Alex Hormozi’s Warning: Stop Chasing AI, Build This Instead!

I do a $ 106 million launch. My mom got I do a $ 106 million launch. My mom got to see it, which is really cool. She to see it, which is really cool. She to see it, which is really cool. She dies four weeks later. dies four weeks later. dies four weeks later. It was just like, how am I supposed to It was just like, how am I supposed to It was just like, how am I supposed to show up right now? So, I write these show up right now? So, I write these show up right now? So, I write these tweets as notes [music] to self. tweets as notes [music] to self. tweets as notes [music] to self. >> I'd never heard you talk like that >> I'd never heard you talk like that >> I'd never heard you talk like that publicly before. publicly before. publicly before. >> Yeah. I'm like, what do I need to hear >> Yeah. I'm like, what do I need to hear >> Yeah. I'm like, what do I need to hear right now? And I was like, I I'll write right now? And I was like, I I'll write right now? And I was like, I I'll write that, which is like I just have to keep that, which is like I just have to keep that, which is like I just have to keep fighting. And [music] people will judge fighting. And [music] people will judge fighting. And [music] people will judge how much you love someone by how much how much you love someone by how much how much you love someone by how much you choose to suffer. I don't think the you choose to suffer. I don't think the you choose to suffer. I don't think the person that you lost probably wants you person that you lost probably wants you person that you lost probably wants you to suffer. One of the lessons that I've to suffer. One of the lessons that I've to suffer. One of the lessons that I've learned from an entrepreneurship learned from an entrepreneurship learned from an entrepreneurship perspective translated into life is we perspective translated into life is we perspective translated into life is we [music] will get these moments of [music] will get these moments of [music] will get these moments of dissatisfaction or discomfort and be dissatisfaction or discomfort and be dissatisfaction or discomfort and be like I'm life sucks. I need to change like I'm life sucks. I need to change like I'm life sucks. I need to change something. But my emotional discomfort something. But my emotional discomfort something. But my emotional discomfort is not an adequate reason to change what is not an adequate reason to change what is not an adequate reason to change what I'm doing. And so there's all these I'm doing. And so there's all these I'm doing. And so there's all these other skills that are still required to other skills that are still required to other skills that are still required to be successful in business. But if I can be successful in business. But if I can be successful in business. But if I can compress 14 years of business advice, compress 14 years of business advice, compress 14 years of business advice, the first thing I would say is you have the first thing I would say is you have the first thing I would say is you have to decide whether you care more about to decide whether you care more about to decide whether you care more about your future than what other people think your future than what other people think your future than what other people think about your future. Like someone's about your future. Like someone's about your future. Like someone's version of you has to die because version of you has to die because version of you has to die because everything in the very beginning of everything in the very beginning of everything in the very beginning of entrepreneurship comes down to one thing entrepreneurship comes down to one thing entrepreneurship comes down to one thing which is fear. And it makes sense to be which is fear. And it makes sense to be which is fear. And it makes sense to be afraid and it's because we want afraid and it's because we want afraid and it's because we want certainty, but the only way to know is certainty, but the only way to know is certainty, but the only way to know is to start. The second thing I've learned to start. The second thing I've learned to start. The second thing I've learned is that the fastest way to build a $10 is that the fastest way to build a $10 is that the fastest way to build a $10 million business is not the fastest way million business is not the fastest way million business is not the fastest way to build a $und00 million business to build a $und00 million business to build a $und00 million business because focus and [music] patience are because focus and [music] patience are because focus and [music] patience are the two enduring competitive advantages the two enduring competitive advantages the two enduring competitive advantages because they're so antihuman. And so because they're so antihuman. And so because they're so antihuman. And so this is where entrepreneurs will this is where entrepreneurs will this is where entrepreneurs will skyrocket. And I'll unpack that concept.

skyrocket. And I'll unpack that concept. skyrocket. And I'll unpack that concept. So how are you thinking about your So how are you thinking about your So how are you thinking about your business, the world of AI? business, the world of AI? business, the world of AI? >> I'm a big AI advocate, but people are >> I'm a big AI advocate, but people are >> I'm a big AI advocate, but people are using AI in the wrong places. like using AI in the wrong places. like using AI in the wrong places. like outsourcing thinking and decision-m to outsourcing thinking and decision-m to outsourcing thinking and decision-m to AI is a really bad decision because you AI is a really bad decision because you AI is a really bad decision because you will just get dumber. This is the best will just get dumber. This is the best will just get dumber. This is the best asset I've got for now. So, I want to asset I've got for now. So, I want to asset I've got for now. So, I want to keep it as sharp as I can. Finally, this keep it as sharp as I can. Finally, this keep it as sharp as I can. Finally, this is like the the absolute raw truth I is like the the absolute raw truth I is like the the absolute raw truth I could possibly give, which is the single could possibly give, which is the single could possibly give, which is the single best financial decision that I ever best financial decision that I ever best financial decision that I ever made. And that [snorts] is made. And that [snorts] is made. And that [snorts] is this is super interesting to me. My team this is super interesting to me. My team this is super interesting to me. My team given me this report to show me how many given me this report to show me how many given me this report to show me how many of you that watch this show subscribe. of you that watch this show subscribe. of you that watch this show subscribe. And some of you have told us according And some of you have told us according And some of you have told us according to this that you are unsubscribed from to this that you are unsubscribed from to this that you are unsubscribed from the channel randomly. So, favor to ask the channel randomly. So, favor to ask the channel randomly. So, favor to ask all of you, please could you check right all of you, please could you check right all of you, please could you check right now if you've hit the subscribe button, now if you've hit the subscribe button, now if you've hit the subscribe button, if you are a regular viewer of the show if you are a regular viewer of the show if you are a regular viewer of the show and you like what we do here. We're and you like what we do here. We're and you like what we do here. We're approaching quite a significant landmark approaching quite a significant landmark approaching quite a significant landmark on this show in terms of a subscriber on this show in terms of a subscriber on this show in terms of a subscriber number. So, if there was one simple free number. So, if there was one simple free number. So, if there was one simple free thing that you could do to help us, my thing that you could do to help us, my thing that you could do to help us, my team, everyone here to keep this show team, everyone here to keep this show team, everyone here to keep this show free, to keep it improving year over free, to keep it improving year over free, to keep it improving year over year and week over week, it is just to year and week over week, it is just to year and week over week, it is just to hit that subscribe button and to double hit that subscribe button and to double hit that subscribe button and to double check if you've hit it. Only thing I'll check if you've hit it. Only thing I'll check if you've hit it. Only thing I'll ever ask of you, do we have a deal? If ever ask of you, do we have a deal? If ever ask of you, do we have a deal? If you do it, I'll tell you what I'll do. you do it, I'll tell you what I'll do.

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[music] Alex, I I feel like we have to start Alex, I I feel like we have to start with AI because it is front of mind for with AI because it is front of mind for with AI because it is front of mind for both I think my audience but also for both I think my audience but also for both I think my audience but also for entrepreneurs that I speak to at every entrepreneurs that I speak to at every entrepreneurs that I speak to at every step in the journey whether they are I step in the journey whether they are I step in the journey whether they are I was with Adara who's the CEO of Uber the was with Adara who's the CEO of Uber the was with Adara who's the CEO of Uber the other day um in New York and he that's other day um in New York and he that's other day um in New York and he that's what the conversation was about AI but what the conversation was about AI but what the conversation was about AI but then I speak to startup founders who are then I speak to startup founders who are then I speak to startup founders who are trying to build a software company and trying to build a software company and trying to build a software company and can't find a moat that is defensible can't find a moat that is defensible can't find a moat that is defensible those conversations are about AI. What those conversations are about AI. What those conversations are about AI. What is your how are you approaching this as is your how are you approaching this as is your how are you approaching this as an entrepreneur? How can we use AI to do an entrepreneur? How can we use AI to do an entrepreneur? How can we use AI to do the things that are the art the normal the things that are the art the normal the things that are the art the normal functions of the business at a way functions of the business at a way functions of the business at a way better, way faster, etc. What I'm seeing better, way faster, etc. What I'm seeing better, way faster, etc. What I'm seeing a lot especially with founders or people a lot especially with founders or people a lot especially with founders or people are starting out is they're using AI to are starting out is they're using AI to are starting out is they're using AI to do a lot of dumb things really fast and do a lot of dumb things really fast and do a lot of dumb things really fast and they're trying to build companies that they're trying to build companies that they're trying to build companies that the models are going to swallow up the models are going to swallow up the models are going to swallow up pretty much immediately anyways or pretty much immediately anyways or pretty much immediately anyways or already have for super users and it's already have for super users and it's already have for super users and it's just going to like become easier. And just going to like become easier. And just going to like become easier. And the question that I would ask for the the question that I would ask for the the question that I would ask for the entrepreneurs who are you know AI maxing entrepreneurs who are you know AI maxing entrepreneurs who are you know AI maxing right now and again I think it's very right now and again I think it's very right now and again I think it's very good to adopt new technology is are you good to adopt new technology is are you good to adopt new technology is are you making more money making more money making more money >> just the very simple are you making more >> just the very simple are you making more >> just the very simple are you making more money now and even though you're token money now and even though you're token money now and even though you're token maxing [laughter] maxing [laughter] maxing [laughter] >> and spending all this tokens like are >> and spending all this tokens like are >> and spending all this tokens like are you making more money and I had a a you making more money and I had a a you making more money and I had a a business I looked at the other day they business I looked at the other day they business I looked at the other day they had 11 VAS that were doing I can't

had 11 VAS that were doing I can't had 11 VAS that were doing I can't remember some sort of like data cleaning remember some sort of like data cleaning remember some sort of like data cleaning work work work >> VAS >> VAS >> VAS >> yeah virtual assistants so lowkilled >> yeah virtual assistants so lowkilled >> yeah virtual assistants so lowkilled labor overseas that was doing work and I labor overseas that was doing work and I labor overseas that was doing work and I think it was something in the think it was something in the think it was something in the neighborhood of like $11,000 a month is neighborhood of like $11,000 a month is neighborhood of like $11,000 a month is what they were paying for these 11 VAS. what they were paying for these 11 VAS. what they were paying for these 11 VAS. And they were doing a good job and it And they were doing a good job and it And they were doing a good job and it all worked. And they then spent $350,000 all worked. And they then spent $350,000 all worked. And they then spent $350,000 to try and create an AI system that to try and create an AI system that to try and create an AI system that would replace what these 11 virtual would replace what these 11 virtual would replace what these 11 virtual assistants were doing. But that means assistants were doing. But that means assistants were doing. But that means they spent three plus years of costs on they spent three plus years of costs on they spent three plus years of costs on what these 11 virtual assistants were what these 11 virtual assistants were what these 11 virtual assistants were doing. And it wasn't even the constraint doing. And it wasn't even the constraint doing. And it wasn't even the constraint of the business. It was just a process of the business. It was just a process of the business. It was just a process they could automate. Not that they they could automate. Not that they they could automate. Not that they should automate it because it's not the should automate it because it's not the should automate it because it's not the thing that's limiting their growth. And thing that's limiting their growth. And thing that's limiting their growth. And so they still need more customers and so they still need more customers and so they still need more customers and that wasn't the thing. This was like that wasn't the thing. This was like that wasn't the thing. This was like part of their their quote process or part of their their quote process or part of their their quote process or something, but that wasn't the something, but that wasn't the something, but that wasn't the limitation. They didn't have enough limitation. They didn't have enough limitation. They didn't have enough demand. demand. demand. >> People are using AI in the wrong places. >> People are using AI in the wrong places. >> People are using AI in the wrong places. They're trying to start AI businesses They're trying to start AI businesses They're trying to start AI businesses when they shouldn't start AI businesses. when they shouldn't start AI businesses. when they shouldn't start AI businesses. They should use AI in their business. They should use AI in their business. They should use AI in their business. They're trying to advertise as AI They're trying to advertise as AI They're trying to advertise as AI businesses when you should just businesses when you should just businesses when you should just advertise the thing that your customer advertise the thing that your customer advertise the thing that your customer cares about, which is the solution to cares about, which is the solution to cares about, which is the solution to their problem, the outcome. None of their problem, the outcome. None of their problem, the outcome. None of that's changed. But because you got that's changed. But because you got that's changed. But because you got really excited about it, you think your really excited about it, you think your really excited about it, you think your customers are going to be excited about customers are going to be excited about customers are going to be excited about it. But most people are a lot of people it. But most people are a lot of people it. But most people are a lot of people are afraid of AI. Um, so it's not are afraid of AI. Um, so it's not are afraid of AI. Um, so it's not necessarily even a positive and it's not necessarily even a positive and it's not necessarily even a positive and it's not making you more money, which is the making you more money, which is the making you more money, which is the final question.

final question. final question. >> When you listen to someone like Elon >> When you listen to someone like Elon >> When you listen to someone like Elon Musk, he says that work will become Musk, he says that work will become Musk, he says that work will become optional in in the in the future. And I optional in in the in the future. And I optional in in the in the future. And I sat here with a couple of experts on AI. sat here with a couple of experts on AI. sat here with a couple of experts on AI. Then they kind of explained to me what Then they kind of explained to me what Then they kind of explained to me what it is. And from a very simplified it is. And from a very simplified it is. And from a very simplified perspective, this machine that has these perspective, this machine that has these perspective, this machine that has these neural nets in it, which have lots of neural nets in it, which have lots of neural nets in it, which have lots of parameters, basically connections like parameters, basically connections like parameters, basically connections like the human brain does. And when they the human brain does. And when they the human brain does. And when they train it, the parameters become train it, the parameters become train it, the parameters become reinforced to the the ones that made the reinforced to the the ones that made the reinforced to the the ones that made the right decision. And the ones that made right decision. And the ones that made right decision. And the ones that made the wrong decision are like basically the wrong decision are like basically the wrong decision are like basically cut out. Again, I'm simplifying this. cut out. Again, I'm simplifying this. cut out. Again, I'm simplifying this. >> These brains, these digital brains are >> These brains, these digital brains are >> These brains, these digital brains are getting bigger and bigger and bigger. getting bigger and bigger and bigger. getting bigger and bigger and bigger. Um, it's it's like almost inconceivable Um, it's it's like almost inconceivable Um, it's it's like almost inconceivable to me based on what they've said to me, to me based on what they've said to me, to me based on what they've said to me, these area experts, that at some point these area experts, that at some point these area experts, that at some point it isn't able to do a lot of the it isn't able to do a lot of the it isn't able to do a lot of the cognitive work that people are currently cognitive work that people are currently cognitive work that people are currently doing. My question really here is like doing. My question really here is like doing. My question really here is like where does the value remain in a world where does the value remain in a world where does the value remain in a world where intelligence where intelligence where intelligence is cheap is cheap is cheap >> and abundant and um higher one could say >> and abundant and um higher one could say >> and abundant and um higher one could say and also in a world where robotics are and also in a world where robotics are and also in a world where robotics are coming over the horizon too like where coming over the horizon too like where coming over the horizon too like where is the value I think stakes for example is the value I think stakes for example is the value I think stakes for example AI can give all of the recommendations AI can give all of the recommendations AI can give all of the recommendations in the world but someone has to own the in the world but someone has to own the in the world but someone has to own the decision decision decision >> and so as of [clears throat] right now >> and so as of [clears throat] right now >> and so as of [clears throat] right now maybe it will in the future AI isn't maybe it will in the future AI isn't maybe it will in the future AI isn't isn't a citizen of any you know any isn't a citizen of any you know any isn't a citizen of any you know any country it doesn't pay taxes and so country it doesn't pay taxes and so country it doesn't pay taxes and so somebody has to be responsible somebody has to be responsible somebody has to be responsible >> it's a liability Yeah.

>> it's a liability Yeah. >> it's a liability Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> And upside on on the flip side. And to >> And upside on on the flip side. And to >> And upside on on the flip side. And to take this into different domains from take this into different domains from take this into different domains from the media perspective, imagine Jimmy the media perspective, imagine Jimmy the media perspective, imagine Jimmy said Mr. Beast has a video and like Mr. said Mr. Beast has a video and like Mr. said Mr. Beast has a video and like Mr. Beast is going to replace by AI. He's Beast is going to replace by AI. He's Beast is going to replace by AI. He's not going to get replaced by AI because not going to get replaced by AI because not going to get replaced by AI because if he had a video that said $5 million if he had a video that said $5 million if he had a video that said $5 million and the $5 million wasn't real and the and the $5 million wasn't real and the and the $5 million wasn't real and the Lamborghini wasn't real, there'd be no Lamborghini wasn't real, there'd be no Lamborghini wasn't real, there'd be no stakes. stakes. stakes. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Like chess, right, has become more >> Like chess, right, has become more >> Like chess, right, has become more popular now than it's ever like than popular now than it's ever like than popular now than it's ever like than it's been in recent history. But robots it's been in recent history. But robots it's been in recent history. But robots can beat humans at chess. can beat humans at chess. can beat humans at chess. >> Mhm. But no one cares. >> Mhm. But no one cares. >> Mhm. But no one cares. >> I think about the F1 as well. You'd >> I think about the F1 as well. You'd >> I think about the F1 as well. You'd still want Lewis Hamilton in the car. still want Lewis Hamilton in the car. still want Lewis Hamilton in the car. You take him out the car, you stop You take him out the car, you stop You take him out the car, you stop watching F1, watching F1, watching F1, >> right? So humans want stakes. And so >> right? So humans want stakes. And so >> right? So humans want stakes. And so there's the compensation side of it, there's the compensation side of it, there's the compensation side of it, which is that somebody's going to be which is that somebody's going to be which is that somebody's going to be responsible. Someone has to risk the responsible. Someone has to risk the responsible. Someone has to risk the money. Somebody paid for the token. money. Somebody paid for the token. money. Somebody paid for the token. Somebody owns the LLC. Someone is is Somebody owns the LLC. Someone is is Somebody owns the LLC. Someone is is owns this. And so there is value in the owns this. And so there is value in the owns this. And so there is value in the judgment and the assumption of risk and judgment and the assumption of risk and judgment and the assumption of risk and upside. upside. upside. >> Mhm. >> Mhm. >> Mhm. >> Which can be money or just the >> Which can be money or just the >> Which can be money or just the responsibility. From a media responsibility. From a media responsibility. From a media perspective, we still have to introduce perspective, we still have to introduce perspective, we still have to introduce stakes into the into the show. Now, of stakes into the into the show. Now, of stakes into the into the show. Now, of course, there's going to be the fiction course, there's going to be the fiction course, there's going to be the fiction world. They're going to be much harder world. They're going to be much harder world. They're going to be much harder hit. But if you're trying to do a hit. But if you're trying to do a hit. But if you're trying to do a reality TV show, the real part has to be reality TV show, the real part has to be reality TV show, the real part has to be there.

there. there. >> One of the um things that I find really >> One of the um things that I find really >> One of the um things that I find really interesting about you is you spend a lot interesting about you is you spend a lot interesting about you is you spend a lot of time thinking and in a world of of time thinking and in a world of of time thinking and in a world of artificial intelligence, a lot of people artificial intelligence, a lot of people artificial intelligence, a lot of people are now deferring their thinking to are now deferring their thinking to are now deferring their thinking to these frontier models like chatb or these frontier models like chatb or these frontier models like chatb or claim or whatever. And um we've spoken claim or whatever. And um we've spoken claim or whatever. And um we've spoken about this before, but one of the things about this before, but one of the things about this before, but one of the things we both agree is that knowing the right we both agree is that knowing the right we both agree is that knowing the right questions to ask, clarity of thought, questions to ask, clarity of thought, questions to ask, clarity of thought, critical thinking, making the decision critical thinking, making the decision critical thinking, making the decision is going to be one of the things in a is going to be one of the things in a is going to be one of the things in a world of AI that's critically important. world of AI that's critically important. world of AI that's critically important. So my question to you is like how are So my question to you is like how are So my question to you is like how are you having good ideas cultivating good you having good ideas cultivating good you having good ideas cultivating good ideas and giving your space your sort of ideas and giving your space your sort of ideas and giving your space your sort of mental space to be able to think about mental space to be able to think about mental space to be able to think about problems? problems? problems? >> Mhm. >> Mhm. >> Mhm. >> What's your practice? >> What's your practice? >> What's your practice? >> I'll I'll take this from two different >> I'll I'll take this from two different >> I'll I'll take this from two different angles. So first is I think outsourcing angles. So first is I think outsourcing angles. So first is I think outsourcing thinking to AI as of right now is still thinking to AI as of right now is still thinking to AI as of right now is still a really bad decision if you it's like I a really bad decision if you it's like I a really bad decision if you it's like I think anybody who's used AI for any think anybody who's used AI for any think anybody who's used AI for any period of time knows that you can get it period of time knows that you can get it period of time knows that you can get it to agree to anything. And that's to agree to anything. And that's to agree to anything. And that's frightening when it comes to making frightening when it comes to making frightening when it comes to making decisions. And so every time I'm like decisions. And so every time I'm like decisions. And so every time I'm like you know I think it has gotten a little you know I think it has gotten a little you know I think it has gotten a little better. I'll just give it like a really better. I'll just give it like a really better. I'll just give it like a really obvious decision to make. I'll go, obvious decision to make. I'll go, obvious decision to make. I'll go, "Okay, let's open up uh Claw. Let's open "Okay, let's open up uh Claw. Let's open "Okay, let's open up uh Claw. Let's open up OpenAI. Let's look like let's open up OpenAI. Let's look like let's open up OpenAI. Let's look like let's open all of them up and I'll ask the same all of them up and I'll ask the same all of them up and I'll ask the same question to all three and they're just question to all three and they're just question to all three and they're just all over the place." And so I'm like, all over the place." And so I'm like, all over the place." And so I'm like, "Okay, this is still back to my "Okay, this is still back to my "Okay, this is still back to my judgment." Right? Number two is that if judgment." Right? Number two is that if judgment." Right? Number two is that if you do delegate your decision-m to it, you do delegate your decision-m to it, you do delegate your decision-m to it, you get dumber. Now, there's all this you get dumber. Now, there's all this you get dumber. Now, there's all this research. I'm sure you've had people in research. I'm sure you've had people in research. I'm sure you've had people in the podcast who talked about it, and the podcast who talked about it, and the podcast who talked about it, and it's like I for sure like this is the it's like I for sure like this is the it's like I for sure like this is the best asset I've got for now, so I want best asset I've got for now, so I want best asset I've got for now, so I want to keep it as sharp as I can. Do not to keep it as sharp as I can. Do not to keep it as sharp as I can. Do not delegate the hardest work you the delegate the hardest work you the delegate the hardest work you the hardest thinking work you have because hardest thinking work you have because hardest thinking work you have because you will just get so weak so fast. A new you will just get so weak so fast. A new you will just get so weak so fast. A new idea that sprung into my mind over the idea that sprung into my mind over the idea that sprung into my mind over the last I'd say three to four months that last I'd say three to four months that last I'd say three to four months that I've kind of been chewing with is this I've kind of been chewing with is this I've kind of been chewing with is this idea of what happens when you go long. M

idea of what happens when you go long. M idea of what happens when you go long. M >> so long-term thinking and how you build >> so long-term thinking and how you build >> so long-term thinking and how you build differently today if you just extend the differently today if you just extend the differently today if you just extend the time horizon and then how you can like time horizon and then how you can like time horizon and then how you can like beat competition just by like instead of beat competition just by like instead of beat competition just by like instead of thinking in terms of okay you know thinking in terms of okay you know thinking in terms of okay you know founders they always think in terms of 5 founders they always think in terms of 5 founders they always think in terms of 5 years and then exit but what happens if years and then exit but what happens if years and then exit but what happens if you think in terms of like 50 years what you think in terms of like 50 years what you think in terms of like 50 years what are the different decisions you make in are the different decisions you make in are the different decisions you make in terms of the foundational blocks terms of the foundational blocks terms of the foundational blocks >> and this is why I have these blocks cuz >> and this is why I have these blocks cuz >> and this is why I have these blocks cuz I saw you do something on YouTube with I saw you do something on YouTube with I saw you do something on YouTube with some blocks before some blocks before some blocks before >> could you explain this idea of sort of >> could you explain this idea of sort of >> could you explain this idea of sort of long-term thinking in terms of long-term thinking in terms of long-term thinking in terms of foundations foundations foundations >> we do this exercise in person with >> we do this exercise in person with >> we do this exercise in person with entrepreneurs I think it's so powerful entrepreneurs I think it's so powerful entrepreneurs I think it's so powerful which is if I were to say, "Hey, build which is if I were to say, "Hey, build which is if I were to say, "Hey, build me the tallest tower using a series of me the tallest tower using a series of me the tallest tower using a series of blocks." If I say, "You have 5 seconds." blocks." If I say, "You have 5 seconds." blocks." If I say, "You have 5 seconds." You're going to you're right here, You're going to you're right here, You're going to you're right here, right? And that's that's all you got. right? And that's that's all you got. right? And that's that's all you got. And you're like, "Oh, it's time. Hands And you're like, "Oh, it's time. Hands And you're like, "Oh, it's time. Hands off." If I said, "Okay, now let's assume off." If I said, "Okay, now let's assume off." If I said, "Okay, now let's assume we had a little bit more blocks than I we had a little bit more blocks than I we had a little bit more blocks than I could build in in 5 seconds." And I could build in in 5 seconds." And I could build in in 5 seconds." And I said, "Okay, what if I said you had 5 said, "Okay, what if I said you had 5 said, "Okay, what if I said you had 5 minutes? Would you build it differently? minutes? Would you build it differently? minutes? Would you build it differently? What if I said you had 5 days? What if I What if I said you had 5 days? What if I What if I said you had 5 days? What if I said you had 5 years? said you had 5 years? said you had 5 years? >> And you have unlimited blocks, >> And you have unlimited blocks, >> And you have unlimited blocks, >> right?" Yeah. And so what happens is the >> right?" Yeah. And so what happens is the >> right?" Yeah. And so what happens is the foundation completely changes based on foundation completely changes based on foundation completely changes based on the height of the building because of the height of the building because of the height of the building because of the time horizon you're thinking in.

the time horizon you're thinking in. the time horizon you're thinking in. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> I had a mentor tell me this um a long >> I had a mentor tell me this um a long >> I had a mentor tell me this um a long time ago and it like really stuck with time ago and it like really stuck with time ago and it like really stuck with me which is the fastest way to build a me which is the fastest way to build a me which is the fastest way to build a $10 million business is not the fastest $10 million business is not the fastest $10 million business is not the fastest way to build a $100 million business. way to build a $100 million business. way to build a $100 million business. >> Even in the fastest way to build a >> Even in the fastest way to build a >> Even in the fastest way to build a million dollar business is not the million dollar business is not the million dollar business is not the fastest way to build a $10 million fastest way to build a $10 million fastest way to build a $10 million business. Like you could probably build business. Like you could probably build business. Like you could probably build a oneperson agency to a million dollars a oneperson agency to a million dollars a oneperson agency to a million dollars a year pretty quick. One client, a year pretty quick. One client, a year pretty quick. One client, >> right? Yeah. It's just like it's just >> right? Yeah. It's just like it's just >> right? Yeah. It's just like it's just you could do it really quickly. getting you could do it really quickly. getting you could do it really quickly. getting to a hundred though, you you think about to a hundred though, you you think about to a hundred though, you you think about it differently. You would. And so I it differently. You would. And so I it differently. You would. And so I think um to your point, one of the still think um to your point, one of the still think um to your point, one of the still outstanding competitive advantages that outstanding competitive advantages that outstanding competitive advantages that you can have as an entrepreneur from a you can have as an entrepreneur from a you can have as an entrepreneur from a thinking perspective is just thinking thinking perspective is just thinking thinking perspective is just thinking longer. longer. longer. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> It's really been front of mind to me. >> It's really been front of mind to me. >> It's really been front of mind to me. It's funny cuz when I started thinking It's funny cuz when I started thinking It's funny cuz when I started thinking about, do you know why it is? It's about, do you know why it is? It's about, do you know why it is? It's because I told myself in this season of because I told myself in this season of because I told myself in this season of life life life >> Mhm. >> Mhm. >> Mhm. >> that I was going to do the business that >> that I was going to do the business that >> that I was going to do the business that I'm running now, which is our holding I'm running now, which is our holding I'm running now, which is our holding company called Steven.com forever. And I company called Steven.com forever. And I company called Steven.com forever. And I immediately noticed that I made a immediately noticed that I made a immediately noticed that I made a different set of decisions. I started different set of decisions. I started different set of decisions. I started thinking about the factory I called it thinking about the factory I called it thinking about the factory I called it which is you know Elon's example of it's which is you know Elon's example of it's which is you know Elon's example of it's building a prototype is easy building building a prototype is easy building building a prototype is easy building the factory that builds the cars is 50x the factory that builds the cars is 50x the factory that builds the cars is 50x harder. I started obsessing over the harder. I started obsessing over the harder. I started obsessing over the factory which in in part in this analogy factory which in in part in this analogy factory which in in part in this analogy could also be seen as the foundations could also be seen as the foundations could also be seen as the foundations that we lay to make this durable over that we lay to make this durable over that we lay to make this durable over the long term. And then speaking of Elon the long term. And then speaking of Elon the long term. And then speaking of Elon I look at the decisions he made with I look at the decisions he made with I look at the decisions he made with both SpaceX which I'm an investor in and both SpaceX which I'm an investor in and both SpaceX which I'm an investor in and Tesla where he was like you know I could Tesla where he was like you know I could Tesla where he was like you know I could have bought the batteries from Ford but have bought the batteries from Ford but have bought the batteries from Ford but I'm going to make a completely new I'm going to make a completely new I'm going to make a completely new battery from scratch. you know, um, I battery from scratch. you know, um, I battery from scratch. you know, um, I could have used other people's could have used other people's could have used other people's electricity chargers, but I'm going to electricity chargers, but I'm going to electricity chargers, but I'm going to build the entire charging network across build the entire charging network across build the entire charging network across the United States from scratch.

the United States from scratch. the United States from scratch. >> And this is someone who was thinking >> And this is someone who was thinking >> And this is someone who was thinking long term. And what happens then is they long term. And what happens then is they long term. And what happens then is they have the most durable moat 7 years from have the most durable moat 7 years from have the most durable moat 7 years from now. And and that's so this is that now. And and that's so this is that now. And and that's so this is that becomes the value of the business. And becomes the value of the business. And becomes the value of the business. And actually, it was all a byproduct of just actually, it was all a byproduct of just actually, it was all a byproduct of just thinking over a longer time horizon. thinking over a longer time horizon. thinking over a longer time horizon. entrepreneurs and startup founders as entrepreneurs and startup founders as entrepreneurs and startup founders as you know we like rush to like get the you know we like rush to like get the you know we like rush to like get the exit raise as much money as we can exit raise as much money as we can exit raise as much money as we can >> and it looks like you're you're in an >> and it looks like you're you're in an >> and it looks like you're you're in an unstable building there. Yeah, unstable building there. Yeah, unstable building there. Yeah, >> it looks like that >> it looks like that >> it looks like that >> strong wind, right? [laughter] >> strong wind, right? [laughter] >> strong wind, right? [laughter] >> I could blow that over. >> I could blow that over. >> I could blow that over. >> Even during the exit process, if it's a >> Even during the exit process, if it's a >> Even during the exit process, if it's a fast, you know, company, it's like fast, you know, company, it's like fast, you know, company, it's like you're kind of like just please stay, you're kind of like just please stay, you're kind of like just please stay, just everything stay fine. No one leave, just everything stay fine. No one leave, just everything stay fine. No one leave, you know, like no big accounts go away. you know, like no big accounts go away. you know, like no big accounts go away. Like you're just like holding your Like you're just like holding your Like you're just like holding your breath for 6 months and being like, breath for 6 months and being like, breath for 6 months and being like, [laughter] please just go through. And [laughter] please just go through. And [laughter] please just go through. And then if it goes down to this for like a then if it goes down to this for like a then if it goes down to this for like a week or two and they're like, hey, why week or two and they're like, hey, why week or two and they're like, hey, why are the billables down? You're like, uh, are the billables down? You're like, uh, are the billables down? You're like, uh, no, it's a it's it's a momentary ble. It no, it's a it's it's a momentary ble. It no, it's a it's it's a momentary ble. It was expected. did was actually in our was expected. did was actually in our was expected. did was actually in our did I not send you the updated forecast? did I not send you the updated forecast? did I not send you the updated forecast? [laughter] Like it's a whole thing. Um [laughter] Like it's a whole thing. Um [laughter] Like it's a whole thing. Um and I'll do it with the drawing because and I'll do it with the drawing because and I'll do it with the drawing because it might be it might be a little bit it might be it might be a little bit it might be it might be a little bit easier. But like if you were to build a easier. But like if you were to build a easier. But like if you were to build a hundred story building, you'd have to hundred story building, you'd have to hundred story building, you'd have to dig way deeper. You'd have to have a dig way deeper. You'd have to have a dig way deeper. You'd have to have a much you'd have you build with different much you'd have you build with different much you'd have you build with different materials going up. And so there's a materials going up. And so there's a materials going up. And so there's a hundred decisions that get made that if hundred decisions that get made that if hundred decisions that get made that if you're doing a hundred stories versus you're doing a hundred stories versus you're doing a hundred stories versus one, [clears throat] you would you one, [clears throat] you would you one, [clears throat] you would you choose differently. And so where it gets choose differently. And so where it gets choose differently. And so where it gets really tough is that people will they really tough is that people will they really tough is that people will they want to have it all. And so they say, I want to have it all. And so they say, I want to have it all. And so they say, I want to have the speed of building a want to have the speed of building a want to have the speed of building a one-story building, but then they get to one-story building, but then they get to one-story building, but then they get to one story and say, well, actually, I one story and say, well, actually, I one story and say, well, actually, I want to get I want to have a 10-story want to get I want to have a 10-story want to get I want to have a 10-story building, but the foundation wasn't building, but the foundation wasn't building, but the foundation wasn't right. And so this is where right. And so this is where right. And so this is where entrepreneurs will they'll do this.

entrepreneurs will they'll do this. entrepreneurs will they'll do this. They'll they'll skyrocket here and then They'll they'll skyrocket here and then They'll they'll skyrocket here and then they and then they plateau. they and then they plateau. they and then they plateau. >> And [clears throat] then sometimes, >> And [clears throat] then sometimes, >> And [clears throat] then sometimes, unfortunately, the correct step is that unfortunately, the correct step is that unfortunately, the correct step is that you have to take two steps back, rebuild you have to take two steps back, rebuild you have to take two steps back, rebuild the foundation, and then it goes up the foundation, and then it goes up the foundation, and then it goes up again. M. again. M. again. M. >> And so I think to your point, focus and >> And so I think to your point, focus and >> And so I think to your point, focus and patience are the two enduring patience are the two enduring patience are the two enduring competitive advantages because they're competitive advantages because they're competitive advantages because they're so antihuman. so antihuman. so antihuman. >> Yeah. So antihuman. So anti- Instagram. >> Yeah. So antihuman. So anti- Instagram. >> Yeah. So antihuman. So anti- Instagram. I've got no announcement to make this I've got no announcement to make this I've got no announcement to make this month because I'm doing boring like month because I'm doing boring like month because I'm doing boring like hiring. hiring. hiring. >> Like Basos like the the decision I still >> Like Basos like the the decision I still >> Like Basos like the the decision I still think about this like the decision that think about this like the decision that think about this like the decision that he made that he was going to say like he made that he was going to say like he made that he was going to say like I'm going to have a logistics company be I'm going to have a logistics company be I'm going to have a logistics company be my competitive moat. He's a like he my competitive moat. He's a like he my competitive moat. He's a like he started as a bookstore online and to go started as a bookstore online and to go started as a bookstore online and to go from there to like no we're going to own from there to like no we're going to own from there to like no we're going to own the trucks and the warehouses and be the trucks and the warehouses and be the trucks and the warehouses and be better at warehouse and delivery than better at warehouse and delivery than better at warehouse and delivery than anyone else. anyone else. anyone else. >> That's what we're going to do with our >> That's what we're going to do with our >> That's what we're going to do with our online internet business. online internet business. online internet business. >> Like just but like who can unseat Amazon >> Like just but like who can unseat Amazon >> Like just but like who can unseat Amazon right now? Really tough. What's right now? Really tough. What's right now? Really tough. What's interesting as well is that that interesting as well is that that interesting as well is that that particular moment there where the particular moment there where the particular moment there where the entrepreneur gets this they they come to entrepreneur gets this they they come to entrepreneur gets this they they come to people like me and you in the street and people like me and you in the street and people like me and you in the street and they say they say they say >> they are I can't get past your >> they are I can't get past your >> they are I can't get past your bottleneck. Yeah.

bottleneck. Yeah. bottleneck. Yeah. >> What is it that they should have done? >> What is it that they should have done? >> What is it that they should have done? So many entrepreneurs come up to me, So many entrepreneurs come up to me, So many entrepreneurs come up to me, they might hit, I don't know, 500k they might hit, I don't know, 500k they might hit, I don't know, 500k revenue, a million revenue, and they revenue, a million revenue, and they revenue, a million revenue, and they come up to me and they go, I don't know come up to me and they go, I don't know come up to me and they go, I don't know what to do. How do I get to 10 million what to do. How do I get to 10 million what to do. How do I get to 10 million from here? from here? from here? >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> And I think in part what you're saying >> And I think in part what you're saying >> And I think in part what you're saying is they they should have made a decision is they they should have made a decision is they they should have made a decision earlier on to build a slightly different earlier on to build a slightly different earlier on to build a slightly different type of company from zero. I'll say what type of company from zero. I'll say what type of company from zero. I'll say what the million-dollar business owner is the million-dollar business owner is the million-dollar business owner is missing when they're trying to get to 10 missing when they're trying to get to 10 missing when they're trying to get to 10 is what they would have done differently is what they would have done differently is what they would have done differently is they would have stayed longer in the is they would have stayed longer in the is they would have stayed longer in the product market fit phase or trying to product market fit phase or trying to product market fit phase or trying to make sure that the customers who come in make sure that the customers who come in make sure that the customers who come in keep wanting to spend money with them keep wanting to spend money with them keep wanting to spend money with them which they either do periodically. So which they either do periodically. So which they either do periodically. So like if you buy a soda that you like, like if you buy a soda that you like, like if you buy a soda that you like, you keep buying it. It's not like you're you keep buying it. It's not like you're you keep buying it. It's not like you're on a subscription but you just buy it on a subscription but you just buy it on a subscription but you just buy it regularly. On the other hand, there's regularly. On the other hand, there's regularly. On the other hand, there's subscription revenue which is truly subscription revenue which is truly subscription revenue which is truly recurring uh like your Netflix recurring uh like your Netflix recurring uh like your Netflix subscription, whatever. But they know subscription, whatever. But they know subscription, whatever. But they know that when that customer comes in contact that when that customer comes in contact that when that customer comes in contact with the business, they're going to stay with the business, they're going to stay with the business, they're going to stay and that money is going to keep going, and that money is going to keep going, and that money is going to keep going, which is what allows it to stack. And so which is what allows it to stack. And so which is what allows it to stack. And so if we think at the most basic level, if if we think at the most basic level, if if we think at the most basic level, if every time you get a customer, they every time you get a customer, they every time you get a customer, they never left, then the business will do never left, then the business will do never left, then the business will do nothing but grow. nothing but grow. nothing but grow. >> It [clears throat] will either stay the >> It [clears throat] will either stay the >> It [clears throat] will either stay the same or it will grow whenever you get a same or it will grow whenever you get a same or it will grow whenever you get a new customer, it just keeps growing. And new customer, it just keeps growing. And new customer, it just keeps growing. And the difficulty of the the the $1 million the difficulty of the the the $1 million the difficulty of the the the $1 million entrepreneur is that getting to a entrepreneur is that getting to a entrepreneur is that getting to a million dollars, you can do really million dollars, you can do really million dollars, you can do really quickly or 10. And I know that the the quickly or 10. And I know that the the quickly or 10. And I know that the the world is like, I can't believe that. I world is like, I can't believe that. I world is like, I can't believe that. I promise you, you can do it if you just promise you, you can do it if you just promise you, you can do it if you just learn enough skills. Um, but that can learn enough skills. Um, but that can learn enough skills. Um, but that can happen really quickly because it just happen really quickly because it just happen really quickly because it just doesn't take a lot of moving parts to doesn't take a lot of moving parts to doesn't take a lot of moving parts to make it happen. Getting to a hundred or make it happen. Getting to a hundred or make it happen. Getting to a hundred or getting to a billion dollars in revenue, getting to a billion dollars in revenue, getting to a billion dollars in revenue, I haven't gotten to a billion yet, but I I haven't gotten to a billion yet, but I I haven't gotten to a billion yet, but I I feel confident I know what we need to I feel confident I know what we need to I feel confident I know what we need to do. The million-dollar entrepreneur is do. The million-dollar entrepreneur is do. The million-dollar entrepreneur is trying to fit a billion dollars of new trying to fit a billion dollars of new trying to fit a billion dollars of new sales in in one year.

sales in in one year. sales in in one year. >> Mhm. [clears throat] >> Mhm. [clears throat] >> Mhm. [clears throat] >> And that's the problem is that at the at >> And that's the problem is that at the at >> And that's the problem is that at the at the end of next year, because all the the end of next year, because all the the end of next year, because all the customers they signed up to make their customers they signed up to make their customers they signed up to make their million dollars are gone because they million dollars are gone because they million dollars are gone because they aren't good enough, they have to go back aren't good enough, they have to go back aren't good enough, they have to go back to the market market and sell and get to the market market and sell and get to the market market and sell and get another million dollars of customers. So another million dollars of customers. So another million dollars of customers. So they think, "Oh, if I if I want to get they think, "Oh, if I if I want to get they think, "Oh, if I if I want to get to $2 million a year, I have to go sell to $2 million a year, I have to go sell to $2 million a year, I have to go sell twice as many customers." Which is true, twice as many customers." Which is true, twice as many customers." Which is true, but if we had to compare two companies, but if we had to compare two companies, but if we had to compare two companies, let's say we have company A and company let's say we have company A and company let's say we have company A and company B. All right, we got company A, company B. All right, we got company A, company B. All right, we got company A, company B. They both are selling a hundred, you B. They both are selling a hundred, you B. They both are selling a hundred, you know, new widgets a year. Okay, know, new widgets a year. Okay, know, new widgets a year. Okay, let's say company B loses all of the let's say company B loses all of the let's say company B loses all of the hundred, but they want to double because hundred, but they want to double because hundred, but they want to double because it's an entrepreneur. He's like, I got it's an entrepreneur. He's like, I got it's an entrepreneur. He's like, I got to grow. And so he sells 200 people year to grow. And so he sells 200 people year to grow. And so he sells 200 people year two. Well, then let's say he's got $2 two. Well, then let's say he's got $2 two. Well, then let's say he's got $2 million in revenue, and he's got $1 million in revenue, and he's got $1 million in revenue, and he's got $1 million revenue here. And let's say year million revenue here. And let's say year million revenue here. And let's say year three, uh, he sells 300 units, but he three, uh, he sells 300 units, but he three, uh, he sells 300 units, but he lost all 200 again because he has no lost all 200 again because he has no lost all 200 again because he has no stickiness. And so he makes $3 million. stickiness. And so he makes $3 million. stickiness. And so he makes $3 million. Okay, cool. [snorts] Now, let's say this Okay, cool. [snorts] Now, let's say this Okay, cool. [snorts] Now, let's say this company A sells 100 year one, they make company A sells 100 year one, they make company A sells 100 year one, they make a million dollars. They keep all 100 a million dollars. They keep all 100 a million dollars. They keep all 100 customers. Okay, but let's say that that customers. Okay, but let's say that that customers. Okay, but let's say that that company keeps the same number of people company keeps the same number of people company keeps the same number of people they're selling new. So 100 new they're selling new. So 100 new they're selling new. So 100 new customers come in this year, but they customers come in this year, but they customers come in this year, but they keep their old hundred. So now they also keep their old hundred. So now they also keep their old hundred. So now they also have 200 customers and do $2 million.

