The One Lie Modern Culture Keeps Telling You

How can we go back to being friends when How can we go back to being friends when we just shared we just shared we just shared >> How can we go back to being friends when >> How can we go back to being friends when >> How can we go back to being friends when we just shared a bed? So guys, ladies we just shared a bed? So guys, ladies we just shared a bed? So guys, ladies and gentlemen, we are seeing a radical and gentlemen, we are seeing a radical and gentlemen, we are seeing a radical shift in culture because I think the shift in culture because I think the shift in culture because I think the notion that someone with this specific notion that someone with this specific notion that someone with this specific message in this way would blow up I message in this way would blow up I message in this way would blow up I think a while ago would not be too think a while ago would not be too think a while ago would not be too realistic. If you look at the likes of realistic. If you look at the likes of realistic. If you look at the likes of Sabrina Carpenter, you look at Olivia Sabrina Carpenter, you look at Olivia Sabrina Carpenter, you look at Olivia Rodrigo, you look at uh Cardi B, who Rodrigo, you look at uh Cardi B, who Rodrigo, you look at uh Cardi B, who Megan Estallion, whoever, whoever you Megan Estallion, whoever, whoever you Megan Estallion, whoever, whoever you want to call it. I'm I'm no um genius want to call it. I'm I'm no um genius want to call it. I'm I'm no um genius when it comes to mainstream music. But when it comes to mainstream music. But when it comes to mainstream music. But you're seeing a serious shift in culture you're seeing a serious shift in culture you're seeing a serious shift in culture because what this artist is singing because what this artist is singing because what this artist is singing about somber, I hope I'm saying that about somber, I hope I'm saying that about somber, I hope I'm saying that right, is the sacredness of intimacy and right, is the sacredness of intimacy and right, is the sacredness of intimacy and sex. and he's being like, "How can we sex. and he's being like, "How can we sex. and he's being like, "How can we just go go from being, you know, having just go go from being, you know, having just go go from being, you know, having the most intimate moment possible to the most intimate moment possible to the most intimate moment possible to just being friends, which is what our just being friends, which is what our just being friends, which is what our culture screams at relentlessly." Um, culture screams at relentlessly." Um, culture screams at relentlessly." Um, and that's not to say that anyone who and that's not to say that anyone who and that's not to say that anyone who has obviously been intimate with people, has obviously been intimate with people, has obviously been intimate with people, um, you know, like many of us have, um, you know, like many of us have, um, you know, like many of us have, there should be any shame or anything there should be any shame or anything there should be any shame or anything like that. I'm not saying that remotely.

like that. I'm not saying that remotely. like that. I'm not saying that remotely. And this is a massive issue in And this is a massive issue in And this is a massive issue in Christianity with a absolutely repulsive Christianity with a absolutely repulsive Christianity with a absolutely repulsive prudishness to those that do. And I prudishness to those that do. And I prudishness to those that do. And I completely disavow that and I cannot completely disavow that and I cannot completely disavow that and I cannot stand when Christians do that. Um, stand when Christians do that. Um, stand when Christians do that. Um, but what he's saying here is basically but what he's saying here is basically but what he's saying here is basically like the intimacy and the heart like the intimacy and the heart like the intimacy and the heart attachment of being intimate with attachment of being intimate with attachment of being intimate with someone like how can we go from that to someone like how can we go from that to someone like how can we go from that to just being friends like nothing just being friends like nothing just being friends like nothing happened. Now obviously singers have happened. Now obviously singers have happened. Now obviously singers have sang about stuff like this for a very sang about stuff like this for a very sang about stuff like this for a very long time. But I haven't seen a singer long time. But I haven't seen a singer long time. But I haven't seen a singer blow up and be so focused on this point. blow up and be so focused on this point. blow up and be so focused on this point. And if you look at the music he's he's And if you look at the music he's he's And if you look at the music he's he's making, it's very counterculture and making, it's very counterculture and making, it's very counterculture and traditional, but it's kind of under the traditional, but it's kind of under the traditional, but it's kind of under the guise of a more pop mainstream view of guise of a more pop mainstream view of guise of a more pop mainstream view of things. And like they are completely