um he's preaching what he believes and mass massive this is a believes and mass massive this is a believes and mass massive this is a proper man ladies and gentlemen. This proper man ladies and gentlemen. This proper man ladies and gentlemen. This this bloke I don't know who he is. He's this bloke I don't know who he is. He's this bloke I don't know who he is. He's some American man but I I would love to some American man but I I would love to some American man but I I would love to meet him cuz he seems like a quality meet him cuz he seems like a quality meet him cuz he seems like a quality guy. He really does. guy. He really does. guy. He really does. >> Really couldn't focus like >> Really couldn't focus like >> Really couldn't focus like >> my I could not shut my mind off. I could >> my I could not shut my mind off. I could >> my I could not shut my mind off. I could not shut off like the things that I've not shut off like the things that I've not shut off like the things that I've seen. Um, but like once like God got me seen. Um, but like once like God got me seen. Um, but like once like God got me through that, it was a lot easier. Um, through that, it was a lot easier. Um, through that, it was a lot easier. Um, not that I don't like sometimes randomly not that I don't like sometimes randomly not that I don't like sometimes randomly to be honest like think about that stuff to be honest like think about that stuff to be honest like think about that stuff anymore. And it's not necessarily just a anymore. And it's not necessarily just a anymore. And it's not necessarily just a comparison, but it's like if you think comparison, but it's like if you think comparison, but it's like if you think about your significant other and you see about your significant other and you see about your significant other and you see that, you know what I mean? It's just that, you know what I mean? It's just that, you know what I mean? It's just like dang like it just punch it's a like dang like it just punch it's a like dang like it just punch it's a punch in the gut. Like punch in the gut. Like punch in the gut. Like >> the amount of shame she must have. I >> the amount of shame she must have. I >> the amount of shame she must have. I really feel and may God bless her and be really feel and may God bless her and be really feel and may God bless her and be with her through her shame, through her with her through her shame, through her with her through her shame, through her guilt, through her self-hatred because guilt, through her self-hatred because guilt, through her self-hatred because she it's online and she can never go

she it's online and she can never go she it's online and she can never go back. And no matter how much she back. And no matter how much she back. And no matter how much she repents, no matter how kind of close to repents, no matter how kind of close to repents, no matter how kind of close to God she feels, there will always be God she feels, there will always be God she feels, there will always be people on the internet who do and she people on the internet who do and she people on the internet who do and she says this, constantly remind her, says this, constantly remind her, says this, constantly remind her, constantly say that. Um, and she has to constantly say that. Um, and she has to constantly say that. Um, and she has to live with that. that is a massive weight live with that. that is a massive weight live with that. that is a massive weight and burden to have to deal with. So and burden to have to deal with. So and burden to have to deal with. So really God bless her. Um and it seems really God bless her. Um and it seems really God bless her. Um and it seems like she's doing a lot of good now kind like she's doing a lot of good now kind like she's doing a lot of good now kind of speaking about the ills of only fans of speaking about the ills of only fans of speaking about the ills of only fans and everything around that. Um, and and everything around that. Um, and and everything around that. Um, and yeah, I I just thought this was really yeah, I I just thought this was really yeah, I I just thought this was really powerful because I think with a lot of powerful because I think with a lot of powerful because I think with a lot of this red pill sphere kind of Andrew Tate this red pill sphere kind of Andrew Tate this red pill sphere kind of Andrew Tate stuff, you have a lot of people who stuff, you have a lot of people who stuff, you have a lot of people who speak about tradition or like um, you speak about tradition or like um, you speak about tradition or like um, you know, traditional relationships and know, traditional relationships and know, traditional relationships and traditional traditional this and that. traditional traditional this and that. traditional traditional this and that. And the truth is, you know, I would And the truth is, you know, I would And the truth is, you know, I would argue actually what he's shown here is argue actually what he's shown here is argue actually what he's shown here is real tradition in the sense that he is real tradition in the sense that he is real tradition in the sense that he is the most traditional romance in a way in the most traditional romance in a way in the most traditional romance in a way in the sense that he's willing and I'm not the sense that he's willing and I'm not the sense that he's willing and I'm not saying