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The Diary of a CEO June 23, 2026 1m

WHY SEX ISN'T ENJOYABLE FOR YOU

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  1. You rub it inside the walls of the You rub it inside the walls of the vagina, like that. vagina, like that. vagina, like that. >> And just rub it in like you would rub >> And just rub it in like you would rub >> And just rub it in like you would rub sunscreen on your face. And if you do sunscreen on your face. And if you do sunscreen on your face. And if you do that twice a week, it makes sex not that twice a week, it makes sex not that twice a week, it makes sex not painful and dry. It helps with arousal painful and dry. It helps with arousal painful and dry. It helps with arousal and orgasm. It's literally better than and orgasm. It's literally better than and orgasm. It's literally better than Viagra. And it's cheap. And I'm telling Viagra. And it's cheap. And I'm telling Viagra. And it's cheap. And I'm telling you all this as a urologist that this you all this as a urologist that this you all this as a urologist that this cream can also help prevent death from cream can also help prevent death from cream can also help prevent death from urinary tract infections. But more than urinary tract infections. But more than urinary tract infections. But more than 75% of people in large database 75% of people in large database 75% of people in large database collections are not getting collections are not getting collections are not getting prescriptions for this. And so women are prescriptions for this. And so women are prescriptions for this. And so women are not getting access to generic not getting access to generic not getting access to generic medications that could save their lives medications that could save their lives medications that could save their lives and also really improve quality of life. and also really improve quality of life. and also really improve quality of life. And so I am filled with rage because And so I am filled with rage because And so I am filled with rage because people are limiting their ability to people are limiting their ability to people are limiting their ability to have great sex, great health because have great sex, great health because have great sex, great health because they aren't having access to all the they aren't having access to all the they aren't having access to all the information that they could. For information that they could. For information that they could. For example, women are not orgasming as much example, women are not orgasming as much example, women are not orgasming as much as men. The data is very clear there. as men. The data is very clear there. as men. The data is very clear there. And women come to see me all the time as And women come to see me all the time as And women come to see me all the time as I'm a sex doctor. And they say, "I'm I'm a sex doctor. And they say, "I'm I'm a sex doctor. And they say, "I'm broken and you have to fix me. I'm not broken and you have to fix me. I'm not broken and you have to fix me. I'm not orgasming during sex." And I think the orgasming during sex." And I think the orgasming during sex." And I think the majority of problem is education. Women majority of problem is education. Women majority of problem is education. Women think that orgasm comes from think that orgasm comes from think that orgasm comes from penetration. But the clitoris is how penetration. But the clitoris is how penetration. But the clitoris is how most women orgasm. And yet most women do most women orgasm. And yet most women do most women orgasm. And yet most women do not know where their clitoris is. And in not know where their clitoris is. And in not know where their clitoris is. And in fact, the word clitoris today in 2026 fact, the word clitoris today in 2026 fact, the word clitoris today in 2026 does not exist in the checklist for what does not exist in the checklist for what does not exist in the checklist for what an OBGYN has to learn in their training.

  2. an OBGYN has to learn in their training. an OBGYN has to learn in their training. >> And as men, what are we getting wrong in >> And as men, what are we getting wrong in >> And as men, what are we getting wrong in heterosexual relationships when we're heterosexual relationships when we're heterosexual relationships when we're trying to arouse our partners? trying to arouse our partners? trying to arouse our partners? >> Well, men are constantly asking about >> Well, men are constantly asking about >> Well, men are constantly asking about they want their penises bigger, harder, they want their penises bigger, harder, they want their penises bigger, harder, straighter, girthier, lasting longer. straighter, girthier, lasting longer. straighter, girthier, lasting longer. But none of that has anything to do with But none of that has anything to do with But none of that has anything to do with how women experience pleasure and how women experience pleasure and how women experience pleasure and satisfaction in the bedroom. So that's satisfaction in the bedroom. So that's satisfaction in the bedroom. So that's [music] why I'm so loud about these [music] why I'm so loud about these [music] why I'm so loud about these things because no one is getting good things because no one is getting good things because no one is getting good sex ed. Because the basic information is sex ed. Because the basic information is sex ed. Because the basic information is not being shared. And we fundamentally not being shared. And we fundamentally not being shared. And we fundamentally don't give a crap about women's sexual don't give a crap about women's sexual don't give a crap about women's sexual health, about their menstrual cycles, health, about their menstrual cycles, health, about their menstrual cycles, pregnancy, menopause, hormones, pain pregnancy, menopause, hormones, pain pregnancy, menopause, hormones, pain with sex, libido. But we actually do with sex, libido. But we actually do with sex, libido. But we actually do have a lot of information that we are have a lot of information that we are have a lot of information that we are not using because everyone forgot to not using because everyone forgot to not using because everyone forgot to teach your doctor. teach your doctor. teach your doctor. >> So let's go through these one at a time. >> So let's go through these one at a time. >> So let's go through these one at a time. But just before we get into all of that, But just before we get into all of that, But just before we get into all of that, we've got some sex toys in front of us. we've got some sex toys in front of us. we've got some sex toys in front of us. >> This is going to be so [ __ ] good.

Summary

The discussion centers on the lack of comprehensive sexual education, particularly for women, and the resulting impact on their health and pleasure. Key subjects include a specific cream for vaginal dryness and pain, the clitoris as the primary source of female orgasm, and the frequent misinformation given to men about female sexual satisfaction. The takeaway is that improved access to basic sexual health information is crucial for enhancing quality of life and addressing preventable health issues.

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