have 200 customers and do $2 million. have 200 customers and do $2 million. And then year three, they keep their And then year three, they keep their And then year three, they keep their same 100 and then the 100 from year two. same 100 and then the 100 from year two. same 100 and then the 100 from year two. So now they have 300 total customers So now they have 300 total customers So now they have 300 total customers because they got 100 new and they have because they got 100 new and they have because they got 100 new and they have three million. So both of these three million. So both of these three million. So both of these businesses on paper, businesses on paper, businesses on paper, your entrepreneur friend comes to you your entrepreneur friend comes to you your entrepreneur friend comes to you and says, "Hey, I've got a $3 million and says, "Hey, I've got a $3 million and says, "Hey, I've got a $3 million business and I've got a $3 million business and I've got a $3 million business and I've got a $3 million business. Which one do you invest in?" business. Which one do you invest in?" business. Which one do you invest in?" >> Mhm. [clears throat] >> Mhm. [clears throat] >> Mhm. [clears throat] Now you and I do this every day. And Now you and I do this every day. And Now you and I do this every day. And we're like, "All day we [snorts] do this we're like, "All day we [snorts] do this we're like, "All day we [snorts] do this one, not this one." Because next year one, not this one." Because next year one, not this one." Because next year he's got to go and sell 600 new he's got to go and sell 600 new he's got to go and sell 600 new customers. Now, where this gets, you can customers. Now, where this gets, you can customers. Now, where this gets, you can start seeing this in the financials start seeing this in the financials start seeing this in the financials because I can tell you that the cost of because I can tell you that the cost of because I can tell you that the cost of getting 300 new customers costs getting 300 new customers costs getting 300 new customers costs significantly more than the cost of significantly more than the cost of significantly more than the cost of getting a 100 new customers and having getting a 100 new customers and having getting a 100 new customers and having 200 customers that are existing and 200 customers that are existing and 200 customers that are existing and still paying you. still paying you. still paying you. >> And so, you're going to see that in the >> And so, you're going to see that in the >> And so, you're going to see that in the bottom line getting compressed and this bottom line getting compressed and this bottom line getting compressed and this is where, you know, growth at all costs is where, you know, growth at all costs is where, you know, growth at all costs becomes a problem. becomes a problem. becomes a problem. >> But for this entrepreneur, he spent the >> But for this entrepreneur, he spent the >> But for this entrepreneur, he spent the time to figure out how to get all 100 time to figure out how to get all 100 time to figure out how to get all 100 customers to stay. Now if he encounters customers to stay. Now if he encounters customers to stay. Now if he encounters your distribution or my distribution and your distribution or my distribution and your distribution or my distribution and then all of a sudden we say great now I then all of a sudden we say great now I then all of a sudden we say great now I know that I can bring this thing 10,000 know that I can bring this thing 10,000 know that I can bring this thing 10,000 new customers then this thing becomes a new customers then this thing becomes a new customers then this thing becomes a billion dollar year business because we billion dollar year business because we billion dollar year business because we solve the most important part first solve the most important part first solve the most important part first which is that the revenue stays and so which is that the revenue stays and so which is that the revenue stays and so when people build in a rush they don't when people build in a rush they don't when people build in a rush they don't build a good enough thing and so as a build a good enough thing and so as a build a good enough thing and so as a result you scale really quickly and this result you scale really quickly and this result you scale really quickly and this is where knowing marketing and sales can is where knowing marketing and sales can is where knowing marketing and sales can be dangerous because the better you are be dangerous because the better you are be dangerous because the better you are at marketing and sales the faster you at marketing and sales the faster you at marketing and sales the faster you can grow revenue but you get to a point can grow revenue but you get to a point can grow revenue but you get to a point where you you have a certain velocity of where you you have a certain velocity of where you you have a certain velocity of sales I can only sell 100 people or 200 sales I can only sell 100 people or 200 sales I can only sell 100 people or 200 people or 500 a thousand people a month, people or 500 a thousand people a month, people or 500 a thousand people a month, whatever it is. And at that point, you whatever it is. And at that point, you whatever it is. And at that point, you either have to always be seeking more either have to always be seeking more either have to always be seeking more distribution because you have a hole in distribution because you have a hole in distribution because you have a hole in the back of your bus, but the moment the the back of your bus, but the moment the the back of your bus, but the moment the sales stop, the business craters. And I sales stop, the business craters. And I sales stop, the business craters. And I would say that that is more common than

would say that that is more common than would say that that is more common than the alternative, which is that you the alternative, which is that you the alternative, which is that you actually have a sticky business. actually have a sticky business. actually have a sticky business. >> The other thing people talk to me about >> The other thing people talk to me about >> The other thing people talk to me about when they come up to me in the street, when they come up to me in the street, when they come up to me in the street, when they hit that moment where they're when they hit that moment where they're when they hit that moment where they're doing about a million in revenue, is doing about a million in revenue, is doing about a million in revenue, is they say, you know, my customers love they say, you know, my customers love they say, you know, my customers love me. They keep coming back, but I've ran me. They keep coming back, but I've ran me. They keep coming back, but I've ran out of time. Basically, out of time. Basically, out of time. Basically, >> yeah, this is an interesting one because >> yeah, this is an interesting one because >> yeah, this is an interesting one because a lot of times if I have the same a lot of times if I have the same a lot of times if I have the same response where someone says, hey, I'm response where someone says, hey, I'm response where someone says, hey, I'm running out of time. The first question running out of time. The first question running out of time. The first question I'll ask is, "What's your margin?" If I'll ask is, "What's your margin?" If I'll ask is, "What's your margin?" If they have really thin margins, they they have really thin margins, they they have really thin margins, they can't afford to get help. That's the can't afford to get help. That's the can't afford to get help. That's the symptom, but not the root cause. The symptom, but not the root cause. The symptom, but not the root cause. The root cause is either that their offer is root cause is either that their offer is root cause is either that their offer is incorrect in that what they're offering, incorrect in that what they're offering, incorrect in that what they're offering, the price and the terms of their the price and the terms of their the price and the terms of their delivery are too low compared to each delivery are too low compared to each delivery are too low compared to each other. You're offering too much for too other. You're offering too much for too other. You're offering too much for too little, [clears throat] little, [clears throat] little, [clears throat] >> or you don't have a marketing or sales >> or you don't have a marketing or sales >> or you don't have a marketing or sales motion that allows that value to be motion that allows that value to be motion that allows that value to be demonstrated to someone. So, they'd be demonstrated to someone. So, they'd be demonstrated to someone. So, they'd be willing to pay a premium. willing to pay a premium. willing to pay a premium. >> On pricing, then how do you think about >> On pricing, then how do you think about >> On pricing, then how do you think about pricing? Is it a subjective thing or is pricing? Is it a subjective thing or is pricing? Is it a subjective thing or is it an objective thing? I do I go look at it an objective thing? I do I go look at it an objective thing? I do I go look at the market and see what everyone else is the market and see what everyone else is the market and see what everyone else is charging and then decide that or is it charging and then decide that or is it charging and then decide that or is it what I feel like I deserve? [laughter] what I feel like I deserve? [laughter] what I feel like I deserve? [laughter] >> I think what we feel we deserve matters >> I think what we feel we deserve matters >> I think what we feel we deserve matters the least in that in that the least in that in that the least in that in that >> I think it's all about what the customer >> I think it's all about what the customer >> I think it's all about what the customer is willing to pay. And so one of the is willing to pay. And so one of the is willing to pay. And so one of the hardest parts for for newer hardest parts for for newer hardest parts for for newer entrepreneurs is they sell out of their entrepreneurs is they sell out of their entrepreneurs is they sell out of their own wallet.

own wallet. own wallet. >> What do you mean? >> What do you mean? >> What do you mean? >> And so it's like if I have somebody >> And so it's like if I have somebody >> And so it's like if I have somebody who's really good at fixing cars, who's really good at fixing cars, who's really good at fixing cars, they're like, "Well, it's not that hard. they're like, "Well, it's not that hard. they're like, "Well, it's not that hard. You just, you know, do a little screws You just, you know, do a little screws You just, you know, do a little screws here." Like I would I wouldn't pay here." Like I would I wouldn't pay here." Like I would I wouldn't pay anybody for that. Like I do it for free. anybody for that. Like I do it for free. anybody for that. Like I do it for free. It's like, "Yeah, but I don't want to do It's like, "Yeah, but I don't want to do It's like, "Yeah, but I don't want to do it, and I would pay you a lot to do it it, and I would pay you a lot to do it it, and I would pay you a lot to do it cuz I don't want to fix my car." And so, cuz I don't want to fix my car." And so, cuz I don't want to fix my car." And so, because it's been easy for you, you because it's been easy for you, you because it's been easy for you, you think it's easy for everyone. And think it's easy for everyone. And think it's easy for everyone. And because you think it's easy for because you think it's easy for because you think it's easy for everyone, you're not willing to charge a everyone, you're not willing to charge a everyone, you're not willing to charge a lot for it. lot for it. lot for it. >> And so, they get into this vicious cycle >> And so, they get into this vicious cycle >> And so, they get into this vicious cycle of undercharging and having not enough of undercharging and having not enough of undercharging and having not enough margin. And then as a result, having to margin. And then as a result, having to margin. And then as a result, having to do more of the work and then if they get do more of the work and then if they get do more of the work and then if they get more work coming, they don't want to say more work coming, they don't want to say more work coming, they don't want to say no. And so, then they basically fill up no. And so, then they basically fill up no. And so, then they basically fill up their entire plate. that they have no their entire plate. that they have no their entire plate. that they have no excess capacity but that they can't they excess capacity but that they can't they excess capacity but that they can't they don't have the time to train anyone they don't have the time to train anyone they don't have the time to train anyone they don't have the time to interview they don't have the time to interview they don't have the time to interview they don't have the time or or the or the don't have the time or or the or the don't have the time or or the or the cash right to to afford the next person cash right to to afford the next person cash right to to afford the next person and so usually when someone's like I'm and so usually when someone's like I'm and so usually when someone's like I'm overwhelmed if I say do you have a lot overwhelmed if I say do you have a lot overwhelmed if I say do you have a lot of margin then either yeah you're of margin then either yeah you're of margin then either yeah you're running 70% margin dude like hire some running 70% margin dude like hire some running 70% margin dude like hire some help if they don't then it's two or help if they don't then it's two or help if they don't then it's two or three steps earlier where the offer is three steps earlier where the offer is three steps earlier where the offer is wrong the sales motion's wrong which wrong the sales motion's wrong which wrong the sales motion's wrong which typically they're mispriced typically they're mispriced typically they're mispriced >> do you get it all the time where people >> do you get it all the time where people >> do you get it all the time where people say to you um you know Alex I tried to say to you um you know Alex I tried to say to you um you know Alex I tried to hire someone and they up and so I hire someone and they up and so I hire someone and they up and so I can't I can't trust trust anybody to do can't I can't trust trust anybody to do can't I can't trust trust anybody to do it as well as I can and the clients love it as well as I can and the clients love it as well as I can and the clients love me.

me. me. >> I think it's ego. >> I think it's ego. >> I think it's ego. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> I think we want to be special and I >> I think we want to be special and I >> I think we want to be special and I think we like to be needed and I think think we like to be needed and I think think we like to be needed and I think that that that it is not the business's job to solve it is not the business's job to solve it is not the business's job to solve your emotional needs. your emotional needs. your emotional needs. >> Mhm. >> Mhm. >> Mhm. >> The business's job to serve the >> The business's job to serve the >> The business's job to serve the customers. customers. customers. >> Mhm. >> Mhm. >> Mhm. >> And so we are not as unique as we think. >> And so we are not as unique as we think. >> And so we are not as unique as we think. If you could go back in time, you could If you could go back in time, you could If you could go back in time, you could teach yourself in a tenth of time teach yourself in a tenth of time teach yourself in a tenth of time because you know all the mistakes that because you know all the mistakes that because you know all the mistakes that you made and the right things that you made and the right things that you made and the right things that actually ended up working. So it's like actually ended up working. So it's like actually ended up working. So it's like great. instead of taking 10 times as great. instead of taking 10 times as great. instead of taking 10 times as long you did to learn it the first time, long you did to learn it the first time, long you did to learn it the first time, go back as though you were teaching it go back as though you were teaching it go back as though you were teaching it the right way to somebody else. the right way to somebody else. the right way to somebody else. >> And so you can collapse the time it >> And so you can collapse the time it >> And so you can collapse the time it takes to teach someone how to do the takes to teach someone how to do the takes to teach someone how to do the job. And most times what founders are job. And most times what founders are job. And most times what founders are looking for is a unicorn, right? They're looking for is a unicorn, right? They're looking for is a unicorn, right? They're like, "Okay, uh, I have two employees like, "Okay, uh, I have two employees like, "Okay, uh, I have two employees and I do everything. And so I need to and I do everything. And so I need to and I do everything. And so I need to hire someone who's just going to be like hire someone who's just going to be like hire someone who's just going to be like me and just do everything else." It's me and just do everything else." It's me and just do everything else." It's like, it's not going to work that way. like, it's not going to work that way. like, it's not going to work that way. And so I use this little analogy that I And so I use this little analogy that I And so I use this little analogy that I like, which is, so we have our our horn like, which is, so we have our our horn like, which is, so we have our our horn of the unicorn. This is going to be so of the unicorn. This is going to be so of the unicorn. This is going to be so bad. Here we go. So, we've got our bad. Here we go. So, we've got our bad. Here we go. So, we've got our [laughter] [laughter] [laughter] All right. Here we go. We'll give it a All right. Here we go. We'll give it a All right. Here we go. We'll give it a little hoof. Maybe a little some tail. little hoof. Maybe a little some tail. little hoof. Maybe a little some tail. Here we go. And here we go. And we need Here we go. And here we go. And we need Here we go. And here we go. And we need to have some some sparkle, right? Cuz to have some some sparkle, right? Cuz to have some some sparkle, right? Cuz it's a unicorn special. Okay. Let's go a it's a unicorn special. Okay. Let's go a it's a unicorn special. Okay. Let's go a little donk there. But they're trying to little donk there. But they're trying to little donk there. But they're trying to replace themselves with a unicorn. But replace themselves with a unicorn. But replace themselves with a unicorn. But there are no unicorns. And we know this.

there are no unicorns. And we know this. there are no unicorns. And we know this. And so they go through interview and And so they go through interview and And so they go through interview and interview and then they never find interview and then they never find interview and then they never find anybody because they can't find a anybody because they can't find a anybody because they can't find a unicorn. But if you're like, "How do I unicorn. But if you're like, "How do I unicorn. But if you're like, "How do I find an animal that's got a horn?" Well, find an animal that's got a horn?" Well, find an animal that's got a horn?" Well, you could go find a rhino. Okay, I've you could go find a rhino. Okay, I've you could go find a rhino. Okay, I've got a rhino. They've got the horn. It's got a rhino. They've got the horn. It's got a rhino. They've got the horn. It's like, okay, and then I need a horse. like, okay, and then I need a horse. like, okay, and then I need a horse. Well, I can go find a horse and then I Well, I can go find a horse and then I Well, I can go find a horse and then I got to find the sparkle. So, I'll get got to find the sparkle. So, I'll get got to find the sparkle. So, I'll get some fireflies for the sparkle and then some fireflies for the sparkle and then some fireflies for the sparkle and then I'll get a horse for the horse. And so, I'll get a horse for the horse. And so, I'll get a horse for the horse. And so, just like that, instead of saying, "Oh, just like that, instead of saying, "Oh, just like that, instead of saying, "Oh, I someone has to live my exact life and I someone has to live my exact life and I someone has to live my exact life and have gone through the exa exact same have gone through the exa exact same have gone through the exa exact same trial and tribulations to figure out all trial and tribulations to figure out all trial and tribulations to figure out all the unique things that I know." It's the unique things that I know." It's the unique things that I know." It's like, no, like, no, like, no, >> they try to find in one person what they >> they try to find in one person what they >> they try to find in one person what they can more easily find in three. can more easily find in three. can more easily find in three. >> This is relationship advice as well, >> This is relationship advice as well, >> This is relationship advice as well, isn't it? [laughter] isn't it? [laughter] isn't it? [laughter] >> Right. Demanding your your partner uh be >> Right. Demanding your your partner uh be >> Right. Demanding your your partner uh be all things to you, all things to you, all things to you, >> your coach, your uh you know, your guru, >> your coach, your uh you know, your guru, >> your coach, your uh you know, your guru, your therapist, your biggest your therapist, your biggest your therapist, your biggest cheerleader. Yeah, it's exactly that. cheerleader. Yeah, it's exactly that. cheerleader. Yeah, it's exactly that. It's it's just and I think in some ways It's it's just and I think in some ways It's it's just and I think in some ways there's an ego element that I think is there's an ego element that I think is there's an ego element that I think is very reinforcing which is that I'm so very reinforcing which is that I'm so very reinforcing which is that I'm so special, no one can do what I can do. special, no one can do what I can do. special, no one can do what I can do. And I think that's a very attractive lie And I think that's a very attractive lie And I think that's a very attractive lie that we like to believe. that we like to believe. that we like to believe. >> I guess there's also inherent in that um >> I guess there's also inherent in that um >> I guess there's also inherent in that um insecurity and fear that you see in insecurity and fear that you see in insecurity and fear that you see in these early entrepreneurs that if I hire these early entrepreneurs that if I hire these early entrepreneurs that if I hire another person, I now have the another person, I now have the another person, I now have the responsibility of paying them. Right now responsibility of paying them. Right now responsibility of paying them. Right now it's me, it's safe. I can control this.

it's me, it's safe. I can control this. it's me, it's safe. I can control this. Um, but if I bring on other people, Um, but if I bring on other people, Um, but if I bring on other people, they've got mortgages and families. So they've got mortgages and families. So they've got mortgages and families. So now, now it's terrifying. So, a good way now, now it's terrifying. So, a good way now, now it's terrifying. So, a good way to justify my fear to myself is by to justify my fear to myself is by to justify my fear to myself is by saying, "Look, I tried. I can't trust saying, "Look, I tried. I can't trust saying, "Look, I tried. I can't trust anybody. I couldn't find anybody good. anybody. I couldn't find anybody good. anybody. I couldn't find anybody good. >> I guess it's just going to have to be >> I guess it's just going to have to be >> I guess it's just going to have to be me, myself, and I." me, myself, and I." me, myself, and I." >> And I think if that's what you want, >> And I think if that's what you want, >> And I think if that's what you want, like, go for it. Yeah. I just like I I like, go for it. Yeah. I just like I I like, go for it. Yeah. I just like I I think I think there's I think there's think I think there's I think there's think I think there's I think there's going to be a lot more solreers, you going to be a lot more solreers, you going to be a lot more solreers, you know, in the in the coming future. There know, in the in the coming future. There know, in the in the coming future. There already are. I think it's it's a goal already are. I think it's it's a goal already are. I think it's it's a goal question. What do you want? question. What do you want? question. What do you want? >> What mistakes did you make when you >> What mistakes did you make when you >> What mistakes did you make when you started hiring? started hiring? started hiring? >> Oh, my bar wasn't high enough. >> Oh, my bar wasn't high enough. >> Oh, my bar wasn't high enough. >> Okay. I think at the most basic level >> Okay. I think at the most basic level >> Okay. I think at the most basic level like what is the job like if you remove like what is the job like if you remove like what is the job like if you remove everything else what survives and I everything else what survives and I everything else what survives and I think holding the standard survives think holding the standard survives think holding the standard survives because if you're the one responsible because if you're the one responsible because if you're the one responsible then you have to be the one who then you have to be the one who then you have to be the one who determines what is good enough. determines what is good enough. determines what is good enough. >> It's [clears throat] my view that in >> It's [clears throat] my view that in >> It's [clears throat] my view that in every given department the person who's every given department the person who's every given department the person who's highest up should have the highest highest up should have the highest highest up should have the highest standard and if somebody ever gets to a standard and if somebody ever gets to a standard and if somebody ever gets to a point where they have a higher standard point where they have a higher standard point where they have a higher standard for ACU than I do they should run it not for ACU than I do they should run it not for ACU than I do they should run it not me. me. me. >> There should be a button just down below >> There should be a button just down below >> There should be a button just down below here and if it says subscribed you're here and if it says subscribed you're here and if it says subscribed you're already subscribed. If it says already subscribed. If it says already subscribed. If it says subscriber, that means you're not yet.

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Because because the you're being asked? Because because the you're being asked? Because because the world has changed, people are more world has changed, people are more world has changed, people are more interested in personal branding or interested in personal branding or interested in personal branding or business or whatever else. Are people business or whatever else. Are people business or whatever else. Are people asking you new questions? asking you new questions? asking you new questions? >> No, actually, I don't think. Yeah. >> No, actually, I don't think. Yeah. >> No, actually, I don't think. Yeah. >> What are the questions that you get >> What are the questions that you get >> What are the questions that you get asked? I get asked a lot of like, "Hey, asked? I get asked a lot of like, "Hey, asked? I get asked a lot of like, "Hey, I'm thinking about doing this this I'm thinking about doing this this I'm thinking about doing this this thing. What do you think?" I'm thinking thing. What do you think?" I'm thinking thing. What do you think?" I'm thinking about starting this kind of business. about starting this kind of business. about starting this kind of business. I'm thinking about starting a podcast I'm thinking about starting a podcast I'm thinking about starting a podcast agency. What do you think? It doesn't agency. What do you think? It doesn't agency. What do you think? It doesn't matter what I think. [laughter] matter what I think. [laughter] matter what I think. [laughter] I'm like, and so I'll just ask the next I'm like, and so I'll just ask the next I'm like, and so I'll just ask the next question, which is like, well, what have question, which is like, well, what have question, which is like, well, what have you done so far? you done so far? you done so far? >> Why'd you ask that? >> Why'd you ask that? >> Why'd you ask that? >> Well, because the answer nine times out >> Well, because the answer nine times out >> Well, because the answer nine times out of 10 is, well, I mean, I haven't I was of 10 is, well, I mean, I haven't I was of 10 is, well, I mean, I haven't I was just thinking about it. I'm like, okay, just thinking about it. I'm like, okay, just thinking about it. I'm like, okay, well then nothing's happened. what's well then nothing's happened. what's well then nothing's happened. what's going on there with those people that going on there with those people that going on there with those people that come up to you and they say they're come up to you and they say they're come up to you and they say they're thinking about something but they thinking about something but they thinking about something but they haven't done anything about it. haven't done anything about it. haven't done anything about it. >> I'm guessing that they want to talk to >> I'm guessing that they want to talk to >> I'm guessing that they want to talk to me about business stuff and so this is me about business stuff and so this is me about business stuff and so this is the only business related thing that the only business related thing that the only business related thing that they can talk about and so that's they can talk about and so that's they can talk about and so that's probably why they talk about it or they probably why they talk about it or they probably why they talk about it or they bring it up. Um or they want to feel bring it up. Um or they want to feel bring it up. Um or they want to feel like in some ways it's kind of like like in some ways it's kind of like like in some ways it's kind of like procrastive procrastination or that I'm procrastive procrastination or that I'm procrastive procrastination or that I'm going to somehow give them one answer going to somehow give them one answer going to somehow give them one answer that's going to like finally get them that's going to like finally get them that's going to like finally get them over the hump of starting. But most over the hump of starting. But most over the hump of starting. But most people start because one starting feels people start because one starting feels people start because one starting feels like this very amorphous thing when when like this very amorphous thing when when like this very amorphous thing when when like like like I was about to say like has there ever I was about to say like has there ever I was about to say like has there ever been something that you don't know how been something that you don't know how been something that you don't know how to do?

to do? to do? Well, whenever I approach something that Well, whenever I approach something that Well, whenever I approach something that I don't know how to do, it always feels I don't know how to do, it always feels I don't know how to do, it always feels amorphous. It's like this big thing and amorphous. It's like this big thing and amorphous. It's like this big thing and I don't know where to start. Like how do I don't know where to start. Like how do I don't know where to start. Like how do like how do I grab onto a piece of it? like how do I grab onto a piece of it? like how do I grab onto a piece of it? And so having gone and attacked like And so having gone and attacked like And so having gone and attacked like these amorphous things like start a these amorphous things like start a these amorphous things like start a business which actually means nothing. business which actually means nothing. business which actually means nothing. You have to break things down to much You have to break things down to much You have to break things down to much smaller steps of action. That's why for smaller steps of action. That's why for smaller steps of action. That's why for me the most basic thing to start a me the most basic thing to start a me the most basic thing to start a business is like get an LLC, business is like get an LLC, business is like get an LLC, [clears throat] [clears throat] [clears throat] >> open a bank account, have the ability to >> open a bank account, have the ability to >> open a bank account, have the ability to process money, and then ask a stranger process money, and then ask a stranger process money, and then ask a stranger if you can do something for them in if you can do something for them in if you can do something for them in exchange for money. As soon as you do exchange for money. As soon as you do exchange for money. As soon as you do those four things, congratulations, those four things, congratulations, those four things, congratulations, you're a business owner. You've already you're a business owner. You've already you're a business owner. You've already beaten like 95% of people who and you've beaten like 95% of people who and you've beaten like 95% of people who and you've also changed your title from also changed your title from also changed your title from entrepreneur to entrepreneur. And I entrepreneur to entrepreneur. And I entrepreneur to entrepreneur. And I think that is one of the most mo just think that is one of the most mo just think that is one of the most mo just like um when when a customer buys from like um when when a customer buys from like um when when a customer buys from you versus just consuming your free you versus just consuming your free you versus just consuming your free stuff, their identity completely stuff, their identity completely stuff, their identity completely changes. They're now a customer which changes. They're now a customer which changes. They're now a customer which means they're far more likely to means they're far more likely to means they're far more likely to purchase uh future things from you than purchase uh future things from you than purchase uh future things from you than somebody who's not bought something. somebody who's not bought something. somebody who's not bought something. That's why you know ascensions and That's why you know ascensions and That's why you know ascensions and renewals are much easier than getting renewals are much easier than getting renewals are much easier than getting somebody to buy the first time, right? somebody to buy the first time, right? somebody to buy the first time, right? And so I think to the same degree for us And so I think to the same degree for us And so I think to the same degree for us as entrepreneurs or people who aspire to as entrepreneurs or people who aspire to as entrepreneurs or people who aspire to be an entrepreneur, it's like go make be an entrepreneur, it's like go make be an entrepreneur, it's like go make the first dollar and then as soon as you the first dollar and then as soon as you the first dollar and then as soon as you have that taste of like oh this isn't I have that taste of like oh this isn't I have that taste of like oh this isn't I I actually grabbed the corner of this I actually grabbed the corner of this I actually grabbed the corner of this thing. I I I understand. And I just got thing. I I I understand. And I just got thing. I I I understand. And I just got to get them to give me money to do to get them to give me money to do to get them to give me money to do something.

something. something. >> Or I can build something and then have >> Or I can build something and then have >> Or I can build something and then have them buy it from me and then I have to them buy it from me and then I have to them buy it from me and then I have to figure out how to build more of them, figure out how to build more of them, figure out how to build more of them, right? If it's a thing. But like that's right? If it's a thing. But like that's right? If it's a thing. But like that's it at the most basic level. And it at the most basic level. And it at the most basic level. And everything else is just is is confusion. everything else is just is is confusion. everything else is just is is confusion. If you could go back to the starting If you could go back to the starting If you could go back to the starting blocks and whisper something in Alex's blocks and whisper something in Alex's blocks and whisper something in Alex's ear when he was starting up advice that ear when he was starting up advice that ear when he was starting up advice that would have made the journey easier, more would have made the journey easier, more would have made the journey easier, more profitable, whatever. What is what are profitable, whatever. What is what are profitable, whatever. What is what are the sort of layers of advice you would the sort of layers of advice you would the sort of layers of advice you would have given him at this as starting have given him at this as starting have given him at this as starting blocks? [sighs and gasps] blocks? [sighs and gasps] blocks? [sighs and gasps] >> So I've actually thought about this a >> So I've actually thought about this a >> So I've actually thought about this a lot. If I went back in time and I saw an lot. If I went back in time and I saw an lot. If I went back in time and I saw an older version of myself, if he appeared older version of myself, if he appeared older version of myself, if he appeared in this room right now, let's say 20 in this room right now, let's say 20 in this room right now, let's say 20 years from now, is looking at me, years from now, is looking at me, years from now, is looking at me, my hope is that he would say nothing my hope is that he would say nothing my hope is that he would say nothing because it would mean that it worked. because it would mean that it worked. because it would mean that it worked. Now, if I if I was going back and let's Now, if I if I was going back and let's Now, if I if I was going back and let's say that I I I hadn't taken the step and say that I I I hadn't taken the step and say that I I I hadn't taken the step and I hadn't been able to to make the jump, I hadn't been able to to make the jump, I hadn't been able to to make the jump, what I say in that instance um what I say in that instance um what I say in that instance um is you have to decide whether you care is you have to decide whether you care is you have to decide whether you care more about your future than what other more about your future than what other more about your future than what other people think about your future. people think about your future. people think about your future. Someone's version of you has to die. Someone's version of you has to die. Someone's version of you has to die. It's either your desired version of you It's either your desired version of you It's either your desired version of you or someone else's desired version of or someone else's desired version of or someone else's desired version of you. And the thing is you're going to be you. And the thing is you're going to be you. And the thing is you're going to be with you a lot longer than they are. I with you a lot longer than they are. I with you a lot longer than they are. I think everything in the very beginning think everything in the very beginning think everything in the very beginning of entrepreneurship comes down to one of entrepreneurship comes down to one of entrepreneurship comes down to one thing which is fear and justified. It's thing which is fear and justified. It's thing which is fear and justified. It's it makes sense to be afraid. Like it makes sense to be afraid. Like it makes sense to be afraid. Like there's a lot of risk. There's a ton of there's a lot of risk. There's a ton of there's a lot of risk. There's a ton of unknown. There's so much stuff that you unknown. There's so much stuff that you unknown. There's so much stuff that you don't know. But the only thing I can don't know. But the only thing I can don't know. But the only thing I can also say is that it also puts you in the also say is that it also puts you in the also say is that it also puts you in the exact same position as every other exact same position as every other exact same position as every other person who started entrepreneurship.

person who started entrepreneurship. person who started entrepreneurship. They didn't know. And the only way to They didn't know. And the only way to They didn't know. And the only way to know is to start. and to have faith that know is to start. and to have faith that know is to start. and to have faith that you will not know the way up the you will not know the way up the you will not know the way up the mountain, but as you walk up the mountain, but as you walk up the mountain, but as you walk up the mountain, the fog starts to clear. And mountain, the fog starts to clear. And mountain, the fog starts to clear. And the fog will always be there, but you'll the fog will always be there, but you'll the fog will always be there, but you'll always be able to see the couple steps always be able to see the couple steps always be able to see the couple steps in front of you. And so, your in front of you. And so, your in front of you. And so, your responsibility is to only take the steps responsibility is to only take the steps responsibility is to only take the steps that you can see in front of you. That that you can see in front of you. That that you can see in front of you. That is it. And then once you take those is it. And then once you take those is it. And then once you take those steps, the next steps will become clear. steps, the next steps will become clear. steps, the next steps will become clear. And I think that's where there's an And I think that's where there's an And I think that's where there's an obsession with knowing the entirety. And obsession with knowing the entirety. And obsession with knowing the entirety. And and it's because we want certainty. We and it's because we want certainty. We and it's because we want certainty. We want to know that if we do all of these want to know that if we do all of these want to know that if we do all of these things, it's going to work. And you things, it's going to work. And you things, it's going to work. And you don't. You want certainty from a world don't. You want certainty from a world don't. You want certainty from a world that will give you none. And if you were that will give you none. And if you were that will give you none. And if you were uncomfortable with that, uncomfortable with that, uncomfortable with that, entrepreneurship might not be for real. entrepreneurship might not be for real. entrepreneurship might not be for real. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> But I I even say that and I almost I >> But I I even say that and I almost I >> But I I even say that and I almost I almost I almost regret saying that almost I almost regret saying that almost I almost regret saying that because I was so riskaverse when I because I was so riskaverse when I because I was so riskaverse when I started like people see the content now started like people see the content now started like people see the content now or they see you now and you're so or they see you now and you're so or they see you now and you're so confident and and great on podcast and confident and and great on podcast and confident and and great on podcast and like but I'm sure the first podcast you like but I'm sure the first podcast you like but I'm sure the first podcast you did, you like look at it and you just did, you like look at it and you just did, you like look at it and you just absolutely cringe, right? I had a video absolutely cringe, right? I had a video absolutely cringe, right? I had a video that I put out that was like the first that I put out that was like the first that I put out that was like the first content that I made that I was like content that I made that I was like content that I made that I was like reacting to my own first content and reacting to my own first content and reacting to my own first content and it's horrendous. It's horrible. But the it's horrendous. It's horrible. But the it's horrendous. It's horrible. But the thing is is that you have to be willing thing is is that you have to be willing thing is is that you have to be willing to be cringe.

to be cringe. to be cringe. >> You must embrace cringes. You will not >> You must embrace cringes. You will not >> You must embrace cringes. You will not be cool. It will not look good. You will be cool. It will not look good. You will be cool. It will not look good. You will suck and everyone will know you suck and suck and everyone will know you suck and suck and everyone will know you suck and you will know you suck. you will know you suck. you will know you suck. >> But again, it's do I care more about >> But again, it's do I care more about >> But again, it's do I care more about their version of me or my version of me? their version of me or my version of me? their version of me or my version of me? And am I willing to be a work in And am I willing to be a work in And am I willing to be a work in progress or am I unwilling to do it progress or am I unwilling to do it progress or am I unwilling to do it because I want to keep my current because I want to keep my current because I want to keep my current station in life? But the thing is is station in life? But the thing is is station in life? But the thing is is that you're at a local maximum and that you're at a local maximum and that you're at a local maximum and there's a desire in you probably if I'm there's a desire in you probably if I'm there's a desire in you probably if I'm talking to my younger self to be at a talking to my younger self to be at a talking to my younger self to be at a higher maximum than I am right now. feel higher maximum than I am right now. feel higher maximum than I am right now. feel like I'm capable of doing more, but I'm like I'm capable of doing more, but I'm like I'm capable of doing more, but I'm so afraid of risking this tiny little so afraid of risking this tiny little so afraid of risking this tiny little bit that I've built for myself. But the bit that I've built for myself. But the bit that I've built for myself. But the the the reality is that the only the the reality is that the only the the reality is that the only guarantee that you have of all the paths guarantee that you have of all the paths guarantee that you have of all the paths in front of you is that you stay on the in front of you is that you stay on the in front of you is that you stay on the current path, you will not get what you current path, you will not get what you current path, you will not get what you want. want. want. >> Mhm. >> Mhm. >> Mhm. >> So there is a chance that you get what >> So there is a chance that you get what >> So there is a chance that you get what you want if you move, but there is zero you want if you move, but there is zero you want if you move, but there is zero chance if you stay. And I think those chance if you stay. And I think those chance if you stay. And I think those were some of the thought processes that were some of the thought processes that were some of the thought processes that actually got me to take action was actually got me to take action was actually got me to take action was knowing that I for sure guaranteed 100% knowing that I for sure guaranteed 100% knowing that I for sure guaranteed 100% would be dissatisfied with my life if I would be dissatisfied with my life if I would be dissatisfied with my life if I had not taken the shot. and then playing had not taken the shot. and then playing had not taken the shot. and then playing out plan B with excruciating detail. And out plan B with excruciating detail. And out plan B with excruciating detail. And I think that's also one of the big ones I think that's also one of the big ones I think that's also one of the big ones for fear is that like fear only exists for fear is that like fear only exists for fear is that like fear only exists in the vague, never in the specific.

in the vague, never in the specific. in the vague, never in the specific. Also, so does confusion, right? So the Also, so does confusion, right? So the Also, so does confusion, right? So the fear is I'm going to do this thing and fear is I'm going to do this thing and fear is I'm going to do this thing and I'm going to fail. Fail's not specific. I'm going to fail. Fail's not specific. I'm going to fail. Fail's not specific. And I'm and then everyone's going to And I'm and then everyone's going to And I'm and then everyone's going to hate me and then eventually I'm going to hate me and then eventually I'm going to hate me and then eventually I'm going to get ostracized and die. Like we get ostracized and die. Like we get ostracized and die. Like we catastrophize everything because we're catastrophize everything because we're catastrophize everything because we're evolutionary beings, right? We're we're evolutionary beings, right? We're we're evolutionary beings, right? We're we're we're mammals. But if you really think we're mammals. But if you really think we're mammals. But if you really think what does failure like what does failure what does failure like what does failure what does failure like what does failure even mean? I I I ask someone to buy and even mean? I I I ask someone to buy and even mean? I I I ask someone to buy and they say no. Is that failure? What if I they say no. Is that failure? What if I they say no. Is that failure? What if I ask another person? What if I ask a 100 ask another person? What if I ask a 100 ask another person? What if I ask a 100 people? Okay. Well, what if I ask 100 people? Okay. Well, what if I ask 100 people? Okay. Well, what if I ask 100 people, all 100 people say no? Am I people, all 100 people say no? Am I people, all 100 people say no? Am I allowed to change what I'm what I'm allowed to change what I'm what I'm allowed to change what I'm what I'm offering? Yes. Okay. So, you get another offering? Yes. Okay. So, you get another offering? Yes. Okay. So, you get another 100 people and maybe one of them says 100 people and maybe one of them says 100 people and maybe one of them says yes. Okay. But even in that period of yes. Okay. But even in that period of yes. Okay. But even in that period of time where you had the hundred people time where you had the hundred people time where you had the hundred people who all said no to you and let's say you who all said no to you and let's say you who all said no to you and let's say you quit your job and so you have no income. quit your job and so you have no income. quit your job and so you have no income. Okay. What are what are the options Okay. What are what are the options Okay. What are what are the options available to you? Can you talk can you available to you? Can you talk can you available to you? Can you talk can you go and sleep on a friend's couch? Can go and sleep on a friend's couch? Can go and sleep on a friend's couch? Can you go back home with your tail between you go back home with your tail between you go back home with your tail between your legs? Well, it's only till between your legs? Well, it's only till between your legs? Well, it's only till between your legs if you stop trying. If you go your legs if you stop trying. If you go your legs if you stop trying. If you go home and say, "Mom and dad, I want to home and say, "Mom and dad, I want to home and say, "Mom and dad, I want to save up some capital so that I can I can save up some capital so that I can I can save up some capital so that I can I can extend my runway so that I can go after extend my runway so that I can go after extend my runway so that I can go after this big goal. Mom and dad might be this big goal. Mom and dad might be this big goal. Mom and dad might be cool. It might be friends. It might be cool. It might be friends. It might be cool. It might be friends. It might be or maybe 10 friends going together." And or maybe 10 friends going together." And or maybe 10 friends going together." And and because I split a bedroom, and because I split a bedroom, and because I split a bedroom, >> so I had a house with six people in it.

>> so I had a house with six people in it. >> so I had a house with six people in it. Um and I split one of the bedrooms with Um and I split one of the bedrooms with Um and I split one of the bedrooms with another guy. I paid 400 bucks a month another guy. I paid 400 bucks a month another guy. I paid 400 bucks a month and I had a mattress on the floor and I and I had a mattress on the floor and I and I had a mattress on the floor and I was never there. But it was just like I was never there. But it was just like I was never there. But it was just like I tried to keep my living expenses as low tried to keep my living expenses as low tried to keep my living expenses as low as possible. And I think one of the big as possible. And I think one of the big as possible. And I think one of the big ones especially is that um people are ones especially is that um people are ones especially is that um people are unwilling to sacrifice their short-term unwilling to sacrifice their short-term unwilling to sacrifice their short-term lifestyle and appearances in order to lifestyle and appearances in order to lifestyle and appearances in order to achieve their long-term goal. And so achieve their long-term goal. And so achieve their long-term goal. And so they're handcuffed to their lifestyle. they're handcuffed to their lifestyle. they're handcuffed to their lifestyle. >> And [clears throat] so you'd be >> And [clears throat] so you'd be >> And [clears throat] so you'd be astonished at how little you can astonished at how little you can astonished at how little you can actually live on if you try to live on actually live on if you try to live on actually live on if you try to live on little. little. little. >> This goes to back to the long-term >> This goes to back to the long-term >> This goes to back to the long-term thinking argument as well, which is like thinking argument as well, which is like thinking argument as well, which is like if you think about your status in 10 if you think about your status in 10 if you think about your status in 10 years versus today. years versus today. years versus today. >> Yes. And I'm I'm willing to take this >> Yes. And I'm I'm willing to take this >> Yes. And I'm I'm willing to take this dip. dip. dip. One of the things you said was really One of the things you said was really One of the things you said was really interesting and I it dawned on me that interesting and I it dawned on me that interesting and I it dawned on me that most people might not realize this about most people might not realize this about most people might not realize this about people like you, which is that you said people like you, which is that you said people like you, which is that you said there's uncertainty all the way up. Now, there's uncertainty all the way up. Now, there's uncertainty all the way up. Now, I imagine imagine an 18-year-old I imagine imagine an 18-year-old I imagine imagine an 18-year-old entrepreneur listening to Alex Mosi. entrepreneur listening to Alex Mosi. entrepreneur listening to Alex Mosi. They're going to be thinking, "Oh, he's They're going to be thinking, "Oh, he's They're going to be thinking, "Oh, he's got everything figured out all the way got everything figured out all the way got everything figured out all the way up." And he's no longer living with up." And he's no longer living with up." And he's no longer living with uncertainty, fear, confusion, ambiguity. uncertainty, fear, confusion, ambiguity. uncertainty, fear, confusion, ambiguity. He's no longer having to think hard He's no longer having to think hard He's no longer having to think hard about how to solve a problem because about how to solve a problem because about how to solve a problem because he's got all the answers. But actually, he's got all the answers. But actually, he's got all the answers. But actually, as you described it, in my head, I I as you described it, in my head, I I as you described it, in my head, I I imagined all of these this sequence of imagined all of these this sequence of imagined all of these this sequence of almost neverending doors that all just almost neverending doors that all just almost neverending doors that all just have a cryptic message on on them. And have a cryptic message on on them. And have a cryptic message on on them. And you imagine you go through one door and you imagine you go through one door and you imagine you go through one door and there's 10 more and they all [laughter] there's 10 more and they all [laughter] there's 10 more and they all [laughter] have you go through one, okay, this was have you go through one, okay, this was have you go through one, okay, this was the right one. And then there's 10 new the right one. And then there's 10 new the right one. And then there's 10 new ones that all have a vague language on ones that all have a vague language on ones that all have a vague language on them. And you've got to pick which one them. And you've got to pick which one them. And you've got to pick which one to go through next. You go through, to go through next. You go through, to go through next. You go through, okay, you bounced off that one.

okay, you bounced off that one. okay, you bounced off that one. you took an L. Lost some money. You go you took an L. Lost some money. You go you took an L. Lost some money. You go through another one. Okay, this was the through another one. Okay, this was the through another one. Okay, this was the right one. And then there's 20. right one. And then there's 20. right one. And then there's 20. [laughter] actually your optionality is [laughter] actually your optionality is [laughter] actually your optionality is increasing with the more success you increasing with the more success you increasing with the more success you have. So there's more doors and more have. So there's more doors and more have. So there's more doors and more decisions to make, more uncertainty, decisions to make, more uncertainty, decisions to make, more uncertainty, which most people don't realize. But which most people don't realize. But which most people don't realize. But actually, as you were saying, I was actually, as you were saying, I was actually, as you were saying, I was thinking, "Fuck, this is exactly what thinking, "Fuck, this is exactly what thinking, "Fuck, this is exactly what I'm going through now." Like I I was up I'm going through now." Like I I was up I'm going through now." Like I I was up till the early hours of the morning with till the early hours of the morning with till the early hours of the morning with one of my colleagues yesterday night and one of my colleagues yesterday night and one of my colleagues yesterday night and we're just figuring out which door to we're just figuring out which door to we're just figuring out which door to walk through. So this is really walk through. So this is really walk through. So this is really interesting because the earlier you are interesting because the earlier you are interesting because the earlier you are in your journey, the more specific the in your journey, the more specific the in your journey, the more specific the advice is because if you do not have a advice is because if you do not have a advice is because if you do not have a business, the first step is the same for business, the first step is the same for business, the first step is the same for everyone which is you must start an everyone which is you must start an everyone which is you must start an entity and then you have to have a bank entity and then you have to have a bank entity and then you have to have a bank account so that you can exchange money account so that you can exchange money account so that you can exchange money and you have to have a a way or manner and you have to have a a way or manner and you have to have a a way or manner of collecting that cash. Now of course of collecting that cash. Now of course of collecting that cash. Now of course you could have cash business but I would you could have cash business but I would you could have cash business but I would say most people use credit cards now. So say most people use credit cards now. So say most people use credit cards now. So you have a processor, a bank account and you have a processor, a bank account and you have a processor, a bank account and an entity. an entity. an entity. >> It doesn't matter what business you >> It doesn't matter what business you >> It doesn't matter what business you start that is the first step. Now, as start that is the first step. Now, as start that is the first step. Now, as the business grows, you have more the business grows, you have more the business grows, you have more resources. The the nature of the resources. The the nature of the resources. The the nature of the business is different. And so, the business is different. And so, the business is different. And so, the number of doors that are ahead of you number of doors that are ahead of you number of doors that are ahead of you are actually multiplied by a huge are actually multiplied by a huge are actually multiplied by a huge factor. factor. factor. >> And so, right now, it's actually never >> And so, right now, it's actually never >> And so, right now, it's actually never easier to know what to do than when you easier to know what to do than when you easier to know what to do than when you start. And so, it has nothing to do with start. And so, it has nothing to do with start. And so, it has nothing to do with you not knowing. Of course, you know, I you not knowing. Of course, you know, I you not knowing. Of course, you know, I just we just said it.