things. And like they are completely things. And like they are completely blowing up Sombra. I hope I'm saying blowing up Sombra. I hope I'm saying blowing up Sombra. I hope I'm saying that right. And there's a there's that right. And there's a there's that right. And there's a there's another video they did um well a song. another video they did um well a song. another video they did um well a song. It's called Undressed. And again, it it It's called Undressed. And again, it it It's called Undressed. And again, it it really shows a massive shift in the really shows a massive shift in the really shows a massive shift in the culture because I would not have thought culture because I would not have thought culture because I would not have thought a few years ago as a young person a few years ago as a young person a few years ago as a young person myself, 22-year-old bloke, that a artist myself, 22-year-old bloke, that a artist myself, 22-year-old bloke, that a artist would blow up simply rebelling against would blow up simply rebelling against would blow up simply rebelling against the sexual culture that we live in. Now, the sexual culture that we live in. Now, the sexual culture that we live in. Now, you could say Ed Sheeran and certain you could say Ed Sheeran and certain you could say Ed Sheeran and certain people have spoken before, but this is people have spoken before, but this is people have spoken before, but this is far more blatant. This is far more a far more blatant. This is far more a far more blatant. This is far more a wrecking ball in the spanner. And I wrecking ball in the spanner. And I wrecking ball in the spanner. And I think it is it shows a cultural moment think it is it shows a cultural moment think it is it shows a cultural moment of a shift of this liberal order of of a shift of this liberal order of of a shift of this liberal order of things about you know sex doesn't mean things about you know sex doesn't mean things about you know sex doesn't mean anything that um you know making love to anything that um you know making love to anything that um you know making love to someone doesn't mean anything there's

someone doesn't mean anything there's someone doesn't mean anything there's nothing wrong with just sleeping around nothing wrong with just sleeping around nothing wrong with just sleeping around like you know just be friends with like you know just be friends with like you know just be friends with benefits or just like you know these benefits or just like you know these benefits or just like you know these things don't really have an impact you things don't really have an impact you things don't really have an impact you know it's all it's all just suppression know it's all it's all just suppression know it's all it's all just suppression it's all you know you know be free it's all you know you know be free it's all you know you know be free discover yourself self- loveve what discover yourself self- loveve what discover yourself self- loveve what however people dress But um you're however people dress But um you're however people dress But um you're seeing young people feeling lonely, seeing young people feeling lonely, seeing young people feeling lonely, feeling terrible about themselves, which feeling terrible about themselves, which feeling terrible about themselves, which is completely understandable. And is completely understandable. And is completely understandable. And obviously this this is a multifaceted obviously this this is a multifaceted obviously this this is a multifaceted thing, you know, economic structure. thing, you know, economic structure. thing, you know, economic structure. People go and buy houses, people aren't People go and buy houses, people aren't People go and buy houses, people aren't having kids, people aren't getting having kids, people aren't getting having kids, people aren't getting married. And also to add like, you know, married. And also to add like, you know, married. And also to add like, you know, I'm I'm 22. I don't have a girlfriend. I'm I'm 22. I don't have a girlfriend. I'm I'm 22. I don't have a girlfriend. I'm not married. So I'm I'm I'm no one I'm not married. So I'm I'm I'm no one I'm not married. So I'm I'm I'm no one to hit sit on my high horse over here. to hit sit on my high horse over here. to hit sit on my high horse over here. But it's fair to say that the the lies But it's fair to say that the the lies But it's fair to say that the the lies the penicious devious lies that people the penicious devious lies that people the penicious devious lies that people got told were basically got told were basically got told were basically you you know your sexuality is your you you know your sexuality is your you you know your sexuality is your whole identity all these lies that young whole identity all these lies that young whole identity all these lies that young people have told for so long people are people have told for so long people are people have told for so long people are starting to wake up to it you know it's starting to wake up to it you know it's starting to wake up to it you know it's as as Clive Staples Lewis as always do as as Clive Staples Lewis as always do as as Clive Staples Lewis as always do bring him in the man the legend Mr.