it's an ideal scenario having an saying it's an ideal scenario having an saying it's an ideal scenario having an an ex only fans person, but he really an ex only fans person, but he really an ex only fans person, but he really does love her and he's willing to does love her and he's willing to does love her and he's willing to sacrifice. He's willing to go through sacrifice. He's willing to go through sacrifice. He's willing to go through hell and back probably in his mind. Now, hell and back probably in his mind. Now, hell and back probably in his mind. Now, I don't know if I'm being too hyperbolic I don't know if I'm being too hyperbolic I don't know if I'm being too hyperbolic here about what he's experiencing, but I here about what he's experiencing, but I here about what he's experiencing, but I think most men, right, have experienced think most men, right, have experienced think most men, right, have experienced being jealous, right? Let's say there's being jealous, right? Let's say there's being jealous, right? Let's say there's a girl they like, then they see a man a girl they like, then they see a man a girl they like, then they see a man maybe flirting with her or whatever. I maybe flirting with her or whatever. I maybe flirting with her or whatever. I think men are a bit primal. they want to think men are a bit primal. they want to think men are a bit primal. they want to you know I don't know let's say um you you know I don't know let's say um you you know I don't know let's say um you know there is an anger kind of I think know there is an anger kind of I think know there is an anger kind of I think and a primal

and a primal and a primal thing about what it is when a man loves thing about what it is when a man loves thing about what it is when a man loves or claims I don't know claims a bit bit or claims I don't know claims a bit bit or claims I don't know claims a bit bit much I think but like you know loves an much I think but like you know loves an much I think but like you know loves an uh woman and I think that when a man uh woman and I think that when a man uh woman and I think that when a man knows that a woman has been kind of with knows that a woman has been kind of with knows that a woman has been kind of with someone else it hurts it really does and someone else it hurts it really does and someone else it hurts it really does and he's obviously experienced that but now he's obviously experienced that but now he's obviously experienced that but now they have a kind of fruitful real they have a kind of fruitful real they have a kind of fruitful real relationship and I think we can learn a relationship and I think we can learn a relationship and I think we can learn a lot from this because so it's so easy lot from this because so it's so easy lot from this because so it's so easy for men I think and myself I get jealous for men I think and myself I get jealous for men I think and myself I get jealous for sure and it's so easy to kind of go for sure and it's so easy to kind of go for sure and it's so easy to kind of go into that pit of almost resentment or into that pit of almost resentment or into that pit of almost resentment or however you want to call it but this is however you want to call it but this is however you want to call it but this is a man who is living in love and I think a man who is living in love and I think a man who is living in love and I think we can learn so much from what he's we can learn so much from what he's we can learn so much from what he's saying here like about navigating love saying here like about navigating love saying here like about navigating love about navigating past in the 21st about navigating past in the 21st about navigating past in the 21st century because it's difficult, you century because it's difficult, you century because it's difficult, you know, like most people do have sex know, like most people do have sex know, like most people do have sex before marriage. Most people do um watch before marriage. Most people do um watch before marriage. Most people do um watch porn. Most people do masturbate. Most porn. Most people do masturbate. Most porn. Most people do masturbate. Most people like you you're navigating a people like you you're navigating a people like you you're navigating a world which is so warped of love and world which is so warped of love and world which is so warped of love and what is wholesome, what is good, what is what is wholesome, what is good, what is what is wholesome, what is good, what is lovely as Paul speaks about. So it's lovely as Paul speaks about. So it's lovely as Paul speaks about. So it's like it's difficult navigating it, but like it's difficult navigating it, but like it's difficult navigating it, but there is a way through and that way there is a way through and that way there is a way through and that way through is God and love and he nails it, through is God and love and he nails it, through is God and love and he nails it, you know. And um I yeah I massive hats you know. And um I yeah I massive hats you know. And um I yeah I massive hats off to him. It's a completely random off to him. It's a completely random off to him. It's a completely random video while I'm making it. I just wanted video while I'm making it. I just wanted video while I'm making it. I just wanted to make this video cuz I think there's to make this video cuz I think there's to make this video cuz I think there's so much nonsense out there about so much nonsense out there about so much nonsense out there about people's history, people's past. There's