just we just said it. just we just said it. >> It's everything to figure out why you're >> It's everything to figure out why you're >> It's everything to figure out why you're not doing it. and more specifically not doing it. and more specifically not doing it. and more specifically whose voice you're listening to that is whose voice you're listening to that is whose voice you're listening to that is not yours that you are afraid of not yours that you are afraid of not yours that you are afraid of disappointing or afraid of their disappointing or afraid of their disappointing or afraid of their judgment. And if you can identify that judgment. And if you can identify that judgment. And if you can identify that voice cuz and you actually put a name on voice cuz and you actually put a name on voice cuz and you actually put a name on it, it's not like, oh, what are people it, it's not like, oh, what are people it, it's not like, oh, what are people going to think? It's not people. It's going to think? It's not people. It's going to think? It's not people. It's probably like two people. And if you probably like two people. And if you probably like two people. And if you name, you're like, oh, it's just James name, you're like, oh, it's just James name, you're like, oh, it's just James and Betty. and Betty. and Betty. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> So, this is really real. So, one, when I >> So, this is really real. So, one, when I >> So, this is really real. So, one, when I was about to sell Gym Lodge, I really I was about to sell Gym Lodge, I really I was about to sell Gym Lodge, I really I it was actually a very hard decision for it was actually a very hard decision for it was actually a very hard decision for me. Super hard. Um, and when I exited, me. Super hard. Um, and when I exited, me. Super hard. Um, and when I exited, one of the reasons I almost didn't exit one of the reasons I almost didn't exit one of the reasons I almost didn't exit was because there was somebody that I was because there was somebody that I was because there was somebody that I knew in my circle, not even like a super knew in my circle, not even like a super knew in my circle, not even like a super close friend, that I realized when I got close friend, that I realized when I got close friend, that I realized when I got really clear on whose voice I cared really clear on whose voice I cared really clear on whose voice I cared about, I thought that they didn't think about, I thought that they didn't think about, I thought that they didn't think that $46 million was enough money, that that $46 million was enough money, that that $46 million was enough money, that they wouldn't think it was legit. they wouldn't think it was legit. they wouldn't think it was legit. [laughter] I'm dead serious. >> Funny to hear. [laughter] >> Funny to hear. [laughter] >> He's not going to think he's not going >> He's not going to think he's not going >> He's not going to think he's not going to think I'm legit. It was only when I to think I'm legit. It was only when I to think I'm legit. It was only when I was like, am I going to not do this and was like, am I going to not do this and was like, am I going to not do this and let him control me? Cuz that's what it let him control me? Cuz that's what it let him control me? Cuz that's what it is. They control you.

is. They control you. is. They control you. >> And I think when you say it in those >> And I think when you say it in those >> And I think when you say it in those terms, it feels like much heavier, like terms, it feels like much heavier, like terms, it feels like much heavier, like I'm letting my mom or my uncle or my I'm letting my mom or my uncle or my I'm letting my mom or my uncle or my brother or the the coworker John control brother or the the coworker John control brother or the the coworker John control me me me >> because I that's how much I care about >> because I that's how much I care about >> because I that's how much I care about this guy's approval. I care I have to this guy's approval. I care I have to this guy's approval. I care I have to care about my approval more. care about my approval more. care about my approval more. >> I want to say say this in more detail >> I want to say say this in more detail >> I want to say say this in more detail because I think it's it's important. The because I think it's it's important. The because I think it's it's important. The person that you see in front of you is person that you see in front of you is person that you see in front of you is not the person who who took the leap to not the person who who took the leap to not the person who who took the leap to start the business. I belabored that start the business. I belabored that start the business. I belabored that decision decision decision for 6 months. I had almost like a for 6 months. I had almost like a for 6 months. I had almost like a pre-anned answer and people were like, pre-anned answer and people were like, pre-anned answer and people were like, "Oh, so what do you do with your "Oh, so what do you do with your "Oh, so what do you do with your career?" Oh, you know, I'm consultant career?" Oh, you know, I'm consultant career?" Oh, you know, I'm consultant like to do a business school and then like to do a business school and then like to do a business school and then someday start my own business. It was someday start my own business. It was someday start my own business. It was like I I could say it in my sleep, but like I I could say it in my sleep, but like I I could say it in my sleep, but the someday start my own business. When the someday start my own business. When the someday start my own business. When I tried to think a little bit more first I tried to think a little bit more first I tried to think a little bit more first principles, I was like, "Okay, well, in principles, I was like, "Okay, well, in principles, I was like, "Okay, well, in what way is this business school going what way is this business school going what way is this business school going to help me start a business?" And when I to help me start a business?" And when I to help me start a business?" And when I looked at the starting salaries of looked at the starting salaries of looked at the starting salaries of business school, it was like $120,000 a business school, it was like $120,000 a business school, it was like $120,000 a year after you went to a good business year after you went to a good business year after you went to a good business school. And I thought to myself, well, school. And I thought to myself, well, school. And I thought to myself, well, it cost me $60,000 a year and I can't it cost me $60,000 a year and I can't it cost me $60,000 a year and I can't make money during that period. So I'm make money during that period. So I'm make money during that period. So I'm going to lose$120 for sure and at the going to lose$120 for sure and at the going to lose$120 for sure and at the time I was making $50 $60,000 a year. time I was making $50 $60,000 a year. time I was making $50 $60,000 a year. And so I was like, so it's $240,000 is And so I was like, so it's $240,000 is And so I was like, so it's $240,000 is my call it my opportunity cost in two my call it my opportunity cost in two my call it my opportunity cost in two years. Do I think that I can take the years. Do I think that I can take the years. Do I think that I can take the money that I had saved up and in two money that I had saved up and in two money that I had saved up and in two years get to $10,000 a month? I was years get to $10,000 a month? I was years get to $10,000 a month? I was like, I think I can do it. And so that like, I think I can do it. And so that like, I think I can do it. And so that was part of the reason that I ended up was part of the reason that I ended up was part of the reason that I ended up not going to business school and it was not going to business school and it was not going to business school and it was because of a question on the business because of a question on the business because of a question on the business school test was how will a Booth MBA school test was how will a Booth MBA school test was how will a Booth MBA help a short and long-term goals? And I help a short and long-term goals? And I help a short and long-term goals? And I just sat there for three days trying to just sat there for three days trying to just sat there for three days trying to answer it and I realized I was like I answer it and I realized I was like I answer it and I realized I was like I don't know if it will help my long term.

don't know if it will help my long term. don't know if it will help my long term. >> Interesting. >> Interesting. >> Interesting. >> So I mean it's good that they have those >> So I mean it's good that they have those >> So I mean it's good that they have those questions because they actually forced questions because they actually forced questions because they actually forced me to answer it. Now back to the the six me to answer it. Now back to the the six me to answer it. Now back to the the six months I read I I was probably reading months I read I I was probably reading months I read I I was probably reading no joke a book every two days cuz I the no joke a book every two days cuz I the no joke a book every two days cuz I the job that I had had high seasons and low job that I had had high seasons and low job that I had had high seasons and low seasons. And during low seasons I seasons. And during low seasons I seasons. And during low seasons I basically just read books and they were basically just read books and they were basically just read books and they were almost all self-help books. And I got to almost all self-help books. And I got to almost all self-help books. And I got to this point after reading however many of this point after reading however many of this point after reading however many of them that I looked back at my life and them that I looked back at my life and them that I looked back at my life and realized it was exactly the same. And I realized it was exactly the same. And I realized it was exactly the same. And I thought, "Oh, if I don't do anything, my thought, "Oh, if I don't do anything, my thought, "Oh, if I don't do anything, my life's not going to change." And so I life's not going to change." And so I life's not going to change." And so I had this idea that if I just keep had this idea that if I just keep had this idea that if I just keep reading these books, somehow my life was reading these books, somehow my life was reading these books, somehow my life was just going to change. And that was like just going to change. And that was like just going to change. And that was like one of the realizations that I had. I one of the realizations that I had. I one of the realizations that I had. I had a friend who was also in a white had a friend who was also in a white had a friend who was also in a white collar, you know, job like I was. And collar, you know, job like I was. And collar, you know, job like I was. And every night we'd probably get on the every night we'd probably get on the every night we'd probably get on the phone for 2 to three hours and talk phone for 2 to three hours and talk phone for 2 to three hours and talk about how we were going to start a about how we were going to start a about how we were going to start a business. And I had this I had this this business. And I had this I had this this business. And I had this I had this this IKEA carpet that I bought that was a a IKEA carpet that I bought that was a a IKEA carpet that I bought that was a a cowhide carpet. And the spot where I'd cowhide carpet. And the spot where I'd cowhide carpet. And the spot where I'd walk back and forth was like worn out on walk back and forth was like worn out on walk back and forth was like worn out on the cowh high because of how much I the cowh high because of how much I the cowh high because of how much I would just pace in my small uh flat just would just pace in my small uh flat just would just pace in my small uh flat just going back and forth just talking about going back and forth just talking about going back and forth just talking about the ideas that I had to start a the ideas that I had to start a the ideas that I had to start a business. Every time I wanted to start business. Every time I wanted to start business. Every time I wanted to start it, I would tell my dad I want to start it, I would tell my dad I want to start it, I would tell my dad I want to start the business and he he would be like, the business and he he would be like, the business and he he would be like, "Let's let's not be unreasonable here."

"Let's let's not be unreasonable here." "Let's let's not be unreasonable here." He's like, "You've got a good job." He's He's like, "You've got a good job." He's He's like, "You've got a good job." He's like, "You're following the plan. You like, "You're following the plan. You like, "You're following the plan. You did Vanderbilt in three years. You had did Vanderbilt in three years. You had did Vanderbilt in three years. You had good grades. You got you were going to good grades. You got you were going to good grades. You got you were going to do two years here. Then you go to one of do two years here. Then you go to one of do two years here. Then you go to one of the top IV, you know, NBA schools. Like the top IV, you know, NBA schools. Like the top IV, you know, NBA schools. Like it's you're good. Don't like this is it's you're good. Don't like this is it's you're good. Don't like this is part of it. This is part of it. Right? part of it. This is part of it. Right? part of it. This is part of it. Right? >> I acted with such cowardice that I had >> I acted with such cowardice that I had >> I acted with such cowardice that I had to I had to drive halfway across the to I had to drive halfway across the to I had to drive halfway across the country before I could call my dad to country before I could call my dad to country before I could call my dad to tell him that I that I had quit my job tell him that I that I had quit my job tell him that I that I had quit my job and that I was going to start a business and that I was going to start a business and that I was going to start a business because I knew that if I had done it because I knew that if I had done it because I knew that if I had done it while he was there, he would talk me out while he was there, he would talk me out while he was there, he would talk me out of it because he had already talked me of it because he had already talked me of it because he had already talked me out of it a bunch of times. out of it a bunch of times. out of it a bunch of times. >> Why was he doing that? I I learned a >> Why was he doing that? I I learned a >> Why was he doing that? I I learned a little bit about his background over the little bit about his background over the little bit about his background over the last couple of days. I've got some last couple of days. I've got some last couple of days. I've got some photos. I mean, photos. I mean, photos. I mean, >> ah that's right. Dear G. >> ah that's right. Dear G. >> ah that's right. Dear G. >> And I think there's context in his own >> And I think there's context in his own >> And I think there's context in his own story which story which story which >> completes the picture. >> completes the picture. >> completes the picture. >> So whatever people see of my success I >> So whatever people see of my success I >> So whatever people see of my success I think in a lot of ways what my dad think in a lot of ways what my dad think in a lot of ways what my dad accomplished the more I think about it accomplished the more I think about it accomplished the more I think about it is bigger. My dad fled during the is bigger. My dad fled during the is bigger. My dad fled during the Iranian uh revolution right and then he Iranian uh revolution right and then he Iranian uh revolution right and then he went to go to uh France to become a went to go to uh France to become a went to go to uh France to become a doctor but he didn't speak French. And doctor but he didn't speak French. And doctor but he didn't speak French. And so he had to go try to go into medical so he had to go try to go into medical so he had to go try to go into medical school and take Orgo in a language that school and take Orgo in a language that school and take Orgo in a language that he didn't understand. And so he failed he didn't understand. And so he failed he didn't understand. And so he failed two years in a row. His brother was two years in a row. His brother was two years in a row. His brother was like, "Go to Belgium, start fresh, go to like, "Go to Belgium, start fresh, go to like, "Go to Belgium, start fresh, go to a new place." And so he ended up uh a new place." And so he ended up uh a new place." And so he ended up uh getting all the way through medical getting all the way through medical getting all the way through medical school. And then he met my mother in school. And then he met my mother in school. And then he met my mother in medical school and then they came back medical school and then they came back medical school and then they came back to the US. Now his medical degree didn't to the US. Now his medical degree didn't to the US. Now his medical degree didn't transfer to the US. And so he had to get transfer to the US. And so he had to get transfer to the US. And so he had to get a US fellowship in order a residency or a US fellowship in order a residency or a US fellowship in order a residency or whatever. But no one would take a Middle whatever. But no one would take a Middle whatever. But no one would take a Middle Eastern guy who had a super thick accent Eastern guy who had a super thick accent Eastern guy who had a super thick accent who was fresh out of medical school and who was fresh out of medical school and who was fresh out of medical school and there was all these US-based people

there was all these US-based people there was all these US-based people here. And so for two years he ran X-ray here. And so for two years he ran X-ray here. And so for two years he ran X-ray slides. He finally gets a residency and slides. He finally gets a residency and slides. He finally gets a residency and then he decides when he comes back to then he decides when he comes back to then he decides when he comes back to Baltimore, which is where my where where Baltimore, which is where my where where Baltimore, which is where my where where I'm from, that he's going to instead of I'm from, that he's going to instead of I'm from, that he's going to instead of join the practice that my mother had join the practice that my mother had join the practice that my mother had with her father. He was going to go out with her father. He was going to go out with her father. He was going to go out on his own, which is pretty ballsy, on his own, which is pretty ballsy, on his own, which is pretty ballsy, right? He didn't have foreigner, didn't right? He didn't have foreigner, didn't right? He didn't have foreigner, didn't have anything. And so he asked to find have anything. And so he asked to find have anything. And so he asked to find out how much a construction cost for out how much a construction cost for out how much a construction cost for building your own surgery center. And it building your own surgery center. And it building your own surgery center. And it was like $250,000 then, so it was a lot was like $250,000 then, so it was a lot was like $250,000 then, so it was a lot of money. He didn't have that. And so he of money. He didn't have that. And so he of money. He didn't have that. And so he looked at all the legal requirements for looked at all the legal requirements for looked at all the legal requirements for what what it entails to be a serger what what it entails to be a serger what what it entails to be a serger center. And then he went to Home Depot center. And then he went to Home Depot center. And then he went to Home Depot and built a surgery center that met all and built a surgery center that met all and built a surgery center that met all the specs and got it inspected so that the specs and got it inspected so that the specs and got it inspected so that he could have his own surgery center in he could have his own surgery center in he could have his own surgery center in his practice. Then right as his practice his practice. Then right as his practice his practice. Then right as his practice was starting to work, my parents got was starting to work, my parents got was starting to work, my parents got divorced. They changed the the locks on divorced. They changed the the locks on divorced. They changed the the locks on the door cuz he had like a separate the door cuz he had like a separate the door cuz he had like a separate thing. His patients show up and they thing. His patients show up and they thing. His patients show up and they didn't know where to go. It was an ugly didn't know where to go. It was an ugly didn't know where to go. It was an ugly divorce. And so then he's he's starting divorce. And so then he's he's starting divorce. And so then he's he's starting his own and this is when he was talking his own and this is when he was talking his own and this is when he was talking to me then. So fast forward now. He's to me then. So fast forward now. He's to me then. So fast forward now. He's like, "I've been in practice for, you like, "I've been in practice for, you like, "I've been in practice for, you know, 20, 30 years, whatever." He's know, 20, 30 years, whatever." He's know, 20, 30 years, whatever." He's like, "Those years, I didn't even think like, "Those years, I didn't even think like, "Those years, I didn't even think about him." I think I was like, "I feel about him." I think I was like, "I feel about him." I think I was like, "I feel like I'm not moving fast enough. I feel like I'm not moving fast enough. I feel like I'm not moving fast enough. I feel like I need to need to do these things."

like I need to need to do these things." like I need to need to do these things." And he's like, "Dude, a year, two years And he's like, "Dude, a year, two years And he's like, "Dude, a year, two years now." He's like, "It's nothing." He's now." He's like, "It's nothing." He's now." He's like, "It's nothing." He's like, "When your mind, you're not even like, "When your mind, you're not even like, "When your mind, you're not even going to think you're not even remember going to think you're not even remember going to think you're not even remember it." it." it." >> The the honest truth of the matter is >> The the honest truth of the matter is >> The the honest truth of the matter is that I that I that I really desperately wanted to prove that really desperately wanted to prove that really desperately wanted to prove that I could do it on my own. I could do it on my own. I could do it on my own. >> Who did you want to prove that to? >> Who did you want to prove that to? >> Who did you want to prove that to? >> I don't know. Everyone. Me, him, the >> I don't know. Everyone. Me, him, the >> I don't know. Everyone. Me, him, the world. I remember being terrified about world. I remember being terrified about world. I remember being terrified about the idea of winning the lottery. Sounds the idea of winning the lottery. Sounds the idea of winning the lottery. Sounds really weird. [laughter] When I was in really weird. [laughter] When I was in really weird. [laughter] When I was in college, I bought a Super Bowl ticket college, I bought a Super Bowl ticket college, I bought a Super Bowl ticket because it was like a billion dollars or because it was like a billion dollars or because it was like a billion dollars or something. I was like, "Let's do it for something. I was like, "Let's do it for something. I was like, "Let's do it for fun, whatever." And I and I remember fun, whatever." And I and I remember fun, whatever." And I and I remember having this this moment right before the having this this moment right before the having this this moment right before the the number was going to get called of the number was going to get called of the number was going to get called of sheer terror of what if I win because I sheer terror of what if I win because I sheer terror of what if I win because I was like, I will never be able to prove was like, I will never be able to prove was like, I will never be able to prove that I I have the medal, that I can do that I I have the medal, that I can do that I I have the medal, that I can do it. And so, and of course people would it. And so, and of course people would it. And so, and of course people would say that now if someone wants to give me say that now if someone wants to give me say that now if someone wants to give me a billion dollars, I'm happy to use it. a billion dollars, I'm happy to use it. a billion dollars, I'm happy to use it. Because to be fair though, because I Because to be fair though, because I Because to be fair though, because I already have this I already have the already have this I already have the already have this I already have the status and the track record that I that status and the track record that I that status and the track record that I that I built this. I built this. I built this. >> And this also the reason that like when >> And this also the reason that like when >> And this also the reason that like when I started my my business like I didn't I started my my business like I didn't I started my my business like I didn't take a loan like I used my own money take a loan like I used my own money take a loan like I used my own money that I had saved because I I wanted to that I had saved because I I wanted to that I had saved because I I wanted to be mine and I knew I would know. And I be mine and I knew I would know. And I be mine and I knew I would know. And I think yeah, my dad had absolutely think yeah, my dad had absolutely think yeah, my dad had absolutely perfect intentions. He gave me what I perfect intentions. He gave me what I perfect intentions. He gave me what I believe to be for vast majority of believe to be for vast majority of believe to be for vast majority of people probably pretty good advice. Mhm.

people probably pretty good advice. Mhm. people probably pretty good advice. Mhm. >> It just wasn't the advice that I needed >> It just wasn't the advice that I needed >> It just wasn't the advice that I needed for the goals that I had. for the goals that I had. for the goals that I had. >> There's an interesting thing because >> There's an interesting thing because >> There's an interesting thing because people like me and you make business people like me and you make business people like me and you make business content and we talk about content and we talk about content and we talk about entrepreneurship a lot. entrepreneurship a lot. entrepreneurship a lot. >> Um I I often wonder if we're leading >> Um I I often wonder if we're leading >> Um I I often wonder if we're leading some people astray in the context of some people astray in the context of some people astray in the context of some people actually should take that some people actually should take that some people actually should take that advice. Some people shouldn't become advice. Some people shouldn't become advice. Some people shouldn't become entrepreneurs. Um and how does one know entrepreneurs. Um and how does one know entrepreneurs. Um and how does one know if entrepreneurship in its broad if entrepreneurship in its broad if entrepreneurship in its broad definition is for them or not or like definition is for them or not or like definition is for them or not or like working in a company having you know working in a company having you know working in a company having you know having a great job is for them? It's having a great job is for them? It's having a great job is for them? It's funny. We were I was doing this show funny. We were I was doing this show funny. We were I was doing this show once and I said to the producer who was once and I said to the producer who was once and I said to the producer who was just off camera. I said, "Um, do you just off camera. I said, "Um, do you just off camera. I said, "Um, do you think I'm happy?" So, this is this is think I'm happy?" So, this is this is think I'm happy?" So, this is this is someone who gets to see who's has seen someone who gets to see who's has seen someone who gets to see who's has seen me for six or seven years behind the me for six or seven years behind the me for six or seven years behind the scenes every day since we're on my scenes every day since we're on my scenes every day since we're on my kitchen table. Has been there with me kitchen table. Has been there with me kitchen table. Has been there with me every corner of the world, the the best every corner of the world, the the best every corner of the world, the the best and the worst of times. I went, "Do you and the worst of times. I went, "Do you and the worst of times. I went, "Do you think I'm happy?" He went, "Yes." He think I'm happy?" He went, "Yes." He think I'm happy?" He went, "Yes." He said it quickly. And then he and then I said it quickly. And then he and then I said it quickly. And then he and then I said, "Would you want my life?" And he said, "Would you want my life?" And he said, "Would you want my life?" And he he couldn't have said no more violently. he couldn't have said no more violently. he couldn't have said no more violently. So much so that it was almost defensive. So much so that it was almost defensive. So much so that it was almost defensive. [laughter] He was like, "You're having" [laughter] He was like, "You're having" [laughter] He was like, "You're having" And then I do you want would you like my And then I do you want would you like my And then I do you want would you like my life? He goes, "No." And he was like, life? He goes, "No." And he was like, life? He goes, "No." And he was like, and and he was like laughing. He would and and he was like laughing. He would and and he was like laughing. He would not want my life, but at the same time not want my life, but at the same time not want my life, but at the same time thinks and believes having seen me thinks and believes having seen me thinks and believes having seen me behind the scenes for 7 years that I'm behind the scenes for 7 years that I'm behind the scenes for 7 years that I'm happy. And in there, I think you have happy. And in there, I think you have happy. And in there, I think you have something which is the the sort of something which is the the sort of something which is the the sort of subjectivity of of of journey like is subjectivity of of of journey like is subjectivity of of of journey like is this your journey? How does one know this your journey? How does one know this your journey? How does one know listening to this now if they should be listening to this now if they should be listening to this now if they should be an entrepreneur or not?

an entrepreneur or not? an entrepreneur or not? >> So, I'll give a couple frames because >> So, I'll give a couple frames because >> So, I'll give a couple frames because decision-m is what probably both do with decision-m is what probably both do with decision-m is what probably both do with a lot of our time. So, one is what's the a lot of our time. So, one is what's the a lot of our time. So, one is what's the goal? what do I want to have happen? goal? what do I want to have happen? goal? what do I want to have happen? >> Everyone says the same things here. They >> Everyone says the same things here. They >> Everyone says the same things here. They say, you know, I want freedom to make my say, you know, I want freedom to make my say, you know, I want freedom to make my decisions. I want, you know, financial decisions. I want, you know, financial decisions. I want, you know, financial freedom. freedom. freedom. >> Then we have to be specific. And so, >> Then we have to be specific. And so, >> Then we have to be specific. And so, just like fear only exists in the just like fear only exists in the just like fear only exists in the specific, goals have to exist in the specific, goals have to exist in the specific, goals have to exist in the specific in order for them to be real specific in order for them to be real specific in order for them to be real and for you to make accurate decisions. and for you to make accurate decisions. and for you to make accurate decisions. >> Mhm. >> Mhm. >> Mhm. >> And this is why I'm so obsessive about >> And this is why I'm so obsessive about >> And this is why I'm so obsessive about language and like observables and things language and like observables and things language and like observables and things like that. So, what is one is what do I like that. So, what is one is what do I like that. So, what is one is what do I what do I actually want to have happen? what do I actually want to have happen? what do I actually want to have happen? And then number two, what does that And then number two, what does that And then number two, what does that change about my actual daily life? on change about my actual daily life? on change about my actual daily life? on this first point. Funnily enough, I said this first point. Funnily enough, I said this first point. Funnily enough, I said to you freedom to you freedom to you freedom >> and then I immediately realized that the >> and then I immediately realized that the >> and then I immediately realized that the least free person in the [laughter] least free person in the [laughter] least free person in the [laughter] >> dude this gets okay this is great. So I >> dude this gets okay this is great. So I >> dude this gets okay this is great. So I think about this it's the freedom to think about this it's the freedom to think about this it's the freedom to choose choose choose >> but I think people stop at freedom. >> but I think people stop at freedom. >> but I think people stop at freedom. There's this almost fetishization of There's this almost fetishization of There's this almost fetishization of independence and keeping your options independence and keeping your options independence and keeping your options open and m and options maxing right for open and m and options maxing right for open and m and options maxing right for your life. But all of the best parts of your life. But all of the best parts of your life. But all of the best parts of life come on the other side of life come on the other side of life come on the other side of exercising an option and and walking exercising an option and and walking exercising an option and and walking through a door. But in so doing, leaving through a door. But in so doing, leaving through a door. But in so doing, leaving the other doors that you could have the other doors that you could have the other doors that you could have walked through behind. And so the secret walked through behind. And so the secret walked through behind. And so the secret to getting a life you want is making a to getting a life you want is making a to getting a life you want is making a commitment. But you will not get all commitment. But you will not get all commitment. But you will not get all lives you want.

lives you want. lives you want. And so at some point you have to sit at And so at some point you have to sit at And so at some point you have to sit at the precipice and you have to make a the precipice and you have to make a the precipice and you have to make a trade. And you have to say, I want this trade. And you have to say, I want this trade. And you have to say, I want this more than something else. That means I more than something else. That means I more than something else. That means I know I'm not going to get this and I know I'm not going to get this and I know I'm not going to get this and I choose to say that I want this more. choose to say that I want this more. choose to say that I want this more. And I think this is where people just And I think this is where people just And I think this is where people just sit at the crossroads. And that is what sit at the crossroads. And that is what sit at the crossroads. And that is what takes the majority of time. Not just takes the majority of time. Not just takes the majority of time. Not just getting into business, but also when getting into business, but also when getting into business, but also when you're in business, people will sit at you're in business, people will sit at you're in business, people will sit at the crossroads of like, what type of the crossroads of like, what type of the crossroads of like, what type of company do I want to build? What type of company do I want to build? What type of company do I want to build? What type of product? And what type what what type of product? And what type what what type of product? And what type what what type of business do I want? And we sit there and business do I want? And we sit there and business do I want? And we sit there and I when I see people get stuck, it's I when I see people get stuck, it's I when I see people get stuck, it's almost always unmade decisions because almost always unmade decisions because almost always unmade decisions because unmade decisions can last forever. unmade decisions can last forever. unmade decisions can last forever. >> Whereas if you're in if you're in a >> Whereas if you're in if you're in a >> Whereas if you're in if you're in a trial loop of feedback, feedback, trial loop of feedback, feedback, trial loop of feedback, feedback, feedback, like you'll figure it out, feedback, like you'll figure it out, feedback, like you'll figure it out, like you'll move. But if you're in an like you'll move. But if you're in an like you'll move. But if you're in an unmade decision, it could sit there unmade decision, it could sit there unmade decision, it could sit there forever. And that's that's like the forever. And that's that's like the forever. And that's that's like the freedom to choose. We have to choose. freedom to choose. We have to choose. freedom to choose. We have to choose. Are you seeing this sort of new Are you seeing this sort of new Are you seeing this sort of new generation that have grown up with all generation that have grown up with all generation that have grown up with all the tools to start their own business the tools to start their own business the tools to start their own business that we're in this personal brand era that we're in this personal brand era that we're in this personal brand era where everybody can make content and where everybody can make content and where everybody can make content and build a brand and then do like panel build a brand and then do like panel build a brand and then do like panel talks for a living or sell like ads on talks for a living or sell like ads on talks for a living or sell like ads on LinkedIn? Um, LinkedIn? Um, LinkedIn? Um, >> what what is going on here? this sort of >> what what is going on here? this sort of >> what what is going on here? this sort of younger generation under 30 now younger generation under 30 now younger generation under 30 now keeping their options open wanting keeping their options open wanting keeping their options open wanting freedom. If you compare that to say freedom. If you compare that to say freedom. If you compare that to say maybe my dad who you know one job did maybe my dad who you know one job did maybe my dad who you know one job did that career for 20 30 years of his love that career for 20 30 years of his love that career for 20 30 years of his love 40 years of his life it's a very 40 years of his life it's a very 40 years of his life it's a very different world we're living in. There different world we're living in. There different world we're living in. There are more people starting businesses than are more people starting businesses than are more people starting businesses than ever before. I know since co there's ever before. I know since co there's ever before. I know since co there's there's at least in the US the stats there's at least in the US the stats there's at least in the US the stats that I looked at recently it's like that I looked at recently it's like that I looked at recently it's like there's been more new businesses per there's been more new businesses per there's been more new businesses per quarter. It's been growing really quarter. It's been growing really quarter. It's been growing really aggressively at least in the US and so

aggressively at least in the US and so aggressively at least in the US and so more people are starting businesses. And more people are starting businesses. And more people are starting businesses. And so I think that lowering the cost of so I think that lowering the cost of so I think that lowering the cost of entry has gotten more people across the entry has gotten more people across the entry has gotten more people across the line. I think having more access to line. I think having more access to line. I think having more access to information has gotten more people information has gotten more people information has gotten more people across the line. But why aren't why across the line. But why aren't why across the line. But why aren't why isn't everyone going across the line? I isn't everyone going across the line? I isn't everyone going across the line? I think there's a couple things. One is to think there's a couple things. One is to think there's a couple things. One is to your point earlier, I don't think it is your point earlier, I don't think it is your point earlier, I don't think it is for everyone. And so I think the issue for everyone. And so I think the issue for everyone. And so I think the issue there is one of motivation. They have there is one of motivation. They have there is one of motivation. They have too many carrots, so good things keeping too many carrots, so good things keeping too many carrots, so good things keeping them in their current position and not them in their current position and not them in their current position and not enough sticks or bad things getting them enough sticks or bad things getting them enough sticks or bad things getting them out of their current position. And I out of their current position. And I out of their current position. And I think um I think it's a it's a Tony think um I think it's a it's a Tony think um I think it's a it's a Tony quote, Tony Robbins quote, which is uh quote, Tony Robbins quote, which is uh quote, Tony Robbins quote, which is uh the pain of staying the same has to be the pain of staying the same has to be the pain of staying the same has to be greater than the pain of change. greater than the pain of change. greater than the pain of change. >> And I [clears throat] think that >> And I [clears throat] think that >> And I [clears throat] think that when that happens and it could be the when that happens and it could be the when that happens and it could be the pleasure of change could be has to be pleasure of change could be has to be pleasure of change could be has to be greater than the pleasure of staying the greater than the pleasure of staying the greater than the pleasure of staying the same. E equal opposite, but I think most same. E equal opposite, but I think most same. E equal opposite, but I think most people are in that slice, there's pain people are in that slice, there's pain people are in that slice, there's pain and so you will change the moment it is and so you will change the moment it is and so you will change the moment it is more painful to stay the same. I've more painful to stay the same. I've more painful to stay the same. I've spent the last decade building and spent the last decade building and spent the last decade building and investing in companies and so often the investing in companies and so often the investing in companies and so often the conversation around marketing budgets conversation around marketing budgets conversation around marketing budgets follows the exact same pattern. The follows the exact same pattern. The follows the exact same pattern. The budget gets approved but then the budget gets approved but then the budget gets approved but then the results don't come back and most of the results don't come back and most of the results don't come back and most of the time the creative pitch and the offer is time the creative pitch and the offer is time the creative pitch and the offer is fine. The problem lies with the fine. The problem lies with the fine. The problem lies with the audience. Ads reach people who will audience. Ads reach people who will audience. Ads reach people who will never buy or refer nor do they have the never buy or refer nor do they have the never buy or refer nor do they have the power to sign off anything at all. And power to sign off anything at all. And power to sign off anything at all. And this is why so much budget gets wasted.

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you do not need to solve a hard problem. you do not need to solve a hard problem. You just need to do a little bit better You just need to do a little bit better You just need to do a little bit better than other businesses that are wildly than other businesses that are wildly than other businesses that are wildly underserving their customers, which I underserving their customers, which I underserving their customers, which I promise you there are plenty. You can promise you there are plenty. You can promise you there are plenty. You can just have a pool cleaning business that just have a pool cleaning business that just have a pool cleaning business that just cleans better than the other guy just cleans better than the other guy just cleans better than the other guy and like shows up on time and all you and like shows up on time and all you and like shows up on time and all you got to do is knock on doors and ask if got to do is knock on doors and ask if got to do is knock on doors and ask if they want to switch because their they want to switch because their they want to switch because their current company probably doesn't pay current company probably doesn't pay current company probably doesn't pay attention to them. attention to them. attention to them. >> One of the things that, you know, a lot >> One of the things that, you know, a lot >> One of the things that, you know, a lot of founders, entrepreneurs are thinking of founders, entrepreneurs are thinking of founders, entrepreneurs are thinking about at the moment is producing about at the moment is producing about at the moment is producing content. content. content. >> We're living in in in an interesting >> We're living in in in an interesting >> We're living in in in an interesting time where a kid in Mumbai or a kid in time where a kid in Mumbai or a kid in time where a kid in Mumbai or a kid in Manhattan can both produce content using Manhattan can both produce content using Manhattan can both produce content using LLM, uh, AI. They can produce videos. LLM, uh, AI. They can produce videos. LLM, uh, AI. They can produce videos. Theoretically, if you imagine any rate Theoretically, if you imagine any rate Theoretically, if you imagine any rate of improvement, they're going to be able of improvement, they're going to be able of improvement, they're going to be able to make videos, photos, churn out your to make videos, photos, churn out your to make videos, photos, churn out your quotes. They could use your quotes, quotes. They could use your quotes, quotes. They could use your quotes, change them a little bit, and have an change them a little bit, and have an change them a little bit, and have an agent post them for them. Where is the agent post them for them. Where is the agent post them for them. Where is the moat in content? Where you think about, moat in content? Where you think about, moat in content? Where you think about, if you think about supply demand if you think about supply demand if you think about supply demand dynamics, there's fixed demand. The dynamics, there's fixed demand. The dynamics, there's fixed demand. The Financial Times did a report saying that Financial Times did a report saying that Financial Times did a report saying that time spent on social media is starting time spent on social media is starting time spent on social media is starting to dip a little bit since 2022. For to dip a little bit since 2022. For to dip a little bit since 2022. For younger generations, for older younger generations, for older younger generations, for older generations, it's still sort of like generations, it's still sort of like generations, it's still sort of like going up or flat, but for Gen Z's, it's going up or flat, but for Gen Z's, it's going up or flat, but for Gen Z's, it's like starting to come down a little bit. like starting to come down a little bit. like starting to come down a little bit. So stagnant demand, tsunami slop coming So stagnant demand, tsunami slop coming So stagnant demand, tsunami slop coming in of AI content.

in of AI content. in of AI content. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Huge supply shock. Every unit of content >> Huge supply shock. Every unit of content >> Huge supply shock. Every unit of content itself is going to become less valuable. itself is going to become less valuable. itself is going to become less valuable. Therefore, um and the algorithms are Therefore, um and the algorithms are Therefore, um and the algorithms are getting more violent or I should say are getting more violent or I should say are getting more violent or I should say are becoming more um someone with 10 million becoming more um someone with 10 million becoming more um someone with 10 million followers can get 2,000 likes. Back in followers can get 2,000 likes. Back in followers can get 2,000 likes. Back in my day, 15 years ago, when I started on my day, 15 years ago, when I started on my day, 15 years ago, when I started on social media, if you had a million social media, if you had a million social media, if you had a million followers, you got a million a million followers, you got a million a million followers, you got a million a million likes or a million views, should I say. likes or a million views, should I say. likes or a million views, should I say. What's the game of content in such a What's the game of content in such a What's the game of content in such a world? Everyone's everyone's making world? Everyone's everyone's making world? Everyone's everyone's making content now. content now. content now. >> To your point, what's the mode? Um, >> To your point, what's the mode? Um, >> To your point, what's the mode? Um, reality is the moat. reality is the moat. reality is the moat. >> Reality is the moat. >> Reality is the moat. >> Reality is the moat. >> I'd say the number one biggest business >> I'd say the number one biggest business >> I'd say the number one biggest business influencer I think on the planet is Elon influencer I think on the planet is Elon influencer I think on the planet is Elon Musk Musk Musk and he happens to own the biggest and he happens to own the biggest and he happens to own the biggest business on the planet be the richest business on the planet be the richest business on the planet be the richest man. Uh, Jeff Bezos, huge business man. Uh, Jeff Bezos, huge business man. Uh, Jeff Bezos, huge business influencer because he has Amazon. Warren influencer because he has Amazon. Warren influencer because he has Amazon. Warren Buffett probably the number one Buffett probably the number one Buffett probably the number one investing influencer. Like people fly investing influencer. Like people fly investing influencer. Like people fly around the world and when he when he around the world and when he when he around the world and when he when he talks, everyone listens. talks, everyone listens. talks, everyone listens. And so even if a teacher in De Moines And so even if a teacher in De Moines And so even if a teacher in De Moines Iowa word for word quotes Warren Buffett Iowa word for word quotes Warren Buffett Iowa word for word quotes Warren Buffett and let's do one better let's say makes and let's do one better let's say makes and let's do one better let's say makes even better advice than Warren Buffett even better advice than Warren Buffett even better advice than Warren Buffett does is still not going to get the same does is still not going to get the same does is still not going to get the same views because they just forgot to build views because they just forgot to build views because they just forgot to build Berkshire Hathaway and have a hundred Berkshire Hathaway and have a hundred Berkshire Hathaway and have a hundred years of track record. And so what I'm years of track record. And so what I'm years of track record. And so what I'm saying there is that when reality is the saying there is that when reality is the saying there is that when reality is the mode it means that your brand is the mode it means that your brand is the mode it means that your brand is the mode. It means your reputation is the mode. It means your reputation is the mode. It means your reputation is the mode which can only happen in reality.

mode which can only happen in reality. mode which can only happen in reality. Now, that said, I do think it's going to Now, that said, I do think it's going to Now, that said, I do think it's going to affect different types of content affect different types of content affect different types of content differently. If you're in the world of differently. If you're in the world of differently. If you're in the world of making fictional whatever stuff, then making fictional whatever stuff, then making fictional whatever stuff, then yeah, I think it's going to hit I think yeah, I think it's going to hit I think yeah, I think it's going to hit I think AI is going to hit you much harder. But AI is going to hit you much harder. But AI is going to hit you much harder. But even then, there's still going to be the even then, there's still going to be the even then, there's still going to be the the standard holder. Somebody has to the standard holder. Somebody has to the standard holder. Somebody has to determine that this slop is too sloppy determine that this slop is too sloppy determine that this slop is too sloppy [laughter] and that you still have to [laughter] and that you still have to [laughter] and that you still have to work really hard to make the AI make work really hard to make the AI make work really hard to make the AI make exactly what you want and have it at the exactly what you want and have it at the exactly what you want and have it at the caliber that you want it to be at. caliber that you want it to be at. caliber that you want it to be at. >> Have you made any changes to your >> Have you made any changes to your >> Have you made any changes to your content because of everything that's content because of everything that's content because of everything that's going on with algorithms and AI? Yeah, going on with algorithms and AI? Yeah, going on with algorithms and AI? Yeah, I'm focused on only doing things that I'm focused on only doing things that I'm focused on only doing things that only I can do. [clears throat] only I can do. [clears throat] only I can do. [clears throat] >> Most people can't get hundreds of >> Most people can't get hundreds of >> Most people can't get hundreds of business owners to fly out in person business owners to fly out in person business owners to fly out in person every month that are all million-dollar every month that are all million-dollar every month that are all million-dollar plus business owners to seek advice on plus business owners to seek advice on plus business owners to seek advice on real business problems at 3 million, 5 real business problems at 3 million, 5 real business problems at 3 million, 5 million, 10 million a year, 500k a year. million, 10 million a year, 500k a year. million, 10 million a year, 500k a year. Most people don't have that. And so I Most people don't have that. And so I Most people don't have that. And so I can demonstrate expertise in a live and can demonstrate expertise in a live and can demonstrate expertise in a live and interactive fashion, in a way that other interactive fashion, in a way that other interactive fashion, in a way that other people can't do. I think that live is people can't do. I think that live is people can't do. I think that live is something that I mean AI maybe in the something that I mean AI maybe in the something that I mean AI maybe in the future we'll have some AI avatars that future we'll have some AI avatars that future we'll have some AI avatars that can go live but at least in the short to can go live but at least in the short to can go live but at least in the short to medium term I think live is good. I medium term I think live is good. I medium term I think live is good. I think IRL as in like it's actually real think IRL as in like it's actually real think IRL as in like it's actually real people talking which is we talked about people talking which is we talked about people talking which is we talked about the scaler fail show that we just the scaler fail show that we just the scaler fail show that we just launched. It's real entrepreneurs and launched. It's real entrepreneurs and launched. It's real entrepreneurs and there's stakes [laughter] involved. I there's stakes [laughter] involved. I there's stakes [laughter] involved. I think that is something that is not think that is something that is not think that is something that is not going to be replaced. But if we think going to be replaced. But if we think going to be replaced. But if we think about content on this continuum all about content on this continuum all about content on this continuum all right let's make this continuum risk.

right let's make this continuum risk. right let's make this continuum risk. When I say risk it's the risk that a When I say risk it's the risk that a When I say risk it's the risk that a consumer has in consuming the content consumer has in consuming the content consumer has in consuming the content and executing on it. And so if we and executing on it. And so if we and executing on it. And so if we differentiate entertainment and differentiate entertainment and differentiate entertainment and education is entertainment the point of education is entertainment the point of education is entertainment the point of the content is to be consumed. It's the the content is to be consumed. It's the the content is to be consumed. It's the only objective of entertainment. The only objective of entertainment. The only objective of entertainment. The point of education is to change point of education is to change point of education is to change behavior. behavior. behavior. >> Right? So that's our that's our split. >> Right? So that's our that's our split. >> Right? So that's our that's our split. Now entertainers will get hit harder Now entertainers will get hit harder Now entertainers will get hit harder than educators will. than educators will. than educators will. The entertainers that have stakes The entertainers that have stakes The entertainers that have stakes involved will be able to maintain that involved will be able to maintain that involved will be able to maintain that mode by still focusing on IRL real mode by still focusing on IRL real mode by still focusing on IRL real stakes real stories. Now in the stakes real stories. Now in the stakes real stories. Now in the education world of risk, let's put education world of risk, let's put education world of risk, let's put something that's really low stakes. something that's really low stakes. something that's really low stakes. There we go. So, we've got beauty on There we go. So, we've got beauty on There we go. So, we've got beauty on this side. If I have an AI influencer this side. If I have an AI influencer this side. If I have an AI influencer >> who does a makeup tutorial, I don't >> who does a makeup tutorial, I don't >> who does a makeup tutorial, I don't think the risk is super high that if, think the risk is super high that if, think the risk is super high that if, you know, if the tutorial is good that a you know, if the tutorial is good that a you know, if the tutorial is good that a girl's like going to not use the tip girl's like going to not use the tip girl's like going to not use the tip that they made in the thing. I think that they made in the thing. I think that they made in the thing. I think that's pretty likely. that's pretty likely. that's pretty likely. If you go maybe a little bit riskier, If you go maybe a little bit riskier, If you go maybe a little bit riskier, let's say I have some personal finance let's say I have some personal finance let's say I have some personal finance stuff. Well, what's the cred? So, the stuff. Well, what's the cred? So, the stuff. Well, what's the cred? So, the credibility in beauty is beauty.

credibility in beauty is beauty. credibility in beauty is beauty. the credibility in personal finance is the credibility in personal finance is the credibility in personal finance is do you have personal finances? Right? do you have personal finances? Right? do you have personal finances? Right? So, who's the number one uh influencer So, who's the number one uh influencer So, who's the number one uh influencer in personal finance? My opinion, I think in personal finance? My opinion, I think in personal finance? My opinion, I think it's Dave Ramsey. He also happens to be it's Dave Ramsey. He also happens to be it's Dave Ramsey. He also happens to be I don't think he he calls himself this, I don't think he he calls himself this, I don't think he he calls himself this, but I think he's a billionaire. And he's but I think he's a billionaire. And he's but I think he's a billionaire. And he's got a massive I think he's public $300 got a massive I think he's public $300 got a massive I think he's public $300 million a year of revenue that he's million a year of revenue that he's million a year of revenue that he's done. And I think there's some other done. And I think there's some other done. And I think there's some other newer newer age people. Uh I think newer newer age people. Uh I think newer newer age people. Uh I think Vivian 2 is is she's a personal finance Vivian 2 is is she's a personal finance Vivian 2 is is she's a personal finance person. I think um Erica Coberg touches person. I think um Erica Coberg touches person. I think um Erica Coberg touches in this. She's the legal legal gal. Um, in this. She's the legal legal gal. Um, in this. She's the legal legal gal. Um, anyways, all this to say, all of them anyways, all this to say, all of them anyways, all this to say, all of them have more credibility. Like, if you just have more credibility. Like, if you just have more credibility. Like, if you just start giving out tips on how to save start giving out tips on how to save start giving out tips on how to save money, there's no credibility. Reality, money, there's no credibility. Reality, money, there's no credibility. Reality, there's no reality. You have nothing to there's no reality. You have nothing to there's no reality. You have nothing to back it up. back it up. back it up. >> Mhm. >> Mhm. >> Mhm. >> Now, we keep moving further. Let's say >> Now, we keep moving further. Let's say >> Now, we keep moving further. Let's say business where if you make a wrong call, business where if you make a wrong call, business where if you make a wrong call, you could lose your business. Here, you you could lose your business. Here, you you could lose your business. Here, you lose some money. Here, you lose a bad lose some money. Here, you lose a bad lose some money. Here, you lose a bad day of makeup. So, the risk goes up. the day of makeup. So, the risk goes up. the day of makeup. So, the risk goes up. the riskier or the higher the consequences riskier or the higher the consequences riskier or the higher the consequences of being wrong, the more people are of being wrong, the more people are of being wrong, the more people are going to, I think, double down on going to, I think, double down on going to, I think, double down on credibility of source.