bring him in the man the legend Mr. bring him in the man the legend Mr. Lewis, the the amazing Christian Lewis, the the amazing Christian Lewis, the the amazing Christian himself, one of my much adored people. himself, one of my much adored people. himself, one of my much adored people. Um maybe a bit too much in fact, you Um maybe a bit too much in fact, you Um maybe a bit too much in fact, you know, he speaks about how, you know, know, he speaks about how, you know, know, he speaks about how, you know, there's nothing wrong with liking food, there's nothing wrong with liking food, there's nothing wrong with liking food, right? You know, you can like food, you right? You know, you can like food, you right? You know, you can like food, you can enjoy food. There's nothing wrong can enjoy food. There's nothing wrong can enjoy food. There's nothing wrong with that, right? And he compares it to with that, right? And he compares it to with that, right? And he compares it to sex really. And he says, "But if you sex really. And he says, "But if you sex really. And he says, "But if you went to a society and a culture where went to a society and a culture where went to a society and a culture where where you have a bunch of people sat where you have a bunch of people sat where you have a bunch of people sat watching a strict tease of a bit of watching a strict tease of a bit of watching a strict tease of a bit of food, licking their lips and rubbing food, licking their lips and rubbing food, licking their lips and rubbing their tummies, you think something has their tummies, you think something has their tummies, you think something has gone awfully wrong." And I think this gone awfully wrong." And I think this gone awfully wrong." And I think this epitomizes epitomizes epitomizes the culture we live in now because we the culture we live in now because we the culture we live in now because we have such a have such a have such a admiration and adore adoringness, is admiration and adore adoringness, is admiration and adore adoringness, is that even a word? I don't even know. Of that even a word? I don't even know. Of that even a word? I don't even know. Of sex, whatever it is. And that's not to sex, whatever it is. And that's not to sex, whatever it is. And that's not to say as well I'm not a sinner to this. I say as well I'm not a sinner to this. I say as well I'm not a sinner to this. I lust. I f over people that you know this lust. I f over people that you know this lust. I f over people that you know this I'm not I'm not speaking from my highest I'm not I'm not speaking from my highest I'm not I'm not speaking from my highest soul. I'm massive culprit to this and soul. I'm massive culprit to this and soul. I'm massive culprit to this and I'm not going to ever say I'm not cuz I I'm not going to ever say I'm not cuz I I'm not going to ever say I'm not cuz I completely am. Um to my own shame. I'm a completely am. Um to my own shame. I'm a completely am. Um to my own shame. I'm a bit ashamed about it. Um but you know th bit ashamed about it. Um but you know th bit ashamed about it. Um but you know th this this culture everything is dressed this this culture everything is dressed this this culture everything is dressed up in sex and just nakedness. You know, up in sex and just nakedness. You know, up in sex and just nakedness. You know, you buy a [ __ ] toothbrush. The you buy a [ __ ] toothbrush. The you buy a [ __ ] toothbrush. The woman's half naked. You You know, you woman's half naked. You You know, you woman's half naked. You You know, you you you go and buy some tea. The adverts you you go and buy some tea. The adverts you you go and buy some tea. The adverts got some person that's half naked, both got some person that's half naked, both got some person that's half naked, both men and women. And it's and people men and women. And it's and people men and women. And it's and people wonder why they hate themselves. When we wonder why they hate themselves. When we wonder why they hate themselves. When we have naked bodies everywhere. You go on

have naked bodies everywhere. You go on have naked bodies everywhere. You go on the tube, you see everything is the tube, you see everything is the tube, you see everything is sexualized. People's worth is just sexualized. People's worth is just sexualized. People's worth is just embedded in this um way someone looks. embedded in this um way someone looks. embedded in this um way someone looks. And what a sad society where that's how And what a sad society where that's how And what a sad society where that's how we value people, especially women as we value people, especially women as we value people, especially women as well. you know, for so long, you know, well. you know, for so long, you know, well. you know, for so long, you know, the way a woman, and this will make me the way a woman, and this will make me the way a woman, and this will make me sound like a bit of a soy boy, but the sound like a bit of a soy boy, but the sound like a bit of a soy boy, but the way a woman is valued is so much how she way a woman is valued is so much how she way a woman is valued is so much how she looks. You know, that's why there's this looks. You know, that's why there's this looks. You know, that's why there's this massive fear of getting older for a massive fear of getting older for a massive fear of getting older for a woman, I think, and that, you know, woman, I think, and that, you know, woman, I think, and that, you know, they'll run off and find a younger they'll run off and find a younger they'll run off and find a younger woman. And and it's it's so sad we live woman. And and it's it's so sad we live woman. And and it's it's so sad we live in that culture where so much of in that culture where so much