people's history, people's past. There's people's history, people's past. There's so much shame. There's so much so much shame. There's so much so much shame. There's so much prudishness in the Christian sphere. And prudishness in the Christian sphere. And prudishness in the Christian sphere. And this is a guy who really really does this is a guy who really really does this is a guy who really really does believe the gospel. He really does believe the gospel. He really does believe the gospel. He really does believe the message. He really does believe the message. He really does believe the message. He really does believe in what it means to love and believe in what it means to love and believe in what it means to love and what it means to will the good of the what it means to will the good of the what it means to will the good of the other. And my hats off to him. And I other. And my hats off to him. And I other. And my hats off to him. And I found this really moving myself. So, I found this really moving myself. So, I found this really moving myself. So, I hope you did too. Um, and whatever hope you did too. Um, and whatever hope you did too. Um, and whatever you're going through, let's say you are you're going through, let's say you are you're going through, let's say you are someone who if you got in a someone who if you got in a someone who if you got in a relationship, you would be it would hurt relationship, you would be it would hurt relationship, you would be it would hurt you if your partner had a big past. And, you if your partner had a big past. And, you if your partner had a big past. And, you know, I think that's a kind of you know, I think that's a kind of you know, I think that's a kind of normal reaction. There's nothing wrong normal reaction. There's nothing wrong normal reaction. There's nothing wrong with that. And you shouldn't kind of with that. And you shouldn't kind of with that. And you shouldn't kind of suppress it or hide it cuz that is a suppress it or hide it cuz that is a suppress it or hide it cuz that is a kind of normal, I think, biological kind of normal, I think, biological kind of normal, I think, biological reaction to have. You know, it's I think reaction to have. You know, it's I think reaction to have. You know, it's I think it's almost like a primal reaction. You it's almost like a primal reaction. You it's almost like a primal reaction. You know when you love someone when you when know when you love someone when you when know when you love someone when you when you find someone special the notion that you find someone special the notion that you find someone special the notion that someone else has kind of had what you someone else has kind of had what you someone else has kind of had what you had in a way it hurts you know but that had in a way it hurts you know but that had in a way it hurts you know but that does not mean that you go to the place does not mean that you go to the place does not mean that you go to the place the dark side of resentment or anger or the dark side of resentment or anger or the dark side of resentment or anger or insecurity or you know you you're insecurity or you know you you're insecurity or you know you you're vulnerable you express your struggles vulnerable you express your struggles vulnerable you express your struggles with that and that and you you know you with that and that and you you know you with that and that and you you know you you work through it and the only way you work through it and the only way you work through it and the only way through is love. You know, if you want through is love. You know, if you want through is love. You know, if you want love, if you want the fruits of love, love, if you want the fruits of love, love, if you want the fruits of love, you have to go in with love, you know, you have to go in with love, you know, you have to go in with love, you know, and that's just the transforming and that's just the transforming and that's just the transforming beautiful thing of what it is to be in beautiful thing of what it is to be in beautiful thing of what it is to be in love. And what a what an example and love. And what a what an example and love. And what a what an example and what a man. What a brilliant guy, you what a man. What a brilliant guy, you what a man. What a brilliant guy, you know, top top bloke. Um, but yeah, I know, top top bloke. Um, but yeah, I know, top top bloke. Um, but yeah, I hope you did enjoy. Like, subscribe.

hope you did enjoy. Like, subscribe. hope you did enjoy. Like, subscribe. Very random video. Hope you enjoy it. I Very random video. Hope you enjoy it. I Very random video. Hope you enjoy it. I know it's completely weird what I'm know it's completely weird what I'm know it's completely weird what I'm saying here. I don't know if it makes saying here. I don't know if it makes saying here. I don't know if it makes any sense whatsoever, but I I wanted to any sense whatsoever, but I I wanted to any sense whatsoever, but I I wanted to talk about it. I hope it has an impact talk about it. I hope it has an impact talk about it. I hope it has an impact even if one person sees this. Um, yeah. even if one person sees this. Um, yeah. even if one person sees this. Um, yeah. Love you all. Peace.