credibility of source. credibility of source. >> What's interesting is I also heard as >> What's interesting is I also heard as >> What's interesting is I also heard as you were describing flying these 100 you were describing flying these 100 you were describing flying these 100 business owners out to Vegas is I heard business owners out to Vegas is I heard business owners out to Vegas is I heard scarce, hard and scarce. And I still scarce, hard and scarce. And I still scarce, hard and scarce. And I still thought a lot about these two words as thought a lot about these two words as thought a lot about these two words as sort of the pillars of my own content sort of the pillars of my own content sort of the pillars of my own content strategy, which is strategy, which is strategy, which is >> with an LLM, yeah, a kid in Mumbai could >> with an LLM, yeah, a kid in Mumbai could >> with an LLM, yeah, a kid in Mumbai could churn out a video. Um, but the reason churn out a video. Um, but the reason churn out a video. Um, but the reason why we have, you know, somewhat of a why we have, you know, somewhat of a why we have, you know, somewhat of a moat here still is because it is hard to moat here still is because it is hard to moat here still is because it is hard to shoot on nine cameras. It is hard to shoot on nine cameras. It is hard to shoot on nine cameras. It is hard to bring Alex Hermosi here. It is hard to bring Alex Hermosi here. It is hard to bring Alex Hermosi here. It is hard to get Alex Hozi to say yes to doing this. get Alex Hozi to say yes to doing this. get Alex Hozi to say yes to doing this. [laughter] It is hard to get Michelle [laughter] It is hard to get Michelle [laughter] It is hard to get Michelle Obama or JD Vance to say yes to doing Obama or JD Vance to say yes to doing Obama or JD Vance to say yes to doing this. So, there's it's hard from a this. So, there's it's hard from a this. So, there's it's hard from a production perspective, but also from production perspective, but also from production perspective, but also from like to accomplish this is hard. And like to accomplish this is hard. And like to accomplish this is hard. And then what you described, I heard a lot then what you described, I heard a lot then what you described, I heard a lot of the like I heard hard and scarce. who of the like I heard hard and scarce. who of the like I heard hard and scarce. who can bring a hundred entrepreneurs to can bring a hundred entrepreneurs to can bring a hundred entrepreneurs to Vegas who are all successful in their Vegas who are all successful in their Vegas who are all successful in their own right and and have them ask you own right and and have them ask you own right and and have them ask you questions. So that's great content for questions. So that's great content for questions. So that's great content for us to watch. It's like really impossible us to watch. It's like really impossible us to watch. It's like really impossible to to to to to to >> very hard. If I had only had a $46 >> very hard. If I had only had a $46 >> very hard. If I had only had a $46 million exit, I don't know if I would million exit, I don't know if I would million exit, I don't know if I would attract the number of entrepreneurs that attract the number of entrepreneurs that attract the number of entrepreneurs that that we do now. But now that we do 250 that we do now. But now that we do 250 that we do now. But now that we do 250 plus schools, a billion dollar plus plus schools, a billion dollar plus plus schools, a billion dollar plus company, it's like I have credibility company, it's like I have credibility company, it's like I have credibility that the the the YouTube the content that the the the YouTube the content that the the the YouTube the content right is not like I we we I still do right is not like I we we I still do right is not like I we we I still do business.

business. business. >> You know what I mean? We have chains of >> You know what I mean? We have chains of >> You know what I mean? We have chains of brick and mortar that that we're brick and mortar that that we're brick and mortar that that we're involved in. I just don't talk about it involved in. I just don't talk about it involved in. I just don't talk about it because it doesn't it's not relevant for because it doesn't it's not relevant for because it doesn't it's not relevant for most people. most people. most people. >> Let's look at the opposite then as well >> Let's look at the opposite then as well >> Let's look at the opposite then as well just to show people what the opposite of just to show people what the opposite of just to show people what the opposite of hard and scarce or of this approach is. hard and scarce or of this approach is. hard and scarce or of this approach is. What types of content should we all kind What types of content should we all kind What types of content should we all kind of stay away from now? So I think of stay away from now? So I think of stay away from now? So I think commoditize tips and tricks um when you commoditize tips and tricks um when you commoditize tips and tricks um when you have no again like proof is in the have no again like proof is in the have no again like proof is in the pudding reality is the moat. It's pudding reality is the moat. It's pudding reality is the moat. It's basically the opposite of that. So if basically the opposite of that. So if basically the opposite of that. So if you are posing if you are pretending if you are posing if you are pretending if you are posing if you are pretending if you have no proof um that you are good you have no proof um that you are good you have no proof um that you are good at this thing and again this is on the at this thing and again this is on the at this thing and again this is on the education side then there's a big I call education side then there's a big I call education side then there's a big I call the big uh wispy. Why should I listen to the big uh wispy. Why should I listen to the big uh wispy. Why should I listen to you? Right? Why should I listen to you? you? Right? Why should I listen to you? you? Right? Why should I listen to you? And if you can't answer that question And if you can't answer that question And if you can't answer that question for say a prospect, you know, for say a prospect, you know, for say a prospect, you know, prospective customer within the first prospective customer within the first prospective customer within the first like couple seconds, like couple seconds, like couple seconds, >> they'll just listen to somebody else >> they'll just listen to somebody else >> they'll just listen to somebody else because the reason that credibility because the reason that credibility because the reason that credibility matters so much is that it's actually matters so much is that it's actually matters so much is that it's actually lower effort to consume information from lower effort to consume information from lower effort to consume information from somebody who's an authority. And so if somebody who's an authority. And so if somebody who's an authority. And so if I'm if I'm listening to somebody who I'm if I'm listening to somebody who I'm if I'm listening to somebody who doesn't have proof and I'm listening to doesn't have proof and I'm listening to doesn't have proof and I'm listening to investing advice, I have to really think investing advice, I have to really think investing advice, I have to really think like, is this true? Does this make like, is this true? Does this make like, is this true? Does this make sense? If I'm listening to Warren sense? If I'm listening to Warren sense? If I'm listening to Warren Buffett, I don't have to think that. I'm Buffett, I don't have to think that. I'm Buffett, I don't have to think that. I'm like, I'm sure he's right. Now when like, I'm sure he's right. Now when like, I'm sure he's right. Now when someone's like, how do I get into this?

someone's like, how do I get into this? someone's like, how do I get into this? You do what no one else can do. Well, if You do what no one else can do. Well, if You do what no one else can do. Well, if you are getting in, then document like you are getting in, then document like you are getting in, then document like document the proof of effort. So, you document the proof of effort. So, you document the proof of effort. So, you can do pro you can have proof of outcome can do pro you can have proof of outcome can do pro you can have proof of outcome just like what we do, right? What you just like what we do, right? What you just like what we do, right? What you do. do. do. >> But then there's when you're starting, >> But then there's when you're starting, >> But then there's when you're starting, there's proof of effort. Jimmy's first there's proof of effort. Jimmy's first there's proof of effort. Jimmy's first viral video is him counting to like a viral video is him counting to like a viral video is him counting to like a million. It's proof of effort. When you million. It's proof of effort. When you million. It's proof of effort. When you have nothing else, you have time. You have nothing else, you have time. You have nothing else, you have time. You have work. If you want to make if you have work. If you want to make if you have work. If you want to make if you want to say, "Hey, I want to I want to want to say, "Hey, I want to I want to want to say, "Hey, I want to I want to get into into sales stuff." It's like get into into sales stuff." It's like get into into sales stuff." It's like record your entire day of you selling. record your entire day of you selling. record your entire day of you selling. And then when you overcome something And then when you overcome something And then when you overcome something that's really good, that's real life that's really good, that's real life that's really good, that's real life with real stakes, clip the moment, with real stakes, clip the moment, with real stakes, clip the moment, right? And show yourself. It's like, I right? And show yourself. It's like, I right? And show yourself. It's like, I took 22 calls today. Let me tell you the took 22 calls today. Let me tell you the took 22 calls today. Let me tell you the best moment. I did a I did a 12-h hour best moment. I did a I did a 12-h hour best moment. I did a I did a 12-h hour day. In 3 minutes, I'll give you the day. In 3 minutes, I'll give you the day. In 3 minutes, I'll give you the best moments. It's like people want to best moments. It's like people want to best moments. It's like people want to deal. deal. deal. >> And so I think about that as a >> And so I think about that as a >> And so I think about that as a compression of time. And the reason that compression of time. And the reason that compression of time. And the reason that people listen to the people who are people listen to the people who are people listen to the people who are further ahead who've done all these further ahead who've done all these further ahead who've done all these things is because we can compress time. things is because we can compress time. things is because we can compress time. Mhm. Mhm. Mhm. >> You say, "Hey, you could try and figure >> You say, "Hey, you could try and figure >> You say, "Hey, you could try and figure this out on your own, but if I can this out on your own, but if I can this out on your own, but if I can compress 14 years of business advice compress 14 years of business advice compress 14 years of business advice into 37 minutes, that's a good deal." Do into 37 minutes, that's a good deal." Do into 37 minutes, that's a good deal." Do >> you know what it reminded me of? Seven >> you know what it reminded me of? Seven >> you know what it reminded me of? Seven or eight years ago when I used to have, or eight years ago when I used to have, or eight years ago when I used to have, you know, big clients, Uber, Coca-Cola, you know, big clients, Uber, Coca-Cola, you know, big clients, Uber, Coca-Cola, whatever around the world. Um, we used whatever around the world. Um, we used whatever around the world. Um, we used to do a lot of like social competition, to do a lot of like social competition, to do a lot of like social competition, social media competitions, and I used to social media competitions, and I used to social media competitions, and I used to have this mental framework for the have this mental framework for the have this mental framework for the perfect competition. And I I I remember perfect competition. And I I I remember perfect competition. And I I I remember the day that I when I first heard of you the day that I when I first heard of you the day that I when I first heard of you and you were coming on my show, and I and you were coming on my show, and I and you were coming on my show, and I was looking through some of your was looking through some of your was looking through some of your writings, and you almost had an writings, and you almost had an writings, and you almost had an identical framework.

identical framework. identical framework. >> Yeah. So the the core so each of the >> Yeah. So the the core so each of the >> Yeah. So the the core so each of the books has one core concept and then it books has one core concept and then it books has one core concept and then it breaks down how to use it etc. But the breaks down how to use it etc. But the breaks down how to use it etc. But the value equation comes down to what's the value equation comes down to what's the value equation comes down to what's the outcome outcome outcome and some outcomes are worth more than and some outcomes are worth more than and some outcomes are worth more than others. If I can help you cut your hair others. If I can help you cut your hair others. If I can help you cut your hair versus I can get you to be in perfect versus I can get you to be in perfect versus I can get you to be in perfect shape. Perfect shape is worth more. If I shape. Perfect shape is worth more. If I shape. Perfect shape is worth more. If I can get you be a billionaire versus can get you be a billionaire versus can get you be a billionaire versus perfect shape, billionaire is worth perfect shape, billionaire is worth perfect shape, billionaire is worth more. Right. So we have outcome and then more. Right. So we have outcome and then more. Right. So we have outcome and then we have perceived likelihood of we have perceived likelihood of we have perceived likelihood of achievement. achievement. achievement. >> Perceived likelihood of achievement. >> Perceived likelihood of achievement. >> Perceived likelihood of achievement. Okay. So this is the Okay. Interesting. Okay. So this is the Okay. Interesting. Okay. So this is the Okay. Interesting. Yeah, Yeah, Yeah, >> it's the inverse of risk. >> it's the inverse of risk. >> it's the inverse of risk. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> How likely do I think it is? >> How likely do I think it is? >> How likely do I think it is? And then we have on the downside of And then we have on the downside of And then we have on the downside of this, we have um time delay. this, we have um time delay. this, we have um time delay. [clears throat] [clears throat] [clears throat] How long is it going to take me to get How long is it going to take me to get How long is it going to take me to get the thing? And then we have effort. the thing? And then we have effort. the thing? And then we have effort. >> Is this sacrifice? >> Is this sacrifice? >> Is this sacrifice? >> Is this effort and sacrifice? >> Is this effort and sacrifice? >> Is this effort and sacrifice? >> No, different. >> No, different. >> No, different. >> Yeah. So effort is all the things that >> Yeah. So effort is all the things that >> Yeah. So effort is all the things that you have to begin to do as a result of a you have to begin to do as a result of a you have to begin to do as a result of a decision that you don't want to do. decision that you don't want to do. decision that you don't want to do. sacrifice all the good things that you sacrifice all the good things that you sacrifice all the good things that you have to stop doing as a result of a have to stop doing as a result of a have to stop doing as a result of a decision. So, if I get into fitness, I decision. So, if I get into fitness, I decision. So, if I get into fitness, I have to stop eating the stuff I like and have to stop eating the stuff I like and have to stop eating the stuff I like and I have to start eating stuff I don't I have to start eating stuff I don't I have to start eating stuff I don't like. I have to start waking up earlier, like. I have to start waking up earlier, like. I have to start waking up earlier, I can't sleep in as much. Uh, I have to I can't sleep in as much. Uh, I have to I can't sleep in as much. Uh, I have to be sore where I wasn't before.

be sore where I wasn't before. be sore where I wasn't before. >> Um, and so that's my effort and >> Um, and so that's my effort and >> Um, and so that's my effort and sacrifice piece. The time delay is, sacrifice piece. The time delay is, sacrifice piece. The time delay is, okay, if I can get in shape in 3 minutes okay, if I can get in shape in 3 minutes okay, if I can get in shape in 3 minutes versus getting in shape in 3 months or 3 versus getting in shape in 3 months or 3 versus getting in shape in 3 months or 3 years, years, years, >> okay, >> okay, >> okay, >> the outcome is am I getting in shape or >> the outcome is am I getting in shape or >> the outcome is am I getting in shape or am I being a billionaire? And then how am I being a billionaire? And then how am I being a billionaire? And then how likely is this to happen? Mhm. likely is this to happen? Mhm. likely is this to happen? Mhm. >> Because on some level, like if I buy a >> Because on some level, like if I buy a >> Because on some level, like if I buy a PDF of a fitness program for $19 or I PDF of a fitness program for $19 or I PDF of a fitness program for $19 or I pay $3,000 for a personal trainer to pay $3,000 for a personal trainer to pay $3,000 for a personal trainer to train me in person three times a week, train me in person three times a week, train me in person three times a week, my perceived likelihood of achievement my perceived likelihood of achievement my perceived likelihood of achievement of buying the PDF versus personal of buying the PDF versus personal of buying the PDF versus personal trainer is much higher. trainer is much higher. trainer is much higher. >> Mhm. >> Mhm. >> Mhm. >> Now, the effort and sacrifice is >> Now, the effort and sacrifice is >> Now, the effort and sacrifice is actually going to be relatively fixed. actually going to be relatively fixed. actually going to be relatively fixed. But this is the part that goes up. Now, But this is the part that goes up. Now, But this is the part that goes up. Now, the time delay if done right should also the time delay if done right should also the time delay if done right should also be fixed there. But this is what be fixed there. But this is what be fixed there. But this is what explains the difference in value on a explains the difference in value on a explains the difference in value on a product level. But the value equation product level. But the value equation product level. But the value equation works for everything. Just like just works for everything. Just like just works for everything. Just like just like consuming content. Yeah. like consuming content. Yeah. like consuming content. Yeah. >> What's my outcome? I think I'm going to >> What's my outcome? I think I'm going to >> What's my outcome? I think I'm going to learn some about investing. How learn some about investing. How learn some about investing. How likely is it that I think he can provide likely is it that I think he can provide likely is it that I think he can provide value or if I consume this? Pretty high. value or if I consume this? Pretty high. value or if I consume this? Pretty high. What's my time commitment of consuming What's my time commitment of consuming What's my time commitment of consuming this? If I'm going to watch a 4-hour this? If I'm going to watch a 4-hour this? If I'm going to watch a 4-hour video, fewer people do it than a video, fewer people do it than a video, fewer people do it than a three-minute video, three-minute video, three-minute video, >> right? And then um you don't really >> right? And then um you don't really >> right? And then um you don't really actually have to do any work when you're actually have to do any work when you're actually have to do any work when you're just purely consuming content. But if I just purely consuming content. But if I just purely consuming content. But if I wanted to take action as a result, then wanted to take action as a result, then wanted to take action as a result, then that's that's another part of it. that's that's another part of it. that's that's another part of it. >> But it's still going to cost me 20 >> But it's still going to cost me 20 >> But it's still going to cost me 20 minutes, which is a sacrifice. I could minutes, which is a sacrifice. I could minutes, which is a sacrifice. I could be watching Netflix.

be watching Netflix. be watching Netflix. >> That's true. I think if we're using >> That's true. I think if we're using >> That's true. I think if we're using consumption of media as the thing, the consumption of media as the thing, the consumption of media as the thing, the effort and the time delay basically, are effort and the time delay basically, are effort and the time delay basically, are we talking time delay to outcome? I'm we talking time delay to outcome? I'm we talking time delay to outcome? I'm going to be rich. Um or am I? Yeah, the going to be rich. Um or am I? Yeah, the going to be rich. Um or am I? Yeah, the time is always going to be a component. time is always going to be a component. time is always going to be a component. What's interesting is that having looked What's interesting is that having looked What's interesting is that having looked at a zillion different offers over my at a zillion different offers over my at a zillion different offers over my life and thinking about value. Um the life and thinking about value. Um the life and thinking about value. Um the one that I think is most slept on one that I think is most slept on one that I think is most slept on is this one. is this one. is this one. >> How quickly they can accomplish X >> How quickly they can accomplish X >> How quickly they can accomplish X outcome. outcome. outcome. >> If you want to get into a business and >> If you want to get into a business and >> If you want to get into a business and just completely disrupt it, do look at just completely disrupt it, do look at just completely disrupt it, do look at what everyone else is doing and do it what everyone else is doing and do it what everyone else is doing and do it half the time. You can do that in just half the time. You can do that in just half the time. You can do that in just about any business because there will about any business because there will about any business because there will always be someone who's willing to pay a always be someone who's willing to pay a always be someone who's willing to pay a premium for that. premium for that. premium for that. >> Goes back to what um Jeff Bezos said >> Goes back to what um Jeff Bezos said >> Goes back to what um Jeff Bezos said about betting on things that won't about betting on things that won't about betting on things that won't change. change. change. >> Yeah. that that like that his whole >> Yeah. that that like that his whole >> Yeah. that that like that his whole mantra around that has been one of my mantra around that has been one of my mantra around that has been one of my like I would say one of my true pillars like I would say one of my true pillars like I would say one of my true pillars of like how do I plan for the future. of like how do I plan for the future. of like how do I plan for the future. >> Give people context on that for those >> Give people context on that for those >> Give people context on that for those that haven't never heard Jeff talk about that haven't never heard Jeff talk about that haven't never heard Jeff talk about that and what that means. that and what that means. that and what that means. >> So he I think I saw it as an interview >> So he I think I saw it as an interview >> So he I think I saw it as an interview that he did and they said so given X Y that he did and they said so given X Y that he did and they said so given X Y and Z what do you think about the and Z what do you think about the and Z what do you think about the future? And he said you know I don't future? And he said you know I don't future? And he said you know I don't really think that much about what's really think that much about what's really think that much about what's going to change. He said I spent a lot going to change. He said I spent a lot going to change. He said I spent a lot more time trying to think what's not more time trying to think what's not more time trying to think what's not going to change and then we bet really going to change and then we bet really going to change and then we bet really heavily on those things. We believe that heavily on those things. We believe that heavily on those things. We believe that customers will prefer cheaper prices 10 customers will prefer cheaper prices 10 customers will prefer cheaper prices 10 years from now just as much as they do years from now just as much as they do years from now just as much as they do now. We believe that customers will now. We believe that customers will now. We believe that customers will prefer more selection to less selection prefer more selection to less selection prefer more selection to less selection 10 years from now as much as they do 10 years from now as much as they do 10 years from now as much as they do now. We believe that if customers can now. We believe that if customers can now. We believe that if customers can get something in two hours, they will get something in two hours, they will get something in two hours, they will value that more than if it takes them value that more than if it takes them value that more than if it takes them two days. We believe in that. We can bet two days. We believe in that. We can bet two days. We believe in that. We can bet in that. And so he just thinks about in that. And so he just thinks about in that. And so he just thinks about these elements. And if we're thinking these elements. And if we're thinking these elements. And if we're thinking about the like the value equation, how about the like the value equation, how about the like the value equation, how easy did they make buying? It's one easy did they make buying? It's one easy did they make buying? It's one click. How fast does it come? It's click. How fast does it come? It's click. How fast does it come? It's almost immediate. You have a history of almost immediate. You have a history of almost immediate. You have a history of buying from them. So, and this is also

buying from them. So, and this is also buying from them. So, and this is also where the reviews come in. How likely is where the reviews come in. How likely is where the reviews come in. How likely is it? Well, if it's a fivestar with 5,000 it? Well, if it's a fivestar with 5,000 it? Well, if it's a fivestar with 5,000 reviews, it's pretty high. If it's got a reviews, it's pretty high. If it's got a reviews, it's pretty high. If it's got a one and a half and it's got two reviews, one and a half and it's got two reviews, one and a half and it's got two reviews, I'm probably not going to buy it I'm probably not going to buy it I'm probably not going to buy it [laughter] even if it's the same product [laughter] even if it's the same product [laughter] even if it's the same product just because of our perception of it, just because of our perception of it, just because of our perception of it, >> right? And then the outcome is what I'm >> right? And then the outcome is what I'm >> right? And then the outcome is what I'm willing to do for the price, right? And willing to do for the price, right? And willing to do for the price, right? And I think about this time delay component I think about this time delay component I think about this time delay component because of one thing that kind of loops because of one thing that kind of loops because of one thing that kind of loops over the whole conversation at this over the whole conversation at this over the whole conversation at this point is that point is that point is that >> people will abstract the value of a >> people will abstract the value of a >> people will abstract the value of a positive future outcome to zero if it is positive future outcome to zero if it is positive future outcome to zero if it is long enough in the future. long enough in the future. long enough in the future. >> True. Even if it's guaranteed, >> True. Even if it's guaranteed, >> True. Even if it's guaranteed, >> you can guarantee that you will be rich >> you can guarantee that you will be rich >> you can guarantee that you will be rich if you invest, you know, $100 a week or if you invest, you know, $100 a week or if you invest, you know, $100 a week or $200 a week, whatever into into an index $200 a week, whatever into into an index $200 a week, whatever into into an index fund, right? Pretty much. And if you do fund, right? Pretty much. And if you do fund, right? Pretty much. And if you do that for 30, 40 years, you you will be that for 30, 40 years, you you will be that for 30, 40 years, you you will be fine. fine. fine. >> Because it's 30 or 40 years and because >> Because it's 30 or 40 years and because >> Because it's 30 or 40 years and because the latte is today, the discount the latte is today, the discount the latte is today, the discount basically takes it to zero. There's two basically takes it to zero. There's two basically takes it to zero. There's two lessons that I think that are really, lessons that I think that are really, lessons that I think that are really, really hard to learn. And I think um really hard to learn. And I think um really hard to learn. And I think um Williamson talks about this with like Williamson talks about this with like Williamson talks about this with like unlearnable or unteachable lessons, unlearnable or unteachable lessons, unlearnable or unteachable lessons, things like that. Lessons that are things like that. Lessons that are things like that. Lessons that are difficult to observe unless you go difficult to observe unless you go difficult to observe unless you go through them. One of my one of the guys through them. One of my one of the guys through them. One of my one of the guys who worked for me, he said, "You know, I who worked for me, he said, "You know, I who worked for me, he said, "You know, I consumed your content for, you know, consumed your content for, you know, consumed your content for, you know, years." He said, "But seeing you at the years." He said, "But seeing you at the years." He said, "But seeing you at the office at 4:00 a.m. every day when you office at 4:00 a.m. every day when you office at 4:00 a.m. every day when you don't need to do this at all." The don't need to do this at all." The don't need to do this at all." The consistency of it, he's like, "I I don't consistency of it, he's like, "I I don't consistency of it, he's like, "I I don't see that in the content. I mean, I I see see that in the content. I mean, I I see see that in the content. I mean, I I see the output of that." And one of the the output of that." And one of the the output of that." And one of the things with consistency is that you need things with consistency is that you need things with consistency is that you need to be consistent in order to witness to be consistent in order to witness to be consistent in order to witness consistency.

consistency. consistency. Like you can't even you can't even Like you can't even you can't even Like you can't even you can't even observe cons like even if I did a time observe cons like even if I did a time observe cons like even if I did a time lapse that takes 10 seconds of me doing lapse that takes 10 seconds of me doing lapse that takes 10 seconds of me doing you still don't perceive it. So there's you still don't perceive it. So there's you still don't perceive it. So there's there's the consistency piece and I there's the consistency piece and I there's the consistency piece and I think the other one with with regards to think the other one with with regards to think the other one with with regards to the long-term component the long-term component the long-term component >> is patience. >> is patience. >> is patience. >> Yeah. Also to be to fair focus because >> Yeah. Also to be to fair focus because >> Yeah. Also to be to fair focus because um Shiron my partner says this. He says um Shiron my partner says this. He says um Shiron my partner says this. He says um people only see the choices you made um people only see the choices you made um people only see the choices you made not the options you had. not the options you had. not the options you had. And so you can't really witness focus. And so you can't really witness focus. And so you can't really witness focus. You just see winning. You just see winning. You just see winning. >> And so to the same degree with patience >> And so to the same degree with patience >> And so to the same degree with patience again, you only see the win. Like if you again, you only see the win. Like if you again, you only see the win. Like if you look at a marathon, people are there at look at a marathon, people are there at look at a marathon, people are there at the beginning, they're there at the end. the beginning, they're there at the end. the beginning, they're there at the end. No one's here in the middle. No one's here in the middle. No one's here in the middle. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Cuz it's the only fun part. The content >> Cuz it's the only fun part. The content >> Cuz it's the only fun part. The content of a marathon would be the the intro and of a marathon would be the the intro and of a marathon would be the the intro and the exit. Like you'd literally make it the exit. Like you'd literally make it the exit. Like you'd literally make it into a clip that's 30 seconds. It'd be into a clip that's 30 seconds. It'd be into a clip that's 30 seconds. It'd be like, yay. And then maybe a couple mile like, yay. And then maybe a couple mile like, yay. And then maybe a couple mile markers and it's like, wait, we markers and it's like, wait, we markers and it's like, wait, we compressed this. What a what a bargain. compressed this. What a what a bargain. compressed this. What a what a bargain. Great great return on time. You can't Great great return on time. You can't Great great return on time. You can't really witness patience unless you've really witness patience unless you've really witness patience unless you've literally followed it from the beginning literally followed it from the beginning literally followed it from the beginning which of course you'll have your OG which of course you'll have your OG which of course you'll have your OG people who are with you the beginning of people who are with you the beginning of people who are with you the beginning of Driver CEO and they've they've seen the Driver CEO and they've they've seen the Driver CEO and they've they've seen the patience start to play out but it's one patience start to play out but it's one patience start to play out but it's one of the things that like one of the the of the things that like one of the the of the things that like one of the the the ultimate gifts that I would hope and the ultimate gifts that I would hope and the ultimate gifts that I would hope and the equal opposite of this is Steve Win the equal opposite of this is Steve Win the equal opposite of this is Steve Win I think talked about how his the best I think talked about how his the best I think talked about how his the best thing in the world is that someone comes thing in the world is that someone comes thing in the world is that someone comes their first time to one of his casinos their first time to one of his casinos their first time to one of his casinos bets big and wins. It's the best thing bets big and wins. It's the best thing bets big and wins. It's the best thing ever. The worst thing that can happen is ever. The worst thing that can happen is ever. The worst thing that can happen is that the first time they come they lose that the first time they come they lose that the first time they come they lose their money cuz then they never gamble their money cuz then they never gamble their money cuz then they never gamble again. And so it's like they he wants again. And so it's like they he wants again. And so it's like they he wants that big reinforcing event up front that big reinforcing event up front that big reinforcing event up front because then you can become a gambling because then you can become a gambling because then you can become a gambling addict, right? And so to the same addict, right? And so to the same addict, right? And so to the same degree, my my hope for like my kid in degree, my my hope for like my kid in degree, my my hope for like my kid in the future or or anyone who's trying to the future or or anyone who's trying to the future or or anyone who's trying to start out is that they have something

start out is that they have something start out is that they have something that happens in their life where they're that happens in their life where they're that happens in their life where they're rewarded for delaying the outcome and rewarded for delaying the outcome and rewarded for delaying the outcome and having a big jackpot as a result of the having a big jackpot as a result of the having a big jackpot as a result of the consistent effort where they they consistent effort where they they consistent effort where they they delayed the reward. M delayed the reward. M delayed the reward. M >> because as soon as you do learn that >> because as soon as you do learn that >> because as soon as you do learn that lesson, you see how big the big can be lesson, you see how big the big can be lesson, you see how big the big can be when you wait. when you wait. when you wait. >> Yeah, it goes back to what we were >> Yeah, it goes back to what we were >> Yeah, it goes back to what we were saying about long like long termism as a saying about long like long termism as a saying about long like long termism as a strategy. But also, yeah, like I only strategy. But also, yeah, like I only strategy. But also, yeah, like I only needed to look at that graph, the needed to look at that graph, the needed to look at that graph, the compounding returns graph once, actually compounding returns graph once, actually compounding returns graph once, actually looking at my own audience growth and looking at my own audience growth and looking at my own audience growth and seeing that I did a thousand posts on seeing that I did a thousand posts on seeing that I did a thousand posts on Instagram and reached 1,000 followers. Instagram and reached 1,000 followers. Instagram and reached 1,000 followers. And then in my last three, when I had And then in my last three, when I had And then in my last three, when I had 7,000 followers, I gained 300,000 7,000 followers, I gained 300,000 7,000 followers, I gained 300,000 followers in three posts because followers in three posts because followers in three posts because carousels had dropped in Instagram was carousels had dropped in Instagram was carousels had dropped in Instagram was rewarding everybody for carousels back rewarding everybody for carousels back rewarding everybody for carousels back then. And me seeing that graph and then then. And me seeing that graph and then then. And me seeing that graph and then going, "Oh, it's slow then it's fast in going, "Oh, it's slow then it's fast in going, "Oh, it's slow then it's fast in success." And then starting the diia and success." And then starting the diia and success." And then starting the diia and for 3 years nobody listening. for 3 years nobody listening. for 3 years nobody listening. And then all of a sudden it was like it And then all of a sudden it was like it And then all of a sudden it was like it was just crazy. It just went a was just crazy. It just went a was just crazy. It just went a vertical line up and go, "Oh, it's the vertical line up and go, "Oh, it's the vertical line up and go, "Oh, it's the same Instagram graph I saw all those same Instagram graph I saw all those same Instagram graph I saw all those years ago." So actually, you know, it's years ago." So actually, you know, it's years ago." So actually, you know, it's slow then it's fast. But most people if slow then it's fast. But most people if slow then it's fast. But most people if you've never experienced slow, you you've never experienced slow, you you've never experienced slow, you think, "Oh, I'm inadequate. I up.

think, "Oh, I'm inadequate. I up. think, "Oh, I'm inadequate. I up. I'm dumb." I'm dumb." I'm dumb." >> But you now you have that religion. >> But you now you have that religion. >> But you now you have that religion. >> Yeah. There are mistakes of picking the >> Yeah. There are mistakes of picking the >> Yeah. There are mistakes of picking the wrong path, but I think there are more wrong path, but I think there are more wrong path, but I think there are more mistakes of abandoning the right path. mistakes of abandoning the right path. mistakes of abandoning the right path. >> How would you how do you know though? >> How would you how do you know though? >> How would you how do you know though? >> So there's a handful of I think >> So there's a handful of I think >> So there's a handful of I think entrepreneur questions that are entrepreneur questions that are entrepreneur questions that are eternally unanswerable. Mh. eternally unanswerable. Mh. eternally unanswerable. Mh. >> Which is when do you push and when do >> Which is when do you push and when do >> Which is when do you push and when do you pivot? you pivot? you pivot? >> Like how much risk do I take on? >> Like how much risk do I take on? >> Like how much risk do I take on? >> Mhm. >> Mhm. >> Mhm. >> Like should should I consume or invest? >> Like should should I consume or invest? >> Like should should I consume or invest? Well, you don't know when you die. Well, you don't know when you die. Well, you don't know when you die. >> True. >> True. >> True. >> Right. And so with the push and pivot >> Right. And so with the push and pivot >> Right. And so with the push and pivot one, the best answer that I have to this one, the best answer that I have to this one, the best answer that I have to this because I I get this one a lot like, because I I get this one a lot like, because I I get this one a lot like, "Hey, it's really hard. Should I should "Hey, it's really hard. Should I should "Hey, it's really hard. Should I should I pivot the business, change it, or I pivot the business, change it, or I pivot the business, change it, or should I try and like push through?" My should I try and like push through?" My should I try and like push through?" My actual answer is if you had a actual answer is if you had a actual answer is if you had a fundamental assumption that you based fundamental assumption that you based fundamental assumption that you based the business on that has been proven the business on that has been proven the business on that has been proven untrue from your business activities, I untrue from your business activities, I untrue from your business activities, I think it makes sense to pivot. If none think it makes sense to pivot. If none think it makes sense to pivot. If none of your original thesis are incorrect, of your original thesis are incorrect, of your original thesis are incorrect, it's just not happening as fast as you it's just not happening as fast as you it's just not happening as fast as you want or as easily as you want, then you want or as easily as you want, then you want or as easily as you want, then you push. push. push. >> What's interesting is like the nature of >> What's interesting is like the nature of >> What's interesting is like the nature of being a founder as well on that is going being a founder as well on that is going being a founder as well on that is going earlier than the world. Like when you earlier than the world. Like when you earlier than the world. Like when you think about outside success, like think about outside success, like think about outside success, like everyone understands space now and everyone understands space now and everyone understands space now and they're like, "Oh, we can do reusable they're like, "Oh, we can do reusable they're like, "Oh, we can do reusable rockets now. We get it."

rockets now. We get it." rockets now. We get it." >> But being being the first guy >> But being being the first guy >> But being being the first guy >> or the first woman um I think is really >> or the first woman um I think is really >> or the first woman um I think is really the essence of a founder. They go the essence of a founder. They go the essence of a founder. They go earlier than than the world's current earlier than than the world's current earlier than than the world's current available evidence. And thus there needs available evidence. And thus there needs available evidence. And thus there needs to be some kind of framework that you to be some kind of framework that you to be some kind of framework that you have. One of my frameworks which I've have. One of my frameworks which I've have. One of my frameworks which I've never articulated before and I don't never articulated before and I don't never articulated before and I don't even know if this is going to sound even know if this is going to sound even know if this is going to sound correct but it's just always guided me correct but it's just always guided me correct but it's just always guided me is um do I believe that I'm offering is um do I believe that I'm offering is um do I believe that I'm offering even a tiny group of people scarce even a tiny group of people scarce even a tiny group of people scarce value? So when I started the direo I was value? So when I started the direo I was value? So when I started the direo I was making Facebook videos with people like making Facebook videos with people like making Facebook videos with people like Ja. We we could get tens of millions of Ja. We we could get tens of millions of Ja. We we could get tens of millions of views on Facebook watch back then. No views on Facebook watch back then. No views on Facebook watch back then. No one was mentioning it. So, I remember one was mentioning it. So, I remember one was mentioning it. So, I remember this made this video about relationships this made this video about relationships this made this video about relationships that did 33 million views. Bad guy, no that did 33 million views. Bad guy, no that did 33 million views. Bad guy, no one would mention it. No one like no one would mention it. No one like no one would mention it. No one like no one. And then I started this podcast one. And then I started this podcast one. And then I started this podcast called The Dire in my bedroom. I got called The Dire in my bedroom. I got called The Dire in my bedroom. I got went to Apple, bought this microphone went to Apple, bought this microphone went to Apple, bought this microphone for $100, plugged it into Garage Band, for $100, plugged it into Garage Band, for $100, plugged it into Garage Band, tried to edit it myself, uploaded it, tried to edit it myself, uploaded it, tried to edit it myself, uploaded it, and like my two best friends, the look and like my two best friends, the look and like my two best friends, the look on their faces in the office, Ash and on their faces in the office, Ash and on their faces in the office, Ash and Oliver. When they listened to it, they Oliver. When they listened to it, they Oliver. When they listened to it, they had never reacted to me like that ever had never reacted to me like that ever had never reacted to me like that ever before for the Facebook videos I've before for the Facebook videos I've before for the Facebook videos I've made. And then when I didn't upload the made. And then when I didn't upload the made. And then when I didn't upload the next week, Oliver Yonv came to me and next week, Oliver Yonv came to me and next week, Oliver Yonv came to me and said, "When's the episode coming out?"

said, "When's the episode coming out?" said, "When's the episode coming out?" For me, that that was it. For me, that that was it. For me, that that was it. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> For me, I was like, I've done something >> For me, I was like, I've done something >> For me, I was like, I've done something here that's delivered scarce value to here that's delivered scarce value to here that's delivered scarce value to the world. So much so that one of my the world. So much so that one of my the world. So much so that one of my best friends who's very honest with me best friends who's very honest with me best friends who's very honest with me is asking me when the next one is. And is asking me when the next one is. And is asking me when the next one is. And so now I follow that. So when I'm so now I follow that. So when I'm so now I follow that. So when I'm thinking about the bets we make on the thinking about the bets we make on the thinking about the bets we make on the future, I'm obsessed about finding future, I'm obsessed about finding future, I'm obsessed about finding things that are delivering scarce value things that are delivering scarce value things that are delivering scarce value even if they're unscalable. even if they're unscalable. even if they're unscalable. >> I think you bring up a really good point >> I think you bring up a really good point >> I think you bring up a really good point about the unscalable part because so two about the unscalable part because so two about the unscalable part because so two two parts of this. But one is two parts of this. But one is two parts of this. But one is people will not do things. I see I see people will not do things. I see I see people will not do things. I see I see beginning entrepreneurs say they're beginning entrepreneurs say they're beginning entrepreneurs say they're like, "Well, that's not scalable." And like, "Well, that's not scalable." And like, "Well, that's not scalable." And I'm like, "You're broke. I'm like, "You're broke. I'm like, "You're broke. >> Yeah, >> Yeah, >> Yeah, >> you're broke. It's okay. You can you >> you're broke. It's okay. You can you >> you're broke. It's okay. You can you cannot be scal. You can just make money. cannot be scal. You can just make money. cannot be scal. You can just make money. That's okay." But it also assumes that That's okay." But it also assumes that That's okay." But it also assumes that your future self with more skills and your future self with more skills and your future self with more skills and more resources won't have the ability to more resources won't have the ability to more resources won't have the ability to figure out how to scale it. figure out how to scale it. figure out how to scale it. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> And most things are like we're building >> And most things are like we're building >> And most things are like we're building cities in the middle of the cities in the middle of the cities in the middle of the ocean. ocean. ocean. If you're starting a business, and this If you're starting a business, and this If you're starting a business, and this is where you have to not sell out of is where you have to not sell out of is where you have to not sell out of your own wallet, is and that's the the your own wallet, is and that's the the your own wallet, is and that's the the nature of the offers book is start with nature of the offers book is start with nature of the offers book is start with the most absurdly valuable thing you the most absurdly valuable thing you the most absurdly valuable thing you possibly can. So, whatever price you possibly can. So, whatever price you possibly can. So, whatever price you want to charge, add one or two zeros to want to charge, add one or two zeros to want to charge, add one or two zeros to it. Okay? And it's like, that's crazy. I it. Okay? And it's like, that's crazy. I it. Okay? And it's like, that's crazy. I agree. Crazy. What would you have to do agree. Crazy. What would you have to do agree. Crazy. What would you have to do in order for that to be worth it? And in order for that to be worth it? And in order for that to be worth it? And then you list out all the things you I then you list out all the things you I then you list out all the things you I mean, well, if I was going to get mean, well, if I was going to get mean, well, if I was going to get somebody in shape, I' i'd probably go to somebody in shape, I' i'd probably go to somebody in shape, I' i'd probably go to their house. I would I would help them their house. I would I would help them their house. I would I would help them grocery shop. I would I would drive them grocery shop. I would I would drive them grocery shop. I would I would drive them to the gym and back from the gym to make to the gym and back from the gym to make to the gym and back from the gym to make sure that they actually did it. for 100 sure that they actually did it. for 100 sure that they actually did it. for 100 grand, is it worth it? And they're like, grand, is it worth it? And they're like, grand, is it worth it? And they're like, well, it's not scalable. [laughter] well, it's not scalable. [laughter] well, it's not scalable. [laughter] >> It's like, well, you only need five.

>> It's like, well, you only need five. >> It's like, well, you only need five. >> And I [clears throat] think when you're >> And I [clears throat] think when you're >> And I [clears throat] think when you're starting out, there's huge value in starting out, there's huge value in starting out, there's huge value in having unscalable services because one, having unscalable services because one, having unscalable services because one, you'll get better customers because you'll get better customers because you'll get better customers because you're going to be charging much more you're going to be charging much more you're going to be charging much more for something that's a little bit more for something that's a little bit more for something that's a little bit more premium. And the value of talking to premium. And the value of talking to premium. And the value of talking to people richer than you will do more for people richer than you will do more for people richer than you will do more for you than what you are doing for them. you than what you are doing for them. you than what you are doing for them. >> Mh. So like they will shift your >> Mh. So like they will shift your >> Mh. So like they will shift your worldview which is why like a lot of worldview which is why like a lot of worldview which is why like a lot of people like caddies who talk to all people like caddies who talk to all people like caddies who talk to all these millionaires when they're when these millionaires when they're when these millionaires when they're when they're playing golf it's like they they're playing golf it's like they they're playing golf it's like they learn so much from the people like how learn so much from the people like how learn so much from the people like how do you make your money like they learn do you make your money like they learn do you make your money like they learn so much worldview of oh I shouldn't be so much worldview of oh I shouldn't be so much worldview of oh I shouldn't be thinking this way I should be thinking thinking this way I should be thinking thinking this way I should be thinking like this. So one is you get that. The like this. So one is you get that. The like this. So one is you get that. The second is that you are able to practice second is that you are able to practice second is that you are able to practice the unscalable thing. the unscalable thing. the unscalable thing. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> And then you can figure out how do I how >> And then you can figure out how do I how >> And then you can figure out how do I how do I take the scarce value okay this is do I take the scarce value okay this is do I take the scarce value okay this is not scalable. Fine. We can let's just not scalable. Fine. We can let's just not scalable. Fine. We can let's just say it's not scalable. Okay. Are there say it's not scalable. Okay. Are there say it's not scalable. Okay. Are there elements of this that are scalable that elements of this that are scalable that elements of this that are scalable that I now know because I've done it rather I now know because I've done it rather I now know because I've done it rather than because I thought about it because than because I thought about it because than because I thought about it because your thought experiments and I'd say for your thought experiments and I'd say for your thought experiments and I'd say for myself too are pretty terrible. Like our myself too are pretty terrible. Like our myself too are pretty terrible. Like our ability to predict the future is pretty ability to predict the future is pretty ability to predict the future is pretty god awful. And so we think we know what god awful. And so we think we know what god awful. And so we think we know what it's going to be like and we usually it's going to be like and we usually it's going to be like and we usually have no idea. [laughter] And so and so have no idea. [laughter] And so and so have no idea. [laughter] And so and so it's like go do it. You'll collect way it's like go do it. You'll collect way it's like go do it. You'll collect way richer data that no one else has done richer data that no one else has done richer data that no one else has done because it was unscalable. And then you because it was unscalable. And then you because it was unscalable. And then you can actually create something that's can actually create something that's can actually create something that's more scalable, that is unique because more scalable, that is unique because more scalable, that is unique because you actually went through it. And from a you actually went through it. And from a you actually went through it. And from a this is getting a little bit more this is getting a little bit more this is getting a little bit more businessy, but from a branding businessy, but from a branding businessy, but from a branding perspective, saying, "Hey, I have a perspective, saying, "Hey, I have a perspective, saying, "Hey, I have a handful of clients that pay me $2,000 a handful of clients that pay me $2,000 a handful of clients that pay me $2,000 a month to do this premium thing." For month to do this premium thing." For month to do this premium thing." For those of you who can't afford that, I those of you who can't afford that, I those of you who can't afford that, I now have this thing. You've already now have this thing. You've already now have this thing. You've already anchored high. They see you as the anchored high. They see you as the anchored high. They see you as the person on the hill because you deal with person on the hill because you deal with person on the hill because you deal with these unscalable, my private clients.

these unscalable, my private clients. these unscalable, my private clients. And then you can have like you look at And then you can have like you look at And then you can have like you look at the Tesla model of start with the the Tesla model of start with the the Tesla model of start with the Roadster and then you have the Model S Roadster and then you have the Model S Roadster and then you have the Model S and then you work your way down to the and then you work your way down to the and then you work your way down to the masses. And so I'm a big believer in masses. And so I'm a big believer in masses. And so I'm a big believer in price as high as you can. Make the very price as high as you can. Make the very price as high as you can. Make the very premium thing first. Let that be high premium thing first. Let that be high premium thing first. Let that be high cash flow, high margin, low scalability cash flow, high margin, low scalability cash flow, high margin, low scalability so that you can then have the money to so that you can then have the money to so that you can then have the money to start working your way down start working your way down start working your way down >> to more people. Well, if I was to >> to more people. Well, if I was to >> to more people. Well, if I was to forensically analyze your business forensically analyze your business forensically analyze your business >> now, and then I brought in Alex who >> now, and then I brought in Alex who >> now, and then I brought in Alex who started that business on day one and I started that business on day one and I started that business on day one and I go, look at how unscalable all this go, look at how unscalable all this go, look at how unscalable all this stuff is that he's accomplished. I stuff is that he's accomplished. I stuff is that he's accomplished. I actually would make the case from what actually would make the case from what actually would make the case from what you were just saying that actually the you were just saying that actually the you were just saying that actually the essence of value creation in business is essence of value creation in business is essence of value creation in business is solving problems that didn't look solving problems that didn't look solving problems that didn't look scalable. scalable. scalable. >> I was just thinking about even the diio >> I was just thinking about even the diio >> I was just thinking about even the diio process here from the minute you leave process here from the minute you leave process here from the minute you leave like so right now the team in there that like so right now the team in there that like so right now the team in there that are doing the testing, they're actually are doing the testing, they're actually are doing the testing, they're actually making you a book as as we speak. They making you a book as as we speak. They making you a book as as we speak. They take they took photos of us while we take they took photos of us while we take they took photos of us while we were sat here. And when this interview were sat here. And when this interview were sat here. And when this interview ends, they're going to walk in and hand ends, they're going to walk in and hand ends, they're going to walk in and hand me the book. I'm going to sign it and me the book. I'm going to sign it and me the book. I'm going to sign it and pass it to you. That book is going to pass it to you. That book is going to pass it to you. That book is going to contain quotes from fans that loved our contain quotes from fans that loved our contain quotes from fans that loved our last conversation. They're currently last conversation. They're currently last conversation. They're currently printing them off on Polaroids. They're printing them off on Polaroids. They're printing them off on Polaroids. They're writing it. When this conversation is writing it. When this conversation is writing it. When this conversation is done, we're going to test your name 300 done, we're going to test your name 300 done, we're going to test your name 300 times using ads to see how to introduce times using ads to see how to introduce times using ads to see how to introduce you. I know Alex is going to win cuz you. I know Alex is going to win cuz you. I know Alex is going to win cuz you're a big you're a big name now. But you're a big you're a big name now. But you're a big you're a big name now. But you think about when we started the you think about when we started the you think about when we started the podcast. Imagine me there with on Garage podcast. Imagine me there with on Garage podcast. Imagine me there with on Garage Band [laughter] with $100.