of in that culture where so much of someone's worth is how they look. And, someone's worth is how they look. And, someone's worth is how they look. And, you know, obviously social media's you know, obviously social media's you know, obviously social media's heightened this and stuff. And it's it's heightened this and stuff. And it's it's heightened this and stuff. And it's it's very sad. And it's something that I very sad. And it's something that I very sad. And it's something that I definitely affects me to be honest. Like definitely affects me to be honest. Like definitely affects me to be honest. Like um you know I focus on my image too much um you know I focus on my image too much um you know I focus on my image too much and how I look when I go outside like and how I look when I go outside like and how I look when I go outside like and it it it's just such a waste of time and it it it's just such a waste of time and it it it's just such a waste of time and absolutely nonsense and it's not and absolutely nonsense and it's not and absolutely nonsense and it's not from a place of love. It's not from a from a place of love. It's not from a from a place of love. It's not from a good place. Um but here we have good place. Um but here we have good place. Um but here we have Undressed by Sombra which I think is a Undressed by Sombra which I think is a Undressed by Sombra which I think is a is a great interest. The music video as is a great interest. The music video as is a great interest. The music video as well speaks volumes. So give this a well speaks volumes. So give this a well speaks volumes. So give this a watch. I don't want to get undressed for watch. I don't want to get undressed for watch. I don't want to get undressed for a new person all over again.

a new person all over again. a new person all over again. >> I don't want to get undressed for a new >> I don't want to get undressed for a new >> I don't want to get undressed for a new person all over again. And look at this person all over again. And look at this person all over again. And look at this frame. You have people obviously, you frame. You have people obviously, you frame. You have people obviously, you know, everyone. You got some men there know, everyone. You got some men there know, everyone. You got some men there shirtless. You got some women wearing shirtless. You got some women wearing shirtless. You got some women wearing bikinis or um not to obviously like bikinis or um not to obviously like bikinis or um not to obviously like shame people there, but like it it and shame people there, but like it it and shame people there, but like it it and he's obviously dressed out. He's wearing he's obviously dressed out. He's wearing he's obviously dressed out. He's wearing trousers. He's wearing his blazer. kind trousers. He's wearing his blazer. kind trousers. He's wearing his blazer. kind of a more traditional look and they're of a more traditional look and they're of a more traditional look and they're all running after him. And I think what all running after him. And I think what all running after him. And I think what the symbolism of this is the culture is the symbolism of this is the culture is the symbolism of this is the culture is screaming at you to act one way, but I screaming at you to act one way, but I screaming at you to act one way, but I don't want to act that way. I don't want don't want to act that way. I don't want don't want to act that way. I don't want to be part of that. I reject it. And to be part of that. I reject it. And to be part of that. I reject it. And that's why you have all these people that's why you have all these people that's why you have all these people running at him and he's there carrying running at him and he's there carrying running at him and he's there carrying on and running. Wow. It's actually a I on and running. Wow. It's actually a I on and running. Wow. It's actually a I don't know who did the cinematography don't know who did the cinematography don't know who did the cinematography for this, but what a brilliant frame. for this, but what a brilliant frame. for this, but what a brilliant frame. And what are the actual the so the so And what are the actual the so the so And what are the actual the so the so the lyrics I think um are really really the lyrics I think um are really really the lyrics I think um are really really something. Here we go. I don't want to something. Here we go. I don't want to something. Here we go. I don't want to get undressed for a new person all over get undressed for a new person all over get undressed for a new person all over again. I don't want to kiss someone's again. I don't want to kiss someone's again. I don't want to kiss someone's else's neck and have to pretend it's else's neck and have to pretend it's else's neck and have to pretend it's yours instead. I don't want to lean yours instead. I don't want to lean yours instead. I don't want to lean another scent. I don't want to learn another scent. I don't want to learn another scent. I don't want to learn another scent. I don't want the children another scent. I don't want the children another scent. I don't want the children of another man to have the eyes of the of another man to have the eyes of the of another man to have the eyes of the girl I won't forget. I don't want to girl I won't forget. I don't want to girl I won't forget. I don't want to undress for a new person over. I don't undress for a new person over. I don't undress for a new person over. I don't want to kiss someone's neck to pretend want to kiss someone's neck to pretend want to kiss someone's neck to pretend it's yours instead. I don't want to it's yours instead. I don't want to it's yours instead. I don't want to guess for a new person all over again.