Band [laughter] with $100. Band [laughter] with $100. >> That's not scalable. >> That's not scalable. >> That's not scalable. >> It's not scalable. I use this this this >> It's not scalable. I use this this this >> It's not scalable. I use this this this frame a lot which is that you are trying frame a lot which is that you are trying frame a lot which is that you are trying to solve tomorrow's problems with to solve tomorrow's problems with to solve tomorrow's problems with today's resources today's resources today's resources >> and it's a fallacy. It's ridiculous. You >> and it's a fallacy. It's ridiculous. You >> and it's a fallacy. It's ridiculous. You don't have the money. You don't have the don't have the money. You don't have the don't have the money. You don't have the skill. You don't have the connections. skill. You don't have the connections. skill. You don't have the connections. You don't have the resources. You don't You don't have the resources. You don't You don't have the resources. You don't have the experience and the track have the experience and the track have the experience and the track record. But future you will. But the record. But future you will. But the record. But future you will. But the hard part is future is a stranger. hard part is future is a stranger. hard part is future is a stranger. >> Mhm. >> Mhm. >> Mhm. >> And so I think we make a lot of this >> And so I think we make a lot of this >> And so I think we make a lot of this content to try and approximate as content to try and approximate as content to try and approximate as closely as possible to just pull the closely as possible to just pull the closely as possible to just pull the first step for someone to take to say first step for someone to take to say first step for someone to take to say believe like you will figure it out. believe like you will figure it out. believe like you will figure it out. Like as long as you do not quit, you'll Like as long as you do not quit, you'll Like as long as you do not quit, you'll win. win. win. Like you just have to not stop. That's Like you just have to not stop. That's Like you just have to not stop. That's basically it. You just have to not stop. basically it. You just have to not stop. basically it. You just have to not stop. As long as you get feedback and you take As long as you get feedback and you take As long as you get feedback and you take the feedback and you improve and you do the feedback and you improve and you do the feedback and you improve and you do that a long enough time horizon, you that a long enough time horizon, you that a long enough time horizon, you win. win. win. >> Let's be So just to be clear that you're >> Let's be So just to be clear that you're >> Let's be So just to be clear that you're not saying pursue a bad idea all the way not saying pursue a bad idea all the way not saying pursue a bad idea all the way and just never be stubborn about the and just never be stubborn about the and just never be stubborn about the pursuit of a bad idea. You're saying pursuit of a bad idea. You're saying pursuit of a bad idea. You're saying iterate your way. iterate your way. iterate your way. >> Yeah. We have to get feedback. >> Yeah. We have to get feedback. >> Yeah. We have to get feedback. >> Yeah. I mean, if you want to have a >> Yeah. I mean, if you want to have a >> Yeah. I mean, if you want to have a doggy skateboard and you pitch a hundred doggy skateboard and you pitch a hundred doggy skateboard and you pitch a hundred dog owners on the doggy skateboard and dog owners on the doggy skateboard and dog owners on the doggy skateboard and then none of them want it and you're then none of them want it and you're then none of them want it and you're like, "Well, I really believe in this like, "Well, I really believe in this like, "Well, I really believe in this doggy skateboard idea." And then you doggy skateboard idea." And then you doggy skateboard idea." And then you bring them the doggy skateboard and then bring them the doggy skateboard and then bring them the doggy skateboard and then they really still don't want it. You they really still don't want it. You they really still don't want it. You probably shouldn't sell doggy probably shouldn't sell doggy probably shouldn't sell doggy skateboards.

skateboards. skateboards. >> So, you should quit the doggy skateboard >> So, you should quit the doggy skateboard >> So, you should quit the doggy skateboard business. business. business. >> Yes, but you shouldn't quit business. >> Yes, but you shouldn't quit business. >> Yes, but you shouldn't quit business. >> Okay. The other >> Okay. The other >> Okay. The other >> I think it's local versus global. >> I think it's local versus global. >> I think it's local versus global. >> Even [clears throat] if you just reframe >> Even [clears throat] if you just reframe >> Even [clears throat] if you just reframe failure in that way, it makes it way failure in that way, it makes it way failure in that way, it makes it way more palatable. Like you figuring it out more palatable. Like you figuring it out more palatable. Like you figuring it out is a lot of failures. I mean, how many is a lot of failures. I mean, how many is a lot of failures. I mean, how many failed episodes, failed headlines, failed episodes, failed headlines, failed episodes, failed headlines, packaging, you forgot to turn the mic on packaging, you forgot to turn the mic on packaging, you forgot to turn the mic on and did the whole I'm sure and did the whole I'm sure and did the whole I'm sure >> someone came and stole the hard >> someone came and stole the hard >> someone came and stole the hard drive with the audio on it. It's like drive with the audio on it. It's like drive with the audio on it. It's like [laughter] [laughter] [laughter] >> there's there's going to be hundred of >> there's there's going to be hundred of >> there's there's going to be hundred of those. But as long as it doesn't become those. But as long as it doesn't become those. But as long as it doesn't become a global failure of I'm no longer doing a global failure of I'm no longer doing a global failure of I'm no longer doing this, then you're good. this, then you're good. this, then you're good. >> One of the smartest things a business >> One of the smartest things a business >> One of the smartest things a business can do is build like a bigger company can do is build like a bigger company can do is build like a bigger company without actually hiring like one. But without actually hiring like one. But without actually hiring like one. But the problem we all face is that most the problem we all face is that most the problem we all face is that most companies don't have every skill in companies don't have every skill in companies don't have every skill in house. So when I look at the businesses house. So when I look at the businesses house. 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pro.fr.com. pro.fr.com. One of the great fascinations I have and One of the great fascinations I have and One of the great fascinations I have and almost one of the unteachables is self I almost one of the unteachables is self I almost one of the unteachables is self I think it's self-awareness. think it's self-awareness. think it's self-awareness. >> Yeah. I say judgment. Yeah. >> Yeah. I say judgment. Yeah. >> Yeah. I say judgment. Yeah. >> Judgment again. Yeah. Because I have you >> Judgment again. Yeah. Because I have you >> Judgment again. Yeah. Because I have you ever had someone come up to you and say ever had someone come up to you and say ever had someone come up to you and say something grandio. They want to go to something grandio. They want to go to something grandio. They want to go to the moon. Let's say hypothetical and you the moon. Let's say hypothetical and you the moon. Let's say hypothetical and you look at them and you go you're not a look at them and you go you're not a look at them and you go you're not a spaceman. Do you know what I mean? spaceman. Do you know what I mean? spaceman. Do you know what I mean? [laughter] And how do you how do you [laughter] And how do you how do you [laughter] And how do you how do you what how do you then give them that what how do you then give them that what how do you then give them that advice which is like raise one advice which is like raise one advice which is like raise one self-awareness. Know what you're good at self-awareness. Know what you're good at self-awareness. Know what you're good at and what you're bad at. I think what and what you're bad at. I think what and what you're bad at. I think what people are trying to get at is a an people are trying to get at is a an people are trying to get at is a an understanding or more accurate understanding or more accurate understanding or more accurate understanding of base reality. understanding of base reality. understanding of base reality. >> And the people who are achieving the >> And the people who are achieving the >> And the people who are achieving the things that you want to achieve and you things that you want to achieve and you things that you want to achieve and you haven't been able to fundamentally if haven't been able to fundamentally if haven't been able to fundamentally if you're doing stuff and what you want to you're doing stuff and what you want to you're doing stuff and what you want to have happen is not happening your model have happen is not happening your model have happen is not happening your model of the world is either incorrect or the of the world is either incorrect or the of the world is either incorrect or the variables you have are incorrect. variables you have are incorrect. variables you have are incorrect. >> How did you cultivate a more accurate >> How did you cultivate a more accurate >> How did you cultivate a more accurate vision of reality? vision of reality? vision of reality? >> So I'm practice I'm a big believer in >> So I'm practice I'm a big believer in >> So I'm practice I'm a big believer in behaviorism. behaviorism. behaviorism. >> What's that? operant conditioning which >> What's that? operant conditioning which >> What's that? operant conditioning which is basically how you train machines how is basically how you train machines how is basically how you train machines how they figured out how to train AI which they figured out how to train AI which they figured out how to train AI which is reinforcement training is the exact is reinforcement training is the exact is reinforcement training is the exact same way you train humans same way you train humans same way you train humans >> okay >> okay >> okay >> and so when you see yourself as the >> and so when you see yourself as the >> and so when you see yourself as the subject that is being trained then we subject that is being trained then we subject that is being trained then we can make better predictions of will can make better predictions of will can make better predictions of will people buy will people take this offer people buy will people take this offer people buy will people take this offer let's say I've got a grandpa and he let's say I've got a grandpa and he let's say I've got a grandpa and he doesn't want to take his medicine and doesn't want to take his medicine and doesn't want to take his medicine and the medicine the doctor said was going the medicine the doctor said was going the medicine the doctor said was going to extend his life by 10 years okay the to extend his life by 10 years okay the to extend his life by 10 years okay the nurse is at home with me and she's going nurse is at home with me and she's going nurse is at home with me and she's going to try and give grandpa the the pill.

to try and give grandpa the the pill. to try and give grandpa the the pill. And he says, "It tastes like I And he says, "It tastes like I And he says, "It tastes like I don't want to have it." He just brushes don't want to have it." He just brushes don't want to have it." He just brushes her away. She comes back, she throws her her away. She comes back, she throws her her away. She comes back, she throws her hands up and she's like, "You lead a hands up and she's like, "You lead a hands up and she's like, "You lead a horse to water, you can't make it horse to water, you can't make it horse to water, you can't make it drink." Right? drink." Right? drink." Right? >> The operationalist or the behaviorist >> The operationalist or the behaviorist >> The operationalist or the behaviorist would say, "No, you've made many other would say, "No, you've made many other would say, "No, you've made many other options the more likely option than options the more likely option than options the more likely option than taking the pill." And so what we need to taking the pill." And so what we need to taking the pill." And so what we need to do is make the pill the nicest and do is make the pill the nicest and do is make the pill the nicest and easiest option available to him. And so easiest option available to him. And so easiest option available to him. And so the first thing you would do is you'd the first thing you would do is you'd the first thing you would do is you'd crush the pill up. And then I would say, crush the pill up. And then I would say, crush the pill up. And then I would say, "Okay, let's put it in some lemonade. "Okay, let's put it in some lemonade. "Okay, let's put it in some lemonade. Put it in the in the fridge, make it ice Put it in the in the fridge, make it ice Put it in the in the fridge, make it ice cold. cold. cold. >> All right, I'm going to bring out some >> All right, I'm going to bring out some >> All right, I'm going to bring out some peanuts that are salty, and I'm going to peanuts that are salty, and I'm going to peanuts that are salty, and I'm going to put it in front of the grandpa, put it in front of the grandpa, put it in front of the grandpa, >> right? And then I'm going to come out >> right? And then I'm going to come out >> right? And then I'm going to come out with a, you know, a chess board or a with a, you know, a chess board or a with a, you know, a chess board or a back gammon board, and I'm going to sit back gammon board, and I'm going to sit back gammon board, and I'm going to sit in front of him, and set it all up and in front of him, and set it all up and in front of him, and set it all up and say, "Hey, I know you said you wanted to say, "Hey, I know you said you wanted to say, "Hey, I know you said you wanted to play back, and I've said no the last play back, and I've said no the last play back, and I've said no the last three weeks. three weeks. three weeks. Here's the lemonade. Do you want to Here's the lemonade. Do you want to Here's the lemonade. Do you want to play? If you finish the lemonade, we can play? If you finish the lemonade, we can play? If you finish the lemonade, we can play." How likely is it that grandpa now play." How likely is it that grandpa now play." How likely is it that grandpa now drinks the lemonade? drinks the lemonade? drinks the lemonade? >> Super high. But at the end of the day, >> Super high. But at the end of the day, >> Super high. But at the end of the day, we just we didn't persuade. We arranged we just we didn't persuade. We arranged we just we didn't persuade. We arranged the conditions to maximize the the conditions to maximize the the conditions to maximize the likelihood of the outcome that we likelihood of the outcome that we likelihood of the outcome that we wanted. What people miss is that the the wanted. What people miss is that the the wanted. What people miss is that the the amount of attack vectors that people who amount of attack vectors that people who amount of attack vectors that people who succeed approach a problem with is succeed approach a problem with is succeed approach a problem with is orders of magnitude greater than someone orders of magnitude greater than someone orders of magnitude greater than someone who is starting out. Is they're like, I who is starting out. Is they're like, I who is starting out. Is they're like, I talked to three people and that was it.

talked to three people and that was it. talked to three people and that was it. And they said they didn't want it. And I And they said they didn't want it. And I And they said they didn't want it. And I I tell this this story because it was it I tell this this story because it was it I tell this this story because it was it was one of those big moments for me, was one of those big moments for me, was one of those big moments for me, which is I I had a mentor. He said, "You which is I I had a mentor. He said, "You which is I I had a mentor. He said, "You should put some flyers out." That's how should put some flyers out." That's how should put some flyers out." That's how he advertised. He had a big chain of 22 he advertised. He had a big chain of 22 he advertised. He had a big chain of 22 locations. And I was like, "All right, locations. And I was like, "All right, locations. And I was like, "All right, I'll put some flyers out." I put 300 I'll put some flyers out." I put 300 I'll put some flyers out." I put 300 out. Um, and then nothing happened. Uh, out. Um, and then nothing happened. Uh, out. Um, and then nothing happened. Uh, well, one person called and they said, well, one person called and they said, well, one person called and they said, "I digged his car." And then I was like, "I digged his car." And then I was like, "I digged his car." And then I was like, "Thank God." He didn't I didn't have any "Thank God." He didn't I didn't have any "Thank God." He didn't I didn't have any money. Um, so he called me up or I money. Um, so he called me up or I money. Um, so he called me up or I called him like a week or two later and called him like a week or two later and called him like a week or two later and he was like, "Oh, how'd the, you know, he was like, "Oh, how'd the, you know, he was like, "Oh, how'd the, you know, how' the flowers go?" And I was like, I how' the flowers go?" And I was like, I how' the flowers go?" And I was like, I was ready. I was, "I'm gonna show you." was ready. I was, "I'm gonna show you." was ready. I was, "I'm gonna show you." Yeah. I'm gonna show you. Dude, nothing Yeah. I'm gonna show you. Dude, nothing Yeah. I'm gonna show you. Dude, nothing happened, man. And he didn't even like I happened, man. And he didn't even like I happened, man. And he didn't even like I was like I was waiting for him to try was like I was waiting for him to try was like I was waiting for him to try and fight me. like, "Well, what was your and fight me. like, "Well, what was your and fight me. like, "Well, what was your test size?" I was like, "Hm." test size?" I was like, "Hm." test size?" I was like, "Hm." I was like, "I put out 300 flyers." And I was like, "I put out 300 flyers." And I was like, "I put out 300 flyers." And he was like, "Yeah, it's tough to know he was like, "Yeah, it's tough to know he was like, "Yeah, it's tough to know if anything works at 300." He's like, if anything works at 300." He's like, if anything works at 300." He's like, "We usually put out 5,000 um per test "We usually put out 5,000 um per test "We usually put out 5,000 um per test batch until we know it works." He said, batch until we know it works." He said, batch until we know it works." He said, "Then we do 3,000 a day after that." And "Then we do 3,000 a day after that." And "Then we do 3,000 a day after that." And so he was doing 150,000 flyers a month so he was doing 150,000 flyers a month so he was doing 150,000 flyers a month and I put out 300.

and I put out 300. and I put out 300. And so as much as people don't think And so as much as people don't think And so as much as people don't think that like it's like work harder, it's that like it's like work harder, it's that like it's like work harder, it's the the volume of activity and output the the volume of activity and output the the volume of activity and output that people who are a hundred steps that people who are a hundred steps that people who are a hundred steps ahead of you really is often times 100 ahead of you really is often times 100 ahead of you really is often times 100 times more. Now it seems unfathomable times more. Now it seems unfathomable times more. Now it seems unfathomable because you're looking at the top of the because you're looking at the top of the because you're looking at the top of the hill and like how do I get there? But hill and like how do I get there? But hill and like how do I get there? But you start by making one you start by making one you start by making one >> and then you learn through how painful >> and then you learn through how painful >> and then you learn through how painful the inefficiency is. Like when you're the inefficiency is. Like when you're the inefficiency is. Like when you're editing that you're doing the split test editing that you're doing the split test editing that you're doing the split test for the headlines 300 of them at a time. for the headlines 300 of them at a time. for the headlines 300 of them at a time. >> You learn because you're like this is so >> You learn because you're like this is so >> You learn because you're like this is so painful. It works but my god is it painful. It works but my god is it painful. It works but my god is it painful. that that is what motivates you painful. that that is what motivates you painful. that that is what motivates you because you want the payoff but you because you want the payoff but you because you want the payoff but you don't want the pain to figure out ways don't want the pain to figure out ways don't want the pain to figure out ways to make it more efficient. And then when to make it more efficient. And then when to make it more efficient. And then when it becomes efficient, you did the scarce it becomes efficient, you did the scarce it becomes efficient, you did the scarce work that no one else wants to do work that no one else wants to do work that no one else wants to do because no one even knows it works as because no one even knows it works as because no one even knows it works as well as it does. well as it does. well as it does. >> And then all of a sudden you have that >> And then all of a sudden you have that >> And then all of a sudden you have that um you have a scarce competitive um you have a scarce competitive um you have a scarce competitive advantage over everyone else. advantage over everyone else. advantage over everyone else. >> At the very top of that, I heard this >> At the very top of that, I heard this >> At the very top of that, I heard this idea of like doing and listening at the idea of like doing and listening at the idea of like doing and listening at the same time. And this sounds very simple. same time. And this sounds very simple. same time. And this sounds very simple. You're talking about reinforcement You're talking about reinforcement You're talking about reinforcement learning being the way that you tune learning being the way that you tune learning being the way that you tune yourself to reality. But you've even yourself to reality. But you've even yourself to reality. But you've even said yourself once upon a time you were said yourself once upon a time you were said yourself once upon a time you were doing a lot of listening books. doing a lot of listening books. doing a lot of listening books. >> You were reading and there wasn't much >> You were reading and there wasn't much >> You were reading and there wasn't much doing. Some people just do the doing and doing. Some people just do the doing and doing. Some people just do the doing and no listening.

no listening. no listening. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> And and so they don't tune. But this >> And and so they don't tune. But this >> And and so they don't tune. But this sort of like doing and then sort of sort of like doing and then sort of sort of like doing and then sort of reinforcement learning based on the reinforcement learning based on the reinforcement learning based on the outcomes is how one cultivates their outcomes is how one cultivates their outcomes is how one cultivates their self-awareness. That's actually the most self-awareness. That's actually the most self-awareness. That's actually the most accurate definition I've ever heard of accurate definition I've ever heard of accurate definition I've ever heard of like that's actually how you get more in like that's actually how you get more in like that's actually how you get more in tune with the world is through painful tune with the world is through painful tune with the world is through painful sometimes feedback sometimes feedback sometimes feedback >> data. >> data. >> data. >> And then the other thing I heard was you >> And then the other thing I heard was you >> And then the other thing I heard was you talking just about like just believing talking just about like just believing talking just about like just believing in human incentives. in human incentives. in human incentives. >> Yes. And and this like it it sounds like >> Yes. And and this like it it sounds like >> Yes. And and this like it it sounds like a [laughter] it took me 10 years to just a [laughter] it took me 10 years to just a [laughter] it took me 10 years to just s settle on the simple idea that humans s settle on the simple idea that humans s settle on the simple idea that humans don't really behave outside of their don't really behave outside of their don't really behave outside of their incentives unless they're psychopaths incentives unless they're psychopaths incentives unless they're psychopaths and that's like why they go to jail and that's like why they go to jail and that's like why they go to jail because they acted outside of social because they acted outside of social because they acted outside of social incentives. They like killed someone or incentives. They like killed someone or incentives. They like killed someone or something. Actually, when you think something. Actually, when you think something. Actually, when you think about team building or customers, the about team building or customers, the about team building or customers, the first question should be why aren't first question should be why aren't first question should be why aren't they? It's like what are the what what they? It's like what are the what what they? It's like what are the what what are the incentives in which they are are the incentives in which they are are the incentives in which they are making their decision? And you talked making their decision? And you talked making their decision? And you talked about that example there of giving about that example there of giving about that example there of giving someone the gamin board and some someone the gamin board and some someone the gamin board and some >> you're changing his incentives. Yeah, we >> you're changing his incentives. Yeah, we >> you're changing his incentives. Yeah, we just need to move the levers around. And just need to move the levers around. And just need to move the levers around. And so it's like if you're not selling well so it's like if you're not selling well so it's like if you're not selling well to get to a business situation. It's to get to a business situation. It's to get to a business situation. It's like you haven't made buying from you like you haven't made buying from you like you haven't made buying from you the most convenient, nicest option.

the most convenient, nicest option. the most convenient, nicest option. >> It's such an important way to think like >> It's such an important way to think like >> It's such an important way to think like you offer someone a job and they say, you offer someone a job and they say, you offer someone a job and they say, "No, I don't want the job." "No, I don't want the job." "No, I don't want the job." >> You can think lots of things, but >> You can think lots of things, but >> You can think lots of things, but actually if you just reason it down to actually if you just reason it down to actually if you just reason it down to the the first principal incentives, what the the first principal incentives, what the the first principal incentives, what what was and you could it could be a what was and you could it could be a what was and you could it could be a seesaw like kind of like your value seesaw like kind of like your value seesaw like kind of like your value trade here. trade here. trade here. >> What did I offer them? Um what did it >> What did I offer them? Um what did it >> What did I offer them? Um what did it cost them? cost them? cost them? >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> And was that net positive? So I have >> And was that net positive? So I have >> And was that net positive? So I have this. So I write all my persuasion like this. So I write all my persuasion like this. So I write all my persuasion like this. This is this is how we do it. So this. This is this is how we do it. So this. This is this is how we do it. So we say uh plus plus minus uh minus plus we say uh plus plus minus uh minus plus we say uh plus plus minus uh minus plus minus minus. All right. This is the minus minus. All right. This is the minus minus. All right. This is the easiest way to write copy. The easiest easiest way to write copy. The easiest easiest way to write copy. The easiest way to think about marketing. If you do way to think about marketing. If you do way to think about marketing. If you do the thing, you get more good stuff. the thing, you get more good stuff. the thing, you get more good stuff. >> If you uh don't do the thing, you get >> If you uh don't do the thing, you get >> If you uh don't do the thing, you get more [snorts] bad stuff. Mhm. more [snorts] bad stuff. Mhm. more [snorts] bad stuff. Mhm. >> If you do the thing I want or so you >> If you do the thing I want or so you >> If you do the thing I want or so you don't do the thing, you get less good don't do the thing, you get less good don't do the thing, you get less good stuff. And if you do what I want, you stuff. And if you do what I want, you stuff. And if you do what I want, you get less bad stuff. And so this and this get less bad stuff. And so this and this get less bad stuff. And so this and this are our persuasion elements that we say are our persuasion elements that we say are our persuasion elements that we say to do the thing. But we also have to to do the thing. But we also have to to do the thing. But we also have to like call playing the don't, which is like call playing the don't, which is like call playing the don't, which is like, hey, also we have these situations like, hey, also we have these situations like, hey, also we have these situations of let's say that you don't sign up for of let's say that you don't sign up for of let's say that you don't sign up for my fitness program. Well, that means my fitness program. Well, that means my fitness program. Well, that means that you're not going to have these that you're not going to have these that you're not going to have these times with your kids in the future, times with your kids in the future, times with your kids in the future, right? more good less good stuff, right?

right? more good less good stuff, right? right? more good less good stuff, right? You're going to have more health issues, You're going to have more health issues, You're going to have more health issues, more bad stuff. more bad stuff. more bad stuff. >> And the people who you care about, who >> And the people who you care about, who >> And the people who you care about, who you want approval from, aren't going to you want approval from, aren't going to you want approval from, aren't going to give you that approval that you so give you that approval that you so give you that approval that you so desperately yearn for. And so we just desperately yearn for. And so we just desperately yearn for. And so we just pingpong between these persuasive pingpong between these persuasive pingpong between these persuasive elements, but all they are is saying elements, but all they are is saying elements, but all they are is saying more good, less bad if you do the stuff more good, less bad if you do the stuff more good, less bad if you do the stuff I want. I want. I want. >> And as a as someone who employs hundreds >> And as a as someone who employs hundreds >> And as a as someone who employs hundreds of people now, this is kind of how I of people now, this is kind of how I of people now, this is kind of how I think about behavioral change in a group think about behavioral change in a group think about behavioral change in a group big group of people. You can you can big group of people. You can you can big group of people. You can you can stand in front of the team and say, stand in front of the team and say, stand in front of the team and say, "Hey, everybody adopt AI by the way, "Hey, everybody adopt AI by the way, "Hey, everybody adopt AI by the way, please. Please adopt AI. But their please. Please adopt AI. But their please. Please adopt AI. But their incentive structure is to do their job. incentive structure is to do their job. incentive structure is to do their job. >> Mhm. >> Mhm. >> Mhm. >> And have you read the innovators >> And have you read the innovators >> And have you read the innovators dilemma? It's one of my favorite books dilemma? It's one of my favorite books dilemma? It's one of my favorite books of all time on the subject of of all time on the subject of of all time on the subject of >> No, but I'm familiar with it. >> No, but I'm familiar with it. >> No, but I'm familiar with it. >> Talks to the same thing as well, which >> Talks to the same thing as well, which >> Talks to the same thing as well, which is just humans just act inside their is just humans just act inside their is just humans just act inside their incentive structure. Want to change incentive structure. Want to change incentive structure. Want to change humans, change their incentive humans, change their incentive humans, change their incentive structure. A lot of people who are structure. A lot of people who are structure. A lot of people who are delusional when they start out think delusional when they start out think delusional when they start out think that they're going to change people. that they're going to change people. that they're going to change people. >> And I think one of my favorite market I >> And I think one of my favorite market I >> And I think one of my favorite market I think Gary Halpert said this is a think Gary Halpert said this is a think Gary Halpert said this is a copywriter. Um he said we don't want to copywriter. Um he said we don't want to copywriter. Um he said we don't want to create demand. He said we want to create demand. He said we want to create demand. He said we want to channel it. channel it. channel it. >> It was just it just is such an >> It was just it just is such an >> It was just it just is such an interesting nuance. He's like that interesting nuance. He's like that interesting nuance. He's like that demand like the demand needs to be demand like the demand needs to be demand like the demand needs to be there. We just need to just carve a there. We just need to just carve a there. We just need to just carve a little bit of that river and point it little bit of that river and point it little bit of that river and point it towards us.

towards us. towards us. >> And I think when you're thinking about >> And I think when you're thinking about >> And I think when you're thinking about for you with the show, the attention is for you with the show, the attention is for you with the show, the attention is there. The attention is being spent there. The attention is being spent there. The attention is being spent every second of every day from every every second of every day from every every second of every day from every human. human. human. >> And so we're not going to create >> And so we're not going to create >> And so we're not going to create attention. attention. attention. >> We're going to channel it. and we're >> We're going to channel it. and we're >> We're going to channel it. and we're going to make our option the nicest most going to make our option the nicest most going to make our option the nicest most most convenient option compared to most convenient option compared to most convenient option compared to alternatives. And then it's really just alternatives. And then it's really just alternatives. And then it's really just getting into the very gritty details of getting into the very gritty details of getting into the very gritty details of who I need to make this for. Then you who I need to make this for. Then you who I need to make this for. Then you get into avatars and subsegments and get into avatars and subsegments and get into avatars and subsegments and markets because what makes it attractive markets because what makes it attractive markets because what makes it attractive to one person might not make it to one person might not make it to one person might not make it attractive to another. And that is why attractive to another. And that is why attractive to another. And that is why probably one of the highest leverage probably one of the highest leverage probably one of the highest leverage decisions that you make with the decisions that you make with the decisions that you make with the business is who do I serve? business is who do I serve? business is who do I serve? >> Do you have to be intentional about that >> Do you have to be intentional about that >> Do you have to be intentional about that when you're starting a business or when you're starting a business or when you're starting a business or offering any product to anyone, whether offering any product to anyone, whether offering any product to anyone, whether it's content, do you have to at the it's content, do you have to at the it's content, do you have to at the start decide who it's for? start decide who it's for? start decide who it's for? >> Yes and no. which is a terrible answer, >> Yes and no. which is a terrible answer, >> Yes and no. which is a terrible answer, but to start, you just need to get but to start, you just need to get but to start, you just need to get anybody to give you money. You have then anybody to give you money. You have then anybody to give you money. You have then met the requisites for being an met the requisites for being an met the requisites for being an entrepreneur. You've accepted money from entrepreneur. You've accepted money from entrepreneur. You've accepted money from a stranger. Congratulations, you have a a stranger. Congratulations, you have a a stranger. Congratulations, you have a business. Most businesses that I business. Most businesses that I business. Most businesses that I encounter, especially in services, encounter, especially in services, encounter, especially in services, because it's 80% of at least in the US, because it's 80% of at least in the US, because it's 80% of at least in the US, 78% of all businesses are service based. 78% of all businesses are service based. 78% of all businesses are service based. Typically, it starts with accepting all Typically, it starts with accepting all Typically, it starts with accepting all money from everyone cuz you're like, money from everyone cuz you're like, money from everyone cuz you're like, "Oh, I do podcast agency stuff." Oh, you "Oh, I do podcast agency stuff." Oh, you "Oh, I do podcast agency stuff." Oh, you have a Oh, you want to start a Yeah, I have a Oh, you want to start a Yeah, I have a Oh, you want to start a Yeah, I could help you, too. Like, because they could help you, too. Like, because they could help you, too. Like, because they have a pulse and a credit card, and one have a pulse and a credit card, and one have a pulse and a credit card, and one of those was the requirement for being a of those was the requirement for being a of those was the requirement for being a customer, right? [laughter] customer, right? [laughter] customer, right? [laughter] And so you you take what you can get, And so you you take what you can get, And so you you take what you can get, right? But you quickly realize that it right? But you quickly realize that it right? But you quickly realize that it becomes very difficult to scale that.

becomes very difficult to scale that. becomes very difficult to scale that. And that's okay because you had to do And that's okay because you had to do And that's okay because you had to do what you need to do to survive and get what you need to do to survive and get what you need to do to survive and get started. And that's fine. But usually started. And that's fine. But usually started. And that's fine. But usually between 1 and 3 million, you have to between 1 and 3 million, you have to between 1 and 3 million, you have to make a decision where you say, "Hey, in make a decision where you say, "Hey, in make a decision where you say, "Hey, in order for me to scale this now that I order for me to scale this now that I order for me to scale this now that I have the resources and the experience have the resources and the experience have the resources and the experience and the skill, I can say these customers and the skill, I can say these customers and the skill, I can say these customers are easier to deal with and pay us more are easier to deal with and pay us more are easier to deal with and pay us more than these customers." Mhm. than these customers." Mhm. than these customers." Mhm. >> And if I didn't have to serve 10 >> And if I didn't have to serve 10 >> And if I didn't have to serve 10 different types of customers and I only different types of customers and I only different types of customers and I only had to serve one type of customer, it had to serve one type of customer, it had to serve one type of customer, it would make the operations on the back would make the operations on the back would make the operations on the back way easier because I could start way easier because I could start way easier because I could start templatizing and start systematizing templatizing and start systematizing templatizing and start systematizing what our delivery is. And on the front what our delivery is. And on the front what our delivery is. And on the front end, if we're advertising people, end, if we're advertising people, end, if we're advertising people, instead of saying we do advert your instead of saying we do advert your instead of saying we do advert your podcast agency for everyone, we say we podcast agency for everyone, we say we podcast agency for everyone, we say we help doctors generate patients using help doctors generate patients using help doctors generate patients using podcasts. podcasts. podcasts. >> It's like, oh, all of a sudden the >> It's like, oh, all of a sudden the >> It's like, oh, all of a sudden the correct customer knows that this is for correct customer knows that this is for correct customer knows that this is for them, right? Okay. And so now we're them, right? Okay. And so now we're them, right? Okay. And so now we're attracting the right people and then attracting the right people and then attracting the right people and then those people are the ones that we those people are the ones that we those people are the ones that we already figured out through trial and already figured out through trial and already figured out through trial and error and feedback are worth the most. error and feedback are worth the most. error and feedback are worth the most. And then we have a more scalable product And then we have a more scalable product And then we have a more scalable product because we don't have to make 10 things because we don't have to make 10 things because we don't have to make 10 things for 10 people. We make one thing for 10 for 10 people. We make one thing for 10 for 10 people. We make one thing for 10 people. people. people. >> Right? Cut once, sell twice, right? Sell >> Right? Cut once, sell twice, right? Sell >> Right? Cut once, sell twice, right? Sell twice. That's the idea. Not cut once, twice. That's the idea. Not cut once, twice. That's the idea. Not cut once, sell once.

sell once. sell once. >> I almost hate this question, but I'm >> I almost hate this question, but I'm >> I almost hate this question, but I'm going to ask it anyway. Um, are there going to ask it anyway. Um, are there going to ask it anyway. Um, are there any obvious businesses that have emerged any obvious businesses that have emerged any obvious businesses that have emerged in your point of view because of what's in your point of view because of what's in your point of view because of what's going on in the world that a young going on in the world that a young going on in the world that a young person that wants to cut their teeth person that wants to cut their teeth person that wants to cut their teeth should probably be aiming at? 15 years should probably be aiming at? 15 years should probably be aiming at? 15 years ago for me, it was starting an agency. I ago for me, it was starting an agency. I ago for me, it was starting an agency. I think that opportunity is a little bit think that opportunity is a little bit think that opportunity is a little bit saturated now, if dare I say. saturated now, if dare I say. saturated now, if dare I say. >> I think that the nature of agencies has >> I think that the nature of agencies has >> I think that the nature of agencies has changed. I think you like if you want to changed. I think you like if you want to changed. I think you like if you want to do like a Reddit reputation management do like a Reddit reputation management do like a Reddit reputation management now, that's kind of a more emerging now, that's kind of a more emerging now, that's kind of a more emerging offer because Reddit's become a bigger offer because Reddit's become a bigger offer because Reddit's become a bigger and bigger platform and people look and bigger platform and people look and bigger platform and people look there. Like I think the the old school there. Like I think the the old school there. Like I think the the old school meta ad agency might be harder to crack meta ad agency might be harder to crack meta ad agency might be harder to crack into than some of the more newer into than some of the more newer into than some of the more newer opportunities that exist and clipping opportunities that exist and clipping opportunities that exist and clipping agencies things like like those things agencies things like like those things agencies things like like those things are still opportunities right now I are still opportunities right now I are still opportunities right now I think. So if we have beginner think. So if we have beginner think. So if we have beginner opportunities and then we have what I opportunities and then we have what I opportunities and then we have what I think are great opportunities that are think are great opportunities that are think are great opportunities that are let's just say non just AI because let's just say non just AI because let's just say non just AI because there's the obvious answer of like start there's the obvious answer of like start there's the obvious answer of like start an AI thing and automate for small an AI thing and automate for small an AI thing and automate for small businesses and yes you should absolutely businesses and yes you should absolutely businesses and yes you should absolutely do that and there's lots of money to be do that and there's lots of money to be do that and there's lots of money to be made there. Great. Okay. made there. Great. Okay. made there. Great. Okay. >> Outside of that what's not going to >> Outside of that what's not going to >> Outside of that what's not going to change? What can you bet on? I'm gonna change? What can you bet on? I'm gonna change? What can you bet on? I'm gonna bet that humans are going to want to bet that humans are going to want to bet that humans are going to want to still want to look beautiful in the still want to look beautiful in the still want to look beautiful in the future as they do now. I think people future as they do now. I think people future as they do now. I think people are going to want to stay young looking are going to want to stay young looking are going to want to stay young looking and so I think the longevity med spa and so I think the longevity med spa and so I think the longevity med spa look a certain way peptide all of that look a certain way peptide all of that look a certain way peptide all of that world is going to crush and is already world is going to crush and is already world is going to crush and is already crushing right now. there's a huge crushing right now. there's a huge crushing right now. there's a huge supply demand issue. Believe it or not, supply demand issue. Believe it or not, supply demand issue. Believe it or not, I think uh wealth um advisers I can I think uh wealth um advisers I can I think uh wealth um advisers I can because I see so many businesses and the because I see so many businesses and the because I see so many businesses and the ones I pay attention to are the people ones I pay attention to are the people ones I pay attention to are the people who are making more money than I think who are making more money than I think who are making more money than I think their skill level their skill level their skill level >> um would canote right would would would >> um would canote right would would would >> um would canote right would would would make sense for like on the flip side I

make sense for like on the flip side I make sense for like on the flip side I say like if I see somebody who's who's say like if I see somebody who's who's say like if I see somebody who's who's doing $20 million a year as a restaurant doing $20 million a year as a restaurant doing $20 million a year as a restaurant I'm like bro you could probably do 200 I'm like bro you could probably do 200 I'm like bro you could probably do 200 million a year in a different business. million a year in a different business. million a year in a different business. Um, I had a conversation with a gym Um, I had a conversation with a gym Um, I had a conversation with a gym owner that was doing $10 million a year owner that was doing $10 million a year owner that was doing $10 million a year and it was a service-based gym, not uh a and it was a service-based gym, not uh a and it was a service-based gym, not uh a facility elasticious gym, which is facility elasticious gym, which is facility elasticious gym, which is different. Like a crunch fitness is just different. Like a crunch fitness is just different. Like a crunch fitness is just like use the equipment, whatever. But a like use the equipment, whatever. But a like use the equipment, whatever. But a true service based gym, which is either true service based gym, which is either true service based gym, which is either personal training or semi-private personal training or semi-private personal training or semi-private training, really hard business to scale, training, really hard business to scale, training, really hard business to scale, easy to start, hard to scale. And he was easy to start, hard to scale. And he was easy to start, hard to scale. And he was like, "What do I think?" You know, what like, "What do I think?" You know, what like, "What do I think?" You know, what do you think the the opportunity is for do you think the the opportunity is for do you think the the opportunity is for me? I was like, "Honestly, dude, you me? I was like, "Honestly, dude, you me? I was like, "Honestly, dude, you could take your exact skill set because could take your exact skill set because could take your exact skill set because you've got 100 employees and you're you've got 100 employees and you're you've got 100 employees and you're trying to deliver an amazing experience, trying to deliver an amazing experience, trying to deliver an amazing experience, but with low skilled labor, you have to but with low skilled labor, you have to but with low skilled labor, you have to maintain culture. There's all of this maintain culture. There's all of this maintain culture. There's all of this stuff that you have to It's like if you stuff that you have to It's like if you stuff that you have to It's like if you took that same skill set and just took that same skill set and just took that same skill set and just applied it to a superior vehicle, you'd applied it to a superior vehicle, you'd applied it to a superior vehicle, you'd make more. Now, you might not want that make more. Now, you might not want that make more. Now, you might not want that and you might be happy with your and you might be happy with your and you might be happy with your existing business, which keep on just existing business, which keep on just existing business, which keep on just know that it's a harder it's a harder know that it's a harder it's a harder know that it's a harder it's a harder business. So, all that to say, I think business. So, all that to say, I think business. So, all that to say, I think wealth is a big bucket. Um, wealth wealth is a big bucket. Um, wealth wealth is a big bucket. Um, wealth related services are still crushing. related services are still crushing. related services are still crushing. Insurance risk is still going to exist Insurance risk is still going to exist Insurance risk is still going to exist in the future. in the future. in the future. >> Mhm. >> Mhm. >> Mhm. >> So, there's going to need to be >> So, there's going to need to be >> So, there's going to need to be insurance. People are going to to to insurance. People are going to to to insurance. People are going to to to fractionalize risk, which is what fractionalize risk, which is what fractionalize risk, which is what insurance functionally does. The insurance functionally does. The insurance functionally does. The longevity looking nice is one and then longevity looking nice is one and then longevity looking nice is one and then anything that's not cool has like a anything that's not cool has like a anything that's not cool has like a discount applied to it is always discount applied to it is always discount applied to it is always something that's very interesting to something that's very interesting to something that's very interesting to look at. It's kind of like trash. Like look at. It's kind of like trash. Like look at. It's kind of like trash. Like no one wants to be like a so what do you no one wants to be like a so what do you no one wants to be like a so what do you do? It's like I I'm in trash you like it do? It's like I I'm in trash you like it do? It's like I I'm in trash you like it just it doesn't have the same gravitas just it doesn't have the same gravitas just it doesn't have the same gravitas as I'm a doctor except that guy could be as I'm a doctor except that guy could be as I'm a doctor except that guy could be a billionaire, [laughter] a billionaire, [laughter] a billionaire, [laughter] right? And so if I look at like oh I I right? And so if I look at like oh I I right? And so if I look at like oh I I do you know I do waste management for do you know I do waste management for do you know I do waste management for old people like you know human fecal old people like you know human fecal old people like you know human fecal matter. It's like there someone's got to

matter. It's like there someone's got to matter. It's like there someone's got to you know like someone's got to figure you know like someone's got to figure you know like someone's got to figure something out, right? And so those are something out, right? And so those are something out, right? And so those are the types of businesses where it's like the types of businesses where it's like the types of businesses where it's like look where no one wants to look. Look at look where no one wants to look. Look at look where no one wants to look. Look at look for things that people would not look for things that people would not look for things that people would not want to say at parties. There's usually want to say at parties. There's usually want to say at parties. There's usually big opportunities there if there's big opportunities there if there's big opportunities there if there's obviously money where I said owe people obviously money where I said owe people obviously money where I said owe people because right now it's so wealth is so because right now it's so wealth is so because right now it's so wealth is so concentrated on the I did my favorite concentrated on the I did my favorite concentrated on the I did my favorite video of the year. I I did this video of the year. I I did this video of the year. I I did this breakdown and because it was my favorite breakdown and because it was my favorite breakdown and because it was my favorite video I think it got like 300,000 views. video I think it got like 300,000 views. video I think it got like 300,000 views. But like [laughter] But like [laughter] But like [laughter] but what I did was really interesting is but what I did was really interesting is but what I did was really interesting is that I took wealth in the United States that I took wealth in the United States that I took wealth in the United States and I had a had it represent $100. 100% and I had a had it represent $100. 100% and I had a had it represent $100. 100% of wealth is $100. If you looked at it, of wealth is $100. If you looked at it, of wealth is $100. If you looked at it, right, and you had a circle for all, you right, and you had a circle for all, you right, and you had a circle for all, you know, 100 people at different know, 100 people at different know, 100 people at different percentiles, right, there's like $2 in percentiles, right, there's like $2 in percentiles, right, there's like $2 in the bottom 50th percentile. the bottom 50th percentile. the bottom 50th percentile. >> The bottom 50% of people has roughly >> The bottom 50% of people has roughly >> The bottom 50% of people has roughly $200 $200 $200 >> of the hundred in wealth. >> of the hundred in wealth. >> of the hundred in wealth. >> Wow. >> Wow. >> Wow. >> It's crazy. And then you've got your >> It's crazy. And then you've got your >> It's crazy. And then you've got your next 40 and I think that was like $27, next 40 and I think that was like $27, next 40 and I think that was like $27, something like that. Then you have your something like that. Then you have your something like that. Then you have your next 9% which has like $36. next 9% which has like $36. next 9% which has like $36. And then the top 1% has 31.

And then the top 1% has 31. And then the top 1% has 31. Hopefully the math maths, but it's Hopefully the math maths, but it's Hopefully the math maths, but it's somewhere somewhere in the neighborhood. somewhere somewhere in the neighborhood. somewhere somewhere in the neighborhood. And so when you look at that division And so when you look at that division And so when you look at that division and then you're like, who should I and then you're like, who should I and then you're like, who should I serve? serve? serve? Many people who are starting out are Many people who are starting out are Many people who are starting out are here and the only people they see are here and the only people they see are here and the only people they see are here. And so their view of the world is here. And so their view of the world is here. And so their view of the world is not accurate. not accurate. not accurate. And this is why they stay broke because And this is why they stay broke because And this is why they stay broke because they try to sell to other people who they try to sell to other people who they try to sell to other people who have no money and then assume that no have no money and then assume that no have no money and then assume that no one has money. one has money. one has money. >> The [snorts] interesting thing I noticed >> The [snorts] interesting thing I noticed >> The [snorts] interesting thing I noticed and I think anybody that's ran a service and I think anybody that's ran a service and I think anybody that's ran a service business will be able to relate. business will be able to relate. business will be able to relate. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Is when I started out I was selling to >> Is when I started out I was selling to >> Is when I started out I was selling to startup founders who had an app idea startup founders who had an app idea startup founders who had an app idea whose marketing budget was approximately whose marketing budget was approximately whose marketing budget was approximately $10,000 and I was asking for $10,000 $10,000 and I was asking for $10,000 $10,000 and I was asking for $10,000 >> per year. [laughter] >> per year. [laughter] >> per year. [laughter] >> And they were watching me. They were >> And they were watching me. They were >> And they were watching me. They were counting every download they got on counting every download they got on counting every download they got on their apps. And slowly we managed to their apps. And slowly we managed to their apps. And slowly we managed to move up. And the remarkable thing is, move up. And the remarkable thing is, move up. And the remarkable thing is, this is a crazy thing to say, but it was this is a crazy thing to say, but it was this is a crazy thing to say, but it was easier from a client management or a easier from a client management or a easier from a client management or a client account management perspective to client account management perspective to client account management perspective to deal with Coca-Cola than it was Dave deal with Coca-Cola than it was Dave deal with Coca-Cola than it was Dave with his dating app idea. Coca-Cola, who with his dating app idea. Coca-Cola, who with his dating app idea. Coca-Cola, who would give you potentially six figures would give you potentially six figures would give you potentially six figures in budgets, um would would be a little in budgets, um would would be a little in budgets, um would would be a little bit more casual than Dave with his bit more casual than Dave with his bit more casual than Dave with his dating app idea where he'd put his dating app idea where he'd put his dating app idea where he'd put his mortgage on the line. [laughter] But mortgage on the line. [laughter] But mortgage on the line. [laughter] But it's not it's not easy to move up it's not it's not easy to move up it's not it's not easy to move up because to get that meeting with because to get that meeting with because to get that meeting with Coca-Cola to be able to present to them, Coca-Cola to be able to present to them, Coca-Cola to be able to present to them, you got to earn it somehow.

you got to earn it somehow. you got to earn it somehow. >> So, it's all well good saying it, but >> So, it's all well good saying it, but >> So, it's all well good saying it, but the reality of getting up there is they the reality of getting up there is they the reality of getting up there is they they think more about credibility, track they think more about credibility, track they think more about credibility, track record. They'll they'll work with people record. They'll they'll work with people record. They'll they'll work with people who are highly credible and who who they who are highly credible and who who they who are highly credible and who who they can see a reality behind. can see a reality behind. can see a reality behind. >> And so, it's not there's nothing wrong >> And so, it's not there's nothing wrong >> And so, it's not there's nothing wrong with starting to sell the friends and with starting to sell the friends and with starting to sell the friends and family. But the the goal, again, that's family. But the the goal, again, that's family. But the the goal, again, that's if your goal is to make more money with if your goal is to make more money with if your goal is to make more money with the business should be to move up the business should be to move up the business should be to move up market. And if you look, so this is kind market. And if you look, so this is kind market. And if you look, so this is kind of interesting, something I've noticed. of interesting, something I've noticed. of interesting, something I've noticed. >> If you look at the price of a service, >> If you look at the price of a service, >> If you look at the price of a service, and this is specifically for service and this is specifically for service and this is specifically for service businesses, businesses, businesses, >> the price of the service almost has a >> the price of the service almost has a >> the price of the service almost has a one to one correlation with how advanced one to one correlation with how advanced one to one correlation with how advanced the business and business owner are the business and business owner are the business and business owner are >> just as a forcing function because in >> just as a forcing function because in >> just as a forcing function because in order to go up in price, like a service order to go up in price, like a service order to go up in price, like a service business done well means you did a good business done well means you did a good business done well means you did a good job. You have more demand than you have job. You have more demand than you have job. You have more demand than you have supply. And so what do you do when supply. And so what do you do when supply. And so what do you do when supply and demand crisscross? You go up supply and demand crisscross? You go up supply and demand crisscross? You go up in price. And so you continue this loop. in price. And so you continue this loop. in price. And so you continue this loop. And as long as you continue to deliver And as long as you continue to deliver And as long as you continue to deliver more value than you're charging for, you more value than you're charging for, you more value than you're charging for, you continue to have more demand. And you continue to have more demand. And you continue to have more demand. And you just keep lading up. And this is why just keep lading up. And this is why just keep lading up. And this is why price is such a strong signal for value.

price is such a strong signal for value. price is such a strong signal for value. Which why when you're starting out, it's Which why when you're starting out, it's Which why when you're starting out, it's hard to hear us say, "Hey, add a zero to hard to hear us say, "Hey, add a zero to hard to hear us say, "Hey, add a zero to your price tag. Add two zeros to your your price tag. Add two zeros to your your price tag. Add two zeros to your price tag." Because if someone comes to price tag." Because if someone comes to price tag." Because if someone comes to me and says, "Hey, I want to do all of me and says, "Hey, I want to do all of me and says, "Hey, I want to do all of your social media management for $2,000 your social media management for $2,000 your social media management for $2,000 a month." I'm like, "Dude, you can't a month." I'm like, "Dude, you can't a month." I'm like, "Dude, you can't even handle me." even handle me." even handle me." >> Like you could like even if I said yes, >> Like you could like even if I said yes, >> Like you could like even if I said yes, you can't. it. The math doesn't math. you can't. it. The math doesn't math. you can't. it. The math doesn't math. There's no way you can do it. And so if There's no way you can do it. And so if There's no way you can do it. And so if someone comes to me like the minimum I'm someone comes to me like the minimum I'm someone comes to me like the minimum I'm probably going to be willing to spend is probably going to be willing to spend is probably going to be willing to spend is I don't know 15,000 a month for a I don't know 15,000 a month for a I don't know 15,000 a month for a vendor. Like the minimum I could really vendor. Like the minimum I could really vendor. Like the minimum I could really possibly and it' be probably a smaller possibly and it' be probably a smaller possibly and it' be probably a smaller shop and I know the founder is probably shop and I know the founder is probably shop and I know the founder is probably still integally involved. I'm fine with still integally involved. I'm fine with still integally involved. I'm fine with that cuz I'm okay with some founders that cuz I'm okay with some founders that cuz I'm okay with some founders like being good and basically me seeing like being good and basically me seeing like being good and basically me seeing them as a fractional employee that I'm them as a fractional employee that I'm them as a fractional employee that I'm paying less and that works fine. All paying less and that works fine. All paying less and that works fine. All that to say like you want to have your that to say like you want to have your that to say like you want to have your price go up. One because you serve price go up. One because you serve price go up. One because you serve better customers, two because you have better customers, two because you have better customers, two because you have better margins. Three because there'll better margins. Three because there'll better margins. Three because there'll be less headache and four because it's a be less headache and four because it's a be less headache and four because it's a signal of how good you are at what you signal of how good you are at what you signal of how good you are at what you do. And the best businesses and business do. And the best businesses and business do. And the best businesses and business owners will know, oh, this is for me. owners will know, oh, this is for me. owners will know, oh, this is for me. You signal to them that you like you You signal to them that you like you You signal to them that you like you want to go out market, but you have low want to go out market, but you have low want to go out market, but you have low market prices. There's um there's market prices. There's um there's market prices. There's um there's something called the Van Wesson door something called the Van Wesson door something called the Van Wesson door pricing analysis. You might have heard pricing analysis. You might have heard pricing analysis. You might have heard of it. It's from the 1970s. I do this of it. It's from the 1970s. I do this of it. It's from the 1970s. I do this most times when I launch a new offering. most times when I launch a new offering. most times when I launch a new offering. And so there's four questions you ask. And so there's four questions you ask. And so there's four questions you ask. Number one, at what price would this be Number one, at what price would this be Number one, at what price would this be so expensive that you wouldn't even so expensive that you wouldn't even so expensive that you wouldn't even consider it?

consider it? consider it? >> Mhm. >> Mhm. >> Mhm. >> Number two, at what price would this be >> Number two, at what price would this be >> Number two, at what price would this be so cheap that it would be impossible so cheap that it would be impossible so cheap that it would be impossible that it would be able to be valuable? It that it would be able to be valuable? It that it would be able to be valuable? It it'd be too cheap. At what price would it'd be too cheap. At what price would it'd be too cheap. At what price would it be right at the edge? you'd have to it be right at the edge? you'd have to it be right at the edge? you'd have to really consider it, but you'd end up really consider it, but you'd end up really consider it, but you'd end up buying it. And then at what price would buying it. And then at what price would buying it. And then at what price would it be a bargain, a good deal? And so it be a bargain, a good deal? And so it be a bargain, a good deal? And so when you actually take a scatter plot to when you actually take a scatter plot to when you actually take a scatter plot to this, and now I have to I used to have this, and now I have to I used to have this, and now I have to I used to have to do these manually. Now you can to do these manually. Now you can to do these manually. Now you can literally just take the data and put it literally just take the data and put it literally just take the data and put it right into AI and say, "Hey, run a van right into AI and say, "Hey, run a van right into AI and say, "Hey, run a van western drug analysis on this, which is western drug analysis on this, which is western drug analysis on this, which is amazing." So you can get it in six amazing." So you can get it in six amazing." So you can get it in six minutes. Um, and so you get these minutes. Um, and so you get these minutes. Um, and so you get these there's four points on the graph there's four points on the graph there's four points on the graph if you have the scattered dots. And so if you have the scattered dots. And so if you have the scattered dots. And so you have the point of marginal cheapness you have the point of marginal cheapness you have the point of marginal cheapness which is basically beyond this point the which is basically beyond this point the which is basically beyond this point the majority more people will think it's too majority more people will think it's too majority more people will think it's too cheap to be believable. cheap to be believable. cheap to be believable. >> Okay. And above this price it's too >> Okay. And above this price it's too >> Okay. And above this price it's too expensive to be considerable. expensive to be considerable. expensive to be considerable. And so what you can find is you can do And so what you can find is you can do And so what you can find is you can do area under the curve to see at what area under the curve to see at what area under the curve to see at what price would I make the most money if I price would I make the most money if I price would I make the most money if I had a higher friction sales process. had a higher friction sales process. had a higher friction sales process. >> Mhm. [clears throat] >> Mhm. [clears throat] >> Mhm. [clears throat] >> And if I wanted people to simply >> And if I wanted people to simply >> And if I wanted people to simply purchase it. So if I wanted to have an purchase it. So if I wanted to have an purchase it. So if I wanted to have an automated sales process where my range automated sales process where my range automated sales process where my range is. And so there's a range in there is. And so there's a range in there is. And so there's a range in there where it says, "Okay, right here is the where it says, "Okay, right here is the where it says, "Okay, right here is the point where you'll make the most number point where you'll make the most number point where you'll make the most number of sales." Now, you'd have to factor in of sales." Now, you'd have to factor in of sales." Now, you'd have to factor in margin, like gross margins of the margin, like gross margins of the margin, like gross margins of the product. But you can guess like this is product. But you can guess like this is product. But you can guess like this is how when you want to launch a shampoo, how when you want to launch a shampoo, how when you want to launch a shampoo, this is how they do it. And so we can this is how they do it. And so we can this is how they do it. And so we can price it precisely.

price it precisely. price it precisely. >> Is it a bell curve or is it >> Is it a bell curve or is it >> Is it a bell curve or is it >> Oh, yeah. >> Oh, yeah. >> Oh, yeah. >> So is it like a >> So is it like a >> So is it like a >> Yeah, but sometimes it's so >> Yeah, but sometimes it's so >> Yeah, but sometimes it's so interestingly sometimes you have double interestingly sometimes you have double interestingly sometimes you have double gaussians that'll happen gaussians that'll happen gaussians that'll happen >> because it's different customers. So >> because it's different customers. So >> because it's different customers. So when so when I run these, I ask those when so when I run these, I ask those when so when I run these, I ask those four questions, but I also ask for the four questions, but I also ask for the four questions, but I also ask for the customer stats. So then I can slice it customer stats. So then I can slice it customer stats. So then I can slice it by saying, what do the rich customers by saying, what do the rich customers by saying, what do the rich customers think? What's the pricing curve for think? What's the pricing curve for think? What's the pricing curve for them? What's the pricing curve for poor them? What's the pricing curve for poor them? What's the pricing curve for poor customers? What's the pricing curve for customers? What's the pricing curve for customers? What's the pricing curve for home services? What's the pricing curve home services? What's the pricing curve home services? What's the pricing curve for? And so then you can get really for? And so then you can get really for? And so then you can get really really accurate with initial pricing. really accurate with initial pricing. really accurate with initial pricing. Of all the ideas that you've put out Of all the ideas that you've put out Of all the ideas that you've put out into the world, what are the the sort of into the world, what are the the sort of into the world, what are the the sort of headline ideas or questions that you headline ideas or questions that you headline ideas or questions that you found to be most compelling to people? found to be most compelling to people? found to be most compelling to people? Almost all the core concepts in this Almost all the core concepts in this Almost all the core concepts in this book come down to figuring out who you book come down to figuring out who you book come down to figuring out who you want to sell, what you want to sell want to sell, what you want to sell want to sell, what you want to sell them, and how to get them to buy. them, and how to get them to buy. them, and how to get them to buy. And most of my content focuses more on And most of my content focuses more on And most of my content focuses more on acquisitions since the vast majority of acquisitions since the vast majority of acquisitions since the vast majority of small businesses, say 1 to 50 million, small businesses, say 1 to 50 million, small businesses, say 1 to 50 million, >> not always, um, but I'd say 70% of >> not always, um, but I'd say 70% of >> not always, um, but I'd say 70% of businesses, this is rough estimates, businesses, this is rough estimates, businesses, this is rough estimates, that come through our doors are demand that come through our doors are demand that come through our doors are demand constraint. They could use more constraint. They could use more constraint. They could use more customers than they than they have. 30% customers than they than they have. 30% customers than they than they have. 30% are supply constrained. The phone's are supply constrained. The phone's are supply constrained. The phone's ringing, but they just don't have enough ringing, but they just don't have enough ringing, but they just don't have enough account reps. They don't have enough account reps. They don't have enough account reps. They don't have enough technicians, whatever it is. And so, technicians, whatever it is. And so, technicians, whatever it is. And so, what's really interesting about this all what's really interesting about this all what's really interesting about this all of these books when taken in aggregate of these books when taken in aggregate of these books when taken in aggregate is that is that is that every problem is a marketing problem.

every problem is a marketing problem. every problem is a marketing problem. And I'll and I'll sell you on this idea. And I'll and I'll sell you on this idea. And I'll and I'll sell you on this idea. So, if we were to think about a business So, if we were to think about a business So, if we were to think about a business as okay, we've got lead genen, right, as as okay, we've got lead genen, right, as as okay, we've got lead genen, right, as activity number one. We've got nurture activity number one. We've got nurture activity number one. We've got nurture as number two. We've got sales, as number two. We've got sales, as number two. We've got sales, uh, we've got, uh, onboarding, and then uh, we've got, uh, onboarding, and then uh, we've got, uh, onboarding, and then we've got retention, we've got retention, we've got retention, ascension, right? Getting them to keep ascension, right? Getting them to keep ascension, right? Getting them to keep paying and getting them to buy more paying and getting them to buy more Now, this is the demand side for Now, this is the demand side for customers, right? Everyone hopefully customers, right? Everyone hopefully customers, right? Everyone hopefully everyone's kind of aligned with that. everyone's kind of aligned with that. everyone's kind of aligned with that. Now, if you're supply constrained, Now, if you're supply constrained, Now, if you're supply constrained, >> which means >> which means >> which means >> which means that you uh have more >> which means that you uh have more >> which means that you uh have more customers than you can handle, more customers than you can handle, more customers than you can handle, more people are interested in your stuff. people are interested in your stuff. people are interested in your stuff. Let's say you're the solarreneur and Let's say you're the solarreneur and Let's say you're the solarreneur and you're like, "How do I like there's only you're like, "How do I like there's only you're like, "How do I like there's only one of me, what do I do?" like you're one of me, what do I do?" like you're one of me, what do I do?" like you're supply constrainted. If you had supply constrainted. If you had supply constrainted. If you had unlimited view, you you could make more unlimited view, you you could make more unlimited view, you you could make more money, right? So, what's the equivalent money, right? So, what's the equivalent money, right? So, what's the equivalent version of this? On the supply side, you version of this? On the supply side, you version of this? On the supply side, you have application generation and then you have application generation and then you have application generation and then you have application nurture. have application nurture. have application nurture. >> What does that mean, application >> What does that mean, application >> What does that mean, application nurture? nurture? nurture? >> Basically, we're working these leads. >> Basically, we're working these leads. >> Basically, we're working these leads. Yeah, we have these applicants. We need Yeah, we have these applicants. We need Yeah, we have these applicants. We need to get them scheduled. We need to get to get them scheduled. We need to get to get them scheduled. We need to get them booked. We need to make sure that them booked. We need to make sure that them booked. We need to make sure that they're not getting lost in the process, they're not getting lost in the process, they're not getting lost in the process, you know, like how how quickly can we you know, like how how quickly can we you know, like how how quickly can we line these interviews up, all that, line these interviews up, all that, line these interviews up, all that, right? We have the interviews right? We have the interviews right? We have the interviews themselves, which is the sale, right?

themselves, which is the sale, right? themselves, which is the sale, right? And then we have onboarding like you do And then we have onboarding like you do And then we have onboarding like you do for a new employee. And then you have for a new employee. And then you have for a new employee. And then you have retention. And then the ascension is retention. And then the ascension is retention. And then the ascension is they're grow they're going up, right? they're grow they're going up, right? they're grow they're going up, right? Are are they are they are they moving Are are they are they are they moving Are are they are they are they moving up? Which means that you just treat up? Which means that you just treat up? Which means that you just treat humans the way you treat humans in a humans the way you treat humans in a humans the way you treat humans in a pipeline in a business. And so if you pipeline in a business. And so if you pipeline in a business. And so if you have a demand problem, but you know how have a demand problem, but you know how have a demand problem, but you know how to get employees, then do the stuff that to get employees, then do the stuff that to get employees, then do the stuff that you get to get employees to get more you get to get employees to get more you get to get employees to get more customers. If you know how to get customers. If you know how to get customers. If you know how to get customers, but you don't know how to get customers, but you don't know how to get customers, but you don't know how to get employees, use the exact same process, employees, use the exact same process, employees, use the exact same process, which means which means which means who's writing the copy for your your ads who's writing the copy for your your ads who's writing the copy for your your ads and your promotions and your outreach and your promotions and your outreach and your promotions and your outreach temps. Well, somebody probably should temps. Well, somebody probably should temps. Well, somebody probably should take a look at if you haven't looked at take a look at if you haven't looked at take a look at if you haven't looked at this, by the way, and you're a slightly this, by the way, and you're a slightly this, by the way, and you're a slightly bigger business owner, you will be bigger business owner, you will be bigger business owner, you will be horrified by the outbound messages that horrified by the outbound messages that horrified by the outbound messages that are getting sent on your behalf to are getting sent on your behalf to are getting sent on your behalf to people. You'll be horrified by the job people. You'll be horrified by the job people. You'll be horrified by the job postings that your company is putting. postings that your company is putting. postings that your company is putting. You're like, "No one would respond to You're like, "No one would respond to You're like, "No one would respond to this. How would you think this would this. How would you think this would this. How would you think this would work?" work?" work?" >> Very funny. From a nurture perspective, >> Very funny. From a nurture perspective, >> Very funny. From a nurture perspective, the leads aren't getting worked. No the leads aren't getting worked. No the leads aren't getting worked. No one's following up. We're not giving one's following up. We're not giving one's following up. We're not giving them any materials to sell them on our them any materials to sell them on our them any materials to sell them on our just like you would with a prospect.

just like you would with a prospect. just like you would with a prospect. Like, why don't we have case studies? Like, why don't we have case studies? Like, why don't we have case studies? Why don't we have a video sales letter Why don't we have a video sales letter Why don't we have a video sales letter that tells tells the whole business? So, that tells tells the whole business? So, that tells tells the whole business? So, every person who comes to every person who comes to every person who comes to acquisition.com watches a VSSL for me acquisition.com watches a VSSL for me acquisition.com watches a VSSL for me and it's a 13-minute thing of just like and it's a 13-minute thing of just like and it's a 13-minute thing of just like here's how the business works and it's here's how the business works and it's here's how the business works and it's this is our real estate arm. This is this is our real estate arm. This is this is our real estate arm. This is like and it shows everything and like like and it shows everything and like like and it shows everything and like I'm giving proof and this is John and I'm giving proof and this is John and I'm giving proof and this is John and John's an employee and John loves it John's an employee and John loves it John's an employee and John loves it here, you know, whatever. And so then in here, you know, whatever. And so then in here, you know, whatever. And so then in the interview itself, it's like, do you the interview itself, it's like, do you the interview itself, it's like, do you have a script? Well, you have a sales have a script? Well, you have a sales have a script? Well, you have a sales script. Why would you not have an script. Why would you not have an script. Why would you not have an interview script? interview script? interview script? >> Mhm. [clears throat] >> Mhm. [clears throat] >> Mhm. [clears throat] >> Pre-anned questions. Do we roleplay >> Pre-anned questions. Do we roleplay >> Pre-anned questions. Do we roleplay this? Well, we roleplay this. Isn't this this? Well, we roleplay this. Isn't this this? Well, we roleplay this. Isn't this just as important, if not more just as important, if not more just as important, if not more important? Is there more leverage on important? Is there more leverage on important? Is there more leverage on getting one 10 out of 10 talent person getting one 10 out of 10 talent person getting one 10 out of 10 talent person than just one customer? Yeah. On the than just one customer? Yeah. On the than just one customer? Yeah. On the onboarding, are we just do we have any onboarding, are we just do we have any onboarding, are we just do we have any process? Do we have 30 6090 of what process? Do we have 30 6090 of what process? Do we have 30 6090 of what what's going to happen over the next 30 what's going to happen over the next 30 what's going to happen over the next 30 60 90 days and what is required for them 60 90 days and what is required for them 60 90 days and what is required for them and what information they need to and what information they need to and what information they need to consume so they can become proficient? consume so they can become proficient? consume so they can become proficient? And then once they are onboarded, And then once they are onboarded, And then once they are onboarded, what's their what's their career path what's their what's their career path what's their what's their career path look like? How do they like one of my look like? How do they like one of my look like? How do they like one of my favorite questions is when I have favorite questions is when I have favorite questions is when I have somebody I really like, um I say, "What somebody I really like, um I say, "What somebody I really like, um I say, "What would it take for you to work here would it take for you to work here would it take for you to work here forever? forever? forever? What would it take? Just tell me what it What would it take? Just tell me what it What would it take? Just tell me what it would take." I can say, "No, just tell would take." I can say, "No, just tell would take." I can say, "No, just tell me what it would take." And then I can me what it would take." And then I can me what it would take." And then I can start moving the pieces around to figure start moving the pieces around to figure start moving the pieces around to figure out how I can get this person to stay out how I can get this person to stay out how I can get this person to stay forever. But the same thing happens if I forever. But the same thing happens if I forever. But the same thing happens if I have a a customer that I like a lot have a a customer that I like a lot have a a customer that I like a lot like, "What would it take for us to be like, "What would it take for us to be like, "What would it take for us to be your your sole provider forever?" Mhm.

your your sole provider forever?" Mhm. your your sole provider forever?" Mhm. >> Especially this because I know you have >> Especially this because I know you have >> Especially this because I know you have more enterprise experience sometimes more enterprise experience sometimes more enterprise experience sometimes saying, "Hey, let me be the sole saying, "Hey, let me be the sole saying, "Hey, let me be the sole provider. Let's get let's go exclusive. provider. Let's get let's go exclusive. provider. Let's get let's go exclusive. >> Let's lock in a three-year contract and >> Let's lock in a three-year contract and >> Let's lock in a three-year contract and I'll give you these other things for I'll give you these other things for I'll give you these other things for free if we lock it in." free if we lock it in." free if we lock it in." >> And I'll never work with >> And I'll never work with >> And I'll never work with >> Yeah. these three competitors. Yeah. And >> Yeah. these three competitors. Yeah. And >> Yeah. these three competitors. Yeah. And so almost all problems in business can so almost all problems in business can so almost all problems in business can be solved by more people finding out be solved by more people finding out be solved by more people finding out about your stuff either to work for you about your stuff either to work for you about your stuff either to work for you or to buy from you, or to buy from you, or to buy from you, [clears throat] [clears throat] [clears throat] >> which also means that you probably have >> which also means that you probably have >> which also means that you probably have ongoing marketing to your customers. You ongoing marketing to your customers. You ongoing marketing to your customers. You think there shouldn't be ongoing think there shouldn't be ongoing think there shouldn't be ongoing marketing to your team and employees. Do marketing to your team and employees. Do marketing to your team and employees. Do we want our customers to give us we want our customers to give us we want our customers to give us referrals? Yeah. Do we want our referrals? Yeah. Do we want our referrals? Yeah. Do we want our employees to give us referrals? Do we employees to give us referrals? Do we employees to give us referrals? Do we have a incentive for people to bring have a incentive for people to bring have a incentive for people to bring referrals? There's a great story. A referrals? There's a great story. A referrals? There's a great story. A friend of a friend had a had a $10 friend of a friend had a had a $10 friend of a friend had a had a $10 millionish dollar a year business. He millionish dollar a year business. He millionish dollar a year business. He talked to somebody in the exact same talked to somebody in the exact same talked to somebody in the exact same space as him uh who was way further space as him uh who was way further space as him uh who was way further ahead. And he uh he was in business that ahead. And he uh he was in business that ahead. And he uh he was in business that had like agents uh that work from like had like agents uh that work from like had like agents uh that work from like kind of like a brokerage. And the mentor kind of like a brokerage. And the mentor kind of like a brokerage. And the mentor told him, "So, what's the incentive that told him, "So, what's the incentive that told him, "So, what's the incentive that you have for your agents to bring more you have for your agents to bring more you have for your agents to bring more agents?" He's like, "Oh, I you know, I agents?" He's like, "Oh, I you know, I agents?" He's like, "Oh, I you know, I pay him 500 bucks if they bring a new pay him 500 bucks if they bring a new pay him 500 bucks if they bring a new agent on." He was like, "Okay, what do agent on." He was like, "Okay, what do agent on." He was like, "Okay, what do you make on a productive agent per year you make on a productive agent per year you make on a productive agent per year in gross profit?" He was 250,000 a year.

in gross profit?" He was 250,000 a year. in gross profit?" He was 250,000 a year. Productive agent, gross profit. He's Productive agent, gross profit. He's Productive agent, gross profit. He's like, "So, you're only willing to spend like, "So, you're only willing to spend like, "So, you're only willing to spend $500 to make 250,000?" $500 to make 250,000?" $500 to make 250,000?" He's like, "What would you spend for He's like, "What would you spend for He's like, "What would you spend for 250,000?" He was like, "I mean, I don't 250,000?" He was like, "I mean, I don't 250,000?" He was like, "I mean, I don't know, 50 grand." He's like, "Yeah, so know, 50 grand." He's like, "Yeah, so know, 50 grand." He's like, "Yeah, so why don't you make your incentive 25 to why don't you make your incentive 25 to why don't you make your incentive 25 to start?" So he took his incentive from start?" So he took his incentive from start?" So he took his incentive from $500 for referral to 25,000 $500 for referral to 25,000 $500 for referral to 25,000 and he took his company from 10 million and he took his company from 10 million and he took his company from 10 million to 400 million. to 400 million. to 400 million. >> Yeah, it's crazy. [laughter] I think >> Yeah, it's crazy. [laughter] I think >> Yeah, it's crazy. [laughter] I think about this a lot. Even with like about this a lot. Even with like about this a lot. Even with like recruiting, like people like, "Oh, head recruiting, like people like, "Oh, head recruiting, like people like, "Oh, head hunters cost a lot of money." I'm like, hunters cost a lot of money." I'm like, hunters cost a lot of money." I'm like, "Fucking hell." For really exceptional "Fucking hell." For really exceptional "Fucking hell." For really exceptional talent, it's almost it's always a deal. talent, it's almost it's always a deal. talent, it's almost it's always a deal. It's always a great deal. Going back in It's always a great deal. Going back in It's always a great deal. Going back in time, if I were to give the the like time, if I were to give the the like time, if I were to give the the like what has changed about uh me then versus what has changed about uh me then versus what has changed about uh me then versus me now is that my standards for talent me now is that my standards for talent me now is that my standards for talent are significantly higher and my are significantly higher and my are significantly higher and my tolerance for letting someone be tolerance for letting someone be tolerance for letting someone be mediocre and stay are lower. I think mediocre and stay are lower. I think mediocre and stay are lower. I think probably all the entrepreneurs I've ever probably all the entrepreneurs I've ever probably all the entrepreneurs I've ever interviewed would say that exact thing. interviewed would say that exact thing. interviewed would say that exact thing. I remember one particular entrepreneur I remember one particular entrepreneur I remember one particular entrepreneur who's built 100 billion dollar business who's built 100 billion dollar business who's built 100 billion dollar business publicly listed. He said, "At 20, I publicly listed. He said, "At 20, I publicly listed. He said, "At 20, I thought hiring mattered. At 30, I thought hiring mattered. At 30, I thought hiring mattered. At 30, I thought it was kind of important. At 40, thought it was kind of important. At 40, thought it was kind of important. At 40, I've realized it's the single most I've realized it's the single most I've realized it's the single most important thing." and this is a guy important thing." and this is a guy important thing." and this is a guy that's built hundred billion dollar that's built hundred billion dollar that's built hundred billion dollar publicly traded company and I was like publicly traded company and I was like publicly traded company and I was like but it's funny because that's what all but it's funny because that's what all but it's funny because that's what all of them say.

of them say. of them say. >> Yeah. But I this is a broader >> Yeah. But I this is a broader >> Yeah. But I this is a broader relationship advice lesson which is just relationship advice lesson which is just relationship advice lesson which is just the best and worst decisions you'll make the best and worst decisions you'll make the best and worst decisions you'll make in your life are people and I mean I in your life are people and I mean I in your life are people and I mean I look at I look at some of these things look at I look at some of these things look at I look at some of these things here and I go I mean it's true for you. here and I go I mean it's true for you. here and I go I mean it's true for you. >> Yeah, I know right. >> Yeah, I know right. >> Yeah, I know right. >> This is a photo of your lovely wife. >> This is a photo of your lovely wife. >> This is a photo of your lovely wife. >> Nugget Zone. >> Nugget Zone. >> Nugget Zone. >> You think about the variance of your >> You think about the variance of your >> You think about the variance of your outcome if you had chosen someone else. outcome if you had chosen someone else. outcome if you had chosen someone else. >> I do think about that. I do think about >> I do think about that. I do think about >> I do think about that. I do think about that. It's that. It's that. It's probably the single best financial probably the single best financial probably the single best financial decision that I ever made was marrying decision that I ever made was marrying decision that I ever made was marrying Ila Ila Ila because because because and this is this is no shade to any any and this is this is no shade to any any and this is this is no shade to any any any relationship that exists of mine or any relationship that exists of mine or any relationship that exists of mine or anyone's you know people optimize for anyone's you know people optimize for anyone's you know people optimize for different things and I'm not saying I different things and I'm not saying I different things and I'm not saying I optimize for finances. I'm saying, but optimize for finances. I'm saying, but optimize for finances. I'm saying, but within that lens, she was just down and she believed in me she was just down and she believed in me a lot of times more than I believed in a lot of times more than I believed in a lot of times more than I believed in myself. And I think I think that's all myself. And I think I think that's all myself. And I think I think that's all anyone really wants or at least for me anyone really wants or at least for me anyone really wants or at least for me that I that I wanted was and the thing that I that I wanted was and the thing that I that I wanted was and the thing is is that hasn't stopped as the stakes is is that hasn't stopped as the stakes is is that hasn't stopped as the stakes have gotten higher. I remember there was have gotten higher. I remember there was have gotten higher. I remember there was this business that I was that I was this business that I was that I was this business that I was that I was working with and I was going to meet working with and I was going to meet working with and I was going to meet with the whole team and I was like this with the whole team and I was like this with the whole team and I was like this is like a really tough problem that is like a really tough problem that is like a really tough problem that they're asking me to help with and I was they're asking me to help with and I was they're asking me to help with and I was like and she just like cut me off and like and she just like cut me off and like and she just like cut me off and she's like good thing you're the best at she's like good thing you're the best at she's like good thing you're the best at it and that you're going to give them it and that you're going to give them it and that you're going to give them more help than anyone else could and more help than anyone else could and more help than anyone else could and it's just like whether that's true or it's just like whether that's true or it's just like whether that's true or not it was exactly what I needed to hear not it was exactly what I needed to hear not it was exactly what I needed to hear in that moment. And so I I also say this in that moment. And so I I also say this in that moment. And so I I also say this to people who are starting out is just to people who are starting out is just to people who are starting out is just like I I do not have perfect

like I I do not have perfect like I I do not have perfect um self-security. You know what I mean? um self-security. You know what I mean? um self-security. You know what I mean? Like I wouldn't say it's imposter Like I wouldn't say it's imposter Like I wouldn't say it's imposter syndrome cuz that's not true. But like I syndrome cuz that's not true. But like I syndrome cuz that's not true. But like I have doubts of like I don't know if I'm have doubts of like I don't know if I'm have doubts of like I don't know if I'm going to be able to solve this. I mean I going to be able to solve this. I mean I going to be able to solve this. I mean I hope I am and I keep working on it but hope I am and I keep working on it but hope I am and I keep working on it but like I don't know like I don't know like I don't know >> and as the the problems become more >> and as the the problems become more >> and as the the problems become more complex and have higher stakes, it's complex and have higher stakes, it's complex and have higher stakes, it's like this is harder and will cost more like this is harder and will cost more like this is harder and will cost more if I fail. Um the pressure feels the if I fail. Um the pressure feels the if I fail. Um the pressure feels the same. I would say the only difference is same. I would say the only difference is same. I would say the only difference is that we have more resources to to to that we have more resources to to to that we have more resources to to to handle them. Mhm. handle them. Mhm. handle them. Mhm. >> And so in a lot of ways, when you're >> And so in a lot of ways, when you're >> And so in a lot of ways, when you're starting out, it's kind of like fighting starting out, it's kind of like fighting starting out, it's kind of like fighting a bear with your bare hands, but when a bear with your bare hands, but when a bear with your bare hands, but when you're further down, it's like trying to you're further down, it's like trying to you're further down, it's like trying to slay a dragon, but at least you have an slay a dragon, but at least you have an slay a dragon, but at least you have an army. army. army. >> Mhm. >> Mhm. >> Mhm. >> And [clears throat] so the foe is >> And [clears throat] so the foe is >> And [clears throat] so the foe is bigger, but your resources are bigger, bigger, but your resources are bigger, bigger, but your resources are bigger, too. And in some ways, it's almost too. And in some ways, it's almost too. And in some ways, it's almost easier later than it is when you start. easier later than it is when you start. easier later than it is when you start. But you only earn the right to face But you only earn the right to face But you only earn the right to face those foes by going through the earlier those foes by going through the earlier those foes by going through the earlier stages when you didn't have the stages when you didn't have the stages when you didn't have the resources because you learn the grit, resources because you learn the grit, resources because you learn the grit, you learn the scrappiness. And I think you learn the scrappiness. And I think you learn the scrappiness. And I think that like it's a it's a right of passage that like it's a it's a right of passage that like it's a it's a right of passage and Ila was willing to go allin and I and Ila was willing to go allin and I and Ila was willing to go allin and I would say that like if anything kind of would say that like if anything kind of would say that like if anything kind of like a jockey bet u for VCs like you bet like a jockey bet u for VCs like you bet like a jockey bet u for VCs like you bet on the horse not the jock or sorry the on the horse not the jock or sorry the on the horse not the jock or sorry the jockey not the horse. when she saw me, I jockey not the horse. when she saw me, I jockey not the horse. when she saw me, I had, you know, a handful of gyms and it had, you know, a handful of gyms and it had, you know, a handful of gyms and it wasn't like I'm Alex Herozi the, you wasn't like I'm Alex Herozi the, you wasn't like I'm Alex Herozi the, you know, whatever I am now. I was just a know, whatever I am now. I was just a know, whatever I am now. I was just a gym owner and I was 26 and I worked gym owner and I was 26 and I worked gym owner and I was 26 and I worked really hard and she was like, I don't really hard and she was like, I don't really hard and she was like, I don't know where we're going to go, but I know know where we're going to go, but I know know where we're going to go, but I know Alex is going to work tirelessly to get Alex is going to work tirelessly to get Alex is going to work tirelessly to get there and she just always believed. And

there and she just always believed. And there and she just always believed. And I think that if like I think the person I think that if like I think the person I think that if like I think the person that you were married is either going to that you were married is either going to that you were married is either going to increase the likelihood that you hit increase the likelihood that you hit increase the likelihood that you hit your goals or decrease and you just need your goals or decrease and you just need your goals or decrease and you just need to decide whether that's important to to decide whether that's important to to decide whether that's important to you you you >> if you were single. >> if you were single. >> if you were single. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Do you think you would be as successful >> Do you think you would be as successful >> Do you think you would be as successful as you are now? as you are now? as you are now? >> I wouldn't be as successful because >> I wouldn't be as successful because >> I wouldn't be as successful because number one, there have been plenty of number one, there have been plenty of number one, there have been plenty of moments cuz I don't struggle with moments cuz I don't struggle with moments cuz I don't struggle with anxiety. I struggle with apathy. Um not anxiety. I struggle with apathy. Um not anxiety. I struggle with apathy. Um not caring. Why do I even bother doing this? caring. Why do I even bother doing this? caring. Why do I even bother doing this? We already have enough money. Who cares? We already have enough money. Who cares? We already have enough money. Who cares? Ila in a lot of ways has bigger dreams Ila in a lot of ways has bigger dreams Ila in a lot of ways has bigger dreams than I do. Um I have [clears throat] than I do. Um I have [clears throat] than I do. Um I have [clears throat] always had big goals for finances, but always had big goals for finances, but always had big goals for finances, but at a certain point um and I think I hit at a certain point um and I think I hit at a certain point um and I think I hit this kind of like last year for me, this kind of like last year for me, this kind of like last year for me, which is weird because I always like which is weird because I always like which is weird because I always like people always like when is enough people always like when is enough people always like when is enough enough? And it's kind of like working enough? And it's kind of like working enough? And it's kind of like working out. Um I got to a point where I was out. Um I got to a point where I was out. Um I got to a point where I was like almost 250 and lean and I was like like almost 250 and lean and I was like like almost 250 and lean and I was like this is more than enough. I I'm going to this is more than enough. I I'm going to this is more than enough. I I'm going to come back down. [laughter] And so I've come back down. [laughter] And so I've come back down. [laughter] And so I've had bigger goals than most people for my had bigger goals than most people for my had bigger goals than most people for my fitness or muscles or whatever. Um, I've fitness or muscles or whatever. Um, I've fitness or muscles or whatever. Um, I've had bigger goals than most people for had bigger goals than most people for had bigger goals than most people for money, but I also was like at that point money, but I also was like at that point money, but I also was like at that point when I hit it, I was like, I think this when I hit it, I was like, I think this when I hit it, I was like, I think this is enough for me. And Leila was like, it is enough for me. And Leila was like, it is enough for me. And Leila was like, it was never about the money for me. It was never about the money for me. It was never about the money for me. It never was. And I think that's why our never was. And I think that's why our never was. And I think that's why our dynamic worked really well. But she's dynamic worked really well. But she's dynamic worked really well. But she's always cared about the team um, more always cared about the team um, more always cared about the team um, more than anything. And she's like, I her than anything. And she's like, I her than anything. And she's like, I her dream when she and I met was to build a dream when she and I met was to build a dream when she and I met was to build a place that people love to come to work.

place that people love to come to work. place that people love to come to work. And if you do that and it also has a And if you do that and it also has a And if you do that and it also has a good business model behind it, marketing good business model behind it, marketing good business model behind it, marketing and sales and pricing and all this other and sales and pricing and all this other and sales and pricing and all this other stuff, it's like you end up making a lot stuff, it's like you end up making a lot stuff, it's like you end up making a lot of money. of money. of money. >> But I would have probably taken my foot >> But I would have probably taken my foot >> But I would have probably taken my foot off the gas earlier if it hadn't been off the gas earlier if it hadn't been off the gas earlier if it hadn't been for Ila. I think I would have struggled for Ila. I think I would have struggled for Ila. I think I would have struggled more operationally. Uh because Ila is more operationally. Uh because Ila is more operationally. Uh because Ila is Ila will never get the credit that she Ila will never get the credit that she Ila will never get the credit that she deserves. Um but Ila is Ila is the is deserves. Um but Ila is Ila is the is deserves. Um but Ila is Ila is the is the pure is a pure operator. like the pure is a pure operator. like the pure is a pure operator. like unbelievable leader that talent that I unbelievable leader that talent that I unbelievable leader that talent that I probably wouldn't have been able to probably wouldn't have been able to probably wouldn't have been able to either get or keep stay because of her. either get or keep stay because of her. either get or keep stay because of her. Like I think that if there was like a a Like I think that if there was like a a Like I think that if there was like a a divorce in the business, I think the divorce in the business, I think the divorce in the business, I think the vast majority of people would [laughter] vast majority of people would [laughter] vast majority of people would [laughter] >> I'm serious. Like I I know I like >> I'm serious. Like I I know I like >> I'm serious. Like I I know I like self-awareness. I people know what I'm self-awareness. I people know what I'm self-awareness. I people know what I'm good at good at good at >> and I know people are loyal to Ila >> and I know people are loyal to Ila >> and I know people are loyal to Ila >> because she's just there for people. Um, >> because she's just there for people. Um, >> because she's just there for people. Um, and so for those reasons, I don't think and so for those reasons, I don't think and so for those reasons, I don't think I would have I don't think I would have I would have I don't think I would have I would have I don't think I would have kept my foot on the gas. Um, I don't kept my foot on the gas. Um, I don't kept my foot on the gas. Um, I don't think I would have been able to operate think I would have been able to operate think I would have been able to operate nearly as complex of a business as we nearly as complex of a business as we nearly as complex of a business as we currently have. And on the inevitable currently have. And on the inevitable currently have. And on the inevitable like troughs of my motivation, she was like troughs of my motivation, she was like troughs of my motivation, she was the one who kind of carried me.