guess for a new person all over again. guess for a new person all over again. Wow, what a what a brilliant message. Wow, what a what a brilliant message. Wow, what a what a brilliant message. really just speaking about the heartache really just speaking about the heartache really just speaking about the heartache of when you share that sacred beautiful of when you share that sacred beautiful of when you share that sacred beautiful moment and moment and moment and you know and when that's ripped apart you know and when that's ripped apart you know and when that's ripped apart the devastation that has is just the devastation that has is just the devastation that has is just unbelievable and unbelievable and unbelievable and it's so true and I think we and massive it's so true and I think we and massive it's so true and I think we and massive respect to someone for actually making respect to someone for actually making respect to someone for actually making this type of music. Now, let's actually this type of music. Now, let's actually this type of music. Now, let's actually see what else in the music video. >> I love that as well, how he's jumping >> I love that as well, how he's jumping like he's happy, like he's got away. And like he's happy, like he's got away. And like he's happy, like he's got away. And in this shot, maybe I'm looking into in this shot, maybe I'm looking into in this shot, maybe I'm looking into this too much, ladies and gentlemen. this too much, ladies and gentlemen. this too much, ladies and gentlemen. Maybe he didn't mean to do this at all. Maybe he didn't mean to do this at all. Maybe he didn't mean to do this at all. In this shot, you see none of the crowd. In this shot, you see none of the crowd. In this shot, you see none of the crowd. So you see when he's running the crowd So you see when he's running the crowd So you see when he's running the crowd behind him, he's sad. When he's out, behind him, he's sad. When he's out, behind him, he's sad. When he's out, he's jumping for joy. So it's basically he's jumping for joy. So it's basically he's jumping for joy. So it's basically like, you know, when he's really like, you know, when he's really like, you know, when he's really himself, you know, quote unquote himself, you know, quote unquote himself, you know, quote unquote himself, quote unquote loving yourself himself, quote unquote loving yourself himself, quote unquote loving yourself and all this stuff. He's happy, but he's and all this stuff. He's happy, but he's and all this stuff. He's happy, but he's not loving himself. He's not himself in not loving himself. He's not himself in not loving himself. He's not himself in that sense. what society screams of you that sense. what society screams of you that sense. what society screams of you that your sexuality wearing nothing is a that your sexuality wearing nothing is a that your sexuality wearing nothing is a part of everything and your whole part of everything and your whole part of everything and your whole identity and all that liberal thinking identity and all that liberal thinking identity and all that liberal thinking sex doesn't mean anything or or sex does sex doesn't mean anything or or sex does sex doesn't mean anything or or sex does mean something but you know it can be a mean something but you know it can be a mean something but you know it can be a bit of fun it doesn't really matter um bit of fun it doesn't really matter um bit of fun it doesn't really matter um and when he's actually away from that and when he's actually away from that and when he's actually away from that all he's happy so it's it's an

all he's happy so it's it's an all he's happy so it's it's an interesting shot that actually maybe I interesting shot that actually maybe I interesting shot that actually maybe I am just reading way too much into this am just reading way too much into this am just reading way too much into this and none of this is what it means at all and none of this is what it means at all and none of this is what it means at all who knows >> I took the >> I took the to see my mother. I look across the to see my mother. I look across the to see my mother. I look across the tracks to see you with another. tracks to see you with another. tracks to see you with another. There's nothing worse than seeing your There's nothing worse than seeing your There's nothing worse than seeing your lover moving on while you are still lover moving on while you are still lover moving on while you are still suffer. I'm looking at you and you're suffer. I'm looking at you and you're suffer. I'm looking at you and you're looking at me, but the glimmer in your looking at me, but the glimmer in your looking at me, but the glimmer in your eyes is saying you want to feel saying eyes is saying you want to feel saying eyes is saying you want to feel saying what you're saying to me. But the what you're saying to me. But the what you're saying to me. But the glimmer in your eyes is telling me all glimmer in your eyes is telling me all glimmer in your eyes is telling me all the things. the things. the things. I don't want to get dressed for a new I don't want to get dressed for a new I don't want to get dressed for a new person all over. person all over. person all over. >> So that's an interesting shot. So he it >> So that's an interesting shot. So he it >> So that's an interesting shot. So he it then shows her and him now running off then shows her and him now running off then shows her and him now running off together and culture coming through them together and culture coming through them together and culture coming through them screaming them and what an interesting screaming them and what an interesting screaming them and what an interesting kind of shot and thing to kind of think kind of shot and thing to kind of think kind of shot and thing to kind of think about. And I maybe Yeah, but I also what about. And I maybe Yeah, but I also what about. And I maybe Yeah, but I also what a song as well. But anyway, we may as a song as well. But anyway, we may as a song as well. But anyway, we may as well listen to it.

well listen to it. well listen to it. >> I don't want to kiss someone else's >> I don't want to kiss someone else's >> I don't want to kiss someone else's neck. You have to pretend it's yours neck. You have to pretend it's yours neck. You have to pretend it's yours instead. instead. instead. And I don't want to learn another. I And I don't want to learn another. I And I don't want to learn another. I don't want the children of another man don't want the children of another man don't want the children of another man to have the eyes of to have the eyes of to have the eyes of >> I also love that. So now they're going >> I also love that. So now they're going >> I also love that. So now they're going up the car park and they're showing up the car park and they're showing up the car park and they're showing themselves. themselves. themselves. um going up a hill. So, it's like so um going up a hill. So, it's like so um going up a hill. So, it's like so difficult to get away from this and all difficult to get away from this and all difficult to get away from this and all the temptations and porn and everything. the temptations and porn and everything. the temptations and porn and everything. And I think this really shows and also And I think this really shows and also And I think this really shows and also how she's dressed as well. I think it how she's dressed as well. I think it how she's dressed as well. I think it shows that she her like innocence. I shows that she her like innocence. I shows that she her like innocence. I mean, cuz that kind of does look a bit mean, cuz that kind of does look a bit mean, cuz that kind of does look a bit like a I don't know, some sort of like a I don't know, some sort of like a I don't know, some sort of uniform or something. So maybe it shows uniform or something. So maybe it shows uniform or something. So maybe it shows kind of her innocence and they're both kind of her innocence and they're both kind of her innocence and they're both running running running to keep this kind of innocence about, to keep this kind of innocence about, to keep this kind of innocence about, you know, what it means to love and have you know, what it means to love and have you know, what it means to love and have sex and all this. But again, maybe I'm sex and all this. But again, maybe I'm sex and all this. But again, maybe I'm looking too much into I don't want to get out for a new person I don't want to get out for a new person all over again.

all over again. all over again. I don't want to kiss. >> Anyway, there we go, ladies and >> Anyway, there we go, ladies and gentlemen. Is there a cultural shift gentlemen. Is there a cultural shift gentlemen. Is there a cultural shift happening? I do think there is. And the happening? I do think there is. And the happening? I do think there is. And the fact that this man somber is popping off fact that this man somber is popping off fact that this man somber is popping off shows that there is a serious shift in shows that there is a serious shift in shows that there is a serious shift in the culture. the lies, the pericious the culture. the lies, the pericious the culture. the lies, the pericious myths young people have been sold and I myths young people have been sold and I myths young people have been sold and I think people are waking up to that. But think people are waking up to that. But think people are waking up to that. But I hope you did enjoy. Like, subscribe, I hope you did enjoy. Like, subscribe, I hope you did enjoy. Like, subscribe, check out my Substack below, email, just check out my Substack below, email, just check out my Substack below, email, just get on the email list. It's completely get on the email list. It's completely get on the email list. It's completely free. Um, it means so much and make a free. Um, it means so much and make a free. Um, it means so much and make a big difference. But yeah, love you all. big difference. But yeah, love you all. big difference. But yeah, love you all. Um, and I'll do some more videos because Um, and I'll do some more videos because Um, and I'll do some more videos because there's a lot of interesting stuff there's a lot of interesting stuff there's a lot of interesting stuff around this cultural stuff and I would I around this cultural stuff and I would I around this cultural stuff and I would I think it's important to talk about think it's important to talk about think it's important to talk about because it is what we live in now. It's because it is what we live in now. It's because it is what we live in now. It's the world we live in. Um, but yeah, love the world we live in. Um, but yeah, love the world we live in. Um, but yeah, love you all. Take it easy. Peace.