the one who kind of carried me. the one who kind of carried me. >> A lot of people be listening now and >> A lot of people be listening now and >> A lot of people be listening now and they might be listening with their they might be listening with their they might be listening with their partner, maybe they're listening alone, partner, maybe they're listening alone, partner, maybe they're listening alone, and they're thinking, you know, my and they're thinking, you know, my and they're thinking, you know, my partner isn't all that supportive of me. partner isn't all that supportive of me. partner isn't all that supportive of me. And dare I say, some people will be And dare I say, some people will be And dare I say, some people will be listening now and think their partner is listening now and think their partner is listening now and think their partner is actually against actually against actually against >> Yeah. their ambition. >> Yeah. their ambition. >> Yeah. their ambition. What do you say to those people? What do you say to those people? What do you say to those people? Figure out what you want. Like, we have Figure out what you want. Like, we have Figure out what you want. Like, we have to make trades. How do you Do you know to make trades. How do you Do you know to make trades. How do you Do you know what? It's tricky because what? It's tricky because what? It's tricky because some of those people might say, "Right, some of those people might say, "Right, some of those people might say, "Right, it. I'm going to dump her or him." it. I'm going to dump her or him." it. I'm going to dump her or him." >> And then they pursue the business for 2, >> And then they pursue the business for 2, >> And then they pursue the business for 2, three years. They become successful and three years. They become successful and three years. They become successful and they're lonely as hell they're lonely as hell they're lonely as hell >> and they look back and go, "Do you know >> and they look back and go, "Do you know >> and they look back and go, "Do you know what? That was actually my insecurity what? That was actually my insecurity what? That was actually my insecurity and my shame that drove me to do this. and my shame that drove me to do this. and my shame that drove me to do this. But I've I've now I've got the mansion But I've I've now I've got the mansion But I've I've now I've got the mansion and I'm here alone. I should have she and I'm here alone. I should have she and I'm here alone. I should have she was a good girl. He was a good guy. was a good girl. He was a good guy. was a good girl. He was a good guy. >> I speak only from the pers perspective >> I speak only from the pers perspective >> I speak only from the pers perspective of how do you align the conditions to of how do you align the conditions to of how do you align the conditions to maximize the the business outcome. maximize the the business outcome. maximize the the business outcome. That's where I come from in terms of how That's where I come from in terms of how That's where I come from in terms of how I'm speaking about this in terms of I'm speaking about this in terms of I'm speaking about this in terms of maximizing subjective well-being and maximizing subjective well-being and maximizing subjective well-being and your happiness. Um those factors are your happiness. Um those factors are your happiness. Um those factors are completely different. And so I think completely different. And so I think completely different. And so I think Arthur Brooks has this just this amazing Arthur Brooks has this just this amazing Arthur Brooks has this just this amazing visual example that I love, which is visual example that I love, which is visual example that I love, which is imagine two scenarios. One of them is imagine two scenarios. One of them is imagine two scenarios. One of them is that you drive your brand new Ferrari to that you drive your brand new Ferrari to that you drive your brand new Ferrari to a three-star Michelin restaurant. Um, a three-star Michelin restaurant. Um, a three-star Michelin restaurant. Um, and you have the corner corner booth and you have the corner corner booth and you have the corner corner booth eating the best food in the world eating the best food in the world eating the best food in the world looking out of view alone or piling into looking out of view alone or piling into looking out of view alone or piling into your beat up, you know, Camry, uh, going your beat up, you know, Camry, uh, going your beat up, you know, Camry, uh, going to a Denny's with your five best to a Denny's with your five best to a Denny's with your five best friends. Which one is the one you think

friends. Which one is the one you think friends. Which one is the one you think you're going to enjoy more? It's you're going to enjoy more? It's you're going to enjoy more? It's obvious. It's obvious it's the second obvious. It's obvious it's the second obvious. It's obvious it's the second one, but we live our life like the one, but we live our life like the one, but we live our life like the first. And so I think if again it comes first. And so I think if again it comes first. And so I think if again it comes down to what you want. If you're like down to what you want. If you're like down to what you want. If you're like this girl, guy, whatever like satisfies this girl, guy, whatever like satisfies this girl, guy, whatever like satisfies so many things, like you will not find so many things, like you will not find so many things, like you will not find the perfect person cuz you're not the perfect person cuz you're not the perfect person cuz you're not perfect. And so it's just what on the perfect. And so it's just what on the perfect. And so it's just what on the stats of this person am I willing to stats of this person am I willing to stats of this person am I willing to make trades on? Am I willing to have make trades on? Am I willing to have make trades on? Am I willing to have somebody who's maybe not the most somebody who's maybe not the most somebody who's maybe not the most supportive of my career, but maybe supportive of my career, but maybe supportive of my career, but maybe they're supportive of my subjective they're supportive of my subjective they're supportive of my subjective wellbeing? Maybe they're supportive of wellbeing? Maybe they're supportive of wellbeing? Maybe they're supportive of my of my extracurriculars, maybe they're my of my extracurriculars, maybe they're my of my extracurriculars, maybe they're supportive of my spiritual journey, supportive of my spiritual journey, supportive of my spiritual journey, whatever. They might just be supportive whatever. They might just be supportive whatever. They might just be supportive in different ways. And so again, it's in different ways. And so again, it's in different ways. And so again, it's what do you want? And I think people I what do you want? And I think people I what do you want? And I think people I had a my my first boss um or last boss had a my my first boss um or last boss had a my my first boss um or last boss rather said this thing to me and it's rather said this thing to me and it's rather said this thing to me and it's really stuck with me. She said, really stuck with me. She said, really stuck with me. She said, uh uh uh figuring out what you want is 99% of the figuring out what you want is 99% of the figuring out what you want is 99% of the work. She said the easy part is getting work. She said the easy part is getting work. She said the easy part is getting it. And I thought about that a lot it. And I thought about that a lot it. And I thought about that a lot because I was like, no, the hard part is because I was like, no, the hard part is because I was like, no, the hard part is getting it. And it's like, no, it's like getting it. And it's like, no, it's like getting it. And it's like, no, it's like it's how many layers deep did you figure it's how many layers deep did you figure it's how many layers deep did you figure out what you really want? And I think out what you really want? And I think out what you really want? And I think that's because when you when you really that's because when you when you really that's because when you when you really know what you want, then it's then you know what you want, then it's then you know what you want, then it's then you just align the world to go get it.

just align the world to go get it. just align the world to go get it. >> It's very hard to know what you want. >> It's very hard to know what you want. >> It's very hard to know what you want. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Because there's all these near-term >> Because there's all these near-term >> Because there's all these near-term temptations. There's this external temptations. There's this external temptations. There's this external noise. There's Instagram telling you noise. There's Instagram telling you noise. There's Instagram telling you that you want this. that you want this. that you want this. >> Yeah. No, you need this. Yeah. So being >> Yeah. No, you need this. Yeah. So being >> Yeah. No, you need this. Yeah. So being able to drown out all of that noise and able to drown out all of that noise and able to drown out all of that noise and get to some kind of signal and also to get to some kind of signal and also to get to some kind of signal and also to your point about sacrificing everything your point about sacrificing everything your point about sacrificing everything you could have had, you could have had, you could have had, you know, 2 3 4 5 we want the upsides of you know, 2 3 4 5 we want the upsides of you know, 2 3 4 5 we want the upsides of all paths without the cost of each. And all paths without the cost of each. And all paths without the cost of each. And so it I just so it I just so it I just >> this is the why I still believe that >> this is the why I still believe that >> this is the why I still believe that decision-m which is this the least sexy decision-m which is this the least sexy decision-m which is this the least sexy topic of all time but still the most topic of all time but still the most topic of all time but still the most important decision-m is the highest important decision-m is the highest important decision-m is the highest leverage thing that you can do in life leverage thing that you can do in life leverage thing that you can do in life making good decisions. making good decisions. making good decisions. >> And is there I mean we've talked about >> And is there I mean we've talked about >> And is there I mean we've talked about frameworks. Is there any framework for frameworks. Is there any framework for frameworks. Is there any framework for making a better decision as it relates making a better decision as it relates making a better decision as it relates to what we're talking about here? to what we're talking about here? to what we're talking about here? >> I think it's answering the first part >> I think it's answering the first part >> I think it's answering the first part which is what do I want to have happen? which is what do I want to have happen? which is what do I want to have happen? >> What do I want to have happen? Yeah, >> What do I want to have happen? Yeah, >> What do I want to have happen? Yeah, that's um even that that's you know I'm that's um even that that's you know I'm that's um even that that's you know I'm probably speaking from experience here probably speaking from experience here probably speaking from experience here because when I was what 20 years old was because when I was what 20 years old was because when I was what 20 years old was it 20 or 19 I Mark no friend of mine it 20 or 19 I Mark no friend of mine it 20 or 19 I Mark no friend of mine mentor of mine gave me this diary and I mentor of mine gave me this diary and I mentor of mine gave me this diary and I remember the first page I wrote in it remember the first page I wrote in it remember the first page I wrote in it what I wanted and what I wrote what I wanted and what I wrote what I wanted and what I wrote >> was before the age of 25 Range Rover >> was before the age of 25 Range Rover >> was before the age of 25 Range Rover Sport to be my first car million dollar Sport to be my first car million dollar Sport to be my first car million dollar six-pack girlfriend I'll throw up six-pack girlfriend I'll throw up six-pack girlfriend I'll throw up there's picture of it on the screen and there's picture of it on the screen and there's picture of it on the screen and I actually took a photo of it in my I actually took a photo of it in my I actually took a photo of it in my Range Rover at 24 years old as like a um Range Rover at 24 years old as like a um Range Rover at 24 years old as like a um but did was that actually what I should but did was that actually what I should but did was that actually what I should have written have written have written Well, I think it's probably what you Well, I think it's probably what you Well, I think it's probably what you wanted wanted wanted >> and then you updated your wants because >> and then you updated your wants because >> and then you updated your wants because you got it you got it you got it >> and then you found out that you wanted >> and then you found out that you wanted >> and then you found out that you wanted different things.

different things. different things. >> Sure. >> Sure. >> Sure. >> Fortunately there my time horizon was >> Fortunately there my time horizon was >> Fortunately there my time horizon was quite small so I could figure out in quite small so I could figure out in quite small so I could figure out in three or four years without any without three or four years without any without three or four years without any without any like damage that that was not the any like damage that that was not the any like damage that that was not the right thing to write down. But some right thing to write down. But some right thing to write down. But some people orientate their lives to like I people orientate their lives to like I people orientate their lives to like I need to become a let's say billionaire need to become a let's say billionaire need to become a let's say billionaire >> and the sacrifice to use one of your >> and the sacrifice to use one of your >> and the sacrifice to use one of your words along the way is family, friends, words along the way is family, friends, words along the way is family, friends, mental health, health. And then you get mental health, health. And then you get mental health, health. And then you get there and you gosh, there and you gosh, there and you gosh, I can't turn back time. I can't rebuild I can't turn back time. I can't rebuild I can't turn back time. I can't rebuild relationships. I can't call my mom now. relationships. I can't call my mom now. relationships. I can't call my mom now. She doesn't answer or she's gone. She doesn't answer or she's gone. She doesn't answer or she's gone. >> So that's kind of why I always pause on >> So that's kind of why I always pause on >> So that's kind of why I always pause on this question of what do you want? Cuz I this question of what do you want? Cuz I this question of what do you want? Cuz I think we're actually like, as you say, think we're actually like, as you say, think we're actually like, as you say, like terrible at knowing. And I don't like terrible at knowing. And I don't like terrible at knowing. And I don't know a better way of knowing know a better way of knowing know a better way of knowing >> than getting in than deciding whether >> than getting in than deciding whether >> than getting in than deciding whether you want it or not. you want it or not. you want it or not. >> I think um one of the one of the >> I think um one of the one of the >> I think um one of the one of the interesting things with wanting is that interesting things with wanting is that interesting things with wanting is that we only want what we don't have. we only want what we don't have. we only want what we don't have. >> Mhm. >> Mhm. >> Mhm. >> You know, [clears throat] uh people who >> You know, [clears throat] uh people who >> You know, [clears throat] uh people who don't have kids want to have kids. don't have kids want to have kids. don't have kids want to have kids. People who have kids remember the times People who have kids remember the times People who have kids remember the times they didn't have kids. People who were they didn't have kids. People who were they didn't have kids. People who were single want to get married. People who single want to get married. People who single want to get married. People who are married, you know, reminisce about are married, you know, reminisce about are married, you know, reminisce about the times they get single. But I see the times they get single. But I see the times they get single. But I see that as inherently human, which is that that as inherently human, which is that that as inherently human, which is that we only remember good and not bad. And we only remember good and not bad. And we only remember good and not bad. And that's a beh So that's a behavior thing.

that's a beh So that's a behavior thing. that's a beh So that's a behavior thing. That's not a So like the reason that That's not a So like the reason that That's not a So like the reason that when you get drunk and then you're hung when you get drunk and then you're hung when you get drunk and then you're hung over the next day and you say, "I'm over the next day and you say, "I'm over the next day and you say, "I'm never going to drink again." And then never going to drink again." And then never going to drink again." And then seven days later you drink again is seven days later you drink again is seven days later you drink again is because punishment fades. Reward sticks. because punishment fades. Reward sticks. because punishment fades. Reward sticks. Which is why you go back to the old Which is why you go back to the old Which is why you go back to the old girlfriend and you still long for them. girlfriend and you still long for them. girlfriend and you still long for them. Even though when you get back, you're Even though when you get back, you're Even though when you get back, you're like, "Oh my god, I heard she was crazy. like, "Oh my god, I heard she was crazy. like, "Oh my god, I heard she was crazy. What [laughter] was I thinking?" Right? What [laughter] was I thinking?" Right? What [laughter] was I thinking?" Right? But it's because we only remember the But it's because we only remember the But it's because we only remember the good, which is good to know and I think good, which is good to know and I think good, which is good to know and I think evolutionary because it's like you evolutionary because it's like you evolutionary because it's like you remember you got berries there, but you remember you got berries there, but you remember you got berries there, but you don't remember the sacrifice. Like all don't remember the sacrifice. Like all don't remember the sacrifice. Like all to the same degree from like pregnancy, to the same degree from like pregnancy, to the same degree from like pregnancy, horrible experience for many women. Not horrible experience for many women. Not horrible experience for many women. Not all, but many women. and it's a horrible all, but many women. and it's a horrible all, but many women. and it's a horrible experience. experience. experience. >> But then you get this reward at the end >> But then you get this reward at the end >> But then you get this reward at the end which is this baby and then that just which is this baby and then that just which is this baby and then that just like fades away and then you're like you like fades away and then you're like you like fades away and then you're like you know what I want another baby. know what I want another baby. know what I want another baby. [laughter] [laughter] [laughter] >> Speaking of babies, Alex. >> Speaking of babies, Alex. >> Speaking of babies, Alex. >> Yeah, >> Yeah, >> Yeah, >> there you go. You gave me a jump off >> there you go. You gave me a jump off >> there you go. You gave me a jump off point. point. point. >> Leila's pregnant. >> Leila's pregnant. >> Leila's pregnant. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> How how long till the baby arrives? >> How how long till the baby arrives? >> How how long till the baby arrives? >> Four months. >> Four months. >> Four months. >> Four months. >> Four months. >> Four months. >> Yeah. Exciting. >> Yeah. Exciting. >> Yeah. Exciting. >> What are all the feelings? I can see >> What are all the feelings? I can see >> What are all the feelings? I can see some [laughter] a mixture of feelings on some [laughter] a mixture of feelings on some [laughter] a mixture of feelings on your face. your face. your face. >> Um I'm stoked, you know. Uh I'm stoked. >> Um I'm stoked, you know. Uh I'm stoked. >> Um I'm stoked, you know. Uh I'm stoked. Uh, I'd say I have elements of Uh, I'd say I have elements of Uh, I'd say I have elements of fear mostly that I I want to do a good fear mostly that I I want to do a good fear mostly that I I want to do a good job, you know, being a father. Um, job, you know, being a father. Um, job, you know, being a father. Um, >> I can see, Alex, that you're scared.

>> I can see, Alex, that you're scared. >> I can see, Alex, that you're scared. >> I can tell because I know you're I've >> I can tell because I know you're I've >> I can tell because I know you're I've sat here probably for 10 hours over the sat here probably for 10 hours over the sat here probably for 10 hours over the last I don't know how many years. last I don't know how many years. last I don't know how many years. I'll tell you what the issue that I've I'll tell you what the issue that I've I'll tell you what the issue that I've been struggling the most with which is been struggling the most with which is been struggling the most with which is how do I define a good parent how do I define a good parent how do I define a good parent >> and how do I define a good child or a >> and how do I define a good child or a >> and how do I define a good child or a successful child which then just gets successful child which then just gets successful child which then just gets into sort of a meaning of life question into sort of a meaning of life question into sort of a meaning of life question which is why I think it's so difficult which is why I think it's so difficult which is why I think it's so difficult but like I'll take the parent one for but like I'll take the parent one for but like I'll take the parent one for example if if we define a good parent as example if if we define a good parent as example if if we define a good parent as a successful outcome for a child one in a successful outcome for a child one in a successful outcome for a child one in what domains what domains what domains >> right is it a billionaire who's lonely >> right is it a billionaire who's lonely >> right is it a billionaire who's lonely and sad is that had a successful and sad is that had a successful and sad is that had a successful outcome. I don't know. Um, but let's outcome. I don't know. Um, but let's outcome. I don't know. Um, but let's just assume the world's version of just assume the world's version of just assume the world's version of success, and I won't enumerate it. success, and I won't enumerate it. success, and I won't enumerate it. How many people who have all that How many people who have all that How many people who have all that success had bad childhoods? success had bad childhoods? success had bad childhoods? >> Mhm. >> Mhm. >> Mhm. >> Do we now call their parents good >> Do we now call their parents good >> Do we now call their parents good parents? parents? parents? >> Can I can I posit something? And I've >> Can I can I posit something? And I've >> Can I can I posit something? And I've not I've not had kids either, but what not I've not had kids either, but what not I've not had kids either, but what would happen if you removed both would happen if you removed both would happen if you removed both questions? questions? questions? >> Oh, just like I'll just take it as it >> Oh, just like I'll just take it as it >> Oh, just like I'll just take it as it is. Well, I I'll say it's very I it is. Well, I I'll say it's very I it is. Well, I I'll say it's very I it would I I almost want to say it's would I I almost want to say it's would I I almost want to say it's impossible for me [laughter] because of impossible for me [laughter] because of impossible for me [laughter] because of control. you like to be able to control control. you like to be able to control control. you like to be able to control your outcome.

your outcome. your outcome. >> I want to know what I'm doing. I want to >> I want to know what I'm doing. I want to >> I want to know what I'm doing. I want to know where like I want I ask what do I know where like I want I ask what do I know where like I want I ask what do I want to have happen so that I can align want to have happen so that I can align want to have happen so that I can align all of my life to try and make that all of my life to try and make that all of my life to try and make that happen. And so if it's like and even happen. And so if it's like and even happen. And so if it's like and even even the question of like what is a even the question of like what is a even the question of like what is a successful child is is it a child who's successful child is is it a child who's successful child is is it a child who's happy? happy? happy? >> Mhm. >> Mhm. >> Mhm. >> Many people would say I just want my kid >> Many people would say I just want my kid >> Many people would say I just want my kid to be happy and that's fine. to be happy and that's fine. to be happy and that's fine. [clears throat] [clears throat] [clears throat] >> Is it my child is the maximum makes the >> Is it my child is the maximum makes the >> Is it my child is the maximum makes the maximum impact on society? different maximum impact on society? different maximum impact on society? different upbringing [clears throat] upbringing [clears throat] upbringing [clears throat] >> and like the trades that we make at the >> and like the trades that we make at the >> and like the trades that we make at the beginning, I probably won't be able to beginning, I probably won't be able to beginning, I probably won't be able to have a kid who has both or at least the have a kid who has both or at least the have a kid who has both or at least the degree to which I can steer. degree to which I can steer. degree to which I can steer. >> So, I have um three other siblings. I'm >> So, I have um three other siblings. I'm >> So, I have um three other siblings. I'm the youngest of four. the youngest of four. the youngest of four. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> And one could theoretically say my >> And one could theoretically say my >> And one could theoretically say my parents were were a constant. The parents were were a constant. The parents were were a constant. The environment to some degree was a environment to some degree was a environment to some degree was a constant. There were slight changes. constant. There were slight changes. constant. There were slight changes. >> Us four. >> Us four. >> Us four. >> You've got this me the youngest, this >> You've got this me the youngest, this >> You've got this me the youngest, this crazy like entrepreneur, didn't go to crazy like entrepreneur, didn't go to crazy like entrepreneur, didn't go to university, blah blah blah. Got Jason, university, blah blah blah. Got Jason, university, blah blah blah. Got Jason, super genius at school, rewrote the super genius at school, rewrote the super genius at school, rewrote the textbooks to make them smart, smarter, textbooks to make them smart, smarter, textbooks to make them smart, smarter, works in this business, now my business, works in this business, now my business, works in this business, now my business, mathly, rewrote the like on the front of mathly, rewrote the like on the front of mathly, rewrote the like on the front of the newspapers. Kevin, smarter than all the newspapers. Kevin, smarter than all the newspapers. Kevin, smarter than all of us, savant level genius. Could said of us, savant level genius. Could said of us, savant level genius. Could said to me when he was younger that he could to me when he was younger that he could to me when he was younger that he could learn any language in four four weeks learn any language in four four weeks learn any language in four four weeks fluently if you gave number one in the fluently if you gave number one in the fluently if you gave number one in the world in Runescape at one point. People world in Runescape at one point. People world in Runescape at one point. People would watch him online play super genius would watch him online play super genius would watch him online play super genius um decided he doesn't want to go into um decided he doesn't want to go into um decided he doesn't want to go into world of work. And then my sister who world of work. And then my sister who world of work. And then my sister who you know I think she qualified as a you know I think she qualified as a you know I think she qualified as a lawyer um and she's worked in lawyer um and she's worked in lawyer um and she's worked in hospitality and stuff. All of us hospitality and stuff. All of us hospitality and stuff. All of us extremely different. My parents were a extremely different. My parents were a extremely different. My parents were a constant environment was a con constant.

constant environment was a con constant. constant environment was a con constant. I say all this to say that maybe just I say all this to say that maybe just I say all this to say that maybe just like running experiments as we do in like running experiments as we do in like running experiments as we do in business. [laughter] Maybe like the job business. [laughter] Maybe like the job business. [laughter] Maybe like the job and you know Jeff Bezos talks a lot and you know Jeff Bezos talks a lot and you know Jeff Bezos talks a lot about this is to like stay out of the about this is to like stay out of the about this is to like stay out of the business of the output business of the output business of the output >> and focus purely on the input because >> and focus purely on the input because >> and focus purely on the input because you you know some of the questions you you you know some of the questions you you you know some of the questions you were saying there were like what do I were saying there were like what do I were saying there were like what do I want them to accomplish? Are they happy? want them to accomplish? Are they happy? want them to accomplish? Are they happy? These are all outputs. These are all outputs. These are all outputs. >> No for sure. Um, you can't. The other >> No for sure. Um, you can't. The other >> No for sure. Um, you can't. The other thing that I notice when I interview thing that I notice when I interview thing that I notice when I interview executives, I always ask them, "Tell me executives, I always ask them, "Tell me executives, I always ask them, "Tell me about your kids." about your kids." about your kids." >> And they tell me about the kids. And I >> And they tell me about the kids. And I >> And they tell me about the kids. And I go, "Are any of them the same?" I always go, "Are any of them the same?" I always go, "Are any of them the same?" I always ask the same question and they go, "No." ask the same question and they go, "No." ask the same question and they go, "No." >> We've got this one who won't stop >> We've got this one who won't stop >> We've got this one who won't stop bouncing off the walls. This one that's bouncing off the walls. This one that's bouncing off the walls. This one that's an empath and is like super shy. an empath and is like super shy. an empath and is like super shy. >> Did you do anything different? No. >> Did you do anything different? No. >> Did you do anything different? No. [laughter] [laughter] [laughter] So, like, you know, I think you you'll So, like, you know, I think you you'll So, like, you know, I think you you'll almost probably be guaranteed to miss almost probably be guaranteed to miss almost probably be guaranteed to miss expectations and be let down if you get expectations and be let down if you get expectations and be let down if you get involved in the output. involved in the output. involved in the output. >> Yeah. So, obviously there's nature >> Yeah. So, obviously there's nature >> Yeah. So, obviously there's nature nurture, there's kids who are going to nurture, there's kids who are going to nurture, there's kids who are going to have genetic predispositions for have genetic predispositions for have genetic predispositions for different things. So let's say that's different things. So let's say that's different things. So let's say that's half and then the other half is the half and then the other half is the half and then the other half is the nurture or environment. Now that is nurture or environment. Now that is nurture or environment. Now that is still something that I'm not going to be still something that I'm not going to be still something that I'm not going to be able to control 100% anyways because you able to control 100% anyways because you able to control 100% anyways because you guys did have different environments. guys did have different environments. guys did have different environments. You grew up in different grades talking You grew up in different grades talking You grew up in different grades talking to different people, having different to different people, having different to different people, having different teachers, went to different teachers, went to different teachers, went to different universities, like the older siblings. universities, like the older siblings. universities, like the older siblings. >> Yeah. There's Yeah. All of those are are >> Yeah. There's Yeah. All of those are are >> Yeah. There's Yeah. All of those are are variables. And so in some way it's a bit variables. And so in some way it's a bit variables. And so in some way it's a bit of chaos of you can't you can't control.

of chaos of you can't you can't control. of chaos of you can't you can't control. But if we if we eliminate all control But if we if we eliminate all control But if we if we eliminate all control then what's the point? And so I I still then what's the point? And so I I still then what's the point? And so I I still come I come back to the like well I'm come I come back to the like well I'm come I come back to the like well I'm going to try and control the going to try and control the going to try and control the controllables. controllables. controllables. >> Yeah. inputs >> Yeah. inputs >> Yeah. inputs >> and right but if I have if I'm so it's >> and right but if I have if I'm so it's >> and right but if I have if I'm so it's like I need to know where I'm going the like I need to know where I'm going the like I need to know where I'm going the output in order to direct my car but output in order to direct my car but output in order to direct my car but what I'm focusing on a dayto-day is I what I'm focusing on a dayto-day is I what I'm focusing on a dayto-day is I need to shift gears I need to drive the need to shift gears I need to drive the need to shift gears I need to drive the car I need to fill it up with gas me car I need to fill it up with gas me car I need to fill it up with gas me focusing output is not going to get us focusing output is not going to get us focusing output is not going to get us there any faster but I have to know there any faster but I have to know there any faster but I have to know where I'm going and so this is again where I'm going and so this is again where I'm going and so this is again what I'm struggling with now to be fair what I'm struggling with now to be fair what I'm struggling with now to be fair I cannot figure it out and the kids can I cannot figure it out and the kids can I cannot figure it out and the kids can come either way [laughter] come either way [laughter] come either way [laughter] he's not going to wait for me to to he's not going to wait for me to to he's not going to wait for me to to figure this out and I'm sure maybe figure this out and I'm sure maybe figure this out and I'm sure maybe someday he'll look at this podcast and someday he'll look at this podcast and someday he'll look at this podcast and be like my god, dad. Jesus. Um, be like my god, dad. Jesus. Um, be like my god, dad. Jesus. Um, >> you know what's interesting? The car >> you know what's interesting? The car >> you know what's interesting? The car analogy I think might not be apt because analogy I think might not be apt because analogy I think might not be apt because I I I know I was trying to find another I I I know I was trying to find another I I I know I was trying to find another analogy and the one that I stumbled upon analogy and the one that I stumbled upon analogy and the one that I stumbled upon was a a plant growing a plant in your was a a plant growing a plant in your was a a plant growing a plant in your house. house. house. >> You put the seed in the in the the soil >> You put the seed in the in the the soil >> You put the seed in the in the the soil and you might think I really want this and you might think I really want this and you might think I really want this to be six foot and I really want 100 to be six foot and I really want 100 to be six foot and I really want 100 leaves, but you [laughter] leaves, but you [laughter] leaves, but you [laughter] all you can do is water it and give it all you can do is water it and give it all you can do is water it and give it sunlight sunlight sunlight >> and it's going to be what it's going to >> and it's going to be what it's going to >> and it's going to be what it's going to be.

be. be. >> Yeah. I mean, you can please be six >> Yeah. I mean, you can please be six >> Yeah. I mean, you can please be six foot, please be a football player or foot, please be a football player or foot, please be a football player or whatever, but you can control the input, whatever, but you can control the input, whatever, but you can control the input, which is the water and the the sunlight. which is the water and the the sunlight. which is the water and the the sunlight. >> It's funny because like my my immediate >> It's funny because like my my immediate >> It's funny because like my my immediate situation goes back to the grandpa situation goes back to the grandpa situation goes back to the grandpa story, which is like, well, I could put story, which is like, well, I could put story, which is like, well, I could put it in front of the I could put it in it in front of the I could put it in it in front of the I could put it in front of the sun or I could put it in a front of the sun or I could put it in a front of the sun or I could put it in a shitty [laughter] room. I could like I shitty [laughter] room. I could like I shitty [laughter] room. I could like I could determine how much I'm going to could determine how much I'm going to could determine how much I'm going to water it, what kind of soil it's going water it, what kind of soil it's going water it, what kind of soil it's going to get. Um, like there are other to get. Um, like there are other to get. Um, like there are other variables that like and so again, I variables that like and so again, I variables that like and so again, I would be like, do I want to grow the would be like, do I want to grow the would be like, do I want to grow the tallest plant? Do I want to grow the tallest plant? Do I want to grow the tallest plant? Do I want to grow the plant that has the most fruit? Well, I plant that has the most fruit? Well, I plant that has the most fruit? Well, I would either prune the plant or so that would either prune the plant or so that would either prune the plant or so that it would grow taller. Like these are all it would grow taller. Like these are all it would grow taller. Like these are all things. Now, can I change whether it's things. Now, can I change whether it's things. Now, can I change whether it's going to be a peach tree or an apple going to be a peach tree or an apple going to be a peach tree or an apple tree? No. That's going to be based on tree? No. That's going to be based on tree? No. That's going to be based on the seed that I plant and that I the seed that I plant and that I the seed that I plant and that I [clears throat] don't have any control [clears throat] don't have any control [clears throat] don't have any control over. over. over. >> But there are some things that I can >> But there are some things that I can >> But there are some things that I can control and of those things that I control and of those things that I control and of those things that I control, I would like to know what I'm control, I would like to know what I'm control, I would like to know what I'm optimizing towards [laughter] optimizing towards [laughter] optimizing towards [laughter] >> and I'm sure that this will just be a >> and I'm sure that this will just be a >> and I'm sure that this will just be a wonderful lesson in humility for myself wonderful lesson in humility for myself wonderful lesson in humility for myself and it'll [laughter] be great and people and it'll [laughter] be great and people and it'll [laughter] be great and people laugh in the comments for sure. Um, but laugh in the comments for sure. Um, but laugh in the comments for sure. Um, but yeah, I like [clears throat] I to ask me yeah, I like [clears throat] I to ask me yeah, I like [clears throat] I to ask me like what we were talking about earlier. like what we were talking about earlier. like what we were talking about earlier. I would say like one of the the foremost I would say like one of the the foremost I would say like one of the the foremost things that I love the most about Ila is things that I love the most about Ila is things that I love the most about Ila is that Ila has never tried to change me.

that Ila has never tried to change me. that Ila has never tried to change me. She's like that's Alex. Like you can She's like that's Alex. Like you can She's like that's Alex. Like you can want him to be a peach tree or an apple want him to be a peach tree or an apple want him to be a peach tree or an apple tree, but like he's going to be Alex. tree, but like he's going to be Alex. tree, but like he's going to be Alex. He's going to dress that way. He's going He's going to dress that way. He's going He's going to dress that way. He's going to and if tomorrow he feels like shaving to and if tomorrow he feels like shaving to and if tomorrow he feels like shaving his face and having a fumchu, he's going his face and having a fumchu, he's going his face and having a fumchu, he's going to do that. Like I'm going to try and to do that. Like I'm going to try and to do that. Like I'm going to try and optimize to the degree that I can to optimize to the degree that I can to optimize to the degree that I can to equip the, you know, my son and equip the, you know, my son and equip the, you know, my son and hopefully future kids um with as many hopefully future kids um with as many hopefully future kids um with as many skills as possible to get what they want skills as possible to get what they want skills as possible to get what they want out of life. And I think that's that's out of life. And I think that's that's out of life. And I think that's that's what I would say that I that's where what I would say that I that's where what I would say that I that's where where I have settled on is I'm going to where I have settled on is I'm going to where I have settled on is I'm going to use all the resources I have to give use all the resources I have to give use all the resources I have to give them as many skills as I can to handle them as many skills as I can to handle them as many skills as I can to handle life. And if I can do that, then if they life. And if I can do that, then if they life. And if I can do that, then if they want to go to London or they want to go want to go to London or they want to go want to go to London or they want to go to LA, at least they'll have the skills to LA, at least they'll have the skills to LA, at least they'll have the skills to get there. Um, that's as far as I've to get there. Um, that's as far as I've to get there. Um, that's as far as I've gotten. gotten. gotten. >> I can't wait to see. I saw this quote >> I can't wait to see. I saw this quote >> I can't wait to see. I saw this quote that you you tweeted. that you you tweeted. that you you tweeted. >> Oh. >> Oh. >> Oh. >> And there's two quotes you tweeted that >> And there's two quotes you tweeted that >> And there's two quotes you tweeted that I was very curious about. The first one I was very curious about. The first one I was very curious about. The first one which took caught me off guard. I think which took caught me off guard. I think which took caught me off guard. I think I actually texted you when I saw this I actually texted you when I saw this I actually texted you when I saw this was this one. Do you want to read this was this one. Do you want to read this was this one. Do you want to read this one out? one out? one out? >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> So, this was February 2025. At your >> So, this was February 2025. At your >> So, this was February 2025. At your funeral, friends and family will argue funeral, friends and family will argue funeral, friends and family will argue over who gets your belongings. People over who gets your belongings. People over who gets your belongings. People will talk about the food and the venue.

will talk about the food and the venue. will talk about the food and the venue. Your life will be summarized in two to Your life will be summarized in two to Your life will be summarized in two to three paragraphs. Conversations will three paragraphs. Conversations will three paragraphs. Conversations will shift from your life to their lives. shift from your life to their lives. shift from your life to their lives. Your friends will drive away thinking Your friends will drive away thinking Your friends will drive away thinking about what's next on their to-do list. about what's next on their to-do list. about what's next on their to-do list. Some people won't be able to make it Some people won't be able to make it Some people won't be able to make it because something came up. And most of because something came up. And most of because something came up. And most of the people you know today won't even be the people you know today won't even be the people you know today won't even be there. You're going to die. People move there. You're going to die. People move there. You're going to die. People move on in weeks, not years. do what you on in weeks, not years. do what you on in weeks, not years. do what you want. want. want. >> Why is that so important to hear? >> Why is that so important to hear? >> Why is that so important to hear? >> I think about death >> I think about death >> I think about death probably multiple times a day. Um, and I probably multiple times a day. Um, and I probably multiple times a day. Um, and I think that that's actually been think that that's actually been think that that's actually been positively correlated with subjective positively correlated with subjective positively correlated with subjective wellbeing. I mean, older people are wellbeing. I mean, older people are wellbeing. I mean, older people are incredibly aware of the fact that incredibly aware of the fact that incredibly aware of the fact that they're going to die. And I think that's they're going to die. And I think that's they're going to die. And I think that's what allows them like I look at so what allows them like I look at so what allows them like I look at so there's a I'm sure you've seen this, but there's a I'm sure you've seen this, but there's a I'm sure you've seen this, but there's this graph that shows how people there's this graph that shows how people there's this graph that shows how people rate their subjective well-being over rate their subjective well-being over rate their subjective well-being over their lives. And it's a smile graph, their lives. And it's a smile graph, their lives. And it's a smile graph, which I think is ultimately hilarious. which I think is ultimately hilarious. which I think is ultimately hilarious. But kids are really happy and then they But kids are really happy and then they But kids are really happy and then they just become they get more and more just become they get more and more just become they get more and more responsibility. And then your peak responsibility. And then your peak responsibility. And then your peak unhappiness is like 45 to like 55 unhappiness is like 45 to like 55 unhappiness is like 45 to like 55 somewhere in there. It's like it's the somewhere in there. It's like it's the somewhere in there. It's like it's the crunch. You're taking care of kids.

crunch. You're taking care of kids. crunch. You're taking care of kids. You're taking care of parents. You have You're taking care of parents. You have You're taking care of parents. You have a career. And to be fair, in some ways a career. And to be fair, in some ways a career. And to be fair, in some ways it's good because you're at your peak it's good because you're at your peak it's good because you're at your peak earnings. So you're making your most earnings. So you're making your most earnings. So you're making your most people are making their most money in people are making their most money in people are making their most money in this window and but they also need to do this window and but they also need to do this window and but they also need to do it. But there's they're very stressed, it. But there's they're very stressed, it. But there's they're very stressed, right? they're stressed really thin and right? they're stressed really thin and right? they're stressed really thin and then as they kind of get into 60 65 70 then as they kind of get into 60 65 70 then as they kind of get into 60 65 70 and when I think about each of these two and when I think about each of these two and when I think about each of these two extremes on the child side and the extremes on the child side and the extremes on the child side and the elderly side and elders are often a lot elderly side and elders are often a lot elderly side and elders are often a lot like kids if we think about what like like kids if we think about what like like kids if we think about what like they they rely on other people. They're they they rely on other people. They're they they rely on other people. They're mostly just like they play games like mostly just like they play games like mostly just like they play games like [laughter] in each of these situations [laughter] in each of these situations [laughter] in each of these situations they have very little responsibility and they have very little responsibility and they have very little responsibility and they don't care about what other people they don't care about what other people they don't care about what other people think. If you have if you see a toddler think. If you have if you see a toddler think. If you have if you see a toddler go out with like a tutu and cowboy go out with like a tutu and cowboy go out with like a tutu and cowboy cowboy boots is because like they don't cowboy boots is because like they don't cowboy boots is because like they don't care what other people think. And when care what other people think. And when care what other people think. And when you're at the end of your life, you're you're at the end of your life, you're you're at the end of your life, you're like, I'm going to die, dude. And one of like, I'm going to die, dude. And one of like, I'm going to die, dude. And one of the things that I've been very obsessed the things that I've been very obsessed the things that I've been very obsessed with is is borderline but probably with is is borderline but probably with is is borderline but probably accurate is I'm trying to think, how am accurate is I'm trying to think, how am accurate is I'm trying to think, how am I going to see the world when I'm 80? I going to see the world when I'm 80? I going to see the world when I'm 80? And how how fast can I can I get to And how how fast can I can I get to And how how fast can I can I get to there now? Cuz I care more now about there now? Cuz I care more now about there now? Cuz I care more now about what other people think than I will when what other people think than I will when what other people think than I will when I'm 80. And I just want to pull as much I'm 80. And I just want to pull as much I'm 80. And I just want to pull as much of that forward as I can because when I of that forward as I can because when I of that forward as I can because when I see those 80-year-olds, I'm like, that see those 80-year-olds, I'm like, that see those 80-year-olds, I'm like, that guy does not give a And I'm like, guy does not give a And I'm like, guy does not give a And I'm like, I really want that. And so I I write a I really want that. And so I I write a I really want that. And so I I write a lot about death because it's I like lot about death because it's I like lot about death because it's I like these tweets are notes to self. They these tweets are notes to self. They these tweets are notes to self. They like they are not it is not a it is not like they are not it is not a it is not like they are not it is not a it is not from a pulpit that I say those. These from a pulpit that I say those. These from a pulpit that I say those. These are um as a self-help to to Alex when I are um as a self-help to to Alex when I are um as a self-help to to Alex when I write these things because it's like I write these things because it's like I write these things because it's like I probably when I was writing that in Feb, probably when I was writing that in Feb, probably when I was writing that in Feb, oh yeah, February 25. So February 25, oh yeah, February 25. So February 25, oh yeah, February 25. So February 25, the first quarter of 25 was the hardest

the first quarter of 25 was the hardest the first quarter of 25 was the hardest quarter that I've had personally in quarter that I've had personally in quarter that I've had personally in eight years. You tweeted this at the eight years. You tweeted this at the eight years. You tweeted this at the same time. same time. same time. >> Yeah. I haven't felt this miserable in >> Yeah. I haven't felt this miserable in >> Yeah. I haven't felt this miserable in years. Shit's just hard sometimes. You years. Shit's just hard sometimes. You years. Shit's just hard sometimes. You have tough seasons, bad losses, and what have tough seasons, bad losses, and what have tough seasons, bad losses, and what makes it harder is you don't know when makes it harder is you don't know when makes it harder is you don't know when it'll end. But know it will end. So for it'll end. But know it will end. So for it'll end. But know it will end. So for anyone going through it right now, you anyone going through it right now, you anyone going through it right now, you do the only thing you can do. Keep do the only thing you can do. Keep do the only thing you can do. Keep fighting. fighting. fighting. >> I text you when you tweeted that because >> I text you when you tweeted that because >> I text you when you tweeted that because I had never heard you talk like that I had never heard you talk like that I had never heard you talk like that publicly before. publicly before. publicly before. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. I mean, it was it was a really >> Yeah. I mean, it was it was a really >> Yeah. I mean, it was it was a really tough quarter for me. I mean, mind you, tough quarter for me. I mean, mind you, tough quarter for me. I mean, mind you, I don't have kids, so that variable I don't have kids, so that variable I don't have kids, so that variable wasn't there. But every other variable wasn't there. But every other variable wasn't there. But every other variable that probably could have gone quote that probably could have gone quote that probably could have gone quote wrong was actually, ironically, outside wrong was actually, ironically, outside wrong was actually, ironically, outside of business. Business was fine. Uh, but of business. Business was fine. Uh, but of business. Business was fine. Uh, but it was just everything else. it was just everything else. it was just everything else. >> Um, and >> Um, and >> Um, and >> what do you mean by that? >> what do you mean by that? >> what do you mean by that? >> So, I say we were making plenty of >> So, I say we were making plenty of >> So, I say we were making plenty of money. Yeah. Um, but I had I think I had money. Yeah. Um, but I had I think I had money. Yeah. Um, but I had I think I had nine lawsuits that were open at that at nine lawsuits that were open at that at nine lawsuits that were open at that at that. It was a lot. It was nine nine that. It was a lot. It was nine nine that. It was a lot. It was nine nine open lawsuits. Um, and they all like it open lawsuits. Um, and they all like it open lawsuits. Um, and they all like it was like and they were all different was like and they were all different was like and they were all different like uh ex employee investment that two like uh ex employee investment that two like uh ex employee investment that two or two two or three were investments or two two or three were investments or two two or three were investments that we had made that like one of them that we had made that like one of them that we had made that like one of them got caught and stuff and then was like got caught and stuff and then was like got caught and stuff and then was like are we going to get pulled? It was just are we going to get pulled? It was just are we going to get pulled? It was just all this just stuff. Um just a lot. Um, all this just stuff. Um just a lot. Um, all this just stuff. Um just a lot. Um, and and then Ila uh had a like I think I and and then Ila uh had a like I think I and and then Ila uh had a like I think I told you she um she had a really told you she um she had a really told you she um she had a really horrible she like tore her colon and so horrible she like tore her colon and so horrible she like tore her colon and so that's been it's like it's like an that's been it's like it's like an that's been it's like it's like an 18-month recovery and so she was in the 18-month recovery and so she was in the 18-month recovery and so she was in the thick of like going through the pain of thick of like going through the pain of thick of like going through the pain of that before about to get the surgery and that before about to get the surgery and that before about to get the surgery and so it was just like everything sucked so it was just like everything sucked so it was just like everything sucked and Bill Aman had this really great

and Bill Aman had this really great and Bill Aman had this really great interview where there's a snippet that I interview where there's a snippet that I interview where there's a snippet that I ended up seeing which was he was he had ended up seeing which was he was he had ended up seeing which was he was he had just lost like a billion dollars. he was just lost like a billion dollars. he was just lost like a billion dollars. he was getting divorced and there was like one getting divorced and there was like one getting divorced and there was like one other thing. I think there was lawsuits other thing. I think there was lawsuits other thing. I think there was lawsuits because of the billion dollars, because of the billion dollars, because of the billion dollars, whatever. And and he said when you're whatever. And and he said when you're whatever. And and he said when you're going through that that those rough going through that that those rough going through that that those rough patches, he said he focused on the only patches, he said he focused on the only patches, he said he focused on the only thing he could do when he's like you thing he could do when he's like you thing he could do when he's like you can't you're not going to solve this in can't you're not going to solve this in can't you're not going to solve this in a day. Like it you can't finish it. And a day. Like it you can't finish it. And a day. Like it you can't finish it. And I think that's what that's what's so I think that's what that's what's so I think that's what that's what's so painful about it is you have this open painful about it is you have this open painful about it is you have this open loop that whenever it whenever something loop that whenever it whenever something loop that whenever it whenever something reminds you of it, it's like you get reminds you of it, it's like you get reminds you of it, it's like you get into this loop again of like rumination into this loop again of like rumination into this loop again of like rumination and just like a what if it goes wrong and just like a what if it goes wrong and just like a what if it goes wrong and catastrophizing. And he's like, "You and catastrophizing. And he's like, "You and catastrophizing. And he's like, "You just have to take one bite at a time and just have to take one bite at a time and just have to take one bite at a time and then every, you know, month or two then every, you know, month or two then every, you know, month or two months, you can look back and be like, I months, you can look back and be like, I months, you can look back and be like, I made some progress." And he's like, he made some progress." And he's like, he made some progress." And he's like, he just focused on making progress and just focused on making progress and just focused on making progress and chipping away at the problem. And I chipping away at the problem. And I chipping away at the problem. And I think that was more or less the approach think that was more or less the approach think that was more or less the approach I had, which is kind of like the the two I had, which is kind of like the the two I had, which is kind of like the the two feet in front of you, like what are the feet in front of you, like what are the feet in front of you, like what are the things that I can actually do right now? things that I can actually do right now? things that I can actually do right now? I will do those. And sometimes, and I I will do those. And sometimes, and I I will do those. And sometimes, and I remember in that season, a lot of what I remember in that season, a lot of what I remember in that season, a lot of what I was thinking about was so I wrote, so was thinking about was so I wrote, so was thinking about was so I wrote, so when my mother passed uh this year, I when my mother passed uh this year, I when my mother passed uh this year, I wrote an article for myself. Yeah. Um, I wrote an article for myself. Yeah. Um, I wrote an article for myself. Yeah. Um, I wrote an article for myself about mental wrote an article for myself about mental wrote an article for myself about mental toughness and it was because I wanted toughness and it was because I wanted toughness and it was because I wanted to, of course, it's not like be mentally to, of course, it's not like be mentally to, of course, it's not like be mentally tough when your mother dies. That's not tough when your mother dies. That's not tough when your mother dies. That's not the point. It was like, how am I the point. It was like, how am I the point. It was like, how am I supposed to show up right now? That was supposed to show up right now? That was supposed to show up right now? That was kind of like the the thought process I kind of like the the thought process I kind of like the the thought process I had. And so I basically here this so I had. And so I basically here this so I had. And so I basically here this so I saw it like this, which is saw it like this, which is saw it like this, which is bad thing happens, right?

bad thing happens, right? bad thing happens, right? There's these There's these There's these vectors of what happens as a result. So vectors of what happens as a result. So vectors of what happens as a result. So you have how long or how many bad things you have how long or how many bad things you have how long or how many bad things have to happen before you change your have to happen before you change your have to happen before you change your behavior. So let's imagine this line is behavior. So let's imagine this line is behavior. So let's imagine this line is how we're acting. How many bad things how we're acting. How many bad things how we're acting. How many bad things have to happen in order for us to change have to happen in order for us to change have to happen in order for us to change how we act? Are we shorter with our how we act? Are we shorter with our how we act? Are we shorter with our spouse? Do we not pay attention at work? spouse? Do we not pay attention at work? spouse? Do we not pay attention at work? Like what how many bad things if Like what how many bad things if Like what how many bad things if somebody the perfect perfectly mentally somebody the perfect perfectly mentally somebody the perfect perfectly mentally tough person would be able to have an tough person would be able to have an tough person would be able to have an unlimited amount of things happen to unlimited amount of things happen to unlimited amount of things happen to them and then their behavior would them and then their behavior would them and then their behavior would remain the same remain the same remain the same from purely from that perspective. The from purely from that perspective. The from purely from that perspective. The next issue is okay well let's say that next issue is okay well let's say that next issue is okay well let's say that you're not a perfectly mentally tough you're not a perfectly mentally tough you're not a perfectly mentally tough person and something crosses your person and something crosses your person and something crosses your tolerance threshold and then your tolerance threshold and then your tolerance threshold and then your behavior changes and so we have this behavior changes and so we have this behavior changes and so we have this next measurement. So we have how long next measurement. So we have how long next measurement. So we have how long and how much can you handle? We have how and how much can you handle? We have how and how much can you handle? We have how deep do you go when you fall? How how deep do you go when you fall? How how deep do you go when you fall? How how badly do you change your behavior? Do badly do you change your behavior? Do badly do you change your behavior? Do you just are you short with your staff you just are you short with your staff you just are you short with your staff or do you get into heroin? or do you get into heroin? or do you get into heroin? >> No, like how bad how badly do you fall? >> No, like how bad how badly do you fall? >> No, like how bad how badly do you fall? And then the next piece is And then the next piece is And then the next piece is how long does it take you to recover, how long does it take you to recover, how long does it take you to recover, return back to original function? And return back to original function? And return back to original function? And then the part that I added to this is then the part that I added to this is then the part that I added to this is and then when I return back to original and then when I return back to original and then when I return back to original function, am I better than I was before?

function, am I better than I was before? function, am I better than I was before? Do I am I the same as I was before or am Do I am I the same as I was before or am Do I am I the same as I was before or am I permanently worse? I permanently worse? I permanently worse? >> In what dimension? resilience or >> In what dimension? resilience or >> In what dimension? resilience or happiness. happiness. happiness. >> So I I basically have term one, term >> So I I basically have term one, term >> So I I basically have term one, term two, term three and then this was I term two, term three and then this was I term two, term three and then this was I term this as adaptability which is how how do this as adaptability which is how how do this as adaptability which is how how do you respond after a bad thing happens? you respond after a bad thing happens? you respond after a bad thing happens? Do you get better the same or worse? Do you get better the same or worse? Do you get better the same or worse? >> You have tolerance >> You have tolerance >> You have tolerance I think this is fortitude um which is I think this is fortitude um which is I think this is fortitude um which is how much bad stuff can you handle before how much bad stuff can you handle before how much bad stuff can you handle before it hits you. You have resilience here, it hits you. You have resilience here, it hits you. You have resilience here, which is how long does it take you to which is how long does it take you to which is how long does it take you to return to baseline? And then you have return to baseline? And then you have return to baseline? And then you have tolerance, which is how how low do you tolerance, which is how how low do you tolerance, which is how how low do you go? go? go? And so through mapping these four And so through mapping these four And so through mapping these four vectors of behavior, I was able to look vectors of behavior, I was able to look vectors of behavior, I was able to look at myself during this harder season. And at myself during this harder season. And at myself during this harder season. And this was such a mind because think this was such a mind because think this was such a mind because think about this. I do a $106 million launch. about this. I do a $106 million launch. about this. I do a $106 million launch. My mom got to see it, which is really My mom got to see it, which is really My mom got to see it, which is really cool. She dies four weeks later. I cool. She dies four weeks later. I cool. She dies four weeks later. I realized the goal, we talk about realized the goal, we talk about realized the goal, we talk about long-term, right? $100 million, $100 long-term, right? $100 million, $100 long-term, right? $100 million, $100 million, $100 million. The goal of the million, $100 million. The goal of the million, $100 million. The goal of the books was to have $100 million at the books was to have $100 million at the books was to have $100 million at the end. The offers book was an offer so end. The offers book was an offer so end. The offers book was an offer so good people sell stupid. I gave it away good people sell stupid. I gave it away good people sell stupid. I gave it away for free, made it 99 cents, gave a for free, made it 99 cents, gave a for free, made it 99 cents, gave a course with it. No one had done that.

course with it. No one had done that. course with it. No one had done that. Um, and it was an offer so good leads. I Um, and it was an offer so good leads. I Um, and it was an offer so good leads. I did a huge gigantic launch, but I didn't did a huge gigantic launch, but I didn't did a huge gigantic launch, but I didn't monetize because I just wanted to show monetize because I just wanted to show monetize because I just wanted to show what having crazy advertising for what having crazy advertising for what having crazy advertising for something would do. And I used all the something would do. And I used all the something would do. And I used all the stuff in the book to advertise the book. stuff in the book to advertise the book. stuff in the book to advertise the book. >> This book's about monetization. And so, >> This book's about monetization. And so, >> This book's about monetization. And so, I had an amazing offer and crazy I had an amazing offer and crazy I had an amazing offer and crazy advertising and a money model behind it, advertising and a money model behind it, advertising and a money model behind it, which is why I made $100 million on a which is why I made $100 million on a which is why I made $100 million on a weekend. weekend. weekend. >> Mhm. So, this is a multi-year project. >> Mhm. So, this is a multi-year project. >> Mhm. So, this is a multi-year project. And so, I I get to have this this moment And so, I I get to have this this moment And so, I I get to have this this moment of like all these things come to of like all these things come to of like all these things come to fruition. And then my mother dies 3 fruition. And then my mother dies 3 fruition. And then my mother dies 3 weeks. It was the 19th, right? So, yeah. weeks. It was the 19th, right? So, yeah. weeks. It was the 19th, right? So, yeah. Literally a month later. And so, a freak Literally a month later. And so, a freak Literally a month later. And so, a freak accident. accident. accident. >> Yeah. And so, I'm I'm just like, what >> Yeah. And so, I'm I'm just like, what >> Yeah. And so, I'm I'm just like, what how am I supposed to like what am I how how am I supposed to like what am I how how am I supposed to like what am I how do I think through this? And so, I wrote do I think through this? And so, I wrote do I think through this? And so, I wrote this for myself to think, okay, how am I this for myself to think, okay, how am I this for myself to think, okay, how am I supposed to show up? And also one of the supposed to show up? And also one of the supposed to show up? And also one of the things that I found really interesting things that I found really interesting things that I found really interesting was that people will judge how much you was that people will judge how much you was that people will judge how much you love someone by how much you choose to love someone by how much you choose to love someone by how much you choose to suffer. suffer. suffer. And why does how much I suffer have And why does how much I suffer have And why does how much I suffer have anything to do with how much I love anything to do with how much I love anything to do with how much I love someone? And I don't think that the someone? And I don't think that the someone? And I don't think that the person, if you did lose somebody, I'm person, if you did lose somebody, I'm person, if you did lose somebody, I'm sorry. Um I don't think the person that sorry. Um I don't think the person that sorry. Um I don't think the person that you lost probably wants you to suffer.

you lost probably wants you to suffer. you lost probably wants you to suffer. And so we have this this idea that we And so we have this this idea that we And so we have this this idea that we need to suffer to prove our love, which need to suffer to prove our love, which need to suffer to prove our love, which I was like, "Well, that's an assumption I was like, "Well, that's an assumption I was like, "Well, that's an assumption I'm coming in with. Do I reject that?" I I'm coming in with. Do I reject that?" I I'm coming in with. Do I reject that?" I was like, "Yeah, I think I reject that. was like, "Yeah, I think I reject that. was like, "Yeah, I think I reject that. And so bad thing happens that crossed my And so bad thing happens that crossed my And so bad thing happens that crossed my threshold. How low am I going to go? I threshold. How low am I going to go? I threshold. How low am I going to go? I was probably not like the most thrilled was probably not like the most thrilled was probably not like the most thrilled about life during that period. But I about life during that period. But I about life during that period. But I thought, well, what can I do? What are thought, well, what can I do? What are thought, well, what can I do? What are my controllables? Well, I'm still going my controllables? Well, I'm still going my controllables? Well, I'm still going to record content. I'm still I'm still to record content. I'm still I'm still to record content. I'm still I'm still going to help businesses cuz I feel good going to help businesses cuz I feel good going to help businesses cuz I feel good when I help businesses. Why would I stop when I help businesses. Why would I stop when I help businesses. Why would I stop doing that? Well, I'm still going to doing that? Well, I'm still going to doing that? Well, I'm still going to work out cuz I feel good when I work work out cuz I feel good when I work work out cuz I feel good when I work out. Why do I Why would I stop doing out. Why do I Why would I stop doing out. Why do I Why would I stop doing that? that? that? >> Did you have motivation though? Were you >> Did you have motivation though? Were you >> Did you have motivation though? Were you motivated in the sort of cliche sense of motivated in the sort of cliche sense of motivated in the sort of cliche sense of the word? Did you feel like it? I would the word? Did you feel like it? I would the word? Did you feel like it? I would say yes, but not for the reason that say yes, but not for the reason that say yes, but not for the reason that people think. I was motivated for two people think. I was motivated for two people think. I was motivated for two reasons. One, because I don't think she reasons. One, because I don't think she reasons. One, because I don't think she would want me to stop. And number two, would want me to stop. And number two, would want me to stop. And number two, because those things made me feel better because those things made me feel better because those things made me feel better and I felt bad and I felt bad and I felt bad and so I wanted to feel better. and so I wanted to feel better. and so I wanted to feel better. >> I tried to change as little about my >> I tried to change as little about my >> I tried to change as little about my life as possible and that is what got me life as possible and that is what got me life as possible and that is what got me through that. And now some people say, through that. And now some people say, through that. And now some people say, "Oh, you need to take time to mourn."

"Oh, you need to take time to mourn." "Oh, you need to take time to mourn." It's like, why does the way I mourn have It's like, why does the way I mourn have It's like, why does the way I mourn have to look the way you mourn? And why do to look the way you mourn? And why do to look the way you mourn? And why do why is is there a right or wrong way to why is is there a right or wrong way to why is is there a right or wrong way to mourn? She must have been so proud of mourn? She must have been so proud of mourn? She must have been so proud of you. you. you. >> She was. She was. >> She was. She was. >> She was. She was. >> We talk a lot about your dad, but we've >> We talk a lot about your dad, but we've >> We talk a lot about your dad, but we've never really spoken much about your mom. never really spoken much about your mom. never really spoken much about your mom. >> No, I don't. And so I think this last one right And so I think this last one right adaptability which is adaptability which is adaptability which is in what world can this make me better? in what world can this make me better? in what world can this make me better? Like how can how can this loss make me Like how can how can this loss make me Like how can how can this loss make me better? better? better? And also, by the way, like this trauma, bad thing happens, you're trauma, bad thing happens, you're permanently worse, right? And so it's permanently worse, right? And so it's permanently worse, right? And so it's like, what would that look like? What like, what would that look like? What like, what would that look like? What would me growing from this look like?

would me growing from this look like? would me growing from this look like? And I think part of that was proving And I think part of that was proving And I think part of that was proving that that that I can continue as my way of honoring her I can continue as my way of honoring her I can continue as my way of honoring her and her memory. and I'm going to and her memory. and I'm going to and her memory. and I'm going to continue to try and pursue the the path continue to try and pursue the the path continue to try and pursue the the path that she knew I started pursuing when I that she knew I started pursuing when I that she knew I started pursuing when I left home when I talked to her when I left home when I talked to her when I left home when I talked to her when I when I left, you know. Um, when I left, you know. Um, when I left, you know. Um, and so like what's changed between then and so like what's changed between then and so like what's changed between then and now? I'm just closer to where I was and now? I'm just closer to where I was and now? I'm just closer to where I was trying to go and I don't think she would trying to go and I don't think she would trying to go and I don't think she would want me to abandon that path. And so I want me to abandon that path. And so I want me to abandon that path. And so I just you keep fighting. just you keep fighting. just you keep fighting. You had that conversation with Tony You had that conversation with Tony You had that conversation with Tony Robbins which I found to be amazing. Robbins which I found to be amazing. Robbins which I found to be amazing. It's fantastic conversation. I spoke to It's fantastic conversation. I spoke to It's fantastic conversation. I spoke to him about it actually. Um I wondered if him about it actually. Um I wondered if him about it actually. Um I wondered if it had changed you in any way. You it had changed you in any way. You it had changed you in any way. You talked to him about happiness. You you'd talked to him about happiness. You you'd talked to him about happiness. You you'd said that you know you'd said some said that you know you'd said some said that you know you'd said some similar things to me that happiness had similar things to me that happiness had similar things to me that happiness had never been a high priority for you. never been a high priority for you. never been a high priority for you. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Did that conversation change your >> Did that conversation change your >> Did that conversation change your perspective at all on happiness? [snorts] [snorts] >> I would I would love to say that it did. >> I would I would love to say that it did. >> I would I would love to say that it did. Um because I think it would be like a Um because I think it would be like a Um because I think it would be like a better sound bite. Yeah. Um, better sound bite. Yeah. Um, better sound bite. Yeah. Um, not really.

not really. not really. >> So, where are you now on the subject of >> So, where are you now on the subject of >> So, where are you now on the subject of happiness? Are you are you happy? happiness? Are you are you happy? happiness? Are you are you happy? >> I have a tough time with that. Mostly >> I have a tough time with that. Mostly >> I have a tough time with that. Mostly because I just I don't really even know because I just I don't really even know because I just I don't really even know what it means. Um, because like there's what it means. Um, because like there's what it means. Um, because like there's some people that you like, do I feel some people that you like, do I feel some people that you like, do I feel joy? Of course. But you can feel joy at joy? Of course. But you can feel joy at joy? Of course. But you can feel joy at a at a funeral. a at a funeral. a at a funeral. >> Are you excited by your life? Are you >> Are you excited by your life? Are you >> Are you excited by your life? Are you excited about life on a daily basis? excited about life on a daily basis? excited about life on a daily basis? >> Yes, I'm I'm intensely interested in my >> Yes, I'm I'm intensely interested in my >> Yes, I'm I'm intensely interested in my life. I'm very fascinated by the things life. I'm very fascinated by the things life. I'm very fascinated by the things that I work on. Does it feel good to be that I work on. Does it feel good to be that I work on. Does it feel good to be you? you? you? >> Sometimes. I think I think >> Sometimes. I think I think >> Sometimes. I think I think >> more days than not. >> more days than not. >> more days than not. >> Probably. One of the things that Arthur >> Probably. One of the things that Arthur >> Probably. One of the things that Arthur Brooks has been really helpful you you Brooks has been really helpful you you Brooks has been really helpful you you know his stuff. Um and he talks know his stuff. Um and he talks know his stuff. Um and he talks specifically to strive and I'm like stop specifically to strive and I'm like stop specifically to strive and I'm like stop talking to me. [laughter] So strivvers talking to me. [laughter] So strivvers talking to me. [laughter] So strivvers he defines as people who like you are he defines as people who like you are he defines as people who like you are strivvers. They're they're high strivvers. They're they're high strivvers. They're they're high achievers. And what's really interesting achievers. And what's really interesting achievers. And what's really interesting is he describes what the childhood of a is he describes what the childhood of a is he describes what the childhood of a strive is. He's like almost to a tea. strive is. He's like almost to a tea. strive is. He's like almost to a tea. This is what it is. He's like, it's This is what it is. He's like, it's This is what it is. He's like, it's typically an immigrant parent or typically an immigrant parent or typically an immigrant parent or something like that where they're trying something like that where they're trying something like that where they're trying to do a good job and they basically to do a good job and they basically to do a good job and they basically withhold approval only when the kid does withhold approval only when the kid does withhold approval only when the kid does a good thing. And then what happens is a good thing. And then what happens is a good thing. And then what happens is the kid learns that love is earned and the kid learns that love is earned and the kid learns that love is earned and then you learn that loop. You're then you learn that loop. You're then you learn that loop. You're reinforced for that loop. And then you reinforced for that loop. And then you reinforced for that loop. And then you do win more and you earn more love. And do win more and you earn more love. And do win more and you earn more love. And then you get into the big wide world and then you get into the big wide world and then you get into the big wide world and then you're like, how do I get more of then you're like, how do I get more of then you're like, how do I get more of this drug, this love drug, which means I this drug, this love drug, which means I this drug, this love drug, which means I need to earn as much as possible? I need need to earn as much as possible? I need need to earn as much as possible? I need to earn as much as possible. So you just to earn as much as possible. So you just to earn as much as possible. So you just get addicted to the loop of working. And get addicted to the loop of working. And get addicted to the loop of working. And so I find this really fascinating. But so I find this really fascinating. But so I find this really fascinating. But the other part of of of his work that the other part of of of his work that the other part of of of his work that has been actually in some ways very like has been actually in some ways very like has been actually in some ways very like grounding for me is about half of your grounding for me is about half of your grounding for me is about half of your subjective wellbeing is genetic

subjective wellbeing is genetic subjective wellbeing is genetic >> half. And so and to be clear like I'm >> half. And so and to be clear like I'm >> half. And so and to be clear like I'm I'm super blessed. I have a lot of good I'm super blessed. I have a lot of good I'm super blessed. I have a lot of good things that have gone for me. My things that have gone for me. My things that have gone for me. My mother's side of the family tree has a mother's side of the family tree has a mother's side of the family tree has a lot of tough mental stuff. Uh very bad lot of tough mental stuff. Uh very bad lot of tough mental stuff. Uh very bad stuff. But they're also really brilliant stuff. But they're also really brilliant stuff. But they're also really brilliant in some ways. I think to myself like in some ways. I think to myself like in some ways. I think to myself like maybe I'm just maxed out on my 50 and maybe I'm just maxed out on my 50 and maybe I'm just maxed out on my 50 and I'm crushing it. But the thing is is I'm crushing it. But the thing is is I'm crushing it. But the thing is is like I don't know because like we don't like I don't know because like we don't like I don't know because like we don't you know if if you're if you're born 7 you know if if you're if you're born 7 you know if if you're if you're born 7 feet tall everyone can see it. feet tall everyone can see it. feet tall everyone can see it. >> But some people are born probably one >> But some people are born probably one >> But some people are born probably one foot tall in terms of happiness and they foot tall in terms of happiness and they foot tall in terms of happiness and they learn to play basketball really really learn to play basketball really really learn to play basketball really really well at one foot and people are still well at one foot and people are still well at one foot and people are still like oh he's only one foot tall. like oh he's only one foot tall. like oh he's only one foot tall. >> So I don't I don't know how to judge how >> So I don't I don't know how to judge how >> So I don't I don't know how to judge how well I'm doing. I would say that I have well I'm doing. I would say that I have well I'm doing. I would say that I have been way worse than I am now. I been way worse than I am now. I been way worse than I am now. I aggressively want to keep living. And to aggressively want to keep living. And to aggressively want to keep living. And to me that's a that's a really strong me that's a that's a really strong me that's a that's a really strong indicator for me. Um and to answer like indicator for me. Um and to answer like indicator for me. Um and to answer like Albert Kamu is one of my favorite Albert Kamu is one of my favorite Albert Kamu is one of my favorite philosophers. Um and he has this quote philosophers. Um and he has this quote philosophers. Um and he has this quote that I I love which is what is the that I I love which is what is the that I I love which is what is the meaning of your life? And his answer to meaning of your life? And his answer to meaning of your life? And his answer to that is the reason you don't kill that is the reason you don't kill that is the reason you don't kill yourself. And it's it sounds dark, but a yourself. And it's it sounds dark, but a yourself. And it's it sounds dark, but a lot of very dark things can be flipped lot of very dark things can be flipped lot of very dark things can be flipped into very light things, which is that into very light things, which is that into very light things, which is that when you ask someone that question, when you ask someone that question, when you ask someone that question, they'll typically answer like, well, I they'll typically answer like, well, I they'll typically answer like, well, I mean, my my kids, my wife, the people mean, my my kids, my wife, the people mean, my my kids, my wife, the people that rely on me, and it's like, right, that rely on me, and it's like, right, that rely on me, and it's like, right, that's why you're alive.

that's why you're alive. that's why you're alive. And that thing can also change because And that thing can also change because And that thing can also change because like if you asked me 10 years ago, I'd like if you asked me 10 years ago, I'd like if you asked me 10 years ago, I'd have a different answer than I do this have a different answer than I do this have a different answer than I do this this time, and maybe in 20 years it'll this time, and maybe in 20 years it'll this time, and maybe in 20 years it'll be different. One of the remarkable be different. One of the remarkable be different. One of the remarkable things I learned from doing this podcast things I learned from doing this podcast things I learned from doing this podcast is a real appreciation for people's is a real appreciation for people's is a real appreciation for people's predisposition as it relates to mental predisposition as it relates to mental predisposition as it relates to mental health and the way that their mind is health and the way that their mind is health and the way that their mind is with them. Like growing up, I thought with them. Like growing up, I thought with them. Like growing up, I thought everyone's mind was like mine as you do. everyone's mind was like mine as you do. everyone's mind was like mine as you do. >> And then for, you know, you stumble >> And then for, you know, you stumble >> And then for, you know, you stumble across this thing called podcasting, you across this thing called podcasting, you across this thing called podcasting, you start interviewing people and going, start interviewing people and going, start interviewing people and going, "What's going on in your brain?" "What's going on in your brain?" "What's going on in your brain?" [laughter] [laughter] [laughter] >> And then they they play it to you and >> And then they they play it to you and >> And then they they play it to you and you go that they can't possibly be you go that they can't possibly be you go that they can't possibly be telling me the truth. It can't possibly telling me the truth. It can't possibly telling me the truth. It can't possibly be the case that there's other people. be the case that there's other people. be the case that there's other people. And I remember sitting here with um a And I remember sitting here with um a And I remember sitting here with um a comedian who told me that inside his comedian who told me that inside his comedian who told me that inside his brain there's a voice that literally brain there's a voice that literally brain there's a voice that literally roots for his failure. That literally roots for his failure. That literally roots for his failure. That literally tells him he's he's pathetic, he's going tells him he's he's pathetic, he's going tells him he's he's pathetic, he's going to fail, he's terrible, this was to fail, he's terrible, this was to fail, he's terrible, this was terrible, you've embarrassed yourself. terrible, you've embarrassed yourself. terrible, you've embarrassed yourself. And I thought, gosh, isn't that crazy And I thought, gosh, isn't that crazy And I thought, gosh, isn't that crazy that there is like a mental health that there is like a mental health that there is like a mental health mindset privilege which most of us don't mindset privilege which most of us don't mindset privilege which most of us don't even acknowledge the privilege of. And even acknowledge the privilege of. And even acknowledge the privilege of. And when you speak, I it's fascinating to me when you speak, I it's fascinating to me when you speak, I it's fascinating to me in the same in the same way that I might in the same in the same way that I might in the same in the same way that I might assume that it's fascinating when you assume that it's fascinating when you assume that it's fascinating when you hear someone answer the question, "Are hear someone answer the question, "Are hear someone answer the question, "Are you happy?" and they just go, "Yes, of you happy?" and they just go, "Yes, of you happy?" and they just go, "Yes, of course."

course." course." >> Yeah. Right. [laughter] >> Yeah. Right. [laughter] >> Yeah. Right. [laughter] >> Like, is that really curious to you when >> Like, is that really curious to you when >> Like, is that really curious to you when you hear people say, "Yes, I'm I'm you hear people say, "Yes, I'm I'm you hear people say, "Yes, I'm I'm amazingly happy." amazingly happy." amazingly happy." >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Is that curious to you? >> Is that curious to you? >> Is that curious to you? >> Um, sort of. I think when when I hear >> Um, sort of. I think when when I hear >> Um, sort of. I think when when I hear someone say that, like probably my someone say that, like probably my someone say that, like probably my immediate gut response before I even immediate gut response before I even immediate gut response before I even like think about my response um is well, like think about my response um is well, like think about my response um is well, they probably haven't even defined what they probably haven't even defined what they probably haven't even defined what happiness is and they just wanted to happiness is and they just wanted to happiness is and they just wanted to give an easy answer. [laughter] give an easy answer. [laughter] give an easy answer. [laughter] >> Interesting. Like that's like that's >> Interesting. Like that's like that's >> Interesting. Like that's like that's what I immediately think. But like I what I immediately think. But like I what I immediately think. But like I >> it's like >> it's like >> it's like >> this is like the the absolute as as raw >> this is like the the absolute as as raw >> this is like the the absolute as as raw truth as I could possibly give to anyone truth as I could possibly give to anyone truth as I could possibly give to anyone which is that like I I am very proud of which is that like I I am very proud of which is that like I I am very proud of the things that I've done up to this the things that I've done up to this the things that I've done up to this point in my life. Like I I can look back point in my life. Like I I can look back point in my life. Like I I can look back and be like I'm proud that I did that and be like I'm proud that I did that and be like I'm proud that I did that and I and I feel that sense of and I and I feel that sense of and I and I feel that sense of accomplishment and I and I what is the accomplishment and I and I what is the accomplishment and I and I what is the emotion attached to proud? emotion attached to proud? emotion attached to proud? >> I don't is is pride itself an an >> I don't is is pride itself an an >> I don't is is pride itself an an emotion? emotion? emotion? >> I don't know. >> I don't know. >> I don't know. How does one experience pride as an How does one experience pride as an How does one experience pride as an emotion? Is that like a feel emotion? Is that like a feel emotion? Is that like a feel >> very full? I'm like very happy that I >> very full? I'm like very happy that I >> very full? I'm like very happy that I did these things like the books that you did these things like the books that you did these things like the books that you have in front of you. I'm incredibly have in front of you. I'm incredibly have in front of you. I'm incredibly proud of. proud of. proud of. >> If it was a facial expression, how would >> If it was a facial expression, how would >> If it was a facial expression, how would pride look? pride look? pride look? >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> No, >> No, >> No, >> no, not for me. I mean, I'm just it's >> no, not for me. I mean, I'm just it's >> no, not for me. I mean, I'm just it's it's very soulful for me. Like, I'm I'm it's very soulful for me. Like, I'm I'm it's very soulful for me. Like, I'm I'm very filled by this work and that's why very filled by this work and that's why very filled by this work and that's why >> that's why I keep doing it. And I know >> that's why I keep doing it. And I know >> that's why I keep doing it. And I know that when I die, I think the thing that that when I die, I think the thing that that when I die, I think the thing that will actually the the only thing that I will actually the the only thing that I will actually the the only thing that I think has a chance of living on past me, think has a chance of living on past me, think has a chance of living on past me, past when people even know who I am is past when people even know who I am is past when people even know who I am is these books.

these books. these books. >> My YouTube videos are going to >> My YouTube videos are going to >> My YouTube videos are going to disappear. Like all that stuff will go disappear. Like all that stuff will go disappear. Like all that stuff will go away, but I think I think these books away, but I think I think these books away, but I think I think these books will survive. And I write them that way. will survive. And I write them that way. will survive. And I write them that way. Like I write them kind of thinking that Like I write them kind of thinking that Like I write them kind of thinking that like the people who read this will not like the people who read this will not like the people who read this will not know who I am. know who I am. know who I am. >> Should people come to you for happiness >> Should people come to you for happiness >> Should people come to you for happiness advice? advice? advice? >> No. Go go go find somebody who's really >> No. Go go go find somebody who's really >> No. Go go go find somebody who's really happy. Um the here's actually here's happy. Um the here's actually here's happy. Um the here's actually here's what's really tough though, right? is what's really tough though, right? is what's really tough though, right? is that no one knows base what someone's that no one knows base what someone's that no one knows base what someone's base level is and that's what's so base level is and that's what's so base level is and that's what's so tough. tough. tough. >> I think I asked that because one I think >> I think I asked that because one I think >> I think I asked that because one I think a lot of people assume that this work a lot of people assume that this work a lot of people assume that this work learning how to be financially free and learning how to be financially free and learning how to be financially free and to build a business to build a business to build a business >> is in service of this north star which >> is in service of this north star which >> is in service of this north star which we all agree upon which is happiness. we all agree upon which is happiness. we all agree upon which is happiness. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> So one would think okay what's the point >> So one would think okay what's the point >> So one would think okay what's the point building a business and getting a $100 building a business and getting a $100 building a business and getting a $100 million deal or whatever if it doesn't million deal or whatever if it doesn't million deal or whatever if it doesn't then lead to the happiness payoff. And then lead to the happiness payoff. And then lead to the happiness payoff. And if you're telling me that you're not the if you're telling me that you're not the if you're telling me that you're not the person to come to for happiness advice, person to come to for happiness advice, person to come to for happiness advice, I go, "Well, then what's what's this I go, "Well, then what's what's this I go, "Well, then what's what's this then? Why do I need to do this if this then? Why do I need to do this if this then? Why do I need to do this if this is not going to make me do you see what is not going to make me do you see what is not going to make me do you see what I'm saying?" I'm saying?" I'm saying?" >> Oh, I totally see what you're saying. >> Oh, I totally see what you're saying. >> Oh, I totally see what you're saying. Which is why bother pursuing this to Which is why bother pursuing this to Which is why bother pursuing this to begin with. begin with. begin with. >> Yeah. If it's if you're not promising me >> Yeah. If it's if you're not promising me >> Yeah. If it's if you're not promising me happiness as the north star. happiness as the north star. happiness as the north star. >> Yeah. I won't do that.

>> Yeah. I won't do that. >> Yeah. I won't do that. >> Okay. >> Okay. >> Okay. >> Many people will sell you happiness. I >> Many people will sell you happiness. I >> Many people will sell you happiness. I will not be one of them. Um I try to will not be one of them. Um I try to will not be one of them. Um I try to sell quantitative things. Like I know sell quantitative things. Like I know sell quantitative things. Like I know that if more people find out about your that if more people find out about your that if more people find out about your stuff, you will make more. If you have a stuff, you will make more. If you have a stuff, you will make more. If you have a better way of monetizing and a faster better way of monetizing and a faster better way of monetizing and a faster way to bring cash forward, your business way to bring cash forward, your business way to bring cash forward, your business will grow more. If you have an offer will grow more. If you have an offer will grow more. If you have an offer that's so good people stupid saying no, that's so good people stupid saying no, that's so good people stupid saying no, they won't say no and they'll say yes. they won't say no and they'll say yes. they won't say no and they'll say yes. >> But you make no promise or guarantee >> But you make no promise or guarantee >> But you make no promise or guarantee where that would lead you in your life. where that would lead you in your life. where that would lead you in your life. >> No, that's to me like that's beyond my >> No, that's to me like that's beyond my >> No, that's to me like that's beyond my scope. scope. scope. >> Fine. >> Fine. >> Fine. >> Like I know. Yeah. And so I I enjoy the >> Like I know. Yeah. And so I I enjoy the >> Like I know. Yeah. And so I I enjoy the topic of of the happiness stuff because topic of of the happiness stuff because topic of of the happiness stuff because I I love amorphous topics. [laughter] I I love amorphous topics. [laughter] I I love amorphous topics. [laughter] Um, but the the conclusion that I said I Um, but the the conclusion that I said I Um, but the the conclusion that I said I started with when you asked about the started with when you asked about the started with when you asked about the Tony thing was I at least my it is my Tony thing was I at least my it is my Tony thing was I at least my it is my worldview which could be wrong that worldview which could be wrong that worldview which could be wrong that human beings our internal feelings are human beings our internal feelings are human beings our internal feelings are like the weather. like the weather. like the weather. >> Mhm. There's sunny days and there's >> Mhm. There's sunny days and there's >> Mhm. There's sunny days and there's rainy days and there's rainy seasons and rainy days and there's rainy seasons and rainy days and there's rainy seasons and there's sunny seasons and we go through there's sunny seasons and we go through there's sunny seasons and we go through them all. And even if things get better, them all. And even if things get better, them all. And even if things get better, our baseline adjusts so that yet again our baseline adjusts so that yet again our baseline adjusts so that yet again cuz like if we think about a year, I cuz like if we think about a year, I cuz like if we think about a year, I actually give this example to my sales actually give this example to my sales actually give this example to my sales team. So if we think about this as a team. So if we think about this as a team. So if we think about this as a year and we have all the days of the year and we have all the days of the year and we have all the days of the year, half the days are going to be year, half the days are going to be year, half the days are going to be above average and half the days are above average and half the days are above average and half the days are going to be below average. And every going to be below average. And every going to be below average. And every month you're going to have a bottom 10% month you're going to have a bottom 10% month you're going to have a bottom 10% day three times because you have 36 days day three times because you have 36 days day three times because you have 36 days per year that are going to be bottom 10% per year that are going to be bottom 10% per year that are going to be bottom 10% days for no reason purely because law of days for no reason purely because law of days for no reason purely because law of large numbers and you're also going to large numbers and you're also going to large numbers and you're also going to have three days per month which is have three days per month which is have three days per month which is almost one a week. That's going be a top

almost one a week. That's going be a top almost one a week. That's going be a top 10% day of the whole year. Pretty 10% day of the whole year. Pretty 10% day of the whole year. Pretty impressive. But it's one a week almost. impressive. But it's one a week almost. impressive. But it's one a week almost. Right. And so I think about this Right. And so I think about this Right. And so I think about this variability a lot because when I'm variability a lot because when I'm variability a lot because when I'm having a quote bad day because I have having a quote bad day because I have having a quote bad day because I have them I have I have them all the time. Um them I have I have them all the time. Um them I have I have them all the time. Um and I just think this is probably just and I just think this is probably just and I just think this is probably just the bottom 10% day. the bottom 10% day. the bottom 10% day. >> And like and [clears throat] I think the >> And like and [clears throat] I think the >> And like and [clears throat] I think the the one of the one of the lessons that the one of the one of the lessons that the one of the one of the lessons that I've learned from an entrepreneurship I've learned from an entrepreneurship I've learned from an entrepreneurship perspective translated into life is my perspective translated into life is my perspective translated into life is my emotional discomfort is not an adequate emotional discomfort is not an adequate emotional discomfort is not an adequate reason to change what I'm doing. reason to change what I'm doing. reason to change what I'm doing. And so we will get these moments of And so we will get these moments of And so we will get these moments of dissatisfaction or discomfort and be dissatisfaction or discomfort and be dissatisfaction or discomfort and be like I'm life sucks. I need to change like I'm life sucks. I need to change like I'm life sucks. I need to change something. And if you don't like your something. And if you don't like your something. And if you don't like your life in general, change something. But life in general, change something. But life in general, change something. But if you don't like your life today, maybe if you don't like your life today, maybe if you don't like your life today, maybe don't break up with your wife. don't break up with your wife. don't break up with your wife. >> Maybe give it a day. Right? And so I >> Maybe give it a day. Right? And so I >> Maybe give it a day. Right? And so I think again, I come from the think again, I come from the think again, I come from the entrepreneur perspective, which is that entrepreneur perspective, which is that entrepreneur perspective, which is that people will have a bad day and then people will have a bad day and then people will have a bad day and then basically take it out on their business basically take it out on their business basically take it out on their business and then change a bunch of things and and then change a bunch of things and and then change a bunch of things and then destroy what they're with this then destroy what they're with this then destroy what they're with this fledgling business that's getting going fledgling business that's getting going fledgling business that's getting going because they had an emotional need that because they had an emotional need that because they had an emotional need that they could not tolerate. And so that's they could not tolerate. And so that's they could not tolerate. And so that's why this graph why this graph why this graph has been so valuable to me, which is is has been so valuable to me, which is is has been so valuable to me, which is is my bottom 10% day a big enough thing for my bottom 10% day a big enough thing for my bottom 10% day a big enough thing for me to change my behavior. If I determine me to change my behavior. If I determine me to change my behavior. If I determine that I can have a bad day and still do that I can have a bad day and still do that I can have a bad day and still do good work, that is a good day. Alex, we good work, that is a good day. Alex, we good work, that is a good day. Alex, we have a closing tradition where the last have a closing tradition where the last have a closing tradition where the last guest leaves a question for the next guest leaves a question for the next guest leaves a question for the next guest not knowing who they're leaving it guest not knowing who they're leaving it guest not knowing who they're leaving it for. Funny question. What would you do for. Funny question. What would you do for. Funny question. What would you do if you believed that super intelligent if you believed that super intelligent if you believed that super intelligent AI, better, faster, cheaper, etc. than AI, better, faster, cheaper, etc. than AI, better, faster, cheaper, etc. than the best humans at everything was just a the best humans at everything was just a the best humans at everything was just a few years away? Mhm.

few years away? Mhm. few years away? Mhm. What would you do? On the business side, I would build as On the business side, I would build as much real world proof as I possibly much real world proof as I possibly much real world proof as I possibly could and as much track record with as could and as much track record with as could and as much track record with as track record with as many customers as I track record with as many customers as I track record with as many customers as I could so that I could reinforce a brand could so that I could reinforce a brand could so that I could reinforce a brand that would give me some differentiation that would give me some differentiation that would give me some differentiation in that future marketplace. So you'd in that future marketplace. So you'd in that future marketplace. So you'd focus on building a stronger brand focus on building a stronger brand focus on building a stronger brand >> from a business perspective. >> from a business perspective. >> from a business perspective. >> Why? >> Why? >> Why? >> Because I think in a world where >> Because I think in a world where >> Because I think in a world where everyone has access to a super everyone has access to a super everyone has access to a super intelligence. Um what are the things intelligence. Um what are the things intelligence. Um what are the things that are going to like will people still that are going to like will people still that are going to like will people still care about reputations in the future? care about reputations in the future? care about reputations in the future? Probably. And so I see that as something Probably. And so I see that as something Probably. And so I see that as something that won't change. Distribution will that won't change. Distribution will that won't change. Distribution will still cost money. Like those things I still cost money. Like those things I still cost money. Like those things I think those things will be true. Might think those things will be true. Might think those things will be true. Might be less, but it'll still cost. And be less, but it'll still cost. And be less, but it'll still cost. And typically if again because there's typically if again because there's typically if again because there's there's still marketplace dynamics. there's still marketplace dynamics. there's still marketplace dynamics. Not to get into the the weeds on this, Not to get into the the weeds on this, Not to get into the the weeds on this, but from an entrepreneurship but from an entrepreneurship but from an entrepreneurship perspective, I would continue to build perspective, I would continue to build perspective, I would continue to build trust and distribution. From a personal trust and distribution. From a personal trust and distribution. From a personal perspective, I would think really hard perspective, I would think really hard perspective, I would think really hard about about about what it means to be human and what it means to be human and what it means to be human and why I'm here to begin with.

why I'm here to begin with. why I'm here to begin with. >> You going to buy a farm one day? >> You going to buy a farm one day? >> You going to buy a farm one day? >> I'm It's not out of the equation. Um I >> I'm It's not out of the equation. Um I >> I'm It's not out of the equation. Um I mean, Leila's Ila's super gung-ho on mean, Leila's Ila's super gung-ho on mean, Leila's Ila's super gung-ho on that. So, that. So, that. So, >> on a ranch. >> on a ranch. >> on a ranch. >> Yeah, we almost did. We almost bought >> Yeah, we almost did. We almost bought >> Yeah, we almost did. We almost bought one actually the first time we sold. one actually the first time we sold. one actually the first time we sold. >> Where do I direct? So, if people want to >> Where do I direct? So, if people want to >> Where do I direct? So, if people want to learn more from you, you've got your learn more from you, you've got your learn more from you, you've got your YouTube channel where you've just YouTube channel where you've just YouTube channel where you've just started this brand new series which is started this brand new series which is started this brand new series which is really interesting. I'll link that below really interesting. I'll link that below really interesting. I'll link that below as well for people that um want to watch as well for people that um want to watch as well for people that um want to watch it. It's kind of like a Dragon's Den it. It's kind of like a Dragon's Den it. It's kind of like a Dragon's Den Shark Tanky format where you're bringing Shark Tanky format where you're bringing Shark Tanky format where you're bringing entrepreneurs, they're competing for entrepreneurs, they're competing for entrepreneurs, they're competing for $100,000 $100,000 $100,000 um through this knockout series of um through this knockout series of um through this knockout series of episodes. Very interesting. These four episodes. Very interesting. These four episodes. Very interesting. These four books in front of me, there's another books in front of me, there's another books in front of me, there's another one over there, but these four here that one over there, but these four here that one over there, but these four here that from the hundred million dollar series from the hundred million dollar series from the hundred million dollar series have all sold more than 5 million copies have all sold more than 5 million copies have all sold more than 5 million copies since inception. You've actually broke since inception. You've actually broke since inception. You've actually broke the world record for selling so many the world record for selling so many the world record for selling so many copies of this book. This one. copies of this book. This one. copies of this book. This one. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Um in the short sort of a 24-hour period >> Um in the short sort of a 24-hour period >> Um in the short sort of a 24-hour period or something creative like that. or something creative like that. or something creative like that. >> 2.9 and 24. >> 2.9 and 24. >> 2.9 and 24. >> Staggering. I'll link all of these books >> Staggering. I'll link all of these books >> Staggering. I'll link all of these books below. They are essential reading for below. They are essential reading for below. They are essential reading for anybody that's wants a cheat code. um anybody that's wants a cheat code. um anybody that's wants a cheat code. um probably a decade worth of decade head probably a decade worth of decade head probably a decade worth of decade head start into the world of business. Um start into the world of business. Um start into the world of business. Um explained in a phenomenally accessible explained in a phenomenally accessible explained in a phenomenally accessible way with literally your drawings.

way with literally your drawings. way with literally your drawings. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Inside them. Um and the thing that I >> Inside them. Um and the thing that I >> Inside them. Um and the thing that I think has made these books so successful think has made these books so successful think has made these books so successful and become the bible for many and become the bible for many and become the bible for many entrepreneurs, startup entrepreneurs, entrepreneurs, startup entrepreneurs, entrepreneurs, startup entrepreneurs, but also entrepreneurs that are looking but also entrepreneurs that are looking but also entrepreneurs that are looking to scale through different seasons of to scale through different seasons of to scale through different seasons of business is is just it's so um business is is just it's so um business is is just it's so um actionable. A lot of books are like actionable. A lot of books are like actionable. A lot of books are like highly philosophical and there's lots of highly philosophical and there's lots of highly philosophical and there's lots of jargon and stuff. These are like this is jargon and stuff. These are like this is jargon and stuff. These are like this is what to do. this is what to do. And I I what to do. this is what to do. And I I what to do. this is what to do. And I I think ultimately that's the most think ultimately that's the most think ultimately that's the most valuable thing. So, thank you for valuable thing. So, thank you for valuable thing. So, thank you for writing these incredible books. Is there writing these incredible books. Is there writing these incredible books. Is there anything else that people should know anything else that people should know anything else that people should know about that you're working on or thinking about that you're working on or thinking about that you're working on or thinking about before we tune up tune out? about before we tune up tune out? about before we tune up tune out? >> No, just grab the books. I'll link all >> No, just grab the books. I'll link all >> No, just grab the books. I'll link all of them below. Alex, thank you as of them below. Alex, thank you as of them below. Alex, thank you as always. Um I love talking to you, not always. Um I love talking to you, not always. Um I love talking to you, not just for because it makes great content just for because it makes great content just for because it makes great content cuz I can learn so much and I've written cuz I can learn so much and I've written cuz I can learn so much and I've written so many notes down here from just so many notes down here from just so many notes down here from just bouncing off you that I'm going to go bouncing off you that I'm going to go bouncing off you that I'm going to go apply in my own business. So, thank you apply in my own business. So, thank you apply in my own business. So, thank you as always. I really appreciate it. Thank as always. I really appreciate it. Thank as always. I really appreciate it. Thank you very you very you very YouTube have this new crazy algorithm YouTube have this new crazy algorithm YouTube have this new crazy algorithm where they know exactly what video you where they know exactly what video you where they know exactly what video you would like to watch next based on AI and would like to watch next based on AI and would like to watch next based on AI and all of your viewing behavior. And the all of your viewing behavior. And the all of your viewing behavior. And the algorithm says that this video is the algorithm says that this video is the algorithm says that this video is the perfect video for you. It's different perfect video for you. It's different perfect video for you. It's different for everybody looking right now. Check for everybody looking right now. Check for everybody looking right now. Check this video out and I bet you you might this video out and I bet you you might this video out and I bet you you